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Thank you, your words are so beautiful it's brought tears to my eyes. That man you see in the picture is my husband of 15 years and he's an alcoholic. I love him and we've been through gobs of heartbreaking issues but Jehovah God has always helped us . And I know he's the answer to this problem but mu husband has to allow him in his life.

Im checking in on monday for alcohol. Nervous but looking forward to it. It's time. Ty for the insight and im glad to see ur doing good, bro.

Nice to see you’re doing your own thing for you. 👍 Thanks for the video! My lady has had it with my drinking and we’ll, dropped her at her place this PM and I got NO goodnight 💤 message for me... she’s got a history of punishment with the silent treatment…and here we are again. It’s a long story…I stopped drinking a month before I met her…no ETOH x 5 years over relationship but she’d not a problem solver but instead when stressed would pack up leave…many many times instead of trying to work out difference…ghosting, silent treatment etc…and such. Abbreviated story for sure…I guess I should have let her just move on but too dependent and it’s hard for me to be alone. Yikes!😮 Eventually, I started drinking again. It’s been about 3 yrs on the sauce and I’m miserable. We’ve been together on and off again and well, she ghosted me again today. I hate this. Sorry to ramble. Got to sleep and get 3-4 hrs before I get up for work. I liked your video and wanted to reach out. Thanks brother. I happy to hear you’re doing ok. It gives me hope to hear that a fellow alcoholic is living life. Be well!

I would never dream of getting involved with another alcoholic having done it once. They are always either thinking of when they can drink or hungover. Mine was verbally abusive too when drunk, bundle of fun. I watched him put himself before his kids and finally got out. It doesn’t get better very often as alcoholism is a progressive disease. My advice would be if it’s a problem at the beginning of a relationship 🚩 🚩 🚩

It seems he has NO KNOWLEDGE, NOR EXPERIENCE of what he is talking about. He is simply reading from articles, and repeating information. LAME.

1:26 "Meth that was a big one for awhile-really big one for awhile." Interviewers Response Verbatim: 1:31

Day 8!! I know this time has to be it or it’s gonna be the end of me.

Thank you so much for making this video. Even if it seems like people don't appreciate this video that you have made, there are many, many people out there that deeply appreciate this video. I loved an alcoholic for 3 and 1/2 years and it's sad that he chose alcohol over me, because I feel so deeply in love with him and I miss him so much, but I just have to remember that he can't love and he has a disease. He will always be in my heart and he will always be a cherished memory. He's not dead, but I'm speaking of him as if he is because he socially isolates and pushes me away and almost sometimes acts in a cheating manner, but I know deep down he's a really wonderful man (as silly as that sounds, but he is). All I can do is pray that he recovers one day, but until then, I have to get on with my life.

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Yo, those chemicals are used to SYNTHESIZE meth. It's just organic chemistry for synthesis. The final product doesn't have drain cleaner or aceton ect in it. The only product you are ingesting is methamphetamine hydrochloride that's it. All drugs use strong acidic bases, volatile solvents ect fir chemical reactions to mutate and create new molecules. It's just misinformation saying you are ingesting all those chemicals in your final product

I love bath slats ❤! My favorite one is MDPV and A-PVP. I also love. Methamphetamine too❤. Though when i brew my own shake and bake it's ok, but not as good as Mexican shards❤

Most of them are narcissists.

Awesome Interview!!🫡 Thumbs up!👍 and shared out.❤

So I just need Gatorade bottle lithium tin foil acetone drainer fluid n crushed up sudafed?

Sorry but rehabs is not always the right answer , because it's all based on the 12step program and IV see people go in and out, aver and over again 3 present rate not good

This is me. I told my family to leave me alone and was very cruel about it. The guilt and the shame of horrible I am and hurting them over and over is just killing me.

I used to call alcohol my husbands “mistress”, his first love. He defiantly loves me, has learned to put himself first and his health. Drinking is still on the table for occasions of celebrating something. But after finding out he had cirrhosis he stopped the insanity. It took a seizure, head injury from the fall and an overnight in the hospital to snap him out of it. It’s like the universe smacked him upside the head. A year later he’s happy again, working again after a year off, and our marriage has gotten a LOT healthier too. It is possible, and it is possible for them to love but NOT when in active addiction. It’s like they are in another reality.

It is very hurtful to love an active alcoholic. When he doesn’t care enough to do rehab and learn to take responsibility for his actions, it’s better to be alone than in such a relationship. I am happy, mostly for himself, that my partner finally went to rehab. We will see…

"An addict lies to keep their addiction going" As the loved one of an alcoholic, it sounds silly but I've literally googled "Why does an alcoholic lie?" to try and find a rational reason how such a kind good person can turn into a complete lier. That line so far has really helped me. Thank you!

