I'm scared of rollercoasters. Can I get over my fear?

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

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  • @tomscottplus
    @tomscottplus  2 года назад +27938

    I can't overstate how much of a big deal this was for me: thank you so much to everyone who made it happen. (And there's quite a long FAQ in the description which should answer a lot of the obvious questions here!)

    • @rasmusnovak8600
      @rasmusnovak8600 2 года назад +104

      Respect man, I hate em

    • @Katomon
      @Katomon 2 года назад +39

      Congratz Tom!

    • @dfmeow
      @dfmeow 2 года назад +26

      Good job

    • @tacka73
      @tacka73 2 года назад +65

      Can some one count the this is fines please

    • @ragnkja
      @ragnkja 2 года назад +48

      Well done! Conquering a fear is never easy, and takes tremendous courage.

  • @salsaul4288
    @salsaul4288 2 года назад +18698

    "That was a problem for future me, and now I am future me, and this sucks."
    Sounds like the story of my life.

    • @paulandrewhope
      @paulandrewhope 2 года назад +39

      eggsackly

    • @EmperorEdselstein
      @EmperorEdselstein 2 года назад +196

      Right? Future me always hate past me!

    • @gxantor
      @gxantor 2 года назад +58

      I need this on a shirt

    • @imKeeman
      @imKeeman 2 года назад +6

      yoo same

    • @jwalster9412
      @jwalster9412 2 года назад +33

      An exact description of every second day of my life.

  • @NotCallum
    @NotCallum 2 года назад +36239

    Watching Tom go through the 5 stages of grief whilst laughing like a maniac has gotta be one of my highlights of the year

    • @wisefries4205
      @wisefries4205 2 года назад +2294

      A roller-coaster of emotions, even

    • @jwalster9412
      @jwalster9412 2 года назад +385

      Watching him on the nemasis was both hilarious and amazing.

    • @riduls9137
      @riduls9137 2 года назад +317

      @@wisefries4205 that was a terrible, why did I laugh

    • @christianramirez7885
      @christianramirez7885 2 года назад +210

      Dude was joker laughing lmaooo

    • @RipleySawzen
      @RipleySawzen 2 года назад +99

      It's funny that we tend to feel joy when others feel it, and sorrow with others as well, but typically not anger unless it's someone close to us.

  • @marmar3113
    @marmar3113 Год назад +5425

    From "this is what I would call my limit" to "I wanna do every rollercoaster in this park" is so heartwarming.

    • @fariesz6786
      @fariesz6786 Год назад +32

      i know right!

    • @DarkDaysInPurple
      @DarkDaysInPurple Год назад +1

      New arc acheived: character development arc

    • @ARCHIVED9610
      @ARCHIVED9610 Год назад +44

      i felt that exact thing a couple months ago! best feeling ever, especially if you’re always avoiding em and sitting out of coasters like i used to 😅

    • @Larryboy2701
      @Larryboy2701 Год назад +12

      Exact same thing happened to me. I forced myself to ride one at universal studios when I was 18 and I’ve never looked back

    • @koraegi
      @koraegi 10 месяцев назад +4

      That's how it starts
      Every single time

  • @ikeglinsmann9759
    @ikeglinsmann9759 11 месяцев назад +2944

    "Bravery isn't the absence of fear. It's being afraid and doing it anyway."
    You absolute king.

    • @The0fficialGDCy6erwav3
      @The0fficialGDCy6erwav3 5 месяцев назад +5

      My whole life im afraid of everything literally but idc and t9r her myself to do it anyway

    • @VexWerewolf
      @VexWerewolf 5 месяцев назад +4

      "Do it scared."

    • @emptyforrest
      @emptyforrest 4 месяца назад +6

      i have long said that bravery without fear is just insanity.

    • @TheFettuck
      @TheFettuck 4 месяца назад

      Fear is not real. The only place that fear can exist is in our thoughts of the future.
      It is a product of our imagination, causing us to fear things that do not at present and may not ever exist.

    • @petercho546
      @petercho546 3 месяца назад +2

      Bravery quite literally means being fearless. You are talking about courage. You and 1.7k people didn't catch that somehow. Kind of stupid.

  • @aclonymous
    @aclonymous 2 года назад +10458

    I love how aggressively british he becomes when he's scared and angry, like he completely 180s from a very calm documentarian to full force "CAHM ON INGERLAND"

    • @Rock4896
      @Rock4896 2 года назад +410

      As someone who moved to the states when I was 6 years old (17 years ago), I still become extremely British when I'm excited or angry

    • @jayshomer4191
      @jayshomer4191 2 года назад +16

      It’s actually very turdish !

    • @GilliamVespa
      @GilliamVespa 2 года назад +314

      Bird "caw caw caw"
      Tom to bird "you can shut up!"

    • @OogBooog
      @OogBooog 2 года назад +5

      So true

    • @QuinsTechCorner
      @QuinsTechCorner 2 года назад +97

      HAVE ITTTTTTTTT

  • @drbm8
    @drbm8 2 года назад +2384

    I love how accurately this shows the change from terrified screaming to maniacal laughter that people haven't been on many roller coasters experience.

    • @TheBritishBarman
      @TheBritishBarman 2 года назад +33

      Excluding the cave one, I can’t remember the last time I witnessed Tom genuinely scared.

    • @jstarstudios7110
      @jstarstudios7110 Год назад +15

      Minicanal

    • @saniainez
      @saniainez Год назад +1

      Oh certainly his laugh now echoes in my mind as if it was in a _small tunnel_ 😂😂

    • @reelmsy3831
      @reelmsy3831 5 месяцев назад

      @@jstarstudios7110 youtube pedant in action

    • @beepboop9848
      @beepboop9848 4 месяца назад

      Minicanal

  • @5MadMovieMakers
    @5MadMovieMakers 2 года назад +10711

    Being afraid of a roller coaster is actually a really special experience after you've done a ton of them

    • @beacon5076
      @beacon5076 2 года назад +61

      I know!

    • @jessicapreston9808
      @jessicapreston9808 2 года назад +631

      Was just thinking this..that feeling of being scared as hell and then conquering an intense coaster is the biggest rush!

    • @aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah
      @aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah 2 года назад +220

      its literally impossible for me to be scared of any rollercoasters now that i have already been on so many 😭

    • @lolopigus
      @lolopigus 2 года назад +27

      @@aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah have you ridden Kingda Ka?

    • @aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah
      @aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah 2 года назад +19

      @@lolopigus no i live too far :

  • @MaxPalaro
    @MaxPalaro Год назад +2039

    So fun to watch you scream to face the fear. That's EXACTLY the way my wife overcame her fear. Now she is braver than me

  • @audigex
    @audigex 2 года назад +3041

    I love how you can visually see the moment Tom goes from "this is terrifying" to "wait, this is FUN"

    • @pithyginger6371
      @pithyginger6371 2 года назад +21

      @Reece Wilson This was me too (space mountain) except I was silent and gripped the bars so hard the guy beside me thought I died

    • @headcrab980
      @headcrab980 2 года назад +7

      I love how he goes from posh to chav... Av it!!

  • @jefflondon1977
    @jefflondon1977 Год назад +3265

    The two seconds of film where Tom goes from unbridled fear, to realizing that he has the power to overcome that fear, is probably the best and most powerful I've ever seen of him. Huge respect brother, so amazing to watch.

    • @Sarge92
      @Sarge92 Год назад +50

      thats one way to look at it
      enouther was at that moment his body began hosing his brain with so much dopamine and adrenaline that he couldn't do anything other than scream like a excited 2 year old and smile

    • @lapislazarus8899
      @lapislazarus8899 Год назад +22

      Before I watched this one, I watched the episode where he's on the top of the wind turbine, and takes the emergency exit down. I got vertigo just watching.
      I'd been a roller coaster enthusiast for years

    • @18skeltor
      @18skeltor Год назад +17

      @@Sarge92 But that's kind of awesome, too, isn't it?

    • @jessfidler2356
      @jessfidler2356 Год назад

      That’s what I feel. I’m absolutely petrified then about 1/3 in it’s the best thing I’ve ever done

    • @18skeltor
      @18skeltor Год назад +2

      @@jessfidler2356 Sounds like life when you decide to take a step forward 🕹

  • @tr7zw
    @tr7zw 2 года назад +9942

    After Tom did crazy things like standing on the top of a flying plane, being scared by normal rollercoasters was not on my bingo card.

    • @bexxy629
      @bexxy629 2 года назад +463

      I know plenty of people the same, me included, I rode motorbikes I have done caving, abseiled off a bridge and many other things like this but like many other adrenaline junkies it is the lack of control part of the rollercoaster which is the scariest part. Most high octane things have a cut-off point that you can stop whether that is turning around in caving, pulling the parachute, or locking off the rope on an abseil. Rollercoasters lack this once that belt is down there is no stop, no backing down and I think like Tom it limits a lot of people from doing this, This video has motivated me to get out their and try it again just to show I can.

    • @davel9514
      @davel9514 2 года назад +108

      @@bexxy629 I think "pulling the parachute" is of upmost importance, especially if you want a slower float down. Whether you choose to employ the technique or not, determines the outcome at the bottom - either way, once you have jumped, there's no control over the direction you're going to go in. So when you say "there is no stop, no backing down", I would argue that a parachute jump in motion is no different than a rollercoaster ride once it has left the starting point😂

    • @2fluffytv
      @2fluffytv 2 года назад +142

      Dude literally stood on the side of an old railway with a sure dead drop like nothing but is afraid of a little roller-coaster, honestly I'm quite surprised by both how strong Tom's phobia is and the massive ball it took for him to face it. Nothing but respect from me.

