Couples Try Being Totally Honest For One Week
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- "Real talk, I don't even know if I know how to be 100% honest with myself!"
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Day 1: "Real talk, I don't even know if I know how to be 100% honest with myself."
That was real deep.
Lena Iglseder So deep.....
Lena Iglseder I got your ur comment to one thousand
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lmaooo same tho
Вероника Егорова hva faen kaja
aw when jen said she thinks steven will break up with her
turbolove2 that legit broke my heart. A lot of girls, and guys, think that way mostly because of past experiences. I wish them a happy future though.
turbolove2 Like...how do you even recover from a statement like that? Wouldn't that introduce trust issues into the relationship? If I was Jen, and I truly felt that way, knowing what I know now about myself and relationships, I'd walk away sooner rather than later.
She's right. He said he doesn't know where the relationship will be in 5 years and that he likes to live day by day. To me that sounds more like he is with her until someone else appears more appealing to him. If you are happy with your loved one now you can easily see yourself with that person in 5 years.
but things come along, and like the girl from the other couple kind of touched on, you can't really expect/predict what a relationship is gonna be like in the future. ideally you'd be together but like it's possible to fall out of love with someone who's the most important to you in the present day.
He should. She doesn't seem stable enough to be in a real relationship, there is a lot of things she should work on herself.
i felt so sad when Jen said Steve is going to break up with her and the saddest part was that he didnt like respond " omg no babe of course not" idk i just wish them a lot of happiness and love , love seeing you guys together
Caroline Kuipers he was just being honest and realistic :) nobody knows whats gonna happen the next moment and then 5 years? but he did say he doesnt plan to do it.
Thats the best answer honestly. I dont like guys who tell their girls "im gonna be with u forever" because it's all lies.
Caroline Kuipers giving fake hope aint no good
so true giving fake hope isn't good! But it's also sad how he didn't say he would try to work to see if they could be together, or work for them to be together... like he didn't seem to want it, and it's good to be upfront about that, but it's sad he doesn't want it.
Yes Thats What i meant i didnt mean It wasnt good that he was honest i just mean i felt sad Because It didnt seem like he wanted to fight for It. Im not telling that he should say "Omg No babe of course not" if he didnt mean It . Thsts the point i wish he said something like that Because he believes in It and is honest
It happens. Dating is going to fail 99 percent of the time until you find that 1, nothing to be sad about, it's just life and we're all just passing through.
*let's watch this in 5 years*
Watermelon Queen gradually watermelon
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Watermelon Queen ok ur in charge of re commenting I'm 5 years
Watermelon Queen Watermelon buddies! #WATERMELON 🍉
Watermelon Queen mkay.
I was feeling 100% like Jen in my last relationship. There is no actual reasons why feeling someone would break up with you at some point in the future. It's just insecurities. Cues are so subtle in real life and you pick them up and make your own judgement.
Angelica Chung i cried when she said that...
Except she said after they broke up that their relationship had become pretty toxic. Obviously, every relationships goes through rough patches and that doesn't mean that it's not a good relationship, it just takes some work to communicate and get back to a good place; but in their case, it seemed like it may have been a good decision to break things off. A toxic relationship is not a good place to be for either party, and sure, insecurity may be a part of that, but sometimes that's not everything and splitting is the best choice.
To be honest, I would've loved to watch Saf and Tyler in this one...
she doesnt work for buzzfeed
Cass Yeah, I know haha
We still miss her. 😭 *sad violin music starts playing*
OMG YEEESSS
* that moment when u realize she's not on buzzfeed anymore *
* cries *
Yes
Buzzfeed breaking people up one video at a time
sara garcia 666 likes 😟
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sara garcia I made the likes 900
Hijrinebrk uf
u were right LOL
Is it just me who finds it weird that these couples find it hard to be honest with things like what food they like...?
OxfordRosie probably because they don't want to sound picky
No, it's super weird. It sounds like either one person is super controlling (thus making the other person lie about what they ate), or one person has a problem with habitual lying (and will lie about trivial things just out of habit). Either way, not great.
Eva Lore White lies though? If my partner puts the effort into cooking a meal for me, I'm going to say it's great and eat it all no matter how bad it is. That's showing my appreciation and honestly, just the right thing to do.
Febreeze Smells-Good Oh no, those types of white lies are just being polite. I was talking more like "What did you have for dinner?" "Salad." (actually pancakes) Like Jen says, those lies seem harmless, because they're fairly trivial, but they might be a sign of a problem.
have you been in a relationship? Just kidding, sorry. But its not uncommon at all...
Who's watching after Jen said this relationship was toxic?
