Liked how the news presenter had the decency to know when to stop interviewing Savage when he saw Savage was deeply upset. Great initiative that you don't see all the time from news people. Sometimes they don't know when to stop and this guy did.
Personally think it went on a little too long as Robbie was struggling however he obviously chose or accepted the interview in hindsight probably wishes he hadn’t....main thing though is RIP speedo
Yeah. Time flies surely. Was in a shop on the morning I heard this very sad news. Dan Walker was on TV on the 10th anniversary of Gary's death, saying about how Gary was in great form on Football Focus on 26/11/2011 and how understandably shocked he was about the news of Gary's death. The thing is with Mental Health, if people are set on killing themselves, they are going to do it. Sad but true. It happened two men years ago where I live, you'd have thought that they would have been the last people in the world to attempt suicide but sadly you don't know what's going on in another person's mind.
This is the most moving interview. You can see the news of Gary's death really sinking in with Robbie during the interview. Poor guy. The interviewer handled it well and so did Robbie, but you could tell Robbie was fighting back the tears and couldn't even speak by the end of the interview. That in itself revealed the shock and utter sadness of the situation. RIP Gary Speed. You had so many people who loved you.
I can still remember the goddamn shock splashing me when I read he’d passed. Fucking tragedy. If you’re down man and things are getting to be overwhelming, SAY SOMETHING. We miss you Gary.
Still this makes immensely sad . I am a toffees fan and was overjoyed when gary signed for us . A fantastic footballer and from all accounts an even lovely human being 💙 I will never forget you Gary
As a person that has , and still does suffer from depression, Garys death is classic of how depression is the hidden killer . Ypu appear happy, full of life and "ok ", if there is an ok.... but beneath the " mask".. is lurking the dark place that nobody see's. . I've been to the edge myself , it's not a good place , RIP Gary .. and Robbie savage, what a brave person to go on national tv after losing ypur friend .. respect !
If you ever thought Robbie Savage was only about two footed tackles, watch this and think again. There is such humanity in how destroyed he obviously is by this news. It's just so, so sad. Seeing someone so patently torn to pieces by the death of his friend is not something I think should be broadcast on a news programme, but at the same time it's genuinely very moving to see. RIP Gary. RIP.
Feels like it was only yesterday, since Gary left us. RIP, great man and an inspiration to all. People seem so stunned that someone who seemed happy and had everything could take his own life but I can relate I can always manage a smile no matter down or depressed I am, in fact when I was in school I regrettably tried to take my own life because I was bullied and everybody knew me as a happy person with a smile always on my face, everyone found out about it and some even said you seem so happy why would you want to take your life? To be honest depression is very dark and the way you feel while you're depressed is beyond words and comprehension and very hard to explain, one minute you can be on top of the world but it always comes back and you just want to get away from it all by any means. I often ran away from home too. If you ever feel trapped and want to get away or feel like running away from your problems that is the first sign of depression, get help, it may save your life and if you know anyone who feels that way advise them to get help and tell them how serious depression can get. Depression is an illness not just a state of mind.
It takes alot of gutts to say/write what you said sir, like one of the other people said it may be a while since you wrote that, but i wish you all the best sir, take care and all the best
Never really had time for Robbie Savage but remember watching this and feeling utterly heartbroken for the man. Raw emotion there at losing one of his best friends and a genuinely sad moment watching him try to compose himself when he is clearly struggling to comprehend this news. Massive respect to him for managing to honour the man even in the midst of huge personal grief ❤
Glasgow Rangers fan here. Gary Speed will Forever be in EVERY Football fans heart. ❤ HE EARNED THAT! R.I.P Gary Speed. Truly one of a kind. A Legend. A Gentleman. A true Profesional at his work, on and off the field. A Role Model in every sense. Yes, a Legend at MANY Football Clubs and especially the Welsh International squad, both as Player and Manager, but I will ALWAYS remember him fondly for his outstanding performances for Leeds against Rangers in the "Battle of Britain" in the 1992/93 Season. The first Leg at Ibrox was a good game but scrappy. Gary McAllisters volleyed Goal for Leeds in the opening minutes of the game was unbelievable. The Rangers fans were still trying to find and sit on their allocated seats because the Goal was scored so fast after kick-off. Leeds had a Star-Studded team back in the day, especially that Season. The Second Leg at Elland Road is regarded Worldwide as one of the Best UEFA Champions League game EVER. Cosidered as Two of the very best ever Goals scored in the