Altruism is a big risk. INFJ's must have a really strong credit/collections manager at their side. And keep INFJ's far away from the possibility of granting discounts to customers who say they are struggling, and who proceed to relate all the unfortunate events that brought them to their place of struggle. INFJ's should be in the back office working on conceptual stuff and have a strong front-office line of defense
That “read the first 5 pages and you’ll end up reading 20” thing is really helpful for me. If I tell myself I’m going to do a very small portion of an Se related task, it seems less intimidating and I’ll probably end up doing most or all of the thing anyway.
Today's the day when I stopped looking at MBTI as a horoscope. I'm utterly blown away by how much these videos KNOW about me. Like...intimately. I knew that I wanted to use these strategically in my own market research. But using them for myself in the process...I don't know how you're doing this but it's like you're putting my demons on display and it's all absolutely positively correct. Though I do tend to go balls to the wall deep in market research, finding people and influencers who have validated my concept, and trying to justify the ones who don't validate it as "ugh stupid people they just don't GET it!"
All it ever told me, the rare part, is the part I always felt, and not in this stupid “special snowflake” way, it was just a bit reassurance that I wasn’t crazy. That was all. I didn’t feel special, more important, and I didn’t get some ego boost, I just didn’t feel so frustrated, and down, and it helped me feel better about the way I am, rather than always feeling that I might be less of something. I think you are directing this at people who are mistyping themselves as infjs. We don’t need you or anyone to humble us. Good God. And i am well aware of my weaknesses because they’ve been placed in front of me since I was a little girl, by, family, friends, school, and every other institution, and I’ve wasted most of my life attempting to pacify others by learning their ways, instead of trusting my own, or they learning from mine. We are forced from childhood to behave in a way which is acceptable to the extroverts, because they dominate the external world. It was only when I began honoring my intuition, gut feelings, and got the hell away from all the external crap, that I began to see my potential, and fulfill it, and exceed it, and exceed others I had been brainwashed to respect, and to be blown away by how correct my fully synthesized understanding of the world always was, as it was being forced to construct, what was already constructed and deconstructed and in the midst a of being reconstructed, already in my own brain. It’s regression, more than progression for this type. So we are being asked to dumb ourselves down to serve others, beginning from the age of 4, or whenever kids start school. It’s very damaging. The gifts of an INFJ are expansive, and not the least bit showy, and designed for personal fulfillment and connection, not fame and money. So society would be wise to look in the dark corners, the spaces in between where much of the most innovative, sophisticated ideas and art are being developed by the infjs. Especially from middle age and beyond. They might be the philosophers the world needs right now.
Thank you. This is the real reason we often don't know ourselves. We understand that the world isn't suited for us from an early age and it hinders us from moving forward. What incentive is there to be and accept yourself when the institutions and other well meaning people view your strengths as invalid or are blind to them - even your parents? There isn't one and that's why so many of us have some form of an existential crisis until we realize that we have to exist for ourselves.
People forget to understand that being in top 1% is lonely. Imagine being in top 0,0001% in LoL or CounterStrike. Who'd you get matched against? How long would it take? With whom would you talk? The same as living atop the mountain. I fail to see what's so magical about INJs. I mean, I understand it, but people overlook SO MANY details that are oh so crucial. And those details COMPLETELY TRANSFORM the picture.
As in INTJ I can say this help me a lot but I couldn’t believe how exhausted I was handling SE nonsense I mean exhausted I had to go off and be alone and think for like a day ,it was very strange I didn’t realize how under developed SE was
In another video they mentioned how much INFJs hate the update notices on their computer. I looked up at the update notice on my Chrome browser... and then looked away.
2:18 Formatting of numbers on spreadsheets, headers, justifying text, spacing and other detail was hammered into me by bosses who said it really matters. Now, I cannot send an email if there is a comma missing, no salutation, or spacing is wrong. Systems, like building a spreadsheet (ONE spreadsheet) that can get all the detail rolled up, is super useful and takes away the stress of too much detail. Other detail, like checking the oil or stopping for gas, yes, guilty!
Not that I'm basing my type on this video (believe me, I have a LOT of data that proves me as an INFJ), but when you went to that article, you pegged me, a 21 year old INFJ male who doesn't have a clue "What the hell I know." Just was amused at this. Also, thanks for the reminder. Se is not bad. It's not hard. It's just a matter of "Don't wanna" and getting past that will free me up to get stuff done.
Yeah... I think that is why INFJs are drawn to personality typing... because we have no idea who we are. I'd go to a job interview, and they'd be like, "So, what are your strengths?" And I'm like, "Um... How can you know from me just telling you? I could lie my head off. isn't figuring that out kind of your job? I am what I am." Just FYI, that doesn't really work as an answer.
Ahahahaaaa I’m an INFP and definitely always think my idea is the greatest idea known to mankind. I always want to go full speed ahead, assuming everyone else will also think it’s the greatest without tribe feedback. 😂😂 noticed this at work recently when I was asked to change some of our social media posts and immediately felt the need to defend why MY vision is the best. Oh dear lord tribe feedback is definitely my blind spot 😭😂 so thank you for that. 😏🤷🏻♀️
Rebekah Parkhurst in most of my bands I used to write everything and be like play this. But I'm writting a book and have told my friend's the ideas. And in regards to being organized I'm very unorganized but that's a Te issue
it's weird, because i tend to be incredibly nitpicky with the details of other people's ideas, but when it comes to my own, i overlook them completely, to the point of not knowing how to even start working on them because of how abstract they're on my mind. Like, i have this weird map in my head, but when i try to zoom in on one of the nodes, there's only another map! just smaller. And yet, i tend to harshly critizise other people, as in "how coukd you posible leave aside this completely unimportant detail??? if you had dealt with it in this other way it'd have changed everything and made it 10 times better!!" dang hypocresies. but i'm getting better, both at judging other people and my own work on the other hand, i tend to accumulate incredible amounts of information about the stuff that interest me, but it's more on a Te way than Se way ("how to write movies!" vs "actually watching them"). i've been aware of this shortcoming for a long time, but it's so freaking HARD to just sit down and consume somethign!!!! thanks for reminding me on what i should be working on
True about the stubborn belief and loyalty to one’s own ideas. I don’t necessarily like gathering ideas... When someone sees me reading a book, I’m not necessarily absorbing it per se but rather trying to see how it fits in my own world of ideas.
Another thing worth mentioning is energy management. If you listen to enough entrepreneur podcasts, working huge hours seems to be a requirement. That's just not going to happen for an INFJ.
Here’s my demon Se tip for success at Se: delegate it. Don’t do it yourself, pay someone who’s good at it to do it for you, and put your energy into your strengths.
