Why Do You Not Post Your ‘Partners’ On Social Media?

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  • Опубликовано: 5 фев 2025
  • #BantsAndRants
    Private relationship culture refers to the practice of keeping romantic relationships away from public scrutiny and minimizing the sharing of personal details with others, especially on social media. People who subscribe to this culture may choose to avoid posting pictures or status updates about their relationships, preferring to maintain privacy and protect their emotional space. On This Episode of Bants And Rants, Our Panelists explore the concept of “Private Relationships”

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  • @kuunami
    @kuunami 5 месяцев назад +88

    I agree with the brother on the far left. The people in your life who need to know about your relationship will know organically. There is no need to advertise it on social media.

  • @sylvesterowusu6648
    @sylvesterowusu6648 5 месяцев назад +38

    Charlie KSS is doing crazy
    See demma interior design
    Mind boosting 🔥🔥🔥

  • @AnthonyFranco-e7p
    @AnthonyFranco-e7p 5 месяцев назад +108

    Aswear scanty be cobra passs😂😂😂..eno be scanty wey say he no dey lyk P.D.A..even takyiwaa asked do u have a gf he said i want to keep dat private 😂😂😂😂

    • @techeveryday6456
      @techeveryday6456 5 месяцев назад +9

      Sheldon should pin this😂

    • @l_a_capone1366
      @l_a_capone1366 5 месяцев назад +10

      Controversial guy😂😂 he creates his own path he never lets you know his next move 😂😂

    • @Gabby_tlc
      @Gabby_tlc 5 месяцев назад +7

      Aswear. He said in other vids that when she get lost kraa he no go post am😂😂

    • @marxsterling
      @marxsterling 5 месяцев назад +3

      3t) dabia nipa sesa 😂

    • @MemphisBeckham37
      @MemphisBeckham37 5 месяцев назад +1

      Scanty agu m'anim ase

  • @ksurvive8352
    @ksurvive8352 5 месяцев назад +52

    Eii scanty ah eno be same scanty Dey talk say he no Dey like PDA 😂😂…..Ginger n Takyiwaa always looking beautiful ❤

  • @tjsmallie
    @tjsmallie 5 месяцев назад +10

    We needed Reverend on this episode , it would have been fun😂

  • @spuunsarfo8847
    @spuunsarfo8847 5 месяцев назад +3

    Highest Pato ❤❤❤❤❤ Everything you said dey mk sense waaaa . Big up

  • @josephofosuhene8635
    @josephofosuhene8635 5 месяцев назад +31

    Lol when I was in love, I used to brag about the girl, post the girl, loved to be in her presence, loved everything about this girl until she take do me. We were together for a very long time, over 4 years and I actually thought she was the one. I could sacrifice anything for this girl but after she take do me and I stopped posting her. Friends and family kept asking me about her and my funfooling friends used to send me pictures of the girl and I we used to post. Mind you, she had moved on and I was still battling with the heartbreak. Since then I adviced myself not to post any girl I'm in a relationship with. Cos I've come to a realisation that it can cast anytime therefore Adey use my head not my heart anymore. When they say toxic guys were once lover boys, it's true. So this is the reason I don't post my relationship on social media.

    • @muhideenosman8310
      @muhideenosman8310 5 месяцев назад +1

      You’re making sense

    • @davidowusuadjei680
      @davidowusuadjei680 5 месяцев назад +2

      Echeck like you still dey go through am😂😂

    • @nanaewudzisackey2407
      @nanaewudzisackey2407 5 месяцев назад

      Damn, you should be invited to the show as a guest....ei

    • @sansarkkedesh
      @sansarkkedesh 5 месяцев назад

      You can post if you want
      Don't post, if you don't want to
      Buh don't be toxic bro

    • @ultimatereveal1687
      @ultimatereveal1687 5 месяцев назад

      @@davidowusuadjei680 No cap 😂😂

  • @wordsareweaponnn
    @wordsareweaponnn 5 месяцев назад +3

    I loved this conversation... It was nice and concise. The new guy too has a good point and I like his realness

  • @gabrielomane-yeboah
    @gabrielomane-yeboah 5 месяцев назад +24

    Those who are supposed to know will know!!!
    Simple!!!

