Why Do You Not Post Your ‘Partners’ On Social Media?

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  • Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
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    Private relationship culture refers to the practice of keeping romantic relationships away from public scrutiny and minimizing the sharing of personal details with others, especially on social media. People who subscribe to this culture may choose to avoid posting pictures or status updates about their relationships, preferring to maintain privacy and protect their emotional space. On This Episode of Bants And Rants, Our Panelists explore the concept of “Private Relationships”

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  • @kuunami
    @kuunami 14 дней назад +87

    I agree with the brother on the far left. The people in your life who need to know about your relationship will know organically. There is no need to advertise it on social media.

  • @sylvesterowusu6648
    @sylvesterowusu6648 14 дней назад +39

    Charlie KSS is doing crazy
    See demma interior design
    Mind boosting 🔥🔥🔥

  • @ksurvive8352
    @ksurvive8352 14 дней назад +52

    Eii scanty ah eno be same scanty Dey talk say he no Dey like PDA 😂😂…..Ginger n Takyiwaa always looking beautiful ❤

  • @user-xe5gk4mw8v
    @user-xe5gk4mw8v 14 дней назад +109

    Aswear scanty be cobra passs😂😂😂..eno be scanty wey say he no dey lyk P.D.A..even takyiwaa asked do u have a gf he said i want to keep dat private 😂😂😂😂

    • @techeveryday6456
      @techeveryday6456 14 дней назад +9

      Sheldon should pin this😂

    • @l_a_capone1366
      @l_a_capone1366 14 дней назад +9

      Controversial guy😂😂 he creates his own path he never lets you know his next move 😂😂

    • @Gabby_tlc
      @Gabby_tlc 14 дней назад +6

      Aswear. He said in other vids that when she get lost kraa he no go post am😂😂

    • @marxsterling
      @marxsterling 14 дней назад +3

      3t) dabia nipa sesa 😂

    • @MemphisBeckham37
      @MemphisBeckham37 13 дней назад +1

      Scanty agu m'anim ase

  • @josephofosuhene8635
    @josephofosuhene8635 14 дней назад +30

    Lol when I was in love, I used to brag about the girl, post the girl, loved to be in her presence, loved everything about this girl until she take do me. We were together for a very long time, over 4 years and I actually thought she was the one. I could sacrifice anything for this girl but after she take do me and I stopped posting her. Friends and family kept asking me about her and my funfooling friends used to send me pictures of the girl and I we used to post. Mind you, she had moved on and I was still battling with the heartbreak. Since then I adviced myself not to post any girl I'm in a relationship with. Cos I've come to a realisation that it can cast anytime therefore Adey use my head not my heart anymore. When they say toxic guys were once lover boys, it's true. So this is the reason I don't post my relationship on social media.

    • @muhideenosman8310
      @muhideenosman8310 13 дней назад +1

      You’re making sense

    • @davidowusuadjei680
      @davidowusuadjei680 13 дней назад +1

      Echeck like you still dey go through am😂😂

    • @nanaewudzisackey2407
      @nanaewudzisackey2407 13 дней назад

      Damn, you should be invited to the show as a guest....ei

    • @sansarkkedesh
      @sansarkkedesh 12 дней назад

      You can post if you want
      Don't post, if you don't want to
      Buh don't be toxic bro

    • @ultimatereveal1687
      @ultimatereveal1687 12 дней назад

      @@davidowusuadjei680 No cap 😂😂

  • @tjsmallie
    @tjsmallie 13 дней назад +9

    We needed Reverend on this episode , it would have been fun😂

  • @gabrielomane-yeboah
    @gabrielomane-yeboah 14 дней назад +24

    Those who are supposed to know will know!!!
    Simple!!!