Hi, im dealing with a breakup rn. My gf broke up with me 2 months ago bc of her addictions. She drinks and smokes a lot and she also have a little weed addiction. I knew she wasn’t in a stable state of mind when i first met her and I knew this was gonna be hard but I still wanted to try to make this work. She broke up with me bc she said she was feeling selfish of trying to keep me in her life, knowing shes incapable of giving me something stable. I told her its more selfish of her to push the people that love her away. I wanted to help her. I know its not my job, but help her in a moral way yk? She told me she doesn’t wznt to become dependent of my help, bc if one day im not in her life anymore, she wouldn’t know how to deal with it. I understznd that point. She said shes aware of the fact that shes not doing well, but she not in the mental state of trying to get better. Its complicated to leave someone you love, knowing theyre suffering, knowing they still love you. Do I let go? Do I wait for her? Im questioning our whole relationship rn, that’s how I found this video, im trying to understand. Thank you, and im sending love to whoever is living the same. P.S sorry for my English, its not my native language

My partner has an alcohol problem. I’ve never felt genuine love from him. I don’t feel he even truly loves our kids. It’s all superficial and more about how things look to the outside world. And yes, I’m making plans to leave with the kids for our own mental health.

I miss rehab, the people, the safe environment. Im drifting now....😢

I had to leave my ex...he has to learn to love himself...stop hurting himself before he can love someone because life is truly worth living sober and living life with the people who truly love you!

I'm on day 7 after drinking pretty much every day for 12 years. I laughed during this video because everything he describes is what I went through. Except for the grumpiness, My Fiance was a lovely support during the first 3 days and I couldn't possibly get grumpy with her. Was I grumpy inside? Yes. Did I choose to not show it? Yes. Great video for all us out here who are battling that arsehole known as ''Alcohol''

Alcoholic women should NEVER be engaged in a relationship. Guys. DONT EVER DO IT. It’s not your problem and they’ll never change until they’re DONE with the pain. And if they do quit, they won’t be the woman you fell for, so it only confirms further that you never should’ve engaged. Alcoholics CAN control themselves, they just choose not to, and they make that choice EVERY DAY that they don’t seek help. Every day they choose a drink is another day they choose that MORE THAN ANYTHING OR ANYONE ELSE.

I met the most loving caring guy in the world he treats me like a queen but he's an alcoholic and the love for the boze is no competition for me I sent out with him and my friends we had alot of drunk and came home ge drank too but its never enough so I let him go he's like a monster when he's drunk and angry and I am scared so I let him go 😢😢😢😢

You can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped. Sad cold harsh absolute truth. And no amount of understanding or love will make that happen unless they want it to happen. You must care for yourself first especially when the person you love is completely incapable of loving or caring for themselves or you in return. To stay or leave, to keep trying or to let them go is entirely your choice. Neither choice is easy. Neither choice is right or wrong. Both choices are going to hurt you. But either way you must accept that your loved one may never choose to heal. So you have got to do what ever you need to, to keep you strong. It absolutely isn’t selfish to do so. Learning what addiction really is, learning what enabling is will help you

Currently, I am facing a dilemma with a person of interest. I’m so concerned for them. We have such great times, but all the great times get ruined by their alcohol problem. I'm wondering if I should continue to pursue the relationship with hope, or save myself from heartache by not tagging along on their journey. One thing I can say is that my person is at least trying to recover, but they don’t want professional help. They’ve been able to remain sober for maybe six months on their own but then relapsed some time in the beginning of this year and have not been able to regain control since.

I tried math when I was just 16 years old I stayed up for a probably at a week, I was sitting on my couch in the living room and there was a dead family sitting next to me on the couch and there was spiders crawling around made out of human bones and bugs different kinds of bugs I couldn’t deal with it I just left the house and went outside anything that happened from then I don’t even know if it was real or not never touched it again it scared the fuck out of me 😢

On the 1st night doing it i saw demons and have pictures so no psychosis its REAL

I have pictures of actual demons clear as day!! The Phone isnt Hallucinating!! Meth is a portal to the demonic!! Its made with phosphorus which comes from bones!! Its witchcraft

Could you do a video on binge drinking. Or one on alcohol leading to cheating. Thank you.

2 days no sleep 😴 negative thoughts 💭 when try to sleep

Rhinoceros and nasocort will free you from addiction you need to use both.

Im on day 7. It is important to remember how bad it was at first - every detail - so I dont repeat the process. It gets better

I'm making TODAY MY FIRST!! NO MORE DAMNED EXCUSES AND PROCRASTINATING AND FUKKERY

Yeah but what happens if the pregnancy is dangerous to the mother?

