Probably the first time I hear someone articulate the importance of having high standards with friends. So many lessons around this. Being around sloppy, weak people who shapeshift was so disorienting. Cleaning this up is easier than I thought!! Distance yourself.
Just a side note ladies…your 50’s and 60’s aren’t “too late”…You can pursue your dreams, reinvent yourself at ANY age!…I’m “55”…In quotes because I don’t really believe in defining myself by a number😉We are all moving through time…so follow your bliss!…but not out of fear of what you might regret when you are “older”🎉
Love this video. I’ve learned all of this at 34 yo after a huge work on myself (and glow up!). I wish i’ve known all of that as a teenager or in my 20’s.
I just turned 20 and I'm grateful to have access to stuff like this and more, and I even wish I had started working on myself, my self esteem, inner self sooner. But better late than never!
I just turned 20 and I'm grateful to have access to stuff like this and more, and I even wish I had started working on myself, my self esteem, inner self sooner. But better late than never!
Speaking as a woman in her 40’s my best advice is to listen to this woman!! Don’t “grow up” to be single and bitter like me, just now trying to turn their life around.
Point 7 is spot on. Until humans become more enlightened, humans are going to judge by a person’s appearance first. The best example that I can think of fruit. The truth is that fruit tastes best when it’s nearly overripe, and when it’s nearly overripe, it doesn’t always look good. People who don’t know this (which is most people) don’t buy it. The fruit that people often buy is aesthetically pleasing - shiny, bright colors, no bruises. It may not always taste the best, but it’s the fruit that gets purchased while the not-so-nice looking fruit sits on the shelf.
I’m not want to comment on videos, I rarely do so, but I absolutely love how you worded your points. I’ve never related to anything more. Amazing job babe
Have got friends that have low boundaries and saying my standards being too high. But well, the problem is themselves as they have not done the self work.
11:45 i would even say when you have low self esteem. i was always interested in who i was as a person and knew what i wanted but i put other people’s opinions above mine bc i saw them as superior and “objective” :/
It's heartbreaking that a woman could feel so lonely that she fell for a conman. Be vigilant, ladies! Would you be willing to share how you support yourself aside from RUclips content and your courses, or are those keeping you afloat? I was thinking of teaching English to travel around but I don't think it pays enough and it's hard to get a work visa, especially in Europe. Does it feel better to go digital, or do you miss showing up to work in person and interacting with others? But what many of us want to know is how English men differ from Canadian guys. 😏
Mainstream advice on manifestation is overrated. The best thing you can do is invest in your own knowledge. Books are the ultimate learning tool. For instance, Hidden Manifestation by Oliver Mercer gave me the foundation to manifest almost everything in my life and helped me separate myself from 90% of people.
Vickita! This vid is sooo good! Can you do a vid on figuring out who you are? I struggle removing myself from work and fam and idk what’s left. I have some hobbies but I still don’t feel like I know myself completely and like you said, I feel like I can’t have a solid relationship without that piece.
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
100% agree with point no 3. I learned way too late to what extend can people pretend love to use you up for their bad intentions. And what they are capable of, when they cannot get it out of you. Letting such people into your life can be devastating not just for your self-esteem and your soul but also to your future overall. Professional parasites. Now I can smell them from distance. But had to learn it the hard way.
so you need to wear make up to "respect yourself"? I get what you mean by appearance matters, you should look (not just look) like you're taking care of yourself and have basic hygiene, but I don't like how that has to include wearing make up for women... sure I know how to do my make up but I don't wanna do it everyday.
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
Don’t leave London. It’s a very tough city to break into. It’s definitely worth it (from what I understand), but please consider giving it ten years. London doesn’t come easy and they want to see your face around for quite a while before they give you a go. Just some honest advice from someone who loves London and your videos and has learned a lot from them. Have you ever considered doing a lifestyle blog in addition to your regular content? People in London love to be interviewed on camera for America and there are so many amazing places to film. Anyway I wish you all the best. Blessed be. ❤
@@purposeoflife3105 I thought I understood it was London, but it doesn’t really matter. Leeds, Liverpool, wherever. Based on personal experiences it takes a decade to really make a go of it in a new place, but that’s just my opinion. Listening to the creator speak, she sounded a lot like my younger self so I just wanted to throw in my two cents in the moment. I would hate to see her give up on a place as special as England too soon, but it’s truly none of my affair. Blessed be.