  • @Grimm_king
    @Grimm_king 14 дней назад +32

    Herh scanty paa wey dey say he no dey lyk private relationship 😂😂dis guy get 50mouth just lyk nana addo💔😂

  • @noahmartey6167
    @noahmartey6167 14 дней назад +28

    Interviewer: Are you in relationship ?
    Scanty: I want to keep that private.
    Interviewer: Do you advocate for a private relationship.
    Scanty: No, you should let people know your girlfriend !
    Ah Scanty, wagyimi anaa😂😂

  • @abutrieka23
    @abutrieka23 9 дней назад +2

    Pato you talk allllll🎉 Scanty deɛ he be Mr. Liar

  • @JosiahSarpong-n4f
    @JosiahSarpong-n4f 13 дней назад +4

    I now understand when sheldon says scanty is a liar. You have said several times you hate PDA but you agree to posting.

  • @INTUITIONS__
    @INTUITIONS__ 13 дней назад +3

    I loved this conversation... It was nice and concise. The new guy too has a good point and I like his realness

  • @oseiagyapong5998
    @oseiagyapong5998 14 дней назад +40

    Ah someone said bants and rants without scanty is ants and rats 😂

  • @spuunsarfo8847
    @spuunsarfo8847 14 дней назад +3

    Highest Pato ❤❤❤❤❤ Everything you said dey mk sense waaaa . Big up

  • @griffithsessuman3660
    @griffithsessuman3660 14 дней назад +34

    If l post my partner today? Who will l post tomorrow?

  • @Capt_Nyamekye
    @Capt_Nyamekye 14 дней назад +18

    My girlfriend didn't post me on my birthday and her reason was that, "anytime she post me on her stats, her friends will be asking of my contact". So she decided not to post me .

    • @In.Other.News7
      @In.Other.News7 14 дней назад +11

      😂😂😂she dey lie .....u mek lucky say she no post u for u alone

    • @JustinaMarfo
      @JustinaMarfo 14 дней назад +2

      Oh maybe it's true

    • @In.Other.News7
      @In.Other.News7 14 дней назад

      @@JustinaMarfo hihi I guess you're the lady

    • @AgbanuWinny-yr3iz
      @AgbanuWinny-yr3iz 14 дней назад

      Ebe format chalee 😅

    • @Capt_Nyamekye
      @Capt_Nyamekye 14 дней назад +1

      I never go believe am

  • @Grimm_king
    @Grimm_king 14 дней назад +9

    I just saw de topic n I was lyk scanty will do his thing cus he has already said it b4 dat even if dem kidnap u,he no go post u😂😂😂

  • @AfroCitrus
    @AfroCitrus 13 дней назад +2

    The new guy is correct! People only share things on social media for 2 reasons - 1 to monetize it later on OR 2, to get validation from other people. If it were not true, you would keep your photos in your phone. Or, you would turn your comments off. Or you would remove all your followers so you can say s3 you're just posting it for yourself. Or you would only post the stories in your private stories with your closest friends alone. You fi reason am anyhow you want but that is the crux of it.
    I am a girl and I used to be the type that posts everything I do on IG. But one day, I was about to post a story then I asked myself WHY and I had to humbly admit to myself that actually, though I THINK I don't care what anyone thinks, I care enough to show it to them in the first place.

    • @annabrenda8694
      @annabrenda8694 12 дней назад

      I think you mean the new guy not Ginger because Ginger was very much against the validation argument.
      11:30 she literally said "social media is not about validation"

    • @AfroCitrus
      @AfroCitrus 11 дней назад

      @@annabrenda8694 thank you!! I meant the new guy

  • @justicemensah6396
    @justicemensah6396 14 дней назад +16

    Private relationship is really safe in this era 😂

  • @kwakuphamous3942
    @kwakuphamous3942 14 дней назад +12

    Pato is making a lot of sense 😊😊😊

  • @mcmoorejonathan7435
    @mcmoorejonathan7435 12 дней назад +1

    The whole KSS studio ebi Scanty adey feel no matter what herh broooo 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Kofisterlin
    @Kofisterlin 13 дней назад +3