    • @nfnworldpeace1992
      @nfnworldpeace1992 2 года назад +32

      @@bexxy629 the lack of control ius definetly a scary one, i hate rollercoasters and thought it was afraid of heights since my stomach goes upside down when i see anyone jumping of anything higher than a few meters, even in games and now i fly an fpv drone (standing) where i can dive straight to the floor and not even flinch :P its weird sometimes

    • @corleth2868
      @corleth2868 2 года назад +103

      That's the irrational part of phobias. It's not logical or it wouldn't be a phobia ;o)
      You're in more danger driving to a theme park than you are on a rollercoaster when you get there.

  • @timhoffman1169
    @timhoffman1169 8 месяцев назад +86

    The literaly transition from fear to fun that you had on the last two coasters literally gave me an emotional reaction. Not only did you concur your fear, you realized that it was something you enjoyed all along.

  • @SuperBubba360
    @SuperBubba360 2 года назад +7889

    The worst part of roller coasters is just waiting in line, your mind can torture you more than the ride.

    • @OBsketches
      @OBsketches 2 года назад +103

      Exactly

    • @fakeuber8254
      @fakeuber8254 2 года назад +270

      Honestly the only issue I have with theme parks is just the queue times.

    • @parkergray5346
      @parkergray5346 2 года назад +60

      The problem with the wait is that it’s so long and all I want to do it ride it bcs it’s so fun

    • @thev90
      @thev90 2 года назад +41

      Can confirm.. waiting almost 3h in line for the Vertigo ride in Tivoli in Copenhagen, last 15minutes was agonizing!

    • @highfeelz
      @highfeelz 2 года назад +7

      True

  • @kestrylsinflight
    @kestrylsinflight Год назад +2861

    As someone who has a panic disorder, “I’ve wasted so many opportunities to do cool stuff like that because I was just too scared” hits hard. Learning to trust outside of your fear, leaning into a bit of faith that is “this will be okay” is incredibly emotional, and even more so when you conquer it. I hope you find pride in your bravery, and more importantly, happiness.

    • @wretchedhorrorscum8345
      @wretchedhorrorscum8345 Год назад +17

      I really hope so, thank you for this

    • @carcistan
      @carcistan Год назад +24

      I wish someone had advice on exposure therapy for apeirophobia; it’s quite niche but so hard to overcome

    • @fakecubed
      @fakecubed 10 месяцев назад +5

      @@carcistan Go on a space walk.

    • @elusivelectron
      @elusivelectron 6 месяцев назад

      Time to skydive Tom!

    • @jasonsimmons671
      @jasonsimmons671 5 месяцев назад

      Yes 💯🔥

  • @lucasalvarenga7811
    @lucasalvarenga7811 2 года назад +3815

    Congratulations Tom. It's not the fearless that are the most brave, but instead those who fear something and have the courage to face it.

    • @Pandaado
      @Pandaado 2 года назад +41

      I agree! because i had a big fear of roller coasters and the other day i went to a theme park with my school but i faced my fears and i went on the pepsi max big one (biggest one in the park) at Blackpool pleasure beach and that was fine for me!

    • @georgelinford5576
      @georgelinford5576 2 года назад +2

      This

    • @Jules-77
      @Jules-77 2 года назад +31

      Absolutely this. My fear isn’t coasters but I empathise with the panic and sick feeling. To broadcast that to the world is also courageous. Helpful too.

    • @CriticallyInsane
      @CriticallyInsane 2 года назад +6

      @@Pandaado proud of you! keep up that spirit.

    • @kelkelly5516
      @kelkelly5516 2 года назад +17

      If you aren't scared then it's not bravery.

  • @saadakbar261
    @saadakbar261 10 месяцев назад +392

    Coming back to this video after seeing Tom's announcement he's taking an extended break from making RUclips videos, and I have to admit that this isn't just one of my favorite Tom Scott videos, but one of my favorite videos on the entire platform.
    He's so open and honest about his fear of roller coasters, but still trudges on, giving us a play-by-play of each moment as he experiences them. The transition from his guttural yelling at 10:32 to his ecstatic laughter at 10:54 feels so cathartic. I'm definitely going to miss his regular uploads, but I'm glad he's created so much content for us to enjoy for years to come.

    • @BumNanner451
      @BumNanner451 10 месяцев назад +15

      I did the same. The turnabout from total fear to maniacal laughter and asking to ride again on Wickerman is such a wonderfully captured moment.

  • @Mcguy215
    @Mcguy215 2 года назад +1217

    The moment when you changed from outright screaming to laughing enthusiastically on the second ride was insane

    • @johnreese1337
      @johnreese1337 2 года назад +45

      Such a clean and clear transition too. Same with the third one.

    • @prdoyle
      @prdoyle 2 года назад +13

      Not gonna lie - that's not how I thought that was going to end.

    • @Spooky_Psyche
      @Spooky_Psyche 4 месяца назад +6

      @@prdoylethat’s how it usually ends 😂 as a coaster enthusiast who has absolutely no anxiety about roller coasters, one of my favorite parts of riding is watching people go through the process of realizing that everything’s fine, then letting go and just having fun.

    • @andrewholden1501
      @andrewholden1501 Месяц назад

      I assume you mean at 10:50 where you hear, "ARRRGH! I CAN DO THIS. I CAN DO THIS. Wait... I *can* do this?"

  • @jason6296
    @jason6296 2 года назад +3587

    Seeing tom go from terrified to laughing giddily like a child absolutely made my day

  • @MichaelSeltenreich
    @MichaelSeltenreich 2 года назад +6523

    You can tell this was a real emotional rollercoaster for Tom!

  • @danielthrasher
    @danielthrasher Год назад +1478

    I relate to this so hard omg

    • @timfim
      @timfim Год назад +2

      bruh what

    • @bfdiskyland
      @bfdiskyland Год назад +16

      daniel thrasher from hoodie guy

    • @Itirtur
      @Itirtur Год назад +5

      Its hoodie guy

    • @skoop651
      @skoop651 Год назад +9

      just remember
      so many rollercoaster riders a year, yet rarely ever any deaths reported

    • @CoasterChamp
      @CoasterChamp Год назад

      Wow 2 weeks ago.

  • @scribblees
    @scribblees 2 года назад +1676

    That last quote “I’ve wasted so many opportunities to do cool stuff like that just because I was too scared” really hit me. It applies to everything, for him it’s rollercoasters but it can be anything for anyone and that’s something I can deeply relate to. Didn’t think this would get me emotional. You’re incredible!

    • @joetucker971
      @joetucker971 2 года назад +21

      It's a brilliant quote to be honest and you're right, you could apply that to anything in life

    • @ailaG
      @ailaG 2 года назад +6

      I always wonder, if I go back to eating meat (vegetarian, non preaching) if I'll regret all the times I was in good restaurants and good BBQs and didn't try the meat.

    • @eagleleft
      @eagleleft 2 года назад +2

      For me it's two things. One js jumping from a long height into water. The other is needles. I know needles are required for blood testing, giving medicine, donating blood, etc and I've done it so many times but that is not really cool I guess.

    • @Gorindakia
      @Gorindakia 2 года назад +17

      But there’s a bright side. If you’ve done these things since you were a kid, you can still have a lot of fun doing them but you become a little numb to it. Tom has saved that major excitement now, excitement you can get as an adult but is much fewer and far between of an experience. Now he has another activity he can truly enjoy like a kid as an adult and that’s kind of something special. He didn’t waste past experience opportunities, he just gained new, more intense ones now.

    • @kimberly4275
      @kimberly4275 2 года назад +5

      Social interactions for me :c

  • @lilyposting
    @lilyposting 2 года назад +1490

    It’s funny how phobias work. You can fly wing suits, ride in fighter jets, scale cliffs, wing-walk, even pass out in NASA’s gravity laboratory and have a blast. But roller coasters make you tense up, want to flee. Roller coasters aren’t more frightening than some of the things Tom has done, but everyone just has specific combinations of stimuli they’re extremely vulnerable to. Congrats, Tom! It takes a lot of bravery to do this, and even more bravery to do this in front of an audience.

    • @jpaugh64
      @jpaugh64 2 года назад +30

      Some of the difference between those experiences is the direction of social pressure. For experimental equipment, everyone in the room will magnify any safety concern, and directly ask you questions about whether the current conditions are safe to proceed.
      In this case, while there are safety procedures in place, the default assumption is that the ride is normal. It's safe until proven otherwise.

    • @Roccondil
      @Roccondil 2 года назад +21

      Not to mention, many of these other places and activities try to minimize the feeling of being unsafe, while rollercoasters often are designed with specific elements and theming to evoke the idea that they are imposing and scary, like just being a BIG NOISY METAL CONTRAPTION, the feeling of being almost out of control, etc etc.

    • @DSiren
      @DSiren 2 года назад +4

      Dude I'm more about that walking the steel cables of suspension bridges - it's absurd to be that there could be anyone fearful of essentially a drunk train ride after that. Now, flying coasters are a whole different story, riding belly down suspended only by an over-the-shoulder restraint with no hand-holds nor backup safety belt is fking terrifying and no amount of coaster experience will make me want to do it a second time.

