CHIT CHAT GRWM: Being Single, Healing, Life Advice | Marie Jay

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  • @cindya6927
    @cindya6927 2 года назад +128

    Honestly it's been a breath of fresh air how you've handled your recent life changes! Setting boundaries is so important when your personal life overlaps with your professional life. People who want the best for you will understand that. You have handled things with so much grace and optimism it has given me a new appreciation for you. Wishing you so much love and success

    • @Kyraann.
      @Kyraann. 2 года назад +1

      I agree ⬆️ 100%!!

    • @crystaljones1747
      @crystaljones1747 Год назад

      🎯……Sabrina definitely nailed this transition optimistically and discreetly while still being open enough to share her life’s ebbs and flows authentically…We’re ALL better for it because it reminds of Us that this Life still moves forward so we need to hop on that train 🚂 🚊 and continue explore these new chapters of possibilities and experiences … Whoever or whatever that should be there will be there and if not, thank them for their chapter in your life, good or bad 💯 🤎🤩😎😉🙌🏽

  • @missalexarey
    @missalexarey 2 года назад +89

    Not sure if you’ll see this but my relationship ended around the same time you posted that update video and we were planning to get married as well. Seeing it really gave me hope that I’d be ok, regardless of what happens down the line. I thank you for sharing it because it really was hard on me to the point where my mental health suffered for a bit. And I’m thankful to say I’m doing wayyy better.
    I’m so happy to see you flourishing and living life btw! Thank you for sharing your life (in any capacity) with us. Your content is so enjoyable ! Sending you love beautiful ! 💕💕💕

    • @mariejay
      @mariejay  2 года назад +46

      You WILL be okay. Ending a relationship is almost never easy but time really does heal all. Those emotional days may come but they’ll also go and they’ll get easier each time. Chin up always mama! 🤍

  • @WillaMorton
    @WillaMorton 2 года назад +74

    As I’ve gotten older, I’ve shared less and less…one of the main ones being relationships. Although people for the most part mean well, we can all agree that no one wants to talk about a relationship that’s ended. It’s like why even ask?! Platform or not, you’re not obligated to share. As you said, it’s a privilege to get what we get. 👈🏾👈🏾👈🏾
    That aside, I’ve always loved your content. It’s drama-free, comforting, and aesthetically pleasing. ❤️❤️❤️
    Team me season, lol!

    • @danidee3663
      @danidee3663 2 года назад

      Very very wise words ❤️

    • @oliviachavez7011
      @oliviachavez7011 2 года назад

      I agree very well said🙌😉

    • @mariejay
      @mariejay  2 года назад +4

      Wow that parttttt. *snaps and claps* I feel ya girl! And thank you so much for the encouragement. Always appreciated ❤️❤️

  • @BriannaSimonexo
    @BriannaSimonexo 2 года назад +15

    You continue to be my favorite because your energy is so friendly, honest and true to self and I LOVE that. “You are not for everybody.” Yes MA’AM, SAY THAT!!

  • @angiemedina9097
    @angiemedina9097 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing! All in all I’m so glad your healing, relationship aside because I know how hard that can be. But health wise as well, with the implant removal and then your stomach issues. That was a lot all at once thank God for your amazing family! Sometimes I don’t think we realize how blessed we are to have such a great support system behind us. Praying for complete healing in all areas of your life! And here’s to 300,000 speaking it into existence! 🥂🙏🏼❤️

  • @michellefambrough423
    @michellefambrough423 2 года назад +5

    Sharing any part of your personal life on social media I'm sure can be hard especially when people expect more than they should. But it's your life you choose what is comfortable for you to share. I for one admire the grace you show while moving forward. Explaining yourself is not neccessary again it's your life. You have the right to choose not to share. I love your vlogs your sincerity is golden. God bless. ❤🙏🏻

