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I often see Fe people misinterpret Fi perspective in this way. 😉 What Fi says: "I wouldn't sell my soul." = Trying to be respectful. Using "I wouldn't" instead "people shouldn't" to communicate that everyone might be different and have a different experience and/or perception of the world. Maybe other people like this kind of job and it fulfills them. Maybe they have no better options. So they try to say "I personally wouldn't, and I mean it as a suggestion of what might or might not work for you, because you are a different person. I'm not saying anything about you - you choose what is best for you, might be the opposite of me!". How Fe interprets it: "I wouldn't sell my soul." = Omg, the Fi people always talk about themself. I, I, I... Any topic comes up, they always make it about themselves. "What I feel, what I would do in this situation, what I would buy..." They always think they are better than everyone else!

I lost you on this video buddy. INFJ and 55 yrs Male. My soul is worth everything. You are coming from your USA perspective that money and commerce is everything. I disagree on this one. But I still appreciate your point and still subscribed and look some your videos. Happy New Year's and Much Love to all!!❤

It's totally what an INTJ could say. A softer way to say it : "I will not do a job, that will detach me from my authenticity again. I don't want to loose myself again. I will not compromise my happiness, well-being, mental-health & fulfillment again. I realized that this kind of job don't correspond with me anymore. I realized that my place is not in society anymore, but somewhere else." By "soul", they mean : authenticity or self. I think these persons, could have given you a chance, give it a try. If we take a same company and change the persons inside, it can be totally different and more agreeable to work, than if it was with the previous persons. Maybe this person had an awakening or realization, and is on the spiritual path, and maybe not destined to work in a company anymore. I totally get it, I have at least 2 INTJ friends like this, and I am like this too. It's about find our role, purpose, mission or job, that is more aligned with ourselves. I can understand these persons are fed-up to do jobs that don't correspond to them, that they have more potential (especially of they are gifted/multi potential), or want to be treated better, more respected, listened, don't want to serve others anymore, that their way of doing can be better, don't want to sacrifice a part of themselves, authenticity anymore to lie or fake. We can't do like everyone, we can't be like everyone, our brain, mind or functioning just don't fit to most of places/companies. (Most neurodivergents and INTJ for example) That we can do better and so much more with our competences. Our mind, our functioning, our Ni realized that we deserve better, or can do better, that there is a better place that will correspond to us more. Our intuition, told us it's not our place anymore in society, an inner knowing. No one can be totally independent, we all need each other, we always work/collaborate together as a whole in a way or another on this planet or universe. For me everyone is equal, no soul is more worthy than another, but when we have a very neurodivergent brain/functioning, are gifted, we may arrive at a point we can do so much more with our potential. Also we can become depressed, feel empty if we don't do something we like. In a compromise, one do a self-sacrifice to please to the other. In collaboration, no sacrifice, both are happy. Maybe there is always a little dose of compromise, self-giving in every job/activity, because we all function together on this planet, we all serve others, the whole humanity in a way or another. No matter the job, I think we always put a part of our soul in what we do, or to serve others. 💙 It's about finding a balance, not give/sacrifice too much, to not loose our authenticity and self. We all give & take each others energy, it's life, it's functioning together. Edit : I am happy to see you keep making videos, great topic. I hope you are doing well, I wish the best to you and your family.

I am an INTJ (4w3) and my friend is an ISTJ. Our relationship began at school when I pretended to be an extrovert and invaded her space. At first she was confused, then she started laughing too. She is very stylish and loves heels, while I usually dress in black and wear sports shoes. She used to really dislike walking. I would take her to trusted places to convince her that sometimes it is worth moving. Now she walks even more than I do and started counting steps. In school, she was more spontaneous. I usually have everything planned in such a way that I can do everything in the shortest time possible (my ESFJ mother still doesn't know how I manage in an hour what takes her at least three times as long). We also differ in terms of food - she prefers to buy something in town because it's a waste of time, while I always made myself breakfast for school. Another difference is our approach to duty, promise and memory of wrongdoing. She will do even the worst job to get it over with. I have the soul of a rebel and if I see exploitation, I strike. She forgets promises made quite quickly, she simply doesn't attach much importance to them. If I promise something, I try to keep that promise. As for the memory of wrongdoing - she easily forgets and simply waves her hand, I usually try to do the same, but if the situation repeats itself, I will remember and put it on the so-called blacklist (people on this list cannot count on any help from me for the rest of their days). Hmmm... What else... We're both stubborn as mules, but I guess I am even more so since I'm the only one in the group she will submit to (don't worry, it's nothing strange or dangerous, just a normal New Year's Eve story).

