The fact that Bill Burr is letting people record his podcasts and using it on their channels without copystriking anyone shows how wholesome the dude is
I know these clips are fun and mostly uploaded by fans but some of these clips get more views than Bill's poscast clip channel which negatively impacts Bill. I'll be honest I do watch some of these clips but then I feel guilty and go to his clip channel and watch it again. I think it's only fair we get to listen to him for free.
All the guys I’ve dated I asked out first. Just go up to a guy you may want to date and start a conversation and ask him out. Be confident. If he turns you down don’t take it personal,you can’t be everyone’s cup of tea. Guys like to be approached by women.
I have found in my life.... that women aren't good at taking rejection idk if this is case everywhere but that's the feedback I've gotten from many people and parts of the world... but realistically unless the guy has clout i don't think that most women are like yourself and are well at taking rejection and it's expected for men to approach
It might be becoming the new normal tbh, I’ve always been approached. I’ve approached like 1 or 2 times but honestly I’m always scared of coming across threatening. In this day and age, due to the disgusting disease that is masculinity, women are totally founded in expecting every guy to be predator. It sucks when you aren’t but I wouldn’t take any fucking risks if I was a layydeeee.
It's funny how socially we've changed the way the rating system works. 5 should be average, meaning 6 would be above average in looks wise. However, we view 7 as average, and everything below it as ugly.
I think this is because people think of it in terms of grades at school; if you get a 50% on a test you barely passed and are making some big mistakes, whereas 70% means you did OK and you're just a regular person, nothing special.
Girls rate each other very generously, Guys are very matter-of-fact about it cuz we know that's not really a big big factor in our overall appeal. You can't say the same for women. A very beautiful woman born like that has so much more going for here just out the gate, but a guy in the same boat well he's popular in high school and college but that's it really, no one cares after a certain stage.
5 is average for guys because they don't do anything extra to add on to their looks. 7 is average for girls because they offset it by simping for the beauty industry
He’s spot on. Being a good cook, showing interest in sports, video games or nerdy stuff, and being funny all a long way. Men being only into looks is totally blown out of proportion. That’s the first thing u see but once you start talking to someone personally reigns supreme
I would say for an okay looking girl to get whatever guy she wants, it has less to do with career and more to do with personality. Honestly it's very hard to find women who are actually funny and or self-deprecating. When they are, that's when walls start dropping down on the guy's side and when he can be himself
I never dated a person uglier than me, but not because I'm shallow; there just simply aren't that many people uglier than me to pick from! I would really have to go out of my way to find one. I'm assuming the same stands true for incredibly attractive people, just the other way around: it's difficult for them to find someone more attractive than themselves, so most of them have never dated one.
Trust me, homie- you are still in the game! Most gorgeous women, tend NOT to date men more attractive than them because they know what comes with the territory. Not to mention, a woman would have to feel supremely confident within herself, that she is attractive enough for HIM to pick because just like her- he can choose whomever he wants. It's not about looks. It's about confidence. If you know how to throw a nice outfit on and match your shoes with it? Keep a fresh hair cut or style? Throw some smell good on? Walk with your head up and your chest out? Enter in to EVERY ROOM like you belong there? Beautiful women will notice you without you even knowing.
@@davidleonard7439 I never really specified the genders of the people I date. I never said I had trouble getting dates either. I just said that I, myself, am not that physically attractive, and that's okay, I got other shit going on. Like, dating people hotter than me.Thanks for your rich yet unnecessary advice, I guess? :D
@@Nikedemos if you date people hotter than you...then you're attractive lol confidence will only get you so far. My apologies for the assumption of gender!
@@davidleonard7439 "I never dated a person uglier than me" means exactly the same as "every person I dated was hotter than me" by default, so I'll take my glass half full I guess, cheers
I love how these girls say how ugly they are, I feel like they want bill to go “nooo you aren’t ugly” but not only would he never do that, but he doesn’t even know what they look like he just has to take their word that they’re ugly lmao
I’m a somewhat unattractive woman who constantly dates above her level…oddly I think guys are attracted to confidence too. And this is a lame thing: I have a genuine smile a lot of the time, slightly crooked teeth and all😊. I think they like that happiness.
If you smile you’re already better than 80% of women since their faces have either a despondent and lifeless look or an angry and frustrated look. Especially those over the age of 30.
Absolutely. I'm past the age where men will complement my body (not because I'm out of shape, but because older guys just don't lead with comments on your body) and I am CONSISTENTLY complemented on my smile and that I "look so happy" lol. An older man once told me, there's nothing more attractive to a man than a happy, smiling woman. Good on you, lady.