I'm a self proclaimed Infj, so take this with a grain of salt, but whether I am or I'm not, this was very helpful for me. I identify strongly with the infj functions and I use the personality type as a way of understanding myself and as a tool to aid personal growth. The demon being information gathering was hilarious for me. I have a lot of ideas and projects I want to pursue but, indeed, the most painful part for me is doing research. I'm in university and studying electrical engineering and I found that a significant hindrance to my work efficient was having to switch back and forth between getting information (for a lab report or a project) and actually doing the work. I just recently learned that it's much more effective to gather all the information and theory I need for my work beforehand so I can focus on simply doing the work. I think this would hold true for everyone, but it's especially important for me. I would, for example, only need to find information on the theory for a lab report, but I would put it off for hours, or even days, because I really dreaded taking 10 minutes to open the textbook and find what I needed. This video explains why that would be true, if I were an infj, and I thank for that! I'm sure this more explicit awareness will save my ass in the future.
You are such a good coach. The information is very clear and purposeful. The manic energy and saltiness makes it fun to listen to, for me, personally. Not sure how well it would land with others. The flow is super fast, but you sound very authoritative saying it, so there's that at least. Some fun pictures might be one way to use humor to your advantage. It might help. Allows you to keep your rapidfire flow while taking the edge off of the audience. When I say fun pictures, because that sounds stupid, uhm, I mean being able to tell the audience a story in a very condensed format. TED Talks do it, newspaper satire does it, internet memes do it. They may not remember your words but will be able to recall an image via the way it made them feel or the story it represented. Just a thought. Again, I personally love it. I've been scouring RUclips for your style on this MBTI topic.
"Hypnosis business" The only INFJ I can think of was an astrologer. However, it was not that hard to keep my opinion to myself except when she asked. She was helping women who had been damaged by religion by talking with them over skype.
(Almost) My entire life I've spent in questioning myself. But I keep it to me only. If I tell my close people they tell me I'm overthinking. Or some might even think that I'm imagining my problems. So, I really wait to see if there are people who'd understand without jumping on to conclusions or judgements. And just understand. At times, there also have been times where I'm not self aware. So those times I'm really detached to reality and don't much think or question myself. Really got in trouble for that. It's so relieving and good to develop your inferior function. ~INFJ
I thought I didn't have a problem with details because I was so obsessed with the presentation of my work to the point of perfectionism. But then I began to realize that I would always miss one or two small details in my editing or just basic mistakes, (consistently) after I turned my work in. I was always very concerned about the large picture and the overall impression of my work and even though I thought I cared about details, I had to realize that came second to my first priorities. Honestly, those small details weren't the first thing that people would notice and judge. Because it's not the first thing I would judge. It's the overall statements that you're making, are you theoretically clear and concise? Is your writing coherent? We all notice things we care about. If someone would mention that I misspelled or misused a word I would be irritated with myself but whatever, if they said I got a concept wrong it would be very difficult for me. Like who f****** cares about the wrong font when what you're saying is boring or misinformed? 😆
I'm lucky I discovered it through an official test and booklet, which didn't say INFJ is this special snowflake. It just compared all types to eachother on plain basis. Like: This is how you are and how you operate. Your plusses and your weaknesses. Point blank. That's still the best way. That's how MBTI should be used and tested.
This is really good stuff. I would add energy deficiency to the Se problems. Actually executing a marketing plan, engaging in sales, talking to customers.... the brute effort can be very exhausting.
Hmmm, I'm an INFJ and a coder so i'm less like that with details of code or learning new things (I read like 15 books a year and do multiple courses and a great buzz from that it all feeds towards my long term plan) but more like this with things like house work. It can build up on me a lot and takes a lot of energy to focus on it and before I know it there's a lot of different parts of my house that need something done with them either cleaning or repaired or something. It just feels like a big and boring distraction from Ni plans, goals and long term vision. I can like some of it when I actually get myself to do it and seeing my place tidier (and that can be stress relief when it is tidier that I didnt' know I needed) but very difficult & tiring to focus on it day in, day out. Kinda depresses me.
I'm thinking of getting into coding.. wondering if I'll be good at it since I'll be solving problems instead of subjective clients who tell you what they want n need but can't buy ... I can't ppl sometimes... I was a designer n took time off to be a sahm... it took enormous upfront work to get my environment in "order" (the peace is worth it)... maintenance is delegated for certain days. (Dana k white helped with this).. hopes it helps. What type of coding do u do?
But beyond that I think most of us in the MBTI community still seem to be confused about how the inferior function works. I think this is partly because it tends to manifest differently in different people, especially with varied development. Like we often confuse ourselves by seeing weak Se as the absence of it. I tend to get the sense that presence of Se will still show in many INTJs or INFJs as immaculate visual attention, or an openness to a multitude of new sensory experience, rather than Si repetition etc. but the bottom line for it tends to be lack of engagement with the physical world, or a sort of inconsistency or imbalance in or confusion with that engagement. I like your video on ENTPs and the interaction between Ti and Fe, and how the middle functions seem to work together smoothly, while the dominant and inferior axes appear to be more polarized so that even though cognitively speaking they compliment each other perfectly, they still seem to show as a tension within the person you're observing. In my opinion the most reliable way of typing someone is by using negative perceptions of themselves or others. What do they beat themselves up about? What makes them self-conscious? What do they think brings out the unrestrained child in them? What do they think makes themselves look ridiculous or what do they judge others for or dislike about them? This is a very Jungian concept that in a sense is more real and revealing than self proclaimed values, because everyone is perfecting their image and polishing their principles, so paying attention to where they direct their negative energy or frustration when it comes out ends up giving you a lot more than by getting them to talk about their interests for example.
"...the most reliable way of typing someone is by using negative perceptions of themselves or others." I have a feeling this is very profound, especially after diving into the original ideas developed by Jung. We project the negative aspects of our shadow selves onto others and judge them harshly for it. This also jives with the idea of being in the "grip" of our 4th function. We don't recognize ourselves when we are in the grip and view it as negative and therefore view others that use that function well negatively. "...everyone is perfecting their image and polishing their principles." Yes, I think this applies well to the idea that we all use all of the cognitive functions. For example, if I am a trained athlete I may have developed skill in a very stereotypical "Se" behavior yet it may not be a function in my stack. That can lead to a lot of confusion, but the behaviors in others that ignite anger and/or fear are more bubbling up from the unconscious consistently and uncontrollably.
