Is it rude for me, as an obvious mainlander and outsider, to call an elder Auntie or Uncle? I understand it’s an important part of the culture and I don’t want to offend. I asked a couple local guys I met at a bus stop, but they weren’t sure. Also, is every person who appears to be older than you Auntie/Uncle? Also, I would definitely watch a video about speaking pidgin in Hawaii.
It's not rude for a mainlander to call an elder Auntie or Uncle. Not at all. In fact, I'd argue the opposite. You know that analogy Mahe and I discuss in this video - the hard shell with a thin soft covering - I think calling an elder Auntie/Uncle could help a mainlander get beyond this social barrier. Of course, you'll still hear a lot of "Ms" "Ma'am" and "Sir" during your time here. This is still accepted as a sign of respect, however, these phrases can sometimes be like wearing a tuxedo to a beach BBQ - just a bit too formal and out of place. Now to address estimating age... well that will just take some personal discretion and time. Hit and miss till you get it - type of approach. Let me offer a BASIC set of guidelines - If the person appears to be at least a decade older than you: Aunty/Uncle* - If the person appears to be close to your age: Sis/Sister/Bro/Brother/Cuz (for those you have built some familiarity with). - If the person appears to be younger than you: First name *You can choose to attach persons first name after Aunty/Uncle, or you can just leave it at "Aunty/Uncle" because sometimes you don't know the persons first name, can't say the persons first name, aren't familiar with the person etc. In practice, using any of these familial pronouns mentioned above is actually quite convenient. These are general terms that you can use to address literally anyone on the island (who is the same age as you or older). Just pair a cordial phrase like "excuse me" with "aunty/uncle" or "sis/sister/bro/brother" and you can begin a conversation with any local. I'm sure this will be part of our pidgin video!
@@movingtohawaii same in southern africa ( i don't know for other african nations ). i have observed this when i was growing up in India too ( I am non indian ). but in my part of africa We use Aunty ( Mabatho ) for any woman a good decade older . and Mma for daytime use in formal settings. my wife is Mma Mmamamolo even though privately I call her Maimouna which is her birthname.
@@movingtohawaii I retired from the USAF, one of those horrible military guys, and have spent a lot of years in Asia. I have always tried to be as respectful to the locals as possible whether in the Philippines, Korea, Japan, Guam, or Alaska. One things I was told about Hawaii is locals hate it when an outsider tries to talk like a local. When I was assigned to an overseas base, we had briefings on cultural awareness. I think it would be helpful for anyone moving to Hawaii to "attend" a Hawaiian Islands cultural awareness class. It could be virtual or in person, if already there. Lasty, I am a guy who just wants peace and doesn't want to offend me. My God requires me to treat all with love and I hope to be able to at a minimum just receive peace in return.
I was there from 76 till 86 being a black man there I saw plenty hate against blacks. I also had plenty of locals that was great and would protect me like a brother, especially the Samoans was really wonderful to me. Polynesians are great people that want to live in peace just as we do. You and your wife are absolutely amazing people. Bless you both!
Mahalo Ty. Mahe and I are not married but she is fam. My wife Michele is also wonderful. Racism/ignorance exists everywhere. White to black and black to white and everything in between. I saw it as a kid in the south and in Hawaii as well.
@@movingtohawaii yes I do agree racism is everywhere and has gotten worse in the last 6 years. I’m 66 and I grew up in the south where it was awful seeing it as a kid, but my worst experience with it was in Hawaii. I don’t know not one black that hates for no reason, it’s mostly because the things they see and has experienced. I’m not saying that’s ok in anyway. Spreading love is all I’ve ever done and I feel that’s the main reason my life is wonderful and very successful. Again I thank you for sharing your wisdom
@@tyjeter5880 Once you find out who you are, then you will understand why you are hated by ALL NATIONS and why you love all nations. Your history IS THE BIBLE and The Most High God is the God who chose you to be a special people only for Him. Please look up on RUclips, The Gates of Huldah. If you have an issue with a woman teacher, please look up The Seed of Israel. This will be a great beginning to who we are and why we are so hated. I hope this helps 😕🥺🤗🥰
Yeah but sir young folks ain't really like that anymore man I live in the south and even one generation back people in my own family are racist us young folks just aren't my grandparents were extremely racist but us young kids born 90s even 80s till now do wish the black man I'll will don't let the news twist shit bro
My grandfather is buried in the USS Arizona and my father is a retired Air colonel. He loves to go to the Hale Koa every Thanksgiving and has been going there for over 40 years.
I love your channel's content. My daughter moved to Ohau 3 years ago from Southern CA and just loves it there. I got to visit her last May and I love how HI has been a very positive result for her. Over here in CA she was always so stressed with the pace of life. I was so happy to see just how she has mellowed & more relaxed out there. She & I love the culture out there. Watching you guys makes me want to visit her again.
Thank you so very much Derek and Mahe for such an informative session. I live in South Carolina and miss Hawaii very much since my departure in 1990. After living there for 5 years and meeting my wife there and the birth of my daughter on Oahu the Aloha spirit has never left me. I may be a mainlander by location but my soul is there. In 2007 we started to travel back to the islands mostly Maui to refill my heart with Aloha. The most beautiful and serene part of Oahu that I remember most is Waianae to Makaha which I visit every time I come to Oahu. I watch numerous videos to stay connected and informed to the issues at hand in Hawaii. Thank you Mahe for your insightful assessment of education and what is most important for the keiki's that are born and raised in Hawaii. Mahalo for you both for sharing you message and Aloha.
Considering the fires in Maui! You guys Need to do an update on Maui! That island definitely needs to keep their history and their land despite the devastating loss of so much! I revisited Hawaii in 2018 years later since 1984 and Hawaii was a totally different Hawaii! I missed all the greenery and beautiful trees that they removed to build so many buildings! Thank you for a great presentation!❤
The problem with beautiful areas like Maui, and even here in South Carolina along the coast the wealthy have bought up so much property and build so many expensive homes that they displaced a lot of the natural beauty. It’s really sad. I have lived down here for 12 years and the construction on some of the islands along the coast has expanded and replaced many beautiful properties that had trees flowers, different animals and etc.
@@seamcheck11As someone whobhas always lived in coastal communities this is true. There are many towns where you can no longer see the ocean because condos are blocking it.
Thank you for this. I think it’s brave to speak openly about the unspoken rules in Hawaii. Our perspective is enhanced if we end up living in mainland and then return after 20 years away…as I have. Unless you are born and raised here (no matter the ethnicity), one can never truly understand what was discussed in this video.
Aloha @teripinney7521 Having lived here 39 years, I really related to the vid, despite not being born & raised here. So many nuances were spoken of… it’s very helpful & should be required watching for anyone contemplating moving here!
I’d love to see a series of videos on ideas for fitting in (the first 1-2 years) after moving from the mainland for keiki, teens, parents of kids/teens (both fitting in themselves,and - separately - how they can help their kids/teens fit in depending on their areas of interest, single young adults/couples, middle age singles/couples, senior singles/couples, who want to be known & welcomed, year ‘round members of their local community on Oahu (even knowing that they will never be “locals”) - and who are not one of those perfectly happy to be living in one of those bougie enclaves, isolated from real community (much as I’m sure you’re happy to collect commissions for home purchases in said enclaves, but those folks are probably not going to need to watch videos on “fitting in” because someone who’s spending $10-20 million on a house in Hawai’i, is likely used to using their $ to help them fit it with the crowd they wanna hang with … and if they aren’t, there are plenty of folks to help them figure it out). I ask especially for us haoles who are of uncle/auntie age - who do want to fit in as much as we are able, to at least be welcomed as part of the diverse cultures that make up Hawai’i - and as ones who believe in the importance of keeping alive the culture of the indigenous people of these islands - haoles who have no interest in golfing, tennis, wine tasting & other bougie stuff … who will miss our ohana on mainland (especially the keiki), who 🎉want to protect the air/water/climate/all the planet for future generations … How can we best contribute to our community, so as to fit in - even when health/energy levels put limits on us.
i feel so at home when im watching you guys, its been 10 years since ive been home and i feel so much nostalgia from watching your guys content, Im going in a couple of days to stay with my mom, so mahalo ♥🤙
Hi Derek, just wanted to say how much I love your content on moving to Hawaii. I visited the island in August for the very first time and loved it. I'm a realtor in New Jersey and your marketing style is very much like my own. I too point out the negatives, and my clients appreciate it. Keep up the good work.