history of the UEFA Champions League competition, and BOTH Goals were scored in the same game. Mark Hateleys Wonergoal with a Striked Lobbed Volley, after a superb lobbed chip assist by Ally McCoist. Then moments later Mark Hatley perfectly delivered a crossed ball assist to Ally McCoist who scored a World-Class Diving Header. Hateleys Goal is consiered as the best goal scored, but personally my all time favorite Goal is Ally McCoists Diving Header. Ally was born a Rangers fan and the goal meant so much to him, he famously burst out crying with tears straight after scoring, which almost got him subbed off if he didn't control his emotions vry quickly. Then Eric Cantona scored a beautiful Goal as a late conselation. Over both Legs, Gary Speed and Eric Cantona TERRORISED Rangers with their unmatched and untouchable skills. If it wasn't for the Late and Great Goalkeeper "The Goalie" Andy Goram (R.I.P to him as well) making about 100+ World-Class saves during both Legs, Gary Speed and Cantona would have won both games single-handedly for Leeds if it wasn't for Andy Gorams efforts in front of goal. For me, Andy Goram was the TRUE Man of the Match and Hero in both of the two games played. That's just my personal opinion. Here is a link to Gary Speeds wiki, it's very intresting = en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gary_Speed#Leeds_United GOD Bless you and Rest in Peace, Gary Andrew Speed M.B.E 💙
My sister died 2 months before, and then my good mate also called Gary, ended his life 7 months later. I'm Scottish, but always admired Gary Speed as a footballing great...and a lovely bloke. 2011, 12 AND 13 (lost my brother in 2013) was such a shit time for not only me, but for the legions of fans out there. R.I.P to all x
Loved speedy great example of how to conduct yourself, Robbie was a hard player but shows he true emotions there,depression is a hidden thing ,I worked with a great lad for 4 years got really close,he said to me I've just git to go to floor 4 for something then jumped to his death ,they hide depression and don't show it ,God bless all who suffer and families
Good to see respectful comments regarding a touchy subject. Whatever the reason, Gary was sick and its such a huge shame he didn't tell anyone (that we know of). Its a timely reminder to us all that we need to look after ourselves, and our loved ones. Treat others the way you want to be treated, and if you have any kind of mental illness, talk to someone who cares. And if you know someone who has it, be gentle with them, and LISTEN to them if they open up. Gary Speed, such a legend RIP.
I know that Gary will be looking down now from beyond Heaven's Gates. Such a lovely person. His family must be so proud of him. Great footballer. An even better person.
I was only 5 years old when Gary speed died but this death always touched me mental health has always been an issue with my family and with me it’s important to always speak out and to always be that someone who someone can speak to when there not ok always speak up and your never ever alone people might try to make you feel alone but just remember just to focus on what you love and what makes you happy and don’t speak to people make you feel like you can’t talk to RIP GARY SPEED 🇬🇧🏴❤
Was something of a turning point in how mental health issues became easier for people at all levels of sport to openly discus and seek help when necessary.
I lost a very good friend in march this year he took his own life. I didn't expect it. It nocked me for six I will never get over it just learn to live with it.
A very sad loss indeed. Gary was clearly loved by soo many and it's so sad that only now he's being appreciated and spoken of in such high esteem. Here's hoping that an incident such as this never occurs again. RIP Speedo, you will be sorely missed.
I read somewhere that his wife was walking along the high street one day a while after he had died and came across a homeless person begging for money. And she said that she thought to herself ‘What keeps this person going? He has nothing, but my Garry had everything’? But that’s just it. The homeless person had nothing to lose....and her husband had everything to lose..RIP Gary
@@Rubbafingaz1 One of the tabloids where going to run a story on him which could destroy his reputation and career. With him being a high profile person, they always inform them that they intend to run the story beforehand. This maybe the reason he did what he did, to protect his family.
All depends on your perspective, and that outlook on life can change throughout a person's life. As an example, an addict (of any kind) may generally hate their situation, but their craving for the next hit keeps them going. In fact they may have to work harder than someone who has it all to get whatever it is they crave, and that effort and eventual reward actually gives them more of a release of reward-based brain chemistry than someone who has instant access to everything. Of course this might not be applicable to Mr Speed, I suspect the sexual abuse he suffered as a youngster was the root cause. You'd never really see the world in the same way after such an experience.
RIP Gary you never played for a team that I supported but I always loved to watch you play when you were at Newcastle and Bolton. A footballing great and it's sad to hear about another tragic loss to the footballing world.
