It pisses me off that she cheats on him , then has the nerve to give him divorce papers. If she couldn't try to work things out, that should have been her first step, the divorce, not cheating on him. People make commitments and act like they mean nothing.
Everyone around me and strangers I meet describe me as one cold hearted man and they say they hate me but only my sister knows what kinda man I am and how I really feel about the world and stuff happens in my life. Whenever someone tells her I am one to be hated, she says " He is the best brother in the world and I Love him" Cause I never show my feelings and true side to outsiders cause when they know the soft part in you, they hurt right there, always.
Gaming Heads Up Everything you just said is incredible. However I do cry as a man , and am not to be said cold hearted I can't relate, but don't worry you are not the only one, others feel the pain you so as well. Its all good bro.
The wife makes me so mad. She cry’s as if it’s her husband’s fault that this is happening to her, and then she divorces him. Honestly, I don’t think I’ve been this mad at a short film ever.
I don't think it's quite that black and white. He obviously is not very "there". A person - woman or man - cannot stop living because of a tragedy. I hated her at first, but as the film developed, I kind of loathed him even more. But both are human, and that's really the point I think. Life can be cruel. We can hold on to each other, or move along...
It felt more like she was upset with herself, not at her husband. They were both suffering from losing their daughter after all, so they were both in pretty dark places.
+J. Mark Lane so if the women cheats you blame the man because hes not "there" but if you the man cheats you still blame him because. Either way you feminazis blame the man in any case.
This tragedy is more about the devastation a marriage faces after the death of a child. We see many toys around the house with no defined presents of the young girl and a grieving father eating out of his daughters lunch box. He deals with the death by becoming distant from everyone, including his wife. His wife, who feels like she is not getting the emotion support for the loss of their child seeks comfort outside of marriage, but her efforts in comforting herself only cause more damage to the marriage overall. The coworker takes about radiation being the worst part of the tragedy, meaning the outcome of the couple loosing their child. The husband apologizes to the wife for not being there to comfort her during a time of great emotional stress, and they decide that rather than letting the loss and infidelity (the radiation) destroy them, they decide to work it out together.
It was bittersweet, that moment when they were together near the fridge, for a slight second there was a timeless peace and silence between two souls, in my opinion, that is what marriage and love and life is all about, those trials and those moments are worth it all, in the midst of all the hardship comes ease, and an ecstasy of love. Doesn't matter really, as one grows beyond his pride, nothing really matters but those little things we take for granted, a divine presence that encompass all.
I made a very unserious and joking comment about this man's epic beard, and now I must make a serious one about this. This comments thread is full of an analytical bunch of people. You all have my full respect.
I never understood why people stay married and then cheat on their family. If you are unhappy or don't want a committed marriage, be a bachelor and be single. Not only does it destroy the spouse, but it causes irreversible trauma and psychological damage to the children. If you divorce your spouse and then start dating others, at least the children will know that their parents were unhappy and split. A cheating parent means that their father or mother was just a lowlife.
Someone people think about the time they invested. If you've been with someone you absolutely adore for over 5 years, it'll be hard to give them up, even though the did you wrong. I'd give them at least one chance of redemption.If they really love you they'd see how much you hurt, and never let it happen a second time. If it happens again you can just walk away, without wondering what if ?
If they really loved you they wouldn't have cheated on you in the first place, some things are just unforgivable. Children and friends are all I need in this life, as long as I have those two, I think I'll be alright.
Imagine if your partner learned from their mistakes and are desperate to have you back, but you reject them. Then they find one of your "friends" or someone else, and treat them the way you deserved to be treated. They know what it's like to lose the one they love over a stupid decision. Once bitten twice shy.
@Alrio: Cheaters cheat, it's an addiction and habit for them. My father was a serial womanizer. My mother left him. My father's new wife accepts that he cheats and says "all men cheat". It is all about what a person can live with and how much they can tolerate. If you catch your spouse cheating, they will always say it was just a one time mistake or "accident". That is a lie. Chances are that person has cheated dozens of times and will do so again. As Ronald Reagan used to say "Trust, but verify". The truth is no partner will ever trust a cheater after they have been caught. You always wonder where they are and what they are up to.
Sunil Thomas Maybe I'm too optimistic, but I've seen cases where it's worked. All men are tempted but I don't believe we all cheat, though it's easy to get caught up in the moment. I believe that love is patient and that it doesn't keep record of wrongs, but if someone breaks your heart over and over, they got to go.
Before you curse out the person that cut you off in traffic or decide not to help someone pick up their things if they dropped them, think about what that person might be going through in life. Let's make this world a better place. You can make the difference
This actually happened to an old friend of mine... They relocated because she wanted to take a full time position in a nursing program in Calgary... So he got two jobs so she could be in SCHOOL and would be the financial barrier for the next 4 years. . Long story short he got to go home early between jobs.. My friend buys some flowers and hustles home to surprise her... Well he finds a car in his spot... He goes upstairs. And finds her and this handy man in the action... He shut the door.. Left quietly lawyered up. She got nothing. He got the house and then some... As well pain and suffering. She is still paying... Finally one for the men. You always hear the women getting everything in a divorce. The man always gets bent over... NOT THIS TIME... WHOOT WHOOT.
EE RG I'm not throwing stones. . . Still doesn't kive a right for someone to sleep around . . That's a rubbish excuse. . .cause they lost a child. . . .so what . . . My story is about my fruend catching his ex wife sleeping around . . .YOU DON'T GET TO JUDGE ME . . ONLY GOD CAN . Kindly dismiss yourself from my conversation
EE RG the man lost his daughter too, losing a child is no justification for cheating on someone who still loves and supports you. Are you saying the woman was right to cheat because she lost her daughter?
Aye, I agree with ^^ I think we've finally achieved equality for adulterers. Between Thots and Scumbags, everyone who cheats is getting the hate they deserve
Actually I'm a woman who hates it more when a woman cheats, because I feel that women should understand how painful this can be especially when children are involved.
Watle-Fish bbb you can't walk around the minefield cus it is represented as life itself. everywhere you go is considered life. so your point is invalid.
This people is a devistated man. I'm not offending anyone but people especially women, this what happens to us men who are broken and stopped working inside. people provoke us as tough and lean but we're soft and loveable inside but I'm not including men who are monsters. Show respect; we show you respect, give us trust; we give you our trust. -unknown
When he picks up the milk and puts in the fridge. So powerful, as a man you keep going, and try to keep your family together. This short film has moved me in ways I didn’t think were possible. 👏🏻 bravo.
So.... His daughter died, hes still in mourning (eating from her lunchbox - same soda) Wife is cheating and deliberately didn't care enough to stop him finding out AND pregnant with another mans child (implied morning sickness) This tell's me that as a man , when at your lowest ebb, expect the love of your life to stab you in the heart, and twist the knife.
Each hurt the other while trying to beat the pain. They both coped in destructive ways. He avoided and stonewalled, left her alone with her mother’s grief. Sometimes losing a child makes a woman focus single mindedly on getting pregnant again. The only way survive a loss so immense
omg. is that what you only picked up? there was more to it than just that..... both dealt their grief differently, and it hurt each other..... he abandoned her emotionally and shut her out. His body may have been there, but he might have well just left her alone in the house. She's basically living with a ghost. Not only did she lose a child, she became invisable to the only other person who could understand her.
WHY CANT PEOPLE STAY LOYAL TO OTHER PEOPLE LIKE IS IT HARD TO STAY HONEST ITS JUST BECAUSE SOME PEOPLE THINK ABOUT THEIR SELVES THATS WHY THEY HURT THEIR PARTNERS Also for other people if you dont love anyone please tell them right away so we can avoid sadness of course you still hurt but we always need to let go of someone
I stand by you sir, just be honest, also if your partner changes, change with them, it's how relationships grow, and that's what people don't understand. Marriage shows absolutely no importance in our society nowadays
!John*Doe! She was bottling up her feelings, and needed someone to talk to. She was inconsiderate in not thinking he also was having a hard time. Yes, she had it hard too, but that doesn't mean she should've made him feel isolated even more for not catering to her wants. They are both just as important, so to answer your question it was selfishness, but not from greed. I'd say she should've apologized first.
