Lili Reinhart’s Revealing Speech About Body Image | Glamour WOTY 2018

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  • The Riverdale actress opened up about self-love at the Glamour 2018 Women of the Year Summit.
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  • @Li2A_.z
    @Li2A_.z 5 лет назад +14419

    “We aren’t born with these insecurities,we are told to be insecure” THAT TOOK ME TO REALITY GIRLY

    • @gabrielamoncayozerga2214
      @gabrielamoncayozerga2214 4 года назад +24

      facts

    • @larajeancovey2677
      @larajeancovey2677 4 года назад +10

      My baby

    • @mentalbreaker74
      @mentalbreaker74 4 года назад +15

      this one really got to me

    • @AppleBottomJ
      @AppleBottomJ 4 года назад +50

      exactly. I mean, a couple decades ago 'big butts were disgusting.' 'Now, if you don't have a butt, you are disgusting.' That's just looking at a logical standpoint but who's to say stretch marks, cellulite, stomachs, etc are ugly? We have those insecurities b/c we are told to have them. Sad. I am glad she is using her platform to spread this message

    • @radkafeichtingerova4940
      @radkafeichtingerova4940 4 года назад +4

      Exactly!

  • @carola6056
    @carola6056 4 года назад +8587

    "Everyone wants to see the flaws of another person because we wanted to see glimpses of our own insecurities in them," that hit hard

    • @pleasebekind7056
      @pleasebekind7056 4 года назад +76

      She couldn't have said this any better. Perfect speech xx

    • @jj-dk4dm
      @jj-dk4dm 4 года назад +35

      I literally was reading this comment as she spoke the words.

    • @carolinafernandez7031
      @carolinafernandez7031 4 года назад +5

      j j lol me too

    • @SunshineRain20
      @SunshineRain20 4 года назад +13

      It’s so true tho! I do it all the time especially scrolling through Instagram.🙁

    • @milliejenkinson5778
      @milliejenkinson5778 4 года назад +3

      Same

  • @claradyson3625
    @claradyson3625 4 года назад +7699

    "People told me I didn't have the right to talk about being insecure about my body, because I was skinny" wow. im so glad she brought that up.

    • @kspuck79
      @kspuck79 4 года назад +35

      ikr

    • @maeverose6856
      @maeverose6856 4 года назад +32

      Yeah same

    • @mariakiwi1428
      @mariakiwi1428 4 года назад +185

      Literally people make fun of girls for looking “anorexic” or “twig like”,but thensay that these girl have no right to complain,I hate it so much,we need to stop commenting on other people’s bodies

    • @claradyson3625
      @claradyson3625 4 года назад +80

      @@mariakiwi1428 ik I've been called so many hurtful things and told to eat more and then when i complain they tell me to shut up bc im skinny. and im really tall so it makes the comments even worse

    • @maeverose6856
      @maeverose6856 4 года назад +40

      @@claradyson3625 I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way. I've been having the same problem too all my life. And people tease me for being skinny. Then I complain about how I don't like my body, and they're all "but you're super skinny, so stop complaining." It just hurts me.

  • @jj-lg3lu
    @jj-lg3lu 4 года назад +3895

    'We aren't born with insecurities, we are told what to be insecure about'
    Okay, why did I feel that so deeply?

  • @mustachecake3.081
    @mustachecake3.081 5 лет назад +26708

    winnie the pooh ate what he wanted, never wore pants, and wore a crop top. you can too. you're beautiful.

    • @sagetilley4257
      @sagetilley4257 5 лет назад +178

      True tho

    • @marthavelasco6585
      @marthavelasco6585 5 лет назад +149

      Haha true😂

    • @chloeholzman
      @chloeholzman 5 лет назад +83

      MustacheCake 3.0 so tru, but I don’t understand why people make her feel like she looks like Winnie the Pooh. You are so right, but people also need to realize that they are the problem and she already is have a hard time

    • @emilyb4812
      @emilyb4812 5 лет назад +71

      MustacheCake 3.0 nah it was a normal shirt, it just fit him like a crop top lmao... but I like your point

    • @annabellejindra4189
      @annabellejindra4189 5 лет назад +18

      Living for this

  • @parisb5735
    @parisb5735 5 лет назад +13972

    She is so beautiful , and inspiring. And I find comfort within her , I’d love to just sit and talk with her..

  • @hannah-op1bt
    @hannah-op1bt 4 года назад +9248

    i pray lili goes on to be a big actress after riverdale, i don’t want this amazingly inspiring woman to only be remembered through a show with bad writing.

    • @emilyfan505
      @emilyfan505 4 года назад +136

      First of all: rude.
      Second of all she is in 2 movies this year.
      Third: Riverdale wasn’t her first job.

    • @emilyfan505
      @emilyfan505 4 года назад +69

      Emily Hernandez if the writing was really that bad no one would watch. Lili is amazing on Riverdale so saying she shouldn’t be remembered for it is just rude. No show has perfect writing so to say that this show is bad for her to be recognized for is rude af. She is going to be remembered for being a great actress on everything she’s in including Riverdale.

    • @biancadesousa
      @biancadesousa 4 года назад +6

      She seems like a nice person but her acting sucks though, so does cami. Madelaine has potential though

    • @evsterplays7162
      @evsterplays7162 4 года назад +65

      wildflower or your living up to way too high expectations, their acting is awesome, they all have good acting. I doubt you got onto a big tv show. Half of the people in this world are scared to go onto a stage! All these actors have talent and are brave for being on tv shows and not acting up,such as getting scared. Smh.

    • @saanvisaahu1591
      @saanvisaahu1591 4 года назад +18

      Let's not forget that she is what she is today only because of riverdale, and she knows that too!