re: email/memo style, LOVE IT! My work emails look like: BLUF: Paint Santa's slay RED by COB Monday ( give exact date ) SCEANRIO // TASKER: 1. Santa's slay painted 2. Use color RED #9834 3. Tasker to be completed by; COB on Monday, XX JAN XX BLUF is short for Bottom Line Up Front COB is short for Close of Business

If someone I don’t really know is driving, I’m not gonna lie, I’d be a little uncomfortable. Like, anything could go wrong and here I am, handing my life over to someone I barely know....

No don't hire them, especially if the boss is insecure. They’re gonna intimidate the other coworkers, even if they don’t mean to. It ALWAYS happens, I repeat... A-L-W-A-Y-S, no matter where they work. And it’ll come as a surprise because they’re so quiet that the colleagues didn’t even notice they were there... at least until you drop the INTJ bomb. Oh yeah, enjoy the chaos! If you're feeling threatened, well, that’s your problem for being insecure, lol. And that's okay, they’re used to it. If you’re lucky, they might even send you a sweet emoji so you don’t feel threatened... while secretly whispering in their heart, "Really?"

Dan Hentschel is probably an estp

Ewww, Kristin 🤮 She's passive aggressive

I was typed by Truity as ENTJ and I only make 50K USD. I would make more money if I could separate myself from stupid people long enough to get some runway.

no i believe in that hierarchy of intelligence. think about it, what intjs do is system thinking, architecture, as a whole.. i think it is in the top of the hierarchy of intelligence but for sure all that doesnt mean we can do everything better than others. system thinking is a gift, i believe few system thinkers are the people who made path to human evolution in any given point in time, and that doesnt mean other intelligent types are less, all we can think of, all of that data, the knowledge is produced by all different intelligences, and this train of though comes from being a intj humble person. intj are generally cocky

INFJ subtle fave word: “potential” in things/ppl

Like the woman i hoped to see in the title band

Prof. Sam Vaknin opines that psychology is not a science and that Fjodor Dostojewski (the famous Russian fiction author) was the finest psychologist thus far. I agree. Understanding humanity isn't a mattter of measurements and instruments and I find the notion it could rather laughable.

Pff. I've met so many INTJs who are green envious of my lifestyle as an ISTJ because I get to do stuff and their overthinking, sorry, "planning" doesn't allow them to do stuff like attending concerts or travelling LOL

I'm an INTJ-Enneagram SX5. I became a Christian nearly 15 years ago. I became a Christian because God delivered me and revealed Himself to me. God has always revealed Himself to me through Jesus and the Bible. The 15 years have been wonderful. It is difficult to imagine my life before. I spend everyday with Jesus. I cannot, and do not wish to, get through my days without the Holy Spirit's voice and presence. If you're reading this and you don't know Jesus, don't waste any time. Don't waste a femtosecond. Don't worry about what you'll have to give up. I gave up nearly everything. I changed my entire life drastically. I lost nearly every friend of that former life and there were many. What you lose, you'll realize had nothing to do with the real you. What you'll gain is God Himself-the best, bravest, strongest, most loving person there is who knows you inside and out, and you'll gain the REAL you. The REAL YOU. The you which comes from that part deep at the core which will never change no matter who or what in your life does change. The you that existed in the mind of God as a complete idea before the foundation of the world itself. Don't you want to see yourself how God sees you? You can. He will bring that you into being. It is His work, and praise Him forever, it is a work of unfathomable love. God will SURPRISE you with His love! He will SHOCK you year after year with His heart for you! He will BAFFLE you with His mercy! You will be utterly confounded to realize such a perfect love can exist FOR YOU! Seek Him earnestly and do not be afraid to give up whatever He demands. Run to give it up! Race to drop whatever it is into the abyss of your past, never to be picked up again! He will call on EVERYONE to give things up. He will continually bring you change. The change will never be complete until He completes it on the day He transforms you by His grace into the image of His own likeness in His perfect Son, but the change will be great because He is. Does that sound like religious puffery? Once you meet God, it won't.

