We may not all sleep in a fast food joint for a week, but we mentally feel like that... the mind is stuck and prevents you from moving on. It's actually quite sad.
Is this an analogy to sorrow and moving on? How our mind just figuratively stays stuck in the same sorrowful moment/place until it finally decides to walk out and move on?
think so. you'll move on eventually. just needs to wait until something trigger it. i once was heart broken for 5 years though i was going to stay this way till i die but the one day, something trigger my heart to move on
thats why this kind of movies is so great: it lets you interpret its meaning without revealing it, so you always have the possibilty to talk about it with random people or you friends etc. There rarely is a "good/bad" thing like in most hollywood movies, the movie just "is" and thats great :)
It mocks her, but it also admires her. It's just an amplifier that leans maybe a bit more to the negative side, but that doesn't mean it doesn't have a positive side.
Timothy Farrand Sorry you read that wrong. I did not intend for it to seem like I enjoy seeing her getting essentially bullied. I find the way how the narrative starkly displays this amusing.
@@ArmenianBishop I thought it was ironic in the political climate we live in of near constant police terror that has ended the lives of countless unarmed people that the cop in this movie was caring and compassionate toward someone with mental health problems.
This is the best thing ever. She allowed her to feel how she feels and moved on when she wanted to. Best description of grieving. It allowed me to feel grief.
@Simply Sasuke Thats really great that you are allowing yourself to grieve. I don't understand what "Moving on" means when we are feeling something. Im so glad that you are focusing on your well-being than listening to others who avoid their own emotions. :)
@@TheAmna_Penguin Hey, I'm so happy to hear you are doing better and so proud of you for getting the help you needed. (Unfortunately, I don't know the other creators on this channel since these are all independent films which are then curated by Omeleto, so I can't pass along). I hope you keep feeling good and grateful that my work could help.
3 years ago I watched and cried to this because I was in the exact position as her. Metaphorically speaking, of course. I remember just being stuck and not being able to move on for so long no matter how hard I try. I tried the usual advice people give like working out and focusing on a few hobbies but it never helped. It's been 3 years ago now. It was february this year when I was first able to actually cry about it and that was the first time I felt like I actually took a step away from that place. I end this year in a MUCH better headspace and with a happier heart. There's still some rough roadbumpsp along the way sure, just like the poop the lady stepped on as she got out of the fast food chain, but there's no doubt in my mind that I'm in a better place now. To everyone out there who's going through the same thing, slow progress is still progress. Take your time and don't force yourself to move on when your heart's not ready to take the step. Don't deny yourself the freedom to cry about it.
Feels so unfair that others move on so fast like you never existed and others get stuck în misery for years. Been there, on both sides but still feels so messed up the way things are for the ones left behind.
@@danielabili1992 yes, love is so unfair. I like the little speech Nicholas Cage does in Moonstruck. "Love isn't like they told you. It doesn't make things nice. It ruins us. We are here to break our hearts and love the wrong people".
3 years? Better late than never. Hoping your healing will be completed soon. It was mourning the loss of loved ones that was extended with heartache. Some people do want another person to be destroyed because they can't be with them or they are narcissist. That's the kind of person you would have hoped not to have been involved with in the first place. Prayer helps.
The police officer did more than anyone else. Everyone else told what to do. All he had to do was show the mark the wedding band had left on his left hand.
This is the only comment that I not only agree with but it made me happy that someone pointed out something other than filling a hole or being sad or break ups. Thanks for putting a smile on my face. 😊
Yup, best thing to do is to just listen. I hate when I'm venting and people are throwing solutions at me. Its like 'I know what I have to do but just give me a release of yelling before I do it.
Oct. 21, 2014 - A lovesick Chinese woman dumped by her boyfriend spent an entire week in a KFC eating chicken wings. Depressed Tan Shen, 26, from Chengdu,
I feel like being dumped in public is the absolute worst, it's humiliating, especially when it's around a lot of people and it's supposed to be fun...just have break ups at home.
i started crying when the young boy started to question her like omg. it is so painful to see how his curiosity is making her think so much about it. but his intentions were so pure. and that makes it just that much more painful to see.
@@itzelsantana1156 Commander Shepard from the Mass Effect game would say, "We'll bang, ok?" play the game and relax - the little kid was a boy, and his mom has issues too.
After my ex-fiance broke up with me right before marriage, for one month I cried my eyes out and slept in the office, buried myself in work so that I don't have to think about the memories we shared at home...So, I know the sentiment of this video! Thank you for sharing. :)
@@InteliDey How did you go through it, did you really do it? feel all your feelings, make an autopsy and also see your own part, where you were wrong, made amistake, missed signs or whatever? Did you do healing-work so that the old pain won't rise up once you meet a new woman love? I have not fallen in love since I was hurt 20 years ago. And he was not even having a relationship with me. Only I had, and believed he did..