J.R. Spingly that just makes even less sense. Let's say you got stabbed in the street with no explanation as to why that happened. Then while you are recovering at the hospital, you are expected to apologize to the person who stabbed you. Would you want to apologize to the person who stabbed you? Then I ask why apologize for getting stabbed? Especially if it's in the back.
_Nope_Itz _Jade yup and both people are guilty not only the person that cheated but also the other person that wanted to be with someone that was already in a relationship
Did you even get the message of the video? Obviously the guy was mad, but he asked himself, how did this happen and he realised that it was his fault, because he didnt pay attention to his wife after the childrens death. And you can tell me its the wifes fault, the guy has nothing to do with that. Okay But thats not what this video is showing you.
Random Assassin When his co-worker started talking to him, I thought he was the manager or something and that he was about to fire him! Thankfully, he didn't
I want everyone in this comment section to know that if someone does something that breaks your heart, there's always somewhere else to go, good luck in the future to kids like me watching. May you have lasting-love.
The kids cannot have lasting love without a male pimp hand to curb the inherent whorish behaviour of women. Today in the west there are no loyal women, only those that haven't been caught. No patriarchy = no male authority = no lasting love
Hardest thing I ever had to watch as this has happend to me (LESS losing my daughter). I do have a daughter tho.. and her mom did this to me.. I hate to say we never got back together and it's been a year we where together for 8 years and all just tosted away... still trying to pick my self up from what I walked into... it's been 3 months sense I can finally sleep in my bed and not on the floor in the hallway by my kids door that no longer lives with me cause she took my kids. I wish everyone the best of hope that is going throw this just try hard to keep the head up as hard as it is
After his long hard day of work, maybe he expected to go home and be in his wife’s loving arms. But instead, he comes home to this! I’m crying right now. I feel so bad for him,
idk if you got the message or not but their daughter passed from leukaemia and the lady wanted to let the emotions bottled up inside her out, but she had no one to speak with because the husband kept it bottled up which then led to the lady looking for someone else to let it out on (that's why he said sorry to his wife at the end)
I feel so bad for the husband. I know they lost their daughter but that doesn't justify cheating. The cold hard truth is that modern marriage is beginning to mean nothing anymore. our world has become such a culture of fear and poor decisions and it just keeps getting worse. And people get angry at their partners for being possessive over them? You can't really blame someone for being cautious these days, plus you never know what their history is with relationships, whether it be personal or in the family. literally all of my friends say that their parents and grandparents are divorced for, guess what, affairs. I am happy for people who make marriage work but for most people, it ends up in failure or death. This is why people are choosing to stay single, because they don't want to get hurt. My grandmother for example, grew up in a time where women had to rely purely on their husbands to provide for them and my grandfather has been cheating on her for years (Still is), even through constant negotiations with her, my family still can't convince her to leave him because she says, "relying on my husband is what I grew up with and I won't make it without him." Now that women can be financially independent and have great careers, it's much easier to live a happy single life for both males and females. Sorry for the rant, but relationships don't have a good history in my family.
Viciously Video That is why I feel so lucky to have been raised in a Mormon Household, Now you don't have to follow the religion but the morals and views on marriage have made my family negotiate through so many things.
Sergio Milho he’s apologizing for emotionally detaching after the death of their daughter. Not excusing her cheating, but he’s apologizing for something unrelated.
This is why the world is the way it is... Three years ago. My boys and I walked into a restaurant and saw her with another. I filed 2 days later. Fast forward 3 years. Judge gave me custody and no child support nor alimony. I’m debt free and living life beautifully. I will never apologize. Never. They see their Mother. She is dead to me.
I'm reading through all these comments and NO ONE has addressed what this short video is really about. In my opinion, it's about loss, lack of trust and how important communication truly is especially in a marriage. They BOTH lost their baby girl and they both grieved differently to the point of not even really knowing each other anymore; they didn't know how to grieve together or comfort one another being so wrapped up in their own crushing sorrow. The father/husband was great, especially when he's at work and listening to the other worker try to help him. I also like that the little girl was depicted as a happy & innocent child laughing and playing instead of preying on the audience's emotions to illicit reactions through the sick/dying scenes as most movies do. The message was much more powerful to me through the writer's decision to show her just as she was, being herself--showing the audience what these parents really lost...and it wasn't just their marriage!
Beatrice Chui that was then he's on about now nothing is equal most men would get called scum and every name under the sun whereas woman get consoled and told " oh he wasn't there for you"
El Presidente I wouldn't say death, I mean, almost everyone deserves to live. I not against the fact that cheating is a bad thing but death just seems a little bit... much, don't you think?
By thinking that way ur provoking fatality !!! Bro you just need to have couple of friends, gud income and ok body. She wont cheat. That guy was lonely as fuk with very low income job, even ur brother wouldnt stick with you lol.
It's not just about the cheating. Their daughter passed away and they're both coping with it differently. But that's why it's so sad for him, because after she died everything falls apart
Finally somebody that sees this as more than a flick about cheating and divorce. The movie is about loss. The cheating and divorce is the shrapnel and radiation the coworker was talking about. I'm guessing those of you that didn't see this as the primary theme have never lost a child.
@@bobbybaucom4489 I've never lost a child, but I got it. I think those that don't get it are young and less than 25. I would love to shrug it off to lack of life experience, but when I was 25 I understood that the death of a child a hugely destructive event in a person's life. Apparently, some ppl just seem to think cheating is the worst thing ever nowadays- even in comparison to a child death. I don't get it. I blame my peers that gave birth to and raised these daft young adults.
I think this was one of the best representation of forgiveness I've seen. I wouldn't react like that, but I admire the character's decisions. Forgiveness is important.
Excellent execution! Directing was beautifully done, as well as the editing. Smooth, slow and yet not boring. Many emotions were shown, and we do actually feel empathy towards Bobby. The sound work was perfect, the music was beautiful, the image was beautiful... Great job!
This is probably one of the most touching films I have watched in my lifetime. I cannot put it into words how brave that guy is and he is a true inspiration to me. Any women who treats him like that wouldn’t deserve such a wonderful person like seriously. Just know that you can make a difference to someone’s life, no matter how small or helpful something is. You don’t know what they are going through and nor do the bullies and I wish they could see this really..
You realise this actually happened to someone at some point, right? and is actually frequent in our modern society where the woman cheats on her husband, at his home, on their bed, shamelessly looks at him after the shower, announces "I'm going to my mother", leaves, feels lonely due to lack of attention and files for divorce which would earn her half of whatever "HE" bought after they were married.. that's women for you.
the stress, people will say that bit in the vending machine was stupid to add in the scene. but little things like that is wats harder to handle especially when ur already under such strong stress such us being cheated on.. ive felt just as much depression to know how this types of guys mustve felt, it truly is heartbreaking😔😔😔
David Faker the vending machine part was complicated you need to be a bit smart to get it its that he is giving the machine money(what it needs) and its giving him nothing like his wife
Sad, how so so ? Its the inevitable outcome of all our lives, no matter how well we've lived it or not .All the matters is what we do with the time we have, here and now and how we can best enrich it whilst we have it.... But you can believe in what you like if it helps you escape the inevitability of the eternal nothingness when we are gone .
I'm sorry, I respect the main characters decisions. But I just can't get back with someone who cheated on me. Like if you wanted me you should have kept me instead of going out and finding some fuckbuddy for a day. If there was a problem we need to talk about it. If there is something I need to do, tell me. But you have to understand I can't look at you without thinking about how you screwed another man. Maybe I'm wrong, maybe I'm just an idiot. But that's my view. Edit: I never realized that I'd get so many likes. I thank you all, but it isn't necessary. I only did this to explain my views.
