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wait, why did you give him your phone for the entire time? i don’t agree with the guy, particularly, but some of the shit he was saying is right. you definitely are a bit too naive for your own detriment.

this guy is a manipulative racist pos who's getting a kick out of bestowing some fake wisdom on u. im glad ur deciding not to meet male subscribers, pls also be careful with any subsribers u meet regarrdless of gender, people can get really scary with their parasocial relationships. i doubt he ever really thought your videos were fake, sounds like he's just trying to control you and used your autism against you to make you have a genuine conversation with him instead of immediately walking away. im so sorry this happened to you, none of this bullshit he's saying holds any weight also elon musk is a white man who grew up in apartheid south africa lol? thats why he's from "the continent of africa and still hates black people" like what a dumbass thing to say. also notice that he didnt say u give off the energy of someone who's been sa'd until you told him that happened to you. he just waited for to give him information about urself and then acted like he could tell

Wow, there’s a lot to unload here! Firstly I wish I was in the US, I would have love to spend a day with you as a fellow human being, maybe shop together, visit a museum or a park, eat together and talk about all sorts of things (although I’m a male but I’m not a US citizen so what the heck). Secondly, you should not have trusted a stranger with your phone. Because you haven’t spent enough time to know him well. Now to the “everyone a racist” bollocks! Many people see the world from their own window 🤔. NO, not everyone is a racist. Yes many are, Musk totally included! But not all. And one have to distinguish between “TRUE Hating” and “Disliking” hating implies wanting harm upon whoever one hates, dislike doesn’t. One can dislike a particular practice but one doesn’t hate in any way the people who commit said practice. “disliking” a particular “culture” isn’t always racist. Because racism implies that one BELIEVES that his race is SUPERIOR to someone else. Example: you might dislike sagging (I totally dislike it), but I don’t hate people practicing such thing and I know for a fact that any race will develop such “hood culture” if being put through all the horrors black people went through and the lack of opportunities and the discrimination and and…etc. also, When I hate (I use “dislike” and “hate” interchangeably here) someone I curse him with “cunt”! Does that mean I literally mean he’s a female sexual organ? Or that a female sexual organ is an offensive thing? Absolutely not obviously but that word historically have a lot of insult value, same when I say dickhead and so on. Maybe in some occasions one might throw the N word because it hurts more! Although most likely it’s a genuine case of racism but rarely here and there maybe it wasn’t. Anyway 🤦🏻‍♂️, sorry for this long comment! Btw Cassy, have you tried abstract painting or painting in general? Maybe it could help you a little. Take care ❤️☮️

Maybe he isn't right about those points he was making...maybe you just thought so because he was "attractive" its the halo effect 😉

Babe, he didn't tell you how you are, he told you how he is. His truth. Don't internalize someone else's sh*tty world views. No one defines you. No one. Good life policy: Don't suffer fools. Waste of your precious time. Shake the dust off and move on. It was a lesson. Thank you next. Re: SA (me too), you don't get over it. You get to the place where you recognize you've suffered enough with the pall your abuser(s) put on your life. You realize you're not something worthless to be used and tossed. You learn to love yourself. You practice that attitude every day. You stop looking for validation from other people and learn to love *you*. I just learned this lately after 5 decades on the planet. It's a good thing.

That is wild.

No, everyone is not "just a little bit racist"; this guy is full of it!! I'm happy that you got out of that situation safely & that you won't be putting yourself in danger this way again. What a sad & pathetic little man to "hate watch" videos - does he have nothing better to do with his life?! I've managed to not swear in my comment, although I said a lot out loud while I was typing it!! 💚

Sweetheart, you need to be careful who you allow to speak into your life. I pray that you master the art of taking a deep breath and walking away from a person and/or situation as soon as it doesn't feel right. You have the right to walk away at anytime honey, take some deep breaths, walk away and continue to take deep breaths. 🙏

0:30 he's a creep but he's very physically attractive so it's ok! This is your reminder femcels don't exist and women WILL tolerate mistreatment if the man is attractive enough lol.

unbelievable and terrible! you are awesome, take care <3

Please don't post his email as no good will come of it.

