Even when you’re talking about pet peeves it still feels like things aren’t that big of a deal. Your demeanors are great. Gives me “best friends bickering” vibes!
I once had a roommate that left cupboard/ closets doors open, it drove me crazy, so I started closing them right after her. Turns out she was going to close them LATER and I was driving HER crazy by doing it for her😂😂. A lot of your pet peeves and very similar to most of us.
Blue and my husband pretty much are the EXACT same when it comes to sleeping. We watched this video together and he just laughed, not just because it was funny but, because he is the EXACT SAME WAY!!
I use to be bad about leaving cabinet doors open until the time I bent down to get something in a lower cabinet and when i raised up i hit my head on the corner of the door I left open. It cut my skin but the pain was that kind of pain that just cuts through your entire body. It was horrible. I learned my lesson. I’ve been with my husband for 18 years and to be honest I don’t have too many pet peeves about him. One that comes to mind is when i’m sleeping facing him and he gets up to use the bathroom, he’ll come back and fluffs his pillows by flipping them over and kind of plopping then on the bed and big puff of air hits me in the face and wakes me up. I’m a good sleeper so I usually just drift right back to sleep but it’s a little starling when I’m sound asleep. Thanks for the video. So glad you guys can be silly and laugh about your pet peeves instead of getting into arguments about it. So cute and adorable your interaction with each other.
I like your solution to the driving thing: just let Blue drive. My ex was a bit of a control queen, and nowhere as much as in the car. So I just handed him the controls and let him drive. End of conflicts. And I get to look at the scenery (which I admittedly sometimes did when I was driving) and not have to make split decisions that are life and death. I'm a happy camper and he's a happy pilot. We have remained friends since our divorce, but when we drive anywhere, he's still at the wheel.
Wow 11 years, that means you guys been together for as long as my husband and I been together. Thank you for sharing your funny pet peeves, all us married folks got a list😉😆
For any married person, be it gay or straight, these pet peeves are "the price of admission" to each other's lives and love. Each time you are faced with these situations, just remember you bought ticket to the ride so smile and enjoy it.
So Blue needs sleeping pills and to stay away from the kitchen altogether. Matt needs to stay away from driving and speak up when asked something..... solved :)
When my sister pointed out to me one day that I was leaving all the cabinet doors and drawers open in the kitchen when I used them, I thought 'No'. I turned around and looked. I was! Immediate cease and desist. Never did it again. 😇
They talked about gripes and the thing I loved about it was that they were laughing and having fun. There was no venom in their comments. Very healthy way to communicate.
My husband is the worst driver in the world, good thing my backseat driving skills are up to par! 😂 I’m the one with insomnia and also keep my husband awake, unintentionally of coarse 🥴😏😬 y’all are so awesome! Your love for each other shows, looking forward to the next video! I also agree it should be 5 things that you love about each other!!!
I have found that sleeping and using separate bathrooms keeps me sane and my 8 year relationship with my SO tolerable. We cuddle, hang out most of the time, but we have stayed together because we would otherwise drive each other crazy.
Dont let these little things bother you. You two are so adorable and thoughtful. My partner does things that "could" annoy me but I think about how good he makes me feel and the rest is unimportant. You love each other. You are lucky to have each other. You both are awesome.
Just stumbled on this. It's so obvious these guys love each other. Even with the peeves, they're caring of each other. They love to push each others' buttons in a playful way. You don't do that with people you don't care about. It was a nice 15 minutes that made me smile..... Thanks, guys!
WOW!!! This sounds like my husband and I. He always leaves the doors to many things open around the house. Drives me crazy!!! Always hits the snooze button on his phone. That too drives me crazy!!! I need to have my husband watch this with me. Thanks so much for sharing...
I literally just got broken up with my now ex, and this video made my night lighter. Thank you. This video shows how possible to work things out with the thing that annoys you about each other.