Its really just my opinion on this sort of matter. But really, the feeling of betrayal behind the deceit you brought upon me would be too painful. Its like looking into a mirror but you see something different. You just don't see the same person after what they do.
Jhin The Virtuoso No I mean I really do agree cheating is such a horrible thing there's no way I'm giving that person another chance dude. I mean I'd barely be able to look at them after what they did to me.
Leave before you cheat.. & you never know what’s gonna be someone’s snap point because you don’t know what they’ve gone thru... maybe you feel they overreacted but you don’t know what else they’ve dealt with...
Santa:so kid what do you want for Christmas? Jimmy:A DRAGON! Santa:Something more realistic Jimmy: a loyal girlfriend Santa:what color dragon would you like
@@nfcribeiro That's right. People want to say all kinds of things about cheaters - what they think, how they feel - but unless you've cheated, you don't know. I can't speak for all who've cheated, myself, I felt all kinds of guilt and shame. I never though I would be that person. Ever. But that's how desperate I felt at the time - so lonely and full of despair and loss from a loveless marriage that had nothing left for me. Did it excuse the cheating? Of course not. But now I know that until you've experienced a certain situation, you don't really know what can push an ordinary to do un-ordinary things. But man, did I learn a lot about myself through it. Not glad I did, but very glad I learned from it.
This is what happens when you confuse love with romance. Romance is just courtship, mother nature just doing its thing. Couples should only marry people when they've found companionship, and care little for romance. You should be happy with your partner even in the absence of romance, and if that feels inadequate, then stay out of their lives and don't hurt them.
Cold truth. So many relationships end horribly because of that mistake. Romance and pleasure is easy to feel so people automatically assume that must be what Love is.
CuttingEdges also love alone isn't enough in my opinion there should be respect compassion and friendship there. If couples respected each other they would think twice before cheating
@CuttingEdges My Gaad.. true wise words haha...Now I see why the rates go up...Companionship, that's nice but out of many roles it must be just one of them...yes your life patner may have a devil role but its just the part of package..Accept who she/he really is. If you feel u dont get what you love then love what you get..simple as that...we all have ups and downs ,try to fill each others out..for most people who think otherwise its too late when the realize...we dont know the value of eyes unless we lose it..no one is adequate for anyone and where there is true love there will be fights and hurts..dont be scared of a few bruises when learning to ride a bike...
Just how calm he was when he walks into his house an a stranger walks out of his bedroom with his shirt unbuttoned then calmly asks the man to leave. What he said to his wife honestly surprised me that that's the first thing you say to your wife who's been cheating on you for who knows how long and you say " you never said you liked strawberries"
Every single cheater deserves to be alone the rest of their lives and have every single person they like just ignore them and cheat on them aswell if they end up dating eachother.
i know, however debris doesn't come off a landmine shrapnel does, what its implying is that you can get hurt from little things and other people can cause you suffering.
idk if you got the message or not but their daughter passed from leukaemia and the lady wanted to let the emotions bottled up inside her out, but she had no one to speak with because the husband kept it bottled up which then led to the lady looking for someone else to let it out on (that's why he said sorry to his wife at the end)
...mgtow's don't tell people how to speak, sit, or take anyone's freedom of speech or parental rights away...haven't you noticed that? Or just trolling?
He’s really a good man, he never yelled at his wife when he found out that his wife cheated on him. Instead of yelling, he just talks calmly even though it must be really painful for him. He’s a brave man.
When I was married I went cycling early in the mornings after my night shift, it was spring and there was hundreds of daffodils along the sides of the road, my ex wifes favorite, full of love for her I picked her a bunch, I thought it would be a nice surprise. On receipt instead of "thankyou", or "for me how thoughtful" she asked "where did you get them"? So I told her and she replied "you're not supposed to pick wild flowers it's not allowed"
Rasyidah RBLX no its just that she was un thankful because he picked the flowers it could have went I brought flower honey your favorite one too thank u but I hate to say that picking wild flowers are illegal
“I’m sorry...you drifted” the most backhanded apology I’ve ever heard. Maybe as a wife it is your job to see your husband drift into a spiraling depression, and instead of going on and cheating on him, you take him by the hand and help him
I cried. So real. He reminds me a lot of me...the feeling of still trying to see the good while things just keep piling up without end. But he did it in the end, he was able to still see the path to the light. No words. Just tears.
Guys, don't get frustrated in the comments section when women share the blame or twist it back on the guy. This is the reality that women do not take responsibility and that no matter the crime, a man will somehow be to blame. Perhaps this is because society never holds women accountable.
Lena C He is right you know. Almost all cheaters are women and cheating is just another casual daily activity to women. They feel no empathy towards men and no woman could ever love a man as much as a man could love a woman.
Why wouldn't you, it's a tragedy. Kinda feel bad for the wife, too. They lost their daughter and he shut down, leaving her alone. She's not evil, just bereaved and lonely. Anyone who says she deserves the worst has obviously never experienced that awful combination.
+Varsha Shastry why do you defend the cheater? if the situation would be reversed you would vebally destroy him, but no, if the woman cheats, it's fine for you.
Just reminds me of why it is vital to be nice to people. Like today, took me 5 minutes to get out of my work's parking lot because no one would give me an opening. Right after I got out, I let someone else out of another parking lot. Acts of kindness don't spread and you wont change the world with it, but just remember that at least one person you see every day will be under more stress than you could imagine. You wont change the world, but you could save a life.
Wut Dey were trying to say is “so a man doesn’t talk to you so you cheat on him.” Totally justified as in sarcasm. I hope you understand if not I have lost hope for you both.
There are some games you don't get to play unless you're all in. Marriage is one of those games. So choose your partner wisely and don't jump into something like marriage if a shadow of a doubt crosses your mind. You should never think "well if it goes wrong i can just get a divorce" because then you dilute the significance of marriage. Women I am mostly talking to you since you initiate around 70% of all divorce because marriage to you is having the white dress and getting lots of attention for a day. That's superficial and not a good foundation for marriage.
Greyfoxdbz18 it is not, firstly? I'm pretty sure all women I've met have always talked about having a solid partner for life and someone to be with. What about the women who suffer, get cheated on, get abused and then go for divorce, they are also in that percentage, don't try to talk to them or look down upon them. Please get your facts straight
XOmechannelOX and what about the ones that use the exact excuse he mentioned? You know, I wasnt getting enough attention ect. Which is a large part as well
thank you Omeleto for reminding people that the beauty of life comes from both the best and worst moments which we can allow to either consume us or help us grow
So a woman feels neglected, and instead of asking to take a break or even talking about it, she cheats on him. Then he apologizes to her. And that's what you call beauty in life?
lmaooo y'all think I really cheat 😂don't you guys try to move on from bad experiences? I mean if you don't move on from the bad how are you ever going to see the good from life again? even though this was a film, I hope whoever gets cheated on (apparently I do the cheating) knows their self worth and moves on to live the same or even better than before they were cheated on
Nat Oliven you miss he entire message of the story. It’s to not misjudge people for how they treat you one day because they could be going through a lot. That is why he apologized. He wasn’t there for her when she died and he didn’t Open up.
Jordyn Hershey of course they do but not as much as males one, if women’s are cheated on they could easily get into another bloke simple, men’s deal it for a long time eventually it comes down to they have nothing in themselves.
I have been cheated on thrice by men. It had been hard for me. I was depressed for a long time. It is easy for you to say women can move on since you haven't been one.
I don't see anyone here talking bout how much of a nice dude Rodrigo was reaching out to a complete stranger at work such a heartwarming moment
facts
feels like these people only exist in the movies mannn, people trash irl.
Dead on, we need more people like him in this world
Sometimes people are just afraid to approach.
sure
It pisses me off that she cheats on him , then has the nerve to give him divorce papers. If she couldn't try to work things out, that should have been her first step, the divorce, not cheating on him. People make commitments and act like they mean nothing.