  • @carolynj6144
    @carolynj6144 2 года назад +1

    I love that you are setting and respecting your personal boundaries about not going into certain details with your personal life. I do want to say that you have inspired me with how you have continued to move through life gracefully after your breakup. I’m 27 years old and I was in a long term relationship that I felt trapped in. He had become abusive but also wanted to get married and start a family. I didn’t feel like I had the strength to leave and I felt pressured because I thought “I’m already 27 this is the age where I should start thinking about marriage and family.” I finally found the strength to leave, and although a lot of things contributed to my decision, you were one of the inspirations that I had because I saw that you were still a strong woman after your breakup. I am not at all implying that you were in a similar unhealthy relationship to me, but it’s nice to see a woman who is choosing to love herself and not feed into the pressure that society puts on us to be validated by a man. The one thing I’ve learned after that relationship is that I would much rather be alone and happy, than to be with a man who is controlling me and making me miserable.

  • @glendahernandez9076
    @glendahernandez9076 2 года назад +14

    🤩Okay Sabrina you look absolutely stunning in this dress 😍👌🏼 your makeup looks beautiful but your skin is everything 👏🏼 I love how positive you’ve been no matter what comes at you😌

  • @janetmolina1502
    @janetmolina1502 2 года назад

    I’m so happy you’re back!! You’re so inspiring and you deserve the best in this world ❤️ Good luck and keep smiling ☺️ you do you!

  • @ItsYaGurlCheryl
    @ItsYaGurlCheryl 2 года назад +3

    This is such a gorgeous look. Glad you are in great spirits 🖤

  • @mariamodamwen3247
    @mariamodamwen3247 2 года назад +1

    People will ask just to ask to see what they can get out of you. Good for you for standing your ground and keeping certain things private and to yourself. Also thanks for sharing about the plastic surgery. I've been going back and forth about it. We are similar body type. Just now at 33 am I learning to just love the body God gave me. Blessings!

  • @laurenphillips2785
    @laurenphillips2785 2 года назад +2

    I love Zara fragrances too! And thank you for being so open and honest, always love your videos!

  • @SymphonyTaylor
    @SymphonyTaylor 2 года назад +3

    I’ve notice lately in your videos and ig stories you’ve been more energetic and more happier! And the whole look in this video looks amazing ! 😍💗

  • @almetrabriggs4019
    @almetrabriggs4019 2 года назад +2

    Hi!! Great video and wonderful chat! Great life advice for anyone really listening: “You are not for everyone!” Definitely a great quote!💚

  • @Nikkix209
    @Nikkix209 2 года назад

    I love the whole video set up it's a vibeeee! 😍

  • @cheyblanco7353
    @cheyblanco7353 Год назад

    Hi Marie, I recently came across your videos and I am loving your content! Thanks for the growth recommendations they are very well thought through.

  • @betna23
    @betna23 2 года назад

    Looks like you just hit your 300k congrats girl, time to reset that goal!!!! 🤩🥳

  • @marianunez-andrade5540
    @marianunez-andrade5540 2 года назад +1

    ❤️ Your videos! Never miss one

  • @nranderson778
    @nranderson778 2 года назад +1

    Congratulations on 300k!

  • @vonnab185
    @vonnab185 2 года назад

    I love you and your videos! Keep up the good work. Blessings to you as always. Thanks for always giving us good content and good vibes!!!💕💕💕💕💕💕🙏🏽🥰💕🎉

  • @yessiejay
    @yessiejay 2 года назад +4

    10/10 wow girl! I’m happy for you. I love your videos. You are so inspiring. You are beautiful. We are 2 years apart and we both have some similarities on how we handle stuff . #grownwoman you should do more chit chat get ready videos I’m all in. I was actually thinking of saving this video ans watch it this weekend and get ready myself to go to a party also but I couldn’t wait. Lol. But keep doing you girl. Sky is the limit!!! 🥰🤍

  • @ashlynnmank1344
    @ashlynnmank1344 2 года назад +10

    Thank you for all that you decide to share. The transparency makes you relatable. Are you a woman of faith? Can you speak on your spiritual connection?