I low key feel Matt on the back seat driving. My mom does it and I literally want to blind fold her so she stops. Matt was driving before he met u so clearly he’s ok at driving. Sorry if that sounded angry. Love y’all so much tho. Y’all are inspiration to me and many of my other friends. Thank y’all for that and keep up the good work ❤️❤️❤️
So, it’s currently 11:04PM in New Zealand right now, and I should be asleep. But, you guys just posted so I’m going to watch this and then sleep. Because, your videos are a lot better then sleep. ❤️
You two are so lucky to have found each other. Besides living remote and being together 24/7; or, having to endure long work gigs apart, you obviously just enjoy living life with each other. Lots of folks could have made a video like that. But not many folks could have unpacked that ‘stuff’ and just sat there laughing at their own and their partner’s idiosyncrasies with genuine humor and acceptance. When people wonder out loud if there really are soulmates, and what it would be like if they ever found one, they are wondering could it ever happen for them the way it is happening for the three of you. Thanks for sharing part of your lives with us.
This thing of answering in the head and not responding is REAL. Listen to him. He is telling the truth I lived with it for 28 years! It will drive you crazy.
Yes to all! Especially that vacuum in the morning thing .. and the not answering too. Covers at night is cute. Id chase my husband and hug him at night if he takes all my side of the covers.
I love the chaotic energy in this. And how you two are children at heart. So this is what living with your best friend is like? *I might seriously go nuts.*
Oh my, you guys are just so very funny!!!!! And you also obviously cherish each pet peeve, I am certain that if one of the pet peeves was truly seen as a problem, the other would stop it, right then. These are the things of laughter for many decades, family functions, get togethers, etc. I love getting a glimpse of your love, thanks, guys.
Self closing cabinet doors and drawers, dump bowl for kitchen scraps, no vacuuming near area when food is being prepared (kicks up dust motes and dust mites), 2 sets or larger blankets if they hang off the edge of the bed almost to the ground there will be plenty to keep you both covered.😊
Oh, Im sitting here laughing my head off...Your like a double act!! Soooo funny!! This is just like our family, once we start picking holes in one another! 🤣
I really love this video, and it's one of my favourites so far. Most of the RUclips gay couples only share how much and what they love each other. But everyone gets their own problem in real life. This videos feels very real, and reminds me that even the perfect couples have their small issues and encourage me better protect my relationship. Thank you guys!
Interesting how applicable your discussion was. My wife and I have been married for 37 years and our pet peeves are virtually identical to yours. When that's as bad as things get -- things must be pretty darn good overall. One of the things that helps us is, while there are a lot of things we COULD argue about -- when you stop and think about them, there are very few things actually worth FIGHTING about. By the way, my big gripe about the kitchen cabinet doors being left open is that I've hit my head HARD on the corners of them more than once (while fetching something from a lower cabinet that my wife requested.).
You both are hilarious just like Chris and I exactly the same especially with the dishwasher and the mess with cooking using every utensil pot pans and towels LMAO. Big hugs❤️
I agree with Matt about the cabinet doors. I work in a small Starbucks kiosk in a hospital cafe. In one of the cabinets we keep bags of non-dairy creamer for the dispenser. Every time someone comes to get a new bag of creamer they always leave the cabinet door open. It drives me crazy. They open it, so why can't they close it.
Hi Matt and Blue, another fun video, you two are so funny arguing over little quirks . As long as you talk about these small problems and laugh about them you will be ok. Take care, love, Bill
So funny to see so many similarities in pet peeves between partners. You two are hysterical because you can't even fight without laughing and being cute together.