I like the fact that her being gay isn't the primary point of the story, and it's just a thing that doesn't really need to be explained. Makes it feel real.
duck well I for one think you’re right. I love how they made it just a normal thing (like it should be)... they didn’t glorify it or make it a big deal for clout and they didn’t make out it in a negative light either
Sphinx Money there’s no need to be negative, they were just making a statement. You can disagree but you should be respectful ab it because being rude won’t get you anywhere
@@NathanIslesOfficial so the moment gay people start being seen on television and RUclips and shows pop up you are like "stop shoving it down our throats" but you realize that straight relationships are everywhere right? It's been like that's for years. So when I say stop shoving straight relationships down our throats watch you get all mad
After seeing this, to me I feel like the restaurant represented the girl's feelings of staying in the past and finally leaving is putting all of that behind
The house is the past thus why she doesn't want to go back the restaurant represents a freeze frame of the present...more precisely the present at the moment she got dumped. The future is just a question mark...thus why she was stuck...but also what ultimately got her moving again. The present sucks...the past sucks....how bad can the future be?
Glad she tried moving on.. sometimes it takes a lifetime to do so... hugs to all who are waiting for their someone to come back.. even only for a moment...
i take this a little diffrently. I think this is showing us how we can become so stuck in our own upset and drowning in our own sorrow that we don't realize that there are people who can and do want to hep. Some will want to take advantage and others will think you are funny and mock you. They don't have the empathy to feel your pain. Anyway yo will stay stuck in that same place until you decide that you deserve help. You deserve good things and you shouldn't let shame and the past define you. Until you know that, you are doomed to stay stuck in the same place. it does not matter what others can offer or what they do. Until you realize that you are worthy of moving on, nothing changes. I know because I was in this same mind set for a good long part of this year but, I finally learned that all my shame and all my sadness was literally holding me in the same situation. I needed to take the help that was offered to me and when I did, I discovered that accepting help makes you a stronger person - not a weaker one.
Bidisha Salim Barsha The perception that vulnerability is weakness is the most widely accepted myth about vulnerability and the most dangerous. When we spend our lives pushing away and protecting ourselves from feeling vulnerable or from being perceived as too emotional, we feel contempt when others are less capable or willing to mask feelings, suck it up, soldier on. We've come to the point where, rather than respecting and appreciating courage and daring behind vulnerability, we let our fear and discomfort become judgement and criticism - Brene Brown
Bidisha Salim Barsha , people rather to laugh at others pain and put them down then to help them , people always find some reason to laugh at others and hate especially in 2015 and 2016 and with 2017 . And bullies are everywhere this world is rule by bullies it's sad but true ...
AwkwardYet dude leave her alone she can be sensitive if she wants that's actually what this channel does I guess. It makes me feel sad most of the time
@@mysticdolphin6546 As a person it’s important to not push your beliefs. Not everyone believes what you do. There’s religions much older. So it’s kinda full of yourself to think yours is the right one for everyone
@@aidankhaos7687 That is a nice thought but it does not work for followers of Christ. We are called to share the good news with people of all nations, it is what we live for; that said, yes, we need to learn how to read the room.
For some people your emotions, feelings does not matter, cause it is not seen by others. Its hard to live in a society where people laugh on your wounds and cry on your success.
@@yoshidasaki17703 tbh I have a teacher that teaches Biology that has breast cancer, is 50+ years old, but even through all that shes a mean one. Still tho I have great respect for her and what she does.
If Buzzfeeds contract is the same, then she WAS from Buzzfeed. They might've changed it but it used to be that if you worked for them you couldn't be on any other media channel, mainly in acting. So if she's in this, she's probably not working with Buzzfeed anymore.
Joey Hernandez how come no one is bothered by someone requoting something in other comment sections but when someone requotes this line it's suddenly problematic?
bread god it’s not funny if you actually agree that the answer is Jesus. So people requoting that line and then saying “I’m laughing” or whatever is like laughing at the belief. Their laughing at someone rejecting what you think is a serious issue.
A heart-break grief is not a depression. Ppl plz don't use words you don't know the definition of. That destroysit for others, canonizezs and bagatellizes the really heavy hard things.Not diminishing he crisis of heart-break in any way.
LOL I read your comment before watching the video and I thought she had stuck herself in the playground that fast food places have. I was a bit disappointed there was no playground...
I think what they meant by that is for an initial upfront fee of 50 cents more than regular, you get unlimited free refills. Not a bad deal if you stay there a week.
@@pvanukoff at taco bell we are supposed to watch and make sure no one gets refills. The machine is out there to get yourself a drink but once you remove the lid it breaks the cup and you cannot get another
this is one of my favorites, have rewatched so many times over past couple of years & find it somehow very comforting. Specially now when I'm going through a bit depressing & heartbreaking time myself. I feel really grateful for videos like these
This is so real life! Metaphorically, you're stuck in that same sad moment,till you're ready to move on. In this case, blast off like a soda/mentos infused jet pack! ...right back into the crap that can be reality. Loved it!
guys I don't know, after many horror/sci-fi/anxious fast paced short films, this one really made my day! It's a good, slow 18 minutes of kind-heartedness (if this word doesn't exist well now it does), with awesome people, starting from the girl employee, the friend, the police man, and finally the child, very nice indeed
Basically me right now. Sad and depressed by a bad breakup with a jerk of a guy. This story makes me feel better and makes me have hope to find a guy that makes me smile til I die.
@Yeet Daddy "I don’t get it can you please explain the last scene" As soon as she steps outside, she is back to dealing with real life by stepping in a pile of doggie doo.