I know! That is why I will choose him as my realtor for buying a place on O’ahu and then when I retire to Kaua’i I will use him again. He is so authentic and cool.
I'm a Hawaiian born and raised in the SF Bay area . Even though my parents still spoke broken English and I was raised Hawaiian style , when I moved to Hawaii I had to go through the process , I have a lot of relatives who taught me the rules and because I look Hawaiian I didn't have the problems that my Haole friends had , This was really cool that you guys are teaching the people the cultures of Hawaii . Because believe it or not it might now be for everyone . lol . which to me is good because when I call you guys and let you know that I'm coming home . they'll be still some houses left . lol . Aloha you you guys , keep up the good work .
Been living on the island for two and a half years, I’m white and my family is white and we’ve had problems. Give respect and you’ll get it back only works for non whites. White people are expected to bend over and take it no matter what. And this isn’t something that only comes from the Polynesians or the Hawaiians a lot of the issues we’ve had have been from the Asians. The Asian kids at my kids’ high school use the N word so much it’s unbelievable and there’s no recourse. The actual rule of Hawaii is that it’s perfectly fine to be racist as long as you are not white and it’s perfectly fine to hate white people. We’ve been called f-ing Haole just walking to our car in the parking lot. We didn’t have time to be “disrespectful.” We’ve had people in stores refuse to help us and the sick thing is this whole idea of “respect others and you’ll be respected” is what they hide behind to justify treating white people this way. We shouldn’t have to prove ourselves in order to avoid racism.
@@Retrochick330damn what island was this ??? Also make a video about your experiences . I’m assuming you’re not ignorant of the fact that they feel their living conditions were caused by merging with the US, in a way they probably feel like they’ve been colonized. Like this is the most expensive state in the US and they had to convert and leave their old ways to take on the was of the west .
This has been one of the more informative videos I've seen about Hawaii. It's hard to find videos from people who aren't or weren't at one point outsiders. This really praises and explains the culture and way of life on the island. I feel like all the point in this video plays the biggest role in culture shock. Very glad I found this video and you guys specifically. It's honestly bringing a lot of relief to know these aspects I can expect during my move in the next month.
I don't like that Locals never include Mexicans when talking about all of the ethnicities that contributed to Hawaiian history, when Mexicans actually played a very big part in influencing Hawaiian culture. In the late 1700's, Hawaiian Royalty were gifted cattle but Hawaiians didn't know how to ranch and neither did any of the other ethnicities that were predominately field workers. Then in 1833 (nearly 200 years ago) King Kamehameha the 3rd brought Mexican vaqueros (or cowboys), from California (then part of Mexico) to Hawaii to train Hawaiians to be cowboys and ranchers. Those Mexican cowboys spoke Spanish, which is where the term “Paniolo” comes from. Over the next few decades more vaqueros came to Hawaii as ranches opened on all of the major islands. The vaqueros continued to introduce Mexican music (specifically guitar) and Mexican cuisine to Hawaiians. By the 1850s, a Paniolo subculture blending Mexican vaquero and Hawaiian traditions developed, and much of that Mexican culture remains in Hawaii till this day.
That was a good Vlog. Having been stationed there, I got in good with the locals. Once you do that, living there is so much easier because you know about things that only locals will know about.
The civil unrest has always been peaceful when I have been involved. And it's people from all walks of life like you said... They are protesting the abuse of human rights, all humans. It's part of what I love about Hawaii.
I remember living near above those fuel tanks. I use to live in Moanalua Hillside Apartments on top of Redhill. Had my share of stomach aches and skin rashes, that might have been due to the tainted water. I just hope all that was affected or currently being affected, gets better and gets justice. 🙏🏽🤙🏽
HUGE mahalo for these videos!! I first visited Hawaii in the 90's and something inside me changed and I've been trying to find a way to live there since. Career and keiki and all, you know. I felt actual grief and pain when I had to leave, and still do each time. Some day!
I love marrying into a Polynesian family. Moved from Wa to Big Island 5 years ago. Feels like home here! I found that I got along with all the cultures here just fine. I am half white and Mexican. Just have to be respectful and accepting of the way of life here, which I already had learned from our Samoan family. 🥰
I’m a teacher on the mainland - thank you for clarifying about the schools. The importance on culture and arts are what’s missing from most public schools over here. Too much is put on test scores.
I remember being part of May Day celebration in elementary school when I was younger. I loved that, practicing and then the day all the parents and friends came to watch and enjoy. Miss the family feeling there, it's not the same were we live now. We are heading back for a visit in a couple of weeks! Cannot wait to show my son, he's excited!!
Aloha Derek, Mahalo for doing these videos. My wife and I fell in love with the islands 44 years ago on our honeymoon. We go back to the mainland to work and go home to the islands yearly. You are so right about the differences in cultures yet you are one. I know about the issues on those underground tanks, it’s bad. I listen to the Kolohe Krew daily while at work and it comes up on the news. We’re not perfect knowing the cultures to fit in like we would like on our visits, but we want to learn to better respect the people and the mana. We want to understand better in hopes of someday moving their. When on Ohau we go to New Hope and have experienced that joy, fun and respect of the comedy between the cultures. Would you do some videos to educate those of us who want to learn. Our favorite island? The one we’re on at the time. Mahalo, A hui hou
I love Hawaii and the Aloha spirit!! First time I visited Oahu was in 97, and I felt the Mana as soon as I landed. Fast forward to March 3rd, 2022 I came back to Oahu and the Mana is still alive and true (my first time back in 20+ years).On my first day there, I let my bare feet touch the sand and I looked up at the stars and grounded myself…ahhh the feeling was so ethereal, so pure. I truly feel Hawaii is a sacred place both the land, and the people. I will always have love and respect for Hawaii Nei ❤️
Thank you for speaking about the Hawaii school system! I love that you brought up that it’s more than just test scores…there are other ways to value and celebrate our children. Speaking truth!!
Born and raised here. Yes discrimination is alive and well here. It has gotten better over the recent years. It’s just something you need to accept. Not condoning it, you just understand how it is and try to not take it too personally. I’ve had a lot of horrible things said and done to me because on the surface I’m white and don’t speak pidgin or have the local inflection. Maybe because I’m older, I don’t let it get to me. As soon as someone finds out that I’m from here and who my family is, I’m welcomed with open arms. Sucks that the wall is up until this gets disclosed. Hawaii is home. It’s hard to make it here. It’s sad that kamaaina have to leave in order to live a comfortable life. It doesn’t have to be this way. Our leaders have no vision for real change. The system is too entrenched. Gotta go along because no one wants to make waves.
As a person from Saipan, Northern Marianas, if ever I move to Hawaii it will not be a culture shock. The way Derek and Mahe described the social norms in Hawaii is basically the same if not similar to norms here in the Northern Marianas and Guam from having respect towards one another, bringing something to an event even though the host says "oh no we got it, just come," having rice for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, and the whole not eating the last piece. It is very interesting to see the same norms found across Pasifika.
Love your channel, very informative. I lived Aiea Heights in the 80s for 3 years while in the military. I grew up in Guam and our cultures are very similar, very family oriented, respect, and the aloha spirit. Now that my wife and I are retired we plan on visiting real soon. Keep up the good work. Mahalo
Well I buy all of my meat organic from the Kualoa ranch (it's not just where Jurassic world was filmed it's actually a working Ranch)... Price is fairly decent too. I buy as much produce as I can from the Farmers market near my home twice a week. I feel like there are opportunities to buy fresh food here you just have to look for them.
I have just finished watching this and I love it, this is exactly what I want somebody to tell me about Hawaii tell me the ugly tell me the good tell me the culture all of that stuff. I found this very informative and have become interested in researching the history of way. There are a lot of travel agencies I bet that would not put any of this information or realtors selling property to statesidePotential buyers of real estate. I think this is what every state should have a video like this going to watch more of your videos thank you
Aloha Derek ! I’ve been enjoying your videos lately. I am a Local Boy who moved from home 26 years ago. I miss home every day, and hopefully someday if I can afford it, move back. Keep up da good work Bruddah ! 🤙🏽🤙🏽🤙🏽
Alot of what you're saying relating to culture sounds like having a healthy amount respect for people and culture. This is easy for me to understand as my middle eastern background and off the boat family place respect for elders, guests, people etc at the center of their being. Now I can understand why some mainlanders might have some difficulty assimilating bc my mom didn't think any of my American friends came into our home with the requisite respect she would expect.
