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Okey but what if I have absolutely nothing to contribute and bore other people?

my BIGGEST redflag is someone who cannot take a no. usually i have to reject them multiple times + blocking them in order for them to listen and stop trying. please choose someone who chooses you, the longer you stay stubborn and kept trying to push it, the more idiotic and low you seem. no love is worth sacrificing your self-respect for

Just started to get into dating so thanks for this!

just shot two of my friends a text to discuss their schedule's. hopefully it works out 👍

didnt manage to go through first step (meeting someone new)

Very imperfect timestamps 0:26 Opening/Origin 1:20 Effects -1:48 Made others happier -2:05 Made conversation fun 2:59 Difference between normal and active listening 3:15 How to actively listen 3:32 Summaries others statement 4:07 minimal encouragement 5:07 emotion labelling 6:29 Made yourself WANT to understand other

This is helpful

Wow where can one find that 100 page document

Wow, I realize now we are such different people.

I feel like a movie date could work only if you allow time bsfore and after the date to talk and get to know them. I took my currect gf now to a movie for our first date and it was something that we both mentioned before we even went out. I took the date as an opportunity to borh get to know her but to also just get comfortable being right next to her and comfortable with silences(we've also been dating for over a year now)

this is good advice, but difficult to implement with most people i know, because they just won't stop talking. they often even fill in the space between sentences with long "ummmm"'s so that they signal to me/everyone that they're not done talking and that it's not my turn to speak yet. i even know someone who almost always sounds angry because she takes a quick loud breath between sentences (because of talking so much). most of the people i know sound like they just want a monologue audience. even so, i still want to show i'm listening, it's just never my turn to speak. the worst part is that, evn if they do ask me something, pause and let me say something, they continue like they didn't hear me or barely acknowledge that i said anything with a "so anyway" or an "as i was saying". it's very discouraging and i can't make infinite friends in the hopes that someday i'll find some that i can have a dialogue with. other than that, i agree with all the advice.

I have given up on trying to invite people long ago, waste of time and sanity. Now I do everything alone, which is great because I can decide I want to go on a hike the next day and just do it, no people to ask and who will answer me after a week, no people who accept on the condition that other people need to be there, no people who accept but arrive late, no people who accept but walk so slowly they make the hike take twice as long. I'm just done with all that crap.

10:36 Haha I've seen that so many times and it never fails to INSTANTLY kill any conversation.

Australians are geniouses I swear

Nice video man, I will be sticking around for more if you do not die. I appreciate the breakdown

Bring the right friends... So not me, got it.

You’re a bit late on this one. Unfortunately I already had a bangin get together with my friends. Legitimately could not have gone better, the stars aligned. It’s like everything I subconsciously wanted to happen happened even though I didn’t plan it that way

Sometimes you could even skip the planning. Just go where there are people. A pub, a coffee/breakfast place, a park. If someone else meets your eyes and doesn't look away, but smiles maybe, that's an opportunity to chat.

How to meet new people? Everyone seems so distant.

human centipede

What a beautiful video to stumble upon!!! Thank you so much

tl;dr lemme redblack pill you a bit Green flags women search for: 1. 6 foot 2. 6 figures 3. 6 inches Green flags men search for is the opposite of above ^ Thank you and have a good night y'all

My friends and i have a strategy to make epic hangouts that we call clipfarming. Do something stupid that you’ll want to record. Best recent one was the rubber band watermelon

I hope you friends appreciate you. It'S really nice to hear how much effort and thought you put in you get together :)

your arson group seems a little bit loose, unprofessional and such, so its probably a gang which just forms together to do the hit and then disband or lay dormant i would personally much rather set up an organized group (mafia) for activities that also generate profit beyond just lighting stuff on fire. i mean, it even adds a meaning to your arson, as you can take out opponents in the criminal world! and i think that meaningful moments are memorable moments. additionally, having so much trust on your members of your group fosters trust within the group, strenghtening the bond overall, i dont have much experience in the criminal world, and if i had i for certain reasons wouldnt tell you

this came a day late omg you are so helpful but I had all my friends cancel on my dinner last night! this is the best youtube channel

My gf had to go to the US to study, and I wanted to cheer her up, but didn't know exactly what to get her and an Amazon gift card was an extremely dry gift (for this context). So I made a virtual treasure hunt with several cryptography techniques (and some bespoke dorky riddles) then delivered her the first clue anonymously, leading to a note and a gift card. She called to include me, and getting to watch her joyfully sleuthing through the clues I peppered around the internet was a fortunate bonus for me. I think I cooked with this one. Edit: I also made sure the first clue let her know the timeframe she has to do this activity, and made it long enough so she can do it on her own time, but didnt reveal what the treasure was.

if you're a uni student honestly just join a club that has a dedicated club room, I went through 2~ years of a 99% empty social life due to studying to get into a uni, dealing with a gap year, etc. right after covid screwing over my entire HS life and uni has been the greates breath of fresh air in years. Although I've been making do with a friend group I secured in the first couple of weeks for the first year, whenever they had plans come up, or got dissolved, or forgot eachother due to schedule differences, I'd get extremely demotivated. However, now that I joined a couple of clubs, I just go there whenever I'm alone and the remainder of my day is free and I hang out with lots of people regardless of when or where or to do what, because everyone else is there for that reason too.

He basically became mr planner for everybody....bs honestly I don't want to be everybody's tour planner .... Reminds me of a girl I dated where it as just going out every single weekend to some far off location...she didn't like me she liked me being her tour guide ...

F9ck hikes...honestly.

I have 0 friends and I don't know if at this age I have time to change that most of my time goes on simply making it to ends meet.

bro this guy is a god

What a great video, so simple but so open to any type of person instead of a guide or rules. Remembered of a video called "How to invite friends to hang out in a polite and cool way", that basically says to already have an activity you're going to, avoiding being clingy or inconvenient if they don't want to go, keeping low pressure and easier to accept, and to already set a time and place, so you don't have to ask if they are available, avoiding being nosy and also making it easier to accept. So in general good to keep it low pressure, it's good to have an engaging activity to know each other better and if they can't it's good to know when they're mostly available

I love the cute art style and the funny small details like the gif or the “dialogue”. Awesome stuff brinyheart 💥

love your work 😄 . just been wondering what aspect ratio you use 🙏

This sounds a lot like min-maxing the challenge of relationships. This is idiotic. The reasons I don't spend as much time with friends as I'd like is because 1) we're all adults with busy schedules, so people are either too tired to do something after work or already have their one slot a week for activities filled out and 2) are all introverts who love nothing more than to be cozy at home. Add to this that we all live in different cities, so there's no spontaneous meet up, you gotta get dressed, go outside and take part in public transportation and street traffic. Making friends is really easy as long as you are a place where there are people and talk to some people. In my friend group, I'm the sole person holding it together and suggesting meet ups and I'm not even that social. And as for dates, going on three a week with a different person means you're very unsuccessful. And if it's with the same small number of people and you haven't gotten romantically engaged with them after some time, you're not dating, you've got a friendship. That's if you're in the 15% of men who even get a first date to begin with

Those who add value to the lives of others are blessed in kind. Good video.

Can't believe I had most of this in mind beforehand, thank you man, now I have more confidence in myself

I’d love to hear what RUclipsrs/videos have inspired you to make content like you do. Hearing this perspective has helped me a whole lot recently and I hope you keep striving to make this content!

I wonder what does one do if one does not like drinking? Where I live I see people's idea of having fun is always getting drunk.