I remember 8 months after my fiance blindsided me, still feeling just as cold + empty + dead + exposed, like a raw nerve, as the day he did it. And I thought that was the worst I could feel. Then there came the night I dreamed he came back, + we danced, + he said to me, "You didn't really think I'd leave you," & took it all back. And then I woke up, & discovered I was wrong; there's always a "worse". I continued to not be okay for another 16 months. That was years ago, before I met my husband. I'm glad now that I held on, but I'll never forget how it felt; the sheer weight of it, the windshear + drag. How it ached just to exist, one moment of the same pain after another. It seemed like everyone else was moving forward in time around me, & only I was stuck, jammed in place while my life left me behind. The creative team behind this film did an incredibly naturalistic job with this, at bringing that feeling to life, so vividly that it took me back there for a moment, myself. The lead actress as well. And the policeman, so unflinchingly brave in his vulnerability, was also spectacular. This is real art, guys. Thank you for sharing it with us.
I just heard the song after readin your comment....and GOD! I really loved that song...n this vid totally describes it. Quite underrated work of The Script.
I love how this symbolizes how much of a lasting impact things like this can have on you. Like no matter how hard she tries, she will always be sitting in that same table, in that same restaurant, possibly forever, or until she learns to move on
Amazing how that little boy brought in a perspective to alleviate her depression. True life lesson from Xavier. On a side note, I'm about to get some cola and mentos and see what happens. Also love the fact she was dumped and sat at 'Frybabies'. Very nicely done.
I don't see why the cashiers are confused, they seem to live there aswell.
Probably confused because they're new and not sure how to deal with "resident customers."
@@Cryptonymicus yeah, probably.
😂😊
Lol!
THATS WHAT I SAID
"I'm not doing anything wrong. I'm just sad."
My life. In one sentence.
💔
those are two sentences tho
lmao
Caroline May IT IS SAT
I am concerned about how much these 2 employees work.
Like most employees in these types of jobs...overworked and underpaid.
Seppukuu at a fast food restaurant and as teenagers...... nahhh
@@Ziotic in general I just feel like people are overworked and underpaid
@@slaughteringgg underpaid, nah. Overworked, yes.
Erik3E IKR
We may not all sleep in a fast food joint for a week, but we mentally feel like that... the mind is stuck and prevents you from moving on. It's actually quite sad.
damn yo this comment underrated af
And quite human. We've all been there. This film captures that in such authentic terms.
The gist.
@@juanfernando8544 It's obvious.
Yeah, for some of afflicted with mental disorders our minds/brains are permanently stuck. Also, DUH, of course it's sad, that was the point.
Is this an analogy to sorrow and moving on? How our mind just figuratively stays stuck in the same sorrowful moment/place until it finally decides to walk out and move on?
yes.
think so. you'll move on eventually. just needs to wait until something trigger it. i once was heart broken for 5 years though i was going to stay this way till i die but the one day, something trigger my heart to move on
thats why this kind of movies is so great: it lets you interpret its meaning without revealing it, so you always have the possibilty to talk about it with random people or you friends etc. There rarely is a "good/bad" thing like in most hollywood movies, the movie just "is" and thats great :)
I have major depressive diorder. Mine never walks out and doesnt know what its sad about
@@diptimangautam5533 try looking at your self from a 3rd person perspective.
A man is dumped at a strip club and stays an entire month.
I can relate. Fill your heart with skanks.
An entire month plus the rest of his life
Hmm my kind of place good thinking fellow RUclipsr !!!!! 🤔
And neither his friends nor The Establishment realized it.
That's how often he was there anyway.
xD
I like how the social media narrative is mocking her for going through a grieving process. Interesting social commentary.
Yea and taking advantage of it.
america doesnt like vulnerability, it likes cuteness but not actual vulnerability
It mocks her, but it also admires her. It's just an amplifier that leans maybe a bit more to the negative side, but that doesn't mean it doesn't have a positive side.
If you like that then you're a psychopath
Timothy Farrand Sorry you read that wrong. I did not intend for it to seem like I enjoy seeing her getting essentially bullied. I find the way how the narrative starkly displays this amusing.
The cop was so compassionate. His kindness went a long way.
ACAB
@@sexysupervillain802 What does that mean?
I think it was supposed to be humorously ironic that the cop was a nice guy.
@@connorkeefe2483 That police officer's empathy wasn't a joke.
@@ArmenianBishop I thought it was ironic in the political climate we live in of near constant police terror that has ended the lives of countless unarmed people that the cop in this movie was caring and compassionate toward someone with mental health problems.
This is the best thing ever. She allowed her to feel how she feels and moved on when she wanted to. Best description of grieving. It allowed me to feel grief.
@Simply Sasuke Thats really great that you are allowing yourself to grieve. I don't understand what "Moving on" means when we are feeling something. Im so glad that you are focusing on your well-being than listening to others who avoid their own emotions. :)
Hey, I made this film and your comment really moved me. Thanks.
@@TheAmna_Penguin Hey, I'm so happy to hear you are doing better and so proud of you for getting the help you needed. (Unfortunately, I don't know the other creators on this channel since these are all independent films which are then curated by Omeleto, so I can't pass along). I hope you keep feeling good and grateful that my work could help.
@@tamarg Thanks. Likewise!