There isn’t any other video that hits all of the highlights about Hawaii than this video. Well done. Let’s not forget that moving to the right lane doesn’t exist on island! 🤙🏽
Y'all are some real ones and speak the truth. Went to Oahu for the first time with the wife and kids for my wife and I 10 year anniversary. Went there not knowing... Then experiencing... Then in tears after feeling the struggles there... Wife and I considered staying there for a year or two with the kids to learn the culture... Otherwise just subscribed and looking forward to watching more videos. Love infinite! ❤
Aloha Derek and Mahe, and mahalo for all the great content you are putting out here. I am so glad I found this channel… top notch info in a very authentic delivery. Very accurate and reliable. I’ve lived both on the North Shore, just north of Sunset Beach in Pupukea (Huelo St) and also over west side in Waianae (top of Waianae Valley Rd on the J-Diamond Ranch). Your videos and information have been spot on… and I don’t think you can emphasize enough the importance of “respect” as a critical part of everyday life on the island. I am still about 2 1/2 years away from my return “home”, but I will definitely look to you as a first choice resource as that time becomes more imminent. I truly enjoy your videos and I hope all who view them will acknowledge and respect the quality of the information you are disseminating… so much value to those who don’t know. An added tip for those seeking the island life… “leave the mainland on the mainland”… please don’t go to Hawaii and try to change it to feel more like where you came from… that’s not what it’s about. Again, thank you both… stay safe and God bless 🤙🏼
Aloha Jeffrey, mahalo for sharing such a personal message with us. As you know, these islands are so unique and have so many nuances that visitors and newcomers may find challenging. All we can do as locals is share and educate as much as possible in hopes that they will feel comfortable enough to absorb Hawaii’s rich culture. Everyone is different, and those who can embrace difference tend to do better than those who resist difference. And you said it, it all comes down to respect. Feel free to reach out anytime, Jeffrey! Our contact information is listed in video description.
Great, great video! Greetings from Cambodia. First one I've seen of you guys. You've got a new subscriber. Made me laugh out loud when you said "North Shore Foodland." So many times I've been there. Happy I knew EXACTLY what you meant. I lived in Hawai'i twice for a total of 9 years. Waianae offered the best of my experiences there. People just want to know you're sincere and respectful. I mostly served Samoan and Hawaiian kids as a teacher and volunteer and created three Hawaiian-English books for the children I hope have helped over the years. Okay, starting to reminisce too much, but wanna thank you for this video I enjoyed watching while eating breakfast in Siem Reap, Cambodia. Aloha.
I am originally from Peru living in Los Angeles, California for 40 years. Although the two states are different (CA & HI), there are lots of similarities regarding issues with density in cities, water, traffic, high prices in rentals (housing), high cost of living, taxes. Growing up in Peru taught me to be respectful of my elders and others. I also went to school there (fortunately). I love Oahu and would move there in a heartbeat! I understand the challenges but the island, its people, and the culture are very special. I am a true believer that one we come to new places we should bring our own gifts to make the place better for the community. Your video was interesting…
We just came back from Honolulu and we both fell in love with the area. We were there for a week with six friends and truly enjoyed our time there but one thing you said really stands out to me. You said nobody honks their car horn in a "lay on the horn" kind of way. We had rented a van and while driving in the north shore area, someone in a very large pick-up truck "laid on the horn" until we pulled off the road to get away. The speed limit was 35, so that wasn't the problem but I thought it was very strange.
I was born and raised in Honolulu and left in 1953. I left Hawaii to pursue a career in high tech and never returned except for visits. Hawaii has changed drastically since I left, but you can say that to just about every place.
Hey guys, just heard the part about the school. I am a teacher that has transplanted here from NYC 8years ago. Hawaii has some of the toughest standards. We push our kids to achieve. If you think of the demographics, 1/4 of the students on island are military. Ever 3-4 years they pcs. That mean when national test come, those kids typically have moved on. And we get Mainland kids who don't understand the system. Oh, I hear often from parents that they've heard Hawaii schools are a joke. But after a month or two, they don't know how to keep up with the rigor. The parents don't know how to keep up with the rigor. Kids coming from Georgia, are still working on single digit edition, and the second grade, and are still spelling CVC words, student don't know how to write. Our standards here are exceptional. Hawaii is an amazing state to have your kids in school. But I'm biased because I'm a teacher. Our kids are special.
Beautiful. Thank you for this comment. I am going to share your sentiments regularly. My wife is also a teacher and she couldn’t wait to come home and teach in Hawaii. What area do you teach in and what grade level?
I love the openness of the discussion. Thank you both. I've been visiting Hawaii once a year since 2009. I recently visited Kaua'i a week ago, as always I had a blast. My wife and I are considering and praying buying a home in OAHU. Keep up the great work! I've learned a lot.
Mahalo for the feedback! We aim to assist people like you and your wife - those who respect Hawaii’s one-of-a-kind nature and regularly tap in to the community here. Oahu has the most buying options and I’m sure we can find a fit for you and your wife. Let’s connect!
It's so true I haven't heard an angry horn in the last 2 years that I lived here except when I've had to go back to the mainland. I also haven't seen anyone flip anyone else off. I love to stay so much I want to help protect it and like I have said many times before... I know that I'm never going to truly be considered a local, but I do want to be considered a neighbor and friend you can count on.
I really enjoy this video! My boyfriend and I just got an apartment in Red Hill, we’ve been here about a week. I appreciate your sharing and teaching of Hawaiian words and phrases. Discussion of local topics that may not be covered in the news or widely talked about was enlightening. I’m only halfway through the video so far, I just wanted to share my appreciation for this video. Also, where are you guys eating?
Glad to hear you and your boyfriend are getting situated here on Oahu, Latisha. As you know, in our Neighborhood Tour videos we try to include a Hawaiian Word Of The Day. In general, though, we always try to include Hawaiian (and local - there's a difference) words and phrases you're likely to come across living here. Mahe and I are eating at The Shack Mililani.
Aloha Derek! Been watching all your videos the last few days as me and my wife will be pcsing there in early March. Appreciate all that you do! Your content has been super helpful and honest and we can’t wait to experience all of these things organically!
Same here but grew up in Pittsburg but was raised in Keihei Maui . 80 -92 what a time to live in Hawaii I'm indigenous American and was treated way different from haoli's I was treated good by the locals but not so good from main landers. Greatest time of my life.
Excellent! Spent 5 years in the 90's working at TAMC lived in Eva Beach and other locals...and your take on customs and mores is "right-on-the-money". Really enjoyed hearing what I experienced...thanks for your efforts! MAHLO!
YES I remember doing all the performances from K-12. I went to Kalani HS with Weldon Kekauoha for one year. He was a Sr & I was a Freshman, we were in CHORUS class together. He always sang like an Angel. He entered BrownBags and he won first place for our school. I don’t remember if he took down BrownBags, but I wouldn’t be surprised. Look at him now.
What many locals don't know about horn honking is that there is actually a law in Hawaii against it. We don't use our horns much here so it's not a problem and most people don't even know about it. Sec. 15-19.27 Horns and warning devices, the law states, “The driver shall, when reasonably necessary to ensure safe operation, give audible warning with his or her horn; but shall not otherwise use such horn when upon a highway.” It made the news Feb 2018 a woman received a $72 dollar fine for honking. Very rare occurrence.
Aside from Oahu maybe, locals commonly honk their horns as they pass someone’s home, or see someone from a distance, as saying hello. Just don’t “hold” the horn… a quick “toot, toot” is aloha. Hold the horn, and it could be an issue.
Just found your video, (sub’ed) been gone for 20+ years, and love RUclips, been able to finally keep in touch in away. This one video touched on so much memories, thanks. First one I’ve ever heard mention Bu La’ia (even though brief), was there he he ran for Governor 😜, always wondered what happened to him? But Mahalo for this, made my day, going to spend the day checking your other ones and will wait to see what’s next. Aloha 🤙🏼❤️🤠
Hearing that my pension will not be taxed is great news! As my time on this planet winds down, I hope to be able to, if not permanently, at least a good ten years or so retire on Maui. My wife and I fell in love with that island in 2001. I knew about the property taxes being lower. I pay $14,000 per year on Long Island in New York. Selling my split level house will probably equate to buying a small two bedroom condo. However, the HOA kind of eats up what is left over from the lower property taxes.
