S3x Before Marriage A Norm now? Let’s Talk!!!

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  • Опубликовано: 27 дек 2024

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  • @kwadwosheldonstudios
    @kwadwosheldonstudios  9 месяцев назад +15

    ‼️👇🏿Kindly Listen to the #KSSPod Here‼️👇🏿
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  • @cassiel6898
    @cassiel6898 10 месяцев назад +157

    Lets put religion aside, the cons that comes with sex supersedes the pros. If both parties haven't had sex before and they settle down, theyd be content with each other. The problem is that we try with multiple people and when they dont meet our standard we tend to leave the union.

    • @otengasamoah2366
      @otengasamoah2366 10 месяцев назад +9

      I salut you

    • @nanadrawslot
      @nanadrawslot 10 месяцев назад +3

      In every lie there is truth. When you get married and find it out your wife can’t take your manhood. What will you do .

    • @cassiel6898
      @cassiel6898 10 месяцев назад +6

      @nanadrawslot unfortunately I am not married, and my wife is also not complaining about my manhood, so I find your question to be an abstract one. Besides, giving excuses to justify such issues is also quite interesting.

    • @MahamaFauzan-u9p
      @MahamaFauzan-u9p 10 месяцев назад

      💯

    • @calebobeng3564
      @calebobeng3564 10 месяцев назад

      True talk

  • @kwasimawunyo
    @kwasimawunyo 9 месяцев назад +26

    Hypocrites trying to make sense 😏.... Shame on the ladies and big ups to Scanty💯

  • @KwabenaNyamekye-fx4od
    @KwabenaNyamekye-fx4od 10 месяцев назад +94

    My respect for Scanty has gone up another level

  • @donkoretornam7496
    @donkoretornam7496 10 месяцев назад +102

    Scanty be serious boy, boy you're perspective is serious big ups

  • @daniellatetteh4788
    @daniellatetteh4788 10 месяцев назад +77

    The fact that you're not perfect doesn't mean you should intentionally fall. You can never be in the middle it's either you're in or out. It's either you're living for God or you're on your own. Besides in as much as sex is important marriage is not all about sex. What is you trying and after marriage there's an accident? Will you leave? Besides you can find out if a man's manhood is working medically.

  • @stolish101
    @stolish101 10 месяцев назад +193

    Scanty went to the Yomo land again 😂😂

  • @Langy1726
    @Langy1726 9 месяцев назад +33

    Your innocence is the best gift you can give a partner after marriage. You can be forgiven if you have already lost it but you can never have it back.

  • @ValentinaAriel-c8e
    @ValentinaAriel-c8e 10 месяцев назад +94

    Scanty Ankasa is a man of WISDOM

  • @phil.o1
    @phil.o1 9 месяцев назад +19

    I respect Scanty for this you are blessed. I am shocked the ladies are the ones preaching this insanity😢

  • @amadmosmusahluke9789
    @amadmosmusahluke9789 10 месяцев назад +33

    Thank youuuuuuu scanty for defending the faith

  • @kwabenaansahdudu4676
    @kwabenaansahdudu4676 9 месяцев назад +55

    If the Bible calls it a sin, your opinion doesn't matter.
    Big ups Scanty

  • @glorious8951
    @glorious8951 10 месяцев назад +85

    The GTV host ein reaction be priceless 😂😂😂

    • @qwaminaaa
      @qwaminaaa 9 месяцев назад

      😂

    • @yawamanu
      @yawamanu 9 месяцев назад +2

      Cos what the so-called Woman of God said was absurd.

    • @FaaisKunateh
      @FaaisKunateh 9 месяцев назад +1

      Aswr she shock😂

    • @markkuma210
      @markkuma210 9 месяцев назад +1

      The look alone😂

    • @FORMULA1-360
      @FORMULA1-360 9 месяцев назад +1

      Laugh Taya

  • @pearlandrews7028
    @pearlandrews7028 9 месяцев назад +21

    Eeeeeeih Scanty, much respect. God bless you.

  • @afuaosafo133
    @afuaosafo133 9 месяцев назад +22

    I almost always side with Scanty's opinion.Super matured and principled, on top being a Christain. Your parents trained you well

  • @annabrenda8694
    @annabrenda8694 9 месяцев назад +5

    So is Scanty implying that he's a Virgin?
    If not he's a hypocrite!