  • @Grimm_king
    @Grimm_king 5 месяцев назад +32

    Herh scanty paa wey dey say he no dey lyk private relationship 😂😂dis guy get 50mouth just lyk nana addo💔😂

  • @kwakuphamous3942
    @kwakuphamous3942 5 месяцев назад +12

    Pato is making a lot of sense 😊😊😊

  • @JosiahSarpong-n4f
    @JosiahSarpong-n4f 5 месяцев назад +5

    I now understand when sheldon says scanty is a liar. You have said several times you hate PDA but you agree to posting.

  • @noahmartey6167
    @noahmartey6167 5 месяцев назад +27

    Interviewer: Are you in relationship ?
    Scanty: I want to keep that private.
    Interviewer: Do you advocate for a private relationship.
    Scanty: No, you should let people know your girlfriend !
    Ah Scanty, wagyimi anaa😂😂

  • @Grimm_king
    @Grimm_king 5 месяцев назад +9

    I just saw de topic n I was lyk scanty will do his thing cus he has already said it b4 dat even if dem kidnap u,he no go post u😂😂😂

  • @abutrieka23
    @abutrieka23 5 месяцев назад +2

    Pato you talk allllll🎉 Scanty deɛ he be Mr. Liar

  • @Kofisterlin
    @Kofisterlin 5 месяцев назад +4

    The guy is right social media is for validation

  • @mcmoorejonathan7435
    @mcmoorejonathan7435 5 месяцев назад +1

    The whole KSS studio ebi Scanty adey feel no matter what herh broooo 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @1bluntboy
    @1bluntboy 5 месяцев назад +1

    Scanty ankasa be like he nor know what he dey want. He always dey change e mouth

  • @Grimm_king
    @Grimm_king 5 месяцев назад +4

    Shw3 I go post dem saa n wen it mk beans,everybody go see n hr😂😂😂

  • @Capt_Nyamekye
    @Capt_Nyamekye 5 месяцев назад +18

    My girlfriend didn't post me on my birthday and her reason was that, "anytime she post me on her stats, her friends will be asking of my contact". So she decided not to post me .

    • @In.Other.News7
      @In.Other.News7 5 месяцев назад +11

      😂😂😂she dey lie .....u mek lucky say she no post u for u alone

    • @JustinaMarfo
      @JustinaMarfo 5 месяцев назад +2

      Oh maybe it's true

    • @In.Other.News7
      @In.Other.News7 5 месяцев назад

      @@JustinaMarfo hihi I guess you're the lady

    • @AgbanuWinny-yr3iz
      @AgbanuWinny-yr3iz 5 месяцев назад

      Ebe format chalee 😅

    • @Capt_Nyamekye
      @Capt_Nyamekye 5 месяцев назад +1

      I never go believe am

  • @AfroCitrus
    @AfroCitrus 5 месяцев назад +2

    The new guy is correct! People only share things on social media for 2 reasons - 1 to monetize it later on OR 2, to get validation from other people. If it were not true, you would keep your photos in your phone. Or, you would turn your comments off. Or you would remove all your followers so you can say s3 you're just posting it for yourself. Or you would only post the stories in your private stories with your closest friends alone. You fi reason am anyhow you want but that is the crux of it.
    I am a girl and I used to be the type that posts everything I do on IG. But one day, I was about to post a story then I asked myself WHY and I had to humbly admit to myself that actually, though I THINK I don't care what anyone thinks, I care enough to show it to them in the first place.

    • @annabrenda8694
      @annabrenda8694 5 месяцев назад

      I think you mean the new guy not Ginger because Ginger was very much against the validation argument.
      11:30 she literally said "social media is not about validation"

    • @AfroCitrus
      @AfroCitrus 5 месяцев назад

      @@annabrenda8694 thank you!! I meant the new guy

  • @justicemensah6396
    @justicemensah6396 5 месяцев назад +17

    Private relationship is really safe in this era 😂

  • @oseiagyapong5998
    @oseiagyapong5998 5 месяцев назад +41

    Ah someone said bants and rants without scanty is ants and rats 😂

  • @bernardwodoame9850
    @bernardwodoame9850 5 месяцев назад

    Scanty is the kind of friend to tell you he doesn't remember that he said something. Because he's always changing what he says.