LOL. Blue's jumping on the bed when he can't sleep is exactly what my husband does when he can't sleep, and the moving the feet under the covers is something I do, although not as much anymore, after umpteen years together :)
Getting close to our #34 yrs together, I've given up on pet peeves. I just clam up & do my own thing. The bed.....covers, flopping around, SNORING.. We gave up & sleep in our OWN bedroom. Works beautifully! (Nothing goes missing, LOL). Both retired now, got to do that early. Somehow, vacations sleeping together is fine. Could be the amount of alcohol,😊 Really enjoy the 3 of you. 🌈🎉💞🐧🐧
It's beaut to air out all the pet peves but... what's even better is taking each others pet peves into consideration, and then trying to reduce those annoyances for the other person. It will mean a lot to both of you if you're listening to what each other is saying and taking action on it. Love the content, sending love to all of you x
I liked that you communicated your pet peeves, which is the first step. A video on conflict resolution would be helpful. How you took that first step in communication to resolve the issues. Thanks to both Matt and Blue for all you do and post.
Blue has an amazing smile and his teeth are so straight and color-perfect & his full-on laugh shows it off best. Get Matt some of those auto closing cabinet doors and drawers. One pet peeves resolved.
Blue's laugh is so infectious I can't even 😂💖 and I'm with Matt on the cabinets. If someone in the house leaves the cabinets open the slightest bit, I get SO annoyed.
As someone who’s lived with my (now) husband for almost 25 years, those things are normal and you have to learn to “surrender anger” and cope with them (some things you will NEVER EVER change on your beloved one) and ONLY reserve conflict (and I don’t mean hysterical teenager tantrums, but serious conversations) for those things that you were clear you will never accept (and I don’t mean dumb minutiae like leaving cabinet doors open etc.). This doesn’t mean that you forget to talk about those things that trouble you, but you will face them in a different way, when they appear. Because humans are not programmable robots (yet) and slavery is no longer a thing either: you live with a different someone; that will always be the burden (and the bliss). ALSO there are certain things that YOU will have to learn to change for the sake of the relationship, and yes, there are those you can change too, even if (under your point of view or logic or whatever) make “no sense” or you think should be different. On some issues, you will be the one who has the final stand and on others, he will be the one. Both have to kill some ego for the relationship and this is what makes the bond work. Understand that the only person who will always perfectly “agree” with you is yourself (and sometimes even that is dubious) and loneliness sucks (and EVERY other real person you could think of has their own “strange gifts” to give that you can only discover when living with them and some are the themes of horror movies). You have to remember how LUCKY you are for finding someone to love AND who loves you back (and that’s BEYOND the physical attraction, a soulmate) who will be with you on dark times (and dark times always come, whether on the family, regarding health, work, whatever) and having someone who can help you gather your emotional pieces to keep living and even plan for the future. You also have the very rare (for a gay marriage) of a son to love and teach, who absorbs the examples you show as a family (yes, HE is the child, not you or and your husband) and adds another layer of commitment as a family. There is always the option of being single, having (purportedly) your own place the way you like and do whatever you want as the lonely king of your empty reign, having fleeting not committed relationships with people who will never connect and care (and that can be even crazier) and rely heavily on relatives (who, by the way, have their own problems to cater) when and if the asteroid strikes but you have to realize that the older you get the harder it is to backtrack on being single. Obviously your son would be in distress (because he loves you both in the same place) but at least in such circumstance you will only have your son to quarrel, even at the same childish level. Nowadays more than ever, people think that other people are just like products that they discard instantly not even trying to invest on a common bond as it is easier to look for just another photo, and another, and another among a sea of people who have exactly the same complain (“no one commits, everyone has issues or is crazy, I will never accept this or that” etc.) and everyone seem focused on what others can do for them, offering only demands in exchange; so when you found a significant other, it is worth the work.
hey guys. you sound just like my husband and myself when we discuss pet peeves. this is what happens when you been together for so long 27 yrs for us. you guys have a blessed life . love all around
When you have been with each other and can be open and honest and that is a good thing. The fact you can share and listen and be open and laugh too is important.
I love this, my husband and I have been together 27 years, and you hit on just about all our pet peeves with each other! One additional, running the dishwasher or the washing machine with less than a full load.