    The guy is right social media is for validation

  • @Grimm_king
    @Grimm_king 14 дней назад +4

    Shw3 I go post dem saa n wen it mk beans,everybody go see n hr😂😂😂

  • @jennifermildredanaman7463
    @jennifermildredanaman7463 12 дней назад +1

    What the guy is saying is the absolute bitter truth. People post on social media for validation DTS y dey gy angry Wen people say mean things. Cuz yeah ofcos uar looking for people to validate your feelings and say nice things abt d pic jux so U can feel good abt urslf. It's hard to admit buh dts d truth

  • @kingbobbie5196
    @kingbobbie5196 14 дней назад +15

    Scanty dey lie oo eii. E nobi this same guy who said he hates Public display of affection?🤣

    • @kwabenawitsel9677
      @kwabenawitsel9677 14 дней назад +1

      lef am🤣🤣

    • @alwaysotl
      @alwaysotl 14 дней назад +4

      He be fanfooler pass
      Sheldon always dey talk😂

  • @annabrenda8694
    @annabrenda8694 12 дней назад +1

    Ginger: I still go find am
    New guy: you're not my friend!
    😂😂😂😂

  • @Jhay377
    @Jhay377 11 дней назад

    Everything can be Private. I’m with you Pato

  • @Jesskk2307
    @Jesskk2307 14 дней назад +6

    Oh this video is too short 😮 nice conversation

  • @rhychcoinx3619
    @rhychcoinx3619 14 дней назад +5

    Eii squad dey here already 😂

  • @onelordartcollections
    @onelordartcollections 14 дней назад +9

    The girl called ginger will like fake life paaa 😂😂😂😂

  • @crosstalk8011
    @crosstalk8011 14 дней назад +7

    Scanty is inexperienced one bit. Ah! What is TRUST? You no know! Hwɛ!

    • @frederick205
      @frederick205 14 дней назад +2

      Lool at times the younger ones got to learn the hard way gee

  • @bernardwodoame9850
    @bernardwodoame9850 13 дней назад

    Scanty is the kind of friend to tell you he doesn't remember that he said something. Because he's always changing what he says.

  • @annabrenda8694
    @annabrenda8694 12 дней назад

    Ginger is so easily led.
    She started out being on the new guy's side but immediately Scanty started doing his contrarian thing as usual she suddenly switched to Scanty's side.
    Later when the new guy was defending his position very well she was like "oh I agree with you, me too I'm private"
    This girl 😂😂😂😂.

  • @xPoovey
    @xPoovey 13 дней назад +1

    Ginger's forehead is popping!!!! I'm sorry I'm actually digging it😂

  • @kaynice7206
    @kaynice7206 14 дней назад +7

    Scanty is contradicting himself.. they asked whether you have a partner and you said it's private but at the same time you want us to exhibit our partners?

    • @Emmanuel_Amoah
      @Emmanuel_Amoah 14 дней назад +4

      He does these things to rage bait engagements to drive views. He’s contradicted himself several times including what he’s saying on this episode.

    • @shabamarcos6440
      @shabamarcos6440 14 дней назад +1

      He’s just one confusing entity....unless he’s doing what he’s does just for the camera he irritates me most times

    • @Emmanuel_Amoah
      @Emmanuel_Amoah 14 дней назад +1

      @@shabamarcos6440 Yeah, exactly that. The algorithm boosts the video to other viewers when there’re too many negative comments. So it pays for them to be contrarians and they know it. Himself and Sheldon I mean. Also why Sheldon specifically selects the types he selects.

  • @1bluntboy
    @1bluntboy 12 дней назад

    Scanty ankasa be like he nor know what he dey want. He always dey change e mouth

  • @mish6937
    @mish6937 14 дней назад +9

    Anyone who thinks social media is not about public validation is delusional

  • @michaelbennett9428
    @michaelbennett9428 12 дней назад +1

    Something's should be between just the two of you and a couple of close friends. Keep your personal affairs from the media unless thats how you make money....