Took 4 days for someone to come up to her and show understanding and compassion but it was a kid who didn’t understand that helped her move on.
So when the kid seems to be disturbing her, the mother is oblivious or doesn’t care. But as soon as they start to get along they have to go.
Because "busy" parents don't notice their children unless they aren't causing problems, for example, "It's too quiet, where's Timmy?"
She was more of a mom figure to that kid during their encounter than what his real mom probably has ever been his entire life.
She was probably filming her kid talking to the viral lady for insta.
Did anyone else notice that the kid's narrative of his parent's relationship revealed abuse?
Today's parents are like that.
3 years ago I watched and cried to this because I was in the exact position as her. Metaphorically speaking, of course. I remember just being stuck and not being able to move on for so long no matter how hard I try.
I tried the usual advice people give like working out and focusing on a few hobbies but it never helped. It's been 3 years ago now. It was february this year when I was first able to actually cry about it and that was the first time I felt like I actually took a step away from that place.
I end this year in a MUCH better headspace and with a happier heart. There's still some rough roadbumpsp along the way sure, just like the poop the lady stepped on as she got out of the fast food chain, but there's no doubt in my mind that I'm in a better place now.
To everyone out there who's going through the same thing, slow progress is still progress. Take your time and don't force yourself to move on when your heart's not ready to take the step. Don't deny yourself the freedom to cry about it.
So well said!
🥰
Feels so unfair that others move on so fast like you never existed and others get stuck în misery for years. Been there, on both sides but still feels so messed up the way things are for the ones left behind.
@@danielabili1992 yes, love is so unfair. I like the little speech Nicholas Cage does in Moonstruck. "Love isn't like they told you. It doesn't make things nice. It ruins us. We are here to break our hearts and love the wrong people".
3 years?
Better late than never.
Hoping your healing
will be completed soon.
It was mourning the
loss of loved ones
that was extended
with heartache.
Some people do want
another person to be destroyed because they can't be with them
or they are narcissist.
That's the kind of person
you would have hoped
not to have been
involved with
in the first place.
Prayer helps.
The police officer did more than anyone else. Everyone else told what to do. All he had to do was show the mark the wedding band had left on his left hand.
This is the only comment that I not only agree with but it made me happy that someone pointed out something other than filling a hole or being sad or break ups. Thanks for putting a smile on my face. 😊
Yup, best thing to do is to just listen. I hate when I'm venting and people are throwing solutions at me. Its like 'I know what I have to do but just give me a release of yelling before I do it.
I thought he had a hand condition
The little boy too
Real Estate Answers nah he just curious
"Yes, I want everyone to wear garbage bags around their hearts"
What has that guy been through 😂
william warren I think you mean what is that guy on
PMS
william warren lol it's a condom around your heart lol
:((((
That’s true tho
That little kid is just what she needed. That was so sweet.
I googled it and there was a real life story where a woman spent an entire week in KFC after being dumped. Probably was inspired from there
Oct. 21, 2014 - A lovesick Chinese woman dumped by her boyfriend spent an entire week in a KFC eating chicken wings. Depressed Tan Shen, 26, from Chengdu,
@@albertawheat6832 I suppose you wanna remember that last time you were excited to see their face.
Heartbreak is rough. Finding out that this fast food story happened in real life makes me sad.
It says that in the description....
Thanks for that info
I liked the part when the
policeman said,"Take as
much time as you need."
"She's not ready yet."
understood the pain he went through!!
I like the part when he says the heart wants what the heart wants.
Yeah, that was cool!
Nice
I feel like being dumped in public is the absolute worst, it's humiliating, especially when it's around a lot of people and it's supposed to be fun...just have break ups at home.
Ikr
You obviously haven’t been dumped over the text message!
@@annaks6957 nope, but it's not as humiliating
@Spicy Artisan Hipster Salami so? Not as humiliating
@Spicy Artisan Hipster Salami how
i started crying when the young boy started to question her like omg. it is so painful to see how his curiosity is making her think so much about it. but his intentions were so pure. and that makes it just that much more painful to see.
Itzel Santana its a woman....
Its a girl u know
I'm sorry I assumed it was a little boy, I thought I heard the mother in the background say "Xavier leave her alone"
@@itzelsantana1156 Commander Shepard from the Mass Effect game would say, "We'll bang, ok?" play the game and relax - the little kid was a boy, and his mom has issues too.
I agree
After my ex-fiance broke up with me right before marriage, for one month I cried my eyes out and slept in the office, buried myself in work so that I don't have to think about the memories we shared at home...So, I know the sentiment of this video! Thank you for sharing. :)
hope you are okay now..
@@suchismitabagchi4586 Oh yes, it has been years now. Now, I’m back to normal. Thanks for asking. 😊😊😊
@@InteliDey oh that's great...wishing you good luck!
@@InteliDey How did you go through it, did you really do it? feel all your feelings, make an autopsy and also see your own part, where you were wrong, made amistake, missed signs or whatever? Did you do healing-work so that the old pain won't rise up once you meet a new woman love? I have not fallen in love since I was hurt 20 years ago. And he was not even having a relationship with me. Only I had, and believed he did..
I like the fact that her being gay isn't the primary point of the story, and it's just a thing that doesn't really need to be explained. Makes it feel real.