Reading some of the comments on this thread and I am appalled. A young man has died for whatever reason that can only be told by him, and we will never most probably know why. But what I would like to say is show some respect for Gary Speed. And I am from Liverpool and I support Liverpool, but that does not stop me showing respect for a good Football player who lost his way.
It's hard seeing all those "I'm not a fan of Robbie" comments. Like, why bother opening with that? No-one cares, it doesn't make you any less of a human to compliment someone you dislike! Equally, it's unfair on him for someone to say "oh, I hate you, but I'll let you off this one time because you're cut open on television". Really annoys me that does.
Just finished reading the book, Unspoken. So sad for his wife, kids, parents and everyone close to Speedo. Massive condolences from Melbourne, Australia xo
I think to say someone had everything is a dangerous things to say. I think it can add to the guilt that someone of unsound mind feels. RIP Gary you are sorely missed.
very very emotional was nearly in tears!!! my dad rang me 2day and told me and he was nearly crying 2!!! R.I.P Gary Speed one of the toon armys greats! played with heart!!!!! something you dont get these days!!!
It's something that everybody says. "We had no idea. He/she gave no sign that he/she was going to do this". When somebody decides they are going to take that final step, it's as though a weight is lifted from them. All of the hurt and pain they feel drifts away from them for the final few days as they plan to commit suicide. That's why the person always seems so positive before it happens, and why it causes so much shock for others when it does.
Woke up to this tragic news this morning... I just cant believe it... Gary was a typical example of a professional.. I remember when he played for Newcastle back in the 90s with Solano in midfield... What a handsome man too... Life is definitely too short.. R.i.P Gary Speed, true legend
925 games...141 goals ...85 welsh caps...several trophies ..inc the league title....barely a booking..no controversy...captain record times....wonderful father and husband and son and great friend to all....always gave time to everyone.humble loyal decent...passionate...patriotic.kind..patient...great manager..loved and respected by everyone who met him and even those who didnt...a remarkable gentleman..I stand and I applaud you gary speed for a great life well lived..your star shines bright
Fair play to the BBC reporter to. I have seen a lot of people struggling with news as the reporters still keep pushing for answers but this man knew when to stop fair play to him and R.I.P Gary Speed
This and Bryn Law’s piece on Gary always make me tear up. Taken way too soon. Without Gary, the success under Coleman and Page never happens. That run in 2016, the knockout appearance in 2021, the World Cup qualification in 2022. None of that occurs without Speedo. He gave Cymru stability and helped them build when they desperately needed it, and led them into the most successful period ever experienced. An already glittering legacy turned into one that made him a legend that is near untouchable in football circles. 13 years on and I hope you’re resting easy Speedo ❤️
I was 10yo when this happened. I distinctly remember watching Football Focus that Saturday lunchtime and remember the reports the day after- it was hoenstlybone of the first times i had ever truly thought about death; how someone can be there one minute and gone the next.
RIP Speedo you premier league legend. A consumate professional both on and off the pitch and unfortunate that you were so tough that you refused to battle those demons in the open with people to help you. My feelings go out to those people who are suffering now that you aren't
Scott Kilner same here people who never have experienced it dont understand the pain i literally wish i would get cancer or something because i do want to put my family through the pain of me killing myself
I cannot speak about Gary Speed the person other than to respect the views of those who did know him and so clearly loved him. Whatever the reason that resulted in the tragic loss of Gary’s life I sincerely hope that it remains private and that any additional anguish and heartache can be avoided for his wife and children. Gary Speed has now gone and I hope he is at peace however; his family are still very much with us and I just hope they can be left alone to grieve and rebuild their lives.
I remember getting a phone call of my dad telling me and i was like, "You what" "Say that again". took me a second and to be told again for it to compute
I still can`t believe his gone guys. Just feels so strange when thinking of it... I know its like over a decade ago since he played for Newcastle, but it was during the better days, when Newcastle had several legends, and I remember Gary like it was yesterday. A true legend, and I`m pretty sure I can speak for the Leeds supporters as well. Miss you Gary.
The people who have said he seemed happy and laughing and joking are right, i won't be surprised if it was depression, i once had it and when i was with family and friends i was fine, then when your on your own or your in bed at night things play on your mind more and more until you can't take it anymore, it's such a shame, but no one could have done anything about it because he obviously told nobody
I can't believe it's over 5 years ago of Gary speeds sad death only seems like about 3 years to me. I always thought of him as a very nice bloke I hope his wife and kids have been coping
im a forest fan and all i can say is, fair play robbie i know how hard it is to lose a close freind and you were brave to accept an interview on such a hard subject in such short time! Garry Speed was a true sportsman and we'll never know why he did what he did but all we can do is remember him for the great guy he was RIP Garry Speed
Depression affects us all in so many ways. I attempted suicide back in '95 from an overdose and family said that I was on a high that day before I attempted the unthinkable.
