25 things I have learned in 25 years

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  • Опубликовано: 11 июл 2024
  • I'm 25 today. Here's some of the most important lessons I have learned in my life.
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  • @nmarquesa
    @nmarquesa 5 месяцев назад +337

    Sometimes it's good to just be a girl, exist and be beautiful

  • @rottenette
    @rottenette 5 месяцев назад +53

    "if you need to be held, go outside" is the realest thing ive ever heard

  • @cloudy.222
    @cloudy.222 5 месяцев назад +54

    i just realised life isn’t about achieving goals. i think we got that idea from social media, especially tik tok .. that we always have to have a goal and everything you do should have a meaning. what’s important is the lessons we learn in the process of achieving these goals. it happened so many times for me to end up feeling unsatisfied right after i achieved a goal i had for years. and the reason is because i just thought about the outcome and i didn’t learn any lessons, i stayed the same. we blindly follow and strive to be the best version to the point we lose ourselves on the way.

  • @heathershez
    @heathershez 5 месяцев назад +85

    As a girl who has just turned 18 and wants to be a writer and more intune with myself spiritual and creatively, this video was so so lovely to watch! Thank you for giving us your precious advice Karissa and hope you had a lovely birthday angel!

  • @nadew.02
    @nadew.02 5 месяцев назад +49

    15:57 I am a university student. During the past holidays I made a big improvement in my mental health as well as my relationship with my emotions. Because of that I couldn't relate with my classmates anymore, so I spend most of the day alone and in quite (becoming able to be in quite is a huge improvement for me).
    Today on the afternoon the professor was absent so three study hours were cancelled. But I didn't want to go home right away. Instead I opened the classroom window, brought a chair and sat in the direct sunlight shining softly.
    The peace that I felt at those hours, in a huge classroom and alone with only bird chirping and a few distant conversations far from me, was something I have never felt before. I felt truly connected to myself, like I found the peace within me.
    So I agree, nature nurtures ♡

  • @user-wi9bp6cb7y
    @user-wi9bp6cb7y 5 месяцев назад +58

    I’m 17 ~ Karissa, you inspire me so much! Hope i can be like you when i’m 25 ! 💓
    Happy birthday

  • @GioGio-fq1vl
    @GioGio-fq1vl 5 месяцев назад +8

    Watching this video after having lost a friend to a terminal illness just a few days ago. He was only 28 years old and had such a vibrant energy, such a light, so much talent and potential. You're right when you say getting old is a privilege. Like you, it always scared me, the idea of losing my "beauty", whatever that might mean. Now I finally understand that getting old, and watching your loved ones grow old with you, is a honor and a privilege.

  • @emilietarman2965
    @emilietarman2965 5 месяцев назад +35

    As a fellow woman who also just turned 25 in December, this was so refreshing and helpful. I love your content and how your spirit shines through so brightly ❤️

    • @Jadeygirll
      @Jadeygirll 5 месяцев назад

      Also just turned 25 last month 🥺❤ thank you for this beautiful video!! Resonated with every point ❤❤

  • @hannahoconner
    @hannahoconner 5 месяцев назад +14

    You made me wanna make a list but watching this video, I’ve learned all the same things.
    I’m turning 19 the day after tomorrow and I’ve been so worried about getting older but I know I shouldn’t worry because beauty comes with all ages.

  • @loliiiban
    @loliiiban 5 месяцев назад +11

    Omg it's my birthday too
    Twin's!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO US 💗💗💗💗

    • @xoxotullia
      @xoxotullia 5 месяцев назад +1

      happy birthday angel!