Aloha, Dennis. Based on the feedback from those we've helped, we can say that a Maui retirement is definitely worth the HOA fees. Are amenities and community leaning you towards condo living? Is a one-story home with a backyard garden and an ocean view your thing?
@@movingtohawaii Been taking care of a home for 30 years. Done with that! Small two bedroom condo will be what we look for. Probably Kihei area. Timing will depend on my job. Two years minimum, five max. Most likely somewhere in the middle.
@@kofd04 On to the next chapter! I see, well if you'd like to get the ball rolling feel free to fill out the contact form on our website and we can be your boots on the ground in the meantime!
First time watcher. So awesome!! Loved it. You two are great. My girlfriend lived there for nearly 40 years and told me a lot of what you said. We hope to return some day to stay. Mahalo.
Aloha, Jack. The islands are awaiting your return! Mahalo for watching our channel. Mahe just posted a new video on condo living in Honolulu in the Ward Village area - a place some of our returning-home-after-a-long-time-away-from-home clients are considering. Have a look and let us know what you think: ruclips.net/video/C_pRSfbrLLM/видео.html
Definitely some good stuff to know. Considering the water and pollution issues. I can see why security...which I would rather not do again as a job...is looking for new employees. Not to mention the rate of pay in some security positions are rather enticing. Nonetheless, I don't think I would have to many issues in Hawaii after I get moving all settled. I live a solo middle class lifestyle on the southeast coast, US. I predict it will probably be an incredible rough start rebuilding my lifestyle, but I think Hawaii is a place I could get used to.
The highest hurdle for people relocating to Hawaii is the cost of living. Compared to most of the nation, creating and maintaining a lifestyle here in Hawaii is a heavy lift. Especially if you're coming from a place where your dollar can stretch further. However, once you establish a lifestyle, Hawaii is an amazing place to call home.
@@movingtohawaii I can definitely imagine. I will check out your website soon and try to find a good time to reach out to you that will work for both of us figuring in the time difference.
I just just came back from 4 weeks on the Waianae, living here in Apple Valley, Minnesota. Going through cold weather shock. Wishing I was with you. I go to the the Rest Camp every year. Counting down the months. Keep making the videos. Aloha.
I love your video/information/advice. My family is slowly moving to Hawaii. My brother and kids have been there for 10 years. My parents are moving next month and my son is coming in 6 months. My wife and I next year. All to the big island, Hilo area. Got to say, many of the things you mentioned are good things to us. I can't wait to move. I've spent
Aloha, Richard. We try to address real concerns and answer real questions. Fill out our contact form on our website if you'd like to connect and set up your move in April. Mahalo for watching
Long time ago I remember lot of high school kids used to work at the pineapple canneries during summer. I loved it because there were so many friendly and cute wahines. One summer I worked there I met 4 wahines that I ended up going out with.
Good Stuff! At the end of the day Respecting the lands and creating a balanced in life is what is important. Part of me wants to implement a standard of acceptance for these islands. For example its unfortunate that EVERYONE is allowed to visit or live on the island as its a sacred place on this earth and is to be respected. Many come with bad habits and throw their trash around like its someone else's problem and THAT is called lack of responsibility. People will keep coming to these island and I think the focus should be on people who can actually contribute to the land and maintain its natural life. People who have a mind set of creating, building and preserving should be accepted and those who are just consumers should not. Gardening, biodiversity, respecting wildlife are just very few to mention even things such as offering solar systems at a discounted rate here would help people who aren't so fortunate become more self sustaining. We are moving the the big island soon for many reasons but just to mention a couple. Getting away from the city life, being able to grow fruits, vegetables and much more our current desert cannot sustain, peace a quiet, clean air, quality farmers markets that I would choose any day over a large super market. Mahalo Nui Loa, for the video and exposing some reality. Like you said its never Right or WRONG its about balance. Balance can only be had if ambition and will power are present.
Sometimes the comment section can provide even more insight than the video, and this is a prime example. Mahalo for sharing such a thorough and personal experience, Roma! I especially like your idea of offering solar systems at adjusted rates to match the end-users demographic. Also, the Big Island lifestyle is something that on of our team members has been seriously considering for similar reasons that you mention. Wishing you and your family balance and happiness moving forward!
To know more about the Puerto Rican community in Hawaii. My Korean husband and I (Puerto Rican) will possibly be moving to HI. A little nervous about that, but I feel that having lived in Puerto Rico it shouldn’t be that different.
@@movingtohawaii I lived mostly in Carolina, some time in Rio Grande and the fam is mostly from Arecibo. I see you’re familiar? My husband is applying for Hawaiian Airlines. So I’m sure that should be taken into consideration. We have a cocker spaniel child, I’m sure that’ll make things harder!
Is it rude for me, as an obvious mainlander and outsider, to call an elder Auntie or Uncle? I understand it’s an important part of the culture and I don’t want to offend. I asked a couple local guys I met at a bus stop, but they weren’t sure. Also, is every person who appears to be older than you Auntie/Uncle? Also, I would definitely watch a video about speaking pidgin in Hawaii.
It's not rude for a mainlander to call an elder Auntie or Uncle. Not at all. In fact, I'd argue the opposite. You know that analogy Mahe and I discuss in this video - the hard shell with a thin soft covering - I think calling an elder Auntie/Uncle could help a mainlander get beyond this social barrier. Of course, you'll still hear a lot of "Ms" "Ma'am" and "Sir" during your time here. This is still accepted as a sign of respect, however, these phrases can sometimes be like wearing a tuxedo to a beach BBQ - just a bit too formal and out of place. Now to address estimating age... well that will just take some personal discretion and time. Hit and miss till you get it - type of approach.
Let me offer a BASIC set of guidelines
- If the person appears to be at least a decade older than you: Aunty/Uncle*
- If the person appears to be close to your age: Sis/Sister/Bro/Brother/Cuz (for those you have built some familiarity with).
- If the person appears to be younger than you: First name
*You can choose to attach persons first name after Aunty/Uncle, or you can just leave it at "Aunty/Uncle" because sometimes you don't know the persons first name, can't say the persons first name, aren't familiar with the person etc.
In practice, using any of these familial pronouns mentioned above is actually quite convenient. These are general terms that you can use to address literally anyone on the island (who is the same age as you or older). Just pair a cordial phrase like "excuse me" with "aunty/uncle" or "sis/sister/bro/brother" and you can begin a conversation with any local.
I'm sure this will be part of our pidgin video!
@@movingtohawaii same in southern africa ( i don't know for other african nations ). i have observed this when i was growing up in India too ( I am non indian ). but in my part of africa We use Aunty ( Mabatho ) for any woman a good decade older . and Mma for daytime use in formal settings. my wife is Mma Mmamamolo even though privately I call her Maimouna which is her birthname.
No. And they will call you, a mainlander auntie or uncle when you are old enough.
@@movingtohawaii I retired from the USAF, one of those horrible military guys, and have spent a lot of years in Asia. I have always tried to be as respectful to the locals as possible whether in the Philippines, Korea, Japan, Guam, or Alaska. One things I was told about Hawaii is locals hate it when an outsider tries to talk like a local. When I was assigned to an overseas base, we had briefings on cultural awareness. I think it would be helpful for anyone moving to Hawaii to "attend" a Hawaiian Islands cultural awareness class. It could be virtual or in person, if already there. Lasty, I am a guy who just wants peace and doesn't want to offend me. My God requires me to treat all with love and I hope to be able to at a minimum just receive peace in return.
I think its a compliment, Auntie
I was there from 76 till 86 being a black man there I saw plenty hate against blacks. I also had plenty of locals that was great and would protect me like a brother, especially the Samoans was really wonderful to me. Polynesians are great people that want to live in peace just as we do. You and your wife are absolutely amazing people. Bless you both!
Mahalo Ty. Mahe and I are not married but she is fam. My wife Michele is also wonderful. Racism/ignorance exists everywhere. White to black and black to white and everything in between. I saw it as a kid in the south and in Hawaii as well.