Nauraima Swan both at fault though look closer
I PG I see that he could have been there for her better , but the solution is not infedelity. Plus,two wrongs never make a right.
That is exactly my point. He is the one who apologises. Nothing..... absolutely nothing can justify cheating
Its not that simple girl, they both had a big loss
Prathamesh Pawar right
When he said the machine was taking his money, and he works hard for it, that hit deep and made me feel even worse for him😓
"it's not much, but I work hard for it" yeah it was a very good line.
"Its taking my money.Its not much but I work hard for it"
I nearly burst into tears 😢
Its not much,but its hard work
They say men are emotionless we just dont show it infront of others...
Everyone around me and strangers I meet describe me as one cold hearted man and they say they hate me but only my sister knows what kinda man I am and how I really feel about the world and stuff happens in my life. Whenever someone tells her I am one to be hated, she says " He is the best brother in the world and I Love him" Cause I never show my feelings and true side to outsiders cause when they know the soft part in you, they hurt right there, always.
Shaun Williams
Gaming Heads Up Everything you just said is incredible. However I do cry as a man , and am not to be said cold hearted I can't relate, but don't worry you are not the only one, others feel the pain you so as well. Its all good bro.
Shaun Williams men don't show emotions that much because they have to be manly, but like meh, they cry
Even though I'm a girl I know that because if my brothers
The wife makes me so mad. She cry’s as if it’s her husband’s fault that this is happening to her, and then she divorces him. Honestly, I don’t think I’ve been this mad at a short film ever.
I don't think it's quite that black and white. He obviously is not very "there". A person - woman or man - cannot stop living because of a tragedy. I hated her at first, but as the film developed, I kind of loathed him even more. But both are human, and that's really the point I think. Life can be cruel. We can hold on to each other, or move along...
It felt more like she was upset with herself, not at her husband. They were both suffering from losing their daughter after all, so they were both in pretty dark places.
In my experience anyway
70% of the time women does this and then blame the man. and feminist side with the women
+J. Mark Lane so if the women cheats you blame the man because hes not "there" but if you the man cheats you still blame him because. Either way you feminazis blame the man in any case.
This tragedy is more about the devastation a marriage faces after the death of a child. We see many toys around the house with no defined presents of the young girl and a grieving father eating out of his daughters lunch box. He deals with the death by becoming distant from everyone, including his wife. His wife, who feels like she is not getting the emotion support for the loss of their child seeks comfort outside of marriage, but her efforts in comforting herself only cause more damage to the marriage overall. The coworker takes about radiation being the worst part of the tragedy, meaning the outcome of the couple loosing their child. The husband apologizes to the wife for not being there to comfort her during a time of great emotional stress, and they decide that rather than letting the loss and infidelity (the radiation) destroy them, they decide to work it out together.
You and only a few can see what unconditional love is, a "Commitment!
It was bittersweet, that moment when they were together near the fridge, for a slight second there was a timeless peace and silence between two souls, in my opinion, that is what marriage and love and life is all about, those trials and those moments are worth it all, in the midst of all the hardship comes ease, and an ecstasy of love. Doesn't matter really, as one grows beyond his pride, nothing really matters but those little things we take for granted, a divine presence that encompass all.
I made a very unserious and joking comment about this man's epic beard, and now I must make a serious one about this. This comments thread is full of an analytical bunch of people. You all have my full respect.
I bet the child was NOT HIS!
lol
I never understood why people stay married and then cheat on their family. If you are unhappy or don't want a committed marriage, be a bachelor and be single. Not only does it destroy the spouse, but it causes irreversible trauma and psychological damage to the children. If you divorce your spouse and then start dating others, at least the children will know that their parents were unhappy and split. A cheating parent means that their father or mother was just a lowlife.
Someone people think about the time they invested. If you've been with someone you absolutely adore for over 5 years, it'll be hard to give them up, even though the did you wrong. I'd give them at least one chance of redemption.If they really love you they'd see how much you hurt, and never let it happen a second time. If it happens again you can just walk away, without wondering what if ?
If they really loved you they wouldn't have cheated on you in the first place, some things are just unforgivable. Children and friends are all I need in this life, as long as I have those two, I think I'll be alright.
Imagine if your partner learned from their mistakes and are desperate to have you back, but you reject them. Then they find one of your "friends" or someone else, and treat them the way you deserved to be treated. They know what it's like to lose the one they love over a stupid decision. Once bitten twice shy.
@Alrio: Cheaters cheat, it's an addiction and habit for them. My father was a serial womanizer. My mother left him. My father's new wife accepts that he cheats and says "all men cheat". It is all about what a person can live with and how much they can tolerate. If you catch your spouse cheating, they will always say it was just a one time mistake or "accident". That is a lie. Chances are that person has cheated dozens of times and will do so again. As Ronald Reagan used to say "Trust, but verify". The truth is no partner will ever trust a cheater after they have been caught. You always wonder where they are and what they are up to.
Sunil Thomas Maybe I'm too optimistic, but I've seen cases where it's worked. All men are tempted but I don't believe we all cheat, though it's easy to get caught up in the moment. I believe that love is patient and that it doesn't keep record of wrongs, but if someone breaks your heart over and over, they got to go.
You guys are the only people who can make this grown man struggle to hold back tears.
Amen, brother.
Amen
Let it out, be a man
Kevin McBigPP m,
yes Mr grown man. Mr Kevin mcbigPP
Before you curse out the person that cut you off in traffic or decide not to help someone pick up their things if they dropped them, think about what that person might be going through in life. Let's make this world a better place. You can make the difference
Dane Tanto you deserve my like :)
much appreciated :)
That's true
Dane Tanto that's not an excuse for no one. If your having a bad day don't take it out on other people simple as that
Eduardo Delgado A human can only try so hard when going through tragedy.
This actually happened to an old friend of mine... They relocated because she wanted to take a full time position in a nursing program in Calgary... So he got two jobs so she could be in SCHOOL and would be the financial barrier for the next 4 years. . Long story short he got to go home early between jobs.. My friend buys some flowers and hustles home to surprise her... Well he finds a car in his spot... He goes upstairs. And finds her and this handy man in the action... He shut the door.. Left quietly lawyered up. She got nothing. He got the house and then some... As well pain and suffering. She is still paying... Finally one for the men. You always hear the women getting everything in a divorce. The man always gets bent over... NOT THIS TIME... WHOOT WHOOT.
Lucious Mani please send me his lawyers name.
Pedro Gomez lol
Lucious Mani Karma.
EE RG I'm not throwing stones. . . Still doesn't kive a right for someone to sleep around . . That's a rubbish excuse. . .cause they lost a child. . . .so what . . . My story is about my fruend catching his ex wife sleeping around . . .YOU DON'T GET TO JUDGE ME . . ONLY GOD CAN . Kindly dismiss yourself from my conversation
EE RG the man lost his daughter too, losing a child is no justification for cheating on someone who still loves and supports you. Are you saying the woman was right to cheat because she lost her daughter?
That guy deserves an award for his acting
That’s sad he was eating out of his daughters lunch box😢
rapid joystick that tore my heart up
rapid joystick 😢 😢 😢
rapid joystick yep
Adriel Torres what happened to the girl?
rapid joystick what's wrong with that
In the end the only person you can trust is yourself.
Jyotirmay Nath sadly this isn't even always the case...
Jyotirmay Nath I know everone says im selfish for believin that
Sometimes you can''t even trust your own perception.
Who's Youself and why can we trust him?
Kill me PLEASE did you just assume it gender???
IF THAT WAS A MAN CHEATING THE COMMENTS WOULD BE HORRIBLE
The comments are demonizing her, humiliating here and calling her names though already sooooo??????