If I make a website it's not going to look like shit like that, it's just that that therefore makes me lack the motivation to actually put in the effort to make it look as awesome as I want it to be and to actually get any of that shit done. So not that I'd do it shittily, but I'm anxiously procrastinating to do the very shit I want to do. - Me, an INFJ lol
I wanna start reading advice books but I have this fear that my reasoning will be now even more biased based on this possibly flawed new information. I catch on to things and figure things out easily & naturally and I don’t want to disrupt that. 😭
If you are an Ni dom struggling with details, the best thing to do is try practicing mindfulness on a regular basis, and it helps a lot to work in an industry, like the service industry, where details are everything, or have a hobby that requires it, like art, and ask for honest feedback when you pursue it. It can be really difficult at first, but over time, you learn. Same with research. It's hard to step outside your head and think "I might be wrong about pretty much everything". It can be a scary thought that the furniture in your mind is not sufficient, but typically, it isn't. I've learned to get past that hurdle. I've just started to see these things as a necessary evil; my websites are so much better as a result of it XD. I agree that INFJs are absolutely not special snowflakes. It can be an incredibly difficult and frustrating type to be, but with enough hard work, you can have something within you, that's pretty special, with time.
When I first took the test, it was because some friends introduced me to _Please Understand Me,_ by Kiersey and Bates. I had no clue what was or was not considered "rare." That wasn't my concern at all when I took that test. I was just trying to answer the questions as honestly as possible. I do know when I read the descriptions of all the various types, INFJ seemed off, and I found all the SFs or STs (to use that terminology) repulsive. That first test I took notched me as INTP. Even so, something didn't seem quite right when I read the description given for that MBTI type. Then another book - I forget the author - gave me a different perspective on J vs P. At this point, I'd never even heard of functions, let alone a function stack. Ever since I gained that different perspective, I've tested consistently (over a little more than a handful of tests) as INXJ, meaning, as they put it, that I was more balanced with the T and F, with a few scoring me more INTJ. But it's always been INXJ or INTJ.
Oh gosh. This reminds me of the way that Penelope Trunk talks to INFJs. It's a shame because you have so much good content. But this type is a really big blind spot for you guys. Why that is is probably really interesting.
I wouldn't read the book, but I'd also have already done my market research because I looked at all those articles and they told me to do market research when starting my etsy business, lol. I'll google all the new information I need but if you tell me to read this book I probably won't. No clue what that means lol. In business I'd say I lean more toward tribe and self being my issues because I've got this idea, I've researched it, I've prototyped my products and I really like them, in fact I'd rather just keep working on my products, coming up with new ideas, etc. I have started to test that they work for me, but then the advertising and testing it on a small audience for feedback. Well, I gave one to my boyfriend and so far he likes it?
Under every video where you bash an intuitive type 90% of comments are people saying basically this: wow you are so right, being this intuitive type myself (i totally hate this type btw because why else would I share it with everyone right) I can totally see how others misstype. As a INFJ i hate being btw. Yeah others always misstype but im a real INFJ.
O M G Looks like everybody is broken hahaha Thank god I am an Ni-Ti INFJ, but... I don't have that weak Se, I thought I had, but now it's clear I don't I am very AWARE of the concrete reality.
What do you mean INFJ don't like reading? They LOVE reading, and taking in information because they have Ti. Do you mean they don't LOOK around when they walk?
I will refuse to read certain books and gather information because I feel like I got it. Obviously just hate using my demon function. It’s annoying though people will assume I’m pretentious and a know it all because of it. But I just really don’t like doing it. I have sooo many half read books on my shelf because I assume I understand what it’s all about and that I got the gist of it. & there are times when I do well and use Se a lot more BUT then i go back into not using it. Man it’s tough, especially since I’m going to be a future business owner. Gonna have to partner with a gatherer
Yep... the unfinished books are bc they don't get to the freaking point. ... who cares about the 5 stories... just tell me hooooow!!! (How =The se... I got the ni =why, fe/ti=what)
I have a question. Do all types need examples(such as giving a fact and how it applies in the real world) or does that fall on certain types? Thank you! I appreciate the video.
I really appreciate the work you do , but ... The way you present things , I think It would be better if you do more organizing , for example there is lot of videos about the infj , and while watching each one of them, it's hard to link them all together , and sometimes you got just small one idea about the infj , or te or fi , and you should look here and there and do extra effort to gather the information , and than make extra work to link everything together.
I have to disagree with some of the claims in your video. As many other people have noted, INFJs (myself included) can be incredibly detail-oriented and perfectionistic. Ni keeps us incredibly organized, especially with relatively asocial features of our environment like a website. I think a much greater indicator of low Se is the inability to actually go out into the real world-- so in your business example, that might equate to actually setting up a storefront or marketing a product door-to-door. INFJs would very much like to keep our ideas in our heads or simply online. Additionally, I disagree with your assumption that low Ti makes INFJs poor at self-evaluation. Ask any INFJ and you'll find that we are incredibly self-aware, and possibly more introspective than any other non-Fi-dom type. Ni wants to organize information relating to a concept. Guess what? The self is a concept. INFJs seek the deepest understanding of the self possible. I (and my INFJ compatriots) would have no problem at all answering those "Ti"-based questions.
Have you read the introverted intuitive descriptor in Jungs Psychological Types? It's not exactly outlining somebody who is 'incredibly detail oriented and perfectionistic' or 'organized' externally and is actually far more along the lines of what Dave is outlining here, with regards to demon Se. I also think you're incorrect regarding self-awareness, and this would be more likely in an INFJ-Ti subtype of sorts - someone who is dominant Ni, but their preferred decision making process is Ti - so they have that self-identity there in how they make decisions. What you are outlining with this whole 'understand the self' thing sounds uber Fi to me but eh, I don't know you - I think you/we should come into Daves new clips with an open mind, not be closed off and try to force the information he's providing into our predefined notions of what the types and functions are, on the basis of those notions being unable to be proved so far on any consistent basis.
Edit: Didn't see that Turi wrote the same thing as I did but with more confidence. :) INFJ's can also be kinda messy. Self-evaluation is not self-awareness. I don't see why they would be more introspective than most looking at functions. It probably varies a lot per person. Though it's not uncommon that INFJ's get overwhelmed by their feelings, especially less mature INFJ's. Of course, I cant point to any sources, but I have counter anecdotal evidence, which means it's a good idea to evaluate what's actually true. Naturally, we have strong biases towards certain types (esp., considering your name shows that you might have). I am not looking to argue just pointing out that biases might be at play.
The thing you guys need to realize is that he is explaining the characteristics an INFJ is susceptible to developing. If you are right handed, there isn't a lot of incentive to brush your teeth with your left hand; however, you're not going to row a boat with 1 hand and you could brush your teeth with your left and get good at if you wanted too. Your information processing loads the gun, but you pull the trigger.