I've often dated women who were more attractive than me but it always came with a host of obstacles. Women KNOW they are attractive and I always felt no matter how confident you are, a very attractive female will always know they are more attractive than you and receive constant attention. I'm a fairly good looking guy, but if you don't upkeep yourself or have a goal, attractive women have a shorter relationship life span than someone less attractive who will stand by you. Attractive women because of their looks, also tend to be a lot more social and want to go places way more often, such as lounges, night out with friends, parties etc. They feed off that social attention. Unless you're an Attractive male who's the Same way, than this becomes more fluid and natural doing these things side by side. The chances they will cheat also goes up significantly. That's just facts. Women AND Men. Constant Attention creates Constant opportunity and unless this person also has a very strong will, they can cheat, coupled with the type of social Life they have, and just creates that environment. I was Never a picky guy with women and I have dated women of all ethnicities, body types and attractiveness. This is my personal experience with More attractive women. I dated maybe about 4 or 5 very attractive women and this experience was mostly the same, one way or another, even if different, for each of those attractive women. I noticed I was less stressed and less obligated to do things or meet a high standard with women who were at my level of attractiveness or lower. I suggest for all the guys if you have no issues attracting hot women and you are Less attractive than they are and want your life to be easier, you have to upkeep. Be in very good shape and have an ongoing healthy social lifestyle. If you're a Gamer and are mostly home, or have little to no friends, it will be harder. They only good thing I ever got from dating hotter women is that I pushed Myself harder to do better and if thats what you need go for it. In my Current relationship, I'm dating someone I deem on my level, but whom they think are less attractive than me, I don't see that, because I look at many other factors. It's always good to be open and don't let attractive women change you for the next girl, always be you. Keeping up a Masquerade to be with someone more attractive isn't worth it sometimes unless you're the lucky one to meet someone who sees beyond their looks and to be honest, that is rare nowadays.
Kind of sounds like you date the wrong people and then get jealous and insecure. Then you lump all attractive women into one group because you're jaded. "I noticed I was less stressed and less obligated to do things or meet a high standard"
The trick is not to date narcissistic, attention whores, lol, find a cute girl who isn't constantly looking in the mirror. Not all attractive women just know they're attractive, same with guys. My man's a ten, in my opinion, but he complains his teeth are a lil crooked and if he shaves his beard, he loses his chin. Point is, everyone has their insecurities. People that see themselves as perfect are just lying to themselves.
@@olenabogdanov yes, every womans answer to when men notice a pattern that is generally true for a group of women, "you must have met the wrong people". Can't you just admit that what he is saying actually has some truth to it with women in general?
Be vulnerable* and open to different people, but don't force anything, let relationships happen naturally. Use "redflags" or intuition to learn what to protect yourself from. I'm no guru, just what I've learned through experience, take it or leave it haha *Valunerability is not a weakness
Women can date outside their finanical/success status if they are good looking. Men can date outside of their attractivness status if they have money/success. There is a ying and a yang to it. That lady was thinking of men and women being the same when we are not.
It's quite annoying how so many women get upset about something they think is sexist or misogynistic when the mere fact that they're upset about it IS what's making it sexist in the first place. For example, like the cooking thing. The fact that women would get upset that men would want their woman to cook for them is saying that cooking is a woman's job in the first place. But it's not! It's just an activity!!
Everyone is going to be different. I have a lot of friends that are very desirable, guys would literaly go out of their way to talk to them when we were out and about at a mall, eating ice cream, having brunch, etc. I'm plain when I am next to them so I don't expect much from getting attention from the opposite sex. But I still managed to find men interested in me, I have had 2 serious relationships in my 20's, I'm currently in a serious relationship now in my 30's. People need to be patient, there is someone out there that will be interested.
Keep it simple. Women recognize desperation [and God only knows women are so easy for jerks], and it feeds into a primal reaction to dominate. I have always enjoyed meeting very attractive women and treating them like just another girl. Most of them appreciate the casual interaction, and it frequently results in a date. It isn't guaranteed, some attractive women want to be worshipped publicly, they have issues and I'm not interested in " fixing " them. I have a healthy sense of humor, a respectable education, and I pay attention to my personal appearance/ hygiene. That alone puts me ahead of a majority of the competition. Most women want to be treated with respect, that's the easy part. Just relax, take care of yourself, and make casual conversation. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
As a man struggling to get dates or even 2nd dates on Tinder. This comment hits home. I need to lose my desperation, it’s not easy when I’ve fuck all social life. But hoping to change that in the new year.
@@thelonewolf8333 don’t overthink just relax and look at it like an easy job interview and pay attention. Once u get the hang of it it’s super easy. The bar is very low nowadays
@@thelonewolf8333 If you can manage to meet new people, including girls, through any real life event / connection etc, it's far better than Tinder. Tinder is so fucking unfair man, it can work for sure, but it's a hypermarket and you're the product, put in competition against professionnal fuckboys : from an average woman perspective, she has gym dudes, suit dudes, retards, etc hitting her from all directions, and she loses her shit over this. It boosts her ego too much, I'm sure you're a very decent guy, the truth is, Tinder is designed for jerks, not for balanced guys. Again, that doesn't mean it's impossible to get a date with a decent woman over there but that's an additionnal challenge you're adding to yourself, in my perspective. It's gonna hurt you, for little to no achievement, you're not alone in this situation. It's far better and eventually much easier, to date someone after you and her, had a good reason to talk to each other, for something not related to date. Friend of a friend, participating in the same association ( why not helping out people in the process? ), always hanging out at the same place, whatever. As I'm pretentious enough to give an advice, I'd say start with the social life thing as the other homie said, getting to date a girl in a healthy way / good start is actually the same as building a relationship with anybody. It also helps getting back into the social thing and get social skills, getting more comfortable etc that benefits on a much larger scale than dating, and it induces a virtuous cycle : the more people you connect with, the more people you meet, and the more comfortable you are, and your nature shows and it's gonna be noticed. You want to be noticed, for who you are and what you do. Tinder is an easy solution that actually prevents you from doing the efforts that will actually help you. Go out there man, you have no idea how people in general, just wait for a decent human being to talk to them. Even when it fails, everybody respects courage, including you towards yourself. You gonna be fine my dude.
