For some of us, keeping it a secret is the only way we could still live. Its either being in a closet and people don't care about you or being open with possibility of death come visiting.
I am truly sorry for what you are going through right now, especially in that part of world you are living in. God bless 🙏 and keep you safe! Amen 😊🖐🇨🇦
faridah hanum Don’t be a rude knob nibbler! Matt and Blue are good citizens, partners and parents. I think Gods smiles at Matt, Blue, their family and friends. They have much to be proud of and are loved by so many. I wonder what God sees when he looks at you? Why in the hell would they harm themselves and an even better question how could you advocate for good people to kill themselves? Btw “killed yourself” is past tense and even though I think you have very little value as a human being I hope you get some treatment for your hatefulness to kind people living a good life. Matt and Blue TLA buddies!
@@jimjefftube Umm, J C? I think that faridah hanum was responding to a specific commenter in this thread who's name is "Blue Matt" (which is a few threads up from here) and not actually at Matt and Blue. Blue Matt's comment was rather nasty, if I do say so myself.
At 2:25 Blue knows exactly what Matt is gonna do with his hands, he mimics it and then he's so smug cause he got it...Oh God! He's such a tease. And like, the ultimate annoying husband. I love it.
I'm not a subscriber who's prone to comment ... but I have to say that this episode was one of my favorites (and there are many M+B favorites). It was witty, genuine, filled with good advice (in my opinion) and all your characteristic warm and gooey Love ... and "delectable sodomy" was THE highlight. I don't want to come off like Mr. creepy guy, but I have to admit that I'm one of the thousands who wish we knew Matt and Blue. There are too many miles and years apart -- but still so much in common.This may be as close as most of us will get to knowing you ... but if you ever decide to have a meet & greet, I won't hesitate to be there. Thank you {again} for the countless smiles and the warm gooeyness. Peace and Love.
I love you guys so much. Your channel, family, etc has grown so much in the last few years. Your videos just bring me so much joy and hope for the future. 💗
I show my 9 year old son your guys videos. I love showing him that people are all different and that love is love. Both me and him love you guys and your videos
As a young man I fled rural Idaho for the big city. I wasn’t ready for all the temptations of feeling free. This was back in 1990. I see y’alls life and I’m so envious you are making a life in the country. I’m stuck to the city now as everything I have is here. But I terribly miss the quiet, horses, and freedom of movement.
I LOVE the format where you guys shoot little bits and pieces of your week and then splice the into one catchup video or Q&A, feels like you guys care about keeping us in the loops on your vids while not over stressing on having to record/make a video on every little thing. It really works!
I applaud and respect you two very much. You guys are doing an excellent job raising Crow in my opinion. You guys are setting an example that it is possible for two fathers to raise a child, and times are different. You guys are very inspirational and role models, and I hope I have what you two have in the future. It would be exciting to meet you.
Matt and Blue, I have been told more than once that I should be closeted, but I ignore all of them. I don’t wear my sexuality on my sleeve, but don’t hide it either. I look forward to the day that it doesn’t matter who you love as long as you love.
Look at you ranch boys go. Can't believe that someone would actually comment on the way you pronounce words. God it must be wonderful to be so damn perfect. Love what you guys are doing and how you're doing it. Stay true to yourselves. Love ya guys.
Thank you both for being such a great example of what a multi-faceted, committed gay relationship can can be. I look forward to your uploads and even bought a ‘peace to the world’ poster to show my respect and support. Xoxo
The part where Matt talks about catching himself for “acting too gay” really resonates with me. I feel like it’s a byproduct of growing up before the 2000s. I had always worried about people attacking me because of my mannerisms and such but in the past few years, I’ve just stopped caring and done what makes me feel good.
It continually amazes me the arrogance and audacity of some people. Why would I write such nasty horrible comments on a blog that I didn't like?! Kudos to the both of you for handling those two mean spirited people's questions with humor, whit and grace. I just discovered your channel and I've enjoyed what I have seen so far. Please continue to ignore those negative people. what you are doing is very important and is needed to help humanize us to the rest of society. And I purposely used the word "humanize" instead of normalize. There is nothing ab-normal about two men being in love, raising a family and maintaining a life together. Unfortunately, we are not human in the eyes of some segments of society. I only wish there had been something like this when I was younger. I'm really looking forward to catching up on your previously posted videos and I'm excited about the ones to come. Best wishes to you both! P. S. I agree with you Blue - How dare that guy to make fun of your mispronunciation of that word and not have the guts to show is face!
I kinda wish Mark Wilson's comments were still here to read just from y’all's comments, LOL! My comments are simple, urging someone to be visible might not be the best advice, every situation is unique. I’ve known kids who were turned out on their own at 15, on the streets homeless doing tricks (no, I didn’t, wouldn’t, wasn’t, don’t go there) to survive. Caution and common sense is critically important.
