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That sounds like fun! Except you are not a woman.

👉 Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction 00:13 - Join my new FB Group 00:42 - The Problem 01:05 - Could You Write A Book? 03:00 - Blogging? 03:32 - Advice To Get Started 04:23 - Do Your Research 04:34 - Pick Your Rabbit 04:55 - Get Creative 05:12 - Free Downloads? 05:32 - Build Up Your Credibility 06:49 - Remember To Join The FB Group

Thanks James 😊

Thanks for your full transparency. Quick, simple, and to the point.

✨ Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction 00:24 - Join My FaceBook Group 00:59 - The Problem 01:28 - The Cinema 02:31 - The BIG Question 03:12 - A Recent Issue 03:57 - Walk The Walk Yourself 👉 Join my new Facebook Group - facebook.com/groups/therapybusinessschool/

Well James, I picked number 4 but the description is way off. I'm definitely more like number 2 👍

Did the answers reveal anything about you? Let me know in the comments. 🙂

Very useful information James, thank you.

Very helpful James....thank you for sharing!

One person may be sitting in the therapy chair during a session, but that does not mean there is just one voice! Sometimes, there are many client 'voices', and some may be actively and intentionally silent too. In this episode, I discuss this, some reasons why it may be happening, and some techniques to assist you too. Best wishes, James

The book is fantastic, just finished the audiobook on recommendation from a colleague. Thank you ❤

Client Testimonials and a Canva Tutorial. Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction 00:31 - The Issue 02:06 - Testimonials on show? 04:22 - Get Clear On The Details 05:31 - Your Social Media? 06:22 - The Impact 06:40 - A Canva Tutorial 13:07 - How to Work WIth Video Testimonials 15:50 - Join My FaceBook Group

great video, thx!

👉 Time Stamps: 00:00 - Introduction 00:22 - The 10 Monkeys - A New Therapy Book For Children 01:09 - The Plot 02:28 - How To 'Follow' Me On Amazon 03:00 - New Releases Coming Soon

👉 Time Stamps: 00:00 - Introduction 00:17 - What are TFB Loops? 01:16 - Just For Fun 02:30 - Using TFB Loops in Therapy 04:32 - Another Experiment 05:24 - Join my FaceBook Group

👉 Time Stamps: 00:00 - Introduction 00:50 - What is a Double Bind? 01:38 - Double Binds In Therapy 03:33 - Gordon Ramsey! 04:46 - How To Practice it 05:33 - Some Admin 06:07 - Join the FB Group

👉 Time Stamps: 00:00 - Introduction 00:36 - Timing Is Crucial 01:03 - A True Story 05:15 - Forgiving Another 06:56 - The Forgiveness Letter 08:12 - Forgiving Yourself 11:01 - Summary 11:34 - Join My FaceBook Group

Yes I would be interested😊

💬 Your Input Matters! Drop a comment below with: - "YES" if you're eager for this mini video course. - "NO" if it's not your cup of tea. - Or share your thoughts on what you'd love to see in the course! 👉 Your feedback will shape the content, ensuring it addresses YOUR specific needs. Let's make this course an invaluable asset for therapists everywhere!

00:00 - Introduction 01:21 - Rich Dad, Poor Dad 02:54 - x3 Concepts 06:01 - Earning While You Sleep 06:26 - Assets and Liabilities 07:55 - In Therapy 08:44 - Turning a Liability Into An Asset 10:27 - Assets I Have 13:18 - Homework 15:09 - Final Thoughts 15:29 - Join My FaceBook Group

👉 Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction 00:30 - How to put your prices up 01:22 - Why you should 01:50 - How much should I charge? 04:09 - How to inform your clients 06:07 - Confirm this vis email 07:07 - Final Thoughts

A Life Coaching Tip For Your Clients Success. In this video, discover a game-changing life coaching tip that you can implement into your therapy practice, which will supercharge your clients journey to success!

Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction 00:25 - The Problem 00:50 - #1 Develop a Self-Care Routine 01:49 - The Trouble Tree 04:35 - #2 Supervision 05:35 - #3 Manage Your Caseload 06:11 - #4 Continued Education 06"58 - #5 Time Boundaries 07:51 - #6 Regular Breaks 08:57 - #7 Delegation 09:48 - #8 Mindfulness 10:32 - #9 Your Food/Diet 11:23 - #10 Checking In 12:12 - #11 New Things 13:10 - BONUS - A Christmas Gift

My former therapist of 6 years began to take trips the last couple years. As the final couple years progressed the trips got longer and more often. By the end he was taking 3-5 trips per year of 3-6 weeks each. Thats too much. I thought maybe he was trying to close out his practice but apparently not. During his most recent trip I found a new therapist and started seeing her before he left. He didn’t seem to mind. He came back 6 weeks later and texted me at 11 pm the night before our regular session and said “see you tomorrow at 10 am our normal time?” I thought this was disrespectful and frankly…. Strange. Mostly that he didn’t seem to notice these long and frequent trips weren’t ok. Easy to trigger abandonment. And what were his other patients saying? I have no idea. I did a wrap up session at his request the following week and that was it. I will never understand what happened. Very clueless, disrespectful and bizarre behavior isn’t it???

