Dr. Daniel Amen's Simple Tip to Change the Dynamic in any Relationship

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  • Опубликовано: 8 май 2024
  • One of the most powerful tools Dr. Amen ever discovered to radically change relationship dynamics came from an unlikely source: a penguin named Fat Freddy. In this clip, taken from Dr. Daniel Amen's television special "Raising Mentally Strong Kids", Dr. Amen tells the story of how he learned this incredibly powerful lesson and as a result, became an entirely different type of father.
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Комментарии • 73

  • @wheaties1435
    @wheaties1435 10 дней назад +24

    It’s a true business management technique… “catch people doing things right”… and praise them for it.

    • @kimhadley4446
      @kimhadley4446 12 часов назад

      It’s also a Master Teaching technique that works miracles in instruction & achievement. 12:1. Twelve positives to every correction. “Catch them doing it right & Praise and Affirm!”

  • @maryc9312
    @maryc9312 13 дней назад +18

    It’s interesting how focusing on the positive in others helped to heal Jesse’s brain. We really do have the power to heal by focusing on ourselves and our own choices

  • @confusedwhynot
    @confusedwhynot 11 дней назад +14

    Thank you Dr. Amen for this message. This is a very good lesson for my family. I love each one of them. They all have good qualities. The problem is they spend so much time focusing on each other's failures. They say things like you always and you never. It hurts my heart to hear those words and other similar phrases. I hope over time my family can heal from the past.

  • @tr9066
    @tr9066 11 дней назад +11

    That’s it. I’m buying a stuffed penguin today.

  • @barbaramariemua
    @barbaramariemua 14 дней назад +12

    Wow this is game changing! I’m going to show it to my teen daughter, maybe we can improve things.

  • @alcelynpedrique5069
    @alcelynpedrique5069 15 дней назад +18

    Dr. Amen, I wish I would have known of you twenty eight years ago. I admire what you do and your approach to Mind Health. Thanks for what you do!

  • @Atikyne
    @Atikyne 6 дней назад +4

    "focus on what you want to see more of" -visakanv

  • @zibifranz2429
    @zibifranz2429 14 дней назад +24

    Genius story but it also shows how simple is our mental construction, I will remember your penguin forever! 🙂

  • @marieem1648
    @marieem1648 19 дней назад +35

    My 5 years daughter nailed alone. I started to suspect me of ADHD I clearly overreact I can’t focus when she’s all around…She tells me how much she loves me only when I do right with her and she’s so natural every time. She teaches me how to care about myself 😢 I am really blessed and I awake. Thank God

  • @maddyruscoe2707
    @maddyruscoe2707 15 дней назад +14

    Dr Amen you are such a gift to humanity

  • @julianagregori5888
    @julianagregori5888 17 дней назад +15

    Dr Amem is a present to society!

    • @mikeskel45
      @mikeskel45 5 дней назад

      He really is. They need to teach his program in every high school.

  • @lsmith8659
    @lsmith8659 18 дней назад +18

    raising mentally strong kids requires mentally strong parents 💪😂 having kids has taught me how wrongfully I was raised lmao I definitely have a conflict seeking mother of my own.. along with a dad who is conflict avoidant 🤣 married over 50yrs and still cant figure it out smh.. if u ever have to live with your parents as an adult, how quickly you will realize the origin of your mental problems 🤯🤬🤣🤣 but this video was very helpful 😇 breaking the cycle is crucial!! so much great psych content on yt! keep up the great work dr Amen! 🙏💗💯 (penguins are also my favorite 😁)

    • @KellenAdair
      @KellenAdair 11 дней назад

      Mine, too. 🐧
      No wonder I think so of Dr Amen and all of his wonderful advice

  • @KimberlyKelly2000
    @KimberlyKelly2000 12 дней назад +5

    Praise is the only thing that teaches love

  • @sharondoan1447
    @sharondoan1447 12 дней назад +3

    I call this technique of only responding to the good, “ refusing to rise to the bait”. Fisherman will understand. But, it’s not only applicable to fish.

  • @MrsRildaReads
    @MrsRildaReads 5 дней назад +5

    See the good in others. I'm hearing, "Do unto others as you'd have them do unto you, and love one another." Jesus was right. Again. 😮

  • @jerkov420
    @jerkov420 15 дней назад +8

    My god what a touching story. It was a touching story within a touching story. Made me reflect on my relationship with my mother (non-existent at best) and with my daughter (amazing) and how I can make them better. Thanks dr. Amen!

  • @rebeccar4971
    @rebeccar4971 5 дней назад +2

    This is amazing. Going to implement today. Appreciate you!! And BTW you helped me heal when I had very had panic attacks by reading your books and understanding the brain.

  • @trudysoole1447
    @trudysoole1447 13 дней назад +6

    This is absolutely BEAUTIFUL! Thank you Dr. Amen!!!

  • @earthdakini
    @earthdakini 5 дней назад +1

    Right on Dr. Amen. 💕🥰🌟🕊

  • @echoes8
    @echoes8 17 дней назад +12

    Wow this hits deep. So true. so grateful for the advice/reminder 💜

  • @wqrf940
    @wqrf940 10 дней назад +2

    Noticing the present moment is the key ...

  • @nelanigoonawardena9149
    @nelanigoonawardena9149 12 дней назад +4

    This is really helpful.
    Thank you 😊

  • @eftsoulpath333
    @eftsoulpath333 7 дней назад +2

    So simple and yet so powerful period thank you❤

  • @ancientwisdom108
    @ancientwisdom108 14 дней назад +5

    Good stuff for any relationship.