It blows my mind how far we've come in so little time, and also how much farther we have to go. I remember the general atmosphere of life (even living in a city) in 2006, and so many people I knew going into work professional in non-arts and arts fields were told to keep their sexuality a secret, dress 'straight' for interviews, never post pictures of their significant others online etc etc. I know people who were fired for being gay, people who were denied admission to certain professional programs for being gay. And I had friends who had to stay closeted for years for fear that if they were out they'd lose their job, their income, their house. I'm sorry that this happened to you in your job, too, and I'm happy that you're living your best life now.
OMG! I can't believe my question was first. You guys are doing a great job with lil Crow. You two are just naturals at being Dads. Big hugs to you as always.💕
love that you guys even address the hater questions. gotta say though that their parents probably didn't teach em well enough to respect others. i guess what i mean by that is that those are just opinions of ignorant and stuck up individuals that don't matter to the world. you guys are awesome!
Many thanks for answering my question. I teach literature and creative writing in new delhi. I have shared your vlogs with few of my students and with my team. I strongly believe that story telling is very powerful. I love the movie "call me by your name". I listen to wentworth Miller's speech and his interview (at oxford )every other day . I can't thank enough to both of you to share your world with the world. Lots of love and long distance hug for crow.
here it is Dec 4, 2020. I don't know how I missed this video in 2019. Never a dull moment when Matt and Blue start sparring with each other. Thanks for the fun!
Love it guys and keep it up. Always look forward to your videos. Not only relationship/family goals but also inspires me each day to get up and work for what I want.
Desculpe pela pergunta mas vocês ficam bons com o presidente novo? Eu sei que ele é muito homophobic, mas ele tem as políticas que afetam vocês? Eu pergunto porque eu quero viajar ao Brasil mas não quero ter medo pela minha vida. Muito obrigado
You guys are so cool... I always feel so much better about life, after watching one of your videos !!!! And, you have such a beautful family... Thanks for sharing your lives with us - Gernard Howell
Hi Matt and Blue. I just recently discovered your channel. I just want to tell you what Matt said about the time he was on Kyle XY is so sad and wrong. I'm so sorry for you. Special people turn bad experiences into positive resources and you Matt and Blue are very special people. A hug from Italy.
You guys are wonderful. Thank you for answering my question and being so open. I will say though that as exciting as it was to have Matt read my question, it also made me realize how poorly written it was. Sorry about that and thank you for powering through the awkwardness of having to read it out loud. Enjoy your new coop!
thank you for another great video. xoxo and thank you for having the courage to speak about mental health. I believe a lot of people watch videos like yours and also want to have a healthy positive lifestyle like they see in the video. But I think some people believe they can't because they have mental health issues. A lot of people assume that most people don't have the same challenges they do. In my experience I've found that most people face a mental health issue at some point in their lives. For many people it's every day or life long. Acknowleding that you have had to deal with those kinds of issues too, AND you can still be happy and healthy and positive is so powerful. Whether you believe no one is perfect, or everyone is perfect (just as they are), knowing that there is someone that has been through what you have is so meaningful. Every time someone says "hey, that's happened to me to and I came out ok" it gives others hope and courage, and we could all use some of that right?
For me the "wall came down" in 2004, I lost my first Buddy. We had both been in the closet since our early years a swore never to tell anyone, been through the Military, had Wife, raised a beutiful Daughter (So proud of Her). I'm 59 now, been out since 2005, have a great partner, have a Home, 2 dogs.... We do argue, but I realize we are two people, in each others life, we both have our own views and opinons, and we Love each other ...You Folks ( The Pride Den ) are the Best ! This video was GREAT ! P.S. I often wondered about the equipment you used.
Another great video and Q&A. Love the honesty and truth forward life you show us. Your channel is helping so many folks realize that they too can live as they desire. Keep the video coming. Best to five of you and the hens.❤️
Another great video . Thanks for sharing . I love the way in which you find a balance between keeping your personal life personal as well as createing good content . Love you guys .
Love you guys ❤️ Creating this channel and showing us your life these past few years is doing so much more for the LGBT community than you might even know.
To cool. Once taught 11 4.5yo at a wonderful private pre-through 12th grade school in NYC..They know what's going on. They are unguarded and ask specific questions. Very cool and so healthy for Crow that he knows at his level of understanding what is true. Great you share so much. Helps many plus so interesting in fun. I wanted to date Matt years ago when he was Kyle.
Omg please do a meet and greet in Denver soon! Im about to finish up college in Colorado and might be moving to Seattle for work after, but you guys are so awesome and inspiring, so it would be so amazing to meet yall!