My biggest pet peeve is my husband died 6 years ago and left me all alone in the world. What I wouldn't give to take the rumpled damp dish towel off the counter and hang it to dry again. Or have to pick up his socks and throw them into the hamper again. Or any number of annoying little things he did that I miss so desperately now that he's gone. Cherish the moments, no matter how annoying, Matt and Blue. Trust me, you miss them when they're gone.
OK. The editing slide transition in the sponsorship part (vegetables in the sink) was one of their coolest - loved that I liked the voiceover bit, too: very Mark E Miller-ish.
When my partner and I retired in 2014 we started living each minute with each other too. It's trying. But we've lasted 30 years so all the pet peeves are sort of gone by now. We're used to it by now.
21 years together and we have some of the same pet peeves! Cupboard doors, clean-as-you-go while cooking and back seat driver. I'd also add leaving the TV or tablet on when you're not watching it and tapping your foot, talking or figeting while watching TV or a movie. 😂
Best to just laugh it off.... because it will never change and neither party will EVER convince the other to think differently. It's not an insult to each other, it's just different ways we each operate. LOVE gives us the strength to laugh it off.
Ahh, Pet Peeves. The secret to true love and success is living with pet peeves for the 42 years my husband and I lived. Some of them you just let go (complain once in a while but WTF then let them go). You guys are an inspiration.
This is Love, these are the things that you will remember and miss the most and treasure dearly! I would give everything I own to be annoyed just one more day.
I love it when Blue laughed at the pet peeves because he knew some of them were true.
Lmao that's like us. We got the idea to do this and anytime my partner started talking or I did, we already knew what it was lol
I am just in love with Blue's laugh.
HickoryDickory86 same it’s nice
totally agree,i love his laugh
Everyone is in love with Blue's laugh.
I know, I love Matt’s voice, but I love blue’s laugh.
I am not alone
You should make a video about the five things that you like about each other
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That's their Onlyfans account...
Yes, you did the negatives now what are the positives?
Can't agree with your point of view more
1. Being in love.
2. Working together.
3. Similar goals.
4. Income.
5. Penis.
Ya'll sound like an old married couple.....congrats
They are a married couple so i guess they're doing it right. hahah!
Even when you’re talking about pet peeves it still feels like things aren’t that big of a deal. Your demeanors are great. Gives me “best friends bickering” vibes!
That's what I took from it too. But we did this video on your channel and 1 person said it was awkward lol
I once had a roommate that left cupboard/ closets doors open, it drove me crazy, so I started closing them right after her. Turns out she was going to close them LATER and I was driving HER crazy by doing it for her😂😂. A lot of your pet peeves and very similar to most of us.
Now we need a third party judge. Bring in Crow Dallas-Hamilton for the real tea.
akmal hamzah that would b hilarious
Ikr!!! Would love a video like that
I agree😂👍
They’re obviously so in love. Wonderful.
I love how expressive Matt is, especially when you did the vacuum sound.
both of you guys have very valid points. i could never live with you guys. i would absolutely go insane!
Blue and my husband pretty much are the EXACT same when it comes to sleeping. We watched this video together and he just laughed, not just because it was funny but, because he is the EXACT SAME WAY!!
I keep coming back to this video just to hear Blue laugh and see his facial expressions... May God keep you two together forever... :)
please more of such sit down talks kind of videos. @2:18 Blue you made laugh like crazy.
I use to be bad about leaving cabinet doors open until the time I bent down to get something in a lower cabinet and when i raised up i hit my head on the corner of the door I left open. It cut my skin but the pain was that kind of pain that just cuts through your entire body. It was horrible. I learned my lesson.
I’ve been with my husband for 18 years and to be honest I don’t have too many pet peeves about him. One that comes to mind is when i’m sleeping facing him and he gets up to use the bathroom, he’ll come back and fluffs his pillows by flipping them over and kind of plopping then on the bed and big puff of air hits me in the face and wakes me up. I’m a good sleeper so I usually just drift right back to sleep but it’s a little starling when I’m sound asleep. Thanks for the video. So glad you guys can be silly and laugh about your pet peeves instead of getting into arguments about it. So cute and adorable your interaction with each other.