Introverted Intuition (Ni) is Strategic SORCERY... ... ... as the world has of yet to know our secret. Carl Jung was very very close. I'm fed up with Ni's overactive imagination and all off its "Could be"...as well as feeling out of body every moment of the day...but, I obsess over its strategy. Being a WIZARD is interesting...and unsettling.

Life is so much more interesting when you realize that everything was created by an eternal mind that is so much more powerful, intelligent, wise and creative than you can possibly imagine. I look at everything in creation with the sort of awe and appreciation that an art connoisseur has when he looks at his favorite painting, sculpture, etc. I'm in awe and deeply appreciate both the artwork of the universes we live in and the artist who created them. God created all humans. We are His masterpiece. He made everything in such interesting and complex ways from the atomic level right up to the galactic level. That includes us humans. We are a masterpiece of design that is endlessly fascinating. The fact that we can be fascinated by the world around us - both the way it is naturally and by the ways we can alter it to express our own creativity - and don't just go through the motions of existing the way that the other creatures do is a miracle in itself. We'll never fully understand everything. Even the things we have thought we understood fully at one point in history turned out not to be quite right and were disproven later on. Everyone has faith in something or someone. I've been let down by everything that I've tried to have faith in at some point in my life except God. What is interesting about MBTI and other personality theories is that they are human attempts to develop systems or models for trying to simplify something that is incredibly complex like human personality enough that many people can talk with each other about and attempt to understand it. I forget who, but I think someone once said that it is ironic that one of the hardest things in the world to understand is our own brains. I love studying just about anything and the more complex and difficult to figure out that it is, the better. I was raised in a Christian home and neighborhood, so it's my culture. Even after going to a four year college and studying natural resource management, which is a rather holistic study of all of the natural sciences and their practical applications in almost any human endeavor - mining, farming, forestry, gardening, landscaping, wildlife habitat restoration, city planning etc. etc., I continue to be a Christian because Christianity and Judaism are fascinating things to study. Also, the Judeo Christian worldview is indeed compatible with science and is a valid 'lens' if you will for looking at the world. Everyone looks at the world through the lens of their culture and beliefs. Even atheists have a belief system and worldview that effects how they see the world. It's wonderful, Kristin, that people have been so understanding and respectful to you. That's great. I love how you explain your faith in this video. I'm glad to see it. Thank you so much, Joe, for having this interview and sharing it with us! I really appreciate it. All of the books of the Bible are wonderful in their own way, but some are easier and more enjoyable to read than others. Leviticus isn't honestly a page turner, but I do enjoy reading Corinthians.

I’d never question a leader’s competence or authority for making a single mistake or not “being as smart as I am”. I question it when someone is given authority in an area they have no experience/education in or understanding of and then dismiss me as wrong without being able to communicate why or how. If my role requires 10 years of experience as a subject matter expert and you’re appointed as a supervisor and come in with no experience and completely unrelated background and all you have is authority to throw around while also being short sighted and dismissive, you’re probably incompetent. If you’re dictating processes you can’t explain or don’t understand to someone who’s perfected their craft and you ignore their input or feedback, you’re probably incompetent. If you don’t understand what my role is or how it relates to the overall goal, yet you’re blindly answering arrogantly making decisions about my role, you’re probably incompetent. If I point out a preventable or avoidable error and you dismiss me until it blows up in your face, you’re probably incompetent. Basically: if you’re a barber who’s trying to tell the tax attorney you hired that they’re wrong about the area of tax law, you’re off base.