First, you can't ask "any INFJ". You'd first have to accurately type them. Second, you're going off the basis that you yourself are an INFJ. That's not proof or evidence, and yet you treat it like it is. You're probably not even an INFJ arguing about how INFJs are.
I agree I can be a perfectionist with what I want. For instance if I had a business and a website for it I would make sure nothing is missing! Though through daily life activities I miss the details A LOT. I think it’s a matter of where you apply your Se. Maybe the infj he was talking about just doesn’t feel passionate about their business so they’re just BSing it lol. Also def agree on the self awareness thing!
Are ENFJs in a contest with INFJs or what? They should mind their own business and worry about their inferior Ti. These guys can't form a logical argument ha ha ha ha ha
I find that most INFJs end up typing themselves as something they're not the first go around. I typed myself as ENFP (see his Peacocking video--it's rad) when I first got into MBTI. I only came to the conclusion of INFJ after talking with 3-4 people who were seriously involved in typing and recognizing that I have the standard INFJ pitfalls. I don't get the appeal other people have towards being an INFJ. It's overhyped and frankly a lot of the traits INFJs have make them maladjusted to daily life. It's not something to WANT to aspire to. Rejecting information just because you get overloaded isn't a quality conducive to a happy life. I wish more people knew about the downsides and found umbrage in recognizing their own strengths and aptitudes.
just because You watched a video about something that happens to some people doesn't make it true in all cases, you can also say that a lot of INFJ get typed wrong and are mistakenly rare
Filippos Addimando Thought I was a INTJ at first I didn't wanna be a infj boy but then I got around people and realized I'm a people pleaser rather than a selfish person it screwed me a bunch of times wish I was a asshole I would get more shit done.
Hi Dave this is a good video, I have been typed as a ENTP not sure if I’m trusting that as being overall because of my age while I took the test . What would you say a ENTP blind spots are ?
As an infj I could open a business but I don't want to. Business as usual day in and day out is what is fracking the world up. Today's businesses have two major flaws which are environmental degradation and human disregard. If you work for a company and you are made redundant because they don't need you anymore, they're putting the needs of the business before the needs of human beings. And everyone excepts this as a given like it's ok. But it's structural violence which is built into the system. The amount of waste that is produced by massive corporate structures and even smaller businesses is unsustainable and day by day we are producing so much plastic waste and seeing the seas full of plastic and mountains of rubbish piling up and you're talking about infjs building a fucking business???!!! Get tha fk outta here with that shit. Infjs need to be at the forefront leading the revolution and finding solutions to the world's problems.
Yes but having a business can help you lead with more influence. You’ll have a bigger impact on the world if you are a very well known brand. #1 reason I’m starting my own brand. It’s all about perspective though, I feel any way could work
Also if an infj were to start a business they can find ways to reinvent it to help limit waste which can then influence other brands thus causing a revolution
I understand your point. And I have thought about it in the past too. You definitely have more of an influence in society if you're well known and the have tonnes of money. But time is running out. We're not transitioning to a more sustainable society fast enough. We're fucking everything up every minute of the day on a massive scale. All this pussy footing around with business ventures is time spent wasted on things that aren't as important as the main issues that we face today. Why don't ppl just get straight to the main issue???? MONEY. The illusion of money is got us all twisted thinking about ourselves, out own families, status etc. It's all bs.
@@Wizardesss If everybody just got on the same platform with the president and would elevate his powers to get more things done more efficiently, we could get these problems handled. Now, why do I have a sneaking suspicion you might not be onboard with that, even though he is the democratically elected leader of the western superpower of the free world? Food for thought.
Ive been thinking wow theres alot pit there lol , to me personally it's not the best very sad and scary actually especially when a car following you with people in white mask hehe
“I ain’t got time for that Se shit!”
The IN*J slogan 👌🏻
Haha yes!
"Oh that's not due for 3 months, it'll be fine"
*spends 4 months in my head*
"Oh sh*t the car payment was late again"
as an INFJ I can tell you being an INFJ is not fun
Lizzy White Its been more a disadvantage for me than anything. If anybody wish to be an INFJ, I don’t know what to tell you. You’re an idiot 😂🤷♂️
@@robertbordevik5072 True, I hate my own type ... every few days when I think about it, I throw an internal anger tantrum 😂
MediAevum 😂😂😂
Whoever wants to be an infj, obviously doesnt know what he’s talking about :(
@Nick Gurr As an INFJ, I see so much freedom in being an ISTP
Altruism is a big risk. INFJ's must have a really strong credit/collections manager at their side. And keep INFJ's far away from the possibility of granting discounts to customers who say they are struggling, and who proceed to relate all the unfortunate events that brought them to their place of struggle. INFJ's should be in the back office working on conceptual stuff and have a strong front-office line of defense
Sad but true. Thank you for putting this out.
"... And keep INFJ's far away from the possibility of granting discounts to customers who say they are struggling..." this had me rolling.
Sucks being an INFJ... I’m 32 still waiting for life to unfold (I.e., take over the world).
Haha me too.. at least I have some SE now, I already went Ni-Ti.. now I'm doing Ni Fe.. We know Se like scheduled no dose pills..
its giving narcissism
Lol You're 36 now. How's that going? Any progress? (Seriously)
That “read the first 5 pages and you’ll end up reading 20” thing is really helpful for me. If I tell myself I’m going to do a very small portion of an Se related task, it seems less intimidating and I’ll probably end up doing most or all of the thing anyway.
So everyone wants their type to be the shiny pokemon? Sounds about right.
Today's the day when I stopped looking at MBTI as a horoscope. I'm utterly blown away by how much these videos KNOW about me. Like...intimately. I knew that I wanted to use these strategically in my own market research. But using them for myself in the process...I don't know how you're doing this but it's like you're putting my demons on display and it's all absolutely positively correct.
Though I do tend to go balls to the wall deep in market research, finding people and influencers who have validated my concept, and trying to justify the ones who don't validate it as "ugh stupid people they just don't GET it!"
Bro, as an INFJ that tried to start a business this video is freaking helpful. Thank you so much!