  • @nikolasedlakova4397
    @nikolasedlakova4397 4 года назад +891

    "we aren't born with insecurities, we are told to be insecure"
    THATS SO TRUE, it really opened my eyes

  • @sophiethatcher875
    @sophiethatcher875 5 лет назад +8937

    Cole is the luckiest man alive to have this wonder by his side you are such an inspiration to me lili

    • @keisharwodzi7944
      @keisharwodzi7944 5 лет назад +31

      Sophie Thatcher not any more since they broke up

    • @Officiallxllx
      @Officiallxllx 5 лет назад +8

      The Gamer Xx they what?

    • @Officiallxllx
      @Officiallxllx 5 лет назад +6

      The Gamer Xx how do you know?

    • @matildaxx1945
      @matildaxx1945 5 лет назад +39

      Sophie Thatcher when she said about future kids I was like “aw Cole must be so proud”

    • @teeolatunde5279
      @teeolatunde5279 5 лет назад +32

      itslillime they didn’t 😂😂

  • @kellymanke179
    @kellymanke179 5 лет назад +19503

    lili is going to make an amazing mother.

    • @colonelyungblonsk7730
      @colonelyungblonsk7730 5 лет назад +88

      Virgo mom's are usually strict

    • @dakotaallen7254
      @dakotaallen7254 5 лет назад +287

      General Leopold Horchigli that’s a stereotype, but yeah she probably will be to keep her children safe since she is a celebrity. But that doesn’t mean she wouldn’t be an amazing mother

    • @veronicarodriguezdelaluzde8321
      @veronicarodriguezdelaluzde8321 5 лет назад +7

      hahahhahahahahhahahahhahahahhahahahhaha

    • @sleepypanda9374
      @sleepypanda9374 4 года назад +21

      true 💙such a lovely mother

    • @daisychains8304
      @daisychains8304 4 года назад +58

      kells with Cole 😉

  • @aj_1207
    @aj_1207 5 лет назад +3139

    I was crying about my weight for half an hour and then i saw this.....i stopped surprisingly
    Thx for 4 likes

    • @kimberlybrinkhuis5215
      @kimberlybrinkhuis5215 4 года назад +35

      A J no number can define you, what makes people beautiful is their personality, vibe, way of handling stuff and so much more. Have a good hart is so much better than having the perfect weight.
      As long as you feel comfortable, healthy, happy ect in you’re own skin. that’s what really matters. I look at people all day and to be honest I haven’t seen a ugly person, not by their weight or looks ect. but I felt like I looked bad, fat and I felt ugly compared to other people.
      (Also because I have a big back injury, it’s going on for around 1 year now. And I can’t even run so I had to stop exercising (horse riding, free running and running))
      Then I realized that if everybody I see looks good in their own special way, I probably don’t look that bad.
      And remember, when you look at people you see all the good flaws but when you look at yourself you barely find a good flaw. Well you got plenty of beautiful flaws but you’re so used to your own features that you don’t see that in the eyes of someone else they are beautiful!!
      And I don’t know what you look like, but I do know that you’re pretty and wanted in this world. And no weight number can chance that.
      YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND GOOD LOOKING!! NO MATTER THE WEIGHT.❤️

    • @adriana-no2jh
      @adriana-no2jh 4 года назад +4

      Kimberly Brinkhuis thank you❤️❤️❤️

    • @kimberlybrinkhuis5215
      @kimberlybrinkhuis5215 4 года назад +3

      Adriana W. No problem, it’s the truth and i’m just putting it out here. Everybody deserves to know that❤️❤️

    • @anaj6263
      @anaj6263 3 года назад +7

      Well, now u have over one thousand:)

    • @lucyrae6246
      @lucyrae6246 3 года назад +1

      Aww you are beautiful!

  • @naxmijadee_8271
    @naxmijadee_8271 4 года назад +2229

    The fact that most of the comments are about Cole is so sad, like Lili is her own person and this is her speech and you all are just talking about her boyfriend.

    • @rd-dnd
      @rd-dnd 4 года назад +112

      What you are talking about?!! Most of the comments are about lili and how she is a role model almost 80% of comments are about her

    • @ayabouchair1861
      @ayabouchair1861 4 года назад +21

      @@rd-dnd exactly, i only saw like a comment or two about cole

    • @dannamorales5645
      @dannamorales5645 4 года назад +8

      RD DND frrrr that’s what I was thinking!!!

    • @clairewaugh6965
      @clairewaugh6965 4 года назад +6

      Naomi Jade You are so right she has spoken about something that touches people so deeply and people are saying ‘oh will she have kids with Cole then’. I find it disrespectful

    • @ariannar4153
      @ariannar4153 4 года назад

      RD DND uh i saw most comments about riverdale...

  • @Hisuik
    @Hisuik 5 лет назад +3669

    “and acne”
    That hit me the most.

  • @alvildamariereinholdpoulse1868
    @alvildamariereinholdpoulse1868 5 лет назад +3723

    Me:watching a speech about body image
    RUclips:sup man here is an ad for Facetune

  • @yunxi8634
    @yunxi8634 4 года назад +456

    I swear every woman sitting there was profusely clapping Inside

  • @samhackbarth6364
    @samhackbarth6364 3 года назад +487

    Please tell me that I am not the only 14 years old watching this, feeling a lot better because of what she said.

  • @noelledford
    @noelledford 5 лет назад +5221

    Really random, but Lili would be the best camp counselor, just sayin.

  • @gigi_monster
    @gigi_monster 5 лет назад +1592

    "You are helping the movement of strong, modern women by showing the parts of ourselves that we've been forever told to hide."

    • @scandalousporpoise8405
      @scandalousporpoise8405 5 лет назад

      chunchun so the same doesn’t go for men or does it only apply to woman

    • @Miya-tc9gf
      @Miya-tc9gf 5 лет назад +4

      Scandalous Porpoise that’s not what she meant :/

    • @mcpartridgeboy
      @mcpartridgeboy 4 года назад +1

      you dont find it slightly hypocritical that she is in a beautiful expensive dress and impeccable make up without even a strand of hair out of place ? that would bother me if she wasn't living the message she is telling others to live ! im surprised you didn't notice this contradiction !