Hey, guys! I live in north central Vermont, single, but was partnered for several years, long ago. You guys have the very kind of relationship that I strove to have with my partner for many years. Yet, it was never meant to be. I guess happiness is something that comes internally, without the total need of another, as sad and depressing as that is. I'm a lonely person, one who battles depression, off and on, due to the loneliness. I don't go out into the "gay" community much, as Vermont just doesn't have much of a gay scene, not one with clubs or bars, and the like; but more private businesses, like BnBs that cater to such. I don't much keep secrets, myself. I don't have to talk about my gay side, openly, either, as people figure it out within a few days or weeks. I'm glad that you all can live openly. I am so proud of you all for that. I've been a fan of Matt's work, since I watched his series from 2006 (dont' wory Blue; I love you music, too!). I did not even pick up on the series until it ended. You all are wonderful; I love the family life that you have with your son, your own ups and downs, and all of the moving. I have family in San Pedro, so Los Angeles is also familiar to me. I also teach at Norwich University, in Vermont. It's a wonderful place, wonderful students, incredible Corp of Cadets and civilian students, all good people at their very core. I also have a Paranormal Investigation Channel, Messenger Guardians Paranormal, that I use as a passion to keep my mental state going. If I can help others move from this world to the next, I'll done the work I was put on Earth to do. I do Paranormal Investigation and Literature tallks and classes around the country for little or nothing (my time, my dime; sometimes I'm paid gas money). I don't take money for this specific kind of work (unless it's a sponsor), as it really confuses and dilutes the deeply spiritual passion I have for the paranormal. I also do national radio interview with various stations, to include my home University. Keep doing what you are doing, with love, compassion and fun. I love those chickens, and that beautiful horse, too. I put some links below for you all. Be well, Guys!! Go Carefullly. I look forward to the poster and shirt!!! ; ) soundcloud.com/messenger-guardians-paranormal ruclips.net/video/TemMQMR72po/видео.html
Thanks for talking about how you explain to your son about your family. I am close to adopting my own children and this is really helpful. Also I feel that in all professions you kind of have to be secretive. One because its no ones business. Im a social worker and I don't really disclose that information to my clients. Especially since they have their own bias about me that might affect the session. Now if a co worker says "how is your wife?" after noticing my ring, I say i have a husband.
I so much enjoy your videos!! Your family is SO CUTE!! Saw your "This is Family" video...and I am so happy and proud of you guys for achieving a family that so many aspire to achieve today. When in law school, I wrote a research paper entitled "The New Modern Family". YOUR family was highlighted...it was your family I thought of as the new modern family. When I was younger, I wanted to adopt children but was discouraged because of being single and gay. You guys are to be applauded for following your dream for a family. It is so easy to see you three belong together!!! Little Crow is so cute and lovable but that is because he has such a loving family! Your videos are so full of love and happiness; your family brings me laughter and sometimes tears. You guys ROCK!! MY FAMILY??...I have two fur baby boys...Herschel is 13 y.o. and a Brussels Griffon; and Buddy is 3 y.o. and a Great Pyrenees. They bring so much love into my life! / aka Kym
Hi Matt and Blue! First things first,thank you for putting a smile on my face after a stressed day at school. Im asking for advice about coming out. Im terrified to come out! I think about it very much. Im a 17 year old,I accepted my self being gay since I was 15. However,Im terrified to tell my friends and family. Like I want to tell them but Im scared.I try very hard to hide it and act and say that I like girls,but I dont.My bestfriends are both girls.They both are fine with people being gay,like they dont care,having said that,Im still terrified to tell them. My family is another story. Thank you for this video!
That must be hard for you. Maybe I can tell you this: I'm a teacher for 35 years now. I have seen this before. Boys of which I "knew" already they were gay before they came out. Even at a younger age than you If you know a person very well and you are really interested in ppl, you see certain behaviour, friendships, particular details that often show. Guys or their parents later asked: you KNEW? No, I saw.Don't you think other ppl that love you/ know you well don' t " know" or have been thinking about it already? ( such as your 2 best friends, yr mom...?). Who knows. I wish you all the luck. Sorry for my English.
@@greatfun7316 First of all thank you for replying ❤❤.I dont think no one knows.At school,my friends think that I fancy this girl but actually I really dont.
13:40 whoever said that many Americans are for no good reason illiterate in science brought up a really good point. I’ve never thought about it that way before, but I definitely agree
Job well done thank you for being sincere honesty and Corky at the same time as for Crow a good foundation but you both are giving him he will be able to face anything in life that comes his way good or bad have a good rest of your week be good be safe keep up the good work👊💥👬👱♂️👌👍
I feel you. We just bought a lovely home that was built in 1932. It has a lot of fixer up things to do. We moved in 2 weeks ago and living out of boxes and working on fix it issues is so tiresome. But, it's fun. My husband and I work great together on these projects.
So glad to see my comment got a like on your other video. So happy you guys know the amazing influence you are on me. You guys are legit my role models. Love you guys❤❤
Funny about Matt’s stopping and chatting with people. I’m a serious dog lover and I’ve heard different friends say, ‘Do we have to stop whilst you greet every hound we meet?’
I want to say so much but I will say this. You guys are the best. You are role models of having a home and family and that gay guys can be fathers! You show many times that love is the main thing for children! Crow is so lucky to have you guys as parents and it will show in the future! Love you and I am a big fan! Maybe talk about that some other time!