    • @scotth7267
      @scotth7267 2 года назад +1

      Heck, I was way more nervous watching his rope walking video!

    • @orange_turtle3412
      @orange_turtle3412 6 месяцев назад

      Weird how that works. I've never liked rollercoasters, but id be perfectly fine flying down an open road at 150mph in a car or skydiving from hundreds of feet up in the air. I think it might have something to do with how restrictive coasters are. There are equivalent experiences that give you the same feeling, but you have more control over them. In a car, you can choose how fast you are going and when you want to stop, but a rollercoaster locks you into a pre-set experience that never changes. I think I dont like my fun being so restricted, and there being no possibility of bailing out mid-ride (even though I wouldnt use it, the option is nice to have)

  • @stargate525
    @stargate525 2 года назад +1987

    Tom is the perfect example of a phobia being irrational. This guy flew in a stunt fighter plane, but is scared of fairly minor coasters.

    • @aikumaDK
      @aikumaDK 2 года назад +117

      For me, my fear of roller coasters stems from the fact that I got no control of it.
      You're strapped in and you can't get out, in case it becomes too nerve wracking.
      In the stunt plane, I would assume the pilots would stop their stunt-flying once Tom says he's at his limit and it would become a regular flight.

    • @DoctorNemmo
      @DoctorNemmo 2 года назад +42

      @@aikumaDK The solution to control the fear of rollercoasters is to *pretend* that you are in control of the movements of the rollercoaster.

    • @adakalyoncu1913
      @adakalyoncu1913 2 года назад +25

      Actually you can control it to some extent. You can get your lap bar be around an inch off your lap so that you can get more airtime, or you can raise/lower your hands for lateral G's and twisting motions to feel more/less intense. Most coaster enthusiasts try to not get stapled on rides (intentionally leaving the lap bar around one centimeter off their lap, still in a way it's safe; so that they can have a more intense ride experience).
      Another thing to add is, you can estimate how fast the ride is going to run relative to itself based on the temperature (hotter the weather is, faster the ride is) and how filled the train is (heavier the train is, faster the pacing and more intense the ride will be). Trim brakes being on and off can also be considered but you have to ride once and feel it in order to decide whether they are on or off.

    • @andybandy4662
      @andybandy4662 Год назад +11

      i don't know why, but on big drops it physically hurts my stomach. i'm not scared of them, just scared of the pain that i'll go through on those drops.

    • @SyntaxErr19287
      @SyntaxErr19287 Год назад

      @@adakalyoncu1913you sound like you have no life ahaha

  • @DavidGarcia-sv4fn
    @DavidGarcia-sv4fn 11 месяцев назад +195

    The change on 10:53 from Encouraging "I CAN DO THIS" to reassuring to empowerment "I CAN DO THIS" is a sublime human emotion artwork. (Thank you for this, Tom)

  • @PeteTheWargamer
    @PeteTheWargamer 2 года назад +5412

    It takes courage to face your fears but even more to post yourself experiencing those fears for the world to see.
    On a different note, it's still always strange when I hear the Stokie accent in a video!

    • @WafflesYo
      @WafflesYo 2 года назад +7

      Love you pete

    • @99Plastics
      @99Plastics 2 года назад +9

      Do a kitbash of Tom on a coaster in 40k, the crossover we need.

    • @girkin6274
      @girkin6274 2 года назад +1

      It's nice

    • @ArrogantDan
      @ArrogantDan 2 года назад +23

      Till a big Foodtuber learns how to make Staffordshire Oatcakes, I reckon Tom Scott at Alton Towers is as big as we're getting

    • @PeteTheWargamer
      @PeteTheWargamer 2 года назад +7

      @@ArrogantDan you've just reminded me, it's been far too long since I had cheesy oatcake!

  • @SlimSKim13
    @SlimSKim13 2 года назад +2431

    The slow shift from laughter induced by fear to laughter induced by adrenaline to laughter induced by joy is a beautiful thing.
    Well done, Tom. Now go ride some more coasters!

    • @owainsutton4865
      @owainsutton4865 2 года назад +97

      It's not totally unlike the moment in the "learning to ride a bike" video, how you can almost see the brain rewiring itself in real time.

    • @phs125
      @phs125 2 года назад +32

      Definitely felt the "laughter induced by fear" before with rides before.
      Although, I'll never even touch a rollercoaster in my life. Never ever.
      And bungee jumping? I'd probably die even if I see someone else doing it in real life.

    • @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721
      @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721 2 года назад +32

      I was amazed by the range of laughing. By the end it was just pure dopamine.

    • @sammy2745
      @sammy2745 2 года назад +8

      Imagine the laughter after The Smiler 😂

    • @proloycodes
      @proloycodes 2 года назад

      @@vigilantcosmicpenguin8721 why are you everywhere?

  • @mnbgt101
    @mnbgt101 2 года назад +794

    As someone with a lot of anxious tendencies, watching Tom preparing for the second coaster was very hard due to the sheer amount of empathy I was feeling. Watching him get over it on the ride and start laughing was an amazing moment, honestly inspiring. A real emotional rollercoaster.

    • @Gonnjager
      @Gonnjager 2 года назад +9

      Was that 'pun intended'.

    • @zacm.2342
      @zacm.2342 2 года назад +7

      Same for me. That point where he got over it was so wonderful, even though my own anxiety was still flaring just watching it.
      Being very empathetic and anxious is an annoying mix sometimes.

    • @calmsquirrel7124
      @calmsquirrel7124 2 года назад

      Don’t worry guys he’s an empath

    • @Vincent-_-123
      @Vincent-_-123 2 года назад

      I was feeling the same thing.

  • @simonmccaffrey6388
    @simonmccaffrey6388 11 месяцев назад +170

    “What happens if I try and panic” is the most rational and irrational response to fear I’ve ever seen😂 glad you made it through!

  • @Just1Me9235
    @Just1Me9235 2 года назад +625

    There is never, ever, EVER "a stupid thing to cry about". Congratulations on completing this.

    • @prodky33
      @prodky33 2 года назад

      Crying that you can't get anything you eany

    • @atherrien95
      @atherrien95 2 года назад +14

      It's grieving in a way; grieving the loss of once in a lifetime experiences he may have missed. Not stupid at all

    • @MaydupNem
      @MaydupNem Год назад +3

      Actually, the fact that a poodle cannot fly is a stupid thing to cry about

    • @Polopony20.
      @Polopony20. 7 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@MaydupNemunless we take that to mean your pet poodle is not allowed on a plane and you cant take it with you when you mive

  • @luxorens
    @luxorens 2 года назад +1896

    "Are you ready?"
    "No, but I never will be" is such a big reminder to just get on the coaster and not let the fear overtake you.
    "I've wasted so many opportunities not going on these cause I was too scared" also hit me cause I'm deathly afraid of roller coasters, but I also want to go on them. Watching someone with the exact same fear as me overcome it is so motivating in any situation.

    • @onfleur9013
      @onfleur9013 2 года назад +20

      same!! i really want to go on roller coasters but i get so scared and decide not to, i think im going to stop doing that now.

    • @0Morey
      @0Morey 2 года назад +13

      I’m not gonna tell you what I’m afraid of, but I can say from experience that the fear does not stop or lessen you only learn to tolerate it. Damn that sounded edgy. My point is, when/if you “conquer” your fear you will find out that things that scared you to a smaller degree will seem less scary. The phobia will become the only thing that you fear. Everything else will seem fine. Facing your phobia again and again will become your only source of adrenaline. It’s hard to explain. You must find out yourself. Good luck.

    • @alannahfavero511
      @alannahfavero511 2 года назад +11

      I experienced the exact same thing of a fear of rollercoasters just dissapearing after 1 ride. I 100% reccomend just getting on any ride you find scary (upside down ones rly work), you will never be scared again

    • @rsolsjo
      @rsolsjo 2 года назад +14

      The good thing about a rollercoaster is that you have to do one thing: sit in it and be strapped in. It's the initial fear and doubt that gets you. Don't think. Sit. You'll go through the ride and come out the other side stronger.

    • @kitkatiecat
      @kitkatiecat 2 года назад +5

      @@alannahfavero511 That's what I did recently - went to Alton Towers terrified, and STARTED with the Smiler
      I told myself to just sit down and brace myself, did exactly that, and had a whale of a time
      If the queue wasn't so long I would have gone on again and again and again!

  • @VadeSatana
    @VadeSatana 2 года назад +2550

    Tom being sat on fire: “this is gonna be so cool”
    Tom being on a roller coaster: “ahhhhhhhhh, this is fine, ahhhhh”
    You sir are just awesome.

    • @rubimuzakki
      @rubimuzakki 2 года назад +27

      HAVE IT!

    • @TS_Mind_Swept
      @TS_Mind_Swept 2 года назад +6

      Him on the kiddy (not a) coaster was the best 😂😂 The overall outcome was good though :p

    • @chalkchalkson5639
      @chalkchalkson5639 2 года назад +24

      I fear no aerobatics or centrifuges, but this theme park it scares me

  • @HappyFeet20121987
    @HappyFeet20121987 8 месяцев назад +40

    From someone who has conquered their fear of rollercoasters I was cheering you on every time you sat in the seat. It’s only been a year and I’ve been on Velocicoaster at Universal Studios. I’m proud of you!