According to the scale I have dated women that other men believed were all over the scale but to me they were drop dead georgous cause of their awesome personality
I dated ugly guys for my first two relationships. People would comment about it all the time. I had this idea that less attractive men would be nicer. This is not exactly the case. One guy would show me off as a prize, people would think he was rich. It was embarrassing. Instead of being labeled un shallow I was labeled a sugar baby (I looked younger than him). My third boyfriend is very attractive and he's very kind. I now have higher standards because of these experiences.
That’s awesome. What I would say though is not every attractive guy will have a good personality either. From my experience, personality stems from how well someone can rely on their looks. However looks can also stem from personality too. I.e ugly people either have a strong good personality if that’s what they rely on, or they’re ugly because that’s where their personality has gotten them. Attractive people might have a good personality like your third bf because their physical attractiveness came from them working on themselves and developing their personality..or they could have no personality at all because they had natural good looks and just relied on that. Higher expectations are good tho imo
The problem is not that is harder to impress a guy with something other than looks, the problem is that their looks is such a core part of their "personality" and being and they rely so heavily on it if you take it away they don't got much. Having a great personality, being loving and being funny works for everybody. But most girls aren't funny sadly, and their "niceness" only goes so far. Girls trust me, if you develop an authentic personality and a sense of humor and you're confident about that more than your body, you will get almost any guy, a guy worth having anyway.
I used to be really fucking good at that. In that it totally snowballs, when you’re getting with 8-10 calibers not only your confidence is up, but girls start getting competitive and want you to choose them. You’re totally at your low when you don’t have any other offers, and she knows it. Anyways it all kicked off with me realizing everyone else was uncomfortable getting shot down, and no girl was coming to get me. So, go get shot down. It actually literally is that simple. I preferred to make it known what I wanted up front (as in, I’m not trying to be friends if that makes sense). Idk if it can work but I never liked the idea of having a girl try to view you in a different light. And then of course it is just a pure numbers game. Eventually you’re going to hit pay dirt lol. Wish I could get back to that (34 now)
More men need to learn to dress get haircut to be more attractive. Women look at men too. Women have made it challenging by changing all the rules. Men expect women to be more aggressive and less challenging
This. Big thing is confidence. If you think you look good and you have a chance it’ll be a hell of a lot easier to convince someone else the same thing 👈👈
Dress like what? Theres nothing wrong with dreads,long hair, not getting manicures or wearing carhart instead of abercrombie. A mechanic isn't gonna have spotless nails or clothes,doesnt mean he doesnt work hard. A painter is gonna have spots all over them. ..they work hard. Passing one over for looking rough is sad.
@@rebekahbarry3013 Career choice and dreds aren't the issue. It's men who truly don't care yet expect to date models. I dated firemen who work hard .I'm not critical of work at all. It's incels that are an issue
3:45 see I disagree with that, and she just labeled one of the biggest difficulties for guys. Women definitely want and will choose an attractive man over personality 100%. And I have 100% chosen better personalities over looks.
I personally would not date up, I like same lane. But, if you want to date someone like that... it is possible if you find some pretty boy with psychological damage... they normally date down... like Ray Liotta. You just need to hit hard their soft spot.
First off, take a good hard look at yourself and ask "am I dumb and boring?". Everything is a "muscle" that needs to be worked out and cultivated to get stronger(including your mind and personality), otherwise it will weaken and atrophy. I've heard from ladies before how attractive it is seeing guys skillfully doing the things they like doing, well you know what? that stuff is attractive to guys too. The world has taught you that a guy has to make the first move, and that's fine I guess but are you really going to let that stand in the way of you? Years later when you're living you're life with the person you love do you think anyone is going to care that you made the first move?
That sounds like woe is me. Having ridiculous expectations or putting themselves on a pedestal is what cause these people to be lonely. This goes for both genders.
The trick is the "anti friend zone". I have female friends who I wasn't really attracted to when I first met them, but they turned out to have great insight into life, or to be really amazing cooks, or have a super dark sense of humor or something. Then once you're in you just need to catch him late some night when he's drunk and hook up... after that, see where it goes.
I told my boys from the beginning that there will be banging. There will be sub-par banging. There will be par panging. There will be a whole in one every so often, but at the end of the day you need to play the game.
Both ugly and attractive women are showered with attention, especially because of social media. A lot of women also think they are much more attractive than they are. That aside, people want to be with people that they find attractive. Simple as that.
I feel like the whole "male confidence" thing in relation to sex and dating is a total paradox. If you just go up to a woman and act all confident you come off as weak and desperate which are two of the most unattractive traits for a man to have. Every real man knows that "just go up to a woman with almost ostentatious confidence" bit nearly always comes from a place of weakness and 'giving in'.
@@art2736 Bitch I'm not asking for advice or clarification lol. We know what I meant. I'm also not complaining, just explaining. "You don't 'act' confident, you be confident." Sam difference.. If you *are* confident, you act confident dipshit. How just crazy people act crazy, etc.
