That's UCC for ya! I'm an atheist and Unitarian Universalist, and our churches partner with one another all the time because they share such similar values.
Pastor Kelly definitely needs his own spin off show where he discusses things like this. He has such a genuine person and very funny in his own way. Would love to see him star in an episode.
@@pastorkel general life topics. How to approach a conversation that may be difficult with your partner, talk about communication and how people can vary in the way they communicate. Stuff like that
@@morgan2513 my grandparents were married for 55 years. Would have been longer if they hadn't died. My parents have been married for 32 years and still going strong. They started dating when my mom was 19 and my dad 18
I really loved hearing each of their stories. The couple who is, currently, having the most sex, just exuded pure joy - good for them. Congratulations to the newlyweds - best wishes for a long happy life, together. Thank you, to everyone, for participating.
The pastor is very wise man, while all the others are asking very general questions that only hit the surface he asks questions that he can really get a lot out of, like if they have kids, how long they have been together, if they have something that might keep them away from there partners at night (work/kids).
It’s interesting because as a person with sexual trauma it can get pretty difficult to be intimate with my partner, even to the point where we have to wait a month or two if I’m having a hard time. But I’ve also never had a relationship where I’ve felt this accepted and loved, and we’re so happy together! The lack of sexual intimacy can be difficult, but we make time for no sexual touching that helps satisfy our needs for physical love. It’s not the most ideal situation, but just because you’re not having sex every single day or even once a week doesn’t necessarily mean you’re in an unhealthy relationship! Health is about respecting boundaries, wishes / desires, and coming to a middle ground where everyone feels content with the couple . Good for all of these couples anyways for feeling good in their sexual lives, and even being able to acknowledge if they would like less/ more.
I also have a traumatic experience and now I got my first bf (I'm 21 soon) I'm absolutely not confident when it's about sex. Sure it's better than the beginning but I can't do new stuff, I'm too "shy" for this and he always does the work ._. Also I never come to the end (which isn't important for me) but I really would like to know how this is. But also there, I'm pretty scared of it
Absolutely! The idea that you have to be having sex frequently to have a healthy relationship is just wrong. (And as you point out, there's lots of physical intimacy that's not sexual.) And even without trauma, there are people that just have lower sex drives and if both people in the couple feel good about their sex life that's all that matters.
exactly! im on the asexual scale and have a bit of trauma and a condition that makes sex painful most of the time so my partner and i dont do it much, but we still show love and intimacy in other ways. i really appreciated how the pastor said that the importance of sex differs from couple to couple. sex is not the end all, be all that most people think it is
@@lazy-femme yeah I feel the same way, my levels of sexual activity are quite low due to problems with my hormones and past trauma, but my boyfriend is the opposite, which makes it difficult because he wants more and I cannot give more than once a week or less some times... I feel guilty that I cannot give more as he keeps saying that sex is about love, kind of implying that I don't love him... Glad to know there are others who might feel the same way as me
@@imsadlol4528 They’ve been together for some months, there is no way that the ex you live with IN THE SAME ROOM doesn’t know anything about your relationship, doesn’t even sound possible unless is planned that way
@@br6735 Well yes it might be planned, but what if her ex is controlling and abusive and that’s why they broke up? Controlling partners is common unfortunately. Also she could just be a private person
love how open the couple who had the most sex to everyone's surprise how they shared one of the reasons was that they were repressed teenagers or willing to demonstrate; such good sports
I think you should’ve given them boards with the numerical range and so they can match the boards to the couple, like you do the other guessing videos. Would’ve made it easier. But this was really interesting to watch! 😂❤️
That would be easier, but I find it very interesting to see each guesser guess them so wildly different! It shows that we really can't judge how much people are having sex by the way they look, or age, or how long they've been together.
Please stop bringing Ibi on 😭. She is so uncomfortably demanding. Like? Doing all that touchy stuff is intimate behavior, I’m sure many of them feel pressured perhaps especially being on camera. In previous videos she has also shown this behavior, been called out by the person in front of her yet still does it. It’s very weird to watch as a viewer. She needs to learn boundaries.