This video is truly inspiring! I don’t usually share recommendations, but I have to tell you about the book women’s magic truths on borlest. It offers unique perspectives on wealth and self-care that you won’t find elsewhere. Wishing everyone all the best
It's crazy how no one is talking about Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest. This book has secrets that could change everything, but people seem blind to it. Wake up and see for yourself!
Probably the first time I hear someone articulate the importance of having high standards with friends. So many lessons around this. Being around sloppy, weak people who shapeshift was so disorienting. Cleaning this up is easier than I thought!! Distance yourself.
I absolutely agree about appearance mattering. I would never take life advice from anyone who doesn't seem to care about themselves.
Just a side note ladies…your 50’s and 60’s aren’t “too late”…You can pursue your dreams, reinvent yourself at ANY age!…I’m “55”…In quotes because I don’t really believe in defining myself by a number😉We are all moving through time…so follow your bliss!…but not out of fear of what you might regret when you are “older”🎉
thank youuuu ❤ you pointed it out really well! wishing you luck on your journey 🤞💐
agreed :)
Be weak is such an amazing lesson. I rarely here it being delivered this positively. Love this!!
Love this video. I’ve learned all of this at 34 yo after a huge work on myself (and glow up!). I wish i’ve known all of that as a teenager or in my 20’s.
I just turned 20 and I'm grateful to have access to stuff like this and more, and I even wish I had started working on myself, my self esteem, inner self sooner. But better late than never!
I just turned 20 and I'm grateful to have access to stuff like this and more, and I even wish I had started working on myself, my self esteem, inner self sooner. But better late than never!
I agree appearance matters but not everyone wants to wear makeup amd that's ok
Thank you Vickita, your content is always spot-on and your delivery is straightforward, no BS. Bravo 👏🏼
First time viewer here and I’m actually surprised how great all these advices are. Thank you!
Speaking as a woman in her 40’s my best advice is to listen to this woman!! Don’t “grow up” to be single and bitter like me, just now trying to turn their life around.
Point 7 is spot on. Until humans become more enlightened, humans are going to judge by a person’s appearance first.
The best example that I can think of fruit. The truth is that fruit tastes best when it’s nearly overripe, and when it’s nearly overripe, it doesn’t always look good. People who don’t know this (which is most people) don’t buy it. The fruit that people often buy is aesthetically pleasing - shiny, bright colors, no bruises. It may not always taste the best, but it’s the fruit that gets purchased while the not-so-nice looking fruit sits on the shelf.
next video: “be both” (pretty on the outside and inside) 😍
I’m not want to comment on videos, I rarely do so, but I absolutely love how you worded your points. I’ve never related to anything more. Amazing job babe
Have got friends that have low boundaries and saying my standards being too high. But well, the problem is themselves as they have not done the self work.
You keep glowing up! 🙌🏻😍 Tysm! 💖
11:45 i would even say when you have low self esteem. i was always interested in who i was as a person and knew what i wanted but i put other people’s opinions above mine bc i saw them as superior and “objective” :/
It's heartbreaking that a woman could feel so lonely that she fell for a conman.
Be vigilant, ladies!
Would you be willing to share how you support yourself aside from RUclips content and your courses, or are those keeping you afloat? I was thinking of teaching English to travel around but I don't think it pays enough and it's hard to get a work visa, especially in Europe. Does it feel better to go digital, or do you miss showing up to work in person and interacting with others?
But what many of us want to know is how English men differ from Canadian guys. 😏
What a great list!! So many resonated with me ❤❤ Thank you queen
Love thiiiis, gratefully, life saved me from learning lessons too late, althought I'm always learning
8:11 this was a very compassionate way of putting it 🥺💖💕
You are wise beyond your years sweetheart
babe wake up, Vickita posted
Absolutely the best advice!!
Thank you Vickita!😍
You're so welcome!
Looking gorgeous in black 🖤
Honestly, I've live by ppl pleasing for so long that don't even know what *I* want anymore.