  • @breonnawalker7704
    @breonnawalker7704 2 года назад +8

    Thank you for your tasteful transparency. I’m a firm believer everything happens the way it happens for a reason, and it’s how we overcome what life throws at us that show us who we are. Wishing you the best 💜 btw quality is amazing

  • @CB-ov6ds
    @CB-ov6ds 2 года назад +2

    Beautiful look!! You have amazing personality. I really enjoy your vibe and appreciate your videos.

    • @mariejay
      @mariejay  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much!!

  • @evelynenoire
    @evelynenoire 2 года назад

    So stunning! That perfume sounds so nice 😊

  • @idriselbaswashcloth1904
    @idriselbaswashcloth1904 2 года назад

    Girl I’m just passing through and although I’m newly married I also know I have options to always put myself first always.

  • @meredithbohinski2093
    @meredithbohinski2093 2 года назад

    Omg, you look spectacular! Hope you had a great time!

  • @divadesle
    @divadesle 2 года назад +2

    Sabrina, you need to do a hair video! How is your hair so healthy and beautiful. What are your secrets??? 🤗💖

  • @mama2boys_
    @mama2boys_ 2 года назад +1

    The kids topic reminds me of Being Mary Jane. LOVEEEE THE SHOW

  • @maribeldlr3
    @maribeldlr3 2 года назад

    Always love love love any and all of your videos!!!! And you looked soooooo beautiful with your hair flowing!

  • @Finallydoingthework
    @Finallydoingthework 2 года назад

    I love you. And yes to boundaries, we love that over here

  • @lizzysanchez3
    @lizzysanchez3 2 года назад +2

    So pretty like always!🤩🥰💖

  • @christina2531
    @christina2531 2 года назад

    Gorgeous 😍 Great vlog!

  • @jna4152
    @jna4152 2 года назад

    you look sooo pretty!

  • @cubanjewlzz
    @cubanjewlzz 2 года назад

    300K let’s get it 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @ericaluna01
    @ericaluna01 2 года назад +1

    You shared a lot about your previous break up so we need to respect your boundaries. You don’t have to share everything! Some things should stay private. It took me 1 year to start to feel better after my divorce. It was very toxic so maybe that’s why it took me so long. Now I love being alone! Just me and my son ☺️I’m thinking about starting to straighten my hair. I like the way your hair looks!

  • @sportsimist125
    @sportsimist125 2 года назад +16

    I don't think people are necessarily saying it's "the end of the world" because they are asking you relationship questions that have to do with being lonely. I think people look up to you, and the ones that have been here for awhile have seen you through two long term relationships, so respect your response. I was one of the folks who asked you a similar question, and you are so blessed to live near family when you are going through life changes. We all don't have that luxury. Thank you for your response and this video! Hope you continue to stay private about your actual relationship. Xoxo!

    • @mariejay
      @mariejay  2 года назад +5

      Of course! I definitely mentioned that I know some are just asking from a genuine place 🤍 it’s such a blessing to have my family so close now and I’ll never take it for granted! And thank you for sticking around through it all 🙏🏽

  • @leathompson2155
    @leathompson2155 2 года назад +2

    You look so beautiful MJ💕

  • @mariegarcia8714
    @mariegarcia8714 2 года назад

    Hair tutorial please!!!so pretty

  • @gabyramirez1082
    @gabyramirez1082 2 года назад +4

    Notification squad 💕

  • @chopperr_
    @chopperr_ 2 года назад +1

    Love your Videos ❤️🥰

  • @DJSteenie
    @DJSteenie 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for adding that “talk to people” part. Because I am finally trying to get back into the dating pool, but I will go to the bar, and sit on my phone lol

    • @mariejay
      @mariejay  2 года назад +3

      Hahah yes I do this sometimes too. It's just more comfortable but sometimes we have to stop ourselves and really try to take in the environment!