@@devonmunn5728 Lol, well, I wouldn't even be in a relationship with someone who still lives with their ex. Two major red flags right there, and they barely have sex which is even more sus.
Ibi consistently makes people so uncomfortable, asking them to touch each other on camera as if they were at the zoo. Why does cut keep calling her back? She's insufferable
@@anteerat they literally signed up for a video about guessing who’s in a relationship/ how much sex they’re having. if they didn’t expect for something like that to happen than that’s on them.
@@anteeratSigned up to touch their partner's boob on camera? Don't be ridiculous. That's not in the slightest bit appropriate. They came on the show to answer questions- that's it. They need to get of her. She's not funny and seems to have zero idea about personal boundaries.
Ibi made me lowkey mad, she’s so damn nosy and I know some of the couples were a little uncomfortable with her questions and demands idk if that’s just me but idc if it is
That roommates with ex-boyfriend situation is hella toxic, and I didn't see a huge commitment to getting out of the situation so she can be with her partner fully. Hopefully it works out.
2:34 what is with this girl and watching people touch each other? literally in the siblings or couple lineup she asked almost EVERYONE to touch, despite the fact they might be related.
Pastor Kelly seems like a genuinely nice person. A true Christian - in the best way possible. accepting everybody, being open minded and loving and respecting everybody, because that’s what god would want us to do as well. Everybody, no matter what religion you believe in, what color your skin is, who you love or where you’ve been born, you’re beautiful and loved. ❤️
@@pastorkel there is no fruitful and life giving union out of man-woman becoming one flesh. Anything other is simply destructive. There is a reason why God says so in Romans 1 and my other places. Not to offend people, to preserve their life
As an asexual person, all but the couple on the left sound so frequent!! My partner and I are currently long distance, but when we weren’t, our frequency was probably once a month, since it’s just not something I really need in a relationship. I feel the same amount of connection doing that as i do watching a movie together or having dinner together. But just because we aren’t having sex doesn’t mean we aren’t intimate! Every couple is different; I really liked this video and I’d love to see another with even more of a range (although idk if you could get more frequent than that last couple, that’s truly impressive lol)
what’s funny is that I’m not asexual and have always considered myself to be very sexual but I was surprised how people doing once or twice a week were acting like that was so infrequent and they were lacking. I can’t do more than twice a week! And I’m totally good with twice a month. I can’t even imagine twice a day on the regular. That sounds terrible somehow, like a quick way to turn something exciting into a chore.
@@annie.hi. I completely agree!! I feel like that would get so tiring. Although, I bet they don’t have to go to the gym; they’re getting their workouts in bed, lol
I don't really like the tone of this episode. Judging people because they "only" have sex once of twice a week? If they're happy with that, that's completely fine. Also, me and my boyfriend have less sex than in the beginning of our relationship, but we also have waaaaay better sex when we do. So quality over quantity in my opinion :)
No one was happy with the amount. The all wanted to be having more. That was one of my questions for each person. More, less or the same? They each said more. No judgment on my part. Have it or don't. Just be respectful of one another.
Far too many churches and far too many pastors (and other religious leaders) have done far too much damage for far too long. I could spend my life just accepting people and loving them for who they are and it wouldn’t begin to heal the pain and trauma that’s been done. Saying “I’m sorry” doesn’t even begin to make up for all of it.
The wildest part of this video is that the woman in the Atlanta Braves hat made those converse work perfectly 👌🏾don't know if anybody has seen what those shoes look like by themselves but she definitely came with a drip I didn't think possible
In every single episode I’ve watched recently either she has been grabbing the body of someone on the lineup or she has been insisting that they grab each other even if they make it clear they don’t want to. No boundaries or care for consent!
I wish there were some couples shown with differing libido's. Me and my partner are very different in that regard and it was great in the honey moon phase but it got very tricky after a while because the amount of times went down drastically and neither of us really knew why. But now we're past that, and while sometimes it's difficult, we're generally really happy where we're at 😊
This makes me so happy to hear! I have a similar experience with my partner and it is further compounded by my sexual assault trauma and my partner’s sex anxiety. We’re both anxious beans and I’m his first partner period, let alone sexual partner, let alone kiss. Sometimes the idea of sex can feel heavy, and while we fucked like rabbits in the beginning, their was a point where we began to appreciate other kinds of love and intimacy in a way that put sex on the back burner for when we are ready, floored, and horny as hell. Point being, it’s so wonderful to find that groove and to understand one another, your comforts, your libidos, and other ways of finding intimacy if sex doesn’t float your boat at the moment or feel comfortable.