Thanks Vickita, I appreciate this. 💚
Can u please make a video about Books that helped u in your féminin journey. ❤
Getting beautiful every single day VICKITAA !!❤
This is so good Vickita ❤
I don’t have any friends for this reason lol
Thank you for this ❤
Mainstream advice on manifestation is overrated. The best thing you can do is invest in your own knowledge. Books are the ultimate learning tool. For instance, Hidden Manifestation by Oliver Mercer gave me the foundation to manifest almost everything in my life and helped me separate myself from 90% of people.
Great video! Can I make a recommendation… if you use a collar mic, it will remove the echo and improve the listening experience.. 😊
Thank you sooooooooo much for speaking the truth!!!! Woman Power!!!! xoxox
Well summarized and on point! I'm gonna save this video❤
Vickita! This vid is sooo good! Can you do a vid on figuring out who you are? I struggle removing myself from work and fam and idk what’s left. I have some hobbies but I still don’t feel like I know myself completely and like you said, I feel like I can’t have a solid relationship without that piece.
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
Love your awesome steps towards conscious awareness ❤
People don't fail plans fail ❤
I love your unique content
100% agree with point no 3. I learned way too late to what extend can people pretend love to use you up for their bad intentions. And what they are capable of, when they cannot get it out of you. Letting such people into your life can be devastating not just for your self-esteem and your soul but also to your future overall. Professional parasites. Now I can smell them from distance. But had to learn it the hard way.
Could you tell us more about part 6? How to get to know yourself? How to explore yourself?
Thank you ❤
Hey, I see you removed your shorts completely. The one about witch hazel and others. We would really love an in-depth video on skin and body care. ❤
Can you recommend books for the “learn people” part?
I’m 42 … thankfully can pass for younger, but what advice would you give those of us who did waste our younger years?
Can you please make a video with the detailed daily routine you recommend we have ??🙏🙏
Hey vickita
Love from India 💕
You are looking like kylie jenner 🧿♥️
What are the books you recommend for psychology of humans? And relationships + friendships
Thanks for the Love ❤️ sending some back your wae.
so you need to wear make up to "respect yourself"? I get what you mean by appearance matters, you should look (not just look) like you're taking care of yourself and have basic hygiene, but I don't like how that has to include wearing make up for women... sure I know how to do my make up but I don't wanna do it everyday.
Audio could use improvement with a better mic
Looks like Kylie Jenner
Definitely not just getting one life
But perhaps one life as this person
Does somebody know the name of the woman in the thumbnail left?
👏👏👏 literally the best to ever do it! Thanks Vickita!
Read the gift of fear
It sounds like therapy
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What is meant for you, is never too late? Please learn
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Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
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unrelated but Kylie Jenner looks a bit like u
love uuuu
Don’t leave London. It’s a very tough city to break into. It’s definitely worth it (from what I understand), but please consider giving it ten years. London doesn’t come easy and they want to see your face around for quite a while before they give you a go. Just some honest advice from someone who loves London and your videos and has learned a lot from them. Have you ever considered doing a lifestyle blog in addition to your regular content? People in London love to be interviewed on camera for America and there are so many amazing places to film. Anyway I wish you all the best. Blessed be. ❤
She doesn't live in ln
@@purposeoflife3105 I thought I understood it was London, but it doesn’t really matter. Leeds, Liverpool, wherever. Based on personal experiences it takes a decade to really make a go of it in a new place, but that’s just my opinion. Listening to the creator speak, she sounded a lot like my younger self so I just wanted to throw in my two cents in the moment. I would hate to see her give up on a place as special as England too soon, but it’s truly none of my affair. Blessed be.
This video is truly inspiring! I don’t usually share recommendations, but I have to tell you about the book women’s magic truths on borlest. It offers unique perspectives on wealth and self-care that you won’t find elsewhere. Wishing everyone all the best
It's crazy how no one is talking about Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest. This book has secrets that could change everything, but people seem blind to it. Wake up and see for yourself!
It looks interesting, I just Google it, unfortunately unavailable in my country.
Where can I find this book?
Cannot find this title on Amazon. Who is the author?
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lesson number 1- Give your life to Jesus
Step one! Done!
Nope. It's 2024, stop forcing your religion down other people's throats. Vickita is also a hindu.
Yess amen 🙏🏾
Step 2- put him first every single day !!
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My girl Vickita came to England thinking that she'll find class and sophistication and all she found is Essex 😂
firrrrrrrst 😂
sad
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