Create a Christ Centered & Well Managed Home I Christian Homemaking
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- Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
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I’ve been staying off of RUclips, but I really like your channel because it pushes me toward the Lord, and I feel more edified and blessed after watching. Anything that is taking me away from the Lord or not adding to me spiritually, I try to stay away from but your channel is a blessing and glorifies God and He uses you to give practical and biblical wisdom and I appreciate you. Love you sister in the Lord.
AMEN to everything you said.
Yes ma'am
Agreed 🙏
Your videos are such a blessing. I need to download all of your helpful tips to be a Christian Homemaker. I feel so overwhelmed. My house is a mess. I have five kids, one who is severely special needs. And most days, I have just given up. But you have inspired me. You truly have the Holy Spirit in you. Thank you for your channel.
You got this! You are an awesome mama who is caring for many ❤️. With 5 kids your house will be messy. Work together as a team to accomplish little things at a time. Give yourself grace, and ask the Lord for strength. If you are serving others (which you are) then you are fulfilling your role as a Christian homemaker!
Thanks for your videos.
I’m a stay at home father with our sixth month old. I am permanently disabled and am unable to work to provide. Therefore, my wife and I have switched roles in our family as she works full time and I am at home full time. We are both doing our best to embrace being outside our comfort zone in these roles. We are Christians and both lean on our faith to make it through our days. We want to raise our son in a Christ centered home. Neither one of us came from good families and have nothing beneficial to bring it our home from our childhoods. We’ve had to create a healthy environment on our own.
Thanks for reading this far I promise I’m going somewhere. As someone who did not grow up in a Christian home (let alone a healthy one), what would you say is foundational to focus on to build a successful home life (aside from prayer and spending time in the Bible of course)?
Again thanks for reading, this was uncomfortable to post. I want to serve my family in the role God has me in so I’m trying to humble myself to ask questions.
You are very brave for commenting. You can always email me too kelsey@westmanacademyhomeschool.com Thank you for being open and sharing your story. It could end up helping many people!
I will start by saying I don't have all the answers. I also have many areas to improve on with parenting and being a Christian, so what I suggest may not work for you and your family.
I think you and your wife are doing a great job! I don't think there is anything wrong with you switching roles and caring for your son. ❤️ I'm sorry that you are disabled, but I know God is using you and placing you specifically where He wants you. Reading the Bible and praying is HUGE! It can also be very hard if you didn't grow up in a strong Christian household or weren't taught the Bible. Definitely start with Bible studies. This has helped me so much! I truly believe we ALL have things we can learn about the Bible, that we don't know everything. My husband and I went through "The Bible Timeline" with Jeff Cavins, and that was super helpful. (I know you said aside from Bible and prayer, but I also know the more time spent in the Bible and in prayer really transfers out to other areas of your life.) I also recommend do it together with your wife.
Of course, clear communication and expectations are great to talk about with your wife. For our family, I am in charge of cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc. but we "split" parenting when he is home, and do a budget night together every Wednesday. He will also help out when needed, so it's not all on me. He will grill or cook things he enjoys, and I ask for help when I need it. Definitely ask for help when you need it. Ask for breaks when you need them too, and give grace to each other. Overall, try to be a servant. It can be VERY hard at times, but try to serve your family the best you can. Even when you are tired, stressed, annoyed, overwhelmed, turn to God, ask Him for help and strength, and try to serve. Remember that what you do for her and your family, you are doing for Jesus.
Don't forget to also care for yourself and work with your wife. You should be working as a team, and things aren't always "even" or "divided 50/50." There is give and take in many situations. Pray with her, and work on growing your relationship with her no matter how long you've been together.
I'm not sure this was helpful, so if I didn't answer the question correctly, just ask again or in more specific detail, and I would love to go more in-depth. Praying for you. SO glad you shared!
Here's the link to the study we started with. It's not affiliated or anything. ascensionpress.com/collections/the-bible-timeline-the-story-of-salvation
Thanks for your kind and encouraging words. I shared your thoughts with my wife and she appreciates them as well.
I had not thought about sharing the work load at home. I struggle with guilt that my wife has to work full time so I’ve had it in my mind everything in the home is my duty. So I appreciate you pointing out that tasks at home need to be shared.
I have one more question for you. How do you decide how much attention to give your children vs taking time for yourself and/or accomplishing the tasks you need to get completed? I have a fear of not giving my son enough attention and that resulting in him having developmental issues or feeling uncared for. Again, thanks for your thoughts.
@mamato12_blessings
Thank you for your reply and the breakdown you gave.
I have a strong perfectionistic drive so getting a nice dose of reality is important for me. With 12 kids you are much closer to that reality than me lol so I will heed your words of wisdom.
Also I only have one kid and I feel overwhelmed so props to you and the video creator for all you do with multiple kids. I have a lot of respect for it!
They have child-size versions of brooms, etc. If you have essential housework, your son can "help," depending on age appropriate. Like, "help Daddy sweep the floor." He might not get much done, but it's priceless time spent with you and little kids feel good when they've contributed to the family.
@@beckiejani7782 that’s a genius invention! Thanks for the information, my wife and I will be looking to pick one of those up in the near future. Thanks for your response!
