Im sitting here taking notes lmao. Trust can suck a dick, give me facts. Nothing builds trust more than the paternity test saying the kid is yours. Her saying so i mean, I've seen women lie their ass off, to me and with me and 3rd party. I think wanting to feel secure. because you dont wanna sink years into a whore isnt wrong.
Logically it’s not possible to trust anyone. If people have the free will to choose something one day then change their mind the next day, the only thing I can trust is peoples inability to stay disciplined.
Jeremiah 17:9 The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it? Romans 7:21-25, 8:1-2 So I find this law at work: Although I want to do good, evil is right there with me. For in my inner being I delight in God’s law; but I see another law at work in me, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within me. What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is subject to death? Thanks be to God, who delivers me through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, I myself in my mind am a slave to God’s law, but in my sinful nature a slave to the law of sin. Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you free from the law of sin and death.
Yes, you are right it is insecure thinking. For without trust no relationship of any kind can be built. However to make it secure, what we can do is this: Isaiah 26:4 Trust in the LORD forever, for the LORD GOD is an everlasting rock.
@@brendanbudniak2261 You are right it is possible to give trust to anyone depending on the person’s tolerances. What it should say is “unwise”. But then how else can we live? Luke 10:25-37 You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself.
Fortunately don’t have this issue at all. Trust my husband 💯 and he does me - our strength together is our trust. It’s the foundation of the relationship. 25 yr marriage so far so good 🎉..
Its different for a man. Him cheating on you doesnt matter in the same severity. Im sorry for the douvke standard but at worst you just are fucking up in the relationship. Hes still paying for the house and the car, you know the kids are still yours. Im loyal to a fault but i dont want to accidentilly invest years into a whore. Its a waste of love.
@@ChaseGohunnidexactly what I just said.. can you read? He gave an example of what some people do but did not offer a solution on how to fix that type of behavior.
Mannn I needed this I’ve been dating this girl and stuff happened at the beginning and I forgave her not cheating but just weird shit online feels like things have changed honestly but still this thing inside me that just doesn’t trust her fully
The only way to over come this to trust god that he would not let you down, or be with someone who cheats ❤, i was super jealous until i started trusting god and never felt that way again
@@buzz934 remember you have no control of how someone act, speaks or etc toward you, it because they wanted to do that, so if you caught them cheat, just let them go, ask yourself is it worth thinking about, absolutely not, so why should you be bothered, they cheated because, they're cheap easy going and don't respect themselves.
I experienced something similar, lol Sadia psychology lady psychologist now is spreading world about how normal it is to create "controlling" rituals to sooth the anxiety of the other person who has a traust issues. It is called check in rituals where your partner calls you certain times. Let's say breakfast, lunch, dinner.
That paradigm never ends tho cuz what if she's operating on the mindset of a specific moral wall that stops her at that point and she says "nope, those are his condoms and if i use those, that's messed up, so you gotta bring your own"
That does sound like somewhat of a good idea but if you feel the need to do that with your partner that you don’t trust why are you with that person in the first place
Cuz you dont wanna be alone. Dudes have to conpromise or youd have like 75% incels. I would have 0 relationships experience if i didnt make a consession here and there. Pretty sure there arent women who dont see a dude who has never been with a woman in any form whatsoever as worse than someone whose been in a few bad relationships. Its not like dudes who rather shes a virgin.
Don't get trust confused with expectations, and stop holding new partners accountable for past bad experiences while looking for the same preferences 😂
My scenario was my girlfriend was in a band obviously with guy band members and a lot of her guy friends were guys she met from the music industry. After we broke up she wanted to rebuild the relationship starting as friends again but I can’t see us hanging out without sleeping with eachother and it happened even when we started as friends am I better off leaving because of guy friends or is it justified since they are all in the industry with her .
@@NaNa-re3wc I don't give a damn what anyone thinks about it. I have extremely valuable firearms stored in my home and many other things that are very valuable. So yeah, I don't give two shits what she or anyone else thinks. She is free to leave at any time.
I’m sure a lot of women would say the same about men. Either way, if you’re projecting your finite experiences onto an entire gender… you have some healing to do and some empathy to acquire.