  • @DanielAppiah-qq5xu
    @DanielAppiah-qq5xu 13 дней назад

    Hello KSS,
    It’s about time we discuss how government agencies act on emergency response…
    Could you believe that was a fire breakout around 4am at Accra- China Mall and it took the fire agency about 30 minutes to arrive at the spot and when they came, their tank wasn’t filled with enough water and had to the Central police headquarters at Accra to fill up the tank🤦‍♂️

  • @opaiisaac3826
    @opaiisaac3826 14 дней назад +4

    Alfred, a.k.a Highest Pato. ICU.

  • @nathanielamankwaa6585
    @nathanielamankwaa6585 13 дней назад +1

    Scanty just de worry the guy😂😂😂

  • @opoowazy
    @opoowazy 14 дней назад +2

    Scanty; known to dislike PDA was asked if he has a gf and he said he wanted to keep it private…Same person is against keeping relationships private…wey chameleon life dat? 😂😂😂

  • @Hackafrique
    @Hackafrique 14 дней назад +2

    social mediation is actually about validation... if it isn't then what is the point of the "like" functionality on a post

  • @sylvesterowusu6648
    @sylvesterowusu6648 14 дней назад +5

    After church
    Watching KSS ❤

  • @AMA_WAUCHAUT
    @AMA_WAUCHAUT 14 дней назад +4

    Scanty has a bit of what I have in me.. always want to take the other side to make the argument nice😅.. someone that said he doesn't like public Disney of Attention is the same person saying he doesn't like to keep it private. Herrr

    • @Case_studyy
      @Case_studyy 12 дней назад

      I agree with you.... Imagine everyone is on the same side.... It would actually be a weird podcast.....

  • @Nk...Nerry99
    @Nk...Nerry99 13 дней назад +1

    ginger dey be oooo herrrrr😍😍😍,i dey crush on her surf...hmmm

  • @user-ej9nl8sf2b
    @user-ej9nl8sf2b День назад

    Scanty be funfooler herrr😂.. this same guy always says he doesn't condone PDA...Eiii Scanty 😮

  • @emmanuelamuah5891
    @emmanuelamuah5891 10 дней назад

    Alfred has my mentality🤣🤣

  • @ernestkyei9273
    @ernestkyei9273 6 часов назад

    Who is saying social media is not about validation.what?The fact that when u post and the comments go sideways u get concerned it means u need the validation .

  • @Cobbystudios
    @Cobbystudios 13 дней назад

    Am scanty Ba ❤️‍🔥
    Scanty is just confusing us 😂💔

  • @nkrumahfaustina9335
    @nkrumahfaustina9335 14 дней назад +2

    Is by choice like you guys said at the end

  • @Grimm_king
    @Grimm_king 14 дней назад +2

    Why must I post u in de first place,na u buy me data😂😂💔💔

  • @jamesb.mensah4360
    @jamesb.mensah4360 10 дней назад

    19:38 This boy dey tear me🤣

  • @jaughnekow
    @jaughnekow 13 дней назад +2

    social media is validation.

  • @Case_studyy
    @Case_studyy 12 дней назад +1

    .. Imagine everyone is on the same side.... It would actually be a weird podcast..... someone has to oppose...scanty my man 🎉

  • @geistogeistube8539
    @geistogeistube8539 14 дней назад +2

    Ginja is confusing a private relationship with hiding your partner. They are two different things.

  • @joevantv1500
    @joevantv1500 12 дней назад

    The way that guy is worried about people's comments about his girl, I think there's something wrong somewhere about the girl😂😂😂

  • @nathannatibongo3726
    @nathannatibongo3726 14 дней назад

    Scanty derh he’s always passing a different way😂😂😂

  • @nanaagyei4996
    @nanaagyei4996 13 дней назад +1

    Scanty was the one who said when he goes out with his partner he will be at the north and the lady will be at the south, he is the most inconsistent panelist I have ever seen, but he makes the show interesting and fun😂😂
    If ur partner can’t make you feel loved, happy and safe with just him/her and u need that by over sharing on social media to prove or show something then 😒.