@@Rain_vii yeah, 100%. Sex needs to be better represented overall, I feel. There's nothing wrong with not having much sex in a pertnership as long as there's proper communication and everyone's happy! We were each other's first kiss, so it was all completely new to both of us too!
Being respectful and accepting is nice and all but at the end of the day you have a choice. Hell or Heaven. And the way you live every day will determine where you end up.
in reality, this video doesn't represent most couples.. idk why society pressures us to feel like we should be having/thinking about sex ALL the time. Life is more than sex. Ibi was way too intrusive tbh..
YES! What was with all the guest interviewers encouraging them to have more? When these couples are pretty much all having probably higher than average
no really though. once a week is completely normal and is not indicative of lack of chemistry or passion. as someone with a lower sex drive due to mental health issues and medication i thought i was broken for a while because i couldn’t understand why everyone around me was talking about having sex every day when it hardly crossed my mind. was i not attracted to my partner? was i asexual? was the spark gone? (no to all of the above!) if your sex drive is high that’s completely okay but i feel like media has perpetuated this idea of hypersexuality being the standard and i think a lot of us who don’t relate to that end up feeling like there’s something wrong with us for not being horny 24/7.
This seems intense. I feel as if we're peeping into somebody's journal that has been originally locked in a safe for decades and now it's completely exposed.
Cut always has the most fucking diverse couples. I live and work in LA, so I'm also in a pretty 'diverse' area. But I'd be hard pressed to go find couples like this
Im dead, the dude in the couple that says they're tired a lot is constantly blinking slow in the background and generally looks like he wants to go take a nap
My guesses are: 1- Once a week✔️ 2- Tree times a week✖️ 3- Everyday✔️ They sayd lately everyday 4- Once i a couple of weeks✖️ Oh crap 5- Two times a week ✔️ Now lets see.
I’m not religious in the slightest but I enjoyed the Pastor a lot. That was a nice twist. He seemed like such a chill guy.
My kids have helped me mellow with age. They (and their partners) are awesome!
@@pastorkel loved seeing u in the vid!!
@@sk8aintstr813 thats so sweet. Thanks.
That's UCC for ya! I'm an atheist and Unitarian Universalist, and our churches partner with one another all the time because they share such similar values.
@@Oddsomehypermusic UMC, but I do love me some UUs
I loved that the pastor asked for a definition of what it was for them. That’s such a LGBT+ friendly way of approaching this topic.
Seems like we could all have different ideas about what sex is really.
Let's stop thinking it's all just a penile penetration.
He was asking a lot of really great questions
Pastor Kelly definitely needs his own spin off show where he discusses things like this. He has such a genuine person and very funny in his own way. Would love to see him star in an episode.
I would so watch the shit out of that!
I loved his joke about having his own show on Sundays. He seems like a fun guy.
Y'all are pretty sweet.
But seriously, what in the world would you want covered in a show?
@@pastorkel general life topics. How to approach a conversation that may be difficult with your partner, talk about communication and how people can vary in the way they communicate. Stuff like that
@@GunsAndOrRosesI love that. I don't really do advice, but I like to help people get to what they already know, but may not be able to trust yet.
11:45
"You should have your own show"
"I mean I kinda do, it's every sunday" 😂
I laughed haha
That one broke me LOL!
I was hoping for a couple with 50 years of experience to tell us what they've been thru
Have you seen divorce rates? Those couples are a rare breed
@@morgan2513 my grandparents were married for 55 years. Would have been longer if they hadn't died. My parents have been married for 32 years and still going strong. They started dating when my mom was 19 and my dad 18
@@kariknutson5907that’s great, but it’s still very rare in general for married couples to last very long
@@kariknutson5907wildest flex probably ever
Omg the woman in the yellow shirt/green hair is hilarious!! I would love to see more of her!