I still cannot get my head around this . RIP Gary , My thoughts go out to his family and friends at this time and hope they can find the strength to cope
Our builder ended his life last year, built the foundation for our family to enjoy life and he was quite and got on with the job. Really shocked when I found out and my wife told me yesterday that the girlfriend of her sisters neighbor, only 17 took her own life this week. So sad, appeared to have everything going for her as well. RIP to those two and Gary.
So sad shocked as a fellow north welsh man I was over the moon to see Gary speed in charge of our national side was looking forward to the world cup qualifiers and like it has been said many times there wasn't any signs of Gary wanted to take his own life I like Robbie savage and many friends colleagues family and those that new and loved speedo am shocked in tears and am struggling to get my head around it all r.I.p we will all miss u Cymru am byth
When i first heard on SSN i thought it must have been of natural causes, then when the news came through of an apparent suicide i was truely shocked and still finding it hard to sink in. I always remember Speed as a dangerous player with pace and a mean shot. R.I.P. from a Saints fan
Liked how the news presenter had the decency to know when to stop interviewing Savage when he saw Savage was deeply upset.
Great initiative that you don't see all the time from news people. Sometimes they don't know when to stop and this guy did.
The producer would have told him to stop in his ear piece.
@@SJF15 don’t have to shit on people. The news presenter did very well in sad circumstances
Personally think it went on a little too long as Robbie was struggling however he obviously chose or accepted the interview in hindsight probably wishes he hadn’t....main thing though is RIP speedo
Seems really odd how a good mate of someone who has just killed him self would do an interview 10 hours later
The newsreader is a class act do no surprise there 👍
Can't believe this was 10 years ago. How time flies!! Really sad though. RIP Mr Speed
Yeah. Time flies surely. Was in a shop on the morning I heard this very sad news. Dan Walker was on TV on the 10th anniversary of Gary's death, saying about how Gary was in great form on Football Focus on 26/11/2011 and how understandably shocked he was about the news of Gary's death.
The thing is with Mental Health, if people are set on killing themselves, they are going to do it. Sad but true. It happened two men years ago where I live, you'd have thought that they would have been the last people in the world to attempt suicide but sadly you don't know what's going on in another person's mind.
This is the most moving interview. You can see the news of Gary's death really sinking in with Robbie during the interview. Poor guy. The interviewer handled it well and so did Robbie, but you could tell Robbie was fighting back the tears and couldn't even speak by the end of the interview. That in itself revealed the shock and utter sadness of the situation. RIP Gary Speed. You had so many people who loved you.
The interviewer was fantastic and handled that brilliantly. Maximum respect to Robbie. RIP Speedo the Legend x
Poor Robbie he gets such a hard time but he's a true gent and a lovely guy and Gary obviously meant a lot to him
Should have helped him
@@joseph9074twat
@@joseph9074 How do you help someone when you think everything is ok?
@@ivorleak8823 see the signs
@ivorleak8823 look inside someone's soul
I can still remember the goddamn shock splashing me when I read he’d passed. Fucking tragedy.
If you’re down man and things are getting to be overwhelming, SAY SOMETHING.
We miss you Gary.
Not a fan of Robbie Savage but I really felt for him there RIP Gary Speed
hes a tosser, I didnt
Not as much of a tosser as you
ryanredmond87 or you
nothing wrong with being a tosser guys. masturbation is completely natural.
Yea, and so is cancer and getting pregnant but people want snip each one in the butt.
Nice interview, knew when to stop.
A professional interviewer, and emotional interview. The right balance and more the bbc I would recognise
R.I.P Gary Speed on your 48th birthday gone but never forgotten x
Still this makes immensely sad . I am a toffees fan and was overjoyed when gary signed for us . A fantastic footballer and from all accounts an even lovely human being 💙 I will never forget you Gary
As a person that has , and still does suffer from depression, Garys death is classic of how depression is the hidden killer . Ypu appear happy, full of life and "ok ", if there is an ok.... but beneath the " mask".. is lurking the dark place that nobody see's. . I've been to the edge myself , it's not a good place , RIP Gary .. and Robbie savage, what a brave person to go on national tv after losing ypur friend .. respect !