Matt, I can understand your fears when speaking about being out in Hollywood. Given what has happened around sexual abuse allegations in Hollywood over the past year, are attitudes changing? What will it take to bring down that house of cards? Love you guys!!
Hi Matt an Blue , loved this video , great to hear you answer your fans ‘questions. Sad you skipped mine but understand you cannot answer all.. Get that chicken coop built, those critters will grow fast n make a lot of poop. I smiled at your anti microbial mishap, but would never razz you about it, that guy is a jerk.Some of us have a science background but know nothing about music. Take care of yourselves, love Bill
Hey guys Paul here. I just am so happy we live in a world where we are more excepted than we were years ago. So happy to have a family of your own and take your son places like anyone else. Peace to the world guys❤❤❤❤ Paul and Trenton Ciampi Phoenix Arizona
Mat I see you picking up Horse Poopy, This is great for building up garden soil. Also a great heat source in one of the layers in a cold frame to start vegs early for replant in the garden. Take care my young friends.
I enjoyed the video for your open and answers to the questions. I liked the Kyle XY part and the impact on your life and being gay. I had a feeling they told you not to be out. I liked the truth you shared and other things. Enjoy that farm and ranch life guys.
Here I am watching you two talk about how long and how you process these videos. I've watched a lot of guys talk about daddy issues. I want to go onw step further. I want to create a new class of daddy's. There are daddy's and sugar daddy's, senior daddies and fat daddy's. How about "Older than dirt daddy's"? Now that's where I fit in. haha
I love hearing you talk about piling stuff on and on to get the life you want. I find it so funny that, that doesn’t drive Blue crazy since he’s so OCD and a control freak. (Love you Blue)
Hi guys it's Thursday morning here in the Philippines the long wait is over thanks for posting nice to see you back whaching you makes my day a feel good lots of love miss crow and arlis you guys continue to inspire me to live longer inspite of my heart problems while whaching you my bp is better than ever when ever I had an stable bp just go back to the videos you have posted it's calm me down thanks for everything pls keep posting love you guys hug and kisses to crow Happy to see you again love you always from the Philippines love peace and mabuhay
I think Blue would be a good/trustworthy Politician. Although you both are strong and caring people, Blue seems to have the right personality to stand-up and use his voice to address political bullies with just the right amount of passion.
For some of us, keeping it a secret is the only way we could still live. Its either being in a closet and people don't care about you or being open with possibility of death come visiting.
I'm really sorry for you..hope you're doing good..
I am truly sorry for what you are going through right now, especially in that part of world you are living in. God bless 🙏 and keep you safe! Amen 😊🖐🇨🇦
Hope everything gets better. You deserve it!
faridah hanum Don’t be a rude knob nibbler! Matt and Blue are good citizens, partners and parents. I think Gods smiles at Matt, Blue, their family and friends. They have much to be proud of and are loved by so many. I wonder what God sees when he looks at you? Why in the hell would they harm themselves and an even better question how could you advocate for good people to kill themselves? Btw “killed yourself” is past tense and even though I think you have very little value as a human being I hope you get some treatment for your hatefulness to kind people living a good life. Matt and Blue TLA buddies!
@@jimjefftube Umm, J C? I think that faridah hanum was responding to a specific commenter in this thread who's name is "Blue Matt" (which is a few threads up from here) and not actually at Matt and Blue. Blue Matt's comment was rather nasty, if I do say so myself.
At 2:25 Blue knows exactly what Matt is gonna do with his hands, he mimics it and then he's so smug cause he got it...Oh God! He's such a tease. And like, the ultimate annoying husband. I love it.
I'm not a subscriber who's prone to comment ... but I have to say that this episode was one of my favorites (and there are many M+B favorites). It was witty, genuine, filled with good advice (in my opinion) and all your characteristic warm and gooey Love ... and "delectable sodomy" was THE highlight. I don't want to come off like Mr. creepy guy, but I have to admit that I'm one of the thousands who wish we knew Matt and Blue. There are too many miles and years apart -- but still so much in common.This may be as close as most of us will get to knowing you ... but if you ever decide to have a meet & greet, I won't hesitate to be there. Thank you {again} for the countless smiles and the warm gooeyness. Peace and Love.
I love you guys so much. Your channel, family, etc has grown so much in the last few years. Your videos just bring me so much joy and hope for the future. 💗
Love you both! As a retired teacher I wish all children could have parents that are as loving and caring as both of you!
Matt was spot on about depression and activity. I very much enjoyed this video, guys. Love from Australia.
I show my 9 year old son your guys videos. I love showing him that people are all different and that love is love. Both me and him love you guys and your videos
As a young man I fled rural Idaho for the big city. I wasn’t ready for all the temptations of feeling free. This was back in 1990. I see y’alls life and I’m so envious you are making a life in the country. I’m stuck to the city now as everything I have is here. But I terribly miss the quiet, horses, and freedom of movement.