For a girl, if you are ok looking and u have a good personality ur good. A girl that’s super funny and fun instantly makes her more attractive. Funny average looking girls are sexier than dumb boring hot girls
How can guys help but date women that look better than them? Women’s features or smaller and softer- which often appears more attractive than men’s bigger and sharp features…
Go for the insecure guys. There are some very attractive insecure guys out there that will feel better with a less beautiful girl because they know she wont leave them.
As an author & speaker,nothing wrong w/ borrowing/expanding upon other artists work PROVIDED you NEVER make a NICKEL from it & EXPLICITLY state where it’s from. CLEARLY STATE if any in audiences use mine (espec any content can be derived from that of another) can NOT be used to make a profit unless they CITE AND get permission from owner of work-then agree to compensation for portion of content used-not hard
@@tipoftheiceberg7034 if your ugly and broke, good luck. Gotta have 1 of the two be good looking or have money or if you are ugly, have game and make them laugh. Trust me, it's not hard at all to pick up woman.
* since Billy loves cooking for his family, that’s a tell tale sign that he’s a Dismissive Avoidant attachment style. The DA love languages are acts of service and affirmations. Also they have a chronic, self-doubt and usually 😏 uncalled-for self criticism. (We all **need** to be critical of the Self in a Society, tho) but, the DA Super Ego is, or *can* *be* a self-imposed bully 🤬 Learn your own Attachment Style and figure out which style you’re unconsciously, attracted to (from how your breeders traumatized your blameless, child mind) ✅
Bill Burr is being too nice. But now we have too many people making this copycat video. It’s tiring to see this all over the place. It’s good for Bill in terms of advertisement.
The fact that Bill Burr is letting people record his podcasts and using it on their channels without copystriking anyone shows how wholesome the dude is
Exactly. Most of them have ads too
he’s not letting these people do it, they still don’t have permission
I know these clips are fun and mostly uploaded by fans but some of these clips get more views than Bill's poscast clip channel which negatively impacts Bill. I'll be honest I do watch some of these clips but then I feel guilty and go to his clip channel and watch it again. I think it's only fair we get to listen to him for free.
Or it could be because his podcast has waned in popularity over the last 5 or so years and he doesn't mind alternate methods of exposure.
Bill can barely work a computer. He probably doesn't know how to copystrike lol
All the guys I’ve dated I asked out first. Just go up to a guy you may want to date and start a conversation and ask him out. Be confident. If he turns you down don’t take it personal,you can’t be everyone’s cup of tea. Guys like to be approached by women.
You're doing the lord's work
I have found in my life.... that women aren't good at taking rejection idk if this is case everywhere but that's the feedback I've gotten from many people and parts of the world... but realistically unless the guy has clout i don't think that most women are like yourself and are well at taking rejection and it's expected for men to approach
You are absolutely right. from start to finish, you nailed it .
Hell yeah
It might be becoming the new normal tbh, I’ve always been approached. I’ve approached like 1 or 2 times but honestly I’m always scared of coming across threatening. In this day and age, due to the disgusting disease that is masculinity, women are totally founded in expecting every guy to be predator. It sucks when you aren’t but I wouldn’t take any fucking risks if I was a layydeeee.
"Finding someone who deserves your love."
That hit different, Bill.
Thank you.
It's funny how socially we've changed the way the rating system works. 5 should be average, meaning 6 would be above average in looks wise. However, we view 7 as average, and everything below it as ugly.
I think this is because people think of it in terms of grades at school; if you get a 50% on a test you barely passed and are making some big mistakes, whereas 70% means you did OK and you're just a regular person, nothing special.
Girls rate each other very generously, Guys are very matter-of-fact about it cuz we know that's not really a big big factor in our overall appeal. You can't say the same for women. A very beautiful woman born like that has so much more going for here just out the gate, but a guy in the same boat well he's popular in high school and college but that's it really, no one cares after a certain stage.
The fuck you talking about, what rating system? Are you living in China?
@@ayvenmoon Rating people based on looks. 0-10
5 is average for guys because they don't do anything extra to add on to their looks. 7 is average for girls because they offset it by simping for the beauty industry
Bill insight on incels at 9:14 is so hilarious... nailed it
incels are the ones publishing the redpill pickup artist strategy bs. They're all incels, one is just weaponized. It's a mindset.
still love when Nia tried to hit on Bill, and then she said something along the lines of , "Hey ! you're making this really hard on me" lol.
He’s spot on. Being a good cook, showing interest in sports, video games or nerdy stuff, and being funny all a long way. Men being only into looks is totally blown out of proportion. That’s the first thing u see but once you start talking to someone personally reigns supreme
I would say for an okay looking girl to get whatever guy she wants, it has less to do with career and more to do with personality. Honestly it's very hard to find women who are actually funny and or self-deprecating. When they are, that's when walls start dropping down on the guy's side and when he can be himself
I never dated a person uglier than me, but not because I'm shallow; there just simply aren't that many people uglier than me to pick from! I would really have to go out of my way to find one. I'm assuming the same stands true for incredibly attractive people, just the other way around: it's difficult for them to find someone more attractive than themselves, so most of them have never dated one.