It’s only crazy if you persist with that mindset AND expect a different outcome in any of your relationships with women. We’ve all been hurt. I just found out my husband who was also my very best friend of ten years, my everything, has been cheating on me for over 8 months. I am a homeschooling stay at home mom to our two young boys, I put full trust into him, and he’s betrayed it. But I decided I need to forgive for my own well being, because I want health and happiness. We can’t always trust others, but we can trust in our ability to survive it, learn from it, and hopefully never miss the same signs again. Sorry for being long-winded, I just hope someone reads this and realizes that we all hurt, and we all can get better and do better.
The solution to the human problem is NOT within yourself. "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28) Man is a sinner, and sinners need the redeeming grace of God. ALL the problems in the world, involving humanity, are cause by sin. YOUR sin causes YOUR problems with yourself and others. Sin is what sinners do. In order to not sin, you MUST be changed from a sinner to a saint. This happens through Jesus Christ, who died on the cross and resurrected three days later, and promises that "Whoever believes in me and Him who sent me HAS eternal life. He does NOT come into judgement. . ." (John 5:24) Then, once you are born again into the family of God and are a child of the Heavenly Father, you will receive the Holy Spirit. HE will produce in you "love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, goodness, faithfulness, and self control." (Galatians 5:22-23) Pursue the Lord, your Maker, and HIS Kingdom and righteousness. Jesus promises that everything else, which this internet guru tries to SELL you, WILL be given to you from the Father (Matthew 6:33). If you will not repent and follow Jesus in all He says, the Bible says there is NO peace for the wicked, and ONLY the judgement of Hell remains.
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Maybe you could wear some goddamn pants without holes in them
i should trust you?
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Hello how are you doing
Wish I could afford to have a life/marriage coach
I do have to say that while it is completely ridiculous to do that, that's a pretty big brain strategy lol
Lol I’m saying
Im sitting here taking notes lmao. Trust can suck a dick, give me facts. Nothing builds trust more than the paternity test saying the kid is yours. Her saying so i mean, I've seen women lie their ass off, to me and with me and 3rd party. I think wanting to feel secure. because you dont wanna sink years into a whore isnt wrong.
Until she uses one on an actual cucumber 🥒 😝
That's right. It takes too long to write down serial numbers, just take a pic with your phone instead. 😅
More like stupid
Logically it’s not possible to trust anyone. If people have the free will to choose something one day then change their mind the next day, the only thing I can trust is peoples inability to stay disciplined.
Jeremiah 17:9
The heart is deceitful above all things
and beyond cure.
Who can understand it?
Romans 7:21-25, 8:1-2
So I find this law at work: Although I want to do good, evil is right there with me. For in my inner being I delight in God’s law; but I see another law at work in me, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within me. What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is subject to death? Thanks be to God, who delivers me through Jesus Christ our Lord!
So then, I myself in my mind am a slave to God’s law, but in my sinful nature a slave to the law of sin.
Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you free from the law of sin and death.
That’s not “logical”. That’s insecure thinking.
Yes, you are right it is insecure thinking. For without trust no relationship of any kind can be built. However to make it secure, what we can do is this:
Isaiah 26:4
Trust in the LORD forever,
for the LORD GOD is an everlasting rock.
That's wrong. It's not logically impossible to trust someone. Especially if someone is trustworthy
@@brendanbudniak2261 You are right it is possible to give trust to anyone depending on the person’s tolerances. What it should say is “unwise”. But then how else can we live? Luke 10:25-37
You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself.
The people walking out at the end are vehemently against condoms..
I was thinking they looked like a couple who couldnt handle the message. Lol
That is same couple 😭
Fortunately don’t have this issue at all. Trust my husband 💯 and he does me - our strength together is our trust. It’s the foundation of the relationship. 25 yr marriage so far so good 🎉..
Its different for a man. Him cheating on you doesnt matter in the same severity. Im sorry for the douvke standard but at worst you just are fucking up in the relationship. Hes still paying for the house and the car, you know the kids are still yours.