Great words mate
Respect to you my friend keep strong and always talk to someone if u have no one message me I don’t mind all the best
stay strong brotherr you got plenty to live for
PUP🔵⚪️🔵⚪️. Hope you get through your depression
Sending lots of love your way.
If you ever thought Robbie Savage was only about two footed tackles, watch this and think again. There is such humanity in how destroyed he obviously is by this news. It's just so, so sad. Seeing someone so patently torn to pieces by the death of his friend is not something I think should be broadcast on a news programme, but at the same time it's genuinely very moving to see. RIP Gary. RIP.
Such a shocker, Gary Speed let him rest in piece and anyone touched by this my love and respect to you.
peace
R.I.P Gary, thank you for the memories at Leeds. Marching on together.
This moves me, fair play for doing it Savage!
RIP Gary Speed!
You never know the demons people are fighting. So sad. RIP and bless his family.
Feels like it was only yesterday, since Gary left us. RIP, great man and an inspiration to all.
People seem so stunned that someone who seemed happy and had everything could take his own life but I can relate I can always manage a smile no matter down or depressed I am, in fact when I was in school I regrettably tried to take my own life because I was bullied and everybody knew me as a happy person with a smile always on my face, everyone found out about it and some even said you seem so happy why would you want to take your life?
To be honest depression is very dark and the way you feel while you're depressed is beyond words and comprehension and very hard to explain, one minute you can be on top of the world but it always comes back and you just want to get away from it all by any means. I often ran away from home too.
If you ever feel trapped and want to get away or feel like running away from your problems that is the first sign of depression, get help, it may save your life and if you know anyone who feels that way advise them to get help and tell them how serious depression can get.
Depression is an illness not just a state of mind.
Clifty didn't inspire me or anyone I know
Clifty was like reading my own story.. ano yer comment was from 3 year ago! but a hope ye are doing well wherever ye are ma friend.
Clifty respect man. Hope you are doing well
Clifty hope your ok mate my storys similar
It takes alot of gutts to say/write what you said sir, like one of the other people said it may be a while since you wrote that, but i wish you all the best sir, take care and all the best
When something can make Robbie Savage like this. Then you know it is beyond emotional. The man looks destroyed
Never really had time for Robbie Savage but remember watching this and feeling utterly heartbroken for the man. Raw emotion there at losing one of his best friends and a genuinely sad moment watching him try to compose himself when he is clearly struggling to comprehend this news. Massive respect to him for managing to honour the man even in the midst of huge personal grief ❤
A great role model. It's still saddens me today. I grew up watching Gary and he was one of the role models who taught me what it meant to be a man.
First time I’ve seen this, heartbreaking! Speed was and is a legend! Still dearly missed, wished he’d have signed for Bradford City!!!! MOT x
Well I'm glad Chris Moyles was sad. That really hit home, that bit did.
Glasgow Rangers fan here. Gary Speed will Forever be in EVERY Football fans heart. ❤ HE EARNED THAT! R.I.P Gary Speed. Truly one of a kind. A Legend. A Gentleman. A true Profesional at his work, on and off the field. A Role Model in every sense.
Yes, a Legend at MANY Football Clubs and especially the Welsh International squad, both as Player and Manager, but I will ALWAYS remember him fondly for his outstanding performances for Leeds against Rangers in the "Battle of Britain" in the 1992/93 Season.
The first Leg at Ibrox was a good game but scrappy. Gary McAllisters volleyed Goal for Leeds in the opening minutes of the game was unbelievable. The Rangers fans were still trying to find and sit on their allocated seats because the Goal was scored so fast after kick-off. Leeds had a Star-Studded team back in the day, especially that Season.
The Second Leg at Elland Road is regarded Worldwide as one of the Best UEFA Champions League game EVER.
Cosidered as Two of the very best ever Goals scored in the history of the UEFA Champions League competition, and BOTH Goals were scored in the same game. Mark Hateleys Wonergoal with a Striked Lobbed Volley, after a superb lobbed chip assist by Ally McCoist. Then moments later Mark Hatley perfectly delivered a crossed ball assist to Ally McCoist who scored a World-Class Diving Header. Hateleys Goal is consiered as the best goal scored, but personally my all time favorite Goal is Ally McCoists Diving Header. Ally was born a Rangers fan and the goal meant so much to him, he famously burst out crying with tears straight after scoring, which almost got him subbed off if he didn't control his emotions vry quickly. Then Eric Cantona scored a beautiful Goal as a late conselation.
