Relationship Problems? 5 Ways to Figure Out What's Wrong (Christian Relationship Counseling)
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- Опубликовано: 15 окт 2024
- Do you feel like you need Christian relationship counseling? How can you find the real problem in the relationship? How can you find the real problem in your heart that keeps ruining your relationships? Here are 5 questions to ask yourself if you feel like you need some Christian relationship counseling.
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SUMMARY:
1a. When do i get defensive (triggering a wound inside of you) Why?
1b. What wound am i trying to protect myself from?
2. When dangerous pattern behaviours happen in my life - drinking etc. What trigger these addictive behaviours?
3. What do you avoid thinking about? That’s a root problem that you need to fix. (Eg. hard conversations/ social circles etc)
4. What annoys you about other people/ the other party/ your partner? (Eg. ticked off by prideful people - usually because you have pride in you and you’re annoyed that the other person is prideful too; what you don’t like about yourself, you dislike it when you see it in someone else)
5. Solution counselling: If i woke up tomorrow and my life is better, i would look like - (imagine that) - know what your end goal looks like. and from there figure out what’s stopping you from getting there.
Wow! You just got me thinking and I realized something about myself I never knew before. Thank you!
So glad this was helpful God's Original
Really interesting tips especially the last one
So glad they were helpful :)
Great method of self-analysis and to help someone that wants to see clearly the root problem of the situation.
Thanks Rose Morales
ooohh mark, kudos, you went deep. great job man, keep that awesome content coming. 😊
Thanks GodsWordSaves 7
this is one of the most useful videos on youtube ever. thanks Mark.
Hey Mark, good video! I like that you have been giving us recommended books that you have found helpful. Its a great resource.
Also, I bought your books- the ultimate guide to singleness and how to find the one and I'm going to read them soon. I just wanted to let you know 🙂
Thanks for the feedback! And I hope you enjoy the books :)
Awesome video! Thank you! (: I would love to see a video on how to recover after you’ve been cheated on in a relationship.
Mark, i absolutely love your chanel, i have been learning a lot about your videos, if i may give y opinion, you should talk more about the end times, the second comming is near
And i would like to know your opinion about the YT chanel Aoc Network, i understand if you can not reply but i would appreciate if you do, God Bless
Fantastic advice 👍😊
So glad it was helpful!
Hello Mark!
Hi! 👍
Hey uh, can somebody please help me with this? There's this girl I like which my friends are telling me not to pursue. She seems like a good girl, so what should I do?
LxG3ND Loading So have you said it yet?😄
Have you ever lost a loved one!? like your mom!?!? obviously not otherwise you would've never made that statement on your video. about your life would be better if you Stopped grieving!!
Hi Maite, I think Mark's example was to show how an underlying cause can creep into other areas of our lives and cause problems. In my opinion, he was not dismissing the tragedy of losing a loved one but was simply showing a that loss could be affecting the person in the scenario.The test for the underlying cause is for the individual to ask "What would make my life better" he wasn't saying that if the person in the scenario stopped grieving their life would be better. That test is for the individual going through a hard time to see what is bothering them the most and sometimes the answer of what would make their life better might be a hard thing to get.
10:18 Mark said "I dont know you just told me 4 REALLY BIG problems"
Mark was not mocking the loss of a loved one.
Mark said at 10:17 " You just told me 4 really huge problems"
Mark was not mocking the loss of loved one.
then he gave advice with "miracle" question (notice word miracle, so he didnt say those problems are small) and then he said that that question will help person identify what is the biggest issue such as a loss of loved one then he gives advice that person should work on that issue - that's reasonable thing to do. we are supposed to work on these issues. all of us will meet when Jesus comes back...it wont be too long until that happens...
I am saying this to you in order to clarify that in my estimation Mark wasnt mocking but rather giving advice how to handle difficult situation which is rare ( many youtubers dont talk about important topics at all)
your life will be better with time. you will heal with time but please give yourself a chance to do so. God call heal you go to God