13:42 "Seems like she was looking for a new experience, but found that grass wasn't greener?" Sadly, most people do not have the personal communication / behavioral skills nor the biblical foundation to handle marriage stresses. Unfortunately, many christian marriages are failing today.
I've been praying for my wife who divorced me and left me for a guy she went to high school with, along with our 2 children. She was raised in church. There was no abuse or infidelity on my part which I assumed would be the only reason for the separation and divorce. I dont want her back but I do want her to repent from the adulteress relationship. I have some bitterness still. But I have given her peace and space she needs to hopefully wake up someday. Pray for her or us!🙏🏼
I did not lead my Wife the way she begged for me to lead her and, now, we are separated (D on 4/19), though God has spoken restoration to me and has assured me that restoration will be soon. Over the past year of our separation, He has taught me so very much about what leadership was supposed to look like, when I grew up unchurched in a home where my Mom had divorced my Dad for a truly foolish reason, and so I didn't even grow up knowing what it meant to be a man. I became a man in the U.S. Army, which is NOT a good place to become a man. Now, the Lord my God has raised me up to be who HE needs me to be. Amen.
I think she is still in her old ways, because she is talking about that her girlfriends was telling her quote how can you take this and quote when she is the one who went out of her marriage and decided to commit adultery! What kind of friends does she have that speak like that and it's no coincidence that she herself has that same attitude. Many times our friends are reflection of us. She needs to tone down her attitude because she is the one who committed adultery and she is freaking lucky that he decided to take her back.
@@GeniManningRealEstate and that’s what’s wrong with society too much about what people feel and you can’t say anything to them everyone judges if you don’t want judgment don’t put it in a public form
There is no second and third etc marriage The only one that God recognizes is the first one. As long as both parties are alive they are ONE ‘divorced ‘ or not. What God has joined no man can separate Only death ends a marriage not a piece of paper from a man made institution like a court / a judge. Jesus talks about it plainly Even a 5 yr old can understand ‘Anyone who divorces his wife and married another one commits adultery’ ‘Anyone who marries a divorcee commits adultery’ I marriage the sin of adultery does not ends a marriage The woman caught in adultery was told by Jesus to ‘leave’ her life of sin. Jewish custom required a woman to be a virgin. If she was engaged to be married and or was found not to be a virgin afterwards the marriage was over Case in point Joseph and Mary Jesus’ parents The gentiles didn’t have that law therefore it didn’t apply to them .. only the Jews So that exception in Matthew 19 ONLY applies to Jews The book of Matthew was written to primary Jewish audience. It starts off with the genealogy of Jesus For Jews proving that Jesus is the messiah with roots back to David is the most important thing. Mark Luke written for gentile audience do not have that.. Read your Bible look for David Pawson teaching on this Most churches allow re marriage God 7th commandment says Do not commit adultery Adulterers will not inherit the kingdom of God Boom Mind blow
People make poor choices. But it didn’t mean her husband wasn’t good enough. She sinned because she wanted to fill the emptiness inside of her. She should not have done it, but men do this too. They leave their wives for worldly women who they feel are more exotic and exciting in bed than their wives. The action in itself is sinful. But God can save anyone. Nothing is impossible. Hallelujah!
@@purityonthenarrowway really you obviously have not looked at the divorce rates and who initiates them and of course you are modern western woman so you’re gonna blame the man for her actions of course typical
Please be generous concerning hating, and crossing off a former spouse. As the Stoics and Eastern meditation's show us, the hate we show turns on us...not a good way to remember a former lover. Thanks.Subscribed.
God clearly permits remarriage after the death of a spouse and actually encourages remarriage for younger widows (Romans 7:1-3, 1 Corinthians 7:8-9,27-28,39-40; 5:11-16). The only qualification for the remarriage of a widow is that the new spouse must be a Christian (1 Corinthians 7:39, 2 Corinthians 6:14).
Being asleep at the wheel does not mean she find some other guy to eff. She was by all means a high income earner and successful responsible for her own actions.this is really a bad example for men to follow.
NEVER let a cheating woman back in your life. She is just using this video for attention. Every time it is played she is tabbing her husband and family in the back. Do your familly a favor, LEAVE!, let your husband and family find a decent, loyal and moral woman.....I hate this women that make excuses for cheating, it is never their fault.....they are disgusting
@danharms4237...sorry you have had a bad experience with this issue. Some folks heal from this, and re-bond...usually with help from a professional. Hope YOU heal, too. Thanks. 😇
13:42 "Seems like she was looking for a new experience, but found that grass wasn't greener?" Sadly, most people do not have the personal communication / behavioral skills nor the biblical foundation to handle marriage stresses. Unfortunately, many christian marriages are failing today.
She found the grass was not greener after having sex with he other guy for who knows how long! Come on seriously
@@vincentgan81able This.
From a mans perspective
This guy speaks to me personally ......my role model indeed
Thank you for sharing. Praise the Lord for redeeming love and reconciliation.