    • @hannahk.summerville5908
      @hannahk.summerville5908 4 года назад +1

      That made me tear up. It's so accurate!

    • @paulinahernandez3884
      @paulinahernandez3884 4 года назад

      Literally i was scrolling in the comments while listening to the speech and when i saw your comment Lili said this exact part WTF

  • @mychemicalromanceann
    @mychemicalromanceann 4 года назад +543

    This sounded like a TED talk. 👍🏻
    I could watch Lili talk for hours. 🤗

  • @_itsnotjayyy_1094
    @_itsnotjayyy_1094 4 года назад +699

    I bet god looked down and smiled listening to lili say that speech

    • @Huntercooks
      @Huntercooks 3 года назад +4

      Your so right.

    • @ES11777
      @ES11777 3 года назад +3

      god is not real

    • @_itsnotjayyy_1094
      @_itsnotjayyy_1094 3 года назад +8

      @@ES11777 If that is what you believe then that is okay and I support you. I am sorry if I offended you, or any beliefs you have in any way, shape, or form.

    • @ES11777
      @ES11777 3 года назад +1

      @@_itsnotjayyy_1094 No problem.
      You are very kind. I hope you have a great day 😊

    • @hwlsgrl
      @hwlsgrl 3 года назад +3

      @@_itsnotjayyy_1094omfg yes this is the right way to reply to people who disagree with your religion, simply be okay with their beliefs and not force it down on them 😭❤️
      Other religious people should be more like you lmao

  • @brileylopez5964
    @brileylopez5964 5 лет назад +3215

    Now that is a girl who is dedicated and not afraid to speak up for what is truly right . women should not be afraid to be expressive .size dose not matter! I love Lili a lot now. I am self conscious and this mad me go out in public in short and a tank top thanks for the inspiration Lili!!

    • @noa3560
      @noa3560 5 лет назад +4

      Muzicks • i’m proud of you !!

    • @MsBulu
      @MsBulu 4 года назад +2

      Yass girl!

    • @jennamccollum3947
      @jennamccollum3947 4 года назад +2

      YOU ARE A QUEEN

  • @vanshikasangal7249
    @vanshikasangal7249 5 лет назад +8470

    Judge me when you are perfect.

    • @bridgetpackey2046
      @bridgetpackey2046 5 лет назад +37

      Vanshika Sangal Where does she say this? Because I love it!

    • @vanshikasangal7249
      @vanshikasangal7249 5 лет назад +173

      I just said it. People should not be ashamed of themselves but be proud of who they are 😃

    • @darthkittyous7901
      @darthkittyous7901 5 лет назад +13

      Wow I like that!

    • @suseysoll448
      @suseysoll448 5 лет назад +5

      You shouldn’t put in quotation marks then :)

    • @lockec3269
      @lockec3269 5 лет назад +3

      LOVE IT

  • @nia_xoxo1654
    @nia_xoxo1654 4 года назад +381

    Lili would do a better job at being a therapist than my actual therapist just saying

  • @juliavatte
    @juliavatte 3 года назад +154

    “We are all imperfectly beautiful” “let’s celebrate each other as we are, as we will be and as we are meant to be” these are the words I needed

  • @sararoach1934
    @sararoach1934 5 лет назад +6251

    You have no idea how BAD I needed to hear this.

    • @stephanieleguori9553
      @stephanieleguori9553 5 лет назад +16

      Girl, of that is you in that picture, your GORGEOUS :D, and yeah, I needed to see this, too :D

    • @monicav9151
      @monicav9151 4 года назад +3

      I’m sorry. It’s hear I think

    • @sararoach1934
      @sararoach1934 4 года назад +9

      @@stephanieleguori9553 Thank you! It is me I used to model.

    • @ale5703
      @ale5703 4 года назад

      I had now ides how bad I needed to hear this😂..

    • @nashrah9335
      @nashrah9335 4 года назад

      @@sararoach1934 why did you stop modelling

  • @lisenormann4102
    @lisenormann4102 5 лет назад +2557

    How does people dislike this woman? So well spoken, I adore her.

  • @Roma-dx1oj
    @Roma-dx1oj 4 года назад +650

    Stop talking about her boyfriend or her future kids, she's giving this amazing speech and it seems like no one is paying real attention to what she's saying. Like literally all you're talking about is her future kids and her boyfriend and she is so much more than that.

    • @annngelina7108
      @annngelina7108 4 года назад +5

      Y! E! S!

    • @biancadesousa
      @biancadesousa 4 года назад +6

      Sadly, before they even get to that stage in their life, society shapes a woman’s identity by her marriage and kids.

    • @grapesoda6651
      @grapesoda6651 4 года назад +3

      wildflower It ain’t that deep

    • @emilyblack2126
      @emilyblack2126 4 года назад

      grape soda 😭💀💀💀

    • @deeshax
      @deeshax 4 года назад

      Roma it literally is not that deep, people aren’t saying anything particularly offensive by referring to Cole or her future children. I’m sure they respect what Lili has to say. Stop looking so deep into a simple comment!

  • @lilygrace4189
    @lilygrace4189 4 года назад +164

    I think Lili is the most inspirational person in the world. She has struggles with depression,anxiety, etc and now is a young powerful woman inspiring other woman and men. She loves to show people how much she loves body positivity and I think that is an amazing personality about her.

  • @laylarami2739
    @laylarami2739 5 лет назад +1598

    Can we all just take a sec that she literally looks like a goddess, bright and beautiful, glowing and that Lil slit... she looks happy and healthy xx

    • @ecaterina4997
      @ecaterina4997 4 года назад +1

      layla rami so did you not saw her without makeup

    • @sabz1461
      @sabz1461 4 года назад +76

      Ecaterina With or without makeup, she is stunning. I am sure you are too.