I LOVE the format where you guys shoot little bits and pieces of your week and then splice the into one catchup video or Q&A, feels like you guys care about keeping us in the loops on your vids while not over stressing on having to record/make a video on every little thing. It really works!
I applaud and respect you two very much. You guys are doing an excellent job raising Crow in my opinion. You guys are setting an example that it is possible for two fathers to raise a child, and times are different. You guys are very inspirational and role models, and I hope I have what you two have in the future. It would be exciting to meet you.
Matt and Blue, I have been told more than once that I should be closeted, but I ignore all of them. I don’t wear my sexuality on my sleeve, but don’t hide it either. I look forward to the day that it doesn’t matter who you love as long as you love.
Look at you ranch boys go. Can't believe that someone would actually comment on the way you pronounce words. God it must be wonderful to be so damn perfect. Love what you guys are doing and how you're doing it. Stay true to yourselves. Love ya guys.
Thank you both for being such a great example of what a multi-faceted, committed gay relationship can can be. I look forward to your uploads and even bought a ‘peace to the world’ poster to show my respect and support. Xoxo
The part where Matt talks about catching himself for “acting too gay” really resonates with me. I feel like it’s a byproduct of growing up before the 2000s. I had always worried about people attacking me because of my mannerisms and such but in the past few years, I’ve just stopped caring and done what makes me feel good.
You two are such a great couple to watch. You just make me laugh and always put a smile on my face.
It continually amazes me the arrogance and audacity of some people. Why would I write such nasty horrible comments on a blog that I didn't like?! Kudos to the both of you for handling those two mean spirited people's questions with humor, whit and grace. I just discovered your channel and I've enjoyed what I have seen so far. Please continue to ignore those negative people. what you are doing is very important and is needed to help humanize us to the rest of society. And I purposely used the word "humanize" instead of normalize. There is nothing ab-normal about two men being in love, raising a family and maintaining a life together. Unfortunately, we are not human in the eyes of some segments of society. I only wish there had been something like this when I was younger. I'm really looking forward to catching up on your previously posted videos and I'm excited about the ones to come. Best wishes to you both! P. S. I agree with you Blue - How dare that guy to make fun of your mispronunciation of that word and not have the guts to show is face!
"Be visible... be very very visible...and gay!" LOL!
Mark Wilson then you are obviously are not a gay person judging by your miserable, close minded attitude. Please go love yourself.
@Mark Wilson You are one sick puppy.
@Mark Wilson Why do you watch this channel if it disgusts you so much? Just so you can spread your bigotry and hatred?
I kinda wish Mark Wilson's comments were still here to read just from y’all's comments, LOL!
My comments are simple, urging someone to be visible might not be the best advice, every situation is unique. I’ve known kids who were turned out on their own at 15, on the streets homeless doing tricks (no, I didn’t, wouldn’t, wasn’t, don’t go there) to survive. Caution and common sense is critically important.
Guys I was waiting for the video all day, I am happy to see them.
Me too my dear
Santanu Chakraborty same
It blows my mind how far we've come in so little time, and also how much farther we have to go. I remember the general atmosphere of life (even living in a city) in 2006, and so many people I knew going into work professional in non-arts and arts fields were told to keep their sexuality a secret, dress 'straight' for interviews, never post pictures of their significant others online etc etc. I know people who were fired for being gay, people who were denied admission to certain professional programs for being gay. And I had friends who had to stay closeted for years for fear that if they were out they'd lose their job, their income, their house. I'm sorry that this happened to you in your job, too, and I'm happy that you're living your best life now.
OMG! I can't believe my question was first. You guys are doing a great job with lil Crow. You two are just naturals at being Dads. Big hugs to you as always.💕
How do you both make being gay seem like a super power?💪 I feel like a fairy to watch how much love you spread! 🧚♂️💖🧚♂️ Peace to the world
love that you guys even address the hater questions. gotta say though that their parents probably didn't teach em well enough to respect others. i guess what i mean by that is that those are just opinions of ignorant and stuck up individuals that don't matter to the world. you guys are awesome!
This was one of my favorite videos. Great to hear you speak so real about life and your relationship. Take care, Love. Bill
Many thanks for answering my question. I teach literature and creative writing in new delhi. I have shared your vlogs with few of my students and with my team. I strongly believe that story telling is very powerful. I love the movie "call me by your name". I listen to wentworth Miller's speech and his interview (at oxford )every other day . I can't thank enough to both of you to share your world with the world.
Lots of love and long distance hug for crow.
here it is Dec 4, 2020. I don't know how I missed this video in 2019. Never a dull moment when Matt and Blue start sparring with each other. Thanks for the fun!
Watching your videos is a highlight of my week, thank you for sharing your life and helping me feel I'm not so alone in this walk.
Love it guys and keep it up. Always look forward to your videos. Not only relationship/family goals but also inspires me each day to get up and work for what I want.
OMG You guys are so cute and fun. I really hope that my boyfriend and I can form such a beautiful family despite what is happening in Brazil lately.
Sorry for the new homophobic president
Good luck and please be safe. I hope your situation changes sooner rather than later.
