Poverty Mind Set is a Form of Slavery

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  • Опубликовано: 10 фев 2025
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  • @Dreamgirlhav
    @Dreamgirlhav 6 лет назад +983

    I'm sick of people saying" the struggle is real." Like.........success and wealth is real too.

  • @LaDeeDah
    @LaDeeDah 6 лет назад +484

    Being born poor is not your fault. Dying poor is.

    • @misshouda1740
      @misshouda1740 5 лет назад +10

      Dee A. so truuue I think Bill Gates said that maybe I'm wrong

    • @lexiilove101
      @lexiilove101 5 лет назад +6

      Dee A. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @_Rahmaray
      @_Rahmaray 4 года назад +4

      💯💯💯

    •  4 года назад +2

      @True Brother The black community was doing well in the 60s compared to now, slavery isn't an excuse.

    • @LexisaVianey
      @LexisaVianey 3 года назад +3

      well said

  • @shaleenaabron2520
    @shaleenaabron2520 6 лет назад +469

    Poverty consciousness is very real. I don't even surround myself with people who constantly talk about struggling "we all struggling" or people who operate from a spirit of "lack".

    • @MsEliteForever
      @MsEliteForever 6 лет назад +6

      Lol

    • @MsEliteForever
      @MsEliteForever 6 лет назад +7

      Legacy I doubt you have much...

    • @DivestedConfessions
      @DivestedConfessions 6 лет назад +3

      @@crudechannel4190 Oh shut up I can tell you're a JAILBIRD as you dummies know nothing about GRAMMAR and can't break paragraphs and being a black jailbird you're the most broke male & you ADMITTED you don't have shit "Even if I did have a lot of money, I would never give money to a woman..." YOU'RE THE GOLD DIGGING FREELOADER ON WELFARE LIVING WITH YOUR MAMA or your Auntie. Most not all but most Black American males are broke and broken TRASH.

    • @DivestedConfessions
      @DivestedConfessions 6 лет назад +5

      @@crudechannel4190Poor fatherless jealous sissy trolling Black American women's spaces because your sissy ass is jealous and wants to be protected by a man. You're a disgusting piece of shit.

    • @crudechannel4190
      @crudechannel4190 6 лет назад

      @@DivestedConfessions I want to be protected by a man? No I want fair treatment as far as resources. You ignorant fuck faces, are the ones who are pissed at black MEN for not having enough money for women to freeload off of us. Looks like y'all want to be "protected" by men. So the next time you say "you're a disgusting piece of shit", you might want to do so while looking into a mirror. Btw Ms. Moron, if you look up the founders of RUclips, you won't find one black bitch in the group. So it's not a "black female space". Black females are "trolling" a non-black owned space by posting a bunch of ignorant comments/videos on it. But you go ahead and spew a bunch of stupid claims if it makes you feel better about yourself.

  • @ruthanyasi8290
    @ruthanyasi8290 Год назад +49

    'A woman should never be poor! You already have everything.' Words of wisdom from Miss Shera

    • @charlita25
      @charlita25 9 месяцев назад

      Not really 😕 if you don't look a certain way in this country you are not valued

    • @Buttercreadandy
      @Buttercreadandy 4 месяца назад

      ​@charlita25 true but i wish

  • @BearryHungry
    @BearryHungry 6 лет назад +422

    Honestly it’s so sad that people keep having babies that they can’t afford.

    • @rumooooni
      @rumooooni Год назад +16

      Worst part the kid grows with crappy education and low standard of living and they are prone to be badly influenced by the wrong people by trying to fit in

    • @charlita25
      @charlita25 9 месяцев назад +1

      Extremely SAD

    • @Buttercreadandy
      @Buttercreadandy 4 месяца назад

      Literally

  • @LadyLondon33
    @LadyLondon33 6 лет назад +285

    I will take being a gold digger over a door mat any day

  • @josephineblom
    @josephineblom 6 лет назад +227

    Don't make decisions based on emotions. I will STOP!!