@@NathanIslesOfficial shut up
duck well I for one think you’re right. I love how they made it just a normal thing (like it should be)... they didn’t glorify it or make it a big deal for clout and they didn’t make out it in a negative light either
Sphinx Money there’s no need to be negative, they were just making a statement. You can disagree but you should be respectful ab it because being rude won’t get you anywhere
@@NathanIslesOfficial phrasing
@@NathanIslesOfficial so the moment gay people start being seen on television and RUclips and shows pop up you are like "stop shoving it down our throats" but you realize that straight relationships are everywhere right? It's been like that's for years. So when I say stop shoving straight relationships down our throats watch you get all mad
No one saw the kindness of that police officer.
Aakash Banodhe yes, we did
Bruh... Hit me hard...
I saw the male cashier zip up his fly right before the cop walks up. Did anyone see that???
@@Jlowrey8 🤣😝🤔🤭🤭
@@Jlowrey8 you gay? Haha. Just kidding. You have great observation!.
the cop really went from
‘yee-haw, gun slinging, my muscles are big’
to
‘love is love, kumbaya, she needs time’
hakuna matata
LMAO
The heart wants what the heart wants.
What does kumbaya mean though?
He was doing his "doody" are you ok do you need help to ... yeah been there let us have some fries i can sympathize.
The female cashier, the police officer, and Xavier all helped her move on. So sweet
*Yeah, i'm fine*
*Puts sunglasses on while crying and shaking vigorously*
True...
me, last month when my phone screen cracked
That's so me
Mood.
These videos are all fabulous. This one really captures how different people react to seeing suffering. The cop and the kid each almost made me cry.
Diana Buck that cop though...there’s nothing like someone who knows exactly what you’re going through
@@lestudio76 exactly👏😔😔
"im fine"
*puts on sunglasses indoors in winter whilst shaking*
the drunken ramblings north east UK the reflection of the snow can be really bright
@@Hi-Hi. its a referance to the theme of the story. Try not to take everything so literal buzz killington
How do you know it’s winter
Reilly Mulligan there’s snow outside
That’s called emotions , when we try to lie while breaking down inside
I think it’s SO cute that little boy gave her mentos so that she could fly away from her problems 😭❤️
When you are so depressed you can’t leave your home or get back home.
Thats me right now. 3 cents in bank...no gas..no job..no food. Im.jealous she has money for food.
@J.Helm ?
So true my friend 😔
Hobo nate yup that’s me
@@krishelfferich3087 frelance you wanker.
The small cashier girl is absolutely adorable
She’s from tasty
why does weebs like small girls?
SHE'S FROM BUZZFEED
Gang of demons bruh don’t hate on cute small girls just cuz they’re small
Then we have the cashier guy who is taking pictures of her 🙄
Kids with their simplistic way of feeling and thinking. It's so beautiful, that's why I love kids so much
Lily You're a kid as well. Deep down, I know you have a childish bone.
Lily agreed
As an adult we tend to overcomplicate things ,
It's not just kids. Grown ups of all age groups can have the same breakdown after a breakup
I love how this showed all the different ways people chose to perceive her. It just reinforces how you never know what somebody else is going through
I suppose she have bought the refill then...
Joseph Moore She would've..but she got a regular, unless she upgraded. 😏🤔
Oooooh, i thought she said refill, my bad.
Joseph Moore I think the waitress said that! Or she said to refill her regular. I noticed a few hiccups in this though, so don't quote me haha.
The upgrade was still a $0.50 refill
Id refill her.
people who laugh at other people's pain have a special place in Hell
Valentina Munoz agreed
That's how some people cope with pain by laughing at others when they are in pain, they see some truth in it
There isn't any bad places in hell as because the whole place is bad itself, so the special place in hell would be the heaven but in hell
@@Shujitsuu thats the point, to burn in hell
yeah people who splay their pain out for all to see have a special place in hell... go cry in the toilet.
After seeing this, to me I feel like the restaurant represented the girl's feelings of staying in the past and finally leaving is putting all of that behind
TheFlipside that's actually pretty smart!
taesthaetic ._ tell me that was sarcasm
Wow you are insanely intelligent
@@flynnkay You don't seem like someone that can gauge intelligence.
The house is the past thus why she doesn't want to go back the restaurant represents a freeze frame of the present...more precisely the present at the moment she got dumped. The future is just a question mark...thus why she was stuck...but also what ultimately got her moving again. The present sucks...the past sucks....how bad can the future be?
Glad she tried moving on.. sometimes it takes a lifetime to do so... hugs to all who are waiting for their someone to come back.. even only for a moment...
🤗❤️
Best line is from the officer who says "She's not ready yet".
The cop looks like every lego city cop ever.
Howdy Doody HEY
"Lego city cop". Gotta remember that!
i take this a little diffrently. I think this is showing us how we can become so stuck in our own upset and drowning in our own sorrow that we don't realize that there are people who can and do want to hep. Some will want to take advantage and others will think you are funny and mock you. They don't have the empathy to feel your pain. Anyway yo will stay stuck in that same place until you decide that you deserve help. You deserve good things and you shouldn't let shame and the past define you. Until you know that, you are doomed to stay stuck in the same place. it does not matter what others can offer or what they do. Until you realize that you are worthy of moving on, nothing changes. I know because I was in this same mind set for a good long part of this year but, I finally learned that all my shame and all my sadness was literally holding me in the same situation. I needed to take the help that was offered to me and when I did, I discovered that accepting help makes you a stronger person - not a weaker one.
so lovely u explained...❤
Well stated
How is this a 'different take' ? :/
Thank you.
same thinking here.