Over both Legs, Gary Speed and Eric Cantona TERRORISED Rangers with their unmatched and untouchable skills. If it wasn't for the Late and Great Goalkeeper "The Goalie" Andy Goram (R.I.P to him as well) making about 100+ World-Class saves during both Legs, Gary Speed and Cantona would have won both games single-handedly for Leeds if it wasn't for Andy Gorams efforts in front of goal. For me, Andy Goram was the TRUE Man of the Match and Hero in both of the two games played. That's just my personal opinion.
Here is a link to Gary Speeds wiki, it's very intresting = en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gary_Speed#Leeds_United
GOD Bless you and Rest in Peace, Gary Andrew Speed M.B.E 💙
My sister died 2 months before, and then my good mate also called Gary, ended his life 7 months later. I'm Scottish, but always admired Gary Speed as a footballing great...and a lovely bloke. 2011, 12 AND 13 (lost my brother in 2013) was such a shit time for not only me, but for the legions of fans out there. R.I.P to all x
Loved speedy great example of how to conduct yourself, Robbie was a hard player but shows he true emotions there,depression is a hidden thing ,I worked with a great lad for 4 years got really close,he said to me I've just git to go to floor 4 for something then jumped to his death ,they hide depression and don't show it ,God bless all who suffer and families
He gave me so many great memories playing for the toon when i was growing up. RIP Gary Speed, Newcastle/footballing legend. Gone but not forgotten.
can't believe it's nearly 5 years since this happened
It's 7 years + 2 months now
from january 2018
GriefTourist it's crazy how quickly time go's by the older ye get!
GriefTourist it's crazy how quickly time go's by the older ye get!
7 years and 4 months now!
GriefTourist November 27th 2011..
Good to see respectful comments regarding a touchy subject. Whatever the reason, Gary was sick and its such a huge shame he didn't tell anyone (that we know of). Its a timely reminder to us all that we need to look after ourselves, and our loved ones. Treat others the way you want to be treated, and if you have any kind of mental illness, talk to someone who cares. And if you know someone who has it, be gentle with them, and LISTEN to them if they open up.
Gary Speed, such a legend RIP.
A humble tribute. R.I.P. Gary Speed.
I know that Gary will be looking down now from beyond Heaven's Gates. Such a lovely person. His family must be so proud of him. Great footballer. An even better person.
Rest In Peace Gary. A true Welsh legend, your country is proud of you and will never forget you!
Real courage here from Robbie much respect for doing this for his mate so sad!
Been a Leeds fan 50 years still can't believe it absolutely heart breaking
I was only 5 years old when Gary speed died but this death always touched me mental health has always been an issue with my family and with me it’s important to always speak out and to always be that someone who someone can speak to when there not ok always speak up and your never ever alone people might try to make you feel alone but just remember just to focus on what you love and what makes you happy and don’t speak to people make you feel like you can’t talk to RIP GARY SPEED 🇬🇧🏴❤
Was something of a turning point in how mental health issues became easier for people at all levels of sport to openly discus and seek help when necessary.
Oh man, wanted to hug Robbie there, bless him. Thoughts are with Family, children - so much trauma for them long after the public get over this.
Gary Speed was a great player,great coach person...i wish better for her family...rip champ!
I lost a very good friend in march this year he took his own life. I didn't expect it. It nocked me for six I will never get over it just learn to live with it.
A very sad loss indeed. Gary was clearly loved by soo many and it's so sad that only now he's being appreciated and spoken of in such high esteem. Here's hoping that an incident such as this never occurs again. RIP Speedo, you will be sorely missed.
I read somewhere that his wife was walking along the high street one day a while after he had died and came across a homeless person begging for money. And she said that she thought to herself ‘What keeps this person going? He has nothing, but my Garry had everything’? But that’s just it. The homeless person had nothing to lose....and her husband had everything to lose..RIP Gary
I'm struggling to understand your point, please help me?
@@Rubbafingaz1 One of the tabloids where going to run a story on him which could destroy his reputation and career. With him being a high profile person, they always inform them that they intend to run the story beforehand. This maybe the reason he did what he did, to protect his family.
@@jimbobalob2491 Oh ok, thanks for clarifying. Do you know what they intended to broadcast about him?
@@Rubbafingaz1 Nope.
All depends on your perspective, and that outlook on life can change throughout a person's life.
As an example, an addict (of any kind) may generally hate their situation, but their craving for the next hit keeps them going. In fact they may have to work harder than someone who has it all to get whatever it is they crave, and that effort and eventual reward actually gives them more of a release of reward-based brain chemistry than someone who has instant access to everything.