  • @cynthiaag9074
    @cynthiaag9074 6 лет назад +128

    This woman is changing lives😭😭😭
    Someone help me thank her🙏🙏

    • @femininebritaneyburnett8904
      @femininebritaneyburnett8904 4 года назад +4

      Thanks

    • @a_la_drinah
      @a_la_drinah 3 года назад +4

      Yes she sure is. Forever grateful

    • @stephsteph1338
      @stephsteph1338 3 года назад +2

      Thank you, Shera! Yes! Shera is changing lives! 😊 Older women and younger women can learn from Shera!

  • @taylorstar2483
    @taylorstar2483 6 лет назад +148

    My whole family is poverty minded I will be the ONE to break the chain & be free. I agree poverty and poverty mindset is Worse. Everybody has broke days only a dumb man stays broke

    • @Melanie-le6mw
      @Melanie-le6mw 5 лет назад +9

      Good thing you got away from them

    • @estheradao
      @estheradao 5 лет назад +8

      Good luck, me too. I'm very young but stressed out

    • @Fourwindsofsuccess
      @Fourwindsofsuccess Год назад

      Facts. Most of mines are as well. Not one acquired wealth or a certain status at all. They have small minds and just really corrupted with toxic ideologies or have a weak ass mind.

  • @rumshirts9156
    @rumshirts9156 6 лет назад +161

    Completely agree about not staying in certain places poverty is really a mindset and certain environments encourages it

    • @crudechannel4190
      @crudechannel4190 6 лет назад

      Oh okay. So starvation, malnutrition, homeless and not being able to afford a car, home, college/trade school or a decent amount of clothing cause of low wage, are all figments of poor people's imaginations (SARCASM). Good god, privileged people say the dumbest shit. smdh

  • @allyd5395
    @allyd5395 6 лет назад +172

    Poverty mind--the "feast or famine" cycle. Spending all your money when you get paid, then being broke and holding out until your paycheck so you can spend it all up all over again.

    • @siesies000
      @siesies000 3 года назад +9

      Right, it's an addiction

    • @d.j.brompton6794
      @d.j.brompton6794 Год назад

      It's slavery, and has everything to do with bloodlines. Wealth is used as slavery. Carrot on the stick. The system needs to be changed rather than people selfishly profiting for themselves at the expense of others.

    • @Buttercreadandy
      @Buttercreadandy 5 месяцев назад

      True

  • @_keytruth8287
    @_keytruth8287 6 лет назад +209

    Thank you Shera, this video hits home!!! I’m 27 and I grew up in the projects and was very poor but we never went without. Now that I’m an adult I always try to go for MORE and get outta that “as long as I pay my bills I’ll be straight “ nah I’m tryna vacation at least twice a year

    • @crudechannel4190
      @crudechannel4190 6 лет назад +1

      If you "never went without" then you weren't "very poor". Living in a shitty community doesn't necessarily make you poor. There's middle class people who live in ghettos. You're family getting evicted, constantly moving and not being able to keep you in school makes you poor. Lack of clothing, food and educational resources makes you poor. So no poverty is not a state of mind it's tangible circumstance. And anyone who really does go through it (like me) knows that. That unethical "Shera" creature was full of shit as usual.

    • @mt-wn3qr
      @mt-wn3qr 6 лет назад +2

      Im with u sis

    • @DivestedConfessions
      @DivestedConfessions 6 лет назад

      @@crudechannel4190 STFU you African SKIN BLEACHER with fake blue contact lenses some of you African chicks be trolling and all up in the grills of Black Americans want to be us jealous of us but trying to check us or give us life advice.

    • @Melanie-le6mw
      @Melanie-le6mw 5 лет назад +23

      That part! Who wants to work, pay bills and die. I feel sorry for people that work work work and never do anything else.....

    • @a_la_drinah
      @a_la_drinah 3 года назад +2

      Yes

  • @reiloveable
    @reiloveable 6 лет назад +131

    Best topic!!!
    I just can’t stand people who keep on instilling fear and lack.

