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How often and how long should i do this with my 2 year old?

Good video but your tone of voice ends in a question which devalues the message a lot

This sounds like excellent advice for disciplining children with ADD as well!

So, you named all the problems but gave 0 solutions. "You create a boundary" Oh, otherwise I'm gonna stand there and do nothing while my kids hits the other one? "Help them figure out a better way to get their need met! But HOW EXACTLY are they supposed to do that when they don't have a control over their imuplsivity?!?! And, asking a child to help you with their problems...really? We don't know how to help them and they don't know how to help themselves! This is just a well-packaged talk. I am extremely nice and patient and understanding with my ADD kid but nothing will stop him from his impulsivity and he's 8 and he already turned to twisting the truth which turns to manipulation. His father and I both discovered we have ADD/ADHD at our grown up age so, I can see what can be the consequences if this behaviour is not treated with a therapist and/or a psychiatrist. Unfortunately, some of us only have a choise to either take drugs or to move out of the city and to country side.

Nope! There is no reward or bribe for a kid to listen to the parent! I say do it and they do it! The end!

Yes, heard it all before…too many words. I’m ADHD and get completely lost in your words. I need concrete, actual help

Wow this video was so helpful and I’ve been that mom in the car line what an eye opener!!! Thank you so much for this incredible helpful content 🫶🏻

I might have ADHD and I'm 10

Thank you! ❤

Yeah completely impossible to do this all day, when I have to find out and give my Daughter spécial activities all day Long. My son just gets to be totally forgot 😢 Because my daughter cant regulate herself very good. Most days all days

My little guy has always been "intense". He ran into problems in French immersion kindergarten and worse in grade 1 so far. Slow to absorb another language, which puts him at a disadvantage learning in the other areas. I taught him all the colours, numbers and some expressions while throwing him around in the swimming pool before kindergarten and now it's almost a regression 2 years later. No music program, no physical education, can't play soccer at lunch unless it's the day for his grade. It's ADHD hell for him and he attracts other kids with the same issues...and they figure out ways to get in trouble. He doesn't like school. He got lots of music and activity prior to the last 2 years. Now he is acting out and gets into trouble every week. Breaks my heart to see him like this and I wish I could home school him. He isn't diagnosed, but I am a teacher, and I recognize the symptoms after teaching so many diagnosed ADHD kids. Thanks for your videos. I have been wading through them and find them helpful.

I am a Grandparent, how do I help and understand.

Wow great video thanks for the information

the hand gestures are very distracting

Try this. Do this, then you can do this… all it has taught my son is how to use it on me (or he tries to). “No im not putting my clothes on until you give me my toy back.” Just an example. And i probably took the toy because he was misbehaving with it. I’ve taken almost everything from him that i can. I send him to his room constantly. He will be 7 next month. He swings on his sisters who are younger than him. Stuck a paper towel he blew his nose with in his sister’s cereal then threw it off the table. Spilled a cup of juice later on. I had to sit against his bedroom door and hold him in there just for him to get dressed. I have yelled, got to the point where someone recommended maybe i should spank him- which I don’t believe in, but I tried it- now it’s worse and so much harder to come back from. I am at a loss so much so that he’s going to stay with grandma and grandpa for a few days. The little sisters (I have three younger than him) are done with breakfast in the morning, dressed, and ready to walk out the door before he can even get dressed. He’s defensive and mean and bullies everyone- I even feel bullied. How sad and embarrassing.

So this is kind of random, but this whole video your head is tilted towards your part of Hair side, and I wasn’t sure if you were aware or had neck problems because of that

Clearly this mom is ADHD herself ,what better person to présent this than herself. Kudos❤❤❤

I'm trying to build god relationship with my teen with ADHD. But the pattern is everytime things get good and nice , he stops follow rules. Like stealing Nintendo from my room and hide it in his. So he can play all night. The rules are no screen after bedtime. He also selling sweets, he is overweight and we limit sweets to 2 times a day. All I'm getting from him "I don't know why I do it" also he enjoys annoying classmates and his little sister to the point of they get angry and get to fight him. Also thresh talking non stop. 😢

Children learn from their caretaker or mom their anxiety. They’re not born with it. Whatever they do they were taught to do. The parents a Irtysh trickles down to the child but no therapist will say this. A single child needs to be spending time by themselves. They’re can play by themselves when they can’t yet walk. You watch from where they can’t see you then walk in but don’t interact but keep doing whatever other thing. They should learn that they’re not the spotlight all the time.

Im trying to

I love your content. You would increase your views with a quality microphone. ❤

Thanks for your great video! It really helped me understand how to behave correctly with my son

I told my daughter a number of times that going to bed on time is not a punishment. She didn't say it but I know that's what it feels like. (I also have ADHD).

I often fall asleep if I have to sit still for more than a few minutes. But I can focus better, sort through the mental chaos a bit easier when in motion - knitting, swimming, walking, running, yoga.

My husband and I are loosing our business because of local government decisions and we had put every dollar into it. Things have been tough and I screamed at my 3 year old for the first time in her life. I still feel so guilty and like I damaged our relationship beyond repair. I am ADHD as well and this moment tipped me over the edge. Now the anger is long gone but the sadness and regret remain.

I took notes watching this video. It was very helpful! Thank you for the clear and concise information.