She looks like Bobby Lee!
She is so funny I love her! Must bring her back.
Lmao no she can be super rude in other videos lmao
I loved her energy!
Im in love with her hair
the fact the pastor is wearing a pride pin makes me happy
There's a subgroup in the UMC called the Reconciling Ministries Network. I'd be curious to know if his congregation belongs to that org.
@@Ravenshade_5 yes we are, I am as a pastor.
Too many people showing hate. That's not the Jesus way.
Unbiblical, men loving darkness, rather than light because their deeds are evil
@@djokampungtz2108 shutup
We need MORE of this pastor! I really liked his perspective and demeanor. That was a nice little twist.
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I'm really glad the last guy mentioned medicine as an obstacle factor. It is so common.
The 11 years couple look so sweet. Just their chemistry, their body language, their personalities. Goals.
The top couple is a perfect match. You can tell how they are still so into each other even after 5 years 🥰
I really loved hearing each of their stories. The couple who is, currently, having the most sex, just exuded pure joy - good for them. Congratulations to the newlyweds - best wishes for a long happy life, together. Thank you, to everyone, for participating.
"She gets to penetrate who?"
"Well, who do you think?"
I honestly didn't think I'd hear that from a pastor. I like this guy.
The pastor is very wise man, while all the others are asking very general questions that only hit the surface he asks questions that he can really get a lot out of, like if they have kids, how long they have been together, if they have something that might keep them away from there partners at night (work/kids).
marriage counseling is done by many religious leaders he probably as 15 years experience talking to people about their sex lives
It’s interesting because as a person with sexual trauma it can get pretty difficult to be intimate with my partner, even to the point where we have to wait a month or two if I’m having a hard time. But I’ve also never had a relationship where I’ve felt this accepted and loved, and we’re so happy together! The lack of sexual intimacy can be difficult, but we make time for no sexual touching that helps satisfy our needs for physical love. It’s not the most ideal situation, but just because you’re not having sex every single day or even once a week doesn’t necessarily mean you’re in an unhealthy relationship! Health is about respecting boundaries, wishes / desires, and coming to a middle ground where everyone feels content with the couple . Good for all of these couples anyways for feeling good in their sexual lives, and even being able to acknowledge if they would like less/ more.
Thank you for sharing ❤
I also have a traumatic experience and now I got my first bf (I'm 21 soon)
I'm absolutely not confident when it's about sex. Sure it's better than the beginning but I can't do new stuff, I'm too "shy" for this and he always does the work ._.
Also I never come to the end (which isn't important for me) but I really would like to know how this is. But also there, I'm pretty scared of it
Absolutely! The idea that you have to be having sex frequently to have a healthy relationship is just wrong. (And as you point out, there's lots of physical intimacy that's not sexual.) And even without trauma, there are people that just have lower sex drives and if both people in the couple feel good about their sex life that's all that matters.
exactly! im on the asexual scale and have a bit of trauma and a condition that makes sex painful most of the time so my partner and i dont do it much, but we still show love and intimacy in other ways. i really appreciated how the pastor said that the importance of sex differs from couple to couple. sex is not the end all, be all that most people think it is
@@lazy-femme yeah I feel the same way, my levels of sexual activity are quite low due to problems with my hormones and past trauma, but my boyfriend is the opposite, which makes it difficult because he wants more and I cannot give more than once a week or less some times... I feel guilty that I cannot give more as he keeps saying that sex is about love, kind of implying that I don't love him...
Glad to know there are others who might feel the same way as me
The lady living with her ex in a one bedroom is a walking red flag. And for whatever reason she hasn't told him? Bro needs to get out.
she’s under no obligation to tell her ex anything lmao.
