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I was at the spot where I was kinda popular. Not on a national or even international level, but a level enough to feel it. Where you get photographed and when people you don’t even know existed think they know more about you than you do and will do inadequate things to be “closer to you”. I never enjoyed that and to me it felt like it was my problem, because I got that not in a way I wished it would happen. So I was always thinking about keeping up and then using that “clout” to make what I truly WANT famous (and that would always vary, a movie, a book, a song etc) for people to see WhO i rEaLlY aM and I thought in that way it would feel rewarding. Until I realized it would never feel different from what it felt like… Because it was just a bunch of people who never cared about me to begin with, more like they were surrounded by people who seemed like they care and by caring more and having some access they one upped others and had something better than personal clout. It’s like “stealing” someone’s crush for them. You know a person likes someone “popular” and YOU had access to that popular person, not them. Eat it. Nothing good came out of it. If you monetize it, money is good. I understand famous people who do it for money only. If you gotta deal with this crap, at least gotta get paid. Probably will delete later.

You are very amazing I love how you think 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🥰

Violent J talks about this in his book, whatever music you grew up bumping in your younger years, you will be nostalgic for that music forever. My dad told me the same, his favorites are all the stuff he listened to when he was young.

I remember talking to my friend at the turn of the century. He was going into the video phone business, he told me that one day video phones would dominate, and everybody would be able to make videos to connect, and we would be able to watch videos from whoever we want one day, I remember thinking he was overly enthusiastic, and how technologies rarely work out the way people imagine them in their humble beginnings.

You’re dead wrong about Lady Gaga rejecting the mainstream. She utterly and totally embraced it, save from her red carpet outfits and videoclip esthetic. Her music doesn’t have an ounce of experimental in it and was always aimed to appeal to top 50 radio type of listeners

'It's a certain kind of fool that likes to hear the sound of his own name.' --The Eagles

wishing desperately that you were in the past simply means you are dissatisfied with your actual current life. Ever since I've figured this out i've tried to actually improve my current life, to make it something i'm fine with

Ever notice most in Hollywood come from broken backgrounds and are really broken people.

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Okay. But when is mainstream music going to become great again? Timeless? Memorable ?

My mom is somewhat narcissistic, and she educated me to become obsessed with my own success and appeal. All my life I've felt like I'm nothing, and that I need become famous. That's what my mother taught me. She was really ignored by her father as a kid, she faced bullying in school and got obsessed about becoming a ballerina. She is hurt because she never felt appreciated, and she made me feel the same. It's generational. Thanks for this video, is very helpful.

That's the one thing i never wanted. Most fans are weirdos

I'm very nostalgic for 2012, 2016 and 2019.

Let's put grunge in there. Shout out and rip in power to Tina Bell 🫶🏿🤟🏿of Bam Bam. And Death from Detroit their punk origins. Don't play with my people ❤

Omg thank you for this ❤

As a Nassim Nicholas Taleb stan, this video explains a whole lot about that beef. And why so many others have taken issue with him. On the face of it, he wants to be immune from any criticism, by placing himself on a pedestal . You can't be in the arena of ideas and on that pedestal at the same time.

Wait, so becoming a famous influencer isn’t gonna save me? damn

We grew up similar, moving at least 15 times before the age of 18 and that wasn't even the end of it.... going from a Canadian culture to a middle eastern culture constantly made you feel homeless even though you had 2 homes.

firstly, i love this video and your topics. i agree with your thesis..ive been saying this for years!!

What twomad saw

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As a late born Millennial when I hear “Gen Z Nostalgia” it makes me 🤢. What do Gen Z have to be nostalgic for, shit was like yesterday. What us Millenials get nostalgic for FOX Kids Furby’s Tamagotchi Prime Eminem Nokia 3310 phone Samsung E105 flip phone Motorola Razr V3 silver Flip Phone Sony Ericsson phones CD’s Blockbusters Virgin Megastores VHS tapes PS1 and PS2 Mighty Morphin Power Rangers Home Alone movies Buffy The Vampire Slayer Angel Charmed Sabrina The Teenage Witch Malcom In The Middle And the thing I miss most was NO fucking Social Media

I wanted to be world famous my whole life. That's scary.