    • @MarvelMPH
      @MarvelMPH Месяц назад +1

      The velocicoaster rocks! On our once in a lifetime type family trip to Orlando and it's parks the velocicoaster was the best of the rides!

  • @Warner1929
    @Warner1929 2 года назад +1146

    Going from "I hate it" & "I can't do it", to in tears stating "I love rollercoasters" and "I want to do it again" warms my heart. You did it! I'm so happy and proud of you. Fears are truly monsters that hold us back and keeps us from realizing how much we miss in life. 💖💕

  • @Crossark1
    @Crossark1 2 года назад +2510

    Seeing the realization hit Tom, him just suddenly having that revelation of, “I can do this,” was incredible. You can see the exact moment the psychological block caused by his phobia yielded to the reality of the situation. Obviously, he’s gonna have more work to do, but that big breakthrough just rocketed him down the path he wanted to be on and further towards his goal of mitigating or eliminating the fear. A lot of people will never experience what that’s like, and certainly not on this scale/severity, so seeing it here has the potential to be so powerful as a tool of empathy and understanding.

    • @CalebHansonlets
      @CalebHansonlets 2 года назад +73

      Apparently now he has a season pass and is riding every ride at six flags, to the point where he has opinions on the quality of each ride. Watch the SafteyThird podcast with Tom Scott

    • @nsiepmann
      @nsiepmann 2 года назад +19

      Yes - I got to that moment of realisation and unexpectedly, immediately started fully crying. It’s huge to get to see somebody be so suddenly freed, even partially.

    • @sprawlz6466
      @sprawlz6466 2 года назад +8

      Fear is an illusion. You can see straight through it once you have an experience like this

    • @energywolff7112
      @energywolff7112 2 года назад +4

      18:45 you can see it happen

    • @karmakermit
      @karmakermit 2 года назад +3

      I got over my fear of coasters by ridding a 300ft coaster right off the bat :)

  • @MGlBlaze
    @MGlBlaze 2 года назад +1050

    Going from being terrified to "Can we do that again?" was both really wholesome, and super funny.
    Glad you managed to face your phobia!

  • @shawnspencer8766
    @shawnspencer8766 8 месяцев назад +66

    I'm a roller coaster controls programmer, and I can tell you the safety and redundancy that goes into these rides are top tier.
    Glad to see you ended up enjoying them as much as you did. Cool video

    • @torou8119
      @torou8119 4 месяца назад +1

      That's a super cool job

  • @alemoncitrus8285
    @alemoncitrus8285 2 года назад +2874

    This is genuinely one of the best videos I've seen on RUclips. It takes a lot of courage not just to tackle a major phobia but to be okay with sharing that with the world and being vulnerable--The way you're just so genuine in all your videos is something I think we should all aspire to. It's just really heartwarming to watch. Tom Scott gives me faith in humanity

    • @mitchummendeodrant
      @mitchummendeodrant Год назад +11

      Hello fellow Lemon

    • @theonepieceisreal2020
      @theonepieceisreal2020 Год назад +10

      Tom scott is literally my most favourite person and i started binging his videos only this morning 😭

    • @parallax-daemens
      @parallax-daemens Год назад +6

      i see that pfp of yours. I know what you are

    • @TakFyrir
      @TakFyrir Год назад +10

      Right?! My eyes got wet watching him go from just trying to stay calm and letting out vocal stress to screaming and laughing as most people do on a roller coaster.

    • @onemillionpercent
      @onemillionpercent Год назад +2

      same

  • @Mother_boards
    @Mother_boards 2 года назад +890

    It's not at all a stupid thing to cry about! No matter how small it may feel in retrospect, overcoming ANY fear is a huge undertaking, and watching it happen for you in real time made me get emotional, too. Super happy for you Tom!

    • @kathybramley5609
      @kathybramley5609 2 года назад +4

      Thirded!

    • @Vykk_Draygo
      @Vykk_Draygo 2 года назад +12

      Not just overcoming, but realizing you actually enjoy what you feared for so long. Not surprising to feel emotional at all!

  • @Elliana2002
    @Elliana2002 Год назад +2913

    4:33 That crow added incredible atmosphere qualities to the shot, and Tom telling it that it can shut up made me LAUGH SO HARD! For an instant I thought the crow could have even been edited in for atmosphere, but I was quickly, hilariously corrected.

    • @ShowaShorts63
      @ShowaShorts63 Год назад +100

      The crow made it the most British video

    • @calvinm5937
      @calvinm5937 Год назад +20

      If that crow was real and not just part of the park, that was perfect

    • @Wingtrois
      @Wingtrois Год назад +33

      @@calvinm5937 what do you mean „part of the park”? You think they employ crows there? Lolz

    • @celestialtree8602
      @celestialtree8602 Год назад +31

      @@Wingtrois speakers

    • @spooky-spaghetti
      @spooky-spaghetti Год назад +18

      the crow was a paid actor

  • @coolguyhino92
    @coolguyhino92 10 месяцев назад +112

    10:50 : I can do this (said to motivate oneself to persevere in the face of fear)
    10:55 : I _can_ do this (said in realization, that he truly can do it)
    His tone change as he repeats, "i can do this" is genuinely heart warming. You can see, hear, and feel the literal exact moment Tom realizes he's stronger than his phobia.

  • @JB-ek4yx
    @JB-ek4yx 2 года назад +1373

    I don't know if it's official Alton Towers policy, but the operators of the runaway mine train always say 'choo choo' before sending off the ride. They seem to compete to say it in the most patronising way to get a laugh from the punters 😆

    • @badger5921
      @badger5921 2 года назад +53

      I remember a little while ago there was a different operator (changed from now) and he said the 'choo choo' so well and was a great part of the ride. Sadly he seems to be gone now.

    • @eyeballpaul1792
      @eyeballpaul1792 2 года назад +14

      It’s been ages since I’ve been but don’t you also normally go round twice?

    • @Mr_Mooseman
      @Mr_Mooseman 2 года назад +13

      I think you mean “ChOoOoOo ChOoOoOo”

    • @timdavies90
      @timdavies90 2 года назад +10

      @@eyeballpaul1792 think they can vary how many times it goes round (I'm sure there is a limit though), I've been round three times before.

    • @uselessgrape7464
      @uselessgrape7464 2 года назад +4

      @@timdavies90 yes it depends on time of day and how busy it is. Most times I’ve been round is about six.

  • @abisnow1843
    @abisnow1843 2 года назад +842

    "It's a problem for future me, and now I am future me."
    I feel this 😂

    • @p0.c
      @p0.c Год назад +2

      I FEEL THIS TOO BRO

    • @bjoe385
      @bjoe385 Год назад +1

      And 10:45 “This is fine, AAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH!!!!”

    • @Jumper76Anton
      @Jumper76Anton Год назад

      @@bjoe385 Best part when the realization hits that rollercoasters are actually really awesome lmao

    • @DagreenApple
      @DagreenApple Год назад

      Me when my exam

    • @jonpatchmodular
      @jonpatchmodular Год назад

      The title of my biography

  • @Dutch_fellow
    @Dutch_fellow 2 года назад +474

    The fact that he puts himself through this in front of 100 of thousands of people gets all my respect. I totally understand his feelings

    • @inlinechris
      @inlinechris 2 года назад +2

      You realize he wouldn’t ever do this unless he had an audience right?

    • @Celatra
      @Celatra 2 года назад +1

      I think the audience is what drives him.

  • @VoidstriderLucatiel
    @VoidstriderLucatiel 7 месяцев назад +87

    21:08 "Stupid thing to cry about"
    I'm crying right now. I told myself that if you could do this, maybe I can get over my own fear of rollercoasters. I dunno if I'll ever get to go to a theme park again, but... If I do, I'll try. Because of you.

    • @KamiKaZantA
      @KamiKaZantA 4 месяца назад

      Maybe I should go to Liseberg, have two beers, and then try out a few rides this summer.

    • @Ryanisthere
      @Ryanisthere 2 месяца назад +2

      the thing about fear of rollercoasters is it is completely irrational
      once you get on the biggest baddest thing and enjoy it every rollercoaster becomes a joy to ride

    • @Camperlife111
      @Camperlife111 Месяц назад

      Just do it. I went on Smiler and Nemesis reborn at Alton towers the other day, don’t let it hold you back.

    • @Nolongerinuse133
      @Nolongerinuse133 12 дней назад

      @@Camperlife111 For my son, would you reccomend Nemesis to an 11 year old who doesn't like that stomach feeling during the drop. He's fine with the overhead restraints but never done one, he's not sure about the inversions though, if their rough/feel bad.

  • @Dylan-ee6qg
    @Dylan-ee6qg 2 года назад +419

    I'm jealous of how good Tom is at being openly vulnerable. What a legend

  • @ConfusedRaccoon
    @ConfusedRaccoon 2 года назад +745

    It's fascinating how different movie "fear" and actual primal fear are, and how unpleasant it is to see. And then the adrenalin giggles set in and it's heart-warming.

    • @DogNamedWatson
      @DogNamedWatson 2 года назад +8

      @@billy00001 God, it really was, wasn't it? When the video began it activated the primal-maternal part of my brain that went, "Oh no I love him, I want to hug him, poor baby boy," which I was aware is incredibly patronizing but it's what the beginning of the video evoked from me, but then the genuine terror and shouting began and I just fell silent and felt so uncomfortable. But it was all worth it when his joy came out!