@@imsadlol4528
They’ve been together for some months, there is no way that the ex you live with IN THE SAME ROOM doesn’t know anything about your relationship, doesn’t even sound possible unless is planned that way
i would be so upset if i was her partner
@@br6735 Well yes it might be planned, but what if her ex is controlling and abusive and that’s why they broke up? Controlling partners is common unfortunately. Also she could just be a private person
@@br6735 could be a mainly online relationship. They have only had sex 3x in like 6 months so it could be less physical and more emotional
love how open the couple who had the most sex to everyone's surprise
how they shared one of the reasons was that they were repressed teenagers or willing to demonstrate; such good sports
I think you should’ve given them boards with the numerical range and so they can match the boards to the couple, like you do the other guessing videos. Would’ve made it easier. But this was really interesting to watch! 😂❤️
That would be easier, but I find it very interesting to see each guesser guess them so wildly different! It shows that we really can't judge how much people are having sex by the way they look, or age, or how long they've been together.
Agreeeed
Please stop bringing Ibi on 😭. She is so uncomfortably demanding. Like? Doing all that touchy stuff is intimate behavior, I’m sure many of them feel pressured perhaps especially being on camera. In previous videos she has also shown this behavior, been called out by the person in front of her yet still does it. It’s very weird to watch as a viewer. She needs to learn boundaries.
Yeah I was gonna say that
Someone finally said it, thank you. None of that was okay.
yea she be doing too much
she must be family of one of the producers, why they keep bringing her back i have no idea
@ Cut!!!!!
No hate but Ibi puts too much pressure on the contestants. I've seen this on previous videos as well and it's borderline creepy
The way ol dude was cheesin at the end is hilarious. It's cool that he accepts her whether she's fem or masc. Good for them!
Man Cut really be creative, they be posting anything fr😭😭😭
I feel sorry for the guy who's with the girl still living with her ex...wake up my man.
yea she only has sex with HIM every other month
Right? Like the fact that she ain't telling him about it is just a red flag
@@ryli6073 She didn't even tell her ex, which highly implies she's still having sex with him. The dude ain't that smart.
@@aus-li Either that means they have no shame or he just doesn't know yet
@@devonmunn5728 Lol, well, I wouldn't even be in a relationship with someone who still lives with their ex. Two major red flags right there, and they barely have sex which is even more sus.
That woman bragging about her nightly massages had me cracking up. The couples are all pretty sweet :)
Ibi consistently makes people so uncomfortable, asking them to touch each other on camera as if they were at the zoo. Why does cut keep calling her back? She's insufferable
100000000% agree, I hesitate to watch videos she's in
she’s also very rude
You are so right, she is annoying and creepy.
Completely agree I felt it was so weird I don't like her
if the couples weren’t comfortable with doing what she said then they wouldn’t do it lol
I fucking loved that I guys got a pastor
"pastor"
@@geopoonaniluva4141 on god lol
WITH A PRIDE FLAG! 🥹🤞🏽
Ibi says TMI when it comes to her, but wants to know TMI about others.
literally demaning that people touch eachother in intimate ways,,,, she did it to SIBLINGS too in a diff video.
@@anteerat they literally signed up for a video about guessing who’s in a relationship/ how much sex they’re having. if they didn’t expect for something like that to happen than that’s on them.
it’s almost like the others signed themselves up for what is essentially an interview and she didn’t.
@@anteeratSigned up to touch their partner's boob on camera? Don't be ridiculous. That's not in the slightest bit appropriate. They came on the show to answer questions- that's it. They need to get of her. She's not funny and seems to have zero idea about personal boundaries.
I know I’m
Terrible 🤣
no offence Cut but we've had enough of Ibi, her demands are always super intrusive
she's literally guessing how often the couples have sex this whole show is intrusive
Yeah it’s always so uncomfortable to watch…
True
@@shegotit143 i thought it was just me.
@@og666 there's a difference between asking intrusive questions and getting people to do things to each other on camera
Ibi made me lowkey mad, she’s so damn nosy and I know some of the couples were a little uncomfortable with her questions and demands idk if that’s just me but idc if it is
nah youre right
seriously!! like what is her deal with wanting these people to touch each other in front of her? have some decorum
@@nala6846 thank u ! her makin the couple do some sex positions was really too much, it’s even cut I’m upset with it’s her actions
she did that in a siblings or dating video too
@@p.k-p4t I know exactly which video you talking bout , it’s not even like a hatred I just don’t like Ibi
“Aww hell naww”
That part killed me 🤣🤣🤣
Romeo could have been the star! He was soooo fun!