    • @ye9411
      @ye9411 4 года назад +16

      Sab Z that is the sweetest comment ive ever read im gonna cry

  • @abbey872
    @abbey872 5 лет назад +7081

    PETITION TO GIVE LILI HER OWN PODCAST/RUclips CHANNEL
    (Like)
    I'm not trying to clout I'm trying to get them to see this lol

    • @abbey872
      @abbey872 5 лет назад +11

      And tweet/dm Lili too!!! 💜🌼💜🌼

    • @emilysolo3078
      @emilysolo3078 5 лет назад +3

      Yessssss

    • @tiagolla665
      @tiagolla665 5 лет назад +18

      Her voice is so calm. I agree she should man.

    • @ironictrollface443
      @ironictrollface443 5 лет назад +6

      You can literally make ur own channel. Like you just create a channel

    • @denisekira9211
      @denisekira9211 4 года назад

      yesss yess yesss yessss🙌🏼

  • @renderosia8123
    @renderosia8123 4 года назад +256

    I felt this really close because I have anorexia. I love lili. She is so kind

    • @Zerin666
      @Zerin666 4 года назад

      Don't let ppl get to u

    • @juliaromain767
      @juliaromain767 4 года назад

      Take care! Lots of love coming your way

    • @emilia8629
      @emilia8629 4 года назад +2

      Dont let society tell you how to look like. You are beautiful. For now try to get better remember there is a light out of tunel

  • @jeanineosborne1045
    @jeanineosborne1045 3 года назад +113

    Body image is such a sensitive topic to most people, and Lili spoke about it in such a delicately, beautiful way. I'm so glad that we have her as a romodle and a person who can represent such an important message to not only women, but everyone in the world.

  • @jmheirloom794
    @jmheirloom794 5 лет назад +3048

    and yet here i am looking at lili thinking i wish i had her body lol

    • @hilarylarkin9530
      @hilarylarkin9530 5 лет назад +16

      JM heirloom same

    • @livparkinson2939
      @livparkinson2939 5 лет назад +175

      This is not what this is about watch the video again I completely get what you mean but in my opinion she’s not just talking about her struggle but everyone’s

    • @gloriaaxrosee
      @gloriaaxrosee 5 лет назад +112

      Honestly there are probably people that wish they had your body too. This speech is about saying that EVERYONE has their own insecurities.

    • @jmheirloom794
      @jmheirloom794 5 лет назад +65

      yeah i know i just found it funny how when i look at her i see my goal but yet even she has insecurities even though we/i think she is so beautiful and perfect just goes to show even if you dont see yourself as perfect others will thats my point i was trying to make :)

    • @serrasimsek8872
      @serrasimsek8872 5 лет назад +9

      You obviously missed the entire point of her speech. Moron.

  • @RidaKn
    @RidaKn 5 лет назад +3170

    Loved. Lili is so simple - be it her poetry, speeches, acting or just general outlook on things and the way she portrays and handles herself makes her out to be so relatable. I genuinely relate to her and this speech just adds to my appreciation for her.

    • @silvianaa
      @silvianaa 5 лет назад +10

      Khwabeeda she needs a podcast, her voice is so important and what she says is inspirational.

    • @3inchMorningwood
      @3inchMorningwood 5 лет назад +1

      the roll she plays on riverdale is pretty much how she is in real life lol. So true and honest in all ways possible. Shes someone that is extremely easy to get along with

    • @jadefo2433
      @jadefo2433 5 лет назад

      Shane carwin exept in Riverdale shes creepy and gullible.. no I think its a bit of an offense to say shes the same.. the seems so much more interesting and smart in real life

    • @anjalichoudhary4253
      @anjalichoudhary4253 3 года назад

      Same here

  • @susanackermann9328
    @susanackermann9328 3 года назад +24

    ¨we aren't born with insecurities, we are told to be insecure" PERIOD .

  • @skymilano973
    @skymilano973 4 года назад +184

    *cries* she’s so inspirational. This is exactly what every. Single. Female. Ever. Needs to hear, sadly. ❤️

  • @GlitterPenPerspective
    @GlitterPenPerspective 5 лет назад +806

    I wish I could go back in time and show my thirteen year old self this speech. She was a girl who didn’t attend a pool party because she was to self-conscious to be in a swimsuit around her classmates. She was a girl who cried in the back of the ballet studio changing room because her instructor advised getting a costume two sizes up. She was a girl who dangerously experimented with eating-disorder tendencies such as fasting/purging because she read that her favorite celebrity did it to lose weight.
    Thankfully, I’m not that girl anymore. Ten years later, I’m a twenty-three year old that treats herself a lot more kindly than she use to. The road to body-positivity has been a struggle and I’m still on that path. Like Lili said, some days are harder than others. To this day I still look in the mirror at my big hips and thighs and I turn into that thirteen year old girl again. But Lili is absolutely right. There are so many body shapes in the world and they should all be embraced and celebrated. No more body shaming, and that starts with ourselves and then we encourage each other. I love when Lili said “embracing your natural beauty does not exclude anyone. You can be naturally beautiful with acne or scars, cellulite or curves. So let’s celebrate each other, and ourselves, as we are, as we will be, and as we were meant to be.” Can I get an amen?
    I’m so thankful and incredibly happy that the younger generation has someone as bright, honest, and positive as Lili to look up to. Thank you, Lili. Thank you!

    • @shannonbatty937
      @shannonbatty937 5 лет назад +12

      aseashelly • shelly ray I am 13 right now. Thank you so much for saying this

    • @bass1018
      @bass1018 5 лет назад +3

      Amen

    • @vibeyvibevibes
      @vibeyvibevibes 5 лет назад +5

      I’m the same thirteen year old girl as you were not going to swim parties because I am self conscious. But...we have to do swimming at school next week and I don’t want to be teased 😔

    • @jennymehl6671
      @jennymehl6671 5 лет назад +4

      I love this comment so much. Thank you for sharing. You’re incredibly strong ❤️👏.