    • @richardappiah-kubi7898
      @richardappiah-kubi7898 5 месяцев назад +3

      They fact that you have been involved in some form of immorality doesn't mean you can't stop and speak against it. What is right is right regardless of whether you are involved in it or not

    • @benjaminmorgan3766
      @benjaminmorgan3766 2 дня назад

      ​@@richardappiah-kubi7898 Thanks for this knowledge bruh. Unfortunately people just throw around words just to try prove a point.

  • @Quofi_Texzer
    @Quofi_Texzer 9 месяцев назад +14

    Scanty speaking soo much wisdom 🌝🫡😂💔

  • @kwadwouncovered
    @kwadwouncovered 10 месяцев назад +40

    Scanty just gave Dr. Amuzu a shoutout😂😂😂

  • @saviourahorlu2090
    @saviourahorlu2090 10 месяцев назад +76

    Takyiwa is doing well with hosting the show❤🎉

    • @mister_k236
      @mister_k236 9 месяцев назад +2

      Yeah I agree

    • @deborahattam
      @deborahattam 9 месяцев назад +1

      I agree, she's doing so well

  • @wiizyhimsev6172
    @wiizyhimsev6172 10 месяцев назад +62

    Ei scanty the head is wavy for a reason 😂😂😂👍

    • @ellysow
      @ellysow 9 месяцев назад

      I'm scanty ,of course I love yoomo 😂😂😂

    • @wiizyhimsev6172
      @wiizyhimsev6172 9 месяцев назад +3

      @@ellysow 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣leave scanty alone o

    • @deborahattam
      @deborahattam 9 месяцев назад +1

      Aaa😂😂

  • @ekiM_B
    @ekiM_B 10 месяцев назад +18

    Scaaaaaaannnnnnnttttyyyyyyyyyyy, I feel you man. Great points raised. You won bro

  • @A-aleeyah
    @A-aleeyah 9 месяцев назад +21

    Despite popular opinion these days, personally, I don't subscribe to pre-marital sex. Sex goes beyond mere physical intercourse or activity especially for us ladies.
    A guy can have intimacy with a lady he doesn't even genuinely like just to satiate his sexual appetite but that isn't the case for MOST ladies.
    If a couple abstains from sex and engage in it only AFTER marriage, that will be their 1st experience and the couple will take it like that; there are no set standards/expectations here because both the guy and the lady have no reason to COMPARE the stamina of their partners to their exes. As simple as that.
    However, these so-called "Gen Z" days, VIRGINITY (on the part of ladies and gents) isn't seen as a VIRTUE anymore and that explains why they STRUGGLE to sustain their marriage. May God help us all not to fall into temptations.

  • @koftownbabe
    @koftownbabe 10 месяцев назад +20

    The creator of sex told you to abstain and do it after marriage you you think you are wise so you want to do it anyhow. Ɛnɛ yɛn nnɛ. When the woman said make sure it works i side with Scanty. You dont have to sleep with the person to know it works because some people agree to abstain just cuz it isn’t working. So there’s a lot of ways to know it works without sex. If you’re married you will know the sex that we are all hungry for at a point isn’t so anymore cuz there are other important things to worry about.

    • @ValentinaAriel-c8e
      @ValentinaAriel-c8e 10 месяцев назад

      Masa go and sit down with your trauma

    • @delaliakussah6631
      @delaliakussah6631 9 месяцев назад +4

      Eii it's true ooo 😢

    • @delaliakussah6631
      @delaliakussah6631 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@ValentinaAriel-c8eplease what's your issue

    • @koftownbabe
      @koftownbabe 9 месяцев назад

      do you understand trauma ma guy? e check like you just heard the word and you desperately want to use it in a sentence cuz eii @@ValentinaAriel-c8e

    • @Mayvis658
      @Mayvis658 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@ValentinaAriel-c8e😂see you

  • @abdulgafarhamzaessokooli7172
    @abdulgafarhamzaessokooli7172 9 месяцев назад +37

    My question is..... Where is Adwoa Addy?
    I miss her 😢😊

  • @papayaw5679
    @papayaw5679 9 месяцев назад +2

    Sheldon can you please put all your episodes on apple or other popular podcast apps so we can listen to it on the road? Thank you