Ahaha me too
That roommates with ex-boyfriend situation is hella toxic, and I didn't see a huge commitment to getting out of the situation so she can be with her partner fully. Hopefully it works out.
I saw her in another video where she admits to cheating on her partner and they were both made in the same years so… yeah walking red flag.
@@peachiecactus Wow that's crazy lol. Thanks for the addt'l context.
The Pastor is actually a cool dude.
Sometimes I'm just not cool
2:34 what is with this girl and watching people touch each other?
literally in the siblings or couple lineup she asked almost EVERYONE to touch, despite the fact they might be related.
AND she was called out on it and still does this rubbish. She's not even funny so dunno why they keep having her on.
Pastor Kelly seems like a genuinely nice person. A true Christian - in the best way possible. accepting everybody, being open minded and loving and respecting everybody, because that’s what god would want us to do as well. Everybody, no matter what religion you believe in, what color your skin is, who you love or where you’ve been born, you’re beautiful and loved. ❤️
You nailed it. Jesus didn't tolerate hate.
@@pastorkel love rejoices in the truth, its giving you what you need not want you want, nor just accepting everything you do
@@djokampungtz2108 sexuality is a gift from God. If people are mutually consenting adults who respect and care for one another, their union is a gift.
@@pastorkel there is no fruitful and life giving union out of man-woman becoming one flesh. Anything other is simply destructive. There is a reason why God says so in Romans 1 and my other places. Not to offend people, to preserve their life
Paul wrote Romans. God may have inspired him, but his human hang ups are glaring.
I think the couple with the guy who works at Amazon is so sweet. It's so nice to see
The green hair lady is literally the female version of Bobby Lee 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I went to go comment this 😂
Bobby Leeah
bruh i was about to say this!! their energy is the same twinsies
Was thinking that the entire time lmao
I can’t Unsee it now
That last couple made me so happy. Good for them.
As an asexual person, all but the couple on the left sound so frequent!! My partner and I are currently long distance, but when we weren’t, our frequency was probably once a month, since it’s just not something I really need in a relationship. I feel the same amount of connection doing that as i do watching a movie together or having dinner together. But just because we aren’t having sex doesn’t mean we aren’t intimate! Every couple is different; I really liked this video and I’d love to see another with even more of a range (although idk if you could get more frequent than that last couple, that’s truly impressive lol)
what’s funny is that I’m not asexual and have always considered myself to be very sexual but I was surprised how people doing once or twice a week were acting like that was so infrequent and they were lacking. I can’t do more than twice a week! And I’m totally good with twice a month. I can’t even imagine twice a day on the regular. That sounds terrible somehow, like a quick way to turn something exciting into a chore.
@@annie.hi. I completely agree!! I feel like that would get so tiring. Although, I bet they don’t have to go to the gym; they’re getting their workouts in bed, lol
@@Eowyn126 lol, What sport do you do? ..sex
@@Eowyn126 haha true
This pastor is one that I would actually feel comfortable talking with.
Aww, that's so wholesome.
@@pastorkel ❤
@@davinamayor7776 ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
love the pastor he’s so homely and non judgemental. really cool!
Ummm thanks.
Was "homely" really the word you're looking for? "(of a person) unattractive in appearance"
I'll take it though.
@@pastorkel oh wow not to be taken that way pastor kelly. where i’m from a “homely person” means someone who’s warm and has a comforting demeanor.
@@ge0rgeinit all good. My wife laughed so hard.
I was pretty sure it was a compliment. Homely it is!
The way the guy looks at his girl at 7:22 is epic! ❣️
Yesss they are so good together. They get each other and fit so well.
I’d feel so safe with Pastor Kelly. Him asking what sex means for the two women is just such a good question. Plus, the little rainbow pin!
10:04 love that he carries the chair for her
that's bare minimum tbh
The last couple with the most is goals. lol
“You know what _I_ like” 💀
I LOVE THE ASIAN GIRL IN THE YELLOW I FEEL LIKE SHE HAS MY ENERGY AND PERSONALITY AS A FELLOW ASIAN GIRL AND SHES SO FUNNY AND HAS THE BEST COMMENTS
I loved the woman in the yellow shirt! Hope to see more of her!
i love the pastor sooo much, he is so lgbt-friendly
That pastor should do a podcast or something omg, would love to hear more from him.