  • @MargaritaGonzalez-nt3gy
    @MargaritaGonzalez-nt3gy 2 года назад

    Great video. 😍 you look beautiful. That was great advice about you are not for everybody .

  • @carmenfalette5942
    @carmenfalette5942 2 года назад +1

    Your stunning!

  • @adairisromero5708
    @adairisromero5708 2 года назад +2

    You look beautiful!!!

  • @danidee3663
    @danidee3663 2 года назад +16

    Folks are just nosey…periodt! I don’t watch any influencers to know anything about their personal relationships, honestly, I prefer not to know. I like the actual content as in makeup, home decor, fashion, beauty, etc. If you choose to share, fine, but no one is entitled to know anything. Keep shining mama! ❤️

    • @mariejay
      @mariejay  2 года назад

      I love this - thank you mama! 🤍

    • @Aqm917
      @Aqm917 2 года назад

      Seriously!

  • @oliviachavez7011
    @oliviachavez7011 2 года назад +4

    Everyone goes through things in life ups & downs,only God knows details & why things happen it's not for everyone to know,you explained it all very well. Live,Learn,Pray & Grow🙏❤🤗

  • @gabaegabae3378
    @gabaegabae3378 2 года назад +4

    You’re soo freaking beautiful 💓

  • @keepingupwithcam_
    @keepingupwithcam_ 2 года назад

    I took my nexplanon birth control out this year and OH EM GHEEEE the change emotionally, acne wise and appetite is totally different.

  • @alia0789
    @alia0789 2 года назад +1

    Soooo beautiful Sabrina!! You definitely have the effortless bombshell look going 👌🏽👌🏽♥️♥️🔥

  • @teneshiadavis6039
    @teneshiadavis6039 2 года назад +3

    You look absolutely gorgeous. Luv how ur so down to 🌎 earth.

    • @mariejay
      @mariejay  2 года назад

      Thank you so much!!

  • @tiffanytrowers1117
    @tiffanytrowers1117 2 года назад

    Thanks for sharing. Appreciate it

  • @andreacruz663
    @andreacruz663 2 года назад +1

    So pretty love this look on you.❤️

    • @mariejay
      @mariejay  2 года назад

      Thank you so much!! 🤍

  • @goldengirl44105
    @goldengirl44105 2 года назад +1

    Absolutely beautiful 😍

  • @nicolem.5141
    @nicolem.5141 2 года назад

    Fabulous makeup. Can you share what brush you use to put your foundation on. I use a sponge but I'd like to give a brush a try. I hate trying to get my sponge clean. A brush would be so much easier.

  • @maribelmarmol496
    @maribelmarmol496 2 года назад +1

    Gorgeous and always classy 😘😘

  • @Autumn-Rain
    @Autumn-Rain 2 года назад +2

    Beautiful.

  • @irahisnieto5656
    @irahisnieto5656 2 года назад +1

    What foundation brush are you using ?? I been searching for a brush that lays makeup with out so many streaks

  • @kiddzzkaterering9267
    @kiddzzkaterering9267 2 года назад

    Hi Sabrina🌹 I really enjoy when you apply makeup. I love nude make up too. What's your make up remover regime and have you done a vlog on it? Susette 🌺

  • @rgonzalez8928
    @rgonzalez8928 2 года назад +1

    I love you Sabrina I really do.. so I pray you don’t take this the wrong way😔 I can honestly say that I’m happy you’re single again!!! I feel like you weren’t you when were with fiancé # 1 & # 2 … they weren’t a perfect match for you which is why things happen. With fiancé # 2 it looked like you both wanted it to be the perfect love story “we found our way back” etc type of thing.. which was cute but he seemed more serious, reserved and you aren’t like that 🚩 He is a great person the coach but girl take some time to yourself.. stay single don’t jump Into another relationship and get engaged 🤦🏽‍♀️ Stay single travel with your girlfriends… shoot even alone travel !!!! Move out of state like you wanted !!! Do what YOU WANT AND LOVE .. be freeeee!!!! We love you we won’t ever judge you we just want you to be happy like genuinely happy not “happy” for RUclips or Instagram but in your real personal life💜 - Please don’t delete my comment or take it in a wrong way I probably don’t know how to word things but it’s coming from a good place !!! Been rocking with you since you were selling shoes you are amazing and inspiration literally.