    • @kayflima
      @kayflima 5 месяцев назад +2

      happy birthday sweetheart 💞

  • @healingpoisonbreak9984
    @healingpoisonbreak9984 5 месяцев назад +2

    Youre 25! You look 18 at most girl❤❤

  • @alskyng
    @alskyng 5 месяцев назад +13

    you're such an amazing person, its always an honor learn with you! 💌 tysm and happy birthday 🎉

  • @TainadaSilvaDias
    @TainadaSilvaDias 5 месяцев назад +16

    Happy birthday karissa! I hope you feel the love I'm sending you and that this new cycle of your life is full of blessings and achievements! I feel so connected to you through the community you've created with your social media that I feel like a close friend of mine is having a birthday (it's crazy how that's possible). I hope you achieve everything you want and that you do everything in your own time and with a lot of passion for whatever it is. 🎀✨️🎀

  • @rania.vializ
    @rania.vializ 5 месяцев назад +2

    happy birthday love 🫶🏽 you share the same birthday with x

  • @hexgirlveronica
    @hexgirlveronica 5 месяцев назад +6

    On #12, the biggest thing I learned now that I'm 22 is to ask myself "Are you holding people to rules that you didn't communicate to them? Are you holding them to an ultimatum that you haven't spoken to them about?" and really check myself and force myself to communicate haha. Another big rule that I'm constantly trying to enforce with myself is to ignore subtext!! I need to ignore passive aggression, if someone has something they want to say they can say it clearly or not at all. I'm not going to sit here and decipher someone's motives or feelings when they refuse to be upfront about something.

  • @babys_breath
    @babys_breath 5 месяцев назад +3

    I’m going to be 19 this summer and I was so so stuck into trying to do all these things so I could meet my families expectations for me and I realized I wasn’t doing what I really wanted. Right now I just wanna focus on saving and moving forward with things that make me happy. This video helped me realize that’s what my intuition wants. You’ve even inspired me to start a yt channel. Thank you ❤

  • @esotericearthalien
    @esotericearthalien 5 месяцев назад +3

    Happy Birthday beautiful 🌸🩷😇

  • @alicjag6317
    @alicjag6317 5 месяцев назад

    thank you karissa

  • @sofiathemaladaptivedaydreamer
    @sofiathemaladaptivedaydreamer 5 месяцев назад

    you inspire me so much! happy bday i hope you have the best year🎉❤

  • @80simp48
    @80simp48 5 месяцев назад +1

    Happy birthday!! Thank you for blessing us with this video :)) hope your day brings you many blessings and is filled with joy. Certainly made my school day a lot better lol

  • @kayflima
    @kayflima 5 месяцев назад

    firstly, happy birthday karissa!! ❤️💫 i hope 25 treats you kindly. may this new cycle be magical & extremely blessed!
    i can relate to so many things you have stated throughout this video. i feel like ever since i turned 22 last year i’ve just blossomed so beautifully in so many areas of my life (self love, patience, creativity, maturity, etc). noticing such progress makes the idea of aging a lot less scary. thank you for sharing your lessons with us!

  • @malfunctionnnn
    @malfunctionnnn 5 месяцев назад +1

    your outlook on life is so beautiful and inspiring. i'm a teenager who struggles with mental health, and your words of wisdom bring me a total sense of peace and hope. thank you for sharing

  • @wizardivy
    @wizardivy 5 месяцев назад

    Happy bdayyy 💗💗

  • @survivalsilk2101
    @survivalsilk2101 5 месяцев назад

    happy birthday, thanks for this vid

  • @rowanb1910
    @rowanb1910 5 месяцев назад

    thank you for this video it was so comforting and exactly what i needed- happy birthday !!!

  • @alexanderboleyn2058
    @alexanderboleyn2058 5 месяцев назад

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! 💕💖♥️

  • @Xxpavement_angelxX
    @Xxpavement_angelxX 5 месяцев назад +2

    hbd karissa! cant wait to watch this, thank you for sharing your wisdom and creativity w us all you truly are a blessing☺ xx

  • @Blissful_Rain
    @Blissful_Rain 5 месяцев назад

    Happy birthday! You've been such an inspiration to me and others. You have helped me grow

  • @tafedance4543
    @tafedance4543 5 месяцев назад

    Happy birthday Angel ❤️ you are so special! Love this video so much

  • @danielle4907
    @danielle4907 5 месяцев назад

    Happy birthday Karissa!! Have a beautiful day

  • @milenalarissa8043
    @milenalarissa8043 5 месяцев назад

    Happy birthday queeen ❤❤ u inspire me so much, I hope this new cycle in ur life will bring u a lot of joy, love and new achievements. Shine bright!✨