He kind of has one. Every Sunday 😉
What would you want me to cover?
I don't really like the tone of this episode. Judging people because they "only" have sex once of twice a week? If they're happy with that, that's completely fine. Also, me and my boyfriend have less sex than in the beginning of our relationship, but we also have waaaaay better sex when we do. So quality over quantity in my opinion :)
No one was happy with the amount. The all wanted to be having more. That was one of my questions for each person. More, less or the same? They each said more. No judgment on my part. Have it or don't. Just be respectful of one another.
I completely agree. More doesn’t necessarily seem better to me. Twice a day sounds insane to me! Like a fast way to turn it into a chore.
i really did not expect that couple to be having the most sex
finally a pastor i actually feel safe around and like what he’s saying
Far too many churches and far too many pastors (and other religious leaders) have done far too much damage for far too long.
I could spend my life just accepting people and loving them for who they are and it wouldn’t begin to heal the pain and trauma that’s been done.
Saying “I’m sorry” doesn’t even begin to make up for all of it.
i love the pastor’s little pride pin! so wholesome
I always forget that pastors/priests in other countries can get married and I'm always so confused when they say something about their partner lmao
She’s definitely still smashing the ex 😂
Especially because in another video she did she admits to cheating on him
@@peachiecactus i knew it lol
BRO WHERE DID THE GIRL W UNDER GREEN HAIR GET THOSE PANTS
Kapital lumber pants
@@carywilliams2753 thanks 🙏
@@carywilliams2753 How did you know where she got those pants ?!
The small women in the dress is so cute and the way she laughed in the back, I love her ❤️❤️
loving the pastor’s pin
Makes me feel safe idk why
@@ingelguinder everyone should be safe, not just feel safe.
I love the pastor!! he's the best guy ever
Awww thanks.
the first place couple is soo cute
The wildest part of this video is that the woman in the Atlanta Braves hat made those converse work perfectly 👌🏾don't know if anybody has seen what those shoes look like by themselves but she definitely came with a drip I didn't think possible
can we not have ebie anymore on this show pls
which is ebi
@@rickson50 0:23
Yeah no boundaries there
In every single episode I’ve watched recently either she has been grabbing the body of someone on the lineup or she has been insisting that they grab each other even if they make it clear they don’t want to. No boundaries or care for consent!
Completely agree. She got on my nerves the day she said that being a virgin for long was boring or uncool
I wish there were some couples shown with differing libido's. Me and my partner are very different in that regard and it was great in the honey moon phase but it got very tricky after a while because the amount of times went down drastically and neither of us really knew why. But now we're past that, and while sometimes it's difficult, we're generally really happy where we're at 😊
This makes me so happy to hear! I have a similar experience with my partner and it is further compounded by my sexual assault trauma and my partner’s sex anxiety. We’re both anxious beans and I’m his first partner period, let alone sexual partner, let alone kiss. Sometimes the idea of sex can feel heavy, and while we fucked like rabbits in the beginning, their was a point where we began to appreciate other kinds of love and intimacy in a way that put sex on the back burner for when we are ready, floored, and horny as hell. Point being, it’s so wonderful to find that groove and to understand one another, your comforts, your libidos, and other ways of finding intimacy if sex doesn’t float your boat at the moment or feel comfortable.
@@Rain_vii yeah, 100%. Sex needs to be better represented overall, I feel. There's nothing wrong with not having much sex in a pertnership as long as there's proper communication and everyone's happy! We were each other's first kiss, so it was all completely new to both of us too!
the asian lady is hilarious and loud.
bring her back
WHY WOULD THAT POSITION BE CALLED THERMOMETER hahahahahahah
I appreciate Pastor Kelly's open-mindedness.
Pastor is awesome. To be honest though in the beginning when he talked about having a wife...I was surprised. 😂
The pastor asking what is sex is awesome.
"Who do you think?" OMG
5:53 was a big moment for all 3 involved
It's one thing living with your ex in the same house but sleeping in the same bedroom? Nah.. I'd be sleeping in the couch if that was me.