Desculpe pela pergunta mas vocês ficam bons com o presidente novo? Eu sei que ele é muito homophobic, mas ele tem as políticas que afetam vocês? Eu pergunto porque eu quero viajar ao Brasil mas não quero ter medo pela minha vida. Muito obrigado
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@@Hotrodchef89 Thank you
You guys are so cool... I always feel so much better about life, after watching one of your videos !!!! And, you have such a beautful family... Thanks for sharing your lives with us - Gernard Howell
Love you guys!!! You are an inspiration. Crow is growing up so fast. He's such a handsome kid.
Hi Matt and Blue.
I just recently discovered your channel.
I just want to tell you what Matt said about the time he was on Kyle XY is so sad and wrong. I'm so sorry for you.
Special people turn bad experiences into positive resources and you Matt and Blue are very special people.
A hug from Italy.
You guys are wonderful. Thank you for answering my question and being so open. I will say though that as exciting as it was to have Matt read my question, it also made me realize how poorly written it was. Sorry about that and thank you for powering through the awkwardness of having to read it out loud. Enjoy your new coop!
thank you for another great video. xoxo and thank you for having the courage to speak about mental health. I believe a lot of people watch videos like yours and also want to have a healthy positive lifestyle like they see in the video. But I think some people believe they can't because they have mental health issues. A lot of people assume that most people don't have the same challenges they do. In my experience I've found that most people face a mental health issue at some point in their lives. For many people it's every day or life long. Acknowleding that you have had to deal with those kinds of issues too, AND you can still be happy and healthy and positive is so powerful. Whether you believe no one is perfect, or everyone is perfect (just as they are), knowing that there is someone that has been through what you have is so meaningful. Every time someone says "hey, that's happened to me to and I came out ok" it gives others hope and courage, and we could all use some of that right?
For me the "wall came down" in 2004, I lost my first Buddy. We had both been in the closet since our early years a swore never to tell anyone, been through the Military, had Wife, raised a beutiful Daughter (So proud of Her). I'm 59 now, been out since 2005, have a great partner, have a Home, 2 dogs.... We do argue, but I realize we are two people, in each others life, we both have our own views and opinons, and we Love each other ...You Folks ( The Pride Den ) are the Best ! This video was GREAT ! P.S. I often wondered about the equipment you used.
Another great video and Q&A. Love the honesty and truth forward life you show us. Your channel is helping so many folks realize that they too can live as they desire. Keep the video coming. Best to five of you and the hens.❤️
Another great video . Thanks for sharing . I love the way in which you find a balance between keeping your personal life personal as well as createing good content . Love you guys .
This is like brokeback mountain the life your life( you know if they where together and live a good life without the drama)
Its like the happy ending version
Omg you're right 😃 I haven't thought about that
omg if I see another broke back mountain comparison immma kms
Love you guys ❤️ Creating this channel and showing us your life these past few years is doing so much more for the LGBT community than you might even know.
"Detestable crime, auntie? It is a delectable crime" That laid me OUT. Y'all are so good natured. Love from East Tennessee!
To cool. Once taught 11 4.5yo at a wonderful private pre-through 12th grade school in NYC..They know what's going on. They are unguarded and ask specific questions.
Very cool and so healthy for Crow that he knows at his level of understanding what is true.
Great you share so much. Helps many
plus so interesting in fun.
I wanted to date Matt years ago when he was Kyle.
Omg please do a meet and greet in Denver soon! Im about to finish up college in Colorado and might be moving to Seattle for work after, but you guys are so awesome and inspiring, so it would be so amazing to meet yall!
You guys are so much fun to watch, and you give me new perspectives of life ^^
Hey, guys! I live in north central Vermont, single, but was partnered for several years, long ago. You guys have the very kind of relationship that I strove to have with my partner for many years. Yet, it was never meant to be. I guess happiness is something that comes internally, without the total need of another, as sad and depressing as that is. I'm a lonely person, one who battles depression, off and on, due to the loneliness. I don't go out into the "gay" community much, as Vermont just doesn't have much of a gay scene, not one with clubs or bars, and the like; but more private businesses, like BnBs that cater to such. I don't much keep secrets, myself. I don't have to talk about my gay side, openly, either, as people figure it out within a few days or weeks. I'm glad that you all can live openly. I am so proud of you all for that.
I've been a fan of Matt's work, since I watched his series from 2006 (dont' wory Blue; I love you music, too!). I did not even pick up on the series until it ended. You all are wonderful; I love the family life that you have with your son, your own ups and downs, and all of the moving. I have family in San Pedro, so Los Angeles is also familiar to me.