  • @micheal0sase789
    @micheal0sase789 9 месяцев назад +8

    E! Scanty bruh you just help my christain life thanks bruhhh,what you said is never said in the churches we have today may GOD Almighty bless your wisdom.you are indeed rooted in the bible,mr scanty himself ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉

  • @Buff-n3z
    @Buff-n3z 9 месяцев назад +9

    Sex in marriage is like a bonus to an employee. Whether or not a bonus comes, the salary is guaranteed. The most inevitable factor that makes marriage permanent is unconditional love, understanding, respect, patience, and godliness.
    One of the greatest mistake today's society taking anything illegitimate and making it seems normal. But don't expect to have your cake back after eating it!. Climax should be after and not before.

  • @kofisarp6712
    @kofisarp6712 10 месяцев назад +14

    Scanty be ready cos Sheldon will come for you again. Yomo King😂😂😂

  • @Rgg8683
    @Rgg8683 10 месяцев назад +8

    How Santy dey explain the thing so be knowledge paaa
    I've learnt a lot
    Big ups ❤

  • @CindyAdu-cn4lt
    @CindyAdu-cn4lt 9 месяцев назад +2

    Scanty Nyame Nhyira wo 🙏🙏.
    The excuses people give regarding this issue is so scary .

  • @ArisDmajesty
    @ArisDmajesty 10 месяцев назад +29

    Scanty saying he doesn't want to marry a virgin......The tendency of being insecure will be very very high when you get into a relationship with someone who doesn't have a track record of being discipline with her sexual appetite,especially when you have decided to stay away from sex....She will tend to compare her experience with you with the others she has had even in marriage....Brother man, dnt do that mistake....Am not saying keenly get married to a virgin but just dnt carry this mentality, it wont help you.
    General comment: Sex is like water....Water as flood kills and destroys, water in a bottle serves a good purpose....That is why its said we should wait till marriage, because marriage is like placing this water in a bottle to serve a good purpose without being destructive.....Sex before marriage will always find a way to self destruct....Your focus and energy for life will be heavily compromised, misdirected and affected.....It has an effect on the human self (psychologically, mentally, sometimes physically), lets be wise as young people.......
    The issue of women checking the man before getting married....Please kindly do a research to check the statistics...How many men among 10 men have erectile dysfunction or anything sort of.....Its not as if there has been a pandemic of men having an erectile dysfunction, that makes this "woman of God's" submission legitimate.....What if men also say, we want to impregnate you before we marry you, do you know the Kind of problems that will arise in the world, do you know how women will be heavily disadvantaged...Come on!!, we're wiser than these staffs mehrn!....Just live a good life, believe in GOD and His principles and things will workout perfectly in your life...Danke!

    • @EmmanuelAduGyamfi-c1i
      @EmmanuelAduGyamfi-c1i 9 месяцев назад

      Who said Scanty is young. He is 29 years. He said it last time

    • @ArisDmajesty
      @ArisDmajesty 9 месяцев назад

      @@EmmanuelAduGyamfi-c1i okay, edited...thanks...but doesn't change the message though.

    • @delaliakussah6631
      @delaliakussah6631 9 месяцев назад

      Splendid submission 😊👏👏👏

    • @Mayvis658
      @Mayvis658 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@ArisDmajesty BAM!!!!!

    • @aneopurpleblink77
      @aneopurpleblink77 28 дней назад

      ​@@EmmanuelAduGyamfi-c1ihe was just joking. He's younger. He's probably around 24 or 25 years old

  • @jeffreynunoo231
    @jeffreynunoo231 Месяц назад

    Scanty I stand with you. I proud you stood your grand as a true Christian

  • @LouisYahaya
    @LouisYahaya 9 месяцев назад +6

    Ha! Why is scanty having a problem with the lady in black anaaa 😂😂😂

  • @EMMANUELTWUMASI-d3w
    @EMMANUELTWUMASI-d3w 10 месяцев назад +34

    Is that an Attack on Titan T-shirt Takyiwaa is wearing....more love... anime for life

    • @eh-yram
      @eh-yram 10 месяцев назад +1

      How so?