Of course this might not be applicable to Mr Speed, I suspect the sexual abuse he suffered as a youngster was the root cause. You'd never really see the world in the same way after such an experience.
RIP Gary you never played for a team that I supported but I always loved to watch you play when you were at Newcastle and Bolton. A footballing great and it's sad to hear about another tragic loss to the footballing world.
Reading some of the comments on this thread and I am appalled. A young man has died for whatever reason that can only be told by him, and we will never most probably know why. But what I would like to say is show some respect for Gary Speed. And I am from Liverpool and I support Liverpool, but that does not stop me showing respect for a good Football player who lost his way.
It's hard seeing all those "I'm not a fan of Robbie" comments. Like, why bother opening with that? No-one cares, it doesn't make you any less of a human to compliment someone you dislike! Equally, it's unfair on him for someone to say "oh, I hate you, but I'll let you off this one time because you're cut open on television". Really annoys me that does.
Just finished reading the book, Unspoken. So sad for his wife, kids, parents and everyone close to Speedo. Massive condolences from Melbourne, Australia xo
Huge respect to Robbie Savage for having the balls to step up so soon and speak about his friend Gary.
Thank you Gary Speed and also thank you to those who do have sympathy for those that have passed away.
Top player gary rip 🙏🙏 he sounded like a really nice guy..love from ireland..
I think to say someone had everything is a dangerous things to say. I think it can add to the guilt that someone of unsound mind feels.
RIP Gary you are sorely missed.
True.
very very emotional was nearly in tears!!! my dad rang me 2day and told me and he was nearly crying 2!!! R.I.P Gary Speed one of the toon armys greats! played with heart!!!!! something you dont get these days!!!
still makes me feel so sad - Gary RIP
It's something that everybody says. "We had no idea. He/she gave no sign that he/she was going to do this".
When somebody decides they are going to take that final step, it's as though a weight is lifted from them. All of the hurt and pain they feel drifts away from them for the final few days as they plan to commit suicide. That's why the person always seems so positive before it happens, and why it causes so much shock for others when it does.
+Alexander Thorne Thank you for this, I didn't know.
Bit like Robin Williams, apparently he had a nice meal with his wife before he took his own life, like he knew the end was near.
Alexander Thorne Not being a twat or anything, but there is no way you can know this without being in this situation.
He was murdered!
John Bryan stfu you fucking moron
Woke up to this tragic news this morning... I just cant believe it... Gary was a typical example of a professional.. I remember when he played for Newcastle back in the 90s with Solano in midfield... What a handsome man too... Life is definitely too short.. R.i.P Gary Speed, true legend
god bless Gary Speed, go and make him proud in November wales
Speaking from the heart is Robbie. Very sad.
925 games...141 goals ...85 welsh caps...several trophies ..inc the league title....barely a booking..no controversy...captain record times....wonderful father and husband and son and great friend to all....always gave time to everyone.humble loyal decent...passionate...patriotic.kind..patient...great manager..loved and respected by everyone who met him and even those who didnt...a remarkable gentleman..I stand and I applaud you gary speed for a great life well lived..your star shines bright
Fair play to the BBC reporter to. I have seen a lot of people struggling with news as the reporters still keep pushing for answers but this man knew when to stop fair play to him and R.I.P Gary Speed
This and Bryn Law’s piece on Gary always make me tear up. Taken way too soon.
Without Gary, the success under Coleman and Page never happens. That run in 2016, the knockout appearance in 2021, the World Cup qualification in 2022. None of that occurs without Speedo.
He gave Cymru stability and helped them build when they desperately needed it, and led them into the most successful period ever experienced. An already glittering legacy turned into one that made him a legend that is near untouchable in football circles. 13 years on and I hope you’re resting easy Speedo ❤️
I was 10yo when this happened. I distinctly remember watching Football Focus that Saturday lunchtime and remember the reports the day after- it was hoenstlybone of the first times i had ever truly thought about death; how someone can be there one minute and gone the next.
Im 42 and cant see a future for me
Sad very sad ..he had a great life and was a great player . Couldn't believe it when this was on the news ...
Unbelievable, tragic man Gary Speed A legend of the game RIP
RIP Speedo you premier league legend. A consumate professional both on and off the pitch and unfortunate that you were so tough that you refused to battle those demons in the open with people to help you. My feelings go out to those people who are suffering now that you aren't
Sad day for football, had so much going for him even at 42. Must have been hard for Robbie Savage to do that interview in person. R.I.P Speed
Great response by the guy asking the questions!