@@movingtohawaii yes I do agree racism is everywhere and has gotten worse in the last 6 years. I’m 66 and I grew up in the south where it was awful seeing it as a kid, but my worst experience with it was in Hawaii. I don’t know not one black that hates for no reason, it’s mostly because the things they see and has experienced. I’m not saying that’s ok in anyway. Spreading love is all I’ve ever done and I feel that’s the main reason my life is wonderful and very successful. Again I thank you for sharing your wisdom
@@tyjeter5880 Once you find out who you are, then you will understand why you are hated by ALL NATIONS and why you love all nations. Your history IS THE BIBLE and The Most High God is the God who chose you to be a special people only for Him. Please look up on RUclips, The Gates of Huldah. If you have an issue with a woman teacher, please look up The Seed of Israel. This will be a great beginning to who we are and why we are so hated. I hope this helps 😕🥺🤗🥰
@@executivewoman678 thank you so much
Yeah but sir young folks ain't really like that anymore man I live in the south and even one generation back people in my own family are racist us young folks just aren't my grandparents were extremely racist but us young kids born 90s even 80s till now do wish the black man I'll will don't let the news twist shit bro
This video showed me that's why I love it there! I'm filipino and native american and Hawaii feels so comfortable for me culturally.
My grandfather is buried in the USS Arizona and my father is a retired Air colonel. He loves to go to the Hale Koa every Thanksgiving and has been going there for over 40 years.
I love your channel's content. My daughter moved to Ohau 3 years ago from Southern CA and just loves it there. I got to visit her last May and I love how HI has been a very positive result for her. Over here in CA she was always so stressed with the pace of life. I was so happy to see just how she has mellowed & more relaxed out there. She & I love the culture out there. Watching you guys makes me want to visit her again.
The Hawaii-California connection is strong, for sure. Mahalo for watching, Stella!
Thank you so very much Derek and Mahe for such an informative session. I live in South Carolina and miss Hawaii very much since my departure in 1990. After living there for 5 years and meeting my wife there and the birth of my daughter on Oahu the Aloha spirit has never left me. I may be a mainlander by location but my soul is there. In 2007 we started to travel back to the islands mostly Maui to refill my heart with Aloha. The most beautiful and serene part of Oahu that I remember most is Waianae to Makaha which I visit every time I come to Oahu. I watch numerous videos to stay connected and informed to the issues at hand in Hawaii. Thank you Mahe for your insightful assessment of education and what is most important for the keiki's that are born and raised in Hawaii. Mahalo for you both for sharing you message and Aloha.
Considering the fires in Maui! You guys Need to do an update on Maui! That island definitely needs to keep their history and their land despite the devastating loss of so much!
I revisited Hawaii in 2018 years later since 1984 and Hawaii was a totally different Hawaii! I missed all the greenery and beautiful trees that they removed to build so many buildings! Thank you for a great presentation!❤
The problem with beautiful areas like Maui, and even here in South Carolina along the coast the wealthy have bought up so much property and build so many expensive homes that they displaced a lot of the natural beauty. It’s really sad. I have lived down here for 12 years and the construction on some of the islands along the coast has expanded and replaced many beautiful properties that had trees flowers, different animals and etc.
@@seamcheck11As someone whobhas always lived in coastal communities this is true. There are many towns where you can no longer see the ocean because condos are blocking it.
@@seamcheck11 Are you a Communist or Environmentalist? That's Capitalist progress, bringing benefits to all, especially Red_______ and Hill____.
Real talk. This should be required viewing for anyone considering a move or just wants a personal viewpoint.
Thank you!! Trying to make it that way! Haha
My friend just had to leave Oahu her daughter got insanely sick. My heart breaks for Oahu. It's such a beautiful place with beautiful people.
My wife and I we miss Oahu. Only place we fit in perfectly. Food, culture, vibes... Respect people and you get respect back.
I don’t speak English well and can’t understand also very well but I liked this lady so much the way how she talk and her attitude ❤
Thank you for this. I think it’s brave to speak openly about the unspoken rules in Hawaii. Our perspective is enhanced if we end up living in mainland and then return after 20 years away…as I have. Unless you are born and raised here (no matter the ethnicity), one can never truly understand what was discussed in this video.
Aloha @teripinney7521
Having lived here 39 years, I really related to the vid, despite not being born & raised here. So many nuances were spoken of… it’s very helpful & should be required watching for anyone contemplating moving here!
I’d love to see a series of videos on ideas for fitting in (the first 1-2 years) after moving from the mainland for keiki, teens, parents of kids/teens (both fitting in themselves,and - separately - how they can help their kids/teens fit in depending on their areas of interest, single young adults/couples, middle age singles/couples, senior singles/couples, who want to be known & welcomed, year ‘round members of their local community on Oahu (even knowing that
they will never be “locals”) - and who are not one of those perfectly happy to be living in one of those bougie enclaves, isolated from real community (much as I’m sure you’re happy to collect commissions for home purchases in said enclaves, but those folks are probably not going to need to watch videos on “fitting in” because someone who’s spending $10-20 million on a house in Hawai’i, is likely used to using their $ to help them fit it with the crowd they wanna hang with … and if they aren’t, there are plenty of folks to help them figure it out).
I ask especially for us haoles who are of uncle/auntie age - who do want to fit in as much as we are able, to at least be welcomed as part of the diverse cultures that make up Hawai’i - and as ones who believe in the importance of keeping alive the culture of the indigenous people of these islands - haoles who have no interest in golfing, tennis, wine tasting & other bougie stuff … who will miss our ohana on mainland (especially the keiki), who 🎉want to protect the air/water/climate/all the planet for future generations … How can we best contribute to our community, so as to fit in - even when health/energy levels put limits on us.
Getting ready to just that from Maui, sharing my 22yr journey on assimilation with respect.
I just came back from my 1st trip to Hawaii! Absolutely fell in love with the people and places! Best 2 weeks of my life!!
I love the culture here in Hawai'i. Being born and raised here, i don't think any other place will compare for local food and the aloha spirit.
Agreed!
i feel so at home when im watching you guys, its been 10 years since ive been home and i feel so much nostalgia from watching your guys content, Im going in a couple of days to stay with my mom, so mahalo ♥🤙
Hi Derek, just wanted to say how much I love your content on moving to Hawaii. I visited the island in August for the very first time and loved it. I'm a realtor in New Jersey and your marketing style is very much like my own. I too point out the negatives, and my clients appreciate it. Keep up the good work.
From New Jersey to Hawaii, we just keep it real - address real concerns & answer real questions. Mahalo for watching, Michael.
I know! That is why I will choose him as my realtor for buying a place on O’ahu and then when I retire to Kaua’i I will use him again. He is so authentic and cool.
@@MokuleiaVibes We got you, Kristina!
I'm a Hawaiian born and raised in the SF Bay area . Even though my parents still spoke broken English and I was raised Hawaiian style , when I moved to Hawaii I had to go through the process , I have a lot of relatives who taught me the rules and because I look Hawaiian I didn't have the problems that my Haole friends had , This was really cool that you guys are teaching the people the cultures of Hawaii . Because believe it or not it might now be for everyone . lol . which to me is good because when I call you guys and let you know that I'm coming home . they'll be still some houses left . lol . Aloha you you guys , keep up the good work .
I been living in Hawaii for 10 years and i am black never had a problem . treat others with respect you get same in return .
Been living on the island for two and a half years, I’m white and my family is white and we’ve had problems. Give respect and you’ll get it back only works for non whites. White people are expected to bend over and take it no matter what. And this isn’t something that only comes from the Polynesians or the Hawaiians a lot of the issues we’ve had have been from the Asians. The Asian kids at my kids’ high school use the N word so much it’s unbelievable and there’s no recourse. The actual rule of Hawaii is that it’s perfectly fine to be racist as long as you are not white and it’s perfectly fine to hate white people. We’ve been called f-ing Haole just walking to our car in the parking lot. We didn’t have time to be “disrespectful.” We’ve had people in stores refuse to help us and the sick thing is this whole idea of “respect others and you’ll be respected” is what they hide behind to justify treating white people this way. We shouldn’t have to prove ourselves in order to avoid racism.
What island?
@@Retrochick330damn what island was this ??? Also make a video about your experiences . I’m assuming you’re not ignorant of the fact that they feel their living conditions were caused by merging with the US, in a way they probably feel like they’ve been colonized. Like this is the most expensive state in the US and they had to convert and leave their old ways to take on the was of the west .