  • @gracelove1842
    @gracelove1842 6 лет назад +159

    ppl with real money dont feel the need to show it. many black ppl like to look like they have money but they r broke and broken inside. truth. its important to take care of your inner as well as outer. we need to focus on wealth not money.

    • @estheradao
      @estheradao 5 лет назад +5

      True

    • @chriseanwoodsjr
      @chriseanwoodsjr 4 года назад +12

      I’ll never understand it. Looking like “money” while living in slums, children attending failed schools, surrounded by violence and drugs but gotta have the new Js and name brands.

  • @Mlopesfornow
    @Mlopesfornow 13 дней назад +2

    It's so easy to recognize poverty mind after watching so many of your older videos

  • @Melanie-le6mw
    @Melanie-le6mw 5 лет назад +61

    I want children/family life but I’m not trying to do any of that by myself.....I want a man that is able to take care of a family. People ask me often when am I having kids? Ummm why? Have 3 kids out of wedlock like you did. Lol. Thanks again Shera ❤️💋

    • @kianaderakhti6874
      @kianaderakhti6874 5 лет назад +8

      Yeah I'm celibate. So I'm good in that aspect.

    • @CherrellMishelle
      @CherrellMishelle 4 года назад +9

      Same. It's like they want you to be miserable like some of them are.

  • @xMelfina
    @xMelfina 5 лет назад +44

    Shera has put me ON GAME! Thank you hun for showing us women to value ourselves.

  • @anggeliqirodriguez3715
    @anggeliqirodriguez3715 6 лет назад +46

    I agree! Yes church, formerly a church goer they will have u in there everyday of the week. No time for progress. You just serve to make the church look good and give.

    • @Fourwindsofsuccess
      @Fourwindsofsuccess Год назад

      Right. People gonna learn one day it’s a difference between church, religion, and god. Those 3 are different and don’t belong together which is what all them don’t wanna hear or accept. The only one in church who’s bossed up is the pastor and their wives sometimes. Meanwhile the members have eviction notices and sitting there crying out to the lord while suffering. It’s a depressing, low vibrational, fake, and toxic environment. They keep you poor, dusty, and unsuccessful.
      They act above money but all truly desire money. It’s the superficiality of it all. You doing 5 rituals but you’re not leveling up in life or attracting wealth. It’s a scam and fluke for the weak souls who don’t have an identity or a lost soul that need a cult leader to tell them false prophecies or all types of BS. Money is a blessing, it’s a tool, and it’s a symbol. Wealth is beautiful and not evil.

    • @rumooooni
      @rumooooni Год назад

      Is true they expect 10% or 80% of you're earnings so they can keep you trapped in poverty

  • @DeenScene
    @DeenScene 6 лет назад +151

    I get good clothes for cheap at the thrift shop. Natural fibers. Banana republic etc. Good stuff. I can tell some people are intimidated by me when i go out. Mostly middle aged raggedy women. They seem to think I'm rich/ultra educated/ classy /snobbish. I like to wear cute color blazers with jeans. Or button up blouse with pencil skirt. I'm young black girl and middle age white women are the angriest when I'm out and about. Its like they feel sooo bad about themselves around me.

    • @candice446
      @candice446 6 лет назад +37

      DeenScene they expect you to dress like you’re not shit

    • @juliejuju7419
      @juliejuju7419 6 лет назад +47

      @deenseen, girl... most middle aged caucasian women are bitter because of their washed up ,bland looks. They are mad at EVERYONE. Should have taken better care of themselves in their 20's& 30's like the rest of us melanin skin women do

    • @chilloften
      @chilloften 6 лет назад +14

      DeenScene Is this life really about race? For you?
      Let's grow.