  • @rhychcoinx3619
    @rhychcoinx3619 5 месяцев назад +4

    Eii squad dey here already 😂

  • @Jesskk2307
    @Jesskk2307 5 месяцев назад +6

    Oh this video is too short 😮 nice conversation

  • @griffithsessuman3660
    @griffithsessuman3660 5 месяцев назад +38

    If l post my partner today? Who will l post tomorrow?

  • @nathanielamankwaa6585
    @nathanielamankwaa6585 5 месяцев назад +1

    Scanty just de worry the guy😂😂😂

  • @sylvesterowusu6648
    @sylvesterowusu6648 5 месяцев назад +5

    After church
    Watching KSS ❤

  • @Nk...Nerry99
    @Nk...Nerry99 5 месяцев назад +1

    ginger dey be oooo herrrrr😍😍😍,i dey crush on her surf...hmmm

  • @nkrumahfaustina9335
    @nkrumahfaustina9335 5 месяцев назад +2

    Is by choice like you guys said at the end

  • @annabrenda8694
    @annabrenda8694 5 месяцев назад +1

    Ginger is so easily led.
    She started out being on the new guy's side but immediately Scanty started doing his contrarian thing as usual she suddenly switched to Scanty's side.
    Later when the new guy was defending his position very well she was like "oh I agree with you, me too I'm private"
    This girl 😂😂😂😂.

    • @pomkieboakyeyiadom5038
      @pomkieboakyeyiadom5038 3 месяца назад

      The same thing i was thinking

    • @aneopurpleblink77
      @aneopurpleblink77 Месяц назад

      I just think that she's very open to people's opinions. Sometimes she disagrees with them though. It's not everything that she agrees to

    • @annabrenda8694
      @annabrenda8694 Месяц назад

      @@aneopurpleblink77 or maybe she's just a pushover

    • @annabrenda8694
      @annabrenda8694 Месяц назад

      @@aneopurpleblink77 or she's just a

  • @annabrenda8694
    @annabrenda8694 5 месяцев назад +1

    Ginger: I still go find am
    New guy: you're not my friend!
    😂😂😂😂

  • @danielappiah1009
    @danielappiah1009 5 месяцев назад

    Pato dey tear me oo🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Jhay377
    @Jhay377 5 месяцев назад

    Everything can be Private. I’m with you Pato

  • @emmanuelamuah5891
    @emmanuelamuah5891 5 месяцев назад

    Alfred has my mentality🤣🤣

  • @xPoovey
    @xPoovey 5 месяцев назад +1

    Ginger's forehead is popping!!!! I'm sorry I'm actually digging it😂

  • @jennymilann
    @jennymilann 5 месяцев назад +1

    What the guy is saying is the absolute bitter truth. People post on social media for validation DTS y dey gy angry Wen people say mean things. Cuz yeah ofcos uar looking for people to validate your feelings and say nice things abt d pic jux so U can feel good abt urslf. It's hard to admit buh dts d truth

  • @jamesb.mensah4360
    @jamesb.mensah4360 5 месяцев назад

    19:38 This boy dey tear me🤣

  • @DanielAppiah-qq5xu
    @DanielAppiah-qq5xu 5 месяцев назад

    Hello KSS,
    It’s about time we discuss how government agencies act on emergency response…
    Could you believe that was a fire breakout around 4am at Accra- China Mall and it took the fire agency about 30 minutes to arrive at the spot and when they came, their tank wasn’t filled with enough water and had to the Central police headquarters at Accra to fill up the tank🤦‍♂️

  • @emmanuelyirenkyi5197
    @emmanuelyirenkyi5197 5 месяцев назад

    Private relationships is the deal 👊🏽👊🏽🥂

  • @nathannatibongo3726
    @nathannatibongo3726 5 месяцев назад

    Scanty derh he’s always passing a different way😂😂😂

  • @opoowazy
    @opoowazy 5 месяцев назад +2

    Scanty; known to dislike PDA was asked if he has a gf and he said he wanted to keep it private…Same person is against keeping relationships private…wey chameleon life dat? 😂😂😂

  • @geistogeistube8539
    @geistogeistube8539 5 месяцев назад +2

    Ginja is confusing a private relationship with hiding your partner. They are two different things.