When I first read "dumped" I thought she was dropped off and left there. 😂🤦♀️
same, I thought it was gonna be murder bcs of the thumbnail. but it was worth it to stay for the content.
aye
Kara Carlson yup me too 😂
Thank you for posting that, because I thought was alone on that and getting dementia or something.
ive been watching too much true crime lately and thought they meant dump a body lol
Why do people have to be so rude with a person who is already in pain? 😕 bullying is the worst thing ever!! 😔
Bidisha Salim Barsha The perception that vulnerability is weakness is the most widely accepted myth about vulnerability and the most dangerous. When we spend our lives pushing away and protecting ourselves from feeling vulnerable or from being perceived as too emotional, we feel contempt when others are less capable or willing to mask feelings, suck it up, soldier on. We've come to the point where, rather than respecting and appreciating courage and daring behind vulnerability, we let our fear and discomfort become judgement and criticism - Brene Brown
Bidisha Salim Barsha I would argue systematic genocide might be worse.
Bidisha Salim Barsha , people rather to laugh at others pain and put them down then to help them , people always find some reason to laugh at others and hate especially in 2015 and 2016 and with 2017 . And bullies are everywhere this world is rule by bullies it's sad but true ...
Bidisha Salim Barsha stop being sensitive
AwkwardYet dude leave her alone she can be sensitive if she wants that's actually what this channel does I guess. It makes me feel sad most of the time
she got more way attention than i've ever gotten when i was dumped
you would if you stayed at McDonalds for a week.
@@theshuriken I think they'll just kick you out if that really happens..
Could relate fully
@@bassel1191 not if you were good at hiding ;)
I think you meant to say "way more attention than i ever got" not "more way attention than i ever got"
That moment between her and the cop was lovely
Random woman: "So, so empty - let Jesus fill that hole"
Grieving [lesbian]: ".....No."
True...
@@mysticdolphin6546 As a person it’s important to not push your beliefs. Not everyone believes what you do. There’s religions much older. So it’s kinda full of yourself to think yours is the right one for everyone
@@aidankhaos7687 that’s the point of every religion
@@aidankhaos7687 You weren't referring to him were you?
@@aidankhaos7687 That is a nice thought but it does not work for followers of Christ. We are called to share the good news with people of all nations, it is what we live for; that said, yes, we need to learn how to read the room.
"You are so so empty, let Jesus fill that hole."
"No"
Logan Hessefort I've seen the video, do you really need to quote it
thats why she is unhappy.
Logan Hessefort lol that's me
Logan Hessefort no, I'm gay thanks
*N O*
That is some pretty nice acting. She seems completely lost!
She really does... Lol
Odin's Wolf she played the teacher in the movie a teacher
Robbie van Waalst I can act lost like that..PSH it comes so natural I don't even consider it acting
MEREDITH LOGGINS go make short films
Robbie van Waalst she was In a movie as the teacher getting banged by her student
For some people your emotions, feelings does not matter, cause it is not seen by others. Its hard to live in a society where people laugh on your wounds and cry on your success.
"This is America. It's my God-given right (to invade another person's privacy for my personal gain)."
That about sums it up, right there.
It's more like ruining someone's day for getting some meaningless high number on a screen
All i was thinking was: "Doesn't she have to go to work?"😂
Diana Covaciu - since there was snow outside, and since she related so well to the kid, I think she was a teacher on Christmas break.
She took PTO and sick days.
@Unsung Songs well if you're young kindergarten teacher...
If you're grumpy 50+ highschool teacher probably not
@@yoshidasaki17703 tbh I have a teacher that teaches Biology that has breast cancer, is 50+ years old, but even through all that shes a mean one. Still tho I have great respect for her and what she does.
Haha me too
13:42 Dude, this is the best cop
Bro- I see you everywhere in comment sections
*actor. Thats not how this would have gone in real life....
@Lord Admiral Spire Thank you for saying that. Most people dont get how selfless they are. Putting their life on the line to protect us.
the cashier girl is from buzzfeed
Oh my gosh you're right
sara lipkind thank u!! I knew I recognized her from somewhere!!
sara lipkind omg, thank you for telling me
If Buzzfeeds contract is the same, then she WAS from Buzzfeed. They might've changed it but it used to be that if you worked for them you couldn't be on any other media channel, mainly in acting. So if she's in this, she's probably not working with Buzzfeed anymore.
sara lipkind I WAS WONDERING
The actors are far better than a lot of the high profile ones who get all the plumb jobs?? why would that even happen
Cause life ain't fair
It's who you know and what you do.
are we gonna talk about how the lady cashier is from tasty?
Ahhhhh!! I knew she looked familiar
Christene Credo I THOUGHT SHE LOOKED FAMILIAR
What time is it in
Shes also from buzzfeed
whats here name?
"You're empty... so so empty... let Jesus fill that hole"
"No."
I'm dying omg
Fung Tricia same
no need to requote something we all saw
Jesus would need a backhoe.