  • @TheYazmanian
    @TheYazmanian 5 месяцев назад

    Happy Birthday beautiful soul! ❤

  • @lissa_perez
    @lissa_perez 5 месяцев назад

    Happy Birthday!! ❤❤🥳

  • @wiktoriar.6548
    @wiktoriar.6548 5 месяцев назад

    Happy birthday Karissa!❤

  • @rubbadub.
    @rubbadub. 5 месяцев назад

    Omg happy birthday 🦋

  • @prnst4r
    @prnst4r 5 месяцев назад +1

    Happy birthday, beautiful angel!! 🥳🎂🎉

  • @ThePoetWitch
    @ThePoetWitch 5 месяцев назад

    Happy birthday!! I’m turning 25 soon 💜 this was so nice to listen to

  • @ClaireCraig
    @ClaireCraig 5 месяцев назад

    this is such a great video and full of so much wisdom

  • @matildam8373
    @matildam8373 5 месяцев назад

    Needed this thankyou.

  • @lizzy-sy9mw
    @lizzy-sy9mw 5 месяцев назад

    happy birthday love, thank u for everything u make, u are helping me so much ! have a great day 💋💕

  • @notesfromnatalie
    @notesfromnatalie 5 месяцев назад

    Happy Birthday Karissa! Hope you have a beautiful day! its my 25th birthday tomorrow and I love seeing how people I align with have a similar birthday.. its in the stars! Much love and wish you a beautiful year xo

  • @winnieeelisbeth.m
    @winnieeelisbeth.m 5 месяцев назад

    happy birthday Karissa!!

  • @idle3529
    @idle3529 5 месяцев назад

    I deeply appreciate this video karissa, thank you for sharing this with me… I needed to hear this

  • @cherriesinthehighway
    @cherriesinthehighway 5 месяцев назад

    Happy birthday, you inspire me so much ❤️✨

  • @G4bri3la
    @G4bri3la 5 месяцев назад

    Happy birthday pretty angel!

  • @GwenJewel444
    @GwenJewel444 5 месяцев назад

    happy birthday Karissa 🌷 this was the perfect video to watch first thing today, i really needed to hear all of this ❤️

  • @lxg2206
    @lxg2206 5 месяцев назад +3

    the 25 things 🪄
    1. Anxiety sprints, intuition glides
    2. Not everyone is going to like you, and that’s okay
    3. Environment affects everything, make sure you have safe roots 🌱
    4. Social media is a highlight reel
    5. Aging is a privilege
    6. Becoming “prettier” doesn’t make you more confident
    7. Don’t define yourself by your achievements
    8. The only thing you can control is your actions & your perspective
    9. Absolutely everything is happening for you, and if you give it time, you’ll see it too
    10. Your relationship with yourself is the one that needs the most nurture
    11. Being fearless is not having no fear, but being courageous in spite of it
    12. Communication breeds trust, lack of communication breeds resentment
    13. Two chances is enough
    14. My creativity is my guide
    15. Sensitivity is a superpower, but with great power comes great responsibility
    16. Nature nurtures, it is a mother to all. If you need to be held, go outdoors ☀
    17. We are not designed to carry the load of guilt, regret or shame
    18. Growth can only happen if you step out of your comfort zone (whether you step willingly or are pushed forward with force)
    19. Traveling is crucial, it brings lessons that cannot come forward if you’re standing still
    20. Listen to your body, it keeps the score
    21. We carry more than one lifetimes within us, I am a mere product of everyone in my bloodline who came before me
    22. Being called weird is a huge compliment
    23. Consumerism will never fill that void, nor will it carve out your identity
    24. Envy and gratitude cannot co-exist
    25. I am not my flesh, I am my spirit. I am not my ego, I am my soul 🌟

  • @ingridannabella6094
    @ingridannabella6094 5 месяцев назад

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY BEAUTIFUL

  • @oceanj.6827
    @oceanj.6827 5 месяцев назад

    Happy birthday Karissa! I hope today was as beautiful as you are. Thank you for sharing your gift with us ❤️

  • @ethanwisdom1282
    @ethanwisdom1282 5 месяцев назад

    this is such a beautiful gift thank you so much. these all resonated perfectly, i will be rewatching over and over to bring myself back to truth when i become anxious of the future