  • @LevelsAsiedu
    @LevelsAsiedu 5 месяцев назад +3

    Mr. Validation👍🏾😂

  • @ZeeVybes
    @ZeeVybes 5 месяцев назад +4

    Awww Ginger my crush🥰

  • @Justin-mich
    @Justin-mich 5 месяцев назад +3

    Scanty Explores watii😂😂😂😂

  • @AbdulaiAziz-q9p
    @AbdulaiAziz-q9p 4 месяца назад

    Scanty be funfooler herrr😂.. this same guy always says he doesn't condone PDA...Eiii Scanty 😮

  • @Cobbystudios
    @Cobbystudios 5 месяцев назад

    Am scanty Ba ❤️‍🔥
    Scanty is just confusing us 😂💔

  • @jaughnekow
    @jaughnekow 5 месяцев назад +2

    social media is validation.

  • @annabrenda8694
    @annabrenda8694 5 месяцев назад

    Did they all forget that Scanty literally said in the beginning of the show that he wanted to keep the fact that he might be dating private????
    He's sitting there arguing vociferously for people making their partners in relationships public by posting them on social media YET he wouldn't even divulge his relationship status let alone reveal who it is he's dating. Scanty eh, HE BE COBRA ANKASA!

  • @kingbobbie5196
    @kingbobbie5196 5 месяцев назад +15

    Scanty dey lie oo eii. E nobi this same guy who said he hates Public display of affection?🤣

    • @kwabenawitsel9677
      @kwabenawitsel9677 5 месяцев назад +1

      lef am🤣🤣

    • @alwaysotl
      @alwaysotl 5 месяцев назад +4

      He be fanfooler pass
      Sheldon always dey talk😂

  • @joshuawrights22
    @joshuawrights22 5 месяцев назад +1

    the podcast part tho ?👀

  • @crosstalk8011
    @crosstalk8011 5 месяцев назад +7

    Scanty is inexperienced one bit. Ah! What is TRUST? You no know! Hwɛ!

    • @frederick205
      @frederick205 5 месяцев назад +2

      Lool at times the younger ones got to learn the hard way gee

  • @soniaainos7244
    @soniaainos7244 5 месяцев назад

    I am in a marriage group consisting of Canadians, Americans etc. One of the posts that always pops up is how to delete the pictures they posted with their partners online.
    Facebook is the worst. They'll always be sending that 1 year ago stuff.
    😂😂😂😂

  • @Hackafrique
    @Hackafrique 5 месяцев назад +2

    social mediation is actually about validation... if it isn't then what is the point of the "like" functionality on a post

  • @mish6937
    @mish6937 5 месяцев назад +9

    Anyone who thinks social media is not about public validation is delusional

  • @alwaysotl
    @alwaysotl 5 месяцев назад +2

    Ginger so pretty😍

  • @OnelordmahamArt
    @OnelordmahamArt 5 месяцев назад +9

    The girl called ginger will like fake life paaa 😂😂😂😂

  • @Mohemaa28
    @Mohemaa28 5 месяцев назад +1

    Are we dating or we are doing public announcements ,😂😂😂😂Eii scanty can lie oooo😂😂😂@Sheldon will get you

  • @nanaagyei4996
    @nanaagyei4996 5 месяцев назад +1

    Scanty was the one who said when he goes out with his partner he will be at the north and the lady will be at the south, he is the most inconsistent panelist I have ever seen, but he makes the show interesting and fun😂😂
    If ur partner can’t make you feel loved, happy and safe with just him/her and u need that by over sharing on social media to prove or show something then 😒.