Trust me, homie- you are still in the game!
Most gorgeous women, tend NOT to date men more attractive than them because they know what comes with the territory. Not to mention, a woman would have to feel supremely confident within herself, that she is attractive enough for HIM to pick because just like her- he can choose whomever he wants.
It's not about looks. It's about confidence. If you know how to throw a nice outfit on and match your shoes with it? Keep a fresh hair cut or style? Throw some smell good on? Walk with your head up and your chest out? Enter in to EVERY ROOM like you belong there? Beautiful women will notice you without you even knowing.
@@davidleonard7439 I never really specified the genders of the people I date. I never said I had trouble getting dates either. I just said that I, myself, am not that physically attractive, and that's okay, I got other shit going on. Like, dating people hotter than me.Thanks for your rich yet unnecessary advice, I guess? :D
@@Nikedemos if you date people hotter than you...then you're attractive lol confidence will only get you so far. My apologies for the assumption of gender!
@@davidleonard7439 "I never dated a person uglier than me" means exactly the same as "every person I dated was hotter than me" by default, so I'll take my glass half full I guess, cheers
This is the most bizarre back-and-forth I've seen this year, congrats to both of you!
I love how these girls say how ugly they are, I feel like they want bill to go “nooo you aren’t ugly” but not only would he never do that, but he doesn’t even know what they look like he just has to take their word that they’re ugly lmao
This was a legit question.
We do see alot more 4/5 guys with 6-8 women
We see very few 6-8 guys with 4's and 5's
Interesting question
I’m a somewhat unattractive woman who constantly dates above her level…oddly I think guys are attracted to confidence too. And this is a lame thing: I have a genuine smile a lot of the time, slightly crooked teeth and all😊. I think they like that happiness.
100% we are. Just like guys I think a confident woman makes them appear above their true market value looks wise. It’s sexy in so many ways
If you smile you’re already better than 80% of women since their faces have either a despondent and lifeless look or an angry and frustrated look. Especially those over the age of 30.
It's nice to be around someone that is positive.
Absolutely. I'm past the age where men will complement my body (not because I'm out of shape, but because older guys just don't lead with comments on your body) and I am CONSISTENTLY complemented on my smile and that I "look so happy" lol. An older man once told me, there's nothing more attractive to a man than a happy, smiling woman. Good on you, lady.
A man will absolutely have sex with a woman less attractive than him but he won't necessarily date or marry you. Don't confuse sex with a relationship
I've often dated women who were more attractive than me but it always came with a host of obstacles. Women KNOW they are attractive and I always felt no matter how confident you are, a very attractive female will always know they are more attractive than you and receive constant attention. I'm a fairly good looking guy, but if you don't upkeep yourself or have a goal, attractive women have a shorter relationship life span than someone less attractive who will stand by you. Attractive women because of their looks, also tend to be a lot more social and want to go places way more often, such as lounges, night out with friends, parties etc. They feed off that social attention. Unless you're an Attractive male who's the Same way, than this becomes more fluid and natural doing these things side by side. The chances they will cheat also goes up significantly. That's just facts. Women AND Men.
Constant Attention creates Constant opportunity and unless this person also has a very strong will, they can cheat, coupled with the type of social Life they have, and just creates that environment.
I was Never a picky guy with women and I have dated women of all ethnicities, body types and attractiveness. This is my personal experience with More attractive women. I dated maybe about 4 or 5 very attractive women and this experience was mostly the same, one way or another, even if different, for each of those attractive women.
I noticed I was less stressed and less obligated to do things or meet a high standard with women who were at my level of attractiveness or lower.
I suggest for all the guys if you have no issues attracting hot women and you are Less attractive than they are and want your life to be easier, you have to upkeep. Be in very good shape and have an ongoing healthy social lifestyle. If you're a Gamer and are mostly home, or have little to no friends, it will be harder.
They only good thing I ever got from dating hotter women is that I pushed Myself harder to do better and if thats what you need go for it. In my Current relationship, I'm dating someone I deem on my level, but whom they think are less attractive than me, I don't see that, because I look at many other factors. It's always good to be open and don't let attractive women change you for the next girl, always be you. Keeping up a Masquerade to be with someone more attractive isn't worth it sometimes unless you're the lucky one to meet someone who sees beyond their looks and to be honest, that is rare nowadays.
Similar story here brother. All of that is true.
Kind of sounds like you date the wrong people and then get jealous and insecure. Then you lump all attractive women into one group because you're jaded.
"I noticed I was less stressed and less obligated to do things or meet a high standard"
The trick is not to date narcissistic, attention whores, lol, find a cute girl who isn't constantly looking in the mirror. Not all attractive women just know they're attractive, same with guys. My man's a ten, in my opinion, but he complains his teeth are a lil crooked and if he shaves his beard, he loses his chin. Point is, everyone has their insecurities. People that see themselves as perfect are just lying to themselves.
You’ve dated maybe about 4 or 5 attractive women? So you dated 4 attractive women
@@olenabogdanov yes, every womans answer to when men notice a pattern that is generally true for a group of women, "you must have met the wrong people".
Can't you just admit that what he is saying actually has some truth to it with women in general?