  • @ordinaryoctave
    @ordinaryoctave 2 года назад +516

    This was almost surreal to watch, watching Tom on the rides realising that he's actually enjoying himself is basically the exact same experience I had about 2 years ago, and it is a memory that will stick with me forever. This whole video basically perfectly mirrored my own experience with rollercoasters, from what Tom said at the start right through to being on all the rides

    • @GADICO
      @GADICO 2 года назад +5

      Exactly my thoughts as well! There's nothing like turning fear into joy, it's a very memorable experience.

    • @jarmoliebrand2005
      @jarmoliebrand2005 2 года назад +6

      Also describes my rollercoaster journey. I was scared, yet determined to extend my boundaries and ride something bigger and badder each time.

    • @dirkhirbanger4153
      @dirkhirbanger4153 2 года назад +8

      The laughter at 10:58 was the sudden overcoming of the phobia, and the enjoyment kicking in

    • @Gielnor
      @Gielnor 2 года назад +6

      Same here! 3 years ago I had not been on a single roller coaster in 27 years. And now I've been on almost 100, including 3/4 gigacoasters in the US and Kingda Ka. I even planned a 2-week roadtrip around them last year. I went from terrified to annoyed at myself for not starting sooner and missing out on all the rides I missed as a kid that no longer exist.

    • @Milamberinx
      @Milamberinx 2 года назад +2

      The opposite of my roller coaster experience. I went on some about 8 years ago and came to the conclusion that I just don't like it. I don't like the lack of control, I don't like falling, I don't like my safety being in the hands of people who don't care about my safety.

  • @jailenes5594
    @jailenes5594 4 месяца назад +24

    i teared up because i know exactly how he feels and i have yet to overcome it. this gives me hope honestly. i don’t know why they scare me so much. i’ve had a panic attack once from a medium to small drop once and it was so painful to go through, it felt like i couldn’t do anything and my body was beyond overwhelmed. i want to get over it so bad. i really do.

  • @WlatPziupp
    @WlatPziupp 2 года назад +210

    Tom piloting an aircraft without the use of is eyes: "Wow this is a lot of fun. So if I had kept going like that we would have crashed huh? Interesting"
    Tom on a children's ride: "Okay I can control the panic if I just breathe through it. Okay, okay, just breathe"
    That's so awesome. Phobias are nuts, facing them is an incredible feat

  • @pupperwareclub
    @pupperwareclub 2 года назад +862

    as a ride operator, seeing people conquer their fears and take on these big scary machines is why i enjoy this job SO MUCH. literally had the biggest smile on my face at the end of the video - if you ever get the chance, come over across the pond and come out to cedar point, weve got some of the biggest and best roller coasters in the world!! we'd love to have you 😁😁😁❤️

    • @beaudontknow69420
      @beaudontknow69420 2 года назад +7

      dude i go to that park so much its so fun

    • @ThunderhawkZoe
      @ThunderhawkZoe 2 года назад +21

      I’m also a Cedar Point ride op! If Tom ever came to my ride I’d probably freak out!

    • @joshe5515
      @joshe5515 2 года назад +6

      I used to be a Cedar Point ride op!

    • @sinatrabone
      @sinatrabone 2 года назад +14

      Dude, Cedar Point is the real thing! I did a nerdy research project on roller coasters in middle school, then got to actually visit the park in Ohio (I’m from way out in Idaho) ten years later! It blew my mind!
      But Tom… there might be a few steps in between now and Cedar Point :). Maybe don’t be in too much of a rush!

    • @4nsic
      @4nsic 2 года назад +1

      Bro cedar point is my home park! I was there yesterday!! What ride do you operate?

  • @bryanwhitecs
    @bryanwhitecs 10 месяцев назад +12

    Watching the transition from fear to enjoyment took me back to my time at a Florida theme park, where on an unexpectedly slow day, I ran into a kid from the UK who had not gone on any of the coasters. So I convinced him to take a ride on one of the attractions that everyone skips because it's perceived as one of the scariest until you do it. I loved watching it ten years ago, and it's still great to watch today. This just became one of my top five favorite videos on RUclips.

  • @wirelesmike73
    @wirelesmike73 2 года назад +1951

    The moment he goes from nervous laughter to maniacal cackling is the moment of epiphany. A rare moment of pure joy is more rarely captured on camera like this. It's a good thing to see. Welcome to the world of coasters, Tom. Hope you get the chance to try to make up for lost time. 🤘✊👊

    • @ninjabiscuit1095
      @ninjabiscuit1095 2 года назад +39

      I could feel that through the screen, genuinely felt like my heart was expanding as it happened, good on Tom for being brave enough to do this and put it out for everyone to see

    • @Daralyndk
      @Daralyndk Год назад +2

      Yes as a kid I was in..seventh grade so around 12-13.. in Vienna Prater with school trip. Went on some steel-mini coaster, don't really remember much, but probably that basic layout that you can find everywhere.
      The only thing I remember was being ashamed to scream so I went with closed mouth and it made me nauseous.
      Didn't been on coaster since until I was thirty. My friend dragged me to park or offer me to go and I quickly realized that my limits are literary sky high and I was fine with every coaster there.
      While I've been on many different kinds since, l my most fa orite are inverted or launch coasters

  • @hinleung7502
    @hinleung7502 2 года назад +544

    10:46 those 15 seconds are almost magical. You can almost pinpoint the exact second Tom’s brain switched from utter panic into enjoyment, and the pitch in his scream went up an octive

    • @-the-butterfly-effect-7585
      @-the-butterfly-effect-7585 2 года назад +43

      Literally took him a second to realise it had switched

    • @tomw86
      @tomw86 2 года назад +2

      I was scrolling down to see if anyone else had commented this!

    • @garethreece
      @garethreece 2 года назад +11

      Couldn't of picked a better phrase to describe it! It was horrible to watch someone you "know" (for want of a better term) in that state of panic... To watch him suddenly shift to enjoyment was just fantastic

  • @griffinstirts
    @griffinstirts 2 года назад +1012

    So many creators on this platform try to optimize their online persona and never show you their real self. Then there's Tom, who shows us its OK to be human. It's not a stupid thing to cry about. everyone who lives has something their afraid of. The relief and joy from conquering your longtime personal struggles is actually a perfectly rational thing to be emotional about.
    *"I have spent so many years being scared, and I'm not anymore." - Good on ya Tom, we love to watch how far youve come out of your comfort zone. And how much this channel has grown along with you! Cheers!*

    • @jwalster9412
      @jwalster9412 2 года назад +9

      *insert inspirational quote here*

    • @allftw2677
      @allftw2677 2 года назад +9

      "tom conqured his fears , he showed no tears" - Sun Tzu The Art Of War

  • @Omlet221
    @Omlet221 4 месяца назад +52

    4:30 that crow was so perfectly timed like a horror movie

  • @DavidBennettPiano
    @DavidBennettPiano 2 года назад +1150

    10:14 moments like this would have been even better if the park was open as usual. Imagine sitting next to that bloke from RUclips and this happening…

    • @iamcurious9541
      @iamcurious9541 2 года назад +43

      10:50 would have been even more amazing. I mean that was an amazing moment even on camera.

    • @Antwon22
      @Antwon22 2 года назад +36

      the moment he goes from sheer panic to complete excitement and confusion as he laughs wondering why he isnt hating it

    • @RichardBronosky
      @RichardBronosky 2 года назад +1

      "I can do this!" Reminded me of "this is Unix."🤣

    • @Nineninetails
      @Nineninetails 2 года назад +16

      @@iamcurious9541 "This is fine. I can do this. I can do this! ... I can do this? ... *maniacal laughter*"

    • @AFrogInTheStars
      @AFrogInTheStars 2 года назад +1

      I have nothing of use to add, but i just came here to say….
      Omg david! I didn’t think id find you here!

  • @andreabutitsruth
    @andreabutitsruth 2 года назад +407

    I think this video additionally proves Tom’s commitment against swearing. I would’ve made sailors blush if I were in the same situation.

    • @NickiRusin
      @NickiRusin 2 года назад +44

      didn't even think about that, the fear could not overcome Tom's self-discipline of not swearing

    • @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721
      @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721 2 года назад +21

      I was really anticipating some heavy bleeping.

    • @tomrogue13
      @tomrogue13 2 года назад +47

      Though him telling the bird to "shut up now" made me laugh for like 5 minutes

    • @ahumanmerelybeing
      @ahumanmerelybeing 2 года назад +5

      @@tomrogue13 Highlight of the video for me.

    • @Nadia1989
      @Nadia1989 2 года назад +4

      I'd create some interesting new cursewords

  • @The-Cookie
    @The-Cookie 2 года назад +826

    The abrupt shift from being terrified to laughing and smiling was absolutely heartwarming.
    I recently got over my fear of drop towers by forcing myself onto one- looking back, it was such a shame I refused to go on so many drop towers all these years just because of my stubborn fear of drops as a child. I still vividly remember getting off the ride and frantically telling my friend I wanted to go on every drop tower ever whilst smiling like a lunatic. Truly one of the best things I’ve ever overcome.
    Glad you also got over your fear- you never truly know how much you’ve missed your whole life until you’ve tried it :)

    • @f1nn15
      @f1nn15 Год назад +8

      I refuse to go on drop towers because the drop of roller coasters is my least favorite part. I dont think theres anything that can convince me

    • @adrianfernandez2466
      @adrianfernandez2466 Год назад +4

      @@f1nn15 do what they did they probably had the same mentality

    • @Celatra
      @Celatra Год назад +2

      @@4321user-_ to get rid of the fear you need to do the absolute most extreme one possible.
      otherwise there is always a barrier. i hate droptowers too tho.

