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0:41 It's called "Effort justification." It's related to the ikea effect and sunk cost fallacy, but it's not the same thing. It's a common factor in cult behavior. They tend to have very demanding behaviors required to join the cult. So after you get in, you justify the effort because you don't want it to be waisted. From there, the cult can get people to believe some pretty crazy stuff. I don't know how I feel about effort justification as a writing technique. On one hand, I do think Lord of the Rings is elevated by the fact that it's written in a way that makes it feel like an old tail passed down through the ages. And the little bit of effort it takes to understand the dead references and the like. On the other hand, let's just say I don't agree with this appraisal of Memories of Ice.

Very good information, I,m 56 and have been smoking 40 years. This has been my first week sober !!

I started out really disliking Karsa, but man... he has one of the most interesting arcs in the entire series. He goes from bloodthirsty barbarian to being a warrior philosopher. Somehow Erikson sells that transformation.

This is one of the better videos I’ve seen about quitting weed thanks for the upload! The most I’ve listened to and connected with and just feels real so I’m here for it thanks! I’m currently in that zone where I know I need to stop but I just keep using it. I just can’t seem to go even one day without and I have a lot of shame around using it every time I fail my goals (I’m dependant) have CPTSD so it can be very difficult but I’ll get there one day I hope. Awesome vid thanks!

It's a nice read Although I liked house of chains more

Quiting smart , made me weeder

One thing that happened to me after 20 years of smoking weed is that it stopped helping me forget about unpleasant things, and it started amplifying them. This was actually a good thing for me, because instead of getting high and feeling good, I would get high and start feeling really guilty about it. I would think of all of the things that I should be doing, but can't do because now I'm high. High me didn't want to be high, it only sounded good when I was sober... eventually high me decided, that I love weed, but I just can't do it anymore. I hope everyone watching this can get to this point.

Dude your story mirrors mine almost to the T. Thank you for uploading this video, helped me make the steps i needed to take to get my shit back on track.

im 37, I smoked my first at 20 years old. Today I stopped.

This is the probably the best and one of the most relatable vids I’ve found regarding giving up addiction to weed. Thanks for sharing!!

Great video! i like the way you worded everything, very intelligent and articulate. Its all so relatable. Keep it going!

One word at a time. On book 6 and loving it.

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Is there any data out there to suggest smoking Pot actually lowers iQ scores?

“Destroying my ability to focus for long periods of time” “destroys ability to dream correctly”

Starting Smoking Weed Made Me Smarter and Improved My Life

An important aspect is to observe yourself carefully: note how after a while, your witts come back, your whole energy and vibe changes, you are not overwhelmed so easy. Also note that it's not a miracle cure, problems will be problems, I got 99 problems but being a distanced, angsty stoner finally ain't one

you need to get a life mate dont blame weed its you not the weed i smoke and ii made 2 mill last year from my farm we work all day have have good fun we go out every fri sat night we eat so well and we grow weed look at my life then look at you trying to blame weed for your lonly life

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Thanks for this man. Your video has given me that tiny little push I needed to see what a life without weed might be like.

iv been smoking since i was 14 im 36 now been 3 days with out weed i had a anxiety attack that's one of the reasons im quitting im so skinny because when im hungry i just have a bong and my hunger will go and i forget to eat and when i do eat i haven't got appetite to finish my meal since i had a anxiety attack it hasn't stop that all im thinking about is jumping off something high just to stop the feeling proper scary i got 4 kids i dont wanna die but can't handle this shit much more iv been feeling something coming on for the last 2weeks i just was telling my self you ok and it would pass but the last 3 days been hard i dont know wa to do sorry for my spelling

13 years of smoking, entering my second month of being pot free!! Tired of wasting my time being high all the time, I feel deep inside of having potentials of bettering my life that smoking weed just kept on hindering

SPOILERS: The tiste edur that bug kills when defending tehol (by dumping him into the warren of ruse at a crushing water depth) is the tiste edur body that Paran and Quick Ben find in book 3, Memories of Ice. They come close to figuring out what killed him. Their best guess was rapid decompression, but they couldn't figure out how that was possible. Bug was so pissed off, he yeeted that edur down and through the warren of ruse and the body popped up on another continent, flopped up and out of a shallow stream on the opposite side of the world.

A small correction. “Prospero Burns” is actually the 15th book in the Horus Heresy collection. So if you read it in order you would read “A Thousand Sons” (Book 12) first. I think the author chose a more skimmed version in “Prospero Burns” because if you read in order you would already know the more detailed battle from “A Thousand Sons”.

day 2, struggling, but im focusing at the bigger picture

After 31 years and a pause of 2 years 5 years ago. I decide 8 days ago to quit

Consider this; if our naughty government says it’s okay to smoke weed, that is totally sus, and a good reason to not smoke. Besides, your brain makes better drugs than you can grow or buy.

Nice! How’s that freedom feel?

just finished it yesterday and I loved it, what a masterpiece, not going to lie, cried like a baby at certain events near the end, and laughed throughout too. I've never read books where I had to stop so many times to re-read a passage because it struck me so hard and true. I've loved each book more than the last, hope this continues for book 4 and beyond, what an amazing series!

This is the video I needed to watch to change my life at this point.