    • @writersloane
      @writersloane 6 лет назад +113

      DeenScene I'll tell you from experience why you sense that, and it's not your color. Middle-aged women have regrets. We gave and gave and gave to our husbands, our kids, our jobs or carreers, and did little- if anything- for ourselves. Then we get divorced, the kids grow up and leave, and we're too beat to work the same job as when we were young, and we are left with wrinkles, dust in our pockets, and bitter heartbreak. When we look at young beautiful women we see how we used to look, and all those missed opportunities and bad decisions we made and wish we could do it all over again- correctly. It really is an ache in the heart to know where we could've been, but gave everything up for others. It's not personal to you. That's why you MUST listen to Shera and do exactly what she advises because she is 100% correct in everything she says!!!! Put yourself first and set yourself up with a secure future.

    • @loveself6396
      @loveself6396 6 лет назад +26

      It’s true. I went on a field trip with my son this week. When I walked in the class room LEVELED UP, his teacher (early 30s white woman) gave me a stank look! Lol the other black mom had braids and was blah. It’s funny.

  • @MeTraD_Blk_Swn
    @MeTraD_Blk_Swn 6 лет назад +47

    EXACTLY! CLOSE YOUR LEGS TO THEM. 👏👏👏👏

  • @TheeKaylaMarieOne
    @TheeKaylaMarieOne 6 лет назад +48

    Yoga for children is something I definitely recommend. It helps to balance the mind but also teaches self discipline.
    Great video 💕

  • @4realrenee
    @4realrenee 6 лет назад +144

    My family does that whole “go work at the post office”, that’s their answer to everything

  • @dannie2
    @dannie2 6 лет назад +56

    For me getting away from people who are cool and comfortable with proudly getting government assistance!!! Like "oh girl they gonna cut my food stamps off" nahhhhh sis I'm good.. we can't talk anymore!

    • @chriseanwoodsjr
      @chriseanwoodsjr 4 года назад +12

      Same. It actually disgusts me how some of them take pride in scamming the system or how content they are with being dependent on assistance. I don’t want any friends like that.

    • @Fourwindsofsuccess
      @Fourwindsofsuccess Год назад

      It was a tool back then originally to just capitalize off of, people think it’s meant to “trap” them no cut the victim hood and laziness. It was to live there for a short term and stack your bag then move on to a different social economic class. It’s the bums, losers, criminals, and dusty people both men/women who live there. They bring the dark side of the world with them, and all them suffer from poverty mindset. There’s nobody keeping them down.
      It’s that simple. It’s lazy, not being raised right, not educated, and not understanding of it. No they trapped themselves and to busy being anti-government and believing in all sorts of nonsense of the world. It’s an escapism for them to not truly accept they are failures or bottom feeders who didn’t amount to nothing. Simple. I don’t wanna hear excuses about or government or capitalism. No thanks.
      Either you’re a failure or you’re winning.

  • @Luxe_PlusLife
    @Luxe_PlusLife 6 лет назад +55

    Amazing topic. You articulate the truth so well! One can come from poverty and overcome it by doing the exact opposite of what they saw around them. Know better and do better people!

  • @mw2543
    @mw2543 5 лет назад +49

    Free / poverty sex sounds like a generational curse

    • @Karamelk4
      @Karamelk4 4 года назад +27

      My father ALWAYS said this!!! Took me 20 years to get it though, cause I was church programmed - obviously for poverty. He always said prostitutes are smarter and superior to women who sleep with men for free.

    • @Buttercreadandy
      @Buttercreadandy 4 месяца назад

      ​@@Karamelk4true

  • @preppermin
    @preppermin 5 лет назад +42

    One of the best videos you have on SheRa... this video is everything!!!
    I had this wealth in me when I was born, in my DNA, since I was a kid but I was reprogrammed on poverty and now I´m going back in time and deleting this software that doesn't serve me anymore. It doesn't happen overnight but is worth it. Thanks for what you do! Thanks for helping me finding the courage to value myself, for loving myself again, for standing up for myself first and foremost. I was trained to serve and follow the heard... it's taking me much courage to make this change but it has to be addressed and I´m proud of it!