Great advice. Unfortunately there are a lot of pastors and biblical counselors that offer ungodly advice.
I've been praying for my wife who divorced me and left me for a guy she went to high school with, along with our 2 children. She was raised in church. There was no abuse or infidelity on my part which I assumed would be the only reason for the separation and divorce. I dont want her back but I do want her to repent from the adulteress relationship. I have some bitterness still. But I have given her peace and space she needs to hopefully wake up someday. Pray for her or us!🙏🏼
I'm seeing you from Brazil. I love this story about forgiveness and sovereign of our God.
I did not lead my Wife the way she begged for me to lead her and, now, we are separated (D on 4/19), though God has spoken restoration to me and has assured me that restoration will be soon. Over the past year of our separation, He has taught me so very much about what leadership was supposed to look like, when I grew up unchurched in a home where my Mom had divorced my Dad for a truly foolish reason, and so I didn't even grow up knowing what it meant to be a man. I became a man in the U.S. Army, which is NOT a good place to become a man. Now, the Lord my God has raised me up to be who HE needs me to be. Amen.
Looping the loop! CRAZY talk
I think she is still in her old ways, because she is talking about that her girlfriends was telling her quote how can you take this and quote when she is the one who went out of her marriage and decided to commit adultery! What kind of friends does she have that speak like that and it's no coincidence that she herself has that same attitude. Many times our friends are reflection of us. She needs to tone down her attitude because she is the one who committed adultery and she is freaking lucky that he decided to take her back.
Don't judge someone when you don't know them. You are hearing a small part of their story. I know Cheryl and it saddens me for people to judge others.
@@GeniManningRealEstate and that’s what’s wrong with society too much about what people feel and you can’t say anything to them everyone judges if you don’t want judgment don’t put it in a public form
There is no second and third etc marriage
The only one that God recognizes is the first one. As long as both parties are alive they are ONE ‘divorced ‘ or not.
What God has joined no man can separate
Only death ends a marriage not a piece of paper from a man made institution like a court / a judge.
Jesus talks about it plainly
Even a 5 yr old can understand
‘Anyone who divorces his wife and married another one commits adultery’
‘Anyone who marries a divorcee commits adultery’
I marriage the sin of adultery does not ends a marriage
The woman caught in adultery was told by Jesus to ‘leave’ her life of sin.
Jewish custom required a woman to be a virgin. If she was engaged to be married and or was found not to be a virgin afterwards the marriage was over
Case in point Joseph and Mary Jesus’ parents
The gentiles didn’t have that law therefore it didn’t apply to them .. only the Jews
So that exception in Matthew 19 ONLY applies to Jews
The book of Matthew was written to primary Jewish audience. It starts off with the genealogy of Jesus
For Jews proving that Jesus is the messiah with roots back to David is the most important thing.
Mark Luke written for gentile audience do not have that..
Read your Bible look for David Pawson teaching on this
Most churches allow re marriage
God 7th commandment says Do not commit adultery
Adulterers will not inherit the kingdom of God
Boom
Mind blow
Amen!
Amen💯
Facts
What THE LORD had joined. He doesn’t ordain all marriages!
She was super shallow, she wanted a higher valued male, she also wanted another man to sexually please her, point blank period.
People make poor choices. But it didn’t mean her husband wasn’t good enough. She sinned because she wanted to fill the emptiness inside of her. She should not have done it, but men do this too. They leave their wives for worldly women who they feel are more exotic and exciting in bed than their wives. The action in itself is sinful. But God can save anyone. Nothing is impossible. Hallelujah!
@@purityonthenarrowway really you obviously have not looked at the divorce rates and who initiates them and of course you are modern western woman so you’re gonna blame the man for her actions of course typical
Please be generous concerning hating, and crossing off a former spouse. As the Stoics and Eastern meditation's show us, the hate we show turns on us...not a good way to remember a former lover. Thanks.Subscribed.
God clearly permits remarriage after the death of a spouse and actually encourages remarriage for younger widows (Romans 7:1-3, 1 Corinthians 7:8-9,27-28,39-40; 5:11-16). The only qualification for the remarriage of a widow is that the new spouse must be a Christian (1 Corinthians 7:39, 2 Corinthians 6:14).
So it was his fault? Oh boy.
Being asleep at the wheel does not mean she find some other guy to eff. She was by all means a high income earner and successful responsible for her own actions.this is really a bad example for men to follow.
It is absolutely 100% one sided fault because she committed adultery. What is wrong: now abuse is considered worse than cheating. So disgusting!!
NEVER let a cheating woman back in your life. She is just using this video for attention. Every time it is played she is tabbing her husband and family in the back. Do your familly a favor, LEAVE!, let your husband and family find a decent, loyal and moral woman.....I hate this women that make excuses for cheating, it is never their fault.....they are disgusting
@danharms4237...sorry you have had a bad experience with this issue. Some folks heal from this, and re-bond...usually with help from a professional. Hope YOU heal, too. Thanks. 😇