Me!! I want to know what went wrong
I literally just got here from her tik tok😂😂
LITERALLY YES
omg yes lol
Me!!
'Discuss where they see their relationship in five years'
The challenge I was most looking forward to the whole time. 😊
same. kinda scares me how jenna is afraid of a future or marriage with her man tho tbh
Fruit Babe it seemed more like she wasn't confident in him loving her for who she is fully for that much time. It's something a lot of people fear in relationships. Once the "honeymoon" phase is gone, you need to learn what values define your intimate nature with your friendly one. If you find that you were being one of those with out the other after time, you understand that it could end without communication and effort.
TheMovieMyLife
Why do you get so much likes on every comment on every video? 😂😂
I deleted the best video on my brother's channel
Right like she has two on this video
I deleted the best video on my brother's channel idk if that might hav something to do with it but she has a youtube channel
the fact that steve is still with jen after the whole snapchat debacle amazes me.
that's love, right there.
Jess Liu what happened?
Yeah what happened
Savannah Snider She put videos of him sleep talking on her Snapchat story for half a year and he didn't know
0:32
i feel like that's not a horrible thing or a big deal. like yeah, I'd be mad but it wouldn't be a deal breaker in a realtionship
This video is 110% buzzfeed content 🤣
AmiYAD 🤣
AmiYAD Ok
Marshmallow Puff They are different people, but just have different accounts. Loads of people do it..
People can have the same name. I could become Marshmallow Puff if I wanted too.
Man I love Steven and Jen! Get married already pleaseee
lmao no she doesn't ?
She has common traits of a cheater the small white lies to protect someone's but in reality it's to protect herself.. and she's insecure so she hasn't put herself completely in the relationship like the guy cause she tryna protect herself again that why she said he will leave her.. she has someone on the side fursher.. I'll put money on that that if you put her in a lie detector she'll fail
NeverEverLand Studios omg hi
+NoSpillsChills Who hurt you?
I found it soo uncomfortable when Jen said she thinks her boyfriend will break up with her...
If he breaks up with her I'll take her. Oh, wait, I'm married.......
it was really sad to me i hope they stay together and are happy
Yeah but what I find more uncomfortable is his attitude about it, like... he just said 'I don't know', clearly avoided 'communicating' he preached later near the ending. And damn he should have reassured her somehow, instead he just turned all awkward and shady
wempajer
Reassure her for what? Maybe after all things are said and done, he doesn't really want to end up with her.
wempajer i totally agree
What if they lied about not lying
Mirandhah subbed BC post Malone
Leik your name
i see jen and steve and my skin clears up and my depression fades
SAME
Lol 😂
saaaraaah same
This comment was amazing. They really are so cute.
meaning that you don't have depression at all
She does not feel secure in the relationship that's why she said she thinks you'll dump her in 5 years, tell her how u feel about her. She isn't sure of ur feelings and maybe thinks you'll tire of her or think she's annoying.. let her know ur in it for the long haul, if you feel that way ☺️
He probably doesn't feel that way, though. He probably doesn't feel like he wants to be in it for the long haul.
They broke up a year later so obviously that feeling was correct
I saw the title and was like buzzfeed is gona break up some couples
Came back to this video because I found Jen on my tiktok fyp and she said her relationship was toxic af for 7 whole years
Steve's glasses should have been off when he answered the last question.
TheMovieMyLife why
Celeste's Crazy Confusing Life - Because the eyes are where the real truth resides. :-)
sunglasses should stay on because driving safety measures are kinda important.
even regular glasses, removing them distances you from people, as you no longer see them clearly, you only see the suggestion of them.
if anything, this question should not have happened while driving a car. sitting down together allows for better
TheMovieMyLife
I saw your comment on the video where a Healthy Eater (?) and a junk food lover!
jen looks so much like ellen page, it's crazy
there is one porn star that is iddentical it showed in my ads but sadly it is for brazzers 😭😭
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DigiBros- Gameplay & Tutorials LMFAOAOOAOA
Stephanie Smith she kinda does!
Mahiya Sah I think she looks a little like Reece Witherspoons daughter
POV: you’re here after jens Tiktok 👀
I loved when she asked her girlfriend to blow on her eyes because she was about to cry ☺️
When you realize that their relationship was actually toxic from her TikTok 👁💧👄💧👁
Imagine finding couples for this video and they're like "Are you calling us liars?"
You need a lot of tolerance to work at buzzfeed...
unicorn sparkle from what they mention in previous emails i think they just email blast people in the right demographic (single, not single, poc, haven done whatever) and people respond if they want to be a part of the video
welp I aint calling you guys truthers.