  • @user-xt1ip8sg4u
    @user-xt1ip8sg4u 5 месяцев назад +1

    Happy birthday karissa! as someone who's like 4 years younger than you I needed to hear this. It is all very true with some of the things I already know as well as the stuff I didn't. ♥

  • @Lunafaerie013
    @Lunafaerie013 5 месяцев назад

    Tysm Karissa! I’m a teenager and really look up to you, happy birthday! ❤

  • @sarahfisher3063
    @sarahfisher3063 5 месяцев назад

    love this ❤ happy birthday 🎂

  • @actdancesingagstudio
    @actdancesingagstudio 5 месяцев назад +1

    Happy birthday beautiful Karissa!!!💓

  • @darling3259
    @darling3259 5 месяцев назад +2

    i could just cry:') thank you so much for sharing your wisdom. your channel has meant so so much to me over the past few months, and UGH i hope this is your best year yet! happy birthday!

  • @ohsnapitzambrose
    @ohsnapitzambrose 5 месяцев назад +1

    Happy birthday beautiful!! ❤️ I just turned 24 a few weeks ago, and what you mentioned about second chances being enough, I really needed to hear that. I hope you have a wonderful 25 😊🎂

  • @alice_sironi
    @alice_sironi 5 месяцев назад

    happy birthday Katrina's

  • @fairyfreak9959
    @fairyfreak9959 5 месяцев назад +1

    Happy birthday!!💓

  • @renee_cisternas
    @renee_cisternas 5 месяцев назад

    Happy Birthday💕 Thank you for being so genuine and just 100% unapologetically you, your words of wisdom truly resonated with me

  • @Swetener444
    @Swetener444 5 месяцев назад +1

    Karissa you're the woman i want to be like when I become older🥹you inspire me so much

  • @dulcevasquez6757
    @dulcevasquez6757 5 месяцев назад

    Happy Birthday !!

  • @lauraoshea1701
    @lauraoshea1701 5 месяцев назад

    Happy birthday, beautiful Karissa!✨✨🎇🎇 I'm 4 years older than you but I still feel like I can learn from you (and I love your content anyway!) Stay true to yourself and keep evolving, as I'm sure you will💖

  • @aengeleur
    @aengeleur 5 месяцев назад +4

    Each day my love for her just continues to grow. Whenever I look at her, I see myself. Karissa, I wish you the happiest birthday and thank you so much for making me slowly love my sensitivity and embrace my femininity. I love you and wish you nothing but the best

  • @ezgiegrikaya5497
    @ezgiegrikaya5497 5 месяцев назад

    firstly, happy birthdayyyyyy beautiful angel❤ these advice are everything, u touched on so many points i had difficulty understanding, thanku

  • @st1tchedheart
    @st1tchedheart 5 месяцев назад

    happy birthday!!!

  • @1ona
    @1ona 5 месяцев назад

    happy birthday karissa⭐️⭐️thank you for the wise advice, sometimes i am too harsh on myself and this has given me a different outlook.

  • @heroisthic
    @heroisthic 5 месяцев назад

    Happiest birthdayy!! Blessed be❤ Love you so much

  • @andalus8323
    @andalus8323 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing this with us ❤
    All these lessons felt like personaly costumed to me .. definitely need to rewatch it again and again

  • @chuucake
    @chuucake 5 месяцев назад +2

    happy birthday, karissa! thank you so much for everything that you do, for being such a inspiration to all of us. i love you ♡

  • @xoxotullia
    @xoxotullia 5 месяцев назад

    happy birthday karissa! have a blessed day! 🪽

  • @ecenazgumus7261
    @ecenazgumus7261 5 месяцев назад +1

    happy birthdayy

  • @haleybice4763
    @haleybice4763 5 месяцев назад

    I loved this soooo much! I learned a lot of the same lessons this year and I’m 24 💘 love this for us so much.

