Fighting in Marriage

Fighting in marriage isn’t wrong, but the arguments must be resolved. In this short video, Jimmy Evans tells you how to do it.
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Jimmy Evans is one of America’s leading experts on family and marriage relationships. He is Founder and CEO of MarriageToday™ and co-host of MarriageToday with Jimmy and Karen, the marriage ministry and national award-winning broadcast that airs to millions of homes each week. A popular church and conference speaker, he has also authored a number of books, including Marriage on the Rock, Our Secret Paradise and The Right One.

[@fredcoleman1773]

I enjoy when he speak.please please pray for my marriage to heal.

[@wiseogjc370]

Thank you so much for this. Just yesterday I had an argument with my wife where I raised my voice and she did as well, we just ended up hurting each other with our words. You advice is very helpful.

[@apriladams988]

They speaks so much on what I’m going through me and my husband fought but we always resolved it it didn’t matter how bad it was, but now since has started a 2 month affair his excuse for his actions is oh we fight to much, I’m not happy, oh I want to move on with my life and with the other person. I do believe god can heal my marriage, the devil is after my family and he has a tight hold on my husband

[@junehoward3923]

BUT I’M NOT PERFECT! I absolutely hate that justification excuse!!!! They aren’t listening to understand! They are defending their behavior!You can’t change what you don’t acknowledge!!!

[@janiewirth4023]

June howard ....I found it very difficult to admit that I had a problem to my husband because he would drag me through the Mudd afterwards. So why open up. Certainly nothing to look forward to such as forgiveness and understanding.

[@agape1cordova805]

Well, nobody is. He's truthful LOL

[@cherham491]

I love this guy! This ministry is Awesome! I tell everyone about you guys because it has been a source of great understanding, for me and my spouse. Amazing Grace is upon us all! Thank you Jimmy and Karen for spreading real gospel!

[@1Sun111]

I always tried to be the best version of myself far away from seeing myself being perfect;
so far I didn´t succeed despite all efforts- I have been hurt so many times by being a good wife.

[@anvil777]

We love your ministry and your messages! Thank you.

[@tamibrodbeck4851]

Well, Jimmy, you've hit another one, right out of the park!!!!!!!!!!! You have so much wisdom... but it's hard to apply all this great wisdom and calm response, when you're in the throws of fighting!! Guess it just shouldn't get that far in the first place... :) Not THAT would be progress!!

[@kimsavage7029]

I love the role play you did here to actually give us a demonstration of how to resolve conflict, but what about when your spouse doesn't react properly, when they refuse to see that they did anything wrong? Then what? I know as a Christ follower, you forgive anyway, but its really hard to be loving towards someone you feel doesn't respect and or honor you.

[@knowledge5106_]

Kim Savage I've been there. It's very hard.

[@shereennoever927]

Love your preaching..GOD BLESS YOU,karen and your ministries

[@danieldempsey3629]

Sure do appreciate you Pastor Jimmy. My spouse and and have been married for 20 years thanks to your ministry from when you were here at Trinity Fellowship. I wouldn't be married if I hadn't heard you at Trinity fellowship over 20 years ago. Thank you.

[@ibleblack]

Jimmy is a great guy who by the grace of God and his spirit found it all out and I ready to teach us how to love your spouse I recommend everyone who has relationship problems to watch his ministries because they truly are God given and it will save you allot of time pain and suffering and ofcourse your marriage/relationship. God bless you Jimmy

[@margaretlindsay3841]

Wise words.......

[@trevormawaka376]

Am blessed to find this

[@XOMarriage]

Thank you so much, Trevor! Feel free to subscribe to stay plugged in. You may also visit xomarriage.com!

[@fookoff1193]

Sir..tell us how to love unconditionally .. permanently..n with full passion and..one-sided love

[@asiangirlmob]

What if they don’t care how you feel and they don’t want to listen? What if they don’t love you at all?

[@brianwoo8620]

Sis, love is a choice.

[@sebastianmeadows3005]

There's two things that are contagious. Laughter and kindness. When you react fearfully towards a partner, and react defensively most of the time, you can shame and guilt your partner into devaluing you so that they don't have to feel bad. They will convince themselves that they don't love you so they don't have to feel the hurt. Thats narcissism. But if you stay in a relationship with a person like this, the only way to turn it into something else is to be kind, patient, and keep your heart open in the face of fear. Lest you also develop an air of resentment. Which will show much more than you realize or think it does. And this will ignite anger, and self righteous pride. They will feel insulted, and do more put downs, more bating you into conflict, more taunting. They will want to break you of that. But it will make it worse, until you feel desperate for air that you can't seem to breate, and feel trapped into a corner by them. With no place to go but against. And this is when things become toxic. You have to learn how to become fun while fearful.

[@fookoff1193]

Hey jimmy please help me..😭
I have lost my love..n i m going through a very difficult time..and i m having many negative thoughts

[@kimsavage7029]

Aryan Kaundal praying for you right now, that you will feel God's presence in your life, surrender your thoughts and feelings to Him. God, I ask you to help Aryan find their identity in You, do miracles in their life right now, let them feel Your love and light like never before, in such a way, that it transforms everything from this day forward. In Jesus's Name, amen.

[@fookoff1193]

Kim Savage -thank you😭

[@mogenerosity1750]

Go back and find it. begin to do things you did when you met her first.

[@lisabug75]

I have tried this and my Husband still don't speak.
Drives me nuts but he will complain about the house.🤦🤷😱🙄😒

[@mogenerosity1750]

Have you fasted and prayed

[@CornerTalker]

big fight today - maybe I was right and handled it very poorly....

[@vintechwaterproofingnairobi.]

The only relationship advise i trust is from a man who references the Bible .Am currently dating and I'll use your advise till marriage .

[@robinlynn898]

What if you know their lying and just wont admit it?

[@mogenerosity1750]

Pray for the spirit of truth. Ask Jesus for it, fast if you have to. Fight FOR YOUR SPOUSE IN PRAYER, the enemy wants him

[@jorgillo86]

You married a karen! I’ll pray for you 🤣

[@robertwilkins7905]

Your hand sign baphamat horns

[@Onalenna_Thobega]

Robert Wilkins guys most people speak using hands. Stop looking for things that aren’t there 🙄.