Dude, there's always been nostalgia; notice how the first Back to the Future went back to 1955 and Nick at Nite ran 50s/early 60s b/w shows? That's because the now grown up Baby Boomers wanted to relive those childhood kinds of things and of course their kids got to see them as well (I was/am a HUGE fan of the early 60s Dennis the Menace sitcom) That was also the start of the baseball card boom where 50s/60s cards were quite coveted and sometimes valuable. Not only that but the second Back to the Future movie figured by 2015 there'd be the same sort of nostalgia for the 80s. Don't know if we ever got 80s Cafes but other than that they hit the nail right on the head!

Nah, keep the fame. Just give me the money ❤😂...

I guess fame is like dancing on thin ice. Of course I agree with you on what you are talking about. But I think you can be strong enough to handle fame, even if your desire is from some insecurity or trauma. Like what if when I was a kid I dreamed of being famous and now I'm strong and confident enough to live a normal life but I still want to be famous. But in a good way. Just show what you can do and show your art. I think it is possible. If you understand

I wish there would be a mental health collective out here to help RUclipsrs get the help they need. They may have BPD. Boarderline Personality because you feel empty inside. As far as fame is concerned i tried acting in my childhood . I can sing but not like a rock star. Singing makes me happy. I grew up in a dysfunctional family that was loving but still struggling where i fit. My christian faith helps me and i have been through a lot of therapy but not the right therapy. I was diagnosed late in life of my problem's and i think my parents were more protective with me as much as they understood My story is way too long and healing takes time. Healing from things you realize and you can clearly see before you can help other's Help for those who want it. I like the idea of re-parenting and if people can adopt why not re-parent? I adopted a guy i had a crush on as a friend. He was like a brother to me Complex Trauma www.youtube.com/@TimFletcher They have tons of videos focused on mental health. www.youtube.com/@Psych2go I like how you put together your video and explain things. ❤

This is so real😢

Brother man people have been shooting in 8k film since the 60s/70s so no

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True 👍🏾❤️

Yes! Escapism has saved my life.

nice docs thanks for that. Whats the melody underlying the video?

Lemme guess you watched election night 2016 on CNN and MSNBC. Never lose an election?

You dont know the difference from "we" and "i" thanks face tattoos

I know foood and housing being cheaper and low unemployment are totally the same as watching people be unalived in NYC, DC and Pennsylvania

In the 50s and 60s mentally ill and srug addicted people weren't living in Tent cities and were off the streets

Less autism and peanut allergies prior to 2024. Housing and food were cheaper to 2024

Dude, you're doing God's work with this channel. (In a secular way 😂) Thank you so much. Wishing you all the best and excited to dig into your work more.

Alive on planet earth? You are traumatized.

This is Michael Jackson's life in a nutshell

Fuck fame, fuck recognition, fuck people, be good, be free.

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You’re welcome.

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I think I understood fairly early that being extremely rich was a good thing because, if nothing else, money does buy a lot of freedom of action, but fame should be avoided at all costs because it reduces that freedom, and the more you experience it, the less free you are. Being rich, anonymous, and, above all, HEALTHY, is the best way to live.

A psychologically apt interpretation

This is the 21st Century, this is when everything changes, and you’ve gotta be ready

Just wanted to put this out there for those who were also asking: This video was my personal description of love. Still, we are all obviously our own people with our own experiences & I could never tell anyone about their first-hand experience with love. When I say some forms of love are “selfish”, I don’t mean to sound judgmental but just to point out how inherently ego-driven people are, even in their relationships. Life is hard and most of us have a lot of baggage and we subconsciously search for healing in other people, which is fine, but still to me not “true love”. When you are in “true love” you are healthy, healed, and full & this fullness allows you to focus on the other and fill them up, not *only* focus on how they fill you. It’s a selfless appreciation for the other and when both parties feel this way, you get an incredible bond that nourishes each other A lot of these comments are making me realize I may have not done as good of a job with details, but to clarify: true love (& all love) is reciprocal. I was in no way trying to say that love *should* be one-sided, but that when you do find your true love you will love them forever no matter what. It’s not that you’ll *never* have disagreements or “rough patches”, but just that your love for them will be so powerful that you cannot get mad/judgmental, or genuinely resentful. You just know/ appreciate them too well to get upset. To me, true love is unconditional and infinite, but realistic and well-rounded, unlike infatuation which makes it so rare, but again this is all my own beliefs and something as complex as love is def subjective on some level

2:28 I am also like this, I too never felt like I dind't know who I was and I always to stuck to my beliefs no matter what. I am me and I cannot be anyone else