  • @deniseowens4543
    @deniseowens4543 2 года назад +1

    Hi you look absolutely beautiful make up perfect hair perfect smile perfect . Enjoy your evening. Blessings

    • @mariejay
      @mariejay  2 года назад

      Thank you so much 🤗

  • @eunicevillarreal5534
    @eunicevillarreal5534 2 года назад

    Love your nails ! What color are your nails

  • @gabaegabae3378
    @gabaegabae3378 2 года назад +1

    💓💓💓

  • @monsesantiago7136
    @monsesantiago7136 2 года назад

    I had the same birth control as you! 😀
    I took it out because I wasn’t getting a period, did you get one??
    Great video btw! Love watching you

  • @Cynthiaamour
    @Cynthiaamour 2 года назад +4

    I can’t believe someone said why didn’t you tell us why 😩 so rude!! Lol

  • @EasternEuropeGirl
    @EasternEuropeGirl 2 года назад

    Beautiful

  • @EssenceAlexis
    @EssenceAlexis 2 года назад

    You look stunning! That’s all I came to say. Okay back to the last 5 min of the vid. before my baby wakes up 🥵😍

    • @mariejay
      @mariejay  2 года назад

      thank you! 😂❤️

  • @christinacherrybellachanne2316
    @christinacherrybellachanne2316 2 года назад

    Just beautiful look thx you for sharing sweetheart ❤️💚❤️

  • @DanaNichole
    @DanaNichole 2 года назад

    ❤️❤️

  • @AllThingzHandbagsNmakeup
    @AllThingzHandbagsNmakeup 2 года назад

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @nma22
    @nma22 2 года назад +5

    Never vent to your coworkers lol

  • @vikkild2243
    @vikkild2243 2 года назад

    Hey girl👋🏾

  • @elenitsaantos2394
    @elenitsaantos2394 2 года назад +1

    What color is your eyebrow pencil from Anastasia?

    • @mariejay
      @mariejay  2 года назад +1

      I usually use medium brown in ABH but the one I used in this video is from Makeup Forever

  • @dreenaweena3938
    @dreenaweena3938 2 года назад

    I feel so much better without my Nexplanon implant. The mood swings and everything was horrible. I got nerve damage from where the implant was at 😭

  • @_nenigirl
    @_nenigirl 2 года назад

    Yezzzzz

  • @miraclexoxo4774
    @miraclexoxo4774 2 года назад

    U look beautiful

  • @daniellematt7604
    @daniellematt7604 2 года назад +1

    How do you keep your hair so straight? Please respond 😭 my hair is very curly just like yours I live in Texas and my hair won’t stay straight

    • @mariejay
      @mariejay  2 года назад

      I think it's just the texture and thickness of my hair honestly. I don't really do anything specific or add certain products

  • @lesliesilverzweig7584
    @lesliesilverzweig7584 2 года назад

    Hi! Quick question.. we have the same dining table and I was wondering what you put on yours? I've tried a bunch of things that just dont make me happy! Your taste is impeccable please help a sis out🖤 Thank you!

    • @mariejay
      @mariejay  2 года назад +1

      Honestly I'm always changing what's on there lol. I can't seem to find the perfect centerpiece. Right now I have a candle on there but I'm going to switch it soon to some greenery or florals

    • @lesliesilverzweig7584
      @lesliesilverzweig7584 2 года назад

      @@mariejay ok I'll wait and see what you do next! It's hard to find the right size vase for our table for me also when I bring my fresh flowers home🖤 Thank you!