  • @soniaainos7244
    @soniaainos7244 12 дней назад

    I am in a marriage group consisting of Canadians, Americans etc. One of the posts that always pops up is how to delete the pictures they posted with their partners online.
    Facebook is the worst. They'll always be sending that 1 year ago stuff.
    😂😂😂😂

  • @tiendichampion
    @tiendichampion 14 дней назад +5

    The shoddy in Blac volta top be ma crush, herrr she foine oo❤

  • @manyorazzak2202
    @manyorazzak2202 14 дней назад +3

    Scanty calm down and try get advice from your friend he’s telling you something very important 😊

  • @JoshuaOwusu-ds3ji
    @JoshuaOwusu-ds3ji 14 дней назад +4

    The way the host pronounce Didi is gee

  • @elikemobed6434
    @elikemobed6434 12 дней назад

    Being in a private relationship doesn't mean you won't post your partner but protecting your whatever you share. Let's not deceive ourselves, 90% of people, especially ladies post or share things in their relationship for validation. Being private is not about hiding the partner but learning to be discrete and it only takes someone who also share the same idea with you. Other than that, you may think you're being private but the other partner hotspot the relationship.

  • @Mohemaa28
    @Mohemaa28 14 дней назад +1

    Are we dating or we are doing public announcements ,😂😂😂😂Eii scanty can lie oooo😂😂😂@Sheldon will get you

  • @RoseSarfowaah
    @RoseSarfowaah 14 дней назад +4

    Where's Gifty

  • @LevelsAsiedu
    @LevelsAsiedu 14 дней назад +3

    Mr. Validation👍🏾😂

  • @Justin-mich
    @Justin-mich 14 дней назад +3

    Scanty Explores watii😂😂😂😂

  • @loiserzoah9093
    @loiserzoah9093 14 дней назад +1

    Ei Scanty de3 Ei Scanty.... He once said even his girl went missing he wouldn't post her but see am now😂😂😂Dingo, come for your stone.... Fear who no fear Scanty🤣🤣🤣

  • @JamesKoora
    @JamesKoora 14 дней назад +2

    Takyiwaa must go!!!! I gave it sometime. But she must go. Still can’t talk

  • @joshuawrights22
    @joshuawrights22 14 дней назад +1

    the podcast part tho ?👀

  • @Kofisterlin
    @Kofisterlin 13 дней назад +2

    In Accra if you want to be private you will be private

  • @ZeeVybes
    @ZeeVybes 14 дней назад +4

    Awww Ginger my crush🥰

  • @user-tg1tn4kz7k
    @user-tg1tn4kz7k 11 дней назад

    The guy is making a point

  • @emmanuelyirenkyi5197
    @emmanuelyirenkyi5197 13 дней назад

    Private relationships is the deal 👊🏽👊🏽🥂

  • @annabrenda8694
    @annabrenda8694 12 дней назад

    Did they all forget that Scanty literally said in the beginning of the show that he wanted to keep the fact that he might be dating private????
    He's sitting there arguing vociferously for people making their partners in relationships public by posting them on social media YET he wouldn't even divulge his relationship status let alone reveal who it is he's dating. Scanty eh, HE BE COBRA ANKASA!

  • @TyronneDorothy
    @TyronneDorothy 14 дней назад +3

    Scanty is against privacy but he didn’t say whether he had a girl or not
    What exactly is he preaching again?🙄🙄

  • @itsnotme9545
    @itsnotme9545 13 дней назад +1

    my relationship not our relationship so why should others know

  • @bridgitpepra9047
    @bridgitpepra9047 13 дней назад

    Why must the public know? What do they want to know seriously? Privacy is not the same as secrecy, Ginger is confusing the two. Everyone is living their lives and people should respect their decisions and worry about themselves. You guys naaa sat here and spoke about how toxic social media can be. If you don't want all the toxicity, keep your relationship to your circle. A relationship is not a public show, period!

