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It's the Benjamin Franklin affect

*When you shift your mindset from needing attention to being secure in your own value, the right women will naturally be drawn to you.*

I want to say that I do respect Dr.Glover but like every other dating/relationship/men's coach, he gives advice that MIGHT work for SOME men with SOME women, but I could introduce him to tons of women where none of it works for me with any of them. Some things even sound ridiculous, like getting to rejection quickly. Most men don't have a problem getting to rejection early because the woman often does it before he's even opened his mouth. Even if it's not immediate, we have to be less than direct because, while someone like Chris Hemsworth can be direct in what he wants with a woman, if most men do it, we're just creepy and immediately rejected. The best we can do is be a nice guy to try to be close to her long enough to show we're a decent guy.

your dad sounds pretty based. we need some of that masculinity back in society.

Great channel

The term comes from an anecdote involving Benjamin Franklin. He wanted to win over a rival legislator, so he asked to borrow a rare book from the man's library. After the man lent him the book, their relationship improved significantly. Franklin concluded that a person who has done someone a favor is more likely to do another favor for that person than if they had received a favor from that person. Benjamin Franklin Effect: Doing a favor for someone leads you to like them more. 4:28

What the fuck is this bloke on about. Rub and tug happy days. Green card baby

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I think bro is just gay 😂

I really needed this today. Thank you, Dr. Glover.

Thanks!

WHAT IF THE GIRL IS A PSYCHO ?!?! haha

That’s the most amazing and inspiring quote “every amazing thing in my life has come from saying yes”

Pô Gerassu... por que vc não tenta entrar em numa universidade?

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As much as I agree with D D “The way of the superior men” in many details, I don’t want to live in a relationship he describes. For me it would be so tiring. Being a a productive men doesn’t go against letting your partner to be productive as well. Many women are highly capable. It’s their choice, and conscious l effort, to make a relationship work as well.

Life purpose is often badly explained. Being independent, spending time with people you care about can be a life purpose. Nowadays it’s often about the career, like it’s the only f thing a person could value in life. When I had a job I dreamed about when at uni, I quickly noticed that I’m depressed, lonely and fat. That was a lifestyle of 12h days.

This is beautiful message

*A quality woman isn’t going to be interested in someone who’s unsure or just going through the motions. It’s all about building confidence in yourself and your vision for the future. When you’re clear on that, the right person will be drawn to you.*

*Being attractive isn’t about trying to impress; it’s about working on yourself and having a purpose that doesn’t revolve around others. When you’ve got your own goals and self-respect, people notice - and that’s what truly draws her in.*

No point in getting laid bc 18 years of child support. Women have a choice after conception. Men don't.

I think it's a lot harder to stick around and be honest to your partner when you know you've fucked up rather than separating for ambiguous reasons. If woman actually realized that when there's mystery and unanswered questions lingering, that the likely culprit is cheating related on the separator's side, and the cost of burdening those secrets is rather burdening.

*Men who are in touch with their feelings and can express themselves calmly have a huge advantage. It’s not about perfection - just showing you’re present and willing to grow. That’s what makes a guy stand out!*

good video yet again, I would only add for people to read 'Magnetic Aura' from Talesio helped me a tonnn

perfect timing

*When you stop seeking validation from others, especially women, that’s when you start attracting the right energy. Focus on building your own confidence, pursue your passions, and work on self-improvement. Women are drawn to men who are comfortable in their own skin and don’t need external approval.*

Dude married a prostitute

Amen! We'll never be free from our core programming until we can become aware of it. Even then it won't go away, but we can learn to manage it, and hack around it. The other part is to stop telling ourselves what the world is, just shut the f-k up and pay attention to what it's saying to you.

this bold guy is talking tons of shit

This guy is a clown

Dr glover is the GOAT ive read all the pickups books there is and i wish i would have read dating essentials for men. Before i read all the other B.S. guys especially teenage boys i really really recommend you read this mans books 📚 all his books. You won't ever learn any of this in school.

Great video. Approval seeking is in all of us as it helps to drive the ego (we want to achieve success in our endeavours and some reward for that is ok), but it can be at an unhealthy level for many of us. The final question covers this very well

What's the difference between getting overly attached to a specific outcome in dating and the "5/5" that you talked about in your book "Dating Essentials For Men"? Isn't a desire to find a woman who'd want to have a family just as a man would something that could be part of the "have-to-haves" that the man would come up with to figure out what he truly wants from a potential partner, rather than an attachment?

What's the difference between getting overly attached to a specific outcome in dating and the "5/5" that you talked about in your book "Dating Essentials For Men"? Isn't a desire to find a woman who'd want to have a family just as a man would something that could be part of the "have-to-haves" that the man would come up with to figure out what he truly wants from a potential partner?

This is what I needed to hear. I'm at my crossroads right now in life. Thank you Dr. Glover

this video literally came in the perfect moment in my life, love you

Thank you for talking about "your purpose"! When I listened to the way of the superior man, I also struggled with this. Along with some other things like "taking your woman when she is mad and pressing your body into hers and ravishing her..." Ok that second quote wasn't literal but the general impression is there. Bravo on this interview...good stuff.

Nice 👍 thanks

That dude is good. 100% truth

its fight-flight-freeze-fawn.....in a quadratrix....you want the circle of it...a small radius around the centre.....hence why trying new things or facing your fears allows the extreme emotions back to the smaller circle around the centre of the quadratrix....<<<< X-Executive coach 5+ years.....

great episode and guest

Voicemail lol

*Instead of chasing, focusing on your own goals and passions makes you more attractive naturally. When you put yourself first, you send the message that you’re confident and secure, and that’s what draws people in!*

Are you a recovering Nice Guy? Join us and work with Dr. Glover personally at integrationnation.net!

Are you a recovering Nice Guy? Join us and work with Dr. Glover personally at integrationnation.net!

i don’t want any girl who judges me if my shoes aren’t shiny enough

So according to this guy's oversimplistic signs, I've never ever been attractive to any women. Funny how so many of them responded well when I approached and said something, and quite a few then proceeded to sleep with me. I would have never approached them if I waited for them send me eye contact, walk by me multiple times and smile.

Truth needs no rehearsal. That is deep. Thank you. 🙏🏻

Killer opening monologue, BRUTAL

Now you listen to me GLOVER and listen up GOOD..... PASSION means nothing to women if the passion cant be converted into CASH..