All it ever told me, the rare part, is the part I always felt, and not in this stupid “special snowflake” way, it was just a bit reassurance that I wasn’t crazy. That was all. I didn’t feel special, more important, and I didn’t get some ego boost, I just didn’t feel so frustrated, and down, and it helped me feel better about the way I am, rather than always feeling that I might be less of something. I think you are directing this at people who are mistyping themselves as infjs. We don’t need you or anyone to humble us. Good God. And i am well aware of my weaknesses because they’ve been placed in front of me since I was a little girl, by, family, friends, school, and every other institution, and I’ve wasted most of my life attempting to pacify others by learning their ways, instead of trusting my own, or they learning from mine. We are forced from childhood to behave in a way which is acceptable to the extroverts, because they dominate the external world. It was only when I began honoring my intuition, gut feelings, and got the hell away from all the external crap, that I began to see my potential, and fulfill it, and exceed it, and exceed others I had been brainwashed to respect, and to be blown away by how correct my fully synthesized understanding of the world always was, as it was being forced to construct, what was already constructed and deconstructed and in the midst a of being reconstructed, already in my own brain. It’s regression, more than progression for this type. So we are being asked to dumb ourselves down to serve others, beginning from the age of 4, or whenever kids start school. It’s very damaging. The gifts of an INFJ are expansive, and not the least bit showy, and designed for personal fulfillment and connection, not fame and money. So society would be wise to look in the dark corners, the spaces in between where much of the most innovative, sophisticated ideas and art are being developed by the infjs. Especially from middle age and beyond. They might be the philosophers the world needs right now.
Thank you. This is the real reason we often don't know ourselves. We understand that the world isn't suited for us from an early age and it hinders us from moving forward. What incentive is there to be and accept yourself when the institutions and other well meaning people view your strengths as invalid or are blind to them - even your parents? There isn't one and that's why so many of us have some form of an existential crisis until we realize that we have to exist for ourselves.
Strong people say strong words. God blesses the world
This was brilliantly worded and so very true! Thank you for explaining the truth of who we are - God bless
thanks
People forget to understand that being in top 1% is lonely. Imagine being in top 0,0001% in LoL or CounterStrike. Who'd you get matched against? How long would it take? With whom would you talk? The same as living atop the mountain.
I fail to see what's so magical about INJs. I mean, I understand it, but people overlook SO MANY details that are oh so crucial. And those details COMPLETELY TRANSFORM the picture.
As in INTJ I can say this help me a lot but I couldn’t believe how exhausted I was handling SE nonsense I mean exhausted
I had to go off and be alone and think for like a day ,it was very strange I didn’t realize how under developed SE was
In another video they mentioned how much INFJs hate the update notices on their computer. I looked up at the update notice on my Chrome browser... and then looked away.
2:18 Formatting of numbers on spreadsheets, headers, justifying text, spacing and other detail was hammered into me by bosses who said it really matters. Now, I cannot send an email if there is a comma missing, no salutation, or spacing is wrong. Systems, like building a spreadsheet (ONE spreadsheet) that can get all the detail rolled up, is super useful and takes away the stress of too much detail. Other detail, like checking the oil or stopping for gas, yes, guilty!
Also, you are *the* channel I send people to when learning MBTI for the first time. Thank you thank you~
Not that I'm basing my type on this video (believe me, I have a LOT of data that proves me as an INFJ), but when you went to that article, you pegged me, a 21 year old INFJ male who doesn't have a clue "What the hell I know."
Just was amused at this.
Also, thanks for the reminder. Se is not bad. It's not hard. It's just a matter of "Don't wanna" and getting past that will free me up to get stuff done.
Yeah... I think that is why INFJs are drawn to personality typing... because we have no idea who we are. I'd go to a job interview, and they'd be like, "So, what are your strengths?" And I'm like, "Um... How can you know from me just telling you? I could lie my head off. isn't figuring that out kind of your job? I am what I am." Just FYI, that doesn't really work as an answer.
Ahahahaaaa I’m an INFP and definitely always think my idea is the greatest idea known to mankind. I always want to go full speed ahead, assuming everyone else will also think it’s the greatest without tribe feedback. 😂😂 noticed this at work recently when I was asked to change some of our social media posts and immediately felt the need to defend why MY vision is the best. Oh dear lord tribe feedback is definitely my blind spot 😭😂 so thank you for that. 😏🤷🏻♀️
Rebekah Parkhurst in most of my bands I used to write everything and be like play this. But I'm writting a book and have told my friend's the ideas. And in regards to being organized I'm very unorganized but that's a Te issue
Same! SAME! SAAAAAAAME!
Interesting
it's weird, because i tend to be incredibly nitpicky with the details of other people's ideas, but when it comes to my own, i overlook them completely, to the point of not knowing how to even start working on them because of how abstract they're on my mind. Like, i have this weird map in my head, but when i try to zoom in on one of the nodes, there's only another map! just smaller. And yet, i tend to harshly critizise other people, as in "how coukd you posible leave aside this completely unimportant detail??? if you had dealt with it in this other way it'd have changed everything and made it 10 times better!!"
dang hypocresies. but i'm getting better, both at judging other people and my own work
on the other hand, i tend to accumulate incredible amounts of information about the stuff that interest me, but it's more on a Te way than Se way ("how to write movies!" vs "actually watching them"). i've been aware of this shortcoming for a long time, but it's so freaking HARD to just sit down and consume somethign!!!! thanks for reminding me on what i should be working on
I love being INFJ despite it's challenges.
I agree!
When you’re an infj with parents that constantly tell you you suck, you kinda learn to rely on Fe and Se a little more then most.
That Hipnotize-U website had me fkn rolling, thanks for that.
True about the stubborn belief and loyalty to one’s own ideas. I don’t necessarily like gathering ideas... When someone sees me reading a book, I’m not necessarily absorbing it per se but rather trying to see how it fits in my own world of ideas.
Another thing worth mentioning is energy management. If you listen to enough entrepreneur podcasts, working huge hours seems to be a requirement. That's just not going to happen for an INFJ.
Here’s my demon Se tip for success at Se: delegate it. Don’t do it yourself, pay someone who’s good at it to do it for you, and put your energy into your strengths.
reading a book is the hardest thing ever
-someone who think's they're an infj
I'm a self proclaimed Infj, so take this with a grain of salt, but whether I am or I'm not, this was very helpful for me. I identify strongly with the infj functions and I use the personality type as a way of understanding myself and as a tool to aid personal growth. The demon being information gathering was hilarious for me. I have a lot of ideas and projects I want to pursue but, indeed, the most painful part for me is doing research. I'm in university and studying electrical engineering and I found that a significant hindrance to my work efficient was having to switch back and forth between getting information (for a lab report or a project) and actually doing the work. I just recently learned that it's much more effective to gather all the information and theory I need for my work beforehand so I can focus on simply doing the work. I think this would hold true for everyone, but it's especially important for me. I would, for example, only need to find information on the theory for a lab report, but I would put it off for hours, or even days, because I really dreaded taking 10 minutes to open the textbook and find what I needed. This video explains why that would be true, if I were an infj, and I thank for that! I'm sure this more explicit awareness will save my ass in the future.
I’m an INFP. Struggle with the tribe is real.
You are such a good coach. The information is very clear and purposeful.
The manic energy and saltiness makes it fun to listen to, for me, personally.