  • @AM-yf1fv
    @AM-yf1fv 6 лет назад +28

    Your videos have inspired and motivated me. I received a small amount of money and thanks to U I'm headed to LA to have my Headshots done.Thats my way of investing my money. I'm so excited to get back in the Game and start acting again.I left a guy with poverty mind. A retired military guy trying to have 3 or 4 women with that lil o retirement money he got...Dude is too broke to be juggling women and I waisted enough years with him..God exposed him for the cheater he Is...Now I'm Moving on and not settling for broke poverty minded men anymore. Yes u said it right "I was saling my soul for those twos and fews" Thanks for sharing

  • @EllaBeeMediaGroup
    @EllaBeeMediaGroup Год назад +10

    SISTAR GODDESS! I took your advice to lay around the house still wearing something romantic with my hair and makeup done. Then I got a last minute invitation to the Mayor’s Mansion for a reception of a U.S. Ambassador to the United Nations. When I say compliments from the honored guests made networking so much easier! Thank you for the continued inspiration. I was watching this video trying to find something romantic to wear and I wasn’t caught off guard by spontaneity l 🙏🏾💗💗💗💓💓💞💞🐝💕💕✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

  • @boldandcourageous4176
    @boldandcourageous4176 6 лет назад +57

    I know a lady that said her mother died because she didn't have enough money for her blood pressure medication her vessels literally bursted.😥😢😭

    • @user-og8ii5dc4l
      @user-og8ii5dc4l 6 лет назад +18

      That is so sad, but it happens more than people realize.

  • @loveself6396
    @loveself6396 6 лет назад +64

    When that story of the 15 yr old boy JR got killed by the gang members in the Bronx, they started a go fund me. Lala Anthony supported the family & then started hanging out with his sister. I think she’s leveling that girl up for a man a means ! That’s great, a neg is turning into a positive. Hopefully she can stop the cycle of poverty. 💕

  • @LaikC
    @LaikC 6 лет назад +29

    I’m about to binge watch this channel. I’m so glad I found your videos

  • @JC-ce8uw
    @JC-ce8uw 6 лет назад +41

    So glad I found your videos right after my break up :) My mindset has completely changed because of you.

    • @JC-ce8uw
      @JC-ce8uw 6 лет назад +2

      Go ahead......

  • @Coreannaaa
    @Coreannaaa 6 лет назад +60

    Great video (I love all your videos, but still.) Being self-aware, mentally, is so important

  • @va8196
    @va8196 2 года назад +8

    Watching this in 2022 . SheRa is a real treasure! Her wisdom will always improve lives. 💝

  • @hotsauce7362
    @hotsauce7362 6 лет назад +40

    I always tell myself... I can do bad all by myself... no need to +1... no sir... that's like walking in a dry desert... and drinking salt water... it feels good when you're doing it... but you just set yourself up to a slow death...

  • @erik7199
    @erik7199 6 лет назад +52

    I just did a ritual to get rid of my poverty mindset, working with a powerful spirit and practicing my dark energy manifestation and this comes up!
    love you, xo

  • @candice446
    @candice446 6 лет назад +111

    I went to TJ Maxx and nothing but people with money in there.

  • @Shayycraft_
    @Shayycraft_ 3 года назад +18

    I had 4K in my savings and spent it out of depression from a man (I was ordering doordash and shopping to feel better) but next time I’ll be smarter. Ik that’s not a lot but still I was on top for my situation and now it’s not good. I also have to get my car fixed but I will wait until I have to money and only drive back and forth for work and start saving again…

    • @jessicahitchens6926
      @jessicahitchens6926 7 месяцев назад +2

      Stop ordering shit online. And cook your own meals. You will be far healthier and happier.

    • @Buttercreadandy
      @Buttercreadandy 5 месяцев назад +1

      How are you doing now? I kept buying beauty products (not related to a man). I got my first job and just kept depending

  • @tajthegreatone9326
    @tajthegreatone9326 5 лет назад +20

    Shera this is one of your best videos!!! The way you break down poverty and how it affects generations to come is right on point. I was once there but never again since I know better now, thank you. ❤

    • @VeganLife-mn1jp
      @VeganLife-mn1jp 8 месяцев назад

      Agree, one of her best videos of all time.