    • @KTARTZ
      @KTARTZ 10 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@eh-yramcheck the T-shirt

    • @aldotrapani8241
      @aldotrapani8241 10 месяцев назад +3

      Survey corps emblem

    • @Alvin-ot3gw
      @Alvin-ot3gw 10 месяцев назад +2

    • @successviews2990
      @successviews2990 10 месяцев назад +1

      Scanty do wear the sage of 6 path T shirt

  • @enspireFX
    @enspireFX 10 месяцев назад +7

    Scanty really impressed me... I love his arguments...

  • @EmmanuelAfanyo
    @EmmanuelAfanyo 10 месяцев назад +14

    Scanty you dey like the girl anaa
    U dey tackle am too much😂

  • @lilliankangah6326
    @lilliankangah6326 10 месяцев назад +13

    Scaty’s drip is lit

  • @bbhzip
    @bbhzip 9 месяцев назад +4

    Scanty was on fire !! Raised very valid points

  • @ANIM_SHORTS24
    @ANIM_SHORTS24 9 месяцев назад +1

    Smart response from Scanty 🎉 . Hold on to the faith no matter what

  • @DavidTweneboah-sz6ow
    @DavidTweneboah-sz6ow 10 месяцев назад +7

    Scanty is really cooking these ladies😂😂

  • @lesliedomprehasante6556
    @lesliedomprehasante6556 9 месяцев назад +2

    This episode is soo funny😂😂how scanty throws the questions at Gifty and Dolly😂😂i like them

  • @ebenezeraffedzi7621
    @ebenezeraffedzi7621 9 месяцев назад +2

    God bless sholden for bringing scanty on this RUclips channel

  • @RandomStuff-fv1nq
    @RandomStuff-fv1nq 9 месяцев назад +2

    Scanty spoil there!!!!!!. Solid contributions👍

  • @Offset007
    @Offset007 9 месяцев назад +10

    Scantyy just too intelligent 🎉

  • @emmanuelowusu5384
    @emmanuelowusu5384 9 месяцев назад +1

    I absolutely agree with Scanty. The Lord bless you for standing your grounds as a follower of Jesus Christ.

  • @RandyBrako-ko2mw
    @RandyBrako-ko2mw 9 месяцев назад +3

    See,that Gifty too, Yo God no go bargain oooo yoo😂😂😂

  • @johnalat
    @johnalat 10 месяцев назад +5

    I wish I was on this panel...oh my God. Bless up to the team.

  • @rankingallofasudden
    @rankingallofasudden 10 месяцев назад +12

    the first statement of scanty saf mak a laugh

  • @Kevin-uc9fw
    @Kevin-uc9fw 10 месяцев назад +7

    Scanty spitting facts 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Quofi_Texzer
    @Quofi_Texzer 9 месяцев назад +1

    Arh scanty playing with it sen??😂💔😫it’s the gesture with how he said playing with it for me😂💔😁🤣

  • @eugeneofori4866
    @eugeneofori4866 9 месяцев назад +1

    Scanty you are Wise!

  • @kingmuller805
    @kingmuller805 9 месяцев назад +6

    No one has a soul mate anywhere

  • @MissFrancaPearl
    @MissFrancaPearl 9 месяцев назад +3

    Scanty with the good mind😂😂😂

  • @princeforson5736
    @princeforson5736 10 месяцев назад +3

    Look at how Takyi and the other lady said howwww 😂😂

  • @cvbell-fg7vf
    @cvbell-fg7vf 9 месяцев назад +1

    God bless you scanty😂❤🙏🏾, this guy is blessed with wisdom paa. The dr amuzu part weak me 😂😂

  • @enockanane8072
    @enockanane8072 9 месяцев назад

    Respect, Scanty. God bless you. You will go far ❤

  • @urieldebrah9290
    @urieldebrah9290 9 месяцев назад

    Big ups scanty... please help these baby christians to grow ok. God bless you sir.

  • @amoahkojoopokumichael7479
    @amoahkojoopokumichael7479 10 месяцев назад +16

    Scanty well said 💯

  • @samuelaidoo4372
    @samuelaidoo4372 9 месяцев назад

    @Scanty, you're soing a great job. The exact point I made at one of our Youth meetings. This whole schenanigan is as a result of people sleeping around before marrying hence they compare their wives and husbands with those they encountered earlier. Normalizing what's meant for married couple. God have mercy!