  • @philipasiwome
    @philipasiwome 14 дней назад +2

    Ooh where is Gifty 😢

  • @nathanielofosugyan5561
    @nathanielofosugyan5561 13 дней назад +1

    Can your host change her wig cap? Doesn't look good on her. * Meant no harm*

  • @unltdkomla
    @unltdkomla 14 дней назад

    Eii! Scanty no dey mean what he dey talk oo. Someone who claims to be against PDA now dey support "advertising" relationship.

  • @fettywarp2515
    @fettywarp2515 14 дней назад +3

    I love to see ginger talking

    • @fettywarp2515
      @fettywarp2515 14 дней назад

      Cos the more she talks more I position myself. We men don’t care if they are low but they cares when we are low and they see it to be the lowest

    • @fettywarp2515
      @fettywarp2515 14 дней назад

      For me the way I like my wine is exactly how always scanty Dey the say

  • @dj_giby
    @dj_giby 14 дней назад +3

    Guys we post our ladies but the ladies don’t post us hmm they know what they are doing hmm

  • @danielappiah1009
    @danielappiah1009 14 дней назад

    Pato dey tear me oo🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @mintahisaac4715
    @mintahisaac4715 14 дней назад +2

    Ginger my crush more than 💯

  • @davidamaah3302
    @davidamaah3302 12 дней назад

    Guys you all have to understand that should Scanty take the guy on the left opinion this convo in the studio will be a dull one. We were all here when Scanty said private relationship was the way to go.

  • @GoldenStoneLogistics
    @GoldenStoneLogistics 13 дней назад

    I'm beginning to think KSS always makes scanty play the devil's advocate 😅😅😅😅

  • @commentreaderspresident234
    @commentreaderspresident234 14 дней назад +3

    666K subscribers, sweet.

  • @KennyDrah
    @KennyDrah 14 дней назад +1

    There’s a distinction between being secretive and being private and I think Alfred is just being private and not trying to be secretive with his relationship, of course people will which people are his circle of friends and that of the lady so he chooses where to post so it stays within his circle of friends and not somewhere like X (twitter) which public and toxic so cut him some slack and try understand where he’s coming from, this day and era of social media, Gen Z’s are just forcing people to live their lives on social media mtcheeeeewww

  • @alwaysotl
    @alwaysotl 14 дней назад +2

    Ginger so pretty😍

  • @nathanielantwi8262
    @nathanielantwi8262 14 дней назад

    Ginger and Takyiwaa are both very beautiful ❤

  • @ayamaproblem
    @ayamaproblem 14 дней назад +2

    Ginger never picks a side she thinks she is slick lmao

  • @bazomnaabyidaan
    @bazomnaabyidaan 14 дней назад +1

    My brother@Highest Pato💙😎

  • @saviourahorlu2090
    @saviourahorlu2090 14 дней назад +1

    Ginger if it's not about validation then what else?

  • @blaises8221
    @blaises8221 14 дней назад +1

    There actually is a difference between Secret Relationship and Private Relationship. I believe these guys are mixing it up 🤔

  • @cyrilthebadguy_
    @cyrilthebadguy_ 12 дней назад

    You people dey believe Scanty? 😂

  • @WilliamDuncan-bz8mi
    @WilliamDuncan-bz8mi 14 дней назад +2

    I support SCANTY on this ❤❤

  • @joeleldeh920
    @joeleldeh920 14 дней назад +1

    Canary nun su ni hwan?? 22:29 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @yaseenbotchway5728
    @yaseenbotchway5728 14 дней назад

    Those who are supposed to know you are in a relation know. Now you've made it public to everyone