My husband leaves the cabinet doors open and I'm always hitting myself and he just looks at me and said oh shit sorry lol
I like your solution to the driving thing: just let Blue drive. My ex was a bit of a control queen, and nowhere as much as in the car. So I just handed him the controls and let him drive. End of conflicts. And I get to look at the scenery (which I admittedly sometimes did when I was driving) and not have to make split decisions that are life and death. I'm a happy camper and he's a happy pilot. We have remained friends since our divorce, but when we drive anywhere, he's still at the wheel.
Wow 11 years, that means you guys been together for as long as my husband and I been together. Thank you for sharing your funny pet peeves, all us married folks got a list😉😆
For any married person, be it gay or straight, these pet peeves are "the price of admission" to each other's lives and love. Each time you are faced with these situations, just remember you bought ticket to the ride so smile and enjoy it.
This was honestly the best way to describe it lol
You two deserve each other
Aren't married couples such a joy to watch! (said the single person watching this with envy) 😏
Damn right
😅😅😅
Blue: NO TALKING
Blue...won’t stop talking...
❤️😂❤️
Makes my heart melt, my bf of 3.5 years packed up and left the dog and I. I’ve never been so hurt, but you guys give me hope.
You two are way too cute when you argue
Blue’s laugh is really lovely
So Blue needs sleeping pills and to stay away from the kitchen altogether. Matt needs to stay away from driving and speak up when asked something..... solved :)
LOL LOL
lol I wish marriage was that simple
When my sister pointed out to me one day that I was leaving all the cabinet doors and drawers open in the kitchen when I used them, I thought 'No'. I turned around and looked. I was! Immediate cease and desist. Never did it again. 😇
AWWWW THEY ARE TURNING INTO AN OLD MARRIED COUPLE!
Matt is a saint. And Blue takes adventage of Matt. Perfect match!
It says lots for your relationship that you can talk about these things that bother you both and do it whilst laughing. PTTW✌
Hugs xx
i guarantee you they didn't mention any of the things that really bother them xD
(4:31-4:35) that laugh with slap so cute! 😄, I'm in love with blue's laugh 💕
Literally this is my life with my husband. I can't handle it. I almost peed from laughing so hard. That's true love right there. 😍
They talked about gripes and the thing I loved about it was that they were laughing and having fun. There was no venom in their comments. Very healthy way to communicate.
My husband is the worst driver in the world, good thing my backseat driving skills are up to par! 😂 I’m the one with insomnia and also keep my husband awake, unintentionally of coarse 🥴😏😬 y’all are so awesome! Your love for each other shows, looking forward to the next video! I also agree it should be 5 things that you love about each other!!!
Blue is so cute! Okay, you're both adorable. Which is why I can't help watching.
I have found that sleeping and using separate bathrooms keeps me sane and my 8 year relationship with my SO tolerable. We cuddle, hang out most of the time, but we have stayed together because we would otherwise drive each other crazy.
As I watched this, the expression "Don't sweat the small stuff" just kept ringing in my head.
Dont let these little things bother you. You two are so adorable and thoughtful. My partner does things that "could" annoy me but I think about how good he makes me feel and the rest is unimportant. You love each other. You are lucky to have each other. You both are awesome.
Love that you still care about each other .. no matter what the pet peeve
Just stumbled on this. It's so obvious these guys love each other. Even with the peeves, they're caring of each other. They love to push each others' buttons in a playful way. You don't do that with people you don't care about. It was a nice 15 minutes that made me smile..... Thanks, guys!
WOW!!! This sounds like my husband and I. He always leaves the doors to many things open around the house. Drives me crazy!!! Always hits the snooze button on his phone. That too drives me crazy!!! I need to have my husband watch this with me. Thanks so much for sharing...
I literally just got broken up with my now ex, and this video made my night lighter. Thank you. This video shows how possible to work things out with the thing that annoys you about each other.