    • @pablojams5152
      @pablojams5152 Год назад +2

      Used to hate drop towers myself, but there was one I went on after learning about the lift and brake mechanism being magnetics, meaning it’s (nearly) physically impossible for the ride to fail catastrophically because powering the ride is what allows it to lift, but if the ride is unpowered, the magnets are still there which create the braking force on the way down, meaning you can never have a destructive landing without someone literally tearing the ride apart from the ground level.

  • @Jaxxie1981
    @Jaxxie1981 4 месяца назад +6

    We Stan a vulnerable king. Being open about your fears, and showing us the steps to you overcoming them, then watching you have so much fun in being victorious over them is such an amazing thing. I used to love coasters, but a viral illness in my 30s damaged my inner ear and now I get severe nausea if I get dizzy or disoriented. I so very much miss my body allowing me to enjoy certain rides, but I can always live vicariously through RUclips❤

  • @jacefairis1289
    @jacefairis1289 Год назад +1408

    the shift from terrified shouting to laughing and cheering triumphantly was so genuinely uplifting, I couldn't help but laugh sympathetically. this is an incredibly vulnerable video and it must have taken mad guts to post it online.

  • @neku-fn8dq
    @neku-fn8dq Год назад +893

    I like how calm and collected every coaster operators are.
    Theyre like chillest dudes

    • @Feraloidies
      @Feraloidies Год назад +48

      Plus they seemed entirely non-judgemental about phobias.

    • @Bisonrulz16
      @Bisonrulz16 Год назад +68

      @@Feraloidies it’s kinda part of the job, helping scared kids get over the fear just long enough to take the ride or helping them off if they decide not to go. Adults are easier than that

    • @ellfatts
      @ellfatts Год назад +2

      @@Bisonrulz16 now I know why the ride operator lied to me about this roller coaster being slow, but it was like 100 drops per second (not really.)

    • @KoboldPip
      @KoboldPip Год назад +3

      The ones in the video weren't the usual operators they were engineers

  • @Silvarret
    @Silvarret 2 года назад +1850

    I had the same exact fear up until a few years ago, same thing with the drops, feeling like you're at your limit, and realizing it's actually fun halfway through the ride. I intensely relived my own experiences in this video for the first time ever, and it took me back to why I got into theme parks in the first place. Thank you for that, amazing video. Now ride some more!

    • @funfairs__uk
      @funfairs__uk 2 года назад +9

      Oh hey silv

    • @shenanisqueeks
      @shenanisqueeks 2 года назад +3

      yooo silvie

    • @CH3R.N0BY1
      @CH3R.N0BY1 2 года назад +29

      says the person who makes rollercoasters

    • @mr13579100
      @mr13579100 2 года назад +3

      Now I'm obsessed. Love rollercoasters now

    • @filleis6374
      @filleis6374 2 года назад +2

      Couldnt agree more Silv.

  • @dillonyancey2233
    @dillonyancey2233 6 месяцев назад +6

    This has to be one of the most inspirational videos I've seen in a while, to face a phobia is incredibly hard, but at the end when he wants to ride every roller coaster inspired me to face anything I'm afraid of, amazing video

  • @billycohan6975
    @billycohan6975 2 года назад +642

    The fact is, we have really gotten to see how much of a massive adrenaline junkie Tom Scott is that it would only have made sense for him to love rollercoasters had he not had this phobia, and after he’s overcome that phobia it is totally unsurprising that he in fact does love them, which is what makes this so gratifying to watch

  • @onbearfeet
    @onbearfeet 2 года назад +1486

    Thanks for making this, Tom. I live with PTSD, and there are so many things that my banged-up brain interprets as mortal threats--ordinary things like the sound of a door slamming or the smell of certain kinds of soap on my skin. I've managed to cross a few of them off the list over the years (I don't hide from fireworks anymore, and when people shout at me I shout back louder), but it's exhausting to look at the list and see how many things are still on it. I don't WANT to be afraid of soap or doors. I don't actually think those things are scary. But there's a terrified animal in the back of my brain that is absolutely convinced that the smell of lemon-scented soap is a sign that the world is ending.
    Watching you shout through your fear and then laugh at it, seeing you acknowledge it and still overcome it...that helped. Thank you. This can't have been an easy video for you to make, but it might be one of the most important things you've ever done.
    I hope I get to ride next to you on a coaster in my country someday. Just as soon as I do something about my little problem with crowds...

    • @Kohlerstacey
      @Kohlerstacey 2 года назад +125

      The fact that you've managed to cross any of those things off of your list means that you are brave. It doesn't take any bravery to do things that don't scare us. It takes no bravery for me to go on a rollercoaster. But Tom was immensely brave in this video. You are too. I wish you luck. For whatever it's worth, a total stranger is cheering you on.

    • @MrLuffy9131
      @MrLuffy9131 2 года назад +17

      For me I don't hate consistent loud noises but only if you know it's coming but you don't know when it's going to come like a horror movie. Or like balloons that you know it's going to pop sometime but don't know when

    • @tufui_egoeris
      @tufui_egoeris 2 года назад +14

      Your post resonated. I get it. Abundant love and good vibes ❤

    • @Nova-bv5qb
      @Nova-bv5qb 2 года назад +11

      You're doing great keep at it

    • @Diepvries11
      @Diepvries11 2 года назад

      How's it now after a month? I doubt anything has changed.

  • @michaeldaigle7207
    @michaeldaigle7207 2 года назад +241

    Watching Tom go from "oh my god please no I'm terrified of this" to "I love this, why didn't I try sooner, I can't believe I missed out because I was scared" is genuinely one of the most heartwarming things. It was such a pleasure to watch, as always. Keep exploring Tom! I can never wait to see what you get up to next.

    • @GrymReavyr
      @GrymReavyr 2 года назад

      Watching the fear become joy was absolutely delightful.

  • @rafadydkiemmacha7543
    @rafadydkiemmacha7543 11 месяцев назад +18

    I used to be very scared of roller-coasters myself, but I found out a way to enjoy them. In the past, I would hold the bars tightly and would go into "survival" mode, waiting until it's over. It was frightening, my body thought it was a dangerous situation. Instead, I experimented with "letting go" and it does wonders. I've always been like "how the heck are people able to raise their hands on the roller-coasters"? And I forced myself to do that. It really, really helped! Instead of waiting until it's over, I experienced it and I just screamed when my fear entered. Screaming seems to really help to process these emotions and you can go through the whole ride like this, because it's not like a roller-coaster ride is 100% of fear all the time. There are just single points where it gets scary. Try it, guys!

  • @madmaxmoto
    @madmaxmoto 2 года назад +2299

    This has to be my favorite Tom Plus video so far. Seeing Tom, a person who is so knowledgeable in all things, including engineering, being scared of something that he logically knows should be safe, be scared of that same thing and then overcoming that fear, inspires me to be more confident about the things I know to be harmless but still terrify me regardless. Thank you Tom, seeing that switch flip was really powerful.

    • @saulgoodmanKAZAKH
      @saulgoodmanKAZAKH 2 года назад +29

      He literally controlled a plane blindfolded

    • @pierrealexander8183
      @pierrealexander8183 2 года назад +52

      Puts into pictures how wild irrational phobias/fears can be. He's done some objectively terrifying things through all this work, yet this is still frightening. Might have to do some reading on the topic, fascinating.

    • @_GhostMiner
      @_GhostMiner 2 года назад +3

      And that's why i love this channel so much

    • @ordinarytree4678
      @ordinarytree4678 2 года назад +2

      I wish more people with arachnaphobia and other bug phobias (who dont live in the hellscape of Australia) could do the same.
      Its legitimately annoying how normalized freaking out at tiny creatures is.
      Its a sign that our biosphere is dwindling and theres more and more people who literally havent touched grass.

    • @_GhostMiner
      @_GhostMiner 2 года назад +1

      @@ordinarytree4678 how is "touching grass" related to arachnophobia?!

  • @MsArtivisual
    @MsArtivisual 2 года назад +271

    "This is fun! I can do this! I can do this!"
    Seriously brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for being such a wonderfully vulnerable strong vibrant REAL human being. You're moving mountains, man. For yourself and for all of us. Thank you

    • @jarmoliebrand2005
      @jarmoliebrand2005 2 года назад +4

      I loved seeing that 180° turn in mindset. That’s exactly what happened to me. From shaking in fear in the queue and on the lift hill to joyfully screaming and enjoying the ride. It takes real courage to extend your boundaries like that and to keep telling yourself that you’re going to do it, even though you’re really scared.

    • @andrewb7581
      @andrewb7581 2 года назад +1

      It was a rollercoaster of emotions.

  • @danielrockwell3910
    @danielrockwell3910 2 года назад +1427

    “We suffer more often in imagination than in reality.” - Seneca
    This really illustrates that idea.
    I absolutely love roller coasters. The more intense, the better. I live very near to Cedar Point in the U.S., so I've enjoyed several world-record-breaking rides. But fear is a weird thing; I can barely make a phone call, due to anxiety over it (I mean, I can force myself to do it when absolutely necessary, but I hate it and the feeling of panic that it induces)

    • @2760ade
      @2760ade 2 года назад +7

      That's a really good quote and so true!!