I also teach at Norwich University, in Vermont. It's a wonderful place, wonderful students, incredible Corp of Cadets and civilian students, all good people at their very core. I also have a Paranormal Investigation Channel, Messenger Guardians Paranormal, that I use as a passion to keep my mental state going. If I can help others move from this world to the next, I'll done the work I was put on Earth to do. I do Paranormal Investigation and Literature tallks and classes around the country for little or nothing (my time, my dime; sometimes I'm paid gas money). I don't take money for this specific kind of work (unless it's a sponsor), as it really confuses and dilutes the deeply spiritual passion I have for the paranormal. I also do national radio interview with various stations, to include my home University.
Keep doing what you are doing, with love, compassion and fun. I love those chickens, and that beautiful horse, too. I put some links below for you all.
Be well, Guys!! Go Carefullly.
I look forward to the poster and shirt!!! ; )
soundcloud.com/messenger-guardians-paranormal
ruclips.net/video/TemMQMR72po/видео.html
Loneliness is a big problem for many people I guess. Though.
Thanks for talking about how you explain to your son about your family. I am close to adopting my own children and this is really helpful. Also I
feel that in all professions you kind of have to be secretive. One because its no ones business. Im a social worker and I don't really disclose that information to my clients. Especially since they have their own bias about me that might affect the session. Now if a co worker says "how is your wife?" after noticing my ring, I say i have a husband.
guys this was a thoroughly enjoyable video! Loved it when you just sit a banter back and forth about "stuff". Missed Crow though!
"I mean I would but I just know I'd never get elected because I'd probably be like..." " FU- " LMAO! I'M DEAD!!!!!
Do more Q&A videos like this! They're the best!
Thanks! :) I needed this today. Keep it up fellow Coloradans!
You guys are feeling the way my partner and I feel around our home reno's...never ending.
I so much enjoy your videos!! Your family is SO CUTE!! Saw your "This is Family" video...and I am so happy and proud of you guys for achieving a family that so many aspire to achieve today. When in law school, I wrote a research paper entitled "The New Modern Family". YOUR family was highlighted...it was your family I thought of as the new modern family. When I was younger, I wanted to adopt children but was discouraged because of being single and gay. You guys are to be applauded for following your dream for a family. It is so easy to see you three belong together!!! Little Crow is so cute and lovable but that is because he has such a loving family! Your videos are so full of love and happiness; your family brings me laughter and sometimes tears. You guys ROCK!!
MY FAMILY??...I have two fur baby boys...Herschel is 13 y.o. and a Brussels Griffon; and Buddy is 3 y.o. and a Great Pyrenees. They bring so much love into my life!
/ aka Kym
Hi Matt and Blue! First things first,thank you for putting a smile on my face after a stressed day at school. Im asking for advice about coming out. Im terrified to come out! I think about it very much. Im a 17 year old,I accepted my self being gay since I was 15. However,Im terrified to tell my friends and family. Like I want to tell them but Im scared.I try very hard to hide it and act and say that I like girls,but I dont.My bestfriends are both girls.They both are fine with people being gay,like they dont care,having said that,Im still terrified to tell them. My family is another story.
Thank you for this video!
That must be hard for you. Maybe I can tell you this: I'm a teacher for 35 years now. I have seen this before. Boys of which I "knew" already they were gay before they came out. Even at a younger age than you If you know a person very well and you are really interested in ppl, you see certain behaviour, friendships, particular details that often show. Guys or their parents later asked: you KNEW? No, I saw.Don't you think other ppl that love you/ know you well don' t " know" or have been thinking about it already? ( such as your 2 best friends, yr mom...?). Who knows. I wish you all the luck. Sorry for my English.
@@greatfun7316 First of all thank you for replying ❤❤.I dont think no one knows.At school,my friends think that I fancy this girl but actually I really dont.
Love it.. You guys make my day. So glad to see you open up and be real with all your followers.
13:40 whoever said that many Americans are for no good reason illiterate in science brought up a really good point. I’ve never thought about it that way before, but I definitely agree
Job well done thank you for being sincere honesty and Corky at the same time as for Crow a good foundation but you both are giving him he will be able to face anything in life that comes his way good or bad have a good rest of your week be good be safe keep up the good work👊💥👬👱♂️👌👍
I’ll be waiting for the Denver meet and greet announcement!! Hope your keeping warm in this crazy snow storm ❤️🌈
Branding... I get it. So impressive to see you guys go through it. Thank you for sharing.
I feel you. We just bought a lovely home that was built in 1932. It has a lot of fixer up things to do. We moved in 2 weeks ago and living out of boxes and working on fix it issues is so tiresome. But, it's fun. My husband and I work great together on these projects.
I think you guys are great, thank you for sharing your lives with us. Peace from New Hampshire.
So enjoy you two! Thanks for sharing.
You guys are so good together. I love your videos. Many hugs
Best youtube channel.. Love you Matt and Blue..and of course Crow#Peace to the World
You guys are the cutest couple ever. I love your honesty, openness and your humor. You are correct it is delectable.
I just love that horse Nelson is the most amazing dude!!!
Delectable Crime needs to be a Tee shirt. Or a scented lotion.
Shirt, yes...cause the lotion would smell like ass. :P
@@shirukun Some asses smell good.