0:28 how tf did Billdo not get that there was absolutely nothing missing 😅
Lol. He got confused because the word "Like" can have 2 meanings in English. Oh Bill....
i was looking for this comment😂
Be vulnerable* and open to different people, but don't force anything, let relationships happen naturally. Use "redflags" or intuition to learn what to protect yourself from. I'm no guru, just what I've learned through experience, take it or leave it haha
*Valunerability is not a weakness
That useless mechanic club analogy was a gem 😆
0:33 😂😂😭 bro got dyslexia
It doesn't matter how good looking or how rich someone is there is always someone somewhere that is sick of their sh.....
Women can date outside their finanical/success status if they are good looking. Men can date outside of their attractivness status if they have money/success. There is a ying and a yang to it. That lady was thinking of men and women being the same when we are not.
Good looking dude’s win if unsuccessful or successful so they win every time
oh boy not again with the whole "dating is a market and i'm here to find my next trade" bs
@@tobiaslawrence8928 not long term. Long term the woman wants a financial sound man. She will take a good looking broke guy for a fling tho.
We date women that our wallets allowed us to.... 🤷🏽♂️
Underrated comment
Yes
But we as men are the prize so they can pay for me if they want me there
@@damartsnakk Good luck with that.
@@prachetasnayse9709 haha in 5-10 years no man is going to be buying a woman dinner straight up facts
It's quite annoying how so many women get upset about something they think is sexist or misogynistic when the mere fact that they're upset about it IS what's making it sexist in the first place. For example, like the cooking thing. The fact that women would get upset that men would want their woman to cook for them is saying that cooking is a woman's job in the first place. But it's not! It's just an activity!!
Cooking is appreciated by men because it means that the woman cares for them.
I love where you ended it oml
Great choice of picture, that is a main theme in king of queens....although marge and homer would also work.
Everyone is going to be different. I have a lot of friends that are very desirable, guys would literaly go out of their way to talk to them when we were out and about at a mall, eating ice cream, having brunch, etc. I'm plain when I am next to them so I don't expect much from getting attention from the opposite sex. But I still managed to find men interested in me, I have had 2 serious relationships in my 20's, I'm currently in a serious relationship now in my 30's. People need to be patient, there is someone out there that will be interested.
Lol his comment on incels was spot on
It should be “than them”, not “then them”. “Than” is a comparison of things. “Then” is a reference to time.
Building confidence is good for women and your health habits!
If I'm not attracted I'm not dating you, so gl.
Keep it simple. Women recognize desperation [and God only knows women are so easy for jerks], and it feeds into a primal reaction to dominate. I have always enjoyed meeting very attractive women and treating them like just another girl. Most of them appreciate the casual interaction, and it frequently results in a date. It isn't guaranteed, some attractive women want to be worshipped publicly, they have issues and I'm not interested in " fixing " them. I have a healthy sense of humor, a respectable education, and I pay attention to my personal appearance/ hygiene. That alone puts me ahead of a majority of the competition.
Most women want to be treated with respect, that's the easy part. Just relax, take care of yourself, and make casual conversation. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
Exactly that’s all there is too it. U don’t need to actually hit on them just talk to them like there a person. U just feel the vibe and ur good
As a man struggling to get dates or even 2nd dates on Tinder. This comment hits home. I need to lose my desperation, it’s not easy when I’ve fuck all social life. But hoping to change that in the new year.
@@thelonewolf8333 don’t overthink just relax and look at it like an easy job interview and pay attention. Once u get the hang of it it’s super easy. The bar is very low nowadays
@@thelonewolf8333 If you can manage to meet new people, including girls, through any real life event / connection etc, it's far better than Tinder.
Tinder is so fucking unfair man, it can work for sure, but it's a hypermarket and you're the product, put in competition against professionnal fuckboys : from an average woman perspective, she has gym dudes, suit dudes, retards, etc hitting her from all directions, and she loses her shit over this. It boosts her ego too much, I'm sure you're a very decent guy, the truth is, Tinder is designed for jerks, not for balanced guys.
Again, that doesn't mean it's impossible to get a date with a decent woman over there but that's an additionnal challenge you're adding to yourself, in my perspective. It's gonna hurt you, for little to no achievement, you're not alone in this situation.
It's far better and eventually much easier, to date someone after you and her, had a good reason to talk to each other, for something not related to date. Friend of a friend, participating in the same association ( why not helping out people in the process? ), always hanging out at the same place, whatever. As I'm pretentious enough to give an advice, I'd say start with the social life thing as the other homie said, getting to date a girl in a healthy way / good start is actually the same as building a relationship with anybody. It also helps getting back into the social thing and get social skills, getting more comfortable etc that benefits on a much larger scale than dating, and it induces a virtuous cycle : the more people you connect with, the more people you meet, and the more comfortable you are, and your nature shows and it's gonna be noticed. You want to be noticed, for who you are and what you do.
Tinder is an easy solution that actually prevents you from doing the efforts that will actually help you. Go out there man, you have no idea how people in general, just wait for a decent human being to talk to them. Even when it fails, everybody respects courage, including you towards yourself. You gonna be fine my dude.
Hahahaha I love the KOQ background
"Than".... not "then".
I had to!! 😂 As long as "your" and "you're" isn't mixed up! That's the worst.
I wanna see Wheat Waffles try to debate with Bill Burr. 😂
Nia repped Steely Dan!