Im loyal to a fault but i dont want to accidentilly invest years into a whore. Its a waste of love.
Lucky how
I hear a problem with no solution here
Click on the video, this short leads to a much longer video
@@ChaseGohunnidexactly what I just said.. can you read? He gave an example of what some people do but did not offer a solution on how to fix that type of behavior.
Hello how are you doing
Mannn I needed this I’ve been dating this girl and stuff happened at the beginning and I forgave her not cheating but just weird shit online feels like things have changed honestly but still this thing inside me that just doesn’t trust her fully
I feel you on this.
Hey bro can u tell me something to help I am also going through same thing
The only way to over come this to trust god that he would not let you down, or be with someone who cheats ❤, i was super jealous until i started trusting god and never felt that way again
Can you elaborate ? What if you see signs of cheating would you not question?
the person
@@buzz934 remember you have no control of how someone act, speaks or etc toward you, it because they wanted to do that, so if you caught them cheat, just let them go, ask yourself is it worth thinking about, absolutely not, so why should you be bothered, they cheated because, they're cheap easy going and don't respect themselves.
@@buzz934 in life, whatever you wanna control, will end up control you, so it better to leave play out by it self
This is bullshit. An imaginary man in the sky can’t magically heal all of someone’s issues. You are delusional and lying to yourself bud.
I thank the lord for the girl I'm with now, she's the most loyal kind hearted beautiful girl you'll ever meet, inside out, loves the lord aswel
You'll never know 😂😂😂
@@bryanpogi10 yeah who knows
Lmao that’s what we all say
Homeless man is right. Get well soon buddy.
LMAO
I experienced something similar, lol
Sadia psychology lady psychologist now is spreading world about how normal it is to create "controlling" rituals to sooth the anxiety of the other person who has a traust issues. It is called check in rituals where your partner calls you certain times. Let's say breakfast, lunch, dinner.
He is actually smart
not really … she can just have the guy she’s gonna cheat with buy new ones and never touch those
what does he mean by work on? how do you work on this?
Crazy he needs to heal
The fact he trusts her enough to use a condom to begin with if she cheats 🤣🤣🤣
And if she use condom she will used a new box and never touch his. Lol
Exactly😂
Yeahhhh she ain't!! 😂
bruh 💀
holy shit this made my day!
That paradigm never ends tho cuz what if she's operating on the mindset of a specific moral wall that stops her at that point and she says "nope, those are his condoms and if i use those, that's messed up, so you gotta bring your own"
Whatelse would people do to keep themselves safe, the world is fuked up and trust is not given blindly
So then how do you develop trust?
That does sound like somewhat of a good idea but if you feel the need to do that with your partner that you don’t trust why are you with that person in the first place
Cuz you dont wanna be alone. Dudes have to conpromise or youd have like 75% incels.
I would have 0 relationships experience if i didnt make a consession here and there. Pretty sure there arent women who dont see a dude who has never been with a woman in any form whatsoever as worse than someone whose been in a few bad relationships. Its not like dudes who rather shes a virgin.
Where can I find the full video? 🙏🏼
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Don't get trust confused with expectations, and stop holding new partners accountable for past bad experiences while looking for the same preferences 😂
And you look so good!❤
At least I got this part of my life right.
How to heal from this ?
So then how do you fix it!!!!!?
He almost dressed up normally this time.
His knees are distracting as well
as the 2 people that WALKED OUT
in front of him...😳🤦♀️
That’s hilarious I didn’t even notice this until now wow what is he wearing?!?!? 😂
@@clawedbychristy6708 Uh homeless chic? 😂😳🤦♀️
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Glad this resonates! 🔥
It doesn’t sound crazy when girls are in the moment and circumstances are right it’s a rare breed of a girl to not get rammed
My ex said I had trust issues...
I did not trust her to not do the behaviour she still did........
How are you doing
@@MaryRock-gk5mkstill like shit, but willing to live again. Every week it's get a lil better.
Thnxxx
Really
@@theangusschmaloer where are you located
@@MaryRock-gk5mk the Netherlands
True 💯
Omgod that’s insane
How to work on thatc, ?