Day 1 wish me luck

THIS IS A TOTAL BULLSHIT OPINIONATED OVERGENERALIZATION!! YES ITS TRUE ALCOHOLICS MAY BE A BIT SLOPPY AND RECKLESS AND CAN BE FRUSTRATING BUT MAKING A BULLSHIT STATEMENT LIKE THIS YHROWS THE WHOLE PERSON AWAY AND DOES NOTHING BUT FEED AN ALREADY OVERGENERALIZED PREJUDICE!!! MAYBE REPHRASING YOUR TITLE WOULD BE MORE PRODUCTIVE FOR YOU IF YOUD LIKE TO ACTUALLY HAVE A PERSON LISTEN RO YOU INTENTLY RATHER THAN JUST ENDURE A LONGWINDED OPINION. BEING HELPFUL IS ONE THING BUT LABELING AND SAYING AN ALCOHOLIIC " CANT REALLY LOVE YOU"! IS WHOLESALE CONDEMNATION. THANKS FOR TRYING

Your talk was amazing. It answered so many questions for me. I always take it personally and feel the person I’m involved with doesn’t care and is all about themselves.

I have the same clean date as you do! That's awesome! After 20+ years in active addiction, IV drug use, homeless living on the street, at the end of my run I was intentionally overdosing to end my life every time I shot up and constantly failing at my mission. 24 inpatient treatment stays, prison time, jail stays like a revolving door and had completely lost my sanity and my soul. I entered my last inpatient treatment straight from a overdose that resulted in me ending up in the ICU. My discharge plan was to be escorted straight to inpatient treatment. I stayed for almost 11 months. Graduated. Went directly to sober living as far away from my stomping grounds as I could find and have never looked back since I left. I have worked my ass off to build my life and career. I now work as a certified Peer Recovery Specialist Reciprocal and hold a state license to provide recovery services for people seeking recovery or are fresh in sobriety and need help getting life back together again. I live for my career and I'm so proud to be able to help people build their sobriety and start fresh. If you think you can't do it or there's no hope for you, I promise you there is. I was the addict that everyone else said I'd die far before I ever even imagined being sober. I was the hopeless case. Don't give up and don't ever lose hope.

I believe than it an alcoholic person is kind at heart... yes, he or she can love but the addiction is stronger than them and it takes over.

ANYONE out there have any advice for me, Please ? Close loved one on meth manyyy years. In bad shape, a bad way now but refuses professional help. I believe they are in the psychosis part as I type this. It is so crazy that its not crazy. HOW can I get close relative help against there will before this claims there life ???? I have talked to professionals which give me NO help at all since this person refuses help on there own. Have called sheriff department, they do a wellness check and leave because of course my relative is lying to them that all is well with them. Has to be a way around the system because the system is letting me down WHAT DO I DO ????? WHAT CAN I DO ???? Feel like i'm standing alone and trying to keep my loved one alive till some form of help comes there way. Thank you for any comments of help. Blessings.

Watching this as an alcoholic and it really sucks to see comments about how addicts cannot love. I think theres a stigma out there that addicts are somehow less human than non-addicts; that we purposefully choose the vice over our loved ones. Addiction is something very hard to understand and it is easy to chalk a group of people up to a single set of negative characteristics, especially when your life has been deeply negatively affected by an addict. Obviously every addict is different but. I dunno. I can love. I love people in my life.

Anyone and everyone can step away from the addict.

Where results?

My significant other has a drinking problem that I've been blamed for for so long, my mother recently died and now I have created a drinking habit and I'm not eating like I should. Any suggestions or help. I'm feeling very lost and stuck.

I bet nobody has a story like mine

The minds games is one of the most cruel parts of this for a partner. He hid/hides his drinking and I genuinely thought I was losing my grip on reality because he would deny, avoid, and lie when I asked questions. I would see the red vodka top in his pocket and ask "oh are you having a drink?" and he'd look straight in my eyes and say "what do you mean? No. I'm going to bed" etc. etc. This went on for maybe 2-3 weeks until I found the hidden stash. I bawled my eyes out. I realized I was not crazy! He used his child's mom instability as an excuse to drink ... I asked why he hides it and he had the nerve to tell me he hides "because I make it uncomfortable for him to drink openly" ... still I said nothing. He's late/doesn't pay for his part of rent, lives in a mess etc. The straw that broke the camels back was when he showed up to work drunk, got sent home, then used his grandmothers illness as the excuse to why he drank. A mess. I'm so done! Wish me luck as I end this relationship!

4 months spice free! Got my life back but it took some time. Withdrawal was insane and had the feeling it was never gonna end. But i made it!! Everyday a bit better