    • @bananamuffinshawn7025
      @bananamuffinshawn7025 5 лет назад +2

      aseashelly • shelly ray You are so strong and powerful! Much love💛

  • @starkberries
    @starkberries 5 лет назад +1381

    I have never came across someone like her in my life, she literally explained in detail the struggles and habits that I had to deal with on a daily basis and I never imagined in my life for my self esteem to improve or increase at least not until I was introduced to Lili Reinhart . I love this incredible brave woman and I’m rooting for anyone who’s going through any similar struggles or insecurities, just know that you’re not alone and there is nothing to be ashamed of.

    • @nittoburn4
      @nittoburn4 5 лет назад +2

      OMG, I love you so much!!!!! Thank you for saying that!!!

    • @starkberries
      @starkberries 5 лет назад +1

      nittoburn4 omg of course I’m really glad I hope it helped! your comment made my day, I love you xx

    • @nittoburn4
      @nittoburn4 5 лет назад +2

      @@starkberries aww your welcome 💓💙💙😁

  • @de4830
    @de4830 4 года назад +71

    i was here crying and feeling really bad about myself both physically and mentally, and someone told me to watch this. yeah, i don’t feel amazing, but this speech is amazing. everyone should hear this.

    • @fandomsandfiction_
      @fandomsandfiction_ 4 года назад +4

      Take care of yourself. You deserve all the love and happiness in the world! If no one will give it to you, give it to yourself ❤

  • @laaurasophie
    @laaurasophie 4 года назад +55

    This is why I deactivated my instagram a few weeks ago and I already feel so much better. It almost drove me into depression and it's so hard to realize since all the memes and quotes make you feel like insta is a relatable place that comforts you. UNTIL you think about why you even feel that certain way. You don't need social medias comfort when you don't put yourself through its toxic traits in the first place. Also your wasting so much time watching others live your dreams instead of working on yourself.
    Not saying you'll have a perfect life without social media. But a much more focused and real one for sure.

  • @elzamonbebe1612
    @elzamonbebe1612 5 лет назад +636

    Didn't realise how much I needed to hear this.

  • @louisetorronen6277
    @louisetorronen6277 5 лет назад +912

    All I have to say is:
    Powerful.

  • @sparrowwilson4514
    @sparrowwilson4514 3 года назад +64

    She’s such a lovely, eloquent young lady. I can’t help but like Lili.

  • @hopeashton1754
    @hopeashton1754 5 лет назад +1238

    I could listen to her talk all day someone give her a podcast❤❤

  • @khiawhitney6841
    @khiawhitney6841 5 лет назад +354

    I'm so happy that little girls look up to women like Lili. Females who are strong enough to talk about the real things because they know they should be talked about.

  • @theatrekid3567
    @theatrekid3567 3 года назад +56

    Lesson of the day: “do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (romans 12:2)

  • @aknurlukpan8542
    @aknurlukpan8542 4 года назад +57

    I was / am very insecure about my body because I wasn’t the “ideal” shape and my face wasn’t “perfect”. I constantly judged myself against other people. I belittled my self, catcalling myself constantly. I took a lot of time and effort to realize that my relationship with my body was beyond toxic, that it had affected my self esteem and confidence. I feared that people would leave me because I was “ugly”. I couldn’t be truly open with other people when all I was thinking about was my acne showing and if I looked presentable.
    I am still on my journey to acceptance of my appearance, I say that I have a way healthier relationship with my appearance, but there’s still room for improvement.
    I want to thank Lili Reinheart for speaking about physical insecurities and opening about her vulnerabilities. She took one step help us to accept ourselves and be happy with our appearance and is continuing her journey to promote inclusive standards in the mass media.
    Thank You Lili❤️✨

  • @serenarivera310
    @serenarivera310 5 лет назад +700

    everyone who is calling her perfect is missing the message. the point of this speech is to say she isn't perfect and that's okay. nobody's perfect. yes she's amazing and inspiring but to call her perfect is to disregard this speech.

  • @amgonzales808
    @amgonzales808 5 лет назад +553

    Ugh, I could listen to her talk forever! She has such a relaxing voice. How refreshing it is to listen to someone speak so open and honest about things a lot of us struggle with. She is such a wonderful role model for individuals of all ages. 💕✨

  • @benedetta8001
    @benedetta8001 3 года назад +24

    "We aren't born with these insecurities. We are told to be insecure. The perfect world you see is presented you under filters. You are beautiful naturally, embrace it, practice it. Let's celebrate ourselves as we are, we will be and for what we are meant to be...unique, imperfect, beautiful and powerful."

  • @rosemaryazelton2734
    @rosemaryazelton2734 4 года назад +101

    As someone who struggles with anorexia, this meant a lot.

    • @sabrinadavies3247
      @sabrinadavies3247 3 года назад +2

      Wish you happiness and recovery :)

    • @ivenalanko2462
      @ivenalanko2462 2 года назад +1

      idk if I had anorexia but I had struggles eating but then I started eating just cause ppl were judging me...

  • @CallMeNana
    @CallMeNana 5 лет назад +1357

    Why she hasn’t talk yet on TED talks ??😳🙏🏻💕💕

    • @alyssab4938
      @alyssab4938 5 лет назад +38

      right?! this sounds like one, she is great at speaking.

    • @iamimana
      @iamimana 5 лет назад

      On TED talks, the speaker talks personally about an event they had to go through that no one else could imagine. Like I watched one on a girl who escaped North Korea successfully. Lili does talk about herself but she is also speaking for many other people with insecurities. How many people do you know have escaped North Korea? I assume less than 10, because it really is not that common.