  • @opaiisaac3826
    @opaiisaac3826 5 месяцев назад +4

    Alfred, a.k.a Highest Pato. ICU.

  • @joeleldeh920
    @joeleldeh920 5 месяцев назад +1

    Canary nun su ni hwan?? 22:29 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @joevantv1500
    @joevantv1500 5 месяцев назад

    The way that guy is worried about people's comments about his girl, I think there's something wrong somewhere about the girl😂😂😂

  • @bazomnaabyidaan
    @bazomnaabyidaan 5 месяцев назад +1

    My brother@Highest Pato💙😎

  • @michaelbennett9428
    @michaelbennett9428 5 месяцев назад +1

    Something's should be between just the two of you and a couple of close friends. Keep your personal affairs from the media unless thats how you make money....

  • @mintahisaac4715
    @mintahisaac4715 5 месяцев назад +2

    Ginger my crush more than 💯

  • @AMA_WAUCHAUT
    @AMA_WAUCHAUT 5 месяцев назад +4

    Scanty has a bit of what I have in me.. always want to take the other side to make the argument nice😅.. someone that said he doesn't like public Disney of Attention is the same person saying he doesn't like to keep it private. Herrr

    • @Case_studyy
      @Case_studyy 5 месяцев назад

      I agree with you.... Imagine everyone is on the same side.... It would actually be a weird podcast.....

  • @yawadjogble
    @yawadjogble 5 месяцев назад

    The guy is making a point

  • @loiserzoah9093
    @loiserzoah9093 5 месяцев назад +1

    Ei Scanty de3 Ei Scanty.... He once said even his girl went missing he wouldn't post her but see am now😂😂😂Dingo, come for your stone.... Fear who no fear Scanty🤣🤣🤣

  • @rukayaabdulai3477
    @rukayaabdulai3477 4 месяца назад

    Her: scanty are you in a relationship?
    Scanty : I want to keep that private but he doesn't want a private relationship 😂😂. Herh!!!! Scanty ehh

  • @GoldenStoneLogistics
    @GoldenStoneLogistics 5 месяцев назад

    I'm beginning to think KSS always makes scanty play the devil's advocate 😅😅😅😅

  • @fettywarp2515
    @fettywarp2515 5 месяцев назад +3

    I love to see ginger talking

    • @fettywarp2515
      @fettywarp2515 5 месяцев назад

      Cos the more she talks more I position myself. We men don’t care if they are low but they cares when we are low and they see it to be the lowest

    • @fettywarp2515
      @fettywarp2515 5 месяцев назад

      For me the way I like my wine is exactly how always scanty Dey the say

  • @Grimm_king
    @Grimm_king 5 месяцев назад +2

    Why must I post u in de first place,na u buy me data😂😂💔💔

  • @WilliamDuncan-bz8mi
    @WilliamDuncan-bz8mi 5 месяцев назад +2

    I support SCANTY on this ❤❤

  • @ernestkyei9273
    @ernestkyei9273 4 месяца назад

    Who is saying social media is not about validation.what?The fact that when u post and the comments go sideways u get concerned it means u need the validation .

  • @nbasossa
    @nbasossa 5 месяцев назад +5

    The shoddy in Blac volta top be ma crush, herrr she foine oo❤

  • @JoshuaOwusu-ds3ji
    @JoshuaOwusu-ds3ji 5 месяцев назад +4

    The way the host pronounce Didi is gee

  • @nathanielantwi8262
    @nathanielantwi8262 5 месяцев назад

    Ginger and Takyiwaa are both very beautiful ❤

  • @davidamaah3302
    @davidamaah3302 5 месяцев назад

    Guys you all have to understand that should Scanty take the guy on the left opinion this convo in the studio will be a dull one. We were all here when Scanty said private relationship was the way to go.