  • @marcellagamble6633
    @marcellagamble6633 2 года назад +9

    I took my daughter out of the school in our town, because it wasn't approving her life, when she more advance, than some of the children in that classroom.
    Now I home school her, and now. She is better. Now, by me homes school her.

  • @ThreeWolf4Life
    @ThreeWolf4Life 6 лет назад +52

    This is so relevant right now..i wish i heard all this 20 yrs ago

  • @codingiscreativity
    @codingiscreativity 6 лет назад +91

    My mother is such a shit always trying to bring me down , poverty mind.

    • @codingiscreativity
      @codingiscreativity 6 лет назад +7

      @true man good for her. I don't want to see more world and remain a pickme chick.

    • @codingiscreativity
      @codingiscreativity 6 лет назад +8

      @true man you are a poverty mind too and I am not going to reply for any dusty's comments again.

    • @user-og8ii5dc4l
      @user-og8ii5dc4l 6 лет назад +9

      @condingiscreativity, Continue on your path to creating your own happiness and prosperity. Good luck to you.

    • @EmpressofChrist
      @EmpressofChrist 5 лет назад +1

      Mines too

    • @Melanie-le6mw
      @Melanie-le6mw 5 лет назад +5

      Get away from her.... I had to from mine.

  • @lawoman6866
    @lawoman6866 6 лет назад +45

    I clicked thumbs up and agreed before I even watched a second of this video. It's like some of us are so comfortable being third class. Stuck in the slavery days mindset. smh

  • @abisonyt
    @abisonyt 6 лет назад +16

    Your videos are THE elixir!!! Gold.. thank you for sharing your wisdom with us

  • @Goddesskc11
    @Goddesskc11 6 лет назад +76

    Thank you for this video my favorite RUclipsr...You are so amazing!

    • @SheRaSeven1
      @SheRaSeven1  6 лет назад +10

      lol I barely cook ... i have cleaning service and Im married to an older man......nice try tho true man.....

    • @SheRaSeven1
      @SheRaSeven1  6 лет назад +7

      thank you Queen Kita C.

    • @Goddesskc11
      @Goddesskc11 6 лет назад +4

      SheRaSeven1 😘🙏🏾

  • @vanessadelgado7784
    @vanessadelgado7784 6 лет назад +59

    I needed this was having second thoughts about opening my business

    • @syrentirez8745
      @syrentirez8745 6 лет назад +2

      Vanessa Delgado me too I want to start so bad but it seems out of reach. I’m working so hard. I cry everyday not for people to see but I just don’t see my efforts being manifested. I’m trying though.

  • @danim.2717
    @danim.2717 6 лет назад +43

    Wow, I was just thinking about this about 3 days ago. I was watching your "goal setting" video and I said, "I wonder if Shera will speak on why certain people fail/have poverty mind." BAM! Here is is, thank you sooooo much!!! (My manifestation skills are working.)

  • @adventurewithAngel
    @adventurewithAngel 4 года назад +11

    Love this message. One of my 2020 goals is to watch a Shera video a day.

  • @brooklynlady326
    @brooklynlady326 6 лет назад +54

    Shera is absolutely right! Take notes! I have had very rich tell me straight and long hair preferably 22 inches is beautiful. If you think poor, you will be or stay broke. Break the cycle.

  • @artisticagi
    @artisticagi 5 лет назад +40

    If you realize yo haven’t gotten anywhere in 5 years it’d cause you don’t have enough structure. 39:39
    Men care about hit and quit, make him invest first
    54:25

  • @mirianmercado7
    @mirianmercado7 6 лет назад +16

    You are a smart women, waking me up!! Thank you

  • @MeTraD_Blk_Swn
    @MeTraD_Blk_Swn 6 лет назад +8

    GIRL.....U BETTA PREACH THIS THANG!!! YEEEEESSSSS GOD I BEEN SAYIN IT AND FINALLY I IM NOT STANDING OUT HERE ON RHIS LIM BY MY SELF👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @quinnterry2834
    @quinnterry2834 5 лет назад +5

    This is hands down my favorite video that you have to date! Thank you so much who were discussing this!