    • @jadefo2433
      @jadefo2433 5 лет назад

      Are you feeling it now Mr Krabs? I get your points but its more than 10! Far more even though yes its very rare..

    • @ellarose2389
      @ellarose2389 5 лет назад +1

      Are you feeling it now Mr Krabs? That’s not what ted talks is about. There are ted talks on an extremely wide range of subjects. Not just extreme events individuals go through

  • @yasminofoghi9121
    @yasminofoghi9121 5 лет назад +922

    SHE IS THE ONLY REASON I WATCH RIVERDALE 🙌🏼

  • @marthedevliegher7367
    @marthedevliegher7367 4 года назад +51

    I could listen to her for days. She’s so inspiring and has a nice voice to listen to

  • @deanixara1390
    @deanixara1390 4 года назад +32

    I dont like riverdale but I have always thought that she is a really mature person and I know she is really talented

  • @digitalbrianna
    @digitalbrianna 5 лет назад +5180

    can u all stop focusing on her boyfriend in the comments this has nothing to do with him lol
    edit: made this comment a *year* ago when the majority of the comments were about her boyfriend and nothing to do with this video, or the woman speaking about her body-issues. wouldn’t you be frustrated if you had the bravery to give this presentation and all everyone was talking about was the man you were dating instead of...you and your thoughts??? moral of the story is women are worth more than their relationship

    • @sunny-4593
      @sunny-4593 5 лет назад +37

      brianna maclean thank you.

    • @hawadiarra9470
      @hawadiarra9470 5 лет назад +12

      Right

    • @madeline2282
      @madeline2282 5 лет назад +6

      Thanks for this

    • @paytonwilson5076
      @paytonwilson5076 5 лет назад +28

      wait is there alot of comments on him? i only saw two 🤣🤣

    • @teehee.teehee.5506
      @teehee.teehee.5506 5 лет назад +29

      No, they are just saying how lucky he is to have an inspiration such as lily.

  • @nano1593
    @nano1593 5 лет назад +469

    She didn't say this but "You can't blend in when you were born to stand out"

    • @elise3851
      @elise3851 5 лет назад +9

      Slime Addict ok.. my new life quote. Thanks, It's beautiful.

    • @annah5334
      @annah5334 5 лет назад +7

      U must’ve read wonder

    • @pariswerly3778
      @pariswerly3778 5 лет назад

      If everyone was born to stand out, does that mean they’re blending in?

    • @nano1593
      @nano1593 5 лет назад

      Annah W Yep

    • @nano1593
      @nano1593 5 лет назад

      Elise Awww thank you

  • @ies16
    @ies16 2 года назад +4

    i love this girl she is so beautiful 🥰

  • @kitsunevideo947
    @kitsunevideo947 2 года назад +4

    I can’t stop watching this video. For so long I’ve felt alone. I felt like no one liked me because of how I looked, but Lili reminds us that we’re not alone, nobody is. She reminds us that looks shouldn’t matter, everyone is beautiful in their own way.

  • @aliceb9274
    @aliceb9274 5 лет назад +2755

    Hey person scrolling down the comments👋

  • @xxmiadalyxx5489
    @xxmiadalyxx5489 5 лет назад +395

    ‘We are told to be inscure about certain things’. Can I just say this is such a true statement I was like wow! That is one powerful statement. Lilli Reinheart is an amazing speaker and person ❤️

    • @jassu1321
      @jassu1321 4 года назад

      U are only listening cause u are a fan.... A lot of people talk about this stuff

  • @j.r.carter8265
    @j.r.carter8265 3 года назад +7

    Lilli is a beautiful kind hearted soul

  • @isabelzweir9906
    @isabelzweir9906 5 лет назад +34

    Ugh. I love Lili Reinhart! She’s so inspiring and REAL.💛

    • @verakeno1479
      @verakeno1479 3 года назад

      I know right??!! Me toooo!!!💕💕

  • @Dream1ng
    @Dream1ng 5 лет назад +712

    I don't even know how many seconds of the day i think about my weight, all i know is that it's too much. I loved this speech, and its absolutely true. We are all beautiful in our own way, we need to learn to love our bodies and be healthy not to fit measured sizes but to live longer happier lives.

    • @charavaiou7538
      @charavaiou7538 5 лет назад +2

      Dream1ng I know that this will make no difference to you, but I'm sure you are perfect and amazing in your own way. I know that weight it something many people struggle with, and i have struggled with it too, and it got to an eating disorder. I really hope others don't get the same happen to them, so even if you feel bad, try not to diet or starve yourself, go to a dietician to get professional help and not do anything that will hurt you in the future. Be safe, but with or without weight loss, I'm sure you're perfect 💜

    • @Dream1ng
      @Dream1ng 5 лет назад

      @@charavaiou7538 thank you that means a lot, its a struggle but im getting to be more confident in my self.

    • @lockec3269
      @lockec3269 5 лет назад

      Same I’m just a 13 year old girl who’s friends all have 6 packs and has nothing

  • @juliafrost4967
    @juliafrost4967 5 лет назад +1084

    Are we too blind to see that beauty lies beneath the skin?

    • @taigatemori2665
      @taigatemori2665 5 лет назад +7

      If we were all blind, it'd be easier

    • @kimberlyhernandez2517
      @kimberlyhernandez2517 5 лет назад +1

      Julia Frost pretty much.

    • @alyssabarr9427
      @alyssabarr9427 5 лет назад

      yes

    • @Rubester-cl6op
      @Rubester-cl6op 5 лет назад

      Sadly yes. At least alot of the time.

    • @scarletwitch1243
      @scarletwitch1243 5 лет назад +8

      „If our Eyes would see souls instead of bodys how different would our ideals of beauty be“ just something i read. It’s so true.

  • @Bob-zt6ry
    @Bob-zt6ry 4 года назад +6

    I love how human she is in this. She stutters and wears a form fitting dress and you can hear all the emotion in her voice and I know these are tiny things but they just add to how much she actually cares.