    • @no1fanofthepals
      @no1fanofthepals 2 года назад +6

      Seneca? The studying tool?

    • @itisjambo
      @itisjambo 2 года назад +4

      I love Cedar Point!!!

    • @Jxys13r
      @Jxys13r 2 года назад +1

      @@no1fanofthepals Seneca was named after a scientist or mathematician idk

    • @sheevinopalpatino4782
      @sheevinopalpatino4782 2 года назад +11

      @@Jxys13r Seneca was named after a Roman stoic philosopher and statesman.

  • @sharonguerra7440
    @sharonguerra7440 2 месяца назад +3

    I cried with you. I love rollercoasters, but I have plenty of phobias and lack your courage to push through them. Massive respect for this.

  • @amandabear64
    @amandabear64 2 года назад +420

    I really appreciate the things tom is doing on this channel, being vulnerable in front of a large audience, admitting to things I'd be embarrassed about like not knowing how to ride a bike and being afraid of rollercoasters. I hardly have the courage to face any of my own similar perceived shortcomings in private, but seeing someone I look up to and respect doing it in front of hundreds of thousands of people gives me hope

    • @BleachDemon707
      @BleachDemon707 2 года назад +1

      SILENCE WANNABE CHECKMARK
      You bots are the worst.

  • @peterclarke7240
    @peterclarke7240 2 года назад +469

    Immediate impressions: All the staff seem like EXACTLY the kind of people you want with you when you're doing something you're terrified of. What a nice bunch!

    • @Rave-agent
      @Rave-agent 2 года назад +20

      Good trip sitters

    • @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721
      @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721 2 года назад +9

      They're definitely the right people for the job.

    • @iantaakalla8180
      @iantaakalla8180 2 года назад +1

      Tom Scott knows how to do research and that includes people introducing him to new stuff to make sure they are professionals or experts.

  • @Drag0nmaster
    @Drag0nmaster 2 года назад +1331

    The human brain at its finest. You can do stunts in a fighter jet without being bothered, but the second you step on a roller coaster you just panic.

    • @Steelmage99
      @Steelmage99 2 года назад +75

      It's odd, isn't it?
      I am scared of heights.
      No issues with flying or going up into a tall building. No issues with looking out the window of said tall building or standing by the railing on the balcony.
      ....But show me GoPro footage of a wing suit flyer or free climber stepping up to a sheer drop, and my stomach immediately drops and I become uncomfortable.
      Heck, under the right circumstances even a video game sequence can elicit that response.

    • @ragnkja
      @ragnkja 2 года назад +50

      @@Steelmage99
      So you’re not scared of heights, exactly, but of falling from them.

    • @fruitStall
      @fruitStall 2 года назад +36

      @@ragnkja That really just does seem like a reasonable fear.

    • @ragnkja
      @ragnkja 2 года назад +3

      @@fruitStall
      Far from every case of being afraid of heights or falling from them counts as acrophobia, because there are plenty of circumstances where the fear is entirely rational.

    • @davidr.6357
      @davidr.6357 2 года назад +17

      @@ragnkja Yes fears of heights are very different to eachother - I love rollercoasters and planes and tall buildings and even skydiving but I am absolutely terrified of walking on the tops of hills or anywhere remotely close to a high ledge - I cannot for the life of me bear Go-Ape or the up in the air assault courses

  • @TravelwithEbby
    @TravelwithEbby 2 месяца назад +2

    Something I have learned from riding roller coasters and not liking that stomach drop feeling is.. if you screen at the top of your lungs you do not feel it.. but even if you do it’s only for a second.. and it’s over.. this was awesome watching you face your fear! I hope you have been on much more and much bigger rides since this video!

  • @bagginssupercat
    @bagginssupercat 2 года назад +393

    "THIS IS FINE! I CAN DO THIS!!"
    I get this level of euphoria when I make it through a bus journey.
    Phobias are a strange beast.
    Well done mate.

  • @12gauge_shawtyy
    @12gauge_shawtyy Год назад +1284

    at the end when he said “i wanna do every rollercoaster in this park” it made me cry. he seems so triumphant and it’s such a change from the beginning of the episode. love it tom and congrats

    • @im_Spade_
      @im_Spade_ Год назад +3

      I cried too 🥲

    • @user-zp4ge3yp2o
      @user-zp4ge3yp2o Год назад +4

      Wish we could have seen him on The Smiler

    • @joshwheeler9700
      @joshwheeler9700 Год назад +5

      I've had the same experience as him. I used to be terrified of roller coasters. Then one day while at King's Island, I felt an urge to ride one of the coasters. I cannot describe why this urge came over me, it just did. The coaster in question was called the Scooby-Doo Ghoster Coaster. After I got off that, I decided to ride something bigger, and then something bigger after that. The last roller coaster I rode that day was Vortex. It truly was a transformative experience to just be unshackled from a fear like that.

    • @skoop651
      @skoop651 Год назад +1

      too emotional

  • @Edgymemes249
    @Edgymemes249 2 года назад +505

    I truly believe this video can be used in psychology courses. The way you went from being petrified in the face of your fear to instant joy and amazement after facing it was a sight to behold!

  • @MagicKillerClub
    @MagicKillerClub 2 года назад +499

    As a roller coaster enthusiast, it’s amazing to see someone converted - in real time. The transition from fear to enjoyment was incredible to see. Welcome to the community! We’re happy to have you.

    • @nevergreen4219
      @nevergreen4219 2 года назад +2

      Same here, his ride on wickerman reminded me of my transition on new Texas giant. Like almost the exact same lmao

    • @vincecarterlover911
      @vincecarterlover911 2 года назад

      @@nevergreen4219 Yeah my conversion was on HangTime at Knott's. Now I've felt countless moments of backbreaking positive Gs and airtime where I'm out of my seat!

    • @Look_Dad_Old_Tunes
      @Look_Dad_Old_Tunes 2 года назад

      I love that, on both Wicker Man and Nemesis, you can see the moment when his fear breaks.

    • @alex0589
      @alex0589 2 года назад +2

      It’s like the adrenaline didnt even give him a choice

    • @BabyCakesJodie1
      @BabyCakesJodie1 2 года назад +2

      I second this!! Welcome to the big wide community 😊 Congratulations 👏

  • @TC_exe
    @TC_exe 2 года назад +323

    The line of "I'm not going to remain calm" is very powerful. Trying to breathe through a rollercoaster will only get you so far, you've gotta SCREAM!! Well done, Tom!

  • @andreaodessa9181
    @andreaodessa9181 2 года назад +286

    Everyone has their own fears. This wasn't about rollercoasters, this was about facing your fear and I'm so proud of you.

  • @MalrusOSC
    @MalrusOSC 7 месяцев назад +4

    This video single-handedly helped me get over MY fear! I actually went on the exact same rides in the exact same order as Tom (except Nemesis is now Nemesis Reborn) and I am mostly over my fear now!

  • @CymruEmergencyResponder
    @CymruEmergencyResponder 2 года назад +294

    The fact that Tom is willing to face his fears and expose his vulnerabilities to understand why they happen just makes me appreciate him even more. What a legend.

  • @JUMALATION1
    @JUMALATION1 Год назад +1124

    The fact that Tom just started screaming "seemingly irrationally" when the rollercoaster started fairly slow really made it kick in for the audience how bad his phobia really was. I have watched this video probably a dozen of times and I still tear up when Tom gets emotional by the end. I'm glad he dared to do this.

    • @minecraftminecraft9872
      @minecraftminecraft9872 Год назад +3

      what, he was talking about how the ride operator said choo choo ironically, it wasnt him bieng scared

    • @JUMALATION1
      @JUMALATION1 Год назад +26

      @@minecraftminecraft9872 That part is not what I meant. Did you even watch the whole video? Tom rides three different rollercoasters

    • @minecraftminecraft9872
      @minecraftminecraft9872 Год назад +2

      @@JUMALATION1 ive watched the whole video multiple times to try and help me with my fear, and you said "the rollercoaster" so how was i supposed to know which one

    • @dotbmp
      @dotbmp Год назад +32

      @@minecraftminecraft9872 well the one where he screams "seemingly irrational" would be a good hint.

  • @KonigJindiao
    @KonigJindiao 2 года назад +334

    "Stupid thing to cry about" It's not stupid, to be able to do what you have done after years of fearing it is....is wonderful you get to see what happens behind the scenes, all the safety measures that are taken every day to ensure that the ride is safe, I think your subscribers are extremely proud of you for doing this!
    Well done Scott

  • @k.m.6265
    @k.m.6265 7 месяцев назад +5

    10:52 is the best moment. I've felt that before growing up afraid of rollercoasters. The moment you realize the fear was for naught and a whole new world of fun has just been opened up to you, it's euphoric.

  • @lemmytheprodguy
    @lemmytheprodguy 2 года назад +691

    Seeing Tom progress from “I can do this” to “I LOVE ROLLERCOASTERS!!!!” was so wholesome. Probably my top 10 favorite videos of the year!
    Awesome job, Scott + team!

    • @kutsen39
      @kutsen39 2 года назад +8

      Especially thank you to Kirsten for making sure he was okay! I really appreciate that, and hope they all understood he wasn't upset, just afraid.