  • @bonitasblues
    @bonitasblues 5 месяцев назад +1

    happy birthday angel, i adore you ❤

  • @s727yv
    @s727yv 5 месяцев назад +1

    LOVE YOUUUU❤❤

  • @hweosky
    @hweosky 5 месяцев назад +1

    Happy birthday, angel 💗💗💗 thank you for your wonderful art and for LITERALLY changing my life
    you’re an amazing person, i wish you all the best, thank you million times🙏🏻💖

  • @madifritts8976
    @madifritts8976 5 месяцев назад

    Happy birthday Karissa 😘 you are such a well spoken human, thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤️

  • @luagil
    @luagil 5 месяцев назад

    happy birthday angel!! you’re so important to me (and so many girls), keep being this beautiful soul that you are. 🇧🇷💗

  • @EmmaLyons-ud4bn
    @EmmaLyons-ud4bn 5 месяцев назад +2

    I can't tell you how glad I am to come across your channel and content. I also turned 25 this year and left so many of my dreams behind because I didn't feel good enough or felt there wasn't enough time anymore. Your content and your perspective on life really helped me to take another look at what is important to me and to start taking steps to work toward it

  • @lorenasjournal3221
    @lorenasjournal3221 5 месяцев назад +1

    Hii luv, today is also my friend's birthdayy, she turned 18!! Luv uu and hope you enjoyed your dayy♡

  • @7ania7ilipa
    @7ania7ilipa 5 месяцев назад

    Happy birthdayyyy

  • @gabrielacedillo923
    @gabrielacedillo923 5 месяцев назад +1

    Happy birthday Karissa 🌹loved this video

  • @vanessabizama2180
    @vanessabizama2180 5 месяцев назад +1

    all of these hit home so deeply so thank you ☆☆☆ cause i needed to hear all of this after having a very tough day today. happy birthday karissa, you're precious!! 🕯🤍

  • @alskyng
    @alskyng 5 месяцев назад +3

    happy birthday angel!! wish you all the best things, love u 🧙‍♀️💗

  • @amymariee
    @amymariee 5 месяцев назад

    i genuinely cried through this ilysm karissa 💕

  • @krislarsen1776
    @krislarsen1776 5 месяцев назад

    HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @JennyluzCabiara-cm5vq
    @JennyluzCabiara-cm5vq 5 месяцев назад

    Happy Happy Birthday Sweet pretty angel💕

  • @elegyofaloyalhound
    @elegyofaloyalhound 5 месяцев назад

    happy birthday!!!!!!

  • @faeriep0p
    @faeriep0p 5 месяцев назад +1

    Happy bday Karissa!!! 🩷✨️🎉

  • @arlinreveles826
    @arlinreveles826 5 месяцев назад

    Happy birthday karissa! 🦋🤍

  • @bagellover4102
    @bagellover4102 5 месяцев назад

    happy birthday !

  • @-patrizia-
    @-patrizia- 5 месяцев назад

    I literally got chills! Thank you for this video it helped me a lot ❤

  • @alexhelena7264
    @alexhelena7264 5 месяцев назад +2

    Happy birthday blessed angel. You’ve given me a whole different perspective of life. Thank you for being you and giving me the courage and strength to be myself and get through this earth ✨🫶🏽

  • @stephanieferreya9081
    @stephanieferreya9081 5 месяцев назад

    Happy birthday !😊

  • @___m_a_r___
    @___m_a_r___ 5 месяцев назад

    oh my gosh happy birthday!!

  • @mymelodymyluv
    @mymelodymyluv 5 месяцев назад

    Happy birthday Karissa luv you ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @chaicoffeecup
    @chaicoffeecup 5 месяцев назад

    i love your vibe

  • @mindlessdegen6642
    @mindlessdegen6642 5 месяцев назад +1

    🎉 Happy birthday Karissa!! 🎉

  • @haizeaa.7064
    @haizeaa.7064 5 месяцев назад

    25 was a pretty rough year for me but I somehow managed to take also a lesson from every year that past by. I'm so grateful for this video because what I truly need to learn the most is to follow my intuition rather then my fear. I don't know yet how to fight that beast but the fact that you start to learn to live after your intuition motivates me to keep the hope and keep going ❤ I appreciate you thank you love ❤

  • @D3adlyNightshad3
    @D3adlyNightshad3 5 месяцев назад

    I love the way u express your love and spirituality ✨

  • @sullengirlyy
    @sullengirlyy 5 месяцев назад +2

    this made my day a million times better 💌 ur an angel