Or at the new partners house wtf
never thought I'd say it, but I liked the pastor guy so much, first religious person to actually be respectful
💜
Being respectful and accepting is nice and all but at the end of the day you have a choice. Hell or Heaven. And the way you live every day will determine where you end up.
Person in the pink had definitely has TWO partners and "neither one of them knows" LMAO
*pink hat*
Damn, they didn’t have to demonstrate their oral positioning😮
Yeah Ibi is always getting people to be touchy
its weird because the couple in the last position raised their hand the first time about getting their position right but not the other ??
in reality, this video doesn't represent most couples.. idk why society pressures us to feel like we should be having/thinking about sex ALL the time. Life is more than sex. Ibi was way too intrusive tbh..
YES! What was with all the guest interviewers encouraging them to have more? When these couples are pretty much all having probably higher than average
@@SilverLining445 EXACTLY!!! I agree 10000%
Definitely
no really though. once a week is completely normal and is not indicative of lack of chemistry or passion. as someone with a lower sex drive due to mental health issues and medication i thought i was broken for a while because i couldn’t understand why everyone around me was talking about having sex every day when it hardly crossed my mind. was i not attracted to my partner? was i asexual? was the spark gone? (no to all of the above!) if your sex drive is high that’s completely okay but i feel like media has perpetuated this idea of hypersexuality being the standard and i think a lot of us who don’t relate to that end up feeling like there’s something wrong with us for not being horny 24/7.
@@KierstynElyse 100000% this! I'm right there with you. My anxiety medication makes me feel the exact way you felt. Thank you for sharing
the green hair lady is so hot
Id listen to Pastor more often if he was there!
Man heard 5-7 times a day and he was lowkey impressed😂😂
Loved Jackie's energy. We need more of Jackie!
This seems intense. I feel as if we're peeping into somebody's journal that has been originally locked in a safe for decades and now it's completely exposed.
they’re literally just talking about sex. it isn’t that big of a deal
they are the ones that signed up for it
Not her again being a creep at 2:45
Please cut, stop bringing her in videos, she's annoying and creepy how she disrespect people's boundaries.
I need pastor man to expand upon “I also had instructions, from home ahahah”
My wife respects my extroversion and I respect her introversion. We watched together, and she approved.
@@pastorkel Makes sense. Loved your healthy approach to this vid btw, wish all pastors could be as open and accepting!
@@ky4you you and me both.
Cut always has the most fucking diverse couples. I live and work in LA, so I'm also in a pretty 'diverse' area. But I'd be hard pressed to go find couples like this
13:06 is killing me 😂😭😂😭 can’t stop rewinding
When she said “their gait” and did the movement, I knew I was in for a good time
Im dead, the dude in the couple that says they're tired a lot is constantly blinking slow in the background and generally looks like he wants to go take a nap
This video made me so uncomfortable, as a sex repulsed asexual but i can't not watch a currently posted Cut video.
"I live with my ex" WHAT
That second to last couple is soo cute😩
The man who got tired from taking medicine reminded me of the sloth from zootopia
With that thermometer lady she was so happy like "YUS IM NOT THE ONlY ONE"
I say this every time there’s a sex video… but throwing an asexual couple in would be so confusing and funny. Just throw it all off.
Shout out to the twice a day couple breakfast AND dinner? Damn
Girl: We just got married on Monday!”
Guy: Yeah! Oh! (Remembering that he did that) 🤣🤣🤣
pastor going wild 13:06
Everyone were great & the pastor is funny lmaoo
My guesses are:
1- Once a week✔️
2- Tree times a week✖️
3- Everyday✔️ They sayd lately everyday
4- Once i a couple of weeks✖️ Oh crap
5- Two times a week ✔️
Now lets see.
60+/Month .. they said twice a day!! That guy is digging even when the girl on period?? 😢😂❤
or maybe she’s on birth control! it would make sense with the frequency in which they have sex!☺️
the pastor about his wife telling him what to say prior 🤣🤣 very much wife behavior yes
"i gotta go home im chafing" LOL!
Would've been cool to throw a couple in there who has one+ asexual partners!
13:07 perfect cut scream 😭