I really appreciate how educational this channel is!
Best most accurate video I’ve ever seen about Hawaii.
Mahalo!
This has been one of the more informative videos I've seen about Hawaii. It's hard to find videos from people who aren't or weren't at one point outsiders. This really praises and explains the culture and way of life on the island. I feel like all the point in this video plays the biggest role in culture shock. Very glad I found this video and you guys specifically. It's honestly bringing a lot of relief to know these aspects I can expect during my move in the next month.
I don't like that Locals never include Mexicans when talking about all of the ethnicities that contributed to Hawaiian history, when Mexicans actually played a very big part in influencing Hawaiian culture. In the late 1700's, Hawaiian Royalty were gifted cattle but Hawaiians didn't know how to ranch and neither did any of the other ethnicities that were predominately field workers. Then in 1833 (nearly 200 years ago) King Kamehameha the 3rd brought Mexican vaqueros (or cowboys), from California (then part of Mexico) to Hawaii to train Hawaiians to be cowboys and ranchers. Those Mexican cowboys spoke Spanish, which is where the term “Paniolo” comes from. Over the next few decades more vaqueros came to Hawaii as ranches opened on all of the major islands. The vaqueros continued to introduce Mexican music (specifically guitar) and Mexican cuisine to Hawaiians. By the 1850s, a Paniolo subculture blending Mexican vaquero and Hawaiian traditions developed, and much of that Mexican culture remains in Hawaii till this day.
Your informative discretion I think speaks well of your intended professionalism. Well done team. Respect.❤
Thanks you, that’s means alot 🙏
That was a good Vlog. Having been stationed there, I got in good with the locals. Once you do that, living there is so much easier because you know about things that only locals will know about.
The civil unrest has always been peaceful when I have been involved. And it's people from all walks of life like you said... They are protesting the abuse of human rights, all humans. It's part of what I love about Hawaii.
I remember living near above those fuel tanks. I use to live in Moanalua Hillside Apartments on top of Redhill.
Had my share of stomach aches and skin rashes, that might have been due to the tainted water.
I just hope all that was affected or currently being affected, gets better and gets justice. 🙏🏽🤙🏽
As someone with Puerto Rican and Dominican roots you had me SOLD with rice. I would love to visit your beautiful island.
HUGE mahalo for these videos!! I first visited Hawaii in the 90's and something inside me changed and I've been trying to find a way to live there since. Career and keiki and all, you know. I felt actual grief and pain when I had to leave, and still do each time. Some day!
I love marrying into a Polynesian family. Moved from Wa to Big Island 5 years ago. Feels like home here! I found that I got along with all the cultures here just fine. I am half white and Mexican. Just have to be respectful and accepting of the way of life here, which I already had learned from our Samoan family. 🥰
I’m a teacher on the mainland - thank you for clarifying about the schools. The importance on culture and arts are what’s missing from most public schools over here. Too much is put on test scores.
I remember being part of May Day celebration in elementary school when I was younger. I loved that, practicing and then the day all the parents and friends came to watch and enjoy. Miss the family feeling there, it's not the same were we live now. We are heading back for a visit in a couple of weeks! Cannot wait to show my son, he's excited!!
May Day just finished, and it brought back so many feelings from elementary school. Times like this remind us why we’re lucky to live in Hawaii
Aloha Derek,
Mahalo for doing these videos. My wife and I fell in love with the islands 44 years ago on our honeymoon. We go back to the mainland to work and go home to the islands yearly.
You are so right about the differences in cultures yet you are one.
I know about the issues on those underground tanks, it’s bad. I listen to the Kolohe Krew daily while at work and it comes up on the news.
We’re not perfect knowing the cultures to fit in like we would like on our visits, but we want to learn to better respect the people and the mana. We want to understand better in hopes of someday moving their.
When on Ohau we go to New Hope and have experienced that joy, fun and respect of the comedy between the cultures.
Would you do some videos to educate those of us who want to learn. Our favorite island? The one we’re on at the time.
Mahalo, A hui hou
You guys are nothing short of amazing! I am very grateful for all the good advice and information 😊 Mahalo
I love you guys taking up for the schools. I love the community yall seem to have in schools that others need
My wife just got hired for job on Maui! Thanks for more information, always great to see your videos and learn something new. Mahalo.😎
Heyyy congrats!! Let’s connect. Mahe serves Maui for our team as she’s there regularly..or we can work through one of our Maui partners as well.
I love Hawaii and the Aloha spirit!! First time I visited Oahu was in 97, and I felt the Mana as soon as I landed. Fast forward to March 3rd, 2022 I came back to Oahu and the Mana is still alive and true (my first time back in 20+ years).On my first day there, I let my bare feet touch the sand and I looked up at the stars and grounded myself…ahhh the feeling was so ethereal, so pure. I truly feel Hawaii is a sacred place both the land, and the people. I will always have love and respect for Hawaii Nei ❤️
Thank you for speaking about the Hawaii school system! I love that you brought up that it’s more than just test scores…there are other ways to value and celebrate our children. Speaking truth!!
You are so welcome!
Born and raised here. Yes discrimination is alive and well here. It has gotten better over the recent years. It’s just something you need to accept. Not condoning it, you just understand how it is and try to not take it too personally. I’ve had a lot of horrible things said and done to me because on the surface I’m white and don’t speak pidgin or have the local inflection. Maybe because I’m older, I don’t let it get to me. As soon as someone finds out that I’m from here and who my family is, I’m welcomed with open arms. Sucks that the wall is up until this gets disclosed. Hawaii is home. It’s hard to make it here. It’s sad that kamaaina have to leave in order to live a comfortable life. It doesn’t have to be this way. Our leaders have no vision for real change. The system is too entrenched. Gotta go along because no one wants to make waves.
Gotten better? No, it got worse… Ask any Micronesian
4:24 Mahe’s words remind me of Standing Rock. It wasn’t a protest. They were (and are) protecting the Water. For all of us.
As a person from Saipan, Northern Marianas, if ever I move to Hawaii it will not be a culture shock. The way Derek and Mahe described the social norms in Hawaii is basically the same if not similar to norms here in the Northern Marianas and Guam from having respect towards one another, bringing something to an event even though the host says "oh no we got it, just come," having rice for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, and the whole not eating the last piece. It is very interesting to see the same norms found across Pasifika.
Love your channel, very informative. I lived
Aiea Heights in the 80s for 3 years while in the military. I grew up in Guam and our cultures are very similar, very family oriented, respect, and the aloha spirit. Now that my wife and I are retired we plan on visiting real soon. Keep up the good work.
Mahalo
Par, Hafa?! Taya ret rice over here tho..
your video is such a fresh breath of air and information! this is what we wanna hear, from local perspective and their way of lives :) it's amazing !
Mahalo Trang.
Well I buy all of my meat organic from the Kualoa ranch (it's not just where Jurassic world was filmed it's actually a working Ranch)... Price is fairly decent too. I buy as much produce as I can from the Farmers market near my home twice a week. I feel like there are opportunities to buy fresh food here you just have to look for them.
I have just finished watching this and I love it, this is exactly what I want somebody to tell me about Hawaii tell me the ugly tell me the good tell me the culture all of that stuff. I found this very informative and have become interested in researching the history of way. There are a lot of travel agencies I bet that would not put any of this information or realtors selling property to statesidePotential buyers of real estate. I think this is what every state should have a video like this going to watch more of your videos thank you
Aloha Derek ! I’ve been enjoying your videos lately. I am a Local Boy who moved from home 26 years ago. I miss home every day, and hopefully someday if I can afford it, move back. Keep up da good work Bruddah ! 🤙🏽🤙🏽🤙🏽
You guys have done the best job of explaining! My wife’s born and raised big island and I have been there for 17 years you nailed it!
Glad to hear your feedback!
Alot of what you're saying relating to culture sounds like having a healthy amount respect for people and culture. This is easy for me to understand as my middle eastern background and off the boat family place respect for elders, guests, people etc at the center of their being. Now I can understand why some mainlanders might have some difficulty assimilating bc my mom didn't think any of my American friends came into our home with the requisite respect she would expect.
There isn’t any other video that hits all of the highlights about Hawaii than this video. Well done. Let’s not forget that moving to the right lane doesn’t exist on island! 🤙🏽
We give a nod up to say "what's up/hello" in Philly too.