    • @ailaG
      @ailaG 2 года назад +1

      Very Tom Scott

    • @graysonrogers-barnes6302
      @graysonrogers-barnes6302 2 года назад

      Definitely been there too

    • @obamatraore2339
      @obamatraore2339 2 года назад

      Exact thing happened to me in half a second on the way down oblivion

    • @jordanwolfson8378
      @jordanwolfson8378 2 года назад +1

      @@kutsen39 It's like when you have to get bloodwork done. You HATE the needle, but know the blood's gotta be drawn. Sometimes you gotta just not look, and grit your teeth.
      That's comparable to a lot of people getting on these rides. It might seem like an extreme comparison but phobias are phobias, severity doesn't matter.

  • @lloydnewman4158
    @lloydnewman4158 2 года назад +345

    Nemesis is not only a fierce coaster but also a coaster phobia cure as well. This is why it's my favourite. I was terrified of rollercoasters until Nemesis cured my phobia

    • @stevenosimpson
      @stevenosimpson Год назад +8

      I was going to say the same.

    • @rayannabarnett7375
      @rayannabarnett7375 Год назад +11

      Tell me why people hate the dangle rollercoasters personally they are my favorite and I feel safest in them then box cars bc I always slide and feel like I’m gonna fall out of box cars ❤️❤️❤️

    • @_ArmIa
      @_ArmIa Год назад +2

      Same! I was terrified of going on them and then when I went on Nemesis I absolutely loved it. Ended up going on it about four more times after that.

    • @impeachedpondqc1423
      @impeachedpondqc1423 Год назад

      dude I feel the same with the Vampire at la Ronde that , would you look a that , is the same coaster as the Nemesis ( different layout tho )

  • @jessicadavis4541
    @jessicadavis4541 2 года назад +254

    Also the trick with exposure therapy is to start incredibly small, repeat the same exposure until you get ‘bored’ of it, and then move to the next step up. No jumping to the max exposure, just consistency until your body gets used to it. It’s difficult and long, but has proven good results

    • @eneco3965
      @eneco3965 2 года назад

      Indeed, like shooting yourself with small caliber bullets and then moving onto higher caliber bullets

    • @mousaey
      @mousaey 2 года назад +23

      I think that's kind of the appeal of the rollercoaster.

  • @anhimator
    @anhimator Год назад +17

    I was genuinely scared the entire time. My palms got so sweaty. I was smiling when tom laughed and enjoyed the ride. Thank you Tom!

  • @hotelmario510
    @hotelmario510 2 года назад +623

    I always love how Tom screams like a wizard completing a particularly difficult spell while riding Nemesis

    • @Gnomereginam
      @Gnomereginam 2 года назад +15

      I sometimes forget my own age but I know for a fact Tom on Nemesis laughs exactly like this one Finnish youtuber laughed in an old Amnesia video while swinging a loaf of bread in front of a window.

    • @Gnomereginam
      @Gnomereginam Год назад +1

      @@dapperwolf465 Obviously

    • @irenezs5992
      @irenezs5992 Год назад +1

      omg I can't unsee that now lmaooo

  • @ComanderCool909
    @ComanderCool909 2 года назад +460

    And that, friends, is what we call a "Rollercoaster of emotion"
    PS You rock Tom, we love you

    • @MacPrince
      @MacPrince 2 года назад +5

      Absolutely missed opportunity for a video title.

    • @MiseFreisin
      @MiseFreisin 2 года назад +2

      ayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

    • @peterclarke7240
      @peterclarke7240 2 года назад +1

      Get Thy Coat and Get Thee Gone!!!

    • @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721
      @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721 2 года назад +3

      Do you hear that? I think two drums and a cymbal just fell off a cliff.

  • @Mary-fc1ig
    @Mary-fc1ig 2 года назад +966

    I’ve struggled with fear of rollercoasters, so similar to this. Even down to the “I cant feel my hands” part. I’m going to an amusement park soon and seeing this guy get through it makes it feel like I can do it too. Kudos for the bravery.

    • @neartheplumtree
      @neartheplumtree 2 года назад +22

      Hope you manage to defeat your fear and have lots of fun!!

    • @Bartzii
      @Bartzii 2 года назад +6

      You can do it!!

    • @kagitsune
      @kagitsune 2 года назад +1

      Have wonderful, safe fun ☺️

    • @squillz8310
      @squillz8310 2 года назад +26

      Have fun! Remember, the anticipation is the worst part. But also, do some research on the coasters that are at the park. Learn the manufacturers, and the tendencies they have for their rides. Some manufacturers make incredibly smooth coasters, others are older and a little more rough.
      Also another tip, when on a more extreme coaster, try to move with the elements of the ride. That way your body can be fluid with the ride and avoid straining your muscles.
      Have a great trip!

    • @Skippergroe
      @Skippergroe 2 года назад +6

      Same! I am going tomorrow on the Baron 1898 in the Efteling, super scared but want to get over my fear! Hope it went well for you!

  • @jaronfeld123
    @jaronfeld123 Год назад +7

    I used to be terrified of roller coasters when I was younger. Had to conquer the fear similarly. That rush of conquering a coaster is absolutely incredible! Loved this video so much

  • @Lueluekopter
    @Lueluekopter 2 года назад +106

    First time I got on a drop tower, I recited the Litany Against Fear (I was just reading Dune at the time):
    "I must not fear.
    Fear is the mind-killer.
    Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
    I will face my fear.
    I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
    And when it has gone past, I will turn the inner eye to see its path.
    Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."

  • @kagitsune
    @kagitsune 2 года назад +2305

    21:04 This is not a stupid thing to cry about, you just did something that most people never even consider. This video makes me wish that RUclips videos could win Emmy's... such a great look into the universal human experience: fear, and the possibility of overcoming it.

    • @RDR911
      @RDR911 2 года назад +8

      🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

    • @IHaveTheSause
      @IHaveTheSause 2 года назад +39

      ofc not, I was crying with him. this relates to so many things in life

    • @kaiho007
      @kaiho007 2 года назад

      definitely

    • @KefazX
      @KefazX 2 года назад +28

      That's the body releasing a lot of built up tension. That type of crying feels great I think. I was so happy seeing the transformation from panic to the joy of realising how many cool rides he can try now.

    • @mytimetravellingdog
      @mytimetravellingdog 2 года назад +4

      it absolutely depends on the sort of fear. Rollercoasters are
      I had a similar thing. Wouldn't go on anything more than a log flume for years. Then just pushed myself to go on them and it's easy now.
      Broader fears are harder to get over and don't go away as easily with exposure. With rollercoasters it's really like a switch flipping in your head.

  • @silasoconnell6413
    @silasoconnell6413 Год назад +748

    As a rollercoaster fan with an irrational phobia of chairlifts, I get it. The brain fears what it fears, and sometimes that fear can be EXTREMELY specific. Bravo to you for facing your fear & having a good time.

    • @pennpenn1845
      @pennpenn1845 Год назад +27

      I was more scared of the chairlift thingy at Alton than of the rides 😭

    • @Spamhard
      @Spamhard Год назад +17

      Oh dude, same. I can do any rollercoaster no problem. but if you can even manage to get me in a chairlift? I'm white knuckled and sweating anxiety the entire time. I won't go near them any more.

    • @ciclon5682
      @ciclon5682 Год назад +2

      me too. im usually nervous about rides but when i ride them i have fun. Cant do the same with chairlifts or gondolas. specially chairlifts that are like SUPER exposed i hate those.

    • @skoop651
      @skoop651 Год назад +4

      chairlifts are scarier
      though the death rate is also extremely low, there's a higher chance of getting stuck, less regulation, and you're not as tightly seated

    • @benthomas9776
      @benthomas9776 Год назад

      As some one who works as a chair lift operator, I'm simultaneously both impressed at the amount of safety regulation that goes into chair lifts (at least three different brakes, dozens of sensors that are checked daily, anti-collision checks, etc) and in awe of the fact that there aren't more serious injuries/deaths than there are.
      Also, if you want to really scare yourself, look up "chair lift rollback" on RUclips. Probably one of the most dangerous things that can happen on a chair lift, but thankfully very rare.

  • @hollywing3038
    @hollywing3038 Год назад +8

    The courage this must have taken is immense. Well done for tackling your fear!!!

  • @loopslapbars
    @loopslapbars 2 года назад +823

    It genuinely put a smile on my face seeing the point where sheer terror faded into enjoyment! Coming from a theme park enthusiast it's so good to see someone conquer a their fear of rollercoasters! Shame you can't get back all that time you lost, but better late to the party than to not go at all? :D

    • @DrCranberry
      @DrCranberry 2 года назад +23

      As an enthusiast, I do enjoy how even someone who's super factual and looks into the facts of something, can be afraid of one of the most studied amusement rides in existence to the point where its the most statistically safest form of "transportation". Really puts into perspective that even someone who researches a ton about something can still be affected by the human mind.

    • @AlexLikesToons
      @AlexLikesToons 2 года назад +4

      With his fear conquered, there are so many amazing, unique, and historic rides he can experience and do videos on!

    • @loopslapbars
      @loopslapbars 2 года назад

      So many in the UK, and then further afield too!

    • @loopslapbars
      @loopslapbars 2 года назад

      Well put! We all have our fears and it's great and somewhat inspirational to see someone tackling it head on. Behind the scenes knowledge of how safe the attractions are probably helps too!

    • @altonalex1235
      @altonalex1235 2 года назад

      Yessssss