Just for the Drake and Josh fans…… "Are you calling me a liar!"-Drake "Well I ain't calling you a truther!"-Josh 😂💀
couro ly YESSSS
Well it’s been 3 years and neither couple is still together so I guess that answers the 5 year question
Tbh Jen and Steven is my fave buzz feed couple.
flynn watkins nonono Arieeeeeeeeelllllll and Neeeeedddd is freaking couple goals✨🙌😍
flynn watkins everyone says Ariel and Ned are the cutest couple but I love Steven and Jen.
Saf and Tyler are mine, even though Saf left buzzfeed lol
Carrie but then you get to see more of both of them on saf`s channel
i find ariel and ned ANNOYING, and sometimes, fake.
The lesbian couple made me cry in the end! They're so sweet to eachother😭
I’m here from again... ticktok lol
I'm sorry but if you can't see your self with your significant other in 5 years AND you live together, what are you doing?
they just not sure, it's normal
Yeah really
Shouldn't they be honest already to each other? TF? LOL
lol
True
i mean, for little things, 'honesty' isn't really the right word. like if your partner cooks something that doesn't taste amazing, unless they cook it every day, saying 'this isn't great' just hurts their feelings and makes them feel like you don't appreciate their effort/domestic labor. telling someone they're annoying you every time they're annoying you also isn't 'honesty,' it's just not being able to manage your own emotions or prioritize your emotions.
No. Because honesty can hurt someone, so holding back the truth on little things that don't matter becomes a compassionate practice when you know it could hurt them. As for the bigger problems, those should probably be discussed openly. Sometimes holding back honesty is good because you could just be being negative or judgmental, and need to take a step back and manage your own emotions like mary said.
exactly
Props to Jen for leaving the incredibly toxic relationship w/ Steven 🥰
What's his side of the story though?
What happened??
POV: you’re here from Jen’s tik tok
Whats her account name
I thought Jen had left Buzzfeed ???
OxfordRosie Seeing the same question about my favorite buzzfeed employees drives me mad!!!! Quitting buzzfeed is the next cool thing I guess
She has a channel called NeverEverLand Studios
Are you thinking of one of the other Jens, the Cuban one who was on Pero Like?
OxfordRosie is
Ahh thank you so much this makes so much sense!!
My fiancee and I are always honest and it just comes naturally. This video seems odd to me.
Tori Webb the kind of relationship i aspire to achieve.
With the right person it just happens! You don't even think about it.
Tori Webb : you shouldn’t have to lie in a relationship
The only thing I ever lie about to my partner is what time it is, because otherwise we'd be an hour late to everything.
Darth Zaida same tho
I wish I had tried that on my dad, who operates on his own schedule, but coincidentally I would have felt too bad lying about it.
😂I'm dying! Steve is still upset about the Snapchat incident!
who's here from jens tiktok video?
i am
Where is it? I'm trying to find
Here from Jen's TikTok!
I don't know why, but Jen looks like a Carly.
MiinaChann maybe cuz she looks a little like Carly Rae jepson
MiinaChann and miranda cosgroove (Icarly ayy)
she also reminds me of Anna Popplewell , it might be her milky white skin..
MiinaChann ur profile pic ❤️❤️
MiinaChann Which one
Kai and Nadia are such an attractive couple??? Like just adorable humans I love them
Why was the 5 years question difficult? You should see a future with them before you spend all your time/ live with them. That just seems crazy to me how two people avoid talking about their destiny together. I don't do short term
Agreed.
I agree with this so much! But there are people who just avoid it and say "I take it day by day" and let time decide and some people are comfortable with that. I'm not like that tho.
Abby S the thing is that you cant promise to be for ever with someone you cant predict the future or how you will change and grow mentally as a person.or if cheating happens.there are a lot of reasons why you cant see your relationship in 5 years.people are temporary...
me neither. im so lucky i have a boyfriend who actually likes talking about the very far future and is sure we will still be together then. i couldnt imagine it either that my partner wouldnt know if he would be with me or wanted to be with me in 5 years, i couldnt be in a relationship like that cause it would just make me unhappy
cat_pav 97 I see where you're coming from, but I'm just saying that the conversation shouldn't make you uncomfortable! As long as the intention is the same on both sides then it's a good healthy relationship, they could both be down for short term and that's fine too. You can never predict the future, but you still plan for it, and I plan to be with my significant other for the long hall, and just hope that it ends that way!
i miss saf
check out her channel! safiya nygaard
She's way better out of buzzfeed. She even replied to one of my comments on her channel before!
Laura Lorenz me too!!!