  • @manyorazzak2202
    @manyorazzak2202 5 месяцев назад +3

    Scanty calm down and try get advice from your friend he’s telling you something very important 😊

  • @maxromeo586
    @maxromeo586 5 месяцев назад

    Naaaa Today dier ebi kwasia sem sorrr scanty dey talk

  • @yaseenbotchway5728
    @yaseenbotchway5728 5 месяцев назад

    Those who are supposed to know you are in a relation know. Now you've made it public to everyone

  • @sylvesterowusu6648
    @sylvesterowusu6648 5 месяцев назад

    Great Conversation. Worth the time🫡

  • @Case_studyy
    @Case_studyy 5 месяцев назад +1

    .. Imagine everyone is on the same side.... It would actually be a weird podcast..... someone has to oppose...scanty my man 🎉

  • @richardawukumantey
    @richardawukumantey 5 месяцев назад

    Eiiii, is this scanty! 😂😂

  • @bridgitpepra9047
    @bridgitpepra9047 5 месяцев назад

    Why must the public know? What do they want to know seriously? Privacy is not the same as secrecy, Ginger is confusing the two. Everyone is living their lives and people should respect their decisions and worry about themselves. You guys naaa sat here and spoke about how toxic social media can be. If you don't want all the toxicity, keep your relationship to your circle. A relationship is not a public show, period!

  • @elikemobed6434
    @elikemobed6434 5 месяцев назад

    Being in a private relationship doesn't mean you won't post your partner but protecting your whatever you share. Let's not deceive ourselves, 90% of people, especially ladies post or share things in their relationship for validation. Being private is not about hiding the partner but learning to be discrete and it only takes someone who also share the same idea with you. Other than that, you may think you're being private but the other partner hotspot the relationship.

  • @kaynice7206
    @kaynice7206 5 месяцев назад +7

    Scanty is contradicting himself.. they asked whether you have a partner and you said it's private but at the same time you want us to exhibit our partners?

    • @Emmanuel_Amoah
      @Emmanuel_Amoah 5 месяцев назад +4

      He does these things to rage bait engagements to drive views. He’s contradicted himself several times including what he’s saying on this episode.

    • @shabamarcos6440
      @shabamarcos6440 5 месяцев назад +1

      He’s just one confusing entity....unless he’s doing what he’s does just for the camera he irritates me most times

    • @Emmanuel_Amoah
      @Emmanuel_Amoah 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@shabamarcos6440 Yeah, exactly that. The algorithm boosts the video to other viewers when there’re too many negative comments. So it pays for them to be contrarians and they know it. Himself and Sheldon I mean. Also why Sheldon specifically selects the types he selects.

  • @coldxsniper
    @coldxsniper 5 месяцев назад +1

    Bossu make emotional😊

  • @larryjennings510
    @larryjennings510 Месяц назад

    I like ginger but to say posting on social media is not validation is crazy. It's the equivalent of taking a picture of yourself and walking around showing it to strangers.

  • @RoseSarfowaah
    @RoseSarfowaah 5 месяцев назад +4

    Where's Gifty

  • @Kofisterlin
    @Kofisterlin 5 месяцев назад +2

    In Accra if you want to be private you will be private

  • @nyabireroland7603
    @nyabireroland7603 5 месяцев назад

    Ginger I love you and nothing can stop me from loving you 🥰

  • @Nhee_Kente09
    @Nhee_Kente09 5 месяцев назад

    The same Scanty who claims he doesn’t like privacy is the scared to tell us he’s dating. Unnecessary arguments 😂

  • @itsnotme9545
    @itsnotme9545 5 месяцев назад +1

    my relationship not our relationship so why should others know

  • @commentreaderspresident234
    @commentreaderspresident234 5 месяцев назад +3

    666K subscribers, sweet.

  • @philipasiwome
    @philipasiwome 5 месяцев назад +2

    Ooh where is Gifty 😢

  • @unltdkomla
    @unltdkomla 5 месяцев назад

    Eii! Scanty no dey mean what he dey talk oo. Someone who claims to be against PDA now dey support "advertising" relationship.

  • @cyrilthebadguy_
    @cyrilthebadguy_ 5 месяцев назад

    You people dey believe Scanty? 😂