  • @KofiAdu-Darko
    @KofiAdu-Darko 10 месяцев назад +5

    Scanty too dey love Yomo too much .😂at least you for wash the yomo off

    • @nerogyi7361
      @nerogyi7361 10 месяцев назад +2

      😂🤣🤣 you tear me ooh

  • @goldiebeulah4306
    @goldiebeulah4306 10 месяцев назад +8

    5:24 Ei youth president! Take us there 😂😂

  • @raymondaryee4613
    @raymondaryee4613 9 месяцев назад +1

    I quote "i am a human being and i have feelings and emotions" = BIOMECHANICS (BARRRRRRS)

  • @kingsleysarfo.
    @kingsleysarfo. 10 месяцев назад +8

    Outfit is fresh lord scanty 👖👞

  • @kofisarp6712
    @kofisarp6712 10 месяцев назад +5

    Ei Scanty...the head is yomoing for a reason😂

  • @rankingallofasudden
    @rankingallofasudden 10 месяцев назад +22

    On a more serious note.....scanty is making more sense

  • @khellykerish933
    @khellykerish933 9 месяцев назад +3

    Scanty Dey tear me pass 😂

  • @AlbertTetteh-cn5gm
    @AlbertTetteh-cn5gm Месяц назад +2

    Today Scanty dey talk wisdom paaa

  • @AdamAli12345
    @AdamAli12345 10 месяцев назад +9

    Scanty my guy😅..Btw where is Adwoa?
    Heat🔥

  • @princesamuel2380
    @princesamuel2380 9 месяцев назад +1

    One day I will be on this show and i will shut all these girls up with just one sentence 😂😂

  • @KwamePenny
    @KwamePenny 10 месяцев назад +13

    Everyone on the panel is obviously doing the deed so discussing this topic is funny as hell

    • @PreciousNtriwaa
      @PreciousNtriwaa 10 месяцев назад +1

      How sure are you ei 😂😂

    • @felixakuamoah9001
      @felixakuamoah9001 10 месяцев назад +1

      Yes oo bro,they are just doing it for the camera's, especially scanty,

  • @dannybryne7354
    @dannybryne7354 9 месяцев назад +5

    Dolly is holding the whole convo on a low key 😂 if she make loose the wey we will cook her eern 😅😅😅

    • @FORMULA1-360
      @FORMULA1-360 9 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂we go roast am

  • @vibewithvic3265
    @vibewithvic3265 10 месяцев назад +10

    Scanty you de tackle this girl it's like you like her😂

  • @Sel_1999
    @Sel_1999 10 месяцев назад +3

    Giftyyyy❤
    I miss her laughter 😂
    AGISS 😊

  • @AzizTackie
    @AzizTackie 10 месяцев назад +117

    Sex before marriage is a sin. But having a baby before marriage is a blessing. Confused generation 😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @naabotchey
      @naabotchey 10 месяцев назад +40

      The child is the blessing, because it is not at fault
      But the act is still condemned

    • @ACBizlife
      @ACBizlife 10 месяцев назад +1

      It’s a big lie

    • @allinall233
      @allinall233 10 месяцев назад

      Nonsense believe 😂😂😂

    • @memphisbrizzille-ss1he
      @memphisbrizzille-ss1he 10 месяцев назад +1

      Haha generation upon generation

    • @MarkFosu-fp1rp
      @MarkFosu-fp1rp 10 месяцев назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ed7studio
    @ed7studio 10 месяцев назад +7

    We have perfect men on earth sist, the Bible even used Job as Example ❤

  • @harrypotter_OGDM.
    @harrypotter_OGDM. 9 месяцев назад

    I never knew Scanty was a Presbyterian oh wow 😲😳
    That's nice 🙂🎉

  • @samuelniwo390
    @samuelniwo390 9 месяцев назад

    I have watched over and over and over. God bless you scanty

  • @FaaisKunateh
    @FaaisKunateh 9 месяцев назад +3

    Scanty walahi you are always on point,bless up

  • @ashalley
    @ashalley 10 месяцев назад +18

    I would really encourage having these conversations without any religious connotations of any kind cos it when religion comes in these conversations it really limits it. Having these conversations purely with an objective /logical perspective helps a lot. Just my thoughts

    • @bryteyork2038
      @bryteyork2038 9 месяцев назад

      Great

    • @steveosabutey4196
      @steveosabutey4196 9 месяцев назад +2

      Please Christianity is not a religion. You cannot have these conversations without involving what the bible says. It's fine to use logic but the Bible is a firm foundation of life.