  • @ellabella2025
    @ellabella2025 4 года назад +11

    shes such an underrated human being...

  • @minaschein5551
    @minaschein5551 5 лет назад +333

    I’m speechless and actually shaking. Wow that was incredible, I respect and love her so much

  • @sandranobs1945
    @sandranobs1945 5 лет назад +518

    How she reads everything off screen but still you don't really realize until 7:40 cause she is brilliant !!!! Thank you Lili

    • @gracies5806
      @gracies5806 5 лет назад +56

      Sandra Nobs I think she has it mostly memorized, they just put it on the screen just in case she forgets a word or sentence.

    • @nadirahvlogs5577
      @nadirahvlogs5577 5 лет назад +28

      I didn’t realize it till this comment 😂😭

    • @mariabedoni7294
      @mariabedoni7294 5 лет назад +34

      I think she wrote this whole thing, but she cold have been nervous or something and in this case it's easy to forget things (sorry my English is bad)

    • @ellegarrels2317
      @ellegarrels2317 5 лет назад +8

      She wrote it tho

    • @jessh0906
      @jessh0906 5 лет назад +2

      Yes u can she keeps lookin up..

  • @jamiepiearcy5618
    @jamiepiearcy5618 3 года назад +15

    As a young girl, I'm so glad I watched this. I've had the same struggles and it's important for messages like this one to become widespread, so that girls like me and my friends can feel happy and confident and secure in our own skins.

  • @ivanka8859
    @ivanka8859 2 года назад +2

    She is absolutely gorgeous🌸

  • @isabelbalcom2410
    @isabelbalcom2410 5 лет назад +1572

    So true!!!!! I LOVE this!!!!! Beauty lies within not without!!! No one is without beauty on the inside!!!! Don't judge others, because they look different!!!! And don't judge yourself because you look different!!!! Blending in is boring, standing out is hot!!!!! Have confidence in yourself!!!! Perfect people aren't real! NO ONE IS PERFECT!!!! So embrace your imperfections!!!! That's how you standout in a crowd!!!❤❤

    • @nano1593
      @nano1593 5 лет назад +2

      Isabel Balcom You can't blend in when you were born to stand out

    • @graceharrison9199
      @graceharrison9199 5 лет назад +2

      Beauty is withing AND without is a point I think she is trying to covey. Just because you do not look like a super model on the outside does not mean that you do not have outward beauty as well. Beautifully said :)

    • @BritanyOsorto
      @BritanyOsorto 5 лет назад

      Ikr I love seeing ppl who look different , and not having the same looks bc thats boring

    • @samanthaiya
      @samanthaiya 5 лет назад

      Isabel Balcom I’m going to make this comment 1000 likes

    • @sophie-sk9zw
      @sophie-sk9zw 5 лет назад

      Isabel Balcom Is

  • @oliviavall5800
    @oliviavall5800 5 лет назад +764

    The *world* is lucky to have her 💕💕

    • @jassu1321
      @jassu1321 4 года назад +2

      She jsut talks.... but does nothing.

    • @jordanjay8314
      @jordanjay8314 4 года назад +5

      Jassu i can tell your the kinda person to like their own comment

    • @medoingrandomthings4288
      @medoingrandomthings4288 4 года назад

      Olivia Sera no, we are not. She means nothing

    • @jordanjay8314
      @jordanjay8314 4 года назад

      Sansa Stark sis YOU mean nothing 🤣

    • @rOxene0
      @rOxene0 4 года назад

      @@jassu1321 wow like you did something and not just hating 😐

  • @sofiaavouri
    @sofiaavouri 3 года назад +2

    This speech will go down in history.

  • @charly9033
    @charly9033 4 года назад +10

    lili reinhart is a bless for this world 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @shl56__
    @shl56__ 5 лет назад +332

    lili and cole have the same eye smile. I love her

    • @innitparody5209
      @innitparody5209 5 лет назад +2

      sheilla feolino Cole has nothing to do with this it’s lili who is amazing

    • @guestuser3113
      @guestuser3113 5 лет назад +13

      @@innitparody5209 chill omg she literally said they have the same eye smile. who said she isn't amazing? she literally put "I love her," what more do you expect.

  • @josefinebrinks8995
    @josefinebrinks8995 5 лет назад +226

    This is why she is my rolemodel

  • @oliviareiling8454
    @oliviareiling8454 4 года назад +38

    This is exactly how God created us to be ❤️❤️

  • @moodie7798
    @moodie7798 4 года назад +10

    I started crying when I saw this and how she talked about her insecurities because I related to her so much

  • @elizabethjones5248
    @elizabethjones5248 5 лет назад +91

    “You agent born with insecurities, the world teaches you where and what they are”
    - beautiful x

  • @kaylitaylor9349
    @kaylitaylor9349 5 лет назад +386

    IRL version of her speech at town hall in RIVERDALE
    Love you lili

    • @morgan4237
      @morgan4237 4 года назад +3

      Kayli Taylor Just no murderers!!! Please let’s not have that happen!!!

    • @lv3r742
      @lv3r742 4 года назад +3

      Before the BlAcK hOoD sTrIkEd

    • @jisooturtlerabbitkim3013
      @jisooturtlerabbitkim3013 4 года назад +1

      @@lv3r742 hi, blinkeu!

    • @lv3r742
      @lv3r742 4 года назад

      @@jisooturtlerabbitkim3013 yahooooooooooooooo!

  • @Lin-bz8bp
    @Lin-bz8bp 4 года назад +203

    By this we can conclude that "Blondes are not Dumb." Cheers.

    • @vickyschnell3199
      @vickyschnell3199 3 года назад +10

      Lin Harold she’s a brunette but riverdale told her to dye her hair

    • @Lin-bz8bp
      @Lin-bz8bp 3 года назад

      @@vickyschnell3199 Oh I see!