Anyone who gets you into Steely Dan is a keeper. I recall Nia was also into 90s trip hop which is just awesome
According to the scale I have dated women that other men believed were all over the scale but to me they were drop dead georgous cause of their awesome personality
This comment section is fuckin chaos
I dated ugly guys for my first two relationships. People would comment about it all the time. I had this idea that less attractive men would be nicer. This is not exactly the case. One guy would show me off as a prize, people would think he was rich. It was embarrassing. Instead of being labeled un shallow I was labeled a sugar baby (I looked younger than him). My third boyfriend is very attractive and he's very kind. I now have higher standards because of these experiences.
So you're going to be an Alpha widow? Thanks for announcing it.
@@randall2158 I don't even know what that is.
@@chaitea7891 That's gonna be you. Congratulations.
@@randall2158 sounds like you're offended for some reason and attempted to insult me just for sharing my personal experience.
That’s awesome. What I would say though is not every attractive guy will have a good personality either.
From my experience, personality stems from how well someone can rely on their looks. However looks can also stem from personality too.
I.e ugly people either have a strong good personality if that’s what they rely on, or they’re ugly because that’s where their personality has gotten them.
Attractive people might have a good personality like your third bf because their physical attractiveness came from them working on themselves and developing their personality..or they could have no personality at all because they had natural good looks and just relied on that.
Higher expectations are good tho imo
Single mums are a goldmine FYI 😊
The problem is not that is harder to impress a guy with something other than looks, the problem is that their looks is such a core part of their "personality" and being and they rely so heavily on it if you take it away they don't got much. Having a great personality, being loving and being funny works for everybody. But most girls aren't funny sadly, and their "niceness" only goes so far. Girls trust me, if you develop an authentic personality and a sense of humor and you're confident about that more than your body, you will get almost any guy, a guy worth having anyway.
very very true
I used to be really fucking good at that. In that it totally snowballs, when you’re getting with 8-10 calibers not only your confidence is up, but girls start getting competitive and want you to choose them.
You’re totally at your low when you don’t have any other offers, and she knows it.
Anyways it all kicked off with me realizing everyone else was uncomfortable getting shot down, and no girl was coming to get me.
So, go get shot down. It actually literally is that simple.
I preferred to make it known what I wanted up front (as in, I’m not trying to be friends if that makes sense). Idk if it can work but I never liked the idea of having a girl try to view you in a different light.
And then of course it is just a pure numbers game. Eventually you’re going to hit pay dirt lol.
Wish I could get back to that (34 now)
Nia on a different night showed Billy her steely Dan in her nightstand drawer!!
Steely Dan rules! Respect for Ms. Nia!
My wife is an 8 and I am a 3. You have to work on yourself before any kind of relationship will work
That’s probably the most sound advice in this entire comment section
More men need to learn to dress get haircut to be more attractive. Women look at men too. Women have made it challenging by changing all the rules. Men expect women to be more aggressive and less challenging
This. Big thing is confidence. If you think you look good and you have a chance it’ll be a hell of a lot easier to convince someone else the same thing 👈👈
More aggressive and less challenging? Wtf are you talking about?
Dress like what? Theres nothing wrong with dreads,long hair, not getting manicures or wearing carhart instead of abercrombie. A mechanic isn't gonna have spotless nails or clothes,doesnt mean he doesnt work hard. A painter is gonna have spots all over them. ..they work hard. Passing one over for looking rough is sad.
@@rebekahbarry3013
Career choice and dreds aren't the issue. It's men who truly don't care yet expect to date models. I dated firemen who work hard .I'm not critical of work at all. It's incels that are an issue
@@cras17 aggressive as in to make moves rather than wait for them and less challenging meaning not raising barriers
"The way to a man's heart is through his stomach." i don't know who said but it's an old saying and it's true.
This is gold
3:45 see I disagree with that, and she just labeled one of the biggest difficulties for guys. Women definitely want and will choose an attractive man over personality 100%.
And I have 100% chosen better personalities over looks.
Actually almost everybody goes for ppl out of their league. It’s not exclusive to men or women
Cooking for a man. Bloody great advice.
Same for stage performances…
I personally would not date up, I like same lane. But, if you want to date someone like that... it is possible if you find some pretty boy with psychological damage... they normally date down... like Ray Liotta. You just need to hit hard their soft spot.
Of course they should. What else do they bring to the table?
I have a girl way out of my league coming over in an hour, all it took was random luck!
That beginning... someone saw Lord of the Rings.
First off, take a good hard look at yourself and ask "am I dumb and boring?". Everything is a "muscle" that needs to be worked out and cultivated to get stronger(including your mind and personality), otherwise it will weaken and atrophy. I've heard from ladies before how attractive it is seeing guys skillfully doing the things they like doing, well you know what? that stuff is attractive to guys too.
The world has taught you that a guy has to make the first move, and that's fine I guess but are you really going to let that stand in the way of you? Years later when you're living you're life with the person you love do you think anyone is going to care that you made the first move?
Just found you’re Spotify sweet!!! I’ve got a question coming soon for you!!!!