  • @marycastrobrown2795
    @marycastrobrown2795 2 года назад

    When it involves 2 persons in a break up ; it is best to respectfully not have any public comments

  • @ejerikahunter0105
    @ejerikahunter0105 2 года назад +1

    This comment has absolutely nothing to do with the video lol but how do you make your thumbnails? They are always so nice and clean and girl I need some help! You are stunning as always 🤌🏾

    • @mariejay
      @mariejay  2 года назад +1

      Haha thank you! I use a website called PicMonkey ✨

  • @adairisromero5708
    @adairisromero5708 2 года назад +1

    Am I the first one here!?

  • @yamrajji2569
    @yamrajji2569 2 года назад

    Hi, there

  • @kita3256
    @kita3256 2 года назад +9

    Girls you don’t age. How? Been here for years and years (different accounts) but at least 6 years. I think more. And you don’t age at all!

    • @mariejay
      @mariejay  2 года назад +1

      Wow such a COMPLIMENT lol thank you! 🤍

  • @Aqm917
    @Aqm917 2 года назад

    As I told you before Sabrina, you are not in no way shape or form obligated to share anything pertaining to your relationships period! People just want to be nosy , I feel like when someone ask it's invasive. If you decide to share that's on your own term, your channel was never about relationship to begin with and I don't Know why people feel the need to pry, Nosy asses! Continue to be gracious and fabulous as you are, love and light to you on your journey and healing.

  • @SuzyKim84
    @SuzyKim84 2 года назад +2

    That’s such a weird thing for ppl to demand an explanation. No matter how long they’ve been subbed or how hard of a fan, they are still strangers. If u do NOT know someone IRL for some time, they’re acquaintances at most! Imagine even ur regular cashier demanding to know ur personal details?! That’s odd! Y’all need to stop… there’s a fine line where that behavior becomes criminal.

  • @inira7418
    @inira7418 2 года назад

    Each day women are more beautiful than ever, I'm from another generation were we didn't give such importante to looks, but I really appreciate that self care it's important. But don't forget to do it to yourselves, you don't need that kind of validation from no one. On other hand I see dating life being harder and harder, man no longer value beauty, you see it's everywhere. Today they got anoyed by a bit of celulite, while in times of my mother and previous generations women don't even shaved their legs and man didn't loosed attraction even after years of marriage. Also there happening another problem, man are loosing testosterone because of excess of pornografic content in internet, they need higher and higher doses of dopamine, it means a regular beautifully women won't be enough to fulfill them. We are facing modern problems related to advance of our society and that are isolating us from each other as a species.

  • @deeluther4060
    @deeluther4060 2 года назад +1

    🌹Great Vlog Video As Always🌹
    🥰Lovely Thumbnail Tho🥰
    💋U Definitely Slay This Look💋
    Your Beyond Beautiful you are
    Makeup always on Point
    😻😻Pretty Ass Earrings😍😍
    💟💟🥰Cute Dress🥰🖤🖤
    Have a Wonderful night Too
    Happy Fabulous Weekend ahead
    😇Stay Bless n Be safe always😇

  • @tasharawarbington
    @tasharawarbington 2 года назад

    You look beautiful!!

  • @simplybanks5780
    @simplybanks5780 2 года назад

    ❤️❤️

  • @dreenaweena3938
    @dreenaweena3938 2 года назад

    I feel so much better without my Nexplanon implant. The mood swings and everything was horrible. I got nerve damage from where the implant was at 😭

    • @mariejay
      @mariejay  2 года назад +1

      The first week was a little intense. My hormones were a mess 🥴

    • @dreenaweena3938
      @dreenaweena3938 2 года назад

      @@mariejay do you have any advice on moving into a apartment? idk which step to take first or what I need to qualify for. Hopefully soon you can go a vid on it ? 😊