When I was training to be a counsellor, I remember my tutor teaching us about erotic transference. He said, "It's not a case of 'IF' it will happen. It's a case of 'WHEN", and he was right. Here are the time stamps to assist. 📌 Time Stamps: 00:00 - Introduction 00:20 - Join my new Facebook Group 00:33 - What is Erotic Transference? 00:56 - Erotic Transference (client towards therapist) 01:34 - What is Counter Transference 01:57 - Erotic Transference (both sides) 02:12 - Why it may happen (1) 03:04 - Florence Nightingale 04:10 - Strategies 06:05 - Why it may happen (2) 06:50 - Fear! 08:23 - If you are having erotic transference 10:11 - Josef Breuer 11:34 - The next video

📌 Time Stamps: 00:00 - Introduction 01:24 - Checking in 02:30 - Goal Setting 03:36 - Client Concerns 04:04 - Using A Story 05:45 - Weaning Off 07:14 - How Has Your Journey Been? 07:46 - Heaping Praise On You 08:30 - Leave The Door Open 09:32 - An Ending Done Wrong 12:04 - A Natural Conclusion 12:27 - Like, Share, and Subscribe 12:38 - The Next Episode

Anger In The Therapy Room. 📌 Time Stamps: 00:00 - Introduction 00:36 - A therapist I know 02:28 - Join my new Facebook group 02:53 - A scenario 04:50 - Name the elephant! 06:10 - Projection 07:41 - Anger at themselves 09:06 - The letter 10:47 - Holding on Letting Go 11:18 - Children and anger 13:33 - Box breathing technique 15:23 - Carl Rogers masterclass 17:28 - The splinter analogy 20:50 - Summary Anger is an emotion that you will often see in the therapy room as a client talks about their presenting problems. The anger can either be external (at another) or internal (at themselves). I talk about this in the video, along with some strategies, techniques, and real-life experiences as well.

Yes 😊

Really helpful. Thank you! 😊

The E-Myth Revisited is a great book if you are either already 'in' business, or looking to go into business, ie your own private practice as a therapist. The story follows a woman (Sarah) who started a bakery through her love of baking when she was a child helping her grandmother. However, the thing she once loved (baking), she is now starting to hate as she is slowly going 'out of business'. Enter the author, Michael Gerber. By way of a series of detailed lessons and explanations, he helps her not only realise what is going wrong (and why), but also what she needs to do to put it right, and why.

Yes please James 🙏

Consultation Tips For Your Therapy Sessions. 📌 Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction 00:22 My Last Video 00:54 Consultations 01:27 My Own Thoughts 02:55 Stay With The Pain Points 03:11 Questions I May Ask 03:57 What I Ask These Questions 05:40 Have A Time Frame 07:18 The Next Step? 08:00 What I Do Now 10:08 A Payment Tip 11:24 What You Don't Want 12:41 Summary 13:35 Join My New FaceBook Group

Thanks James for the full transparency in your review of Bark, I feel much better informed on the platform and think I will have a go at using Bark to find potential clients.

Thanks for this James, also wanted to say that the visuals are great, it really helps me digest what you saying with me being a visual learner

As a therapist, it can be difficult to see someone incredibly upset as they talk about their emotions. This applies to other emotions too, such as anger, bitterness, regret, etc. But there are diamonds there if you can stay in the moment and encourage the client to stay at their 'pain points', and this video is about this topic.

In this educational video, I talk about the fascinating theory behind the Drama Triangle, sometimes called 'The Karpman Triangle' after Stephen Karpman. This is from the world of Transactional Analysis, and I provide a demonstration of these concepts too. 🟢 Key Topics Covered: 🔷 What is the Drama Triangle? 🔷 Key Roles: Victim, Persecutor, and Rescuer 🔷 How it impacts your relationships and communication 🔷 How to Recognise and Break Free from The Drama Triangle 📌 Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction 00:40 - The Drama Triangle Explained 01:01 - The Victim 01:16 - The Rescuer 01:28 - The Persecutor 01:54 - The roles are not fixed! 03:40 - An example 05:14 - How do you escape The Drama Triangle? 06:33 - Working with clients who are in 'The Triangle' 08:23 - Boundaries 09:19 - The new boundaries will be tested! 10:30 - Conclusion and Key Takeaways

This is really interesting, thankyou James

In my last video, I gave an introduction to body language reading and how valuable it can be when it is when used in therapy. In this episode I go a step further by talking about eye accessing cues, and do a demonstration with myself as the guinea pig.