Not sure how well it would land with others. The flow is super fast, but you sound very authoritative saying it, so there's that at least.
Some fun pictures might be one way to use humor to your advantage. It might help. Allows you to keep your rapidfire flow while taking the edge off of the audience.
When I say fun pictures, because that sounds stupid, uhm, I mean being able to tell the audience a story in a very condensed format. TED Talks do it, newspaper satire does it, internet memes do it.
They may not remember your words but will be able to recall an image via the way it made them feel or the story it represented.
Just a thought. Again, I personally love it. I've been scouring RUclips for your style on this MBTI topic.
WOW I FEEL CALLED OUT -- you are so right though!!
"Hypnosis business" The only INFJ I can think of was an astrologer. However, it was not that hard to keep my opinion to myself except when she asked. She was helping women who had been damaged by religion by talking with them over skype.
OOOOO, that sounds amazing. How has it turned out? Did she help anyone?
Syogren cant tell if sarcasm
CthulusFavoriteTreat Nope. I really want to know. It sounds interesting.
ssesf Movies I am an INFJ and i despise astrology and pseudo science. Lets not stereotype.
Thinking of my ENTJ friend who was unaware of self, and lacked market research. ....
One of the most helpful bits of business advice I've ever received. Thanks for making this video.
OMG YOU'RE BACK> I'VE WAITED SO LONG FOR YOU TO COME BACK. #ALLCAPS #ENFP #waitamiINFJ?
Just once… JUST ONCE I want to see an “infj” question themselves.
(Almost) My entire life I've spent in questioning myself. But I keep it to me only. If I tell my close people they tell me I'm overthinking. Or some might even think that I'm imagining my problems. So, I really wait to see if there are people who'd understand without jumping on to conclusions or judgements. And just understand.
At times, there also have been times where I'm not self aware. So those times I'm really detached to reality and don't much think or question myself. Really got in trouble for that.
It's so relieving and good to develop your inferior function. ~INFJ
I'm glad I am watching every one of these because he provides information for what I need as well.
I dislike studying a lot but it is true once uou get into it you become addicted to a point.
I thought I didn't have a problem with details because I was so obsessed with the presentation of my work to the point of perfectionism. But then I began to realize that I would always miss one or two small details in my editing or just basic mistakes, (consistently) after I turned my work in. I was always very concerned about the large picture and the overall impression of my work and even though I thought I cared about details, I had to realize that came second to my first priorities. Honestly, those small details weren't the first thing that people would notice and judge. Because it's not the first thing I would judge. It's the overall statements that you're making, are you theoretically clear and concise? Is your writing coherent? We all notice things we care about. If someone would mention that I misspelled or misused a word I would be irritated with myself but whatever, if they said I got a concept wrong it would be very difficult for me. Like who f****** cares about the wrong font when what you're saying is boring or misinformed? 😆
I'm lucky I discovered it through an official test and booklet, which didn't say INFJ is this special snowflake. It just compared all types to eachother on plain basis.
Like: This is how you are and how you operate. Your plusses and your weaknesses. Point blank.
That's still the best way. That's how MBTI should be used and tested.
I loved the insight about INTPs and INFPs at the end
Humans are not rocket science
Meanwhile INFJ dropping a hint:
Haha.. so true. This is me. And problem is that I keep starting businesses and having ideas but then reality smacks me in the face once I start them 😂
This is really good stuff. I would add energy deficiency to the Se problems. Actually executing a marketing plan, engaging in sales, talking to customers.... the brute effort can be very exhausting.
Hmmm, I'm an INFJ and a coder so i'm less like that with details of code or learning new things (I read like 15 books a year and do multiple courses and a great buzz from that it all feeds towards my long term plan) but more like this with things like house work. It can build up on me a lot and takes a lot of energy to focus on it and before I know it there's a lot of different parts of my house that need something done with them either cleaning or repaired or something.
It just feels like a big and boring distraction from Ni plans, goals and long term vision. I can like some of it when I actually get myself to do it and seeing my place tidier (and that can be stress relief when it is tidier that I didnt' know I needed) but very difficult & tiring to focus on it day in, day out. Kinda depresses me.
I'm thinking of getting into coding.. wondering if I'll be good at it since I'll be solving problems instead of subjective clients who tell you what they want n need but can't buy ... I can't ppl sometimes... I was a designer n took time off to be a sahm... it took enormous upfront work to get my environment in "order" (the peace is worth it)... maintenance is delegated for certain days. (Dana k white helped with this).. hopes it helps.
What type of coding do u do?
I am doomed to forever question my type because of everyone seemingly wanting to be one of them, fuck.
Who the hell is into business though smh.
Those Te doms, man, I tell you.
Infj's... Just for kicks n giggles... what do u work in (past/present)? What aspects of that job/career worked with/against your personality?
I just checked the copyright date on my website. Phew, I don't even have a copyright date.
ENTJ here. Thanks.
But beyond that I think most of us in the MBTI community still seem to be confused about how the inferior function works. I think this is partly because it tends to manifest differently in different people, especially with varied development. Like we often confuse ourselves by seeing weak Se as the absence of it. I tend to get the sense that presence of Se will still show in many INTJs or INFJs as immaculate visual attention, or an openness to a multitude of new sensory experience, rather than Si repetition etc. but the bottom line for it tends to be lack of engagement with the physical world, or a sort of inconsistency or imbalance in or confusion with that engagement. I like your video on ENTPs and the interaction between Ti and Fe, and how the middle functions seem to work together smoothly, while the dominant and inferior axes appear to be more polarized so that even though cognitively speaking they compliment each other perfectly, they still seem to show as a tension within the person you're observing. In my opinion the most reliable way of typing someone is by using negative perceptions of themselves or others. What do they beat themselves up about? What makes them self-conscious? What do they think brings out the unrestrained child in them? What do they think makes themselves look ridiculous or what do they judge others for or dislike about them? This is a very Jungian concept that in a sense is more real and revealing than self proclaimed values, because everyone is perfecting their image and polishing their principles, so paying attention to where they direct their negative energy or frustration when it comes out ends up giving you a lot more than by getting them to talk about their interests for example.
"...the most reliable way of typing someone is by using negative perceptions of themselves or others." I have a feeling this is very profound, especially after diving into the original ideas developed by Jung. We project the negative aspects of our shadow selves onto others and judge them harshly for it. This also jives with the idea of being in the "grip" of our 4th function. We don't recognize ourselves when we are in the grip and view it as negative and therefore view others that use that function well negatively.
"...everyone is perfecting their image and polishing their principles." Yes, I think this applies well to the idea that we all use all of the cognitive functions. For example, if I am a trained athlete I may have developed skill in a very stereotypical "Se" behavior yet it may not be a function in my stack. That can lead to a lot of confusion, but the behaviors in others that ignite anger and/or fear are more bubbling up from the unconscious consistently and uncontrollably.