Y'all are some real ones and speak the truth. Went to Oahu for the first time with the wife and kids for my wife and I 10 year anniversary. Went there not knowing... Then experiencing... Then in tears after feeling the struggles there... Wife and I considered staying there for a year or two with the kids to learn the culture... Otherwise just subscribed and looking forward to watching more videos. Love infinite! ❤
Aloha Derek and Mahe, and mahalo for all the great content you are putting out here. I am so glad I found this channel… top notch info in a very authentic delivery. Very accurate and reliable. I’ve lived both on the North Shore, just north of Sunset Beach in Pupukea (Huelo St) and also over west side in Waianae (top of Waianae Valley Rd on the J-Diamond Ranch). Your videos and information have been spot on… and I don’t think you can emphasize enough the importance of “respect” as a critical part of everyday life on the island. I am still about 2 1/2 years away from my return “home”, but I will definitely look to you as a first choice resource as that time becomes more imminent. I truly enjoy your videos and I hope all who view them will acknowledge and respect the quality of the information you are disseminating… so much value to those who don’t know. An added tip for those seeking the island life… “leave the mainland on the mainland”… please don’t go to Hawaii and try to change it to feel more like where you came from… that’s not what it’s about. Again, thank you both… stay safe and God bless 🤙🏼
Aloha Jeffrey, mahalo for sharing such a personal message with us. As you know, these islands are so unique and have so many nuances that visitors and newcomers may find challenging. All we can do as locals is share and educate as much as possible in hopes that they will feel comfortable enough to absorb Hawaii’s rich culture. Everyone is different, and those who can embrace difference tend to do better than those who resist difference.
And you said it, it all comes down to respect.
Feel free to reach out anytime, Jeffrey! Our contact information is listed in video description.
This is really insightful and all true’. You guys did an excellent job in verbalizing all the subtleties of Hawaii’
Appreciate your feedback! Mahalo for watching
Great, great video! Greetings from Cambodia. First one I've seen of you guys. You've got a new subscriber. Made me laugh out loud when you said "North Shore Foodland." So many times I've been there. Happy I knew EXACTLY what you meant. I lived in Hawai'i twice for a total of 9 years. Waianae offered the best of my experiences there. People just want to know you're sincere and respectful. I mostly served Samoan and Hawaiian kids as a teacher and volunteer and created three Hawaiian-English books for the children I hope have helped over the years. Okay, starting to reminisce too much, but wanna thank you for this video I enjoyed watching while eating breakfast in Siem Reap, Cambodia. Aloha.
I am originally from Peru living in Los Angeles, California for 40 years. Although the two states are different (CA & HI), there are lots of similarities regarding issues with density in cities, water, traffic, high prices in rentals (housing), high cost of living, taxes. Growing up in Peru taught me to be respectful of my elders and others. I also went to school there (fortunately). I love Oahu and would move there in a heartbeat! I understand the challenges but the island, its people, and the culture are very special. I am a true believer that one we come to new places we should bring our own gifts to make the place better for the community.
Your video was interesting…
key word "RESPECT" that's a big word and can go a long way
I learn some things. "Pono" will be a regular part of my vocabulary.
We just came back from Honolulu and we both fell in love with the area. We were there for a week with six friends and truly enjoyed our time there but one thing you said really stands out to me. You said nobody honks their car horn in a "lay on the horn" kind of way. We had rented a van and while driving in the north shore area, someone in a very large pick-up truck "laid on the horn" until we pulled off the road to get away. The speed limit was 35, so that wasn't the problem but I thought it was very strange.
I was born and raised in Honolulu and left in 1953. I left Hawaii to pursue a career in high tech and never returned except for visits. Hawaii has changed drastically since I left, but you can say that to just about every place.
Your caption should read “Moving to or living in Oahu.” The other Islands do not apply to what you are saying. Loved this all the same!
I could watch and hear you talk all day every day❤ I’m a Hawaiian at heart… been off island for 3 years and need, must get back home❤
Hey guys, just heard the part about the school. I am a teacher that has transplanted here from NYC 8years ago. Hawaii has some of the toughest standards. We push our kids to achieve. If you think of the demographics, 1/4 of the students on island are military. Ever 3-4 years they pcs. That mean when national test come, those kids typically have moved on. And we get Mainland kids who don't understand the system. Oh, I hear often from parents that they've heard Hawaii schools are a joke. But after a month or two, they don't know how to keep up with the rigor. The parents don't know how to keep up with the rigor. Kids coming from Georgia, are still working on single digit edition, and the second grade, and are still spelling CVC words, student don't know how to write. Our standards here are exceptional. Hawaii is an amazing state to have your kids in school. But I'm biased because I'm a teacher. Our kids are special.
Beautiful. Thank you for this comment. I am going to share your sentiments regularly. My wife is also a teacher and she couldn’t wait to come home and teach in Hawaii. What area do you teach in and what grade level?
She is so gorgeous. Her bone structure and eyes.
Just found you guys! I grew up in Kaneohe and am now living in the Midwest. Homesick now. Craving the grinds! Thanks for your videos!
I love the openness of the discussion. Thank you both. I've been visiting Hawaii once a year since 2009. I recently visited Kaua'i a week ago, as always I had a blast. My wife and I are considering and praying buying a home in OAHU. Keep up the great work! I've learned a lot.
Mahalo for the feedback! We aim to assist people like you and your wife - those who respect Hawaii’s one-of-a-kind nature and regularly tap in to the community here. Oahu has the most buying options and I’m sure we can find a fit for you and your wife. Let’s connect!
@@movingtohawaii I have your info saved, once my wife and I are ready, will most def hit you up! I'll keep in touch. Mahalo!
We'll be here for you. Mahalo!
It's so true I haven't heard an angry horn in the last 2 years that I lived here except when I've had to go back to the mainland. I also haven't seen anyone flip anyone else off. I love to stay so much I want to help protect it and like I have said many times before... I know that I'm never going to truly be considered a local, but I do want to be considered a neighbor and friend you can count on.
I really enjoy this video! My boyfriend and I just got an apartment in Red Hill, we’ve been here about a week. I appreciate your sharing and teaching of Hawaiian words and phrases. Discussion of local topics that may not be covered in the news or widely talked about was enlightening. I’m only halfway through the video so far, I just wanted to share my appreciation for this video. Also, where are you guys eating?
Glad to hear you and your boyfriend are getting situated here on Oahu, Latisha. As you know, in our Neighborhood Tour videos we try to include a Hawaiian Word Of The Day. In general, though, we always try to include Hawaiian (and local - there's a difference) words and phrases you're likely to come across living here. Mahe and I are eating at The Shack Mililani.
Aloha Derek! Been watching all your videos the last few days as me and my wife will be pcsing there in early March. Appreciate all that you do! Your content has been super helpful and honest and we can’t wait to experience all of these things organically!
Congrats on orders to Hawaii! Where will you guys be?
Love your content. You really highlight so many important things to know on the real real. Appreciate yous. 👍🏽🤙🏽
Aloha from Bay Area, love the content, lots of info. You stir up alot of memories growing up on Kauai. Mele Kalikimaka to you and the family, Mahalo🤙🏾
Mahalo for your comment. Where are you in the Bay?
@@movingtohawaii I live in San Leandro, I know you had ties in Oakland. I'm the who may be moving there, and looking in the Kaphulu area.
Hi Derek, love your channel been to Honolulu in the 90's. You have Bayarea ties/Oakland ties? I'm a Oakland native and want to go back to Hawaii 🤎
Same here but grew up in Pittsburg but was raised in Keihei Maui . 80 -92 what a time to live in Hawaii I'm indigenous American and was treated way different from haoli's I was treated good by the locals but not so good from main landers. Greatest time of my life.
Excellent! Spent 5 years in the 90's working at TAMC lived in Eva Beach and other locals...and your take on customs and mores is "right-on-the-money". Really enjoyed hearing what I experienced...thanks for your efforts! MAHLO!
YES I remember doing all the performances from K-12.
I went to Kalani HS with Weldon Kekauoha for one year.
He was a Sr & I was a Freshman, we were in CHORUS class together. He always sang like an Angel.
He entered BrownBags and he won first place for our school. I don’t remember if he took down BrownBags, but I wouldn’t be surprised. Look at him now.