Aye, I agree with ^^ I think we've finally achieved equality for adulterers. Between Thots and Scumbags, everyone who cheats is getting the hate they deserve
Juliet Katakanya i SWEAR
There would be feminist outrage
Actually I'm a woman who hates it more when a woman cheats, because I feel that women should understand how painful this can be especially when children are involved.
B E G O N E T H O T
Go away big gay
Exit the area how with malaria
This is omeleto not cowbelly
borutoswordsman B E G O N E L I T T L E K I D
Iso Alot B E G O N E W E E B
A message to everyone if someone cheats with you don't get back with them no matter what your better than that
Kicht Dicky We're all Karamazov
Kicht Dicky you're
Oof
Kicht Dicky it is hard to do.
But it is the best thing to do :(
Kicht Dicky unless they’re hot
“Life is like a minefield and sometimes it not the explosion that gets you...it’s the debris”
Well said.
Midnightxoxz just walk around the minefield
Watle-Fish bbb you can't walk around the minefield cus it is represented as life itself. everywhere you go is considered life. so your point is invalid.
CITATE GT fly over it then
Watle-Fish bbb stop trying to be a smart alec kid.
Drago you know hes not trying to "act" you know that hes not tryna be "smart" your just thinking about himself being "smart"
2018 just won’t be his year.
Tyriek 'ol
Lmao
Not my name how is that funny......
Right hahah
He said " u never said that u like strawberries " W T F
How could you cheat on you're husband? He has such a glorious beard
#1 reason not to cheat Lel
Speed Force 😂
Ikr? Its about like mine. 'Course i'm still single no kids....
it dont matters for a woman... it dont matter for the brain... it never never matters...
Speed Force your*
Adultery is the worst kind of betrayal.
Preach
Wayne96819 true that man God is the way she better pray or else
Wayne96819 Not exactly
Adultery can be commited by simply looking at a one lustfully.
Pretty sure it's not as bad as being held for high treason of a country in military court.
Cheaters are people with low self esteem and no respect for themselves...
They are people on a dangerous whirlwind downhill into chaos. True.
Rant Therapist ive been cheated on i know how deeply it hurts
Carol J no respect for other people
Carol J
Sure buddy. And the Sun runs circles around the Earth.
No, they have no respect for anyone except themselves
This people is a devistated man. I'm not offending anyone but people especially women, this what happens to us men who are broken and stopped working inside. people provoke us as tough and lean but we're soft and loveable inside but I'm not including men who are monsters. Show respect; we show you respect, give us trust; we give you our trust. -unknown
Hacker_J3_20 Magnabijon 9
Hacker_J3_20 Magnabijon +1
When he picks up the milk and puts in the fridge. So powerful, as a man you keep going, and try to keep your family together. This short film has moved me in ways I didn’t think were possible. 👏🏻 bravo.
So....
His daughter died, hes still in mourning (eating from her lunchbox - same soda)
Wife is cheating and deliberately didn't care enough to stop him finding out
AND pregnant with another mans child (implied morning sickness)
This tell's me that as a man , when at your lowest ebb, expect the love of your life to stab you in the heart, and twist the knife.
True friends stab you in the front
Iago Mota lol
Each hurt the other while trying to beat the pain. They both coped in destructive ways. He avoided and stonewalled, left her alone with her mother’s grief. Sometimes losing a child makes a woman focus single mindedly on getting pregnant again. The only way survive a loss so immense
omg. is that what you only picked up? there was more to it than just that..... both dealt their grief differently, and it hurt each other..... he abandoned her emotionally and shut her out. His body may have been there, but he might have well just left her alone in the house. She's basically living with a ghost. Not only did she lose a child, she became invisable to the only other person who could understand her.
D.J is that why its ok to cheat. She should just file for a divorce
WHY CANT PEOPLE STAY LOYAL TO OTHER PEOPLE LIKE IS IT HARD TO STAY HONEST ITS JUST BECAUSE SOME PEOPLE THINK ABOUT THEIR SELVES THATS WHY THEY HURT THEIR PARTNERS
Also for other people if you dont love anyone please tell them right away so we can avoid sadness of course you still hurt but we always need to let go of someone
yes it is because people like to do stuff
David Pulido other stuff that is not important.
yumi's randoms sometimes its hard because people change
I stand by you sir, just be honest, also if your partner changes, change with them, it's how relationships grow, and that's what people don't understand. Marriage shows absolutely no importance in our society nowadays
honesty is such a lonely word..
Somebody explain to me why this guy apologizes after his wife cheats on him. It's like apologizing to the burglar for robbing you.
!John*Doe! She was bottling up her feelings, and needed someone to talk to. She was inconsiderate in not thinking he also was having a hard time. Yes, she had it hard too, but that doesn't mean she should've made him feel isolated even more for not catering to her wants. They are both just as important, so to answer your question it was selfishness, but not from greed. I'd say she should've apologized first.
J.R. Spingly that just makes even less sense. Let's say you got stabbed in the street with no explanation as to why that happened. Then while you are recovering at the hospital, you are expected to apologize to the person who stabbed you. Would you want to apologize to the person who stabbed you? Then I ask why apologize for getting stabbed? Especially if it's in the back.
Losing a daughter harms the parents mentally.
Aztec what in the world are you talking about?
Just some bird There is consoling you can get
Seeing how lonely he is makes me so sad 😭
No one sees how sad I am tho. But who cares
@@amariliscatclaw142 i do ❤
People who cheat doesn’t know how that hurts a person
_Nope_Itz _Jade yup and both people are guilty not only the person that cheated but also the other person that wanted to be with someone that was already in a relationship
Edu Mw4 that stupid
_Nope_Itz _Jade I think they probably know, they just think they can get away with it
Edu Mw4 she is guilty multiplied by 2
Did you even get the message of the video? Obviously the guy was mad, but he asked himself, how did this happen and he realised that it was his fault, because he didnt pay attention to his wife after the childrens death.
And you can tell me its the wifes fault, the guy has nothing to do with that. Okay
But thats not what this video is showing you.
Damn after a hard day of work he comes home to finding his wife cheating on him I would be depressed if that happened to me 😓
Random Assassin
When his co-worker started talking to him, I thought he was the manager or something and that he was about to fire him! Thankfully, he didn't
I would be in jail.
Random Assassin IKR ITS SAD
HAHA! I'm already depressed....
i would be in prison
Everyone needs a Rodrigo in their lives. I aspire to be a Rodrigo.
Any one see the letters on the fridge say “uck you Leukemia”?
+xBSTx GAMING yeah
He's a decent black guy.
Christian175z what is that supposed to mean?
Just another Piece of BTS Trash wat
"you never told me you liked strawberries" hit home man :-/
I want everyone in this comment section to know that if someone does something that breaks your heart, there's always somewhere else to go, good luck in the future to kids like me watching. May you have lasting-love.
Horrorgag thanks man
+IdA LV you have no friends init
The kids cannot have lasting love without a male pimp hand to curb the inherent whorish behaviour of women. Today in the west there are no loyal women, only those that haven't been caught. No patriarchy = no male authority = no lasting love
Horrorgag You a real one
I feel bad for the guy.
DO YA
Kivy Katt same...😭
SSsniperFox ! ya put it’s a true story
Kivy Katt same
Same.
Hardest thing I ever had to watch as this has happend to me (LESS losing my daughter). I do have a daughter tho.. and her mom did this to me.. I hate to say we never got back together and it's been a year we where together for 8 years and all just tosted away... still trying to pick my self up from what I walked into... it's been 3 months sense I can finally sleep in my bed and not on the floor in the hallway by my kids door that no longer lives with me cause she took my kids. I wish everyone the best of hope that is going throw this just try hard to keep the head up as hard as it is
Mitch Rodriguez Are you still able to see your daughter?
Benjamin Vaughn yes thankfully I get to have her every weekend and I'm super thankful for that.
Wow she cheated on you and took your kid, some people man. Im sorry :(
Sorry to hear that man, i also gor cheated on, abused, etc...