    • @rubyyy325
      @rubyyy325 3 года назад +3

      Vicky Schnell no shes a blonde

    • @jkg2088
      @jkg2088 3 года назад +8

      Her natural hair colour is dark blonde

  • @isabellaquick4193
    @isabellaquick4193 4 года назад +16

    I watch this every night to go to sleep because it makes me feel better about myself and also because I live Lili ♥️

  • @rianah5387
    @rianah5387 5 лет назад +182

    As someone who’s relapsing in an eating disorder, it’s so comforting to hear someone I idolize so much opening up 💗

    • @tonta3983
      @tonta3983 5 лет назад +4

      Riana H I'm relapsing with an eating disorder too. but we're strong and we can get through this!

    • @wanrongggx
      @wanrongggx 5 лет назад +2

      Hi guys I’ve been there and i know it’s not easy but trust me when I say that it’s really worth it 💪🏻 you guys can do it! Fight the demons ❤️

    • @jaydedipaolo9866
      @jaydedipaolo9866 5 лет назад +2

      Y’all got this! I’m rooting for y’all! ❤️

    • @johannabeanie
      @johannabeanie 5 лет назад

      yes 💓

  • @hannahchurchward6203
    @hannahchurchward6203 5 лет назад +113

    Lili is my actual queen. Not because she is an amazing actress but because she is so inspiring. So many girls and women should listen to Lili. She is so amazing and beautiful (in both ways).

  • @marshayhorne3634
    @marshayhorne3634 Год назад +6

    This is so captivating! I’m so glad more people in the industry are coming out and expressing how toxic some of the standards are we have to conform to! It’s so vital for young women to hear these things when they are constantly surrounded by a world that refuses to accept them for who they are naturally. I’m so proud of Lili for standing up and sharing her experience!

  • @ellabella2025
    @ellabella2025 3 года назад +3

    she is going to be the worlds most amazing mother. the way she speaks is so formal and mature and smart. shes so... just amazing honestly

  • @emilyirene890
    @emilyirene890 5 лет назад +260

    these things really put what i see about my own body into perspective. i look at lili’s body and think maybe I should lose weight so i can look like her, i think she is one of the most gorgeous women ever. while watching this video i went to look up her measurements because she said something about being average when I thought she was skinny, and turns out my measurements are smaller than hers. it really shows how distorted we see our own bodies and how warped that reflection that we “see” actually is

    • @misswelrahma2264
      @misswelrahma2264 5 лет назад +6

      Emma Swan you got this hunny!! You and your body are beautiful just the way you are 💝💝💝

  • @sophiemirabelle4825
    @sophiemirabelle4825 5 лет назад +65

    sis why is she so perfect tho like listen to her she’s an amazing actress, she’s beautiful, and she’s giving this beautiful speech ilhsm

  • @okboomer1032
    @okboomer1032 4 года назад +29

    ILY I wish I can meet Lili Reinhart and cole sprouse

  • @kristinolinger2183
    @kristinolinger2183 4 года назад +2

    i don’t watch Riverdale but i now have SO much respect for this woman.

  • @sophiecooper7841
    @sophiecooper7841 5 лет назад +290

    I love lili reinhart.
    that's all I have to say

  • @hugsnotdrugsfriesbeforeguy5968
    @hugsnotdrugsfriesbeforeguy5968 5 лет назад +349

    Lili is perfect inside and out

    • @classymonkee08
      @classymonkee08 5 лет назад +6

      We all are! :)

    • @lavendior
      @lavendior 5 лет назад +1

      @@classymonkee08 Yes, we all are :)

    • @mariaopel1874
      @mariaopel1874 5 лет назад +10

      Emma Higgans no she isn‘t. No one is and that‘s fine:)

    • @lavendior
      @lavendior 5 лет назад +1

      @@mariaopel1874 And, yes no one's perfect, but I think she meant like a very kind and good girl. If you know what I mean.

    • @classymonkee08
      @classymonkee08 5 лет назад

      @@mariaopel1874 Yeah, we're all perfectly imperfect is what I meant

  • @m.fb.7440
    @m.fb.7440 10 месяцев назад +2

    She is so beautiful. The entertainment industry is insane.

  • @lucy__v
    @lucy__v 5 лет назад +6

    she is so beautiful inside and out.

  • @ScarlettJ1221
    @ScarlettJ1221 5 лет назад +302

    Lili you are perfect just the way you are!

    • @beeweisberger7957
      @beeweisberger7957 5 лет назад +13

      ScarlettP dude I see you everywhere!

    • @soorya9035
      @soorya9035 5 лет назад +4

      @@beeweisberger7957 exactly 😂

    • @aaleenraza5698
      @aaleenraza5698 5 лет назад +6

      YOU ARE EVERYWHEREEEEE 😂😂

    • @katieb1600
      @katieb1600 5 лет назад +5

      Bro ur in every comment section

    • @attalahlayali
      @attalahlayali 5 лет назад +1

      Bro chill with the RUclips I see you everywhere in the comment section

  • @livb8541
    @livb8541 5 лет назад +135

    This speech was so moving,I have those feels about my weight.I would like to say thank you Lili Reinhart for saying this amazing speech.

  • @chloealexis593
    @chloealexis593 4 года назад +2

    Her voice is sooo calming🥰🥰

  • @kaleynewport6623
    @kaleynewport6623 4 года назад +7

    I've always been drawn to Lili because she's so raw and upfront and I love hearing her speak on pressing things. Her instagram lives she hosts with strong, black people who have faced discrimination all their lives has really educated me on what it's like to be in their shoes and the history of racism. She's changing the world so much and she probably doesn't know it. Love you lili.

  • @brittapreston8509
    @brittapreston8509 5 лет назад +61

    Whenever I feel like I'm not good enough I watch this video