  • @edierhoads5880
    @edierhoads5880 15 дней назад +6

    That was deep

  • @slkonnaris8477
    @slkonnaris8477 19 дней назад +14

    Brilliant! Very wise words❤

  • @pearlchang5775
    @pearlchang5775 6 дней назад +1

    Change yourself and show appreciation

  • @tamb7587
    @tamb7587 12 дней назад +3

    Thank you for a good reminder of what we need to do!

  • @lisajane4330
    @lisajane4330 17 дней назад +7

    So glad I came across this, great advice ❤

  • @katjuliano5105
    @katjuliano5105 19 дней назад +8

    You made me cry Dr Amen. 🐧🐧🐧

  • @paulvoas3328
    @paulvoas3328 12 дней назад +6

    What if you do that, notice what they have done well, as a teacher or coach but then they keep doing things that are negative. This is the approach in many schools, PBIS schools especially, and all this social and emotional training and curriculum and yet behaviors are still out of control? Sincerely a frustrated teacher/coach

  • @michaelynmanarang9740
    @michaelynmanarang9740 18 дней назад +7

    Catch them being good!

  • @leighd301
    @leighd301 14 дней назад +3

    What an amazing story! I love it, thank you!❤

  • @izabelamagierska5457
    @izabelamagierska5457 17 дней назад +6

    Thank you Dr Amen 😘

  • @cherylpereeia1756
    @cherylpereeia1756 19 дней назад +5

    What great advice Dr. Amen! ❤❤❤

  • @kimberlyknight3011
    @kimberlyknight3011 18 дней назад +2

    Oh my heart ❤ beautiful story. Thank you Dr. Amen. I appreciate you moreover your brain 🧠

  • @Captaincrunch280
    @Captaincrunch280 19 дней назад +4

    Love this guy

  • @bemadewhole
    @bemadewhole 19 дней назад +4

    Thank you, Dr Amen! 😍

  • @Sylvia_Aparicio
    @Sylvia_Aparicio 19 дней назад +4

    Great Reminder🌷

  • @dolce9876
    @dolce9876 14 дней назад +2

    Thanks. So true.

  • @thehautergroup
    @thehautergroup 17 дней назад +2

    SO good. Thank you.

  • @sb733
    @sb733 6 дней назад

    Thank you Dr

  • @jackieR8983
    @jackieR8983 18 дней назад +3

    Wow, thank you so much!

  • @aliyam5291
    @aliyam5291 17 дней назад +4

    Super!

  • @dianemoril7612
    @dianemoril7612 2 дня назад

    thank you!

  • @jasminejojoellerton9647
    @jasminejojoellerton9647 2 дня назад

    Beautiful, thank you ❤

  • @anastasiatrushkinaxelrod6544
    @anastasiatrushkinaxelrod6544 17 дней назад +4

    ❤thank you

  • @blanchehanstein3450
    @blanchehanstein3450 19 дней назад +2

    Very interesting one...

  • @user-et3tm2mg4m
    @user-et3tm2mg4m 10 дней назад

    Brilliant

  • @melissabeckham6917
    @melissabeckham6917 10 дней назад +2

    Wonderful talk, thank you. But I’m sad thinking about all the wild creatures in Sea World type situations. They deserve better from humans.

  • @simonar6492
    @simonar6492 18 дней назад +10

    So now the kids have to have better emotional intelligence than the parents?

    • @emmax0000
      @emmax0000 17 дней назад

      My exact same thoughts

    • @graceg3250
      @graceg3250 14 дней назад +5

      They always have been expected to be more mature than adults. They can’t talk back, argue, do things with their own timing, etc.

  • @courteneyhall9640
    @courteneyhall9640 16 часов назад

    I’ve tried this. Doesn’t work on everyone… and if it does, often not long enough to change much. I’m keep trying because I have no other choice.

  • @gailfagan7579
    @gailfagan7579 2 дня назад

    Works very well with wives, too. And husbands...

  • @AlchemysMom
    @AlchemysMom 7 дней назад

    Sold

  • @rebeccaw1772
    @rebeccaw1772 18 дней назад +3

  • @habibaroyees
    @habibaroyees 19 дней назад +2

    ❤😊

  • @zioncityinternational3757
    @zioncityinternational3757 3 дня назад

    Isn’t this how to love xxx

  • @midlifemom5829
    @midlifemom5829 9 дней назад

    My husband has focused on the negative not positive. He is hlass half empty. It has damaged the relationships within my family

  • @golfer462
    @golfer462 14 дней назад +2

    This is ABA therapy.

  • @user-oc7ph2qs2e
    @user-oc7ph2qs2e 5 часов назад

    I had Teachers mock me for being a stay at Home mom, and when i had my second child, who absolutely LOVED, the new baby, and wanted to be Home all the Time and take care of "ME" & the baby. The Teachers would tell me how wrong this was, and that my oldest should be outside with Friends, not with us... .
    When i look back now, and found out that Teachers take child phycology classes, those nasty Witches meant harm to my family 🔥🗡️

  • @mtets2459
    @mtets2459 11 дней назад +3

    From Jordan Peterson

  • @kathleensmith644
    @kathleensmith644 2 дня назад +1

    I agree with what he says, but you can’t praise everything. Sometimes children need to be told that wasn’t the right thing to do. Otherwise children become arrogant, entitled teenagers.

  • @hollyweaver7292
    @hollyweaver7292 13 дней назад +2