If I make a website it's not going to look like shit like that, it's just that that therefore makes me lack the motivation to actually put in the effort to make it look as awesome as I want it to be and to actually get any of that shit done. So not that I'd do it shittily, but I'm anxiously procrastinating to do the very shit I want to do. - Me, an INFJ lol
Besides hypnosis, we can also be skilled with counseling, astrology, and MBTI personality typing. Just saying...
I wanna start reading advice books but I have this fear that my reasoning will be now even more biased based on this possibly flawed new information. I catch on to things and figure things out easily & naturally and I don’t want to disrupt that. 😭
Am an infj I do too much research and finally actually implement nothing. I don’t think my problem is lack of Se and Ti
If you are an Ni dom struggling with details, the best thing to do is try practicing mindfulness on a regular basis, and it helps a lot to work in an industry, like the service industry, where details are everything, or have a hobby that requires it, like art, and ask for honest feedback when you pursue it. It can be really difficult at first, but over time, you learn. Same with research. It's hard to step outside your head and think "I might be wrong about pretty much everything". It can be a scary thought that the furniture in your mind is not sufficient, but typically, it isn't. I've learned to get past that hurdle. I've just started to see these things as a necessary evil; my websites are so much better as a result of it XD.
I agree that INFJs are absolutely not special snowflakes. It can be an incredibly difficult and frustrating type to be, but with enough hard work, you can have something within you, that's pretty special, with time.
This was very funny and scary.
4:45 Hypnosis business😂
I had some trouble with this one. I will keep watching.
When I first took the test, it was because some friends introduced me to _Please Understand Me,_ by Kiersey and Bates. I had no clue what was or was not considered "rare." That wasn't my concern at all when I took that test. I was just trying to answer the questions as honestly as possible. I do know when I read the descriptions of all the various types, INFJ seemed off, and I found all the SFs or STs (to use that terminology) repulsive.
That first test I took notched me as INTP. Even so, something didn't seem quite right when I read the description given for that MBTI type. Then another book - I forget the author - gave me a different perspective on J vs P. At this point, I'd never even heard of functions, let alone a function stack. Ever since I gained that different perspective, I've tested consistently (over a little more than a handful of tests) as INXJ, meaning, as they put it, that I was more balanced with the T and F, with a few scoring me more INTJ. But it's always been INXJ or INTJ.
I love how he just cuts the videos lol
I'm watching this because I feel my brother could be an INFJ. He has neverrrr read one single book without beeing forced (by school) in his life. :D
DEMON FUNCTION GUIDE pls
Do I know you from MbtiBase?
Oh gosh. This reminds me of the way that Penelope Trunk talks to INFJs. It's a shame because you have so much good content. But this type is a really big blind spot for you guys. Why that is is probably really interesting.
I don't want to be an INFJ "fuck"
I'm an ESTP with a big blog and I notice links die very often so whenever I find one I resurrect it or remove it if it's really unfindable.
An INFJs website would never look like that! Although it would lack the correct information probably.
I wouldn't read the book, but I'd also have already done my market research because I looked at all those articles and they told me to do market research when starting my etsy business, lol. I'll google all the new information I need but if you tell me to read this book I probably won't. No clue what that means lol. In business I'd say I lean more toward tribe and self being my issues because I've got this idea, I've researched it, I've prototyped my products and I really like them, in fact I'd rather just keep working on my products, coming up with new ideas, etc. I have started to test that they work for me, but then the advertising and testing it on a small audience for feedback. Well, I gave one to my boyfriend and so far he likes it?
Infj: who the fuck would want to be us???? Obviously don't know what its like
Damn you. I'm busted on my demon Se.
It's actually inferior but he keeps saying it's demon. Demon is Si not Se.
Me watching this after starting up a RUclips channel without doing any market research or getting good equipment: 😬😬🤦♂️🤦♂️ lol
Under every video where you bash an intuitive type 90% of comments are people saying basically this: wow you are so right, being this intuitive type myself (i totally hate this type btw because why else would I share it with everyone right) I can totally see how others misstype.
As a INFJ i hate being btw. Yeah others always misstype but im a real INFJ.
omg i cant take small steps! im trying to overwork myself to compensate for having to slow down hahahha
O M G
Looks like everybody is broken hahaha
Thank god I am an Ni-Ti INFJ, but... I don't have that weak Se, I thought I had, but now it's clear I don't
I am very AWARE of the concrete reality.
Dave could possibly explore Trump and ESTP and his blind spots?
What do you mean INFJ don't like reading? They LOVE reading, and taking in information because they have Ti.
Do you mean they don't LOOK around when they walk?
Really interesting. Funny how fast it's said though.
I will refuse to read certain books and gather information because I feel like I got it. Obviously just hate using my demon function. It’s annoying though people will assume I’m pretentious and a know it all because of it. But I just really don’t like doing it. I have sooo many half read books on my shelf because I assume I understand what it’s all about and that I got the gist of it. & there are times when I do well and use Se a lot more BUT then i go back into not using it. Man it’s tough, especially since I’m going to be a future business owner. Gonna have to partner with a gatherer
Yep... the unfinished books are bc they don't get to the freaking point. ... who cares about the 5 stories... just tell me hooooow!!! (How =The se... I got the ni =why, fe/ti=what)
An INFJ here 😊
6:17 INFP and INTP is probably worse. Se trickster (7th).
I have a question. Do all types need examples(such as giving a fact and how it applies in the real world) or does that fall on certain types? Thank you! I appreciate the video.
I hardly need example for anything
I really appreciate the work you do ,
but ...
The way you present things , I think It would be better if you do more organizing ,
for example there is lot of videos about the infj , and while watching each one of them, it's hard to link them all together , and sometimes you got just small one idea about the infj , or te or fi , and you should look here and there and do extra effort to gather the information , and than make extra work to link everything together.
I have to disagree with some of the claims in your video. As many other people have noted, INFJs (myself included) can be incredibly detail-oriented and perfectionistic. Ni keeps us incredibly organized, especially with relatively asocial features of our environment like a website. I think a much greater indicator of low Se is the inability to actually go out into the real world-- so in your business example, that might equate to actually setting up a storefront or marketing a product door-to-door. INFJs would very much like to keep our ideas in our heads or simply online.
Additionally, I disagree with your assumption that low Ti makes INFJs poor at self-evaluation. Ask any INFJ and you'll find that we are incredibly self-aware, and possibly more introspective than any other non-Fi-dom type. Ni wants to organize information relating to a concept. Guess what? The self is a concept. INFJs seek the deepest understanding of the self possible. I (and my INFJ compatriots) would have no problem at all answering those "Ti"-based questions.