Wish u luck bro.
Really sorry, that happened to my dad and my mum blamed it on him
After his long hard day
of work, maybe he expected to go home and be in his wife’s loving arms. But instead, he comes home to this! I’m crying right now. I feel so bad for him,
The woman cheats, and the man ends up apologizing. Sounds about right.
@james William Steven Parker
its not always d same!!!
idk if you got the message or not but their daughter passed from leukaemia and the lady wanted to let the emotions bottled up inside her out, but she had no one to speak with because the husband kept it bottled up which then led to the lady looking for someone else to let it out on (that's why he said sorry to his wife at the end)
Jerry Chen she could of just said something instead if cheating
Invisible Man Can't have said it any better.
Jerry Chen. Yeah because you're emotional you should cheat and emotionally hurt the one you said you loved -_-
I feel so bad for the husband. I know they lost their daughter but that doesn't justify cheating. The cold hard truth is that modern marriage is beginning to mean nothing anymore. our world has become such a culture of fear and poor decisions and it just keeps getting worse. And people get angry at their partners for being possessive over them? You can't really blame someone for being cautious these days, plus you never know what their history is with relationships, whether it be personal or in the family. literally all of my friends say that their parents and grandparents are divorced for, guess what, affairs. I am happy for people who make marriage work but for most people, it ends up in failure or death. This is why people are choosing to stay single, because they don't want to get hurt. My grandmother for example, grew up in a time where women had to rely purely on their husbands to provide for them and my grandfather has been cheating on her for years (Still is), even through constant negotiations with her, my family still can't convince her to leave him because she says, "relying on my husband is what I grew up with and I won't make it without him." Now that women can be financially independent and have great careers, it's much easier to live a happy single life for both males and females. Sorry for the rant, but relationships don't have a good history in my family.
Viciously Video That is why I feel so lucky to have been raised in a Mormon Household, Now you don't have to follow the religion but the morals and views on marriage have made my family negotiate through so many things.
Thanks for the essay
What's his wife's name Chloe but without the c and l
good one
*(•_•)*
It was khloie with a k
Ethan Hennigan Do you not get the joke?
*OWNED*
Drinking or violence is never the answer.
Unless it's Grape soda
This guy needs a hug
or maybe just a dip in that pond....
to wash away life's daily shitload that's been dumped on him.
I will give him a long hug
Toxic Wolf I WOULD GIVE HIM A BEAR HUG i wish i had 100million dollars so i can give him 20,000 dollars
He needs a beer
*he looks so huggable*
If it was a “Man Cheatin On A Woman” People would say So many things Insulting him.
iiLion what did you expect? They gonna defend him?
iiLion wtf are u trying to say?
Yung cash register Aka lil broomstick I’m not trying to say,I’m Making a statement.
People are insulting her. There are people saying that she deservers to die, that she's a b*itch and... well, variations of these things.
Miles well she does
She cheats
And
He apologies.
I'm not saying he should go full MGTOW but seriously.
Sergio Milho he’s apologizing for emotionally detaching after the death of their daughter. Not excusing her cheating, but he’s apologizing for something unrelated.
And she should apologize for cheating after the death of their daughter. Fair is fair.
Sergio Milho imihb
This is why the world is the way it is...
Three years ago. My boys and I walked into a restaurant and saw her with another.
I filed 2 days later.
Fast forward 3 years. Judge gave me custody and no child support nor alimony.
I’m debt free and living life beautifully.
I will never apologize. Never.
They see their Mother.
She is dead to me.
Emily Fisher NO
I'm reading through all these comments and NO ONE has addressed what this short video is really about. In my opinion, it's about loss, lack of trust and how important communication truly is especially in a marriage. They BOTH lost their baby girl and they both grieved differently to the point of not even really knowing each other anymore; they didn't know how to grieve together or comfort one another being so wrapped up in their own crushing sorrow. The father/husband was great, especially when he's at work and listening to the other worker try to help him. I also like that the little girl was depicted as a happy & innocent child laughing and playing instead of preying on the audience's emotions to illicit reactions through the sick/dying scenes as most movies do. The message was much more powerful to me through the writer's decision to show her just as she was, being herself--showing the audience what these parents really lost...and it wasn't just their marriage!
Thank you so much. Am also worried how few people actually saw that.
Brah if a man did what she did the internet would be in meltdown
James agreed, woman are so fucken hypocritical.
that's not what previous representations of men throughout the history of media say.
Beatrice Chui that was then he's on about now nothing is equal most men would get called scum and every name under the sun whereas woman get consoled and told " oh he wasn't there for you"
Please, meltdown?? No, it wouldn't. Gazillions of films, long and short of the reverse.
People who are willing to cheat aren’t worth anybody’s time, love, attention
GameHype17 fr
Preach my person
El Presidente
I wouldn't say death, I mean, almost everyone deserves to live. I not against the fact that cheating is a bad thing but death just seems a little bit... much, don't you think?
not true - EVERYBODY is worth time, attention and LOVE - those peole suffer even more usually...
This is every mans worst nightmare
Deyvi Perez you said it brother
By thinking that way ur provoking fatality !!! Bro you just need to have couple of friends, gud income and ok body. She wont cheat. That guy was lonely as fuk with very low income job, even ur brother wouldnt stick with you lol.
Deyvi Perez and their best day ever is when they backstab that cheating piece of garbage
This is for real my worst nightmare, it scares me so much that i don't think i'd ever be able to be in an actual relationship.
juanme555 that's it- but no dare, no win
It's not just about the cheating. Their daughter passed away and they're both coping with it differently. But that's why it's so sad for him, because after she died everything falls apart
Finally somebody that sees this as more than a flick about cheating and divorce. The movie is about loss. The cheating and divorce is the shrapnel and radiation the coworker was talking about. I'm guessing those of you that didn't see this as the primary theme have never lost a child.
Someone else gets it, thankfully Watching these and then reading the comments is often a sad analysis of how lacking comprehension is nowadays.
@@bobbybaucom4489 I've never lost a child, but I got it. I think those that don't get it are young and less than 25. I would love to shrug it off to lack of life experience, but when I was 25 I understood that the death of a child a hugely destructive event in a person's life. Apparently, some ppl just seem to think cheating is the worst thing ever nowadays- even in comparison to a child death. I don't get it. I blame my peers that gave birth to and raised these daft young adults.
@@bobbybaucom4489 I lost my son 4 years ago...I don't think it ever gets any better.
@@albertawheat6832 I agree.
I hate everything about Sherri.
same here ._.
Same but she fit
My ex had the same name. She was the exact same.
Everyone hates thots bro.
PlayFight Jr the weird thing is that we all are deep down. It takes a very special connection to be able to fight human nature.
Not gonna Lie, This made me cry..
Rudra Pratap Sinha *Bobby :)
JustBobby me too it’s been like 10 minuets after and I’m still crying 😢
JustBobby me too
Shut your sensitive ass up! lol
Nvm i just cried.
I think this was one of the best representation of forgiveness I've seen. I wouldn't react like that, but I admire the character's decisions. Forgiveness is important.
Rodrigo; a lot of respect for that character.
Excellent execution!
Directing was beautifully done, as well as the editing. Smooth, slow and yet not boring. Many emotions were shown, and we do actually feel empathy towards Bobby. The sound work was perfect, the music was beautiful, the image was beautiful...
Great job!
AllAboardTheDankMemeTrain I said we do...
As in it wss done well to the point where you're going to whether you want to or not...
This is probably one of the most touching films I have watched in my lifetime. I cannot put it into words how brave that guy is and he is a true inspiration to me. Any women who treats him like that wouldn’t deserve such a wonderful person like seriously. Just know that you can make a difference to someone’s life, no matter how small or helpful something is. You don’t know what they are going through and nor do the bullies and I wish they could see this really..