Av had Depression for yrs a lost my brother aged 27 and Av no been right since but a get help from professionals and loved ones. Rip garry son
Scott Kilner same here people who never have experienced it dont understand the pain i literally wish i would get cancer or something because i do want to put my family through the pain of me killing myself
@@stinkypete4634 hope ur doing ok now??
I cannot speak about Gary Speed the person other than to respect the views of those who did know him and so clearly loved him. Whatever the reason that resulted in the tragic loss of Gary’s life I sincerely hope that it remains private and that any additional anguish and heartache can be avoided for his wife and children. Gary Speed has now gone and I hope he is at peace however; his family are still very much with us and I just hope they can be left alone to grieve and rebuild their lives.
I saw him play in John Hartson’s charity game at Pride Park only 2 and a half months earlier. RIP Gary Speed.
How brave of Robbie to come on the show so soon after his friend died
Cannot believe how long ago it was, we all need to look out for each other.
Newcastle legend , gary speed . you will meet no better
I remember getting a phone call of my dad telling me and i was like, "You what" "Say that again". took me a second and to be told again for it to compute
I still can`t believe his gone guys. Just feels so strange when thinking of it... I know its like over a decade ago since he played for Newcastle, but it was during the better days, when Newcastle had several legends, and I remember Gary like it was yesterday. A true legend, and I`m pretty sure I can speak for the Leeds supporters as well. Miss you Gary.
The people who have said he seemed happy and laughing and joking are right, i won't be surprised if it was depression, i once had it and when i was with family and friends i was fine, then when your on your own or your in bed at night things play on your mind more and more until you can't take it anymore, it's such a shame, but no one could have done anything about it because he obviously told nobody
I can't believe it's over 5 years ago of Gary speeds sad death only seems like about 3 years to me. I always thought of him as a very nice bloke I hope his wife and kids have been coping
im a forest fan and all i can say is, fair play robbie i know how hard it is to lose a close freind and you were brave to accept an interview on such a hard subject in such short time! Garry Speed was a true sportsman and we'll never know why he did what he did but all we can do is remember him for the great guy he was RIP Garry Speed
Terrible loss for Wales good bless you Gary❤
Depression affects us all in so many ways. I attempted suicide back in '95 from an overdose and family said that I was on a high that day before I attempted the unthinkable.
Still think about Gary every now n then 💛💙 ALAW
I still cannot get my head around this . RIP Gary , My thoughts go out to his family and friends at this time and hope they can find the strength to cope
Ten years have gone so fast.....rip Gary
very very sad great player
I didn’t think it was that long ago the hurt is still undimmed.
6 years today😕❤️rip gary speed😭❤️❤️
Our builder ended his life last year, built the foundation for our family to enjoy life and he was quite and got on with the job. Really shocked when I found out and my wife told me yesterday that the girlfriend of her sisters neighbor, only 17 took her own life this week. So sad, appeared to have everything going for her as well. RIP to those two and Gary.
We can all learn from this tragic event.
Look out for everyone around you.
There is always love.
Peace xx
Well said
Such a shame. Great professionalism shown by the presenter too.
Missed every day. RIP GARY SPEED
Rest in peace Gary Speed 💙
So sad.. just tragic. RIP Gary Speed.
That was a motd a won’t forget in a long time! YNWA
So sad shocked as a fellow north welsh man I was over the moon to see Gary speed in charge of our national side was looking forward to the world cup qualifiers and like it has been said many times there wasn't any signs of Gary wanted to take his own life I like Robbie savage and many friends colleagues family and those that new and loved speedo am shocked in tears and am struggling to get my head around it all r.I.p we will all miss u Cymru am byth
My uncle was same age as Gary when he too took his own life ! Tragic
The capability of a person going through mental torment, still being able to hide it from others in the hours prior to taking their own life is so sad
RIP Gary Speed, Legend
When i first heard on SSN i thought it must have been of natural causes, then when the news came through of an apparent suicide i was truely shocked and still finding it hard to sink in. I always remember Speed as a dangerous player with pace and a mean shot. R.I.P. from a Saints fan
They shouldn’t have interviews so such a close friend on tv
Robbie Savage crying isn't funny, he is just grieving from the loss of his friend, RIP GARY you will never be forgotten.
No matter how strong the character are for a person, there is always a soft side emotional side of he or she had.
I remember watching Football Focus that day couldn't believe it afterwards.. Robbies dispair 😢...🏴🤝🏴 RIP brilliant speed 🙏
Speedo was a legend, a fantastic footballer and a true gent.