Have you read the introverted intuitive descriptor in Jungs Psychological Types? It's not exactly outlining somebody who is 'incredibly detail oriented and perfectionistic' or 'organized' externally and is actually far more along the lines of what Dave is outlining here, with regards to demon Se.
I also think you're incorrect regarding self-awareness, and this would be more likely in an INFJ-Ti subtype of sorts - someone who is dominant Ni, but their preferred decision making process is Ti - so they have that self-identity there in how they make decisions.
What you are outlining with this whole 'understand the self' thing sounds uber Fi to me but eh, I don't know you - I think you/we should come into Daves new clips with an open mind, not be closed off and try to force the information he's providing into our predefined notions of what the types and functions are, on the basis of those notions being unable to be proved so far on any consistent basis.
Edit: Didn't see that Turi wrote the same thing as I did but with more confidence. :)
INFJ's can also be kinda messy. Self-evaluation is not self-awareness. I don't see why they would be more introspective than most looking at functions. It probably varies a lot per person. Though it's not uncommon that INFJ's get overwhelmed by their feelings, especially less mature INFJ's.
Of course, I cant point to any sources, but I have counter anecdotal evidence, which means it's a good idea to evaluate what's actually true. Naturally, we have strong biases towards certain types (esp., considering your name shows that you might have). I am not looking to argue just pointing out that biases might be at play.
The thing you guys need to realize is that he is explaining the characteristics an INFJ is susceptible to developing. If you are right handed, there isn't a lot of incentive to brush your teeth with your left hand; however, you're not going to row a boat with 1 hand and you could brush your teeth with your left and get good at if you wanted too. Your information processing loads the gun, but you pull the trigger.
First, you can't ask "any INFJ". You'd first have to accurately type them. Second, you're going off the basis that you yourself are an INFJ. That's not proof or evidence, and yet you treat it like it is. You're probably not even an INFJ arguing about how INFJs are.
I agree I can be a perfectionist with what I want. For instance if I had a business and a website for it I would make sure nothing is missing! Though through daily life activities I miss the details A LOT. I think it’s a matter of where you apply your Se. Maybe the infj he was talking about just doesn’t feel passionate about their business so they’re just BSing it lol. Also def agree on the self awareness thing!
Hey Dave, this is a great video, as well as the other videos you do (thank you for them). I'm going to take a wild guess, but are you an ENTP?
I don't want to be an infj,, I am an entp man and I want to date an infj woman
What would be your tips for istj’s to function with people that disagree with, or who are lazy.
ouch, you slapped me
I love you man
So true
Shut up ENFJ
Are ENFJs in a contest with INFJs or what? They should mind their own business and worry about their inferior Ti. These guys can't form a logical argument ha ha ha ha ha
@@sylvial1985 Rude!
Ni is about meaning, not patterns.
All you self proclaimed INFJs in the comments are probably ISFJs.
Filippos Addimando according to what? Haha.
"All you INFJs are wearing red shoes!"
Peacock effect. Do your homework. You wanna appear as an intuitive and be a special snowflake... you're probably not.
I find that most INFJs end up typing themselves as something they're not the first go around. I typed myself as ENFP (see his Peacocking video--it's rad) when I first got into MBTI. I only came to the conclusion of INFJ after talking with 3-4 people who were seriously involved in typing and recognizing that I have the standard INFJ pitfalls.
I don't get the appeal other people have towards being an INFJ. It's overhyped and frankly a lot of the traits INFJs have make them maladjusted to daily life. It's not something to WANT to aspire to. Rejecting information just because you get overloaded isn't a quality conducive to a happy life. I wish more people knew about the downsides and found umbrage in recognizing their own strengths and aptitudes.
just because You watched a video about something that happens to some people doesn't make it true in all cases, you can also say that a lot of INFJ get typed wrong and are mistakenly rare
Filippos Addimando Thought I was a INTJ at first I didn't wanna be a infj boy but then I got around people and realized I'm a people pleaser rather than a selfish person it screwed me a bunch of times wish I was a asshole I would get more shit done.
Hi Dave this is a good video, I have been typed as a ENTP not sure if I’m trusting that as being overall because of my age while I took the test . What would you say a ENTP blind spots are ?
I remember it so well.
Could you please do some videos helping ENTP?
Do me! Do me!
Please keep the videos coming. Please dont oeave us again
I hate being an infj it would be better to be an enfj or isfj
Hmm, my Se is worse than I thought.
As an infj I could open a business but I don't want to. Business as usual day in and day out is what is fracking the world up. Today's businesses have two major flaws which are environmental degradation and human disregard. If you work for a company and you are made redundant because they don't need you anymore, they're putting the needs of the business before the needs of human beings. And everyone excepts this as a given like it's ok. But it's structural violence which is built into the system. The amount of waste that is produced by massive corporate structures and even smaller businesses is unsustainable and day by day we are producing so much plastic waste and seeing the seas full of plastic and mountains of rubbish piling up and you're talking about infjs building a fucking business???!!! Get tha fk outta here with that shit. Infjs need to be at the forefront leading the revolution and finding solutions to the world's problems.
Sorry for being mean and I appreciate your content it's really informative thank you 😄 (thank you from Fe harmony ✌) 😂😂😂
Yes but having a business can help you lead with more influence. You’ll have a bigger impact on the world if you are a very well known brand. #1 reason I’m starting my own brand. It’s all about perspective though, I feel any way could work
Also if an infj were to start a business they can find ways to reinvent it to help limit waste which can then influence other brands thus causing a revolution
I understand your point. And I have thought about it in the past too. You definitely have more of an influence in society if you're well known and the have tonnes of money. But time is running out. We're not transitioning to a more sustainable society fast enough. We're fucking everything up every minute of the day on a massive scale. All this pussy footing around with business ventures is time spent wasted on things that aren't as important as the main issues that we face today. Why don't ppl just get straight to the main issue???? MONEY. The illusion of money is got us all twisted thinking about ourselves, out own families, status etc. It's all bs.
@@Wizardesss If everybody just got on the same platform with the president and would elevate his powers to get more things done more efficiently, we could get these problems handled. Now, why do I have a sneaking suspicion you might not be onboard with that, even though he is the democratically elected leader of the western superpower of the free world?
Food for thought.
Absolutely accurate.
Я инфи, поэтому я выбираю бизнес по гипнозу :)
Ive been thinking wow theres alot pit there lol , to me personally it's not the best very sad and scary actually especially when a car following you with people in white mask hehe
Yep! That looks like my website! 😂
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XD. Thank you for this.