Matthew Pettitt i hope you know this is acting lol
You realise this actually happened to someone at some point, right? and is actually frequent in our modern society where the woman cheats on her husband, at his home, on their bed, shamelessly looks at him after the shower, announces "I'm going to my mother", leaves, feels lonely due to lack of attention and files for divorce which would earn her half of whatever "HE" bought after they were married.. that's women for you.
I agree so sad so sad 😔
Адам "that's women for you" not all of us are like that you know
sergiothew did you not get the point? People go through this where they catch their lover cheating on them
So sad that he was eating out of his daughters lunch box 😞 😢
I didn't realize that. I was wondering why he was using a kid's lunchbox.
right in the feels
Yup. Kicked me in the gut.
also the moment you realize why he was drinking grape soda instead of chugging beer
and at the end the girl spelled "uck you leukemia" on the fridge so i think thats what hid daughter passed from
the stress, people will say that bit in the vending machine was stupid to add in the scene. but little things like that is wats harder to handle especially when ur already under such strong stress such us being cheated on.. ive felt just as much depression to know how this types of guys mustve felt, it truly is heartbreaking😔😔😔
David Faker the vending machine part was complicated you need to be a bit smart to get it its that he is giving the machine money(what it needs) and its giving him nothing like his wife
How could someone cheat on a dude with a badass beard like that?
Discerning Daniel I know it's one of the best beards I've seen
It reminds me of Rick in TWD season 5
Discerning Daniel for like 1 sec I thought he was maybe related to James harden
Exactly what I was thinking.
I know
There is no circle of life, just a dead end.....
gamer4life if that is how you see it,
gamer4life true words brother
That's sad if u see it like that. Honestly
Sad, how so so ? Its the inevitable outcome of all our lives, no matter how well we've lived it or not
.All the matters is what we do with the time we have, here and now and how we can best enrich it whilst we have it....
But you can believe in what you like if it helps you escape the inevitability of the eternal nothingness when we are gone .
tarkineWild well said
How cruel! All this time and she said she didn't like strawberries???
QuQ Hahahaha
QuQ not funny
Yea cheatings bad but lying about strawberries is just a horrible thing
She cheated on him and all you think about is about is strawberry??
shut up you're not funny
This punched me right in the heart :(
I feel terrible for the man and wish I could be there for him.
I'm sorry, I respect the main characters decisions. But I just can't get back with someone who cheated on me. Like if you wanted me you should have kept me instead of going out and finding some fuckbuddy for a day. If there was a problem we need to talk about it. If there is something I need to do, tell me. But you have to understand I can't look at you without thinking about how you screwed another man. Maybe I'm wrong, maybe I'm just an idiot. But that's my view.
Edit: I never realized that I'd get so many likes. I thank you all, but it isn't necessary. I only did this to explain my views.
Jhin The Virtuoso true
you are right...
Jhin The Virtuoso your completely right
Its really just my opinion on this sort of matter. But really, the feeling of betrayal behind the deceit you brought upon me would be too painful. Its like looking into a mirror but you see something different. You just don't see the same person after what they do.
Jhin The Virtuoso
No I mean I really do agree cheating is such a horrible thing there's no way I'm giving that person another chance dude.
I mean I'd barely be able to look at them after what they did to me.
Leave before you cheat.. & you never know what’s gonna be someone’s snap point because you don’t know what they’ve gone thru... maybe you feel they overreacted but you don’t know what else they’ve dealt with...
Invisible Man 🙋🏻♀️I’m with you!
Ummm idk... How about.... Don't cheat .. AT ALL??
Santa:so kid what do you want for Christmas?
Jimmy:A DRAGON!
Santa:Something more realistic
Jimmy: a loyal girlfriend
Santa:what color dragon would you like
lol
Cheaters will only feel guilty once they are caught,
That's reality.. 🖕🏼
They do feel guilt. What they don't feel is consequences. And the sharper guilt and loss that comes from them.
@@nfcribeiro That's right. People want to say all kinds of things about cheaters - what they think, how they feel - but unless you've cheated, you don't know.
I can't speak for all who've cheated, myself, I felt all kinds of guilt and shame. I never though I would be that person. Ever. But that's how desperate I felt at the time - so lonely and full of despair and loss from a loveless marriage that had nothing left for me. Did it excuse the cheating? Of course not. But now I know that until you've experienced a certain situation, you don't really know what can push an ordinary to do un-ordinary things.
But man, did I learn a lot about myself through it. Not glad I did, but very glad I learned from it.
@@danielmartin7873 yep, spot on mate.
Way to miss the point of the entire film. It's about how people deal with grief not cheating.
@@samueljackson315 thankfully we have you, the beacon of light that guides us through the darkness.
This is what happens when you confuse love with romance. Romance is just courtship, mother nature just doing its thing. Couples should only marry people when they've found companionship, and care little for romance. You should be happy with your partner even in the absence of romance, and if that feels inadequate, then stay out of their lives and don't hurt them.
Cold truth. So many relationships end horribly because of that mistake. Romance and pleasure is easy to feel so people automatically assume that must be what Love is.
Everything humans do and feel is "mother nature doing its thing".
TheDamped very true for all arguments here
CuttingEdges also love alone isn't enough in my opinion there should be respect compassion and friendship there. If couples respected each other they would think twice before cheating
@CuttingEdges My Gaad.. true wise words haha...Now I see why the rates go up...Companionship, that's nice but out of many roles it must be just one of them...yes your life patner may have a devil role but its just the part of package..Accept who she/he really is. If you feel u dont get what you love then love what you get..simple as that...we all have ups and downs ,try to fill each others out..for most people who think otherwise its too late when the realize...we dont know the value of eyes unless we lose it..no one is adequate for anyone and where there is true love there will be fights and hurts..dont be scared of a few bruises when learning to ride a bike...
Just how calm he was when he walks into his house an a stranger walks out of his bedroom with his shirt unbuttoned then calmly asks the man to leave. What he said to his wife honestly surprised me that that's the first thing you say to your wife who's been cheating on you for who knows how long and you say " you never said you liked strawberries"
There is no excuse for cheating while married ....period
Never go back to such a person. Let them rot in hell
Or cheating when you're dating, but I guess that's just my opinion.
True
Every single cheater deserves to be alone the rest of their lives and have every single person they like just ignore them and cheat on them aswell if they end up dating eachother.
There's nothing more addictive then pure Love.
Strongest Emotion of em all.
'life is a minefield, but sometimes its not the explosion that kills you, its the shrapnel.'
He doesn't say shrapnel
*debris
Sorry, I know it's a bad habit
i know, however debris doesn't come off a landmine shrapnel does, what its implying is that you can get hurt from little things and other people can cause you suffering.
bruh, does shrapnel not count as debris? I'll say debris.
She cheats she wins .that is the world we live in
Thats feminism
idk if you got the message or not but their daughter passed from leukaemia and the lady wanted to let the emotions bottled up inside her out, but she had no one to speak with because the husband kept it bottled up which then led to the lady looking for someone else to let it out on (that's why he said sorry to his wife at the end)
feels_dude mgtow = feminism
Kwejeebo =simp
...mgtow's don't tell people how to speak, sit, or take anyone's freedom of speech or parental rights away...haven't you noticed that? Or just trolling?
*i just want to hug him*
Literal Trash dont we all
Rodrigo, such a humble and interesting person. We need more people like him.
He’s really a good man, he never yelled at his wife when he found out that his wife cheated on him. Instead of yelling, he just talks calmly even though it must be really painful for him. He’s a brave man.
Yeah, but look were he is now.... No points for the weak, even if you are brave
if he did yell it would have been justifyable
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Wow.
Will you be lonely for the rest of your life?
LoveMe,com Beta
I feel for this guy it sucks when everything flips on u
When I was married I went cycling early in the mornings after my night shift, it was spring and there was hundreds of daffodils along the sides of the road, my ex wifes favorite, full of love for her I picked her a bunch, I thought it would be a nice surprise. On receipt instead of "thankyou", or "for me how thoughtful" she asked "where did you get them"? So I told her and she replied "you're not supposed to pick wild flowers it's not allowed"
:(
It's that why she's now your ex gf?
