Your content is helpful . I am estranged from my 4 kids. It’s so hard to talk to anyone about bc people assume if all 4 of my kids don’t talk to me then it must be me that is the issue . You are spot on about the troublemakers. My girls’ dad is 1 of them. My son is another . And my youngest daughter is another . My son has lived out of town for several years and he just moved back and moved in with 2 of my daughters and I have noticed that my daughters all of a sudden want nothing to do with me. My son didn’t want me to know he moved back home but I found out anyway . The one daughter I have been close to has completely changed towards me since my son came back into the picture . And sadly she had my 1 and only grand baby . I can feel a shift happening where I am being pushed out of the picture . Last night I posted on fb asking if anyone would be interested in a support group for parents of estranged children. No one ha answered yet. But I know I need someone to talk to and to relate to . This topic feels shameful and embarrassing talking to others about who aren’t in this situation . I feel judged when I do. So I need to find my people . I know I’m not suffering in this alone
No, your not alone! Everyone hates boundaries, especially in this “victim mentality” time we live in. They’ll play the victim as long as it works for them. Not letting it work for them is the best thing you can do. And all the other instigators and enablers can sit in all that toxicity. Sit back and watch it from a distance. They’ll all end up turning on each other, then trying to come back to you and triangulate. Stay vigilant
@@megalou6567 Good morning and welcome to our channel! I am very sorry to hear of what you are experiencing! i know it is all very painful to know that you don’t have a relationship with any of your children! I don’t think you should worry about what people are thinking at this point. Now is a good time to sit quietly and reflect on everything and what you need to do to keep your peace and balance. I don’t know what your beliefs are, but faith has to kick in now. As it was mentioned in the video “you are named ‘mother’ that has to count for something”. Stand your grounds by communicating your feelings and leave the remainder to the Devine to correct. I know where you are now; I understand the feeling! You have to surrender this. These are your children, they will come around. Focus on keeping your peace and balance and let them be for now. Everything will work itself out in due time; just keep the faith. I promise you; things will turn itself around. Stay connected with us and be well, my friend!
@@perrissmith8809 hello and good morning . You are exactly right . My kids started turning on me when I stopped being a doormat and setting boundaries. It all started when I kicked them all out of my house a couple years ago . I had all 4 of my adult kids living at home plus one of their boyfriends . And not one of them would get a job . Nobody would clean or help out in any way . The boys wouldn’t cut the yard. I am on disability and was taking care of 5 other adults . I gave them chance after chance . And they have all despised me since then. They want me to pay for the wrongs they have perceived I have done to them. And you are right about how they will all turn on each other . I have had that exact thought myself . My inner voice keeps telling me to be patient and take care of myself . Things like this always have a way of coming full circle. The sad thing is even when they do reach back out to me , I’m not sure I want anything to do with any of them anymore . I will never trust them again. And they are all toxic to my peace . Thank you for everything you said
@@Midliferises thank you . Such wonderful advice . I will keep all that in mind daily . I stayed prayed up on this matter . And you are right I need to keep the faith and give it all to Yeshua
@@megalou6567 Hi! It’s very important to know when things are out of our hands. Surrender it and wait. Everything gets corrected in due time; you just have to keep the faith. Thanks, again, for reaching out and have yourself a fabulous day!
Thank you so much for this video! I’m currently in this position as a mother to the disrespectful and abusive adult child, and I was scrolling on YT trying to find something that will be helpful. I especially liked your affirmation that we, the mothers, do deserve respect. It is very tempting to not believe that we do because today’s culture of young entitled narcissists teaches them that. Thank you also for reminding us to love and take care of ourselves, as we so often forget that or don’t believe we should.
@@DJ-nk4dq Hello there! Thanks so much for reaching out! I’m very happy to hear you found the piece useful! There are a lot of readings here for you; as you can see, you are not alone in this. Please stay connect with us and thanks again for reaching out. Be well. my friend!!
I'm a mom in a very similar situation. The pain comes in waves. The best thing is to (as so very difficult as it is) care for and mother youSELF for now. My ex-husband rejected his mother (at 8 years old! Doesnt happen without someone behind it) and he has done the same damage to our children after we divorced from a 23 year marriage! I miss them and hope they're able to heal and see the truth someday. So sorry for all of us going through this.💔
@@halfpintpuppets Hi! Keep the faith in knowing one sweet day, everything will work itself out. I pray that it happens for you soon - that your offsprings will see the light. Thanks for sharing! Stay connected with us and be well, my friend!
@@bellabong8862 Good morning and thanks for reaching out! As you can see, you are not alone in this! There are a lot of content on this topic. Please take time to go through them and subscribe to the channel so that you can stay connected. Have a great day and be well, my friend!