Why no one is talking about how good the new opening/Intro is? 😍
Agree with Matt on the cabinet doors & cleaning up while cooking. I don't mind any part of the house is a mess but not the kitchen
I low key feel Matt on the back seat driving. My mom does it and I literally want to blind fold her so she stops. Matt was driving before he met u so clearly he’s ok at driving. Sorry if that sounded angry. Love y’all so much tho. Y’all are inspiration to me and many of my other friends. Thank y’all for that and keep up the good work ❤️❤️❤️
So, it’s currently 11:04PM in New Zealand right now, and I should be asleep. But, you guys just posted so I’m going to watch this and then sleep. Because, your videos are a lot better then sleep. ❤️
You two are so lucky to have found each other.
Besides living remote and being together 24/7;
or, having to endure long work gigs apart,
you obviously just enjoy living life with each other.
Lots of folks could have made a video like that.
But not many folks could have unpacked that ‘stuff’
and just sat there laughing at their own and their
partner’s idiosyncrasies with genuine humor and
acceptance.
When people wonder out loud if there really are
soulmates, and what it would be like if they ever
found one, they are wondering could it ever happen
for them the way it is happening for the three of you.
Thanks for sharing part of your lives with us.
This thing of answering in the head and not responding is REAL. Listen to him. He is telling the truth I lived with it for 28 years! It will drive you crazy.
I never had a relationship with someone but the thing I like the most about couple - how they argue :D This video just made me smile
watching your videos is a mental and psychological relief for me
Love you both. So cute together.
It's nice to see the both of you acknowledging each other's short falls. That's the recipe of a healthy relationship.
Yes to all! Especially that vacuum in the morning thing .. and the not answering too. Covers at night is cute. Id chase my husband and hug him at night if he takes all my side of the covers.
I love the chaotic energy in this. And how you two are children at heart. So this is what living with your best friend is like? *I might seriously go nuts.*
Blue’s teeth is so perfect!
This really made me laugh. The best thing about it is that your love for each other still shines through even when talking about annoyances.
Matt and blue should be required viewing the beautiful light of family and awesome energy just brings a smile 😃 to my heart
Oh my, you guys are just so very funny!!!!! And you also obviously cherish each pet peeve, I am certain that if one of the pet peeves was truly seen as a problem, the other would stop it, right then. These are the things of laughter for many decades, family functions, get togethers, etc. I love getting a glimpse of your love, thanks, guys.
Self closing cabinet doors and drawers, dump bowl for kitchen scraps, no vacuuming near area when food is being prepared (kicks up dust motes and dust mites), 2 sets or larger blankets if they hang off the edge of the bed almost to the ground there will be plenty to keep you both covered.😊
Adulting with a partner is so complicated , lots of love to ur family guys
Oh, Im sitting here laughing my head off...Your like a double act!! Soooo funny!! This is just like our family, once we start picking holes in one another! 🤣
I really love this video, and it's one of my favourites so far. Most of the RUclips gay couples only share how much and what they love each other. But everyone gets their own problem in real life. This videos feels very real, and reminds me that even the perfect couples have their small issues and encourage me better protect my relationship. Thank you guys!
Interesting how applicable your discussion was. My wife and I have been married for 37 years and our pet peeves are virtually identical to yours. When that's as bad as things get -- things must be pretty darn good overall. One of the things that helps us is, while there are a lot of things we COULD argue about -- when you stop and think about them, there are very few things actually worth FIGHTING about.
By the way, my big gripe about the kitchen cabinet doors being left open is that I've hit my head HARD on the corners of them more than once (while fetching something from a lower cabinet that my wife requested.).
You both are hilarious just like Chris and I exactly the same especially with the dishwasher and the mess with cooking using every utensil pot pans and towels LMAO. Big hugs❤️
The best part is u guys even write it all on a piece of paper. Funny... Just made my day
I agree with Matt about the cabinet doors. I work in a small Starbucks kiosk in a hospital cafe. In one of the cabinets we keep bags of non-dairy creamer for the dispenser. Every time someone comes to get a new bag of creamer they always leave the cabinet door open. It drives me crazy. They open it, so why can't they close it.