May Day is such a beautiful part of living in Hawaii, isn't it ☺
Wish you guys would explain the Jone's Act and how it influences high prices.
Most accurate video I’ve ever seen about Hawaii.
We miss anything?
Just got married in Kauai last week and found this channel. Perfect timing 🤙🏼
What many locals don't know about horn honking is that there is actually a law in Hawaii against it. We don't use our horns much here so it's not a problem and most people don't even know about it. Sec. 15-19.27 Horns and warning devices, the law states, “The driver shall, when reasonably necessary to ensure safe operation, give audible warning with his or her horn; but shall not otherwise use such horn when upon a highway.” It made the news Feb 2018 a woman received a $72 dollar fine for honking. Very rare occurrence.
Aside from Oahu maybe, locals commonly honk their horns as they pass someone’s home, or see someone from a distance, as saying hello. Just don’t “hold” the horn… a quick “toot, toot” is aloha. Hold the horn, and it could be an issue.
Just found your video, (sub’ed) been gone for 20+ years, and love RUclips, been able to finally keep in touch in away. This one video touched on so much memories, thanks. First one I’ve ever heard mention Bu La’ia (even though brief), was there he he ran for Governor 😜, always wondered what happened to him? But Mahalo for this, made my day, going to spend the day checking your other ones and will wait to see what’s next. Aloha 🤙🏼❤️🤠
Aloha ! You guys are the best ! Just moved here 6 month ago and we love the island the culture and the people. Mahalo for the very insight info .
Just be cool when you go there. Cherish and respect the land, sea and people. Mahalo for the video❤
This is the best Hawaii channel.
Mahalo for the positive comment!!
I remember going to one party. 7 People brought mac-salad. We just laughed it off and enjoyed the party. Manini problem.
Thanks for being so honest. I have been considering taking a job on Hawaii. I will take all this into consideration.
Lol! Heck yeah I wanna see a pigeon video! You guys rock! Yall were spot on! I've been here 5 yrs and you were spot on. Great work guys!
We shot it! Check it out: ruclips.net/video/xKvT2-F1-2Q/видео.html
Hearing that my pension will not be taxed is great news! As my time on this planet winds down, I hope to be able to, if not permanently, at least a good ten years or so retire on Maui. My wife and I fell in love with that island in 2001. I knew about the property taxes being lower. I pay $14,000 per year on Long Island in New York. Selling my split level house will probably equate to buying a small two bedroom condo. However, the HOA kind of eats up what is left over from the lower property taxes.
Aloha, Dennis. Based on the feedback from those we've helped, we can say that a Maui retirement is definitely worth the HOA fees. Are amenities and community leaning you towards condo living? Is a one-story home with a backyard garden and an ocean view your thing?
@@movingtohawaii Been taking care of a home for 30 years. Done with that! Small two bedroom condo will be what we look for. Probably Kihei area. Timing will depend on my job. Two years minimum, five max. Most likely somewhere in the middle.
@@kofd04 On to the next chapter! I see, well if you'd like to get the ball rolling feel free to fill out the contact form on our website and we can be your boots on the ground in the meantime!
First time watcher. So awesome!! Loved it. You two are great. My girlfriend lived there for nearly 40 years and told me a lot of what you said. We hope to return some day to stay. Mahalo.
Aloha, Jack. The islands are awaiting your return! Mahalo for watching our channel. Mahe just posted a new video on condo living in Honolulu in the Ward Village area - a place some of our returning-home-after-a-long-time-away-from-home clients are considering. Have a look and let us know what you think: ruclips.net/video/C_pRSfbrLLM/видео.html
You guys are the best!! I always learn so much that is all worth knowing. Mahalo for every video.
Mahalo Grace! Let’s connect!
Definitely some good stuff to know. Considering the water and pollution issues. I can see why security...which I would rather not do again as a job...is looking for new employees. Not to mention the rate of pay in some security positions are rather enticing. Nonetheless, I don't think I would have to many issues in Hawaii after I get moving all settled. I live a solo middle class lifestyle on the southeast coast, US. I predict it will probably be an incredible rough start rebuilding my lifestyle, but I think Hawaii is a place I could get used to.
The highest hurdle for people relocating to Hawaii is the cost of living. Compared to most of the nation, creating and maintaining a lifestyle here in Hawaii is a heavy lift. Especially if you're coming from a place where your dollar can stretch further. However, once you establish a lifestyle, Hawaii is an amazing place to call home.
@@movingtohawaii I can definitely imagine. I will check out your website soon and try to find a good time to reach out to you that will work for both of us figuring in the time difference.
I just just came back from 4 weeks on the Waianae, living here in Apple Valley, Minnesota. Going through cold weather shock. Wishing I was with you. I go to the the Rest Camp every year. Counting down the months. Keep making the videos. Aloha.
I think this is the first video I wanted to give 2 thumbs up to. Thank you for your sharing. :)
Mahalo Joseph
I love your video/information/advice.
My family is slowly moving to Hawaii. My brother and kids have been there for 10 years. My parents are moving next month and my son is coming in 6 months. My wife and I next year. All to the big island, Hilo area.
Got to say, many of the things you mentioned are good things to us. I can't wait to move.
I've spent
I'm still coming. I'm your new mailman, like it or not ☺
Thanks for your insights not often talked about on other sites. We will put them to good use when we arrive in April! Mahalo
Aloha, Richard. We try to address real concerns and answer real questions. Fill out our contact form on our website if you'd like to connect and set up your move in April. Mahalo for watching
Go back to the mainland, please.
Out of all the videos I watch YOURS is the best💯
That means a great deal to us, Sisi. Mahalo for watching!
Coming from Hawaii and now living on the 9th Island, videos like yours really makes me appreciate where I am from. Mahalos for the solid video 🤙🤙
GREAT WEBSITE. GOD BLESS HAWAII.. MAUI STRONG.
Long time ago I remember lot of high school kids used to work at the pineapple canneries during summer. I loved it because there were so many friendly and cute wahines. One summer I worked there I met 4 wahines that I ended up going out with.
Good Stuff! At the end of the day Respecting the lands and creating a balanced in life is what is important. Part of me wants to implement a standard of acceptance for these islands. For example its unfortunate that EVERYONE is allowed to visit or live on the island as its a sacred place on this earth and is to be respected. Many come with bad habits and throw their trash around like its someone else's problem and THAT is called lack of responsibility. People will keep coming to these island and I think the focus should be on people who can actually contribute to the land and maintain its natural life. People who have a mind set of creating, building and preserving should be accepted and those who are just consumers should not. Gardening, biodiversity, respecting wildlife are just very few to mention even things such as offering solar systems at a discounted rate here would help people who aren't so fortunate become more self sustaining. We are moving the the big island soon for many reasons but just to mention a couple. Getting away from the city life, being able to grow fruits, vegetables and much more our current desert cannot sustain, peace a quiet, clean air, quality farmers markets that I would choose any day over a large super market. Mahalo Nui Loa, for the video and exposing some reality. Like you said its never Right or WRONG its about balance. Balance can only be had if ambition and will power are present.
Sometimes the comment section can provide even more insight than the video, and this is a prime example. Mahalo for sharing such a thorough and personal experience, Roma! I especially like your idea of offering solar systems at adjusted rates to match the end-users demographic. Also, the Big Island lifestyle is something that on of our team members has been seriously considering for similar reasons that you mention. Wishing you and your family balance and happiness moving forward!
To know more about the Puerto Rican community in Hawaii. My Korean husband and I (Puerto Rican) will possibly be moving to HI. A little nervous about that, but I feel that having lived in Puerto Rico it shouldn’t be that different.
Depends what part. Aguadilla, San Juan, isla verde, mayaguas?
@@movingtohawaii I lived mostly in Carolina, some time in Rio Grande and the fam is mostly from Arecibo. I see you’re familiar? My husband is applying for Hawaiian Airlines. So I’m sure that should be taken into consideration. We have a cocker spaniel child, I’m sure that’ll make things harder!
@@elbacosme if you’re renting it’ll make things way harder. If you’re buying it only matters in certain condo areas
So interesting! Things you never think about. Thank you for your videos. Very informative! 8:35
Woke is woke, but it's always better to be Awake. 2 completely different things, and I'm not woke, I'm Awake. Much Love and Aloha 🤙🏼
That was a great video. Thank you for sharing.