    • @ashalley
      @ashalley 9 месяцев назад

      I'm sorry but it is, Christianity is a religion as per the definition of a 'religion' and as good as the bible is, it does not run the world or the entirety of Ghana even though it is the largest religion there are still many people who aren't Christians@@steveosabutey4196

  • @BEBLESSED04
    @BEBLESSED04 10 месяцев назад +16

    Scanty, you get wisdom.

  • @BaahDbee
    @BaahDbee 10 месяцев назад +1

    scanty is flowing gibberish

  • @RandyBrako-ko2mw
    @RandyBrako-ko2mw 9 месяцев назад +6

    A person who have not have sex before won't divorce because of sex for anything

  • @georgeaduseisenchire7059
    @georgeaduseisenchire7059 7 месяцев назад

    Woow...Scanty was really on point on👌

  • @LawrenciaAfrakomahSarpong
    @LawrenciaAfrakomahSarpong 6 месяцев назад +1

    everyday my admiration for Scanty grows, God says sex before marriage is a sin. PERIOD!!!!!!!!
    Rationalization is killing mankind

  • @Bohyeba6892
    @Bohyeba6892 9 месяцев назад

    Scanty alwys gove you a best take in his submission. Great wisdom

  • @ransfordantwi6689
    @ransfordantwi6689 9 месяцев назад +2

    if Dolly says something, scanty always reply. eeiii these guys, i think they are meant for each other o.

  • @Realalphasam
    @Realalphasam 10 месяцев назад +5

    Nice One Scanty .
    God will be proud of you ....
    I am proud of you chaley.
    As for the so called woman of God ehh...hmmmm
    Jesus is coming very soon to meet her in her church der

  • @josiahpadi8962
    @josiahpadi8962 4 месяца назад

    Scanty you are very wise. God bless you.

  • @Bigboy910
    @Bigboy910 9 месяцев назад +2

    Scanty has turn prophet by force😂

  • @CQfilmproduction
    @CQfilmproduction 9 месяцев назад +1

    Up to the 5th minute and Scanty is not making sense 😂

  • @successviews2990
    @successviews2990 10 месяцев назад +1

    Scanty is the Deadpool of KSS..I tell. You, KSS JESUS.

  • @dukeadjei2881
    @dukeadjei2881 10 месяцев назад +2

    Scanty Dey feel Dolly 😂😂😂😂 that bi why everyday he Dey wan Dey her top 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @BawahRafeeatu-sx1nk
    @BawahRafeeatu-sx1nk 9 месяцев назад +1

    Naa scanty is preaching here😂😅

  • @calvinmenttor2394
    @calvinmenttor2394 9 месяцев назад +4

    yo sheldon!!! where adzoa dey lah. tsoooo.....!!!

  • @benjaminmorgan3766
    @benjaminmorgan3766 2 дня назад

    Like i always tell the people i often speak to: You cannot go against the Bible and win.

  • @j.fkenny9507
    @j.fkenny9507 10 месяцев назад +9

    Ah scanty the yomo again??? I know a guy who got bald using hair dye... Ask Kojo. plus it can also make your head grow big......Ah these girls again.

  • @francisdarkohbrown9114
    @francisdarkohbrown9114 9 месяцев назад +1

    Eii scanty! I never knew you were so calm. All the same inside with you.

  • @gideonannoropoku867
    @gideonannoropoku867 9 месяцев назад +1

    Did I hear Scanty say ‘Presbycherian’?😂😂

  • @abutrieka23
    @abutrieka23 10 месяцев назад +4

    Herrr Gifty dey bee oo, ein voice sef dey kill me

  • @kwabenaebo6700
    @kwabenaebo6700 6 месяцев назад +1

    When purpose of a thing is not known,abuse is inevitable...The reason for sex is not known that is why it has become a norm to have it before marriage. If you want to know,go for fertility test