Only a small percentage of what we 'say' is verbal. The rest we convey with our body language, so I would suggest it is a good idea we learn how to read it, or improve our ability too anyway. In this episode I give a very brief introduction to body language, explain why someone scratching their nose does not automatically mean they are lying, and some of the other concepts too.

Really interesting - thanks James, I"ll share with our members

Object relations is a fascinating branch of therapy that has its fingers in many other pies such as transference, Sigmund Freud, Melanie Klein, Winnicott, and much more. In this video, I really do only touch on the tip of the iceberg regarding this, and I would encourage you to do further study in your own time. I hope you enjoy this episode. Best wishes, James

Carl Rogers and UPR (Unconditional Positive Regard). Carl Rogers was an American psychologist who was one of the founders of 'Humanistic Psychology'. In this video, I talk about his UPR approach, or 'unconditional positive regard', and how any person in the well-being space should adopt this (both professionally and personally). I also reference a video where you can see Rogers in action in a series of videos called, 'The Gloria Tapes'. In 'The Gloria Tapes', a client is filmed interacting with three different therapists, using their particular modalities. They are Carl Rogers (Person Centered), Fredrick Perls (Gestalt), and Albert Ellis, (Rational Emotive Therapy). I really would recommend you watch it and notice how the client reacts to these different modalities too. NOTE - There is some conjecture over which style the client (Gloria) actually found most helpful, as she apparently said one, but later felt it was another. Which one do you think was best?

Insightful. Thank you

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Hi! How do you respond to leads? Do you call clients or just email?

👉 Imagine this scenario: The police contact you asking for your therapy notes from either an existing client, or an ex-client. What do you do? What feelings does it bring up? Do you have to provide them? So many questions, but in the video I give some tips and advice around this, both from a therapy perspective and from when I was a Detective in the police myself. Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction 00:25 Scenario 00:48 Do not automatically provide your notes 01:13 If a client or ex-client gives permission 01:53 If they do not give permission 02:07 What the police have to do 02:52 Different ways you can provide notes 04:01 Making a statement 04:50 Do I have to go to court? 05:16 Giving evidence at court (part 1) 06:05 Speak to your supervisor and insurance 06:17 Discussing this with your client 06:39 Seized documents are edited by the police 07:46 Giving evidence at court (part 2) I hope you enjoy this one. If you have any thoughts or questions yourself, just pop them in the comments. Best wishes, James

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A Life Coaching Technique To Help Your Clients As a professional Counsellor, Life Coach, and Hypnotherapist, I see clients for a number of different reasons. Some come to therapy because they want to stop something. Others come because they want to start something. Sometimes, it is a little bit of both. Often, a client will doubt their own ability, or their resolve to come up with possible solutions for their issues or problems. This is a solid technique from the world of life coaching, and it is incredibly powerful. It is also a great technique for a client to realise they do have their answer, and it has been there all along, perhaps hidden under a limiting belief.

Not sure if the referral link is working, do you have another one?

Client Consultations, Reviews, and 7-11-4. When would you say a client consultation actually starts? When the potential client messages you? When you actually talk for the first time? Or would you say it is something else? It actually happens a long time before you even meet, speak or even message. In this video I explain WHY, but also what you can do to assist the consultation (before you even communicate for the first time). I also talk about a concept called 7, 11, 4. This is the psychological reason people make purchasing decisions, based on a study by Google themselves. In this video I also reference certain things, so here are the links for those too: 👉 The free PDF Zero Moments Of Truth - www.thinkwithgoogle.com/_qs/documents/673/2011-winning-zmot-ebook_research-studies.pdf 👉 My Podcast Channel - open.spotify.com/show/0eS0k7TLPzE0dNCDwkQl2A 👉 My book - 'Metaphors And Stories For Therapists': The Paperback version - amzn.to/44DimeC The Kindle Version - amzn.to/3sJmQCV The Audiobook - amzn.to/3r6uKG2 👉 How my Calendly link looks for a typical 30-minute consultation - calendly.com/right-your-own-story/30min You may also be interested in a new journal I have created, either for yourself or to recommend to your clients. It is called, 'The 1-Minute, 365-Day, Appreciation Journal', and it has certain features that others do not have, such as video content. 👉 Here is the video link where I do a show and tell of it - ruclips.net/video/FRW4HreyQYc/видео.html I hope you have enjoyed this video. If you would like me to do one of a mock consultation, please type a YES in the comments and I'll get to it. Best wishes, James #therapybusinessschool #consultations #7114