Rasyidah RBLX no its just that she was un thankful because he picked the flowers it could have went
I brought flower honey your favorite one too
thank u but I hate to say that picking wild flowers are illegal
well she's not lying
What does it profit that a man gained the whole world and lost his soul... Trust Jesus.
I congratulate you, u have just restarted my depression
Jack McDonough chill dude it’s just a little film it’s not worth losing your ass over
Mine to
Then why watch the video..geez
“I’m sorry...you drifted” the most backhanded apology I’ve ever heard. Maybe as a wife it is your job to see your husband drift into a spiraling depression, and instead of going on and cheating on him, you take him by the hand and help him
Now there's a novel idea. Actually following your vows.
Nah that girl is a weak willed woman you don’t do that to your partner
Lazy-Assed Wanderer true
I cried. So real. He reminds me a lot of me...the feeling of still trying to see the good while things just keep piling up without end. But he did it in the end, he was able to still see the path to the light. No words. Just tears.
Wow
"Its not always the explosion that gets you, it the debris"
Goddayum
Thanks😂
and that's why im singleeeee
Sam Lugo RELATIONSHIPS ONLY BRING HEARTBREAK!!!! I WILL FOREVER BE SINGLE
Sam Lugo and that's why you play with yourself at night. Lol
Sam Lugo yeaaahhh suureee that’s why you’re single toottaallllyy. Whatever helps you sleep at night buddy.
Im sureeeeee thats y...
And you have no earthly idea what you're missing....
Guys, don't get frustrated in the comments section when women share the blame or twist it back on the guy. This is the reality that women do not take responsibility and that no matter the crime, a man will somehow be to blame. Perhaps this is because society never holds women accountable.
Just Truth who hurt you boo
Lena C He is right you know. Almost all cheaters are women and cheating is just another casual daily activity to women. They feel no empathy towards men and no woman could ever love a man as much as a man could love a woman.
Just Truth big facts
you forgot the part where he said "almost"
Statistically over 50% of women cheat on their husbands, according to ABC news.
Men are simply the superior being. They are expected to take responsibility for their actions, because women can't handle it.
A very nice video, i would react a bit different tho...................
rolf sinkgraven actions talk louder than words type guy are you?? I can relate in this scenario
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^ You're not wong!
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I wouldet be mad at the guy but i would be mad at the women, she is the one that cheated not him, i woulda divorced her without a second thought
_Life is just a minefield, its not the explosion that always gets you... sometimes its the debris._
There is no better analogy than this hands down.
It’s the radiation. There is no circle of life. They are killing us!
Is it just me or do I feel really bad for him?
Aa Ron Pretty sure you’re supposed to...
Thats the point here.
uuhhhh probably just you
Aa Ron I do to but we don't pity we care
Why wouldn't you, it's a tragedy. Kinda feel bad for the wife, too. They lost their daughter and he shut down, leaving her alone. She's not evil, just bereaved and lonely. Anyone who says she deserves the worst has obviously never experienced that awful combination.
Why is it that people put lust above love? And know what will the consequences be if their partner would find out.. I just don't seem to understand..
Zero Galaxy true
What would you suggest that it was then?
Xeretov If it wasn’t lust then what was it?
It's more complicated than just that. This just shows his side of the story
+Varsha Shastry why do you defend the cheater? if the situation would be reversed you would vebally destroy him, but no, if the woman cheats, it's fine for you.
Save up add revenue. And make a movie and put it in theatres. I would pay at least 30 dollars for it
JEL Gaming most people dont wanna wait for $100 million
JEL Gaming k
I think there is a good aspect about keeping these short
wat, no.
omeleto doesn't make the videos
Just reminds me of why it is vital to be nice to people. Like today, took me 5 minutes to get out of my work's parking lot because no one would give me an opening. Right after I got out, I let someone else out of another parking lot. Acts of kindness don't spread and you wont change the world with it, but just remember that at least one person you see every day will be under more stress than you could imagine. You wont change the world, but you could save a life.
first tears of 2018
Bishamonten Rozy omg sameee
Same
Same 😭
second lol. the first one was when I had a mental breakdown.
Wish I could say the same but this was very touching
1 like 1 prayer for my dude bobby
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Takashi ɦʏʊռɢ աօօɖʟǟռɖ hey don't make fun of booby he is a good pal
Okay im sorry
Why would I be making fun of him
One of the reason I forbid myself to click omeleto... Now my emotion are like roller coaster...
so a man does not talking to you and you cheat on hem . is that justified
fox man no it’s not justified wtf?
fox man you're absolutelly an idiot
Wut Dey were trying to say is “so a man doesn’t talk to you so you cheat on him.” Totally justified as in sarcasm. I hope you understand if not I have lost hope for you both.
@@jackdarring3727 he was sarcastic
Arlanos Herbert bruh.
There are some games you don't get to play unless you're all in. Marriage is one of those games. So choose your partner wisely and don't jump into something like marriage if a shadow of a doubt crosses your mind. You should never think "well if it goes wrong i can just get a divorce" because then you dilute the significance of marriage. Women I am mostly talking to you since you initiate around 70% of all divorce because marriage to you is having the white dress and getting lots of attention for a day. That's superficial and not a good foundation for marriage.
Greyfoxdbz18 it is not, firstly? I'm pretty sure all women I've met have always talked about having a solid partner for life and someone to be with. What about the women who suffer, get cheated on, get abused and then go for divorce, they are also in that percentage, don't try to talk to them or look down upon them. Please get your facts straight
Greyfoxdbz18. Hear hear! A woman with a brain!!!!
XOmechannelOX and what about the ones that use the exact excuse he mentioned? You know, I wasnt getting enough attention ect. Which is a large part as well
Greyfoxdbz18 most white people marry in the first yer
Greyfoxdbz18 I completely agree... On a side note I love the artgerm Supergirl Icon ❤❤
thank you Omeleto for reminding people that the beauty of life comes from both the best and worst moments which we can allow to either consume us or help us grow
So a woman feels neglected, and instead of asking to take a break or even talking about it, she cheats on him. Then he apologizes to her. And that's what you call beauty in life?
And not to get married
Carmen Garcia I bet you cheat ...
Carmen Garcia You probably cheat for a living.
lmaooo y'all think I really cheat 😂don't you guys try to move on from bad experiences? I mean if you don't move on from the bad how are you ever going to see the good from life again? even though this was a film, I hope whoever gets cheated on (apparently I do the cheating) knows their self worth and moves on to live the same or even better than before they were cheated on
That wife is just mean, I don’t care what her excuse is.
Nat Oliven you miss he entire message of the story. It’s to not misjudge people for how they treat you one day because they could be going through a lot. That is why he apologized. He wasn’t there for her when she died and he didn’t Open up.
So what if she wasn't there for him and he started beating his wife? Is that understandable?
“You never said that you liked strawberries.” I do not know why , but this is the saddest part of the film in my opinion .
These Girls have no Idea what it feels like no idea, they only understand pain on themselves.
So women don't hurt when they're cheated on? Is that what you're implying here?
Jordyn Hershey of course they do but not as much as males one, if women’s are cheated on they could easily get into another bloke simple, men’s deal it for a long time eventually it comes down to they have nothing in themselves.
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MT_ Roadway
I have been cheated on thrice by men. It had been hard for me. I was depressed for a long time. It is easy for you to say women can move on since you haven't been one.
Omeleto simply uploads the best videos
Luna GMD ikr
True Love is really hard to find .
It doesn't exist only desire
no u
Scorpian Isreal you're a human too.
Question is:- If you found it will you respect it ?
Nowdays people disown their parents.
Scorpian Isreal happiness is temporary unless you work for it. Nothing worth having comes easy.