Hi, i just subscribed. Im a mom to 5. 7 years to 8 months. And i homeschool. I try not to "waste" time on youtube but i found your video so pleasant and encouraging. Just wanted to say hello 👋
Hello! I hope homeschooling is going well! What a blessing you are to your family. Glad you said hello!
Hey Sister in Christ Jesus 🥰
I just want to say you are doing great and the Lord sees you. ❤ enjoy your day and your little blessings 🎉❤
🥰 Thank you for the encouragement. I appreciate it. ❤️ enjoy your day as well!
The spirals I use for my books: amzn.to/423Yt0o (affiliated link) and the binding tool I use: amzn.to/4aY698N (also affiliated). The binding hole punch is honestly pricey, you would probably be better off using a three ring binder.
🎉😊my family celebrated christ birthday 🎂 so we have a cake and pizza on Christmas and we have presents 🎁, things of that nature like most ppl we have on new year. Because we belief that Christmas is for christ and should be celebrated as so 🎉
Yes! I love this 🥰 That is what I am wanting too. My issue is that we live far from our family, so when we go back everyone celebrates normally the 24 and 25. God needed me to see this though, to strengthen my conviction.
So excited to check out your planner! Thank you!
I was struggling with saying too many things I shouldn't say. I asked God once to help me keep my tounge still. Then I thought about when I say the most things I regret and it was on FB. I used to be good at not saying stuff that I shouldn't but that was no longer the case. So I tried shutting down my account but I couldn't remember the pass word or even the old email password to reset it since I had had it for well over a decade. Then it occurred to me, if I didn't know the pass word then I could simply log out officially with my tablet and I wouldn't be able to get back in. It's been over 2 years now and I don't miss it at all.
Wonderful! I am only on FB when I want to search Marketplace for something. It is so refreshing not to have the pressure of "keeping up with everyone." I actually found that a break from Pinterest has been the most helpful of all! There is for sure a positive side of social media, but also a ton of negatives. There is a special freedom, though, when you remove yourself from social media. Thanks for sharing! What encouragement.
I’ve done the same thing with my FB account.
Per my usual, I forgot to attach the link to the blog post relating to this video, and with the link to the planner. 🤦westmanacademyhomeschool.com/2023/11/29/create-a-christ-centered-well-managed-home/
Hi Kelsey. Thanks so much for the updated planner! I just got mine and I'm picking out my pages for this year. What do you call that binding? I always thought I had to take it to an office store to get it spiral bound, so I never did, just used clunky binder. I really like spiral binding, though.
Thanks so much for your videos!
They are GBC binding spirals. The downfall is you have to buy a spiral machine..which are way more expensive than they need to be. You may be better off get a 3 ring binder. Here is the link to the spirals amzn.to/3T9pg9r and the ProClick binder amzn.to/3GkNTZ5
First I must say your home is beautiful feels peaceful.I have a question Do you plan on doing a tour foryour homeschooling room? I've been thinking about homeschooling my kids or christian school.
We have debated about homeschool and private school too. I'm very happy with our decision as we get to do many things as a family, plus so many other pros. Keep praying about it. I actually don't have a homeschool room in this home. I just use our dining room table and our built in and a vintage basket to hold our books. I can definitely show that too, but it's not too exciting.
@@faithfulacresfarmhouse I like your advice yes definitely will pray to the Lord about what school is the best choice for my kids. The Lord will always guide us in the good ways. 🙏💞
I’m so happy I found your channel . I need something to help me stay in track, but even better with God.
It is hard to get off track! I'm very guilty of this. I'm glad it's helped. Praise the Lord!
I just found her channel too!! So glad to have like minded souls to watch.
As always, amazing message with a practical living. Thank you Kelsey. Today, I have learned to declutter things not in the way from our point of view but checking ourselves in God's sight.
Thank you for the practical guide, Kelsey and Happy Christmas Season to you and your family.🙂
With regards,
-Hephzi.
At this point in my life, I have learned that the world is too fickle.
Loved the vlog.❤️
Hi Sarah, good seeing you on this blog. I’m one of your subscribers 🤗❤️
Just found your channel. Beautiful and needed message for women💕
Watching you clean these toys gives me anxiety lol. This is my life. Soooo much stuff that I didn't even buy.
Yesssss 🫠 then I feel bad giving stuff away
@@faithfulacresfarmhouse agreed but I had to start because it would pile to the ceiling LOL
I’ve been watching you videos for a few days and have gleaned a lot so far. After 30 years of marriage and motherhood I finally decided I do not need a lot of this for our home to function. My goal for the last few months has been to throw away things that were preventing me from serving others. I couldn’t help a friend because I had loads of laundry to do. I couldn’t attend a church activity or meeting because I needed to clean my house. Now that I’ve freed myself and my family from the weight of so many worldly possessions, we are able to serve more. To be ready for church or have people in our home. Thank you for sharing your wise words.
Wow this is wonderful advice and inspiration. This is a good reminder for me personally that my chores and home don't come before serving others. I don't want my home duties to keep me from doing my Godly ones. Thank you so much for sharing!