You seem so sweet, very intelligent & kind hearted. Stay safe and God bless you 🙏💝

11:03 That guy is full of shit like other bigotts.

The world works according to one’s beliefs. Whatever he told you, applies to him only. His beliefs are about him and his life. It has nothing to do with you. Disregard and move on.

I get over my grape as a kid by setting goals, forgiving myself as in realizing that I deserve more, and it possible for me to work for it. You need to realize that your worthy, strong, and have a future. If you don’t believe you have a future, then it gets 10x harder. So set a goal, even if it’s small. I realized that I don’t need to care, and I don’t need to constantly fight. What I need is peace. All of those things apply to you as well. I know that you can do it, so let it be real. GROWTH MINDSET!!

No, not everyone is racist. It can really feel like that, I understand- but don’t give up on people. The other day I thought I was getting death stares, but that person then gave me a beautiful compliment. And screw that guy; don’t let attractiveness deceive you, and don’t just meet anybody now that your kinda famous! And I hope your doing better!! And yes, you should love and defend yourself. It’s harder for us victims to do that, but we really shouldn’t stop trying. You are stronger than you think. I will definitely let you know that. Also cute wig.

that dude was an actual loser. you deserve love thats deeper than the ocean itself. you shouldn't do anymore charity work meeting a bum crusty musty like that. he was obviously intimidated by you, and projected his own issues onto you, yikes. please, please be safe and love yourself enough to not settle for effeminate losers that can only afford to take you to dunkin donuts on the first date. Decenter men completely until you are confident to not feel you need validation from them. healing looks good on you babe.

no not everyone is racist i am european and i don't blatantly hate people who don't look like me and i am so sorry on behalf of them that u had to go trough this,try to channel that energy into healing and shut dowm all of their opinions,side note that bitch might be a fan in disguise😂,remember that you are beautiful and im not saying this just because i truly thik so but i agree with the fact that u should stop caring not for them but for u and ur own mental health!♡ Good people exist regardless of color altough ur experinces might tell u otherwis,I root for u and ur healing bby!🥺❤

Well he is not wrong on people being racist I worked at a bank for four years and yes everyone and customers showed racism and no it wasn’t always directed at me personally and this is coming from a black woman. Also you do have to becareful because you don’t want to give off that energy and don’t let people take things from you and tell you who you are and work on getting self care so you can find yourself in this world. Also he is not wrong for saying money rules this world.. because “money talks” But he is not right for making fun of you just because those things are true. Yes as black people we don’t want to be here either but we can’t suicide ourselves for it..😅

while this guy is an asshole and most of what he said was just rude, there is some truth to his words. there are groups of people whose goal is to pit races (and the main political parties) against each other to distract from what is really happening in this country. some just want money and power, but others want total collapse and chaos. I won't go too deep into it because it is absolutely terrible for your mental health. without money or power, the only thing we can really do is be good to one another. protect one another and protect ourselves. aside from all that which probably seems like crazy talk, i'm glad you're out of that situation and away from that woman. i'm also glad that you won't meet up with strange men anymore. wishing you healing and happiness.

On a psychological level, if this guy you met isn't clinically insane to take HIS precious time to perform something like this, you at least know that he is severely broken inside. Seriously, not a single normal person, not even other neurodivergents would even think about saying things as miserable as this guy did. This guy probably knows that and he is watching this video right now thinking he won some giggles but he took his time to say all that insanity? It makes you wonder who is the clown here really? You -- which had nothing to do with that -- or the guy who pre-planned to say random sh*t to a traumatized person and throwing every single random take he could on his book to troll someone IN REAL LIFE. Girl... he didn't even record you. That's a face to face personal, troll? That's... just very strange. Anyway, I hope you feel better soon, Cassy. Unlike this guy, you're actually helping and contributing substantially to society to your life by reporting and documenting about your feelings. People barely ever do that bc it invades their privacy. But I feel as though you're sacrificing your privacy for a greater good which definitely a heroic and brave thing to do. You save me from loneliness. I've never related so much to a person in my entire life. We're almost the same, but in a different country. I am a gay male subscriber btw, but never been in a relationship. Nihilistic. Traumatized as hell. There are just a few differences which include a slightly better support system, but aside from that even the diagnoses are similar. And other things as well such as misdiagnoses, stumbling upon those CRAZY events all the time. I swear I don't do meet ups or dates anymore (i am really done trying it) bc things like this just KEEPS HAPPENING. Sometimes even worse. Well, I'm glad you're very much alive, Cassy. I appreciate you for being a Fing warrior. Holy cow... you have a better backbone than me that's for sure. I just get jealous sometimes because some people get to live their lives on automatic mode and enjoy the best life and there's us... constantly on a battlefield not even able to begin to enjoy life because we're on survival mode with no way of turning it off. You're great Cassy. This comment was written by heart.