A child is an amalgamation of two peoples pairing and theoretical love child/ passion baby . Why would i put such a precious creature in this world? 😅 I also like planned well thought out decisions

i feel exposed... but needed to hear it [ :( ]

24:15 ISTP “the monk” Standing on a hilltop doing Se movements, they understand it and also so instinctive about it, can be cold and calculating, can do some things super well.

ISTJ here. I agree with some of Jungs theories that are incompatible with faith, because I find him more credible than the bible.

possibly if you used less filler sounds and feelings

Se is extremely important. Se is showing your direct reports that you're mentally there during 1:1s, side conversations, or when they vent about an issue so they know that they're being heard. Se is when you take the heat off of them when talking to people higher level than them so they know you got their back. Se is making a huge deal about their accomplishments 1:1 or in front of other people so they feel like their work has meaning. Se is always having an upbeat attitude when they talk to you so that they don't feel like an idiot asking you a question or that they feel like they belong. Se is making them feel heard and that they care. Of course you can use other functions to do the same but Se has a warmth to it that other functions don't.

I'm an INTJ and my boyfriend is also an INTJ and I wanna have children with him in the future 😂 and he also agrees having kids after marriage

Managing by Expectations is how I'd envision myself to operate (for the most part) once I have that level of power over others. It just makes more sense to prioritize the solution of a problem than to attempt to dictate the procedure. Micromanagement is hard to justify in most cases. I have had personal doubts about Elon being an INTJ, just from superficial assessment. The way he goes about being a boss is questionable. There's an apparent carelessness (and callousness) that I find antithetical to the type.

Yeah, IDGAF about the minute details of menial tasks. What matters is that it gets out of the way as soon as possible whenever I get around to deciding to finally undertake it. *I* decide the procedure according to my best judgment if it's important, or unconscious instinct if it's unimportant, so that like him I can turn my mental focus inward elsewhere while I'm doing something boring like loading a dishwasher. Such a waste of time and attention to try to be mentally present for something unpleasant like that.

_I think INTJ can be good boss, If they have integrated/developed the other functions (considering that other may have different perception, care of their individual well being, that we are all differents, different way of thinking or doing), otherwise with only Ni Te developed (immature) they can be horrible, expecting others to be/do like them. Ex (immature, not receptive): An INTJ manager expected everyone to understand very quickly like him. Ex (mature, open) : An INTJ manager, she taught me what to do, and after she let me do, trusted me. _With their Ni dom, they will tend to not see the hierarchy (Si), consider everyone equal, as if we were all coworkers, collaborators. A cool thing with an INTJ boss, is that after people/employees are independent - It would be draining after a time to always watch and check if people do their job correctly. _INTJ with Fi developed are wonderful : more listening & compassion for others. Interesting that you see Si in Elon Musk, like a friend saw Si in me. Because of Asperger Syndrome (that Elon Musk also has), we have a good attention to details, notice details others don't, and we can even be stubborn about it. Joe you are surely a wonderful boss ! ⭐ After watching the video, I put the x2 for fun, just to experience x4 for the first time 🥰😆

INTJ 1w9- I don’t like managing people, I don’t like telling people what to do, I don’t like controlling people. That being said, I do enjoy growing people. This forces me out of my zone and makes me face those obstacles mentioned above. Part of that growth is placing them in positions they possess a natural inclination toward. Another part is placing them in situations that are not so natural to them. Sales and marketing I’m naturally good at myself, but I don’t like selling things. _If_ I do sell something to someone it’s because I foresee the thing benefiting the person either immediately (usually monetarily) and or for a time to come. But it MUST benefit THEM. Good video, good topic. The fast bits threw the video and message off a little though. Keep it up!

Yeah I've been interested in this topic.

Go ahead, ask me.

Se has to do with image management so if you are a leader looking the part would be important and related to Se.

dont know if everyone is experiencing it but he is speaking really fast even when my youtube playback speed is set to normal.