Joey Hernandez how come no one is bothered by someone requoting something in other comment sections but when someone requotes this line it's suddenly problematic?
bread god it’s not funny if you actually agree that the answer is Jesus. So people requoting that line and then saying “I’m laughing” or whatever is like laughing at the belief. Their laughing at someone rejecting what you think is a serious issue.
This really hit home. Depression and heart break is real. I really liked this one. Thanks
A heart-break grief is not a depression. Ppl plz don't use words you don't know the definition of. That destroysit for others, canonizezs and bagatellizes the really heavy hard things.Not diminishing he crisis of heart-break in any way.
"And why is...being sad preventing you from leaving FryBaby's?"
Don't want to home. Too many things and memories there.
That kid at 14:30 was so smart. It only needed a small kid to get her out. I wish i will have a beautiful son like him someday.
gamer4life Sameeee!
Yasser Black EVANESCENCE
I LOVE UR PROF PIC EVANESCENCE IS GREAT
LOL I read your comment before watching the video and I thought she had stuck herself in the playground that fast food places have. I was a bit disappointed there was no playground...
me too
"Free refills for only fifty cents more."
What a stingy restaurant.
I think what they meant by that is for an initial upfront fee of 50 cents more than regular, you get unlimited free refills. Not a bad deal if you stay there a week.
Never mind the fact that the drink machine is out in the main area, meaning anyone can refill their drink anyway.
@@pvanukoff at taco bell we are supposed to watch and make sure no one gets refills. The machine is out there to get yourself a drink but once you remove the lid it breaks the cup and you cannot get another
@@SarahBrown-mg6cy Weird. Policy must vary then. None of the taco bells around here care if you refill your drink.
@@pvanukoff that is Missouri
When at night you just don't feel like going to bed and then when you awake you just don't find any reason to get out of bed
Same
Like. Driving to a fast food place
this is one of my favorites, have rewatched so many times over past couple of years & find it somehow very comforting. Specially now when I'm going through a bit depressing & heartbreaking time myself. I feel really grateful for videos like these
"I'm not doing anything wrong--I'm just sad!" 💘😭🤧
💛
thequietaccnt best line from the video
😭😭💜
+Night Prowler; it means "b-tch, you better believe my story or I'll smack u upside the"
He was showing his wedding ring.
The indention where his ring used to be. So he's divorced or a widower.
i teared up when she was talking to the little boy. something just really hit deep with that conversation
Can I just add that the little boy in the scene was just so sweet? I get its acting but that was hella sweet.
“Let Jesus fill that hole”
“No.”
Felt that.💫
exquisite! same here.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA MUH REDDIT TIER ATHEISM GUYS.
This is so real life! Metaphorically, you're stuck in that same sad moment,till you're ready to move on.
In this case, blast off like a soda/mentos infused jet pack!
...right back into the crap that can be reality.
Loved it!
True
i like your interpretation, pretty spot on :)
@@rhabeldibabeldi6812 pretty much what reality is ,
Lol "free refill with only 50 cents more"
First name Last name 50 cents more for infinite refills i think
First name Last name thats the same thing I was thinking that mean the 💩 ain't free💀💀💀
First name Last name thats the same thing I was thinking that mean the 💩 ain't free💀💀💀
50 cents more for unlimited refills
Restaurant is run by EA
Leaves restaurant, steps in dog poop. Sounds about right.
No one:
The employees:
“I don’t need sleep I need work”
Kid's mom left the trash on the table.
Mikko Översti thats how ppl raise children now to be rude
That's why she came in the first place
She is the trash.
That's the theme of the story
And a burger!
The Duo selling food have such a great chemistry between them.
Like the guys who sell donuts in the steven universe cartoon right? :d
How could the drink already make the noise as if it was empty when she just bought it?
She must drink really really fast
I thought same
Exactly what I hate everytime they drink a coke on screen like no, no slurps please.
Straw was probably on top of the drink while on the side as well
guys I don't know, after many horror/sci-fi/anxious fast paced short films, this one really made my day! It's a good, slow 18 minutes of kind-heartedness (if this word doesn't exist well now it does), with awesome people, starting from the girl employee, the friend, the police man, and finally the child, very nice indeed
my hair wouldve been so itchy and oily after 4 days of no shower.
Kara Cee haha with an Afro that only happens after like a week. And your hair would kind of been in half dreads in one week.
Kara Cee my hair gets oily after 1 day ,_,
Haha
Kara Cee 4 days no shower in the cold ain't so bad
Eagle 367 i live in a tropical country😂. So i sweat alot
if i dont find a job this is gonna be me
Oh dear, found somewhere? I’m a year late soo....sorry to hear that😢
BigNameJeff you get a job yet?
Hopefully you've got a job by now. Cause I'm in that same position.
You could work at Fry Baby
Are we ever gonna find out
"you are so empty inside let jesus fill that hole :)"
"no."
STRAIGHT UP ANSWER.
The heart wants what the heart wants, that hit home I'm still in my stuck in frybabys moment for over a year
2 years for me.
you guys, dont worry. the time will come and you will get out, smarter and stronger. been there...