Thank you for the video man. I've had a similar journey, had a 1month break fell back for a month and i'm 2 weeks in now on my quitting journey:)

I also came from a faze of smoking on a regular and it's not cool because not everyone functions well to do so all the time...I micro dose now and only occasionally and my life is just more clear of thoughts

Quitting over and over and over again for 50 years, I regret ever quitting all those times. If you don't have issues that require cannabis, you probably shouldn't use it. It's not a party drug, but stress medicine. In particular, it has always been the preferred stress medicine the traumatized victims of 60 years of violent and sexually perverse alcohol related crimes, including the sexual abuse of 10s of millions of children, used to treat traumatic stress and other disorders. Make sure you are not taking us back to being ruled by alcoholics and codependents who waged war on the traumatized victims of the nation's drunken debauchery.

How are the audiobooks

Trull Sengar is one of my favorite characters in any fantasy story I've read.

Deadhouse Gates is one of the best books I ever read. What people seem to miss with Malazan is you need to take the book in as if you are a person there watching the conversation taking place. Subtleties of conversation are not explained to you as if you are a distant observer, but rather a person there observing a real in person conversation. That will help to pick up on the flow of conversation. No big information drops, you need to pick up on styles of conversation, as you do in a real life conversation

I just finished MOI and I agree. One of the best books I have ever read. I may put Deadhouse Gates slightly higher on my list but MOI is right there. As for Steve’s writing style, I personally like it. You have to pay attention to pick up on the innuendos as there are no spoon feed information drops and conversation are as you would expect a conversation to flow in the real world, again with no information drops to hold your hand. The book definitely touched on relationships, self reflection and redemption. I love how his prologue is in a way a metaphor for what is to come in the book. I really enjoyed Lady Envy and I hope she reappears in the following books. I also really enjoyed the ending scene with Tool and felt it was well deserved. Odd to say but I miss this book even though I just finished it

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You're not on Discord?

I don't know how you(reading this) is going to take this, but nobody, absolutely nobody cares if you quit weed. It is all up to you if you want to make your life better. Just like how nobody cares if you go to the gym or not 💪

quitting weed aint shit. you sleep bad for a week maybe, then you're golden. ez money. if you get any of these "anxiety" affects, thats on you, and weed isn't your ticket.

"It can take such a long time before you realize it's an issue" No shit, Sherlock. I'm 60 and have been a daily user for 40 plus years. Stopped smoking 3 weeks ago. (I've taken little mini-breaks in the past but never with the intention of stopping completely). As age creeps up, it's also the lung damage that I have been steadily become more aware of. I have been in denial from the negative effects, like to my apathy towards socializing, general motivation, yada yada. I would go to parties and find it difficult to talk to people I didn't know. I went to a garden party this past Saturday and I can honestly say I had a much more interactive time which made the afternoon so much more enjoyable than before, when in my awkwardness, I would sidle off and take a "hit". This would previously leave me aimlessly wandering around, not able to summon up the courage to "break the ice". It's just a vicious cycle. Yes, there are some issues that I'm currently experiencing like some crazy dreams [and] in general, fairly disrupted sleep patterns. It's a relief to know that this is just a part of the detox process and once through this bit of the journey, my body and mind is set to re-balance. My advice to anyone, "Don't leave it as long as I did, [although] it's never too late to break the habit".

Idk. I'm smoking 5-10 grams a month, and I feel like it's not messing that much with me. Though, I haven't taken more than 6 days off in a row for quite a while. I might just be an addict making excuses, but I do believe that if you can control your dosage to a small amount, it doesn't really affect you to any significant degree.

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Great video! I am a 60 yr old GRANDMA who reads hundreds of quick romances and also loves Jane Austen bahaha. I’ve read and loved Lord of the Rings and The Silmarillion. My adult son TRICKED me into reading Gardens of the Moon and I didn’t realize how long it was when I started lol. I am almost to the last book and this series is unbelievably rich and wonderful! I think it even beats Tolkien. The language and the way Erikson has such a deep grasp of the human condition. I laugh and cry and smile and giggle all through the books. Wonderful characters. It helps to do as you say and not spend time trying to figure out every little thing but keep moving. It also helps to take a short break, read another totally different genre like a romance and come back quickly. The audio books are also wonderful. When I finish, I’m going to start over from the beginning because I’ll be able to read all the finer points, hints and clues that I missed the first time. It really is life changing. ❤❤❤

9:40 you're still getting REM sleep and dreaming, the REM cycle is just shortened. This is also why you're less likely to remember dreams while smoking. In fact, the best time to remember a dream is being woken up during the middle of it. Quitting smoking also provides the perfect opportunity to practice lucid dreaming however I'd be careful as the amount of misinformation is vast

Best book i have ever read.. omg go read philosophy and stop being so weak.

I should mention (in a non spoiler way) that there was a particularly large event that happened towards the end of the book that I don't discuss in this video. TBH I felt like it was jammed in to speed up the HH plot. Though the event itself has pretty big implications for Imperium Secundus and the Primarchs involved in this novel.

Joe knows things. Much like Malazan. The type of books we rate it higher looking back. I think this 3 is 1 story, we just can’t read it alone or rate them. I wonder what his agent or more his publisher thought when they got the first book. These are huge risk factors. No matter how high is the rate now, the Blade Itself is not the best when you open it up just for the first few page. And it doesn’t work alone.

the problem is prohibition, i guarentee if you had high quality hash oil and a way to consume it in a non combustable way instead of straight flower your would NEVER cheef all day, it becomes inpossoble. made possible only by the broken system forcing people to rely on sketchy ways to use and buy cannabis.