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Your content is helpful . I am estranged from my 4 kids. It’s so hard to talk to anyone about bc people assume if all 4 of my kids don’t talk to me then it must be me that is the issue . You are spot on about the troublemakers. My girls’ dad is 1 of them. My son is another . And my youngest daughter is another . My son has lived out of town for several years and he just moved back and moved in with 2 of my daughters and I have noticed that my daughters all of a sudden want nothing to do with me. My son didn’t want me to know he moved back home but I found out anyway . The one daughter I have been close to has completely changed towards me since my son came back into the picture . And sadly she had my 1 and only grand baby . I can feel a shift happening where I am being pushed out of the picture . Last night I posted on fb asking if anyone would be interested in a support group for parents of estranged children. No one ha answered yet. But I know I need someone to talk to and to relate to . This topic feels shameful and embarrassing talking to others about who aren’t in this situation . I feel judged when I do. So I need to find my people . I know I’m not suffering in this alone
No, your not alone! Everyone hates boundaries, especially in this “victim mentality” time we live in. They’ll play the victim as long as it works for them. Not letting it work for them is the best thing you can do. And all the other instigators and enablers can sit in all that toxicity. Sit back and watch it from a distance. They’ll all end up turning on each other, then trying to come back to you and triangulate. Stay vigilant
@@megalou6567 Good morning and welcome to our channel! I am very sorry to hear of what you are experiencing! i know it is all very painful to know that you don’t have a relationship with any of your children! I don’t think you should worry about what people are thinking at this point. Now is a good time to sit quietly and reflect on everything and what you need to do to keep your peace and balance. I don’t know what your beliefs are, but faith has to kick in now. As it was mentioned in the video “you are named ‘mother’ that has to count for something”. Stand your grounds by communicating your feelings and leave the remainder to the Devine to correct. I know where you are now; I understand the feeling! You have to surrender this. These are your children, they will come around. Focus on keeping your peace and balance and let them be for now. Everything will work itself out in due time; just keep the faith. I promise you; things will turn itself around. Stay connected with us and be well, my friend!
@@perrissmith8809 hello and good morning . You are exactly right . My kids started turning on me when I stopped being a doormat and setting boundaries. It all started when I kicked them all out of my house a couple years ago . I had all 4 of my adult kids living at home plus one of their boyfriends . And not one of them would get a job . Nobody would clean or help out in any way . The boys wouldn’t cut the yard. I am on disability and was taking care of 5 other adults . I gave them chance after chance . And they have all despised me since then. They want me to pay for the wrongs they have perceived I have done to them. And you are right about how they will all turn on each other . I have had that exact thought myself . My inner voice keeps telling me to be patient and take care of myself . Things like this always have a way of coming full circle. The sad thing is even when they do reach back out to me , I’m not sure I want anything to do with any of them anymore . I will never trust them again. And they are all toxic to my peace . Thank you for everything you said
@@Midliferises thank you . Such wonderful advice . I will keep all that in mind daily . I stayed prayed up on this matter . And you are right I need to keep the faith and give it all to Yeshua
@@megalou6567 Hi! It’s very important to know when things are out of our hands. Surrender it and wait. Everything gets corrected in due time; you just have to keep the faith. Thanks, again, for reaching out and have yourself a fabulous day!
Thank you so much for this video! I’m currently in this position as a mother to the disrespectful and abusive adult child, and I was scrolling on YT trying to find something that will be helpful. I especially liked your affirmation that we, the mothers, do deserve respect. It is very tempting to not believe that we do because today’s culture of young entitled narcissists teaches them that. Thank you also for reminding us to love and take care of ourselves, as we so often forget that or don’t believe we should.
@@DJ-nk4dq Hello there! Thanks so much for reaching out! I’m very happy to hear you found the piece useful! There are a lot of readings here for you; as you can see, you are not alone in this. Please stay connect with us and thanks again for reaching out. Be well. my friend!!
I'm a mom in a very similar situation. The pain comes in waves. The best thing is to (as so very difficult as it is) care for and mother youSELF for now. My ex-husband rejected his mother (at 8 years old! Doesnt happen without someone behind it) and he has done the same damage to our children after we divorced from a 23 year marriage! I miss them and hope they're able to heal and see the truth someday. So sorry for all of us going through this.💔
@@halfpintpuppets Hi! Keep the faith in knowing one sweet day, everything will work itself out. I pray that it happens for you soon - that your offsprings will see the light. Thanks for sharing! Stay connected with us and be well, my friend!
This is epidemic. How sad 😢
@@elaine7327 Very; across the board!!
Going through this now. Completely let go - it hurts but will get better.
@@QueenScript404 Hi! yes, it will. Just keep the faith. Have a great day and be well!
Thank you for this video. It was healing and helpful.
@@bellabong8862 Good morning and thanks for reaching out! As you can see, you are not alone in this! There are a lot of content on this topic. Please take time to go through them and subscribe to the channel so that you can stay connected. Have a great day and be well, my friend!