Thanks guys for aother slice of your life there in the wilds of colorado. Success in all you do.
Laughed all the way through this video. Thanks for putting a smile on my face. You guys rock! 🤘😀🤟🌻❤️🌈🌈
Finally! I was waiting whole day yesterday. It's Thursday now in the Philippines.😉 Anyways, great video as usual.😁 I miss Crow😘
So glad to see my comment got a like on your other video. So happy you guys know the amazing influence you are on me. You guys are legit my role models. Love you guys❤❤
Love you guys!! Thanks for the memories
Love you guys, I tried the straight life, didn't work out, so much happier with my husband Frank now 39 years!!!!
You guys always make me smile! Thank you for being you and for laughing at yourselves!
Please add more of Blue's comments on farting, dingleberries, etc. Matt's reaction is always so funny.
Funny about Matt’s stopping and chatting with people. I’m a serious dog lover and I’ve heard different friends say, ‘Do we have to stop whilst you greet every hound we meet?’
watched your live stream on monday and it was so Great!! you guys should do it quite often, if you’re not so busy. love, t 💕💕
I want to say so much but I will say this. You guys are the best. You are role models of having a home and family and that gay guys can be fathers! You show many times that love is the main thing for children! Crow is so lucky to have you guys as parents and it will show in the future! Love you and I am a big fan! Maybe talk about that some other time!
Love to see more of you guys horse!!!!! Pleaseeeeeeee 😍
Matt, I can understand your fears when speaking about being out in Hollywood. Given what has happened around sexual abuse allegations in Hollywood over the past year, are attitudes changing? What will it take to bring down that house of cards? Love you guys!!
Love that you named your chickens.....so cute
I love how relatable your stories are. You are both great roll models for our LGBTQ+++ family. Thanks for sharing.
Hi Matt an Blue , loved this video , great to hear you answer your fans ‘questions. Sad you skipped mine but understand you cannot answer all.. Get that chicken coop built, those critters will grow fast n make a lot of poop. I smiled at your anti microbial mishap, but would never razz you about it, that guy is a jerk.Some of us have a science background but know nothing about music. Take care of yourselves, love Bill
Hey guys Paul here. I just am so happy we live in a world where we are more excepted than we were years ago. So happy to have a family of your own and take your son places like anyone else. Peace to the world guys❤❤❤❤ Paul and Trenton Ciampi Phoenix Arizona
You guys make me happy, It's nice to see a happy gay family. Wishing you the best 💐
More shirtless Blue, please. It's great to see him fixing things. He so industrious... very manly.
Mat I see you picking up Horse Poopy, This is great for building up garden soil. Also a great heat source in one of the layers in a cold frame to start vegs early for replant in the garden. Take care my young friends.
Another great video Guys! Love your honesty and openness! Wishing you all the very best! 💙❤💙
You're back! Love my favorite family 💕
Both Matt and Blue you are so inspiring to the WORLD! LUV YOU
I enjoyed the video for your open and answers to the questions. I liked the Kyle XY part and the impact on your life and being gay. I had a feeling they told you not to be out. I liked the truth you shared and other things. Enjoy that farm and ranch life guys.
Awesome guys....The life I would love 2 live....Love ya!!
Here I am watching you two talk about how long and how you process these videos. I've watched a lot of guys talk about daddy issues. I want to go onw step further. I want to create a new class of daddy's. There are daddy's and sugar daddy's, senior daddies and fat daddy's. How about "Older than dirt daddy's"? Now that's where I fit in. haha
Love the video. You guys are amazing as always! ❤️
I love hearing you talk about piling stuff on and on to get the life you want. I find it so funny that, that doesn’t drive Blue crazy since he’s so OCD and a control freak. (Love you Blue)
Thanks again for this vídeo guys. Your comments are welcoming, as usual. I miss Crow and his big smile.
Did you get chicken or vulture eggs? LOL!
I keep saying they are vultures!
@@mattandblue Huge fan of u matt
I almost was getting ready to study....... Guess I'll watch this first and then study.
Irish? Mocks?
Delectable crime 🤣😂🤣😂✌️
A quand une démo en live ? 😂
Oh yes indeedy 🍆🍑
The crime is that mustache 😂
Speed Racer nah, it’s cute
Hi guys it's Thursday morning here in the Philippines the long wait is over thanks for posting nice to see you back whaching you makes my day a feel good lots of love miss crow and arlis you guys continue to inspire me to live longer inspite of my heart problems while whaching you my bp is better than ever when ever I had an stable bp just go back to the videos you have posted it's calm me down thanks for everything pls keep posting love you guys hug and kisses to crow Happy to see you again love you always from the Philippines love peace and mabuhay
"Delectable crime" I love it!
Ender Wiggins - Cool username! Loved the movie!
love the music in the end. it matches the theme and the little horsy
I think Blue would be a good/trustworthy Politician. Although you both are strong and caring people, Blue seems to have the right personality to stand-up and use his voice to address political bullies with just the right amount of passion.