so RUDE of him to pity you?!?!! so rude of him to call you "niave" and tell you to "get over" your trauma. (ptsd can last for ever... you dont just "get over" it. you get THROUGH it.). forhim to wanna tell you how the world works as if you don't already know!!! what a condescending prick!!!!!! I WANT TO GIVE THIS BULLY A PIECE OF MY MIND. HEY CHOCOLATE AUTIZZY'S BULLY DUDE. ITS ME. THE QUEEN BITCH. AND IM GONNA TELL YOU HOW THE WORLD //REALLY/// WORKS. MR BULLY UR A BUTTHOLE BIGOT AND NOT EVERYBODY IS A BIGOT LIKE YOU. YOU'RE AN INSENSITIVE ASSHOLE MR BULLY MAN. NOT EVERYBODY IS A DAMN RACIST JUST CUZ U ARE (im talking to mr bully man not you chocolate autizzy)

omg its so rude for him to hate watch ur videos!!! how condescending of him to "want to tell u how the world works". not everyone is racist! he ONLY thinks everyone is racist, because HE is racist, and people naturally assume everybody thinks and feels the same way as them. for example, as a bisexual, i think everyone must be bi because its the only way of being that i know as i have lived it my whole life and i cant imagine being any other way. and this guy, the racist, must not comprehend that it is possible to just not be racist, because he is so racist. he reminds me of this autistic guy friend i had, my first love, he abused me psychologically lol. he was so racist, homophobic, and incredibly sexist, and it severely impacted my self esteem growing up. he thought everybody was just as bigoted as him, truly, and it shocked him when i wasnt. it shocked me when he was. (i have a lot of autistic friends btw i might even be autistic lol idk but yeah im not saying theres a correlation between his condition and bigotry i just mean my ex love reminds me of this asshole in ur life who so happens to also be autistic and racist as fuck). but yeah. im like a white girl and my bestie since 1st grade is black (26 yrs old now) and a good part of our teenage years was spent trying to transform him into being not a bigot anymore. it didnt work lol. we really thought we could change him

awwww youre such a sweetie pie i can just tell ur a good person

this dude sucks and waaay too many people seem to be thinking similarly. sounds like someone who probably watches andrew tate and other terrible people. sorry that happened.

Omg sista. Plz plz be careful. I have a question. Since you aren't able to feel feelings are you also not able to feel when someone has ill intentions with you? Do like you get that gut feeling about things? Just plz be careful. Im white but i would never think about talking about racism with someone of colour. Because idk about how they feel. The more you say about that guy it just makes me wanna punch him in the mouth. Plz sis be careful. Im worried about you. What a nutcase. I bet he is a trump supporter. He sounds like one. Anyways. I love ya!!! New sub here from Oklahoma!!!

He was SUPER racist and self-absorbed. He clearly thinks that he's smarter than everyone else. Stay away, what a creep. Glad that you're safe! He's wrong about the world. There are definitely lots of bad people out there, but there are also lots of people with good hearts. I am transgender and I have met lots of people that hate me just for that, but I have also met lots of people who love me no matter what. I hope you meet the people that love you instead of people with hate in their hearts like that guy.