You take the good, you take the bad and there you have the facts of live. So much love. :)
I agree about the cabinet doors being left open. I've hit my head too many times on open cabinet doors. It's the worst.
Hi Matt and Blue, another fun video, you two are so funny arguing over little quirks . As long as you talk about these small problems and laugh about them you will be ok. Take care, love, Bill
So funny to see so many similarities in pet peeves between partners. You two are hysterical because you can't even fight without laughing and being cute together.
LOL. Blue's jumping on the bed when he can't sleep is exactly what my husband does when he can't sleep, and the moving the feet under the covers is something I do, although not as much anymore, after umpteen years together :)
My husband and I have been together for 19 years, and most of ours revolve around the car, kitchen, and quirks during sleep.
This is by far, my favorite “Matt & Blue” video!
I enjoyed seeing this particular video. It"s good to see that petty annoyances do not stop you from loving and enjoying each other!!!!
You guys are so cute together and you can tell how much you truly love one another
Someone jus sent me a link to u guys video...here I go down the rabbit hole binge watching
Getting close to our #34 yrs together, I've given up on pet peeves. I just clam up & do my own thing. The bed.....covers, flopping around, SNORING.. We gave up & sleep in our OWN bedroom. Works beautifully! (Nothing goes missing, LOL). Both retired now, got to do that early. Somehow, vacations sleeping together is fine. Could be the amount of alcohol,😊 Really enjoy the 3 of you. 🌈🎉💞🐧🐧
You guys are perfect for each other. "squeached" the tires. 🤣
Best husband pet-peeve ever. No sugar coating, no excuses.
It's beaut to air out all the pet peves but... what's even better is taking each others pet peves into consideration, and then trying to reduce those annoyances for the other person. It will mean a lot to both of you if you're listening to what each other is saying and taking action on it.
Love the content, sending love to all of you x
Message was written with positive vibes and peace ✌️
I liked that you communicated your pet peeves, which is the first step. A video on conflict resolution would be helpful. How you took that first step in communication to resolve the issues. Thanks to both Matt and Blue for all you do and post.
You all argue as if you are married or something haha. You both are great!
they are married for more than 5 years hahaha and they're actually together for 10 years
I'm with you, Matt. I don't think my husband has ever shut a cabinet door in his entire life. Drives me crazy
Blue vacuuming in the morning bring me great joy as well. Glad to know someone else things it is a good idea.
Blue has an amazing smile and his teeth are so straight and color-perfect & his full-on laugh shows it off best. Get Matt some of those auto closing cabinet doors and drawers. One pet peeves resolved.
Blue's laugh is so infectious I can't even 😂💖 and I'm with Matt on the cabinets. If someone in the house leaves the cabinets open the slightest bit, I get SO annoyed.
I Can Tell you GUYS Really Love each other so much.
You two are just SO comical!!!! Even when doing your pet peves, you guys are SO funny!!!!
As someone who’s lived with my (now) husband for almost 25 years, those things are normal and you have to learn to “surrender anger” and cope with them (some things you will NEVER EVER change on your beloved one) and ONLY reserve conflict (and I don’t mean hysterical teenager tantrums, but serious conversations) for those things that you were clear you will never accept (and I don’t mean dumb minutiae like leaving cabinet doors open etc.). This doesn’t mean that you forget to talk about those things that trouble you, but you will face them in a different way, when they appear. Because humans are not programmable robots (yet) and slavery is no longer a thing either: you live with a different someone; that will always be the burden (and the bliss).
