They just broke up a few months ago after 13 yrs. dahye feelings are valid. There is nothing wrong with her sending him messages. Why would she send them to someone else she has no feelings for complicating the situation. Hopefully as you watch the show you start to understand her more, Selfish she is not. honestly I feel like Dongjin trying to get into a new relationship so soon is just his way of covering up his feelings. If he wanted her to get over him he shouldnt have brought them on this show. She was doing fine on her own.
I agree that her feelings are valid, but I guess it just like a mix of her not trying hard enough to get to know the other guys at all, and her still only really considering getting back together as an option that made us feel like she's not taking the show as seriously, focusing all her energy on Dong Jin. But I agree that she is not selfish, this is natural after a 13 year relationship. However! I don't think Dong Jin is simply trying to get into a relationship just to cover up the way he feels. I'm sure he still has residual feelings for her, but is the point of the show not to meet new people as well? I think he is doing what he should, and that's what I respect about his decision (We're around episode 15 now so we have more context as well) but I'm pretty sure Da Hye was the one who wanted to be on this show, so the producer contacted Dong Jin about appearing.
@@MapleDragonz She absolutely didn't want to get to know anyone else. It was never a thought after a break up a few months ago. Can you honestly say you would be open to that if yall were in that situation? Dongjin in fact brought her own the show sadly. I don't think she should have agreed, she knew she wasn't ready. Can't wait for yall to finish the show so you can learn the full details and updates!
@@kbaelay2125 I’ve never been in a 13 year relationship so I really can’t say for certain, but I do think that everyone deals with breakups differently, and it’s okay however they choose to move on! But yes, we’re nearing the end of the show (reacting takes long but editing longer 😅) so I’m excited to see how this all plays out
i pray for yall's mental health because it just gets worse im not gonna spoil it tho just be prepared 😶
thank you, we're only a few episodes ahead so we will definitely need the blessings hahaha
They just broke up a few months ago after 13 yrs. dahye feelings are valid. There is nothing wrong with her sending him messages. Why would she send them to someone else she has no feelings for complicating the situation. Hopefully as you watch the show you start to understand her more, Selfish she is not. honestly I feel like Dongjin trying to get into a new relationship so soon is just his way of covering up his feelings. If he wanted her to get over him he shouldnt have brought them on this show. She was doing fine on her own.
I agree that her feelings are valid, but I guess it just like a mix of her not trying hard enough to get to know the other guys at all, and her still only really considering getting back together as an option that made us feel like she's not taking the show as seriously, focusing all her energy on Dong Jin. But I agree that she is not selfish, this is natural after a 13 year relationship. However! I don't think Dong Jin is simply trying to get into a relationship just to cover up the way he feels. I'm sure he still has residual feelings for her, but is the point of the show not to meet new people as well? I think he is doing what he should, and that's what I respect about his decision (We're around episode 15 now so we have more context as well) but I'm pretty sure Da Hye was the one who wanted to be on this show, so the producer contacted Dong Jin about appearing.
@@MapleDragonz She absolutely didn't want to get to know anyone else. It was never a thought after a break up a few months ago. Can you honestly say you would be open to that if yall were in that situation? Dongjin in fact brought her own the show sadly. I don't think she should have agreed, she knew she wasn't ready.
Can't wait for yall to finish the show so you can learn the full details and updates!
@@kbaelay2125 I’ve never been in a 13 year relationship so I really can’t say for certain, but I do think that everyone deals with breakups differently, and it’s okay however they choose to move on! But yes, we’re nearing the end of the show (reacting takes long but editing longer 😅) so I’m excited to see how this all plays out