Guys pretty women are the loneliest people. Please put yourself out there. If they reject you then they are loosers usually. Just saying
Not true, reason why they lonely because they have many options
That sounds like woe is me. Having ridiculous expectations or putting themselves on a pedestal is what cause these people to be lonely.
This goes for both genders.
It’s not our job to cure their loneliness.
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Than*
The trick is the "anti friend zone". I have female friends who I wasn't really attracted to when I first met them, but they turned out to have great insight into life, or to be really amazing cooks, or have a super dark sense of humor or something. Then once you're in you just need to catch him late some night when he's drunk and hook up... after that, see where it goes.
I told my boys from the beginning that there will be banging. There will be sub-par banging. There will be par panging. There will be a whole in one every so often, but at the end of the day you need to play the game.
Leah r. Is a different type of attractive imo.
She is hot but she is also the type that can have the same humor as men. She is very charming as well.
@@Gabster1990 right, toilet humor AND Potty mouth áre real atractive from a lady!!!
Which steely Dan album?
YES.
Both ugly and attractive women are showered with attention, especially because of social media. A lot of women also think they are much more attractive than they are. That aside, people want to be with people that they find attractive. Simple as that.
Steely Dan? Wow, she's a keeper. Can't argue taste.
I feel like the whole "male confidence" thing in relation to sex and dating is a total paradox. If you just go up to a woman and act all confident you come off as weak and desperate which are two of the most unattractive traits for a man to have. Every real man knows that "just go up to a woman with almost ostentatious confidence" bit nearly always comes from a place of weakness and 'giving in'.
You don't "act" confident, you be confident. There's a difference and women can tell.
@@art2736 Bitch I'm not asking for advice or clarification lol. We know what I meant. I'm also not complaining, just explaining.
"You don't 'act' confident, you be confident."
Sam difference.. If you *are* confident, you act confident dipshit. How just crazy people act crazy, etc.
Yeah, 'Be confident' is not particularly helpful advice. Better to think, 'positive and relaxed'.
Lets hope you don't end up like the other guy that uploaded Bill Burr Clips.
7:55 hear that ladies??
Some womens favorite cope is “men only want the pretty girls”. Idk what universe they live in but that couldn’t be more wrong
Isn’t that the point?
THAN
Bill I love Steely Dan!
For a girl, if you are ok looking and u have a good personality ur good. A girl that’s super funny and fun instantly makes her more attractive. Funny average looking girls are sexier than dumb boring hot girls
Women aint funny
I hope to God.
How can guys help but date women that look better than them? Women’s features or smaller and softer- which often appears more attractive than men’s bigger and sharp features…
*THAN
For me, the most important thing I look for in a girl is intelligence. However u have to pass the looks test first lmao
If she has even 1 bathroom selfie I'm audi 5000
It's all about personality. Jennifer Lopez would be ugly if she had a shitty personality. A great personality makes women look good to me
Go for the insecure guys. There are some very attractive insecure guys out there that will feel better with a less beautiful girl because they know she wont leave them.
Billy boy mass hole thru n thru. Ladies ever meet a man from mass this is pretty much how most of us think
Not even if she is a women can she understand
As an author & speaker,nothing wrong w/ borrowing/expanding upon other artists work PROVIDED you NEVER make a NICKEL from it & EXPLICITLY state where it’s from. CLEARLY STATE if any in audiences use mine (espec any content can be derived from that of another) can NOT be used to make a profit unless they CITE AND get permission from owner of work-then agree to compensation for portion of content used-not hard
Lady listener? Women don't listen 😂
No way, I'm first??
Right behind you buddy, 2nd
*than them
No. Bc doodle I either think she’s a goldigger or way out of your league
No such thing. Take some rubbing alcohol and a paper towel and prove me right
Holly shit
Isnt every man basically dating a woman who is better looking than them? We are all gorillas basically.
Is this women blonde in any way? O.o 🤣
From a logical point of view, always marry a woman uglier than you
Guys overthink hitting on girls all the time. It's not hard at all. Just be your self and don't be a creep.
It's still not that simple so I can tell you've never consciously tried to
@@tipoftheiceberg7034 it is though, unless you ugly
@@tipoftheiceberg7034 if your ugly and broke, good luck. Gotta have 1 of the two be good looking or have money or if you are ugly, have game and make them laugh. Trust me, it's not hard at all to pick up woman.
Otherwise it’s truly stealing-I.P. & $
* since Billy loves cooking for his family, that’s a tell tale sign that he’s a Dismissive Avoidant attachment style.
The DA love languages are acts of service and affirmations.
Also they have a chronic, self-doubt and usually 😏 uncalled-for self criticism. (We all **need** to be critical of the Self in a Society, tho) but, the DA Super Ego is, or *can* *be* a self-imposed bully 🤬
Learn your own Attachment Style and figure out which style you’re unconsciously, attracted to (from how your breeders traumatized your blameless, child mind) ✅
Should you date a woman who is better looking than you....
Every man ever: YES.
Bill Burr is being too nice. But now we have too many people making this copycat video. It’s tiring to see this all over the place. It’s good for Bill in terms of advertisement.
Im second
I couldn't possibly date a woman under a 8, and I'm probably a solid 6.5.
if ur a girl who’s funny, as long as you’re not fat you’ll do fine
Yes..the more feminine the woman is. More the masculine the man is....its nature....
Hypergamy