Sick knees bro
My scenario was my girlfriend was in a band obviously with guy band members and a lot of her guy friends were guys she met from the music industry. After we broke up she wanted to rebuild the relationship starting as friends again but I can’t see us hanging out without sleeping with eachother and it happened even when we started as friends am I better off leaving because of guy friends or is it justified since they are all in the industry with her .
If it’s making you that crazy - move on. You won’t find the right one while you’re hanging out with the wrong one.
#HISCAPRICORNQUEEN GREAT IDEA
❤
But why is trust so important?
The thing is i dont know how to answer but i feel like it's common sense that dude you're in a relationship with someone you love ofc you need trust
@@Noor-sl5ep my issue is people expect trust to be given out day one. My trust has to be earned.
I was just in a relationship with a female that I am sure I wouldn’t put this past her .
You mean a woman?
@@NaNa-re3wc The words “female” and “her” are implied in my response .
Hello how are you doing ❤
He has trust issues with his hair, because it always trying to leave him
I just put up cameras and said "if you dont like it ill pay for you to move out.
Ha ha then that would make that person want to cheat and just do it off camera somewhere private…duh
That’s just creepy… if you’re that paranoid about what the other person is doing then maybe pick better people to be around
@@NaNa-re3wc I don't give a damn what anyone thinks about it. I have extremely valuable firearms stored in my home and many other things that are very valuable. So yeah, I don't give two shits what she or anyone else thinks. She is free to leave at any time.
I dont think it's crazy to mistrust modern women.
I’m sure a lot of women would say the same about men. Either way, if you’re projecting your finite experiences onto an entire gender… you have some healing to do and some empathy to acquire.
It’s only crazy if you persist with that mindset AND expect a different outcome in any of your relationships with women. We’ve all been hurt. I just found out my husband who was also my very best friend of ten years, my everything, has been cheating on me for over 8 months. I am a homeschooling stay at home mom to our two young boys, I put full trust into him, and he’s betrayed it. But I decided I need to forgive for my own well being, because I want health and happiness. We can’t always trust others, but we can trust in our ability to survive it, learn from it, and hopefully never miss the same signs again. Sorry for being long-winded, I just hope someone reads this and realizes that we all hurt, and we all can get better and do better.
then don’t date at all. Nobody is forcing you to
@@hamtoad7159 Obviously, but how many men is society willing to lose?
Why would they use the condoms he provided when the guy most likely brings his own?
Not everyone uses condoms though lol
It's difficult to take anything you say seriously when it looks like you just rolled out of bed. Pass.
💯💯💯
👌
This guy thinks his partner is an idiot.
The solution to the human problem is NOT within yourself.
"Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28)
Man is a sinner, and sinners need the redeeming grace of God. ALL the problems in the world, involving humanity, are cause by sin. YOUR sin causes YOUR problems with yourself and others. Sin is what sinners do. In order to not sin, you MUST be changed from a sinner to a saint.
This happens through Jesus Christ, who died on the cross and resurrected three days later, and promises that "Whoever believes in me and Him who sent me HAS eternal life. He does NOT come into judgement. . ." (John 5:24)
Then, once you are born again into the family of God and are a child of the Heavenly Father, you will receive the Holy Spirit. HE will produce in you "love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, goodness, faithfulness, and self control." (Galatians 5:22-23)
Pursue the Lord, your Maker, and HIS Kingdom and righteousness. Jesus promises that everything else, which this internet guru tries to SELL you, WILL be given to you from the Father (Matthew 6:33).
If you will not repent and follow Jesus in all He says, the Bible says there is NO peace for the wicked, and ONLY the judgement of Hell remains.
I wouldnt take this guys advice on anything
Certainly not on fashion
I hear nothing… all I can think of is the pants. Grow up and buy some new clothes
I think every person has to earn trust. I have lots of reasons why I don’t trust my partner. Most obvious reason is because he is a liar
Hello how are you doing
You’re still with them..
What are those pants man...
Yeah lol not taking any advice from some balding man that’s wearing tight ripped jeans
what has that to do with anything?