ALSO there are certain things that YOU will have to learn to change for the sake of the relationship, and yes, there are those you can change too, even if (under your point of view or logic or whatever) make “no sense” or you think should be different. On some issues, you will be the one who has the final stand and on others, he will be the one. Both have to kill some ego for the relationship and this is what makes the bond work. Understand that the only person who will always perfectly “agree” with you is yourself (and sometimes even that is dubious) and loneliness sucks (and EVERY other real person you could think of has their own “strange gifts” to give that you can only discover when living with them and some are the themes of horror movies).
You have to remember how LUCKY you are for finding someone to love AND who loves you back (and that’s BEYOND the physical attraction, a soulmate) who will be with you on dark times (and dark times always come, whether on the family, regarding health, work, whatever) and having someone who can help you gather your emotional pieces to keep living and even plan for the future.
You also have the very rare (for a gay marriage) of a son to love and teach, who absorbs the examples you show as a family (yes, HE is the child, not you or and your husband) and adds another layer of commitment as a family.
There is always the option of being single, having (purportedly) your own place the way you like and do whatever you want as the lonely king of your empty reign, having fleeting not committed relationships with people who will never connect and care (and that can be even crazier) and rely heavily on relatives (who, by the way, have their own problems to cater) when and if the asteroid strikes but you have to realize that the older you get the harder it is to backtrack on being single. Obviously your son would be in distress (because he loves you both in the same place) but at least in such circumstance you will only have your son to quarrel, even at the same childish level.
Nowadays more than ever, people think that other people are just like products that they discard instantly not even trying to invest on a common bond as it is easier to look for just another photo, and another, and another among a sea of people who have exactly the same complain (“no one commits, everyone has issues or is crazy, I will never accept this or that” etc.) and everyone seem focused on what others can do for them, offering only demands in exchange; so when you found a significant other, it is worth the work.
hey guys. you sound just like my husband and myself when we discuss pet peeves. this is what happens when you been together for so long 27 yrs for us.
you guys have a blessed life . love all around
When you have been with each other and can be open and honest and that is a good thing. The fact you can share and listen and be open and laugh too is important.
I love this, my husband and I have been together 27 years, and you hit on just about all our pet peeves with each other! One additional, running the dishwasher or the washing machine with less than a full load.
best husbands everrrrr 🏳️🌈🌻
I agree lol so adorable, had to do this in our channel cause it looked fun.
My biggest pet peeve is my husband died 6 years ago and left me all alone in the world. What I wouldn't give to take the rumpled damp dish towel off the counter and hang it to dry again. Or have to pick up his socks and throw them into the hamper again. Or any number of annoying little things he did that I miss so desperately now that he's gone. Cherish the moments, no matter how annoying, Matt and Blue. Trust me, you miss them when they're gone.
OK. The editing slide transition in the sponsorship part (vegetables in the sink) was one of their coolest - loved that I liked the voiceover bit, too: very Mark E Miller-ish.
When my partner and I retired in 2014 we started living each minute with each other too. It's trying. But we've lasted 30 years so all the pet peeves are sort of gone by now. We're used to it by now.
So cute and adorable couple I love Blue's laugh and I love Matt's eyes
My pet peeve is that since following their channel years ago, it’s always Blue’s way and wishes. Matt then follows.
21 years together and we have some of the same pet peeves! Cupboard doors, clean-as-you-go while cooking and back seat driver. I'd also add leaving the TV or tablet on when you're not watching it and tapping your foot, talking or figeting while watching TV or a movie. 😂
Its super cute when they’re arguing about each other’s pet peeves
Best to just laugh it off.... because it will never change and neither party will EVER convince the other to think differently. It's not an insult to each other, it's just different ways we each operate. LOVE gives us the strength to laugh it off.
The kitchen and driving ones are a huge mood 😂 You guys are so cute 💕
Ahh, Pet Peeves. The secret to true love and success is living with pet peeves for the 42 years my husband and I lived. Some of them you just let go (complain once in a while but WTF then let them go). You guys are an inspiration.
This is Love, these are the things that you will remember and miss the most and treasure dearly! I would give everything I own to be annoyed just one more day.