That guy wasn't being honest with himself when he said he thought they'd be together in 5 years..5 months is a stretch with that couple
I feel sick reading these comments. Those are real people, you know? Just because a SMALL part of their relationship is displayed on social media does in no way mean that you know them or what their relationship is about! I am amazed that some people feel entitled to comment on whether or not they should be together or if they are good for each other. If you don't know them personally, you don't know them at all and commenting stuff like that is totally uncalled for. These are not actors playing characters in a movie. Those are real people doing a social experiment for entertainment. Imagine how they would feel going through this comment section
Jen definitely caught him off guard and it was so awkward afterwards between them.
Omg that's definitely Kai from the LGBT version of "Are you the one"!!!
I've been with my significant other for 2 years and I've always been 100% honest... why is this a struggle for some people 😡 it's so important in a relationship smh
Nina M. Okay you're right I've hid what his gifts have been until the occasion 😂 I have no reason to lie to him other than what I just said and nothing to lie about
Have you ever told your bf that you were fine, but you wern't when he made you upset.
+ahoymoy good point, that one didn't cross my mind, I don't do it very often we usually just talk it out but I have done it so... I guess I was wrong. You're good
Lol, sometimes lying is a good thing to your partner, sometimes a bad. If he can catch that you're upset when you say you're fine, & comforts you, then he's doing something right. lol
It's mostly just little white lies, like "I'm super proud of this, do you like it?!" You'd say yes to be reassuring, you never want to hurt them
Kai and Nadia are so cute together!!
So theyre not honest to each other on a daily basis?....What kind of relationship is that tf
Aasim_TCSwagz we are humans. We tell lies without even noticing it.
Take example
"How are you"
"I'm fine"
But are you really EVERY time you say it? It's a subconscious thing.
Aasim_TCSwagz i understand what u say , if i dont like to eat something i say i dont like this but if u want to eat it , just do it , the only good thing was the question of the future of their relationships
Only in America will a person never tell you how they really feel. If you ask in Germany, people will actually tell you. Sometimes more than you really want to know but at least most of the time it's honest. They will tell you for example: "Today, not so great,. I think I have a cold coming on." "Really great, I just started a new job and love it."The weirdest instance in the US was when I overheard a coworker say on the phone "I'm fine" on 9/11 while she was watching the towers come down... And I was like REALLY? YOU ARE FINE????
Tanja Hermann British people are like that too, but it's not that we lie and can't tell the truth, it's more of a politeness thing
Tanja Hermann That is a trade I definitely love about us Germans ^_^
Why is being honest so difficult for these people it's not difficult??? You can ask these questions at any time???
How can you be in a healthy relationship if you don't tell each other the truth? Just tell the truth and if there are problems talk it out. That way you'll find someone who's perfect for you sooner instead of lingering in makebelief relationships.
true, but everyone tells those little white lies that won't really hurt each other. Though i definitely believe honesty and communication is the biggest thing in a relationship :)
Eh, there are things I'd prefer to Keep to myself and my bf feels similarly.
Almost all relationships need secrets or it most likely will not turn out good
All humans lie about something, its just human nature, the thing is whether you can deal with what your partner does lie about.
1:35 when the teacher passes out the test
I lied somewhere in this sentence.
you lied about that lie cause you didn't lie.
Annette Liu But if I did lie about it....I didn't actually lie...I told the truth...
but where ? O_o
Annette Liu Nowhere......
Bebe Dwarci you didn't lie in the sentence , but because you said that you lied , that means that you did lie 😂
5:15 perfect time to stop the car, get out and ask her to marry you. lol. clutch moves 101
Ok that women couple was actually freakin adorable❤️
Maura- Quinn13 *whispers* im pretty sure he is trans
When your job asks you to confront your personal relationship with your significant other, record it so millions of people can see it. Goodness! You guys are brave for this!
CAN YOU BLOW ON MY EYES NOT TO CRY RELATIONSHIP GOALS
this is the best thing ever
i love how they just show gay couples like it's no big deal because really it isn't and *i wish other people could see that*
I think if jen and her boyfriend don't think they are going to be together in 5 years then their relationship is nice and all but a bit pointless
orla o'sullivan not really because you can still enjoy the moment? Just because you don't think you'll be together in 5 years doesn't mean you can't be happy and have fun and love each other right now
not really tbh. it's not like they don't love each other. jen might just have insecurities. people can't help that. doesn't mean she's gonna end up relationship because she thinks one day in the future they might break up. then no one would ever be in a relationship. steve also said he didn't plan on doing that anytime soon. right now they're happy and they're fine with living in the moment.
orla o'sullivan even if they think that I don't think it's pointless. They clearly care about each other and like being around each other and I don't see that as a waste of time or pointless.