I wanted a video on Extroverts and this video came up…an excellent “nail on the head” description of what we introverts must deal with occasionally. It’s funny…I know an extrovert at work who has an extremely bad habit of bragging. He will tell me about all the fights he got into in his life and he won all of them….he said everyone in his neighborhood knows he’s a dangerous man…I just roll my eyes as well as the other coworkers. I can imagine he’d be more likely to back down from a fight in reality. Honesty some extroverts are made fun of behind their backs for their bragging or ridiculous stories of their supposed heroism. 🙄

Persona is more form than mask. This realization has allowed me to feel more authentic in public. The objective is not to decieve as with a mask, but to form something desirable from a kaleidescope of possible.

I’m disillusioned by the truth. Because I believed an illusion. In other words I have been healing from delusion.

In response to your final question: it seems to me that the issues brought up in this video could all also be caused by an accident or stroke or something. In each case, what you built your life around is challenged, and you are faced with letting go of ambitions. And it is a time when you are offered the chance to look at what ultimately matters to you with a clear perspective. So there’s a fork in the road where you can take one path trying to make the world bend to your will, and to suffer for it. Or to take the other path and surrender to what you do acknowledge matters most and give up the smaller things.

15:54 just admit you were wrong (about your plan and how your life would turn out) . That seems easier

10:32 “What I used to love, I now hate. What I used to hate, I now love.” And, kill your ego while you’re at it.

I don’t think you understand INFP’s, in full. Of course we see the need for limitation on harmful groups or people. We seek authenticity, but part of that is truth seeking what’s true along with the values. Tired of the misunderstanding.

I can DEFINITELY confirm this. Happily married to another intj and conspiracy theories are one of our favorite topics of discussion (along with true crime documentaries)

I’m an intj-A my experience since I’m emotionally disconnected I find extrovert extremely dull cause they care about feelings being fake / superficial cause they will agree with everything and not have their own opinion or if they do Its similar yours which is they can’t think for themselves and constantly seek approval from others to be happy which bugS me they should just do what is right not make an show to show the world how great liars they are, I like people to be authentic, but it’s sad to say this most people are ego driven dumbasses who always want to put their two cents in after an intj speaks agreeing with them then changing things slightly so they think they are smart, I find idiots unbelievably annoying that’s why I come up with weapon systems so I can eliminate most of these mindless eaters whom just seek to annoy me an try to ignore my brilliant nature to make themselves look cool after stealing my ideas. It’s sad to say this being smart is rare and being an good friend is almost impossible almost everyone is an fake friend looking for ways to exploit others for their own benefit like the sage saying only friends betray you, this is why I don’t have friends nor speak to my family because they seek to control not to listen. Which a true friend wants you to live your life not tell you what to do.

Real INTJs do not exploit things. They acquire knowledge. Exploiting has a dishonest context, something sane INTJs do not find ethical therefore will not do it. INTJs do not work for the money or success, they work for the knowledge. Think about "Shape of my heart" from Sting.

I brought a CO2 meter to my office meeting room and it got to over 3000ppm, which makes people unable to think effectively. The facilities department got very annoyed when I pointed this out to them....?

SFP's and NTJ's are very similar - more than this INTJ is recognising

In England we can get away with "yeah good" or "yeah not bad" and then ask them the same question for small talk. That's usually enough.

Nah, we just have stupid rainbow glasses.....

I am an ESTJ 6w7, part of my anarchic nature comes from my Ne 3rd slot function and Fi grip, which comes in childish ways to propose actions i feel [Fi 4th Slot] works the most universally [Te 1st Slot].

I found that the worst and most impractical, yet most entertaining philosophy came from Nietzche, believe or not. In terms of philosophy, not to sound arrogant, but I don't believe I need to read the philosophies of others. I find I can create my own and mainly through experiencing life, building skills, knowing what works then deeply contemplating it for days, weeks months, and even years. I've been doing it this way since I was a kid. And relying on my own philosophies (by my own I mean ones I came to on my own instead of adopting it from a book) has always helped and when I try to pick it up from others it never works.