He's a terminally online idiot. NO, not everyone is a little racist, he was projecting his own feelings and (probably as a white man) assumes his worldview is a factual one free of bias. People don't respect or like people just because they have a lot of money, he should've known that when he brought up Elon Musk, a man hated by millions. Dump his words in the garbage, you have a lot of subscribers because you resonate emotionally with people, a stupid or slow person couldn't do that. Don't let him influence the way you see yourself.

There's a saying that 80% don't care as 20% are glad. Don't satisfy those who like to see you suffer. It's not fair to you. That white racist represents that 20%. Others say it's the other way around. But the truth is there are people who do care but can't find a way to help, which is not our fault. Telling your story does help those who are dealing with the same thing. Try to join an autistic support group near you, so you won't feel so alone, especially when therapy didn't help.

You have a heart of gold and you most assuredly don't deserve this ever.

Ugh this guy is next level awful. I get strong psychopath energy from this story. Also, like, maybe the world doesn't have perfectly pure people in it, but it's got good people who are trying to be better.

Pursue your calling--where your gifts and skills meet the needs of the liberation movements. You tend to find men of higher caliber out "among the people" than on the apps.

This country was built on slavery and genocide. And... as we look at current events... this never ended. Our schools, media, news, tell us that relying on the exploitation of the global south is A-OK. So yes, our country is racist, and even POC have internalized racism or biases/prejudice against other minority groups.

I'm going to speak for myself here; your style (i.e. your hair, accesories, outfit, etc), the way you speak and the things you say make much more of an impression than your race does. I notice it of course, but it feels like a much smaller factor in shaping my perception of you. I know what I'm about to say is anecdotic and probably a very rare occurrence, but my best friend is not only a woman but also physically opposite to me in every other way as well, including race. It's probably a funny sight for other people when we hang out, but it does prove a point. It really is about what's inside in the end, that's not just some platitude

He had no right to comment on your looks or tell you to sexualise yourself. Please stay away from these toxic men Also, for all the people commenting telling you to stay away from white people, that’s quite offensive to those of us who aren’t racist. It’s not okay to paint everybody with the same brush. I truly care about your wellbeing and wish the best for you, yet these people tell you to stay away from people like me because of my skin colour. I don’t deny that racism exists in society, but it’s not fair and not okay to treat all white people as racist or to tell you to stay away from white people. There’s good people of all skin colours and it’s not okay to treat all white people with such hatred and prejudice.

Sorry about that guy. This is why I dont date white guys. Not worth the energy.

"as a fellow autistic" oh for fs, that guy is HORRIBLE. You have to weed out THOSE dudes before they even sit down, they're the WORST

I support you. Before you date anyone else, read "The Rules" by Ellen Fein. Please. I want you to stay safe and thrive, my friend.

…… also, I saw you on Soft White Underbelly! I believe Mark was quite impressed with you as well! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Sorry you experienced that.

Ugh, I'm sorry this happened to you. It sucks and adds even more trauma to your life. That guy sounds like a malicious sociopath, and it's obvious from livestreams that you do have some small percentage of trolls in your audience. It's a good thing you're okay. Honestly, I don't think you can believe anything he said, as it's all essentially comments from a troll. I personally don't think everyone is racist, and many that are won't think or say they are. As a (black) male subscriber: If you do meet any guys off here, it's a good thing to meet in a very public place as you did. You may also need to try to learn more about them in advance, so maybe things like that would come out sooner.

You got to be careful my sister!!

Hi Cassy, As a male subscriber, 100% this guy is not certain that any of his statements are true. Autistic men are the males who struggle the most about understanding emotions, so all the statements made by this guy are theories in his mind. Also Elon Musk was heavily bullied and beaten by black kids in school in South Africa, so he is an edge case.

You are a good kind, genuine person! Very sweet, intelligent, articulate, and beautiful! When you possess all of those attributes, some people will try approach in ugly ways because you remind them of what they are not! So never mind what you should have done or said! As others said, please DO NOT meet random people in person. Protect yourself physically and emotionally! There will always be some knucklehead who wants to drag u down to their level! Most people are good and honest , but make them prove that to you first! YOU ARE FABULOUS 🎉🎉 💕