@@faithfulacresfarmhouse well don’t get me wrong, I believe homemaking is important, but when we have so much to take care of that we don’t have the time to serve others it’s time to take inventory of how many “things” we become slaves to. I’m learning consumerism can be sinful if it’s keeping up from helping others. It’s been a hard lesson for me to learn recently but stuff is that, just stuff.
Wow! That's what I am doing. Not just because I am sick of my mess, but because I figured I could do a lot more good for others if I wasn't trying to deal with excess possessions that lead to clutter. And the stuff I am moving out can go to thrift stores, library book sales, etc to help others.
@@beckiejani7782 good luck to both of us!!
Just printed my free homemaker planner. I’m so excited!. Thank you.
Yay! 🥰 Hope it works for you!
Where do I get ring book where I put in pages that's cool
The spirals I use for my books: amzn.to/423Yt0o (affiliated link) and the binding tool I use: amzn.to/4aY698N (also affiliated). The binding hole punch is honestly pricey, you would probably be better off using a three ring binder, unless you plan to bind many books or do homeschool.
Amazon links are affiliate links.
You Tube will not let me hit like on this video.
There is only a thumbs down button.
Odd....but I'm not surprised....
Hi Kelsey ,
I just found your videos this morning and really enjoying them. I’m a mother of two adult children and grandma of two. You’re a blessing to everyone. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
Where do you purchase your binder kit in order to put the free download together in a book ? Thank for the free download !
Thank you for your kind words. How blessed to have children and grandchildren! I have the pro-click from GBC. amzn.to/3O6Miub (it is an affiliated link) to bind and their spirals amzn.to/423Yt0o (also affiliated), but honestly it is very pricey for what it is. The spirals are great because you can open and shut them, so I reuse them all the time. However, it's an expensive binding tool, you would probably be better off doing a small three ring binder.
@@faithfulacresfarmhouse Thank you Kelsey for your honesty. It is very expensive for my needs. I will use a three ring binder.
Step 1; you just told me to remove my husband and kids from my home 😂 (joking in fun)
In realness, these are great tips
🤪😄 Me too!
@@faithfulacresfarmhouse 😂😍
Thank you for the weekly meal plan along with a grocery lost and recipes!!, it is extremely helpful ❤
@christinsala-pb8ww
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I really needed to hear this message today. We are temporarily (for a year) living in a house much too small for us, and this is a great reminder to be grateful and do my best to glorify God where He has me.
Really enjoying your content.
Do you have an Amazon storefront or a list that shares some of the tools you use in your daily life (videos)
Like the binder spine or whole punch 💛
I use the ProClick spiral binds.
www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00006IAS6?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_title (not affiliated)
I also have the ProClick binding machine. I use it a ton to make curriculum books and any book I want to print. However, they are really expensive, so a three hole punch may be better.
www.amazon.com/Swingline-GBC-Binding-Capacity-ProClick/dp/B00006IAS3/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?crid=32F5Q5547A053&keywords=proclick+binding+machine&qid=1702009723&sprefix=proclick+%2Caps%2C128&sr=8-3 (also not affiliated)
Thank you ❤
Where did you get your hole puncher?
www.amazon.com/Swingline-GBC-Binding-Capacity-ProClick/dp/B00006IAS3/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?crid=32F5Q5547A053&keywords=proclick+binding+machine&qid=1702009723&sprefix=proclick+%2Caps%2C128&sr=8-3 (not affiliated)
It is expensive, so a 3 hole punch might be a better option.
Not shopping at target, but shopping on Amazon. Doesn’t make sense
I do not support Target due to them paying for employees' travel to get an abortion if it is illegal in that state. I also don't support their children's clothing that is transgender friendly. Although Amazon does believe in values I do not, small companies and Christian companies do sell on Amazon that I support.
@@faithfulacresfarmhouse since my first response was deleted right away, I will just say that I hope you open your heart. We cannot create a world where we only avoid those who do not walk the road to Jesus YET. He walked with them and asked for their forgiveness. In a world where we no longer have a choice but to support something that we don’t agree with, in someway or another. I hope that you choose to love them anyway.
@@Sammiejammie521 RUclips must have deleted your first comment because I did not. I'm sorry that you see me not supporting Target or abortion or transgender as not loving others. Love is not the same as acceptance. I hope you have a blessed day.
@@faithfulacresfarmhouse Amazon is also giving employees up to $4000 to travel out of state for abortions. And don’t get me started on their stance with transgenderism and the other horrid things they sell. They also make horrible working conditions for their employees and support terrible companies. They allow cheap dupes of products that are made to undercut family owned companies. I would know because I worked for a small Christian company and they used Amazon to sell, and then Amazon turned around and sold cheap China made versions of their product for half of the price. My point is there is no way to avoid “supporting” those things, and there are plenty of Christian men and women who work at target. If we create a world where we try to separate ourselves from what we consider to be wrong, I believe that will make the separation worse. How are they to ever see the light if they have no example of it. Our job is to love everyone because we are not the ones who will be passing judgment on their life.
@@faithfulacresfarmhouse blessings! I hope you and your family find your self’s well . I was wondering how I can get the printables ?