GET OUT!, it’s a business not a motel
@@uglymelon6721 WTF 🤣
I hope you have found your way out of Fry Baby's
Many well wishes to you
Basically me right now. Sad and depressed by a bad breakup with a jerk of a guy. This story makes me feel better and makes me have hope to find a guy that makes me smile til I die.
Hanako06 Wolf28 I'm happy to hear it made you feel better! I hope you find that guy soon :)
I do too. Everyone tells me "you don't need a man to be happy", but I want to find that special someone, you know?
@@hanakowolf578 A lot of people want to, it's not easy, but it does happen. How it's been going for you? Did you found your special one? :)
@@davispuh yes actually. I recently found a man whom loves and respects me.
@@hanakowolf578 that's great, congrats! :) That's still ahead of me. My gf, we broke up couple of months ago...
AnD wHy Is bEinG SaD PreVenTinG YoU fRoM LeAvInG FrY bAbYs?
My favorite part
What a time to be alive when sitting in a fast food restaurant can make you famous.
that camera boy really said yo in an exciting way like he's not gonna have to clean all that 😂
He did, right?!! 😂🤣🤣 He was like 🤷
He didnt mind the little cleaning work coz he knew his shot and video will get thousands of clicks.
Evangelist: Empty
Woman: what?
Evangelist: You're empty . . . Let Jesus fill that hole.
Woman: (sternly) No!
Me: LMAO 😂
linda vaca One of the best parts of the film
linda vaca 😂😂😂😂😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 best part I just loled
They portrayed religion as creepy, and yet that could have been the answer to her problems.
Some people need religion, some people need therapy and some others need a randon kid to get out of life pausing situations. Don't laugh them off
linda vaca I know I'm dying😂😂😂
“ free refills for fifty cents more”
Rockboy420 I know right lol
The largest cup is only 50 cents more than the large size. However, the largest cup has free refills, the other two don't.
That last scene says a lot. Great work, guys!
Aditya Shankar I don’t get it can you please explain the last scene
let all the emotions go i guess
@Yeet Daddy
"I don’t get it can you please explain the last scene"
As soon as she steps outside, she is back to dealing with real life by stepping in a pile of doggie doo.
you mean the social media posts...there were very accurate
@@G_Cs And her instinct to wipe it off is right there.
I need to get to the bed, this is my 10th Omeleto tonight and I was thinking the fries joint music was coming from my neighbours 🤪
that boy save the day.....
syaiful anam haha yeah
syaiful anam wym
Who's watching with no socks
me
I am "sleeping"
Rayyaan Ahmed yeah it's 100 degrees outside
Who's watching this with no skin?
Ivan Lovric bet ya one of them
This one actually made my cry. I feel the lonesomeness in this. I push people away. I get this. Damn.
I remember 8 months after my fiance blindsided me, still feeling just as cold + empty + dead + exposed, like a raw nerve, as the day he did it. And I thought that was the worst I could feel. Then there came the night I dreamed he came back, + we danced, + he said to me, "You didn't really think I'd leave you," & took it all back. And then I woke up, & discovered I was wrong; there's always a "worse".
I continued to not be okay for another 16 months.
That was years ago, before I met my husband. I'm glad now that I held on, but I'll never forget how it felt; the sheer weight of it, the windshear + drag. How it ached just to exist, one moment of the same pain after another. It seemed like everyone else was moving forward in time around me, & only I was stuck, jammed in place while my life left me behind.
The creative team behind this film did an incredibly naturalistic job with this, at bringing that feeling to life, so vividly that it took me back there for a moment, myself. The lead actress as well. And the policeman, so unflinchingly brave in his vulnerability, was also spectacular.
This is real art, guys. Thank you for sharing it with us.
I'm going to McDonald's, you guys want anything?
Daddy Kelbold can I get uuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhhhh
Daddy Kelbold boneless pizza and uhhhhhhhh 2L of coke
Daddy Kelbold everything but without the bacon!👍👍
Daddy Kelbold triple cheeseburger combo please
Daddy Kelbold fish filet meal please 😂
This shows how we are all trap in our emotions, as her attachment to the place she was dumped
This video reminds me of the song "The man who can't be moved" by The Script
finsent63 IM NOT MOVVVVVIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIING
I thought the exact same thing
this needs to be top comment quiks!!!!!
I just heard the song after readin your comment....and GOD! I really loved that song...n this vid totally describes it. Quite underrated work of The Script.
finsent63 l
That little boy actor was so convincing!! Adorable! The entire story was very human and touching but with its funny moments... Great job Omeleto!
“I’m sorry”
“Me too”
😭❤️
It's Auri from Buzzfeed!
When she said 🙂🥺😎 I felt that
I love how this symbolizes how much of a lasting impact things like this can have on you. Like no matter how hard she tries, she will always be sitting in that same table, in that same restaurant, possibly forever, or until she learns to move on
Amazing how that little boy brought in a perspective to alleviate her depression. True life lesson from Xavier.
On a side note, I'm about to get some cola and mentos and see what happens.
Also love the fact she was dumped and sat at 'Frybabies'. Very nicely done.
"are you okay?"
"yeah, im fine!" 😁😁😣😣😭😭
*grabs sunglasses and starts bawling*
Hannah Pendon baller move
This was a lot more poignant than I thought it would be. Sometimes sadness makes you freeze into a shell.