I'm 61, there wasn't the communication availability back in my growing up years. I was wondering how I managed, but no instant responses meant patience. My memories of years past are vague. I think the sharp ones are clear because of the memory itself marked me. 🤔 I graduated high school early and was married a year later, before I turned 19. I wore the masks of loving wife and mother. I had a mission, a focus. As the children grew older, there was mention of ADHD, this was early 90's, I'd heard they'd grow out of it, so my brain didn't acknowledge that and filed it away. I became acquainted with THC for a time, but then drug testing started, so I switched to alcohol, and continued to drink everyday until Jan 14th 2012. I told Jesus I was powerless over the alcohol, please take it away. I haven't had a drink since. Fast forward to June 1st 2024, my beautiful husband of so close to 42 years passed away from stomach cancer. I am traumatized by the whole thing being highly sensitive, the morning he passed, I knew something was wrong. I didn't know who I was, it was noisy in my head, like usual, but the role I'd been playing got canceled, (for lack of better term). I've always talked so mean and negatively to myself, I realized it was just me and the Holy Spirit now, and I need to love me. So I started looking at myself in the mirror and going over the negative things out loud. Shining truth on them, (ant killing, any negative thoughts) and looking myself in the eye, apologizing and forgiving myself. It's a beautiful relationship I have now, I look myself in the eye and hug myself and tell me I love me. Being widowed, I don't get much physical from others, and I don't really want it. Anyway this has led me full circle to ADHD and my 2 grown sons. I have grands who are divergent too, and 1 who had tested for aspergers back 8 years ago, so I started watching videos and reading and all the online testing I can find and I'm on the spectrum and ADHD and complex childhood trauma. I stopped after those, a part of me said, alright I get it, we got issues. So I choose natural remedies and I'm grateful for the calm drinking mushroom coffee gives me. So many benefits to lions mane, it even lowers the ringing in my ears. Boy I got chatty!

I think that the first mom sees her daughter as a reflection of herself, perhaps a representation of her. She is taking her daughter’s behavior personally. She wants to control her daughter, rather than guide her. She needs to detach, step back. Consulting an educational counselor, special ed teacher, someone with experience with ADHD children. Talking with other parents for suggestions and strategies can be helpful, too. It gives an adult support when they’re worried, anxious, and out of ideas.

As someone diagnosed with ADHD as an adult, the attention thing is huge. Whenever someone said to me "Just concentrate" they might as well have been telling me to do magic - concentration just isn't something I can summon at will.

Fantastic! I am a veteran, so I often use the mantra "slow is smooth, smooth is fast" to slow my mind and make better decisions in these situations. I also find daily meditation helps.

Hey I'm like not a mom but I'm 9 and have separation anxiety really bad and I really really need something to relieve it any suggestions for me?

Amjad Tahhar voice of truth! Doesn't matter what religion you follow - humanity means you care for life not for gaining power whilst destroying life...

This sounds very much like NVC

I love you, thank you soo much

Isn’t every brain for the most part wired differently?

This video changed my whole perspective on parenting my children. Wow! I will be rewatching it daily for a bit. Thanks for sharing your expertise and knowledge. I am excited to “reset” and be a better parent to my kids.

I love how your video is so tailored to an ADHD individual haha this was a fun video to watch, it was engaging and extremely informative, thank you for putting the effort into making these videos and sharing this information with us Dr Jacque :)

what to do with 10 yr olds who repeats stealing, disobeying, maniupulating and self harm and you as a partent have tried it all ...

Thank you. My seven year old and me butt heads with communication big time (we have both adhd) She is extremely smart and will kinda manipulate the situation. Thank you for this!!

I have a 10yr old that is very smart but we are having problems at school focusing and talks to much so is causing him to get bad grades for not paying attention. I put him in baseball to drain some of the energy and he does well but when it comes to school he is not paying attention and it can possibly cause him to fail the year. It is driving me crazy because there is so much my wife and I can do we both work full time jobs and when he is not at baseball he wants to play video games which I let him since his time is consumed by school then after school care ant then baseball practice so we don’t want to burn him out but it is very frustrating and all we want is for him to do good in school and focus

I have two ADHD kids and what helped me was a book by Dr. Ross Greene called “The Explosive Child”. It helped tremendously get to the root cause of the problem (not just what I think it might be about) and then help them brainstorm a mutually beneficial solution.

It sure feels like they're misbehaving and not listening on purpose!

As a ADHD mon with an ADHD kid...Thank you!!! Very helpful video!❤

This hits hard for an ADHD Adult diagnosed very early so they didn’t really believe that I did have ADHD and thought I would outgrow it. As I got older I cried almost every day and constantly asked myself ‘Why can’t I just be normal?’ Or ‘Why can’t I just focus?’ It was hard.

Thank you so much ❤ This helped so much 😊

Highly informative and helpful. Thank you so much.

Their cortisone levels shoot up much quicker than normal.. making it difficult for them to transition from one activity to another. The best help starts with nutrition.. their bodies and brains are missing the balance of dopamine and seratonin to offset the cortisone. Find supplements that provoke the body to make seratonin and dopamine.. Eliminate gluten, soy and dairy. Magnesium (200 mg a day for 3-5 yrs) is critical, B6, B3, zinc, vitamin C, D3.. probiotics..you will see improvement’s