Casey Linker. ok I can see where you are coming from but do you think that a couple should have to lie about the smallest things like what you eat?
orla o'sullivan no, but I wasn't saying that lying is okay or not okay. I was saying you're wrong for saying a relationship is a waste of time just because they may not see themselves with eachother down the road. It's not a waste of time in my opinion. Lying is also unnecessary 98% of the time though, to kinda answer your question further.
"Or like how you have been recording me on Snapchat sleep talking for 6 months."
Dang he is still salty about that. That video was hilarious 😂😂😂
This ended up being a way better video than I originally anticipated. Went a little deeper as time progressed.
So y’all here after TikTok?
1:48 ....that awkward moment when ur left hanging
I hope they stay together. This shows how strong there relationship really is bc this takes strong love(:
2:54 I cannot stop staring at how badly Jen's lipstick is slipping off the side of her lips.
kai end response was the best :) great video
But... shouldn't you always be?
Ok nevermind, I didn't include white lies
"u have to be 100% honest" "Nooooo!!!!!" Lol
I bet they lied about being honest to each other
Kai was soooo cute in the end! And I love Nadia's humor!
I'm totally the "honest when I need to be" person
1:35 is one of those things that you watch over and over, and it gets funnier
Steven liked some of my instagram pictures and i cried
Isaac Munoz whats his instagram ?
JEN FOLLOWED ME IM CRYING
Omg me too hahahaha
As soon as I saw the couple not the thumb nail I clicked, I love them!!
Jen just posted a tiktok saying this relationship was toxic for 7 years
is there a video to what she said? I'm interested to see what she has to say
@@nalesnikiuwu I'm not sure but you can try to find the tiktok
@@dare2horsecrazy I have been searching.. but no luck on finding it yet
@@nalesnikiuwu what's her last name?
@@nalesnikiuwu if you give me her last name and your @ I'll search for you and tag you. I found a video "break up funeral" by Neverland studios I think it's about them??? Haven't watched it
"Douchey bro hats" had me cracking up! She was spot on, and he seems like a nice guy.
Jen's too good for Steve. He gives her crap for wanting to stick with certain types of food??? Salmon is good! Kai and Nadia seem to have a pretty healthy relationship and care about each other a lot. That made me happy.
I love these series, buzzfeed! It should be on a playlist called "How close can we get to splitting a couple up?"
That just killed me:00:14
"Like a bro hat..I'm wearing a hat"
I died.
I love Jen & Steven 😂😂😂💕
thanks!
NeverEverLand Studios Omgg! You replied!!!! 😍😍😍 BEST. DAY. EVER.
I'm always honest? I tell him if the food he cooked was a little meh. But I still love him 😂
Lol Jen was right
OMG when jen was like "i think Steves going to break up with me before five years," he should have been like "well you're wrong" and then proposed to her haha i love them
youre always supposed to be honest...
wasn't expecting much, but this turned out both entertaining and thoughtful! really like both couples as well. more!
Omg Jen so real, honestly I so feel for her with the five years in the future question. I feel like her and I are kinda similar in that regard, I always question why someone likes me and I fear that one day they're going to leave me, and honestly that's me in a relationship I would have said the same thing.
Hale Maybe you should concentrate on improving yourself then? That mentality screams insecurity.
Sometimes when I'm watching buzzfeed videos I'm asking myself why am I here? But then all of a sudden a video like this comes along, and I'm like ohh ok that's why🙂
Who came here from tiktok?
The whole video I was distracted thinking how much Nadia looks like a Kardashian😂😂😂😂😂😂
You can't be 100% honest with your partner all the time.You gotta lie sometimes to avoid some problems...
Steve Jen and their dog is the cutest little family ever
Kai us sooooooooooo attractive
Jen: " Idk 3-5?"
Me: "Jen You forgot the hour part!"
Steve is definitely going to leave Jen, and it sure as hell won't take 5 years lmao. I give it another 2-3, tops.
1:48 REJECTED 😂😂😂😂
I smell...'out of ideas' here.
Justice Beaver Smell? that's been sitting there for a few months now, even the neighbors are complaining.
KYLE X HALO Yeah, I was only trying to be good. lol.
That's how BuzzFeed works; quantity over quality. There is a set criteria on how many video ideas (plus blog posts) have to be thought up and created.
Otherwise you get told off and put under review if you consistently fail to meet that number
Justice Beaver Yeah and they almost broke up a couple here
i smell out of comments here
"I think I'm dating The Food Network" xD