  • @HealingEraWithTricia
    @HealingEraWithTricia 6 лет назад +13

    This is so great! I swear you never waste anytime getting to the point! 💕💖

    • @liabw05
      @liabw05 5 лет назад

      Lady Day Dream oh hey! I like your videos! Great to see you here 🙂

  • @asiaking47
    @asiaking47 5 лет назад +22

    "You selling your soul... For broke peepee" 😂 I love your videos, Ashera

  • @reggaeunderground2106
    @reggaeunderground2106 8 месяцев назад +2

    Of all your videos I find that this is one of the most insightful ❤❤❤

  • @LaDeeDah
    @LaDeeDah 6 лет назад +37

    If you get a car with payments you will stay in the poverty mindset

  • @denisejones8393
    @denisejones8393 6 лет назад +30

    Shera, you gave us the business today. Great topic, thanks as always!!!

  • @kia2729
    @kia2729 6 лет назад +8

    I am so happy I found this channel and I need to reprogramme my mind !!

  • @user-fj6uu3vr7i
    @user-fj6uu3vr7i 5 лет назад +7

    Everything she is saying is true. Facts. Gold. Please listen to the full hour!!!!

  • @Investinyourselfok
    @Investinyourselfok 5 лет назад +10

    You’re right because,my child has been raised in an upper middle class area and he doesn’t get new school clothes nor does any of his friends.I have designer clothes most of which were gifted to me.I do buy my child designer within reason however he loves American Eagle and Polo .He doesn’t like to waste money because,he’s been raised in an environment that people don’t show their wealth.I am far from wealthy however,I will not allow my child and I to live broke,die broke and I definitely will not date broke.

  • @Risha-Rene
    @Risha-Rene 6 лет назад +20

    Yes, the first step is realization. You can't change what you don't acknowledge

    • @kianaderakhti6874
      @kianaderakhti6874 5 лет назад +3

      I'm definitely not comfortable being broke but don't know how to get out because I grew up with abuse and I have a poverty mind. I am poor and I don't know how to get money and broke. I don't have kids and don't plan to ever have any because I'm poor. My church tells me I should be grateful but I don't think food stamps is a quality life and insomnia from not having rent money

    • @awakenedsoul7492
      @awakenedsoul7492 4 года назад +2

      Jessica Jones get away from your parents. They may be the problem. Like Shera said “crab in the barrel” mentality.

    • @Fourwindsofsuccess
      @Fourwindsofsuccess Год назад

      @@kianaderakhti6874 read Joseph Murphy Power of the subconscious’s and get to work. Start doing that techniques and become a wealthy woman. It’s a book to program your subconscious mind for wealth and success and if you want a healthy life. Stop affirming this.

    • @rumooooni
      @rumooooni Год назад

      ​@@kianaderakhti6874 first things first let go of the church they are influencing you on your decisions dont let them take away from youre progress/ healing journey they are judging people from poverty yet they are targeting people from poverty for their come up

  • @mariposas22
    @mariposas22 6 лет назад +13

    Your house looks good, the staircase 😍😍

  • @kia2729
    @kia2729 6 лет назад +26

    This is counselling

  • @cindylou3708
    @cindylou3708 4 года назад +10

    SheRa gives the BEST advice of anyone I've ever read/followed/listened to. She manages to see thru all the stupid and wrong-thinking out there and find the truth - then isn't afraid to share it. And she sees the REAL and global perspectives in how things are and how they work. I hardly ever hear a video from her that I don't get amazing ideas from. Very sad I didn't have her back when I was in my 20s, could have changed my whole life.

  • @lara846l2
    @lara846l2 Год назад +2

    This woman is a preacher! Her words are on POINT

  • @EmpressofChrist
    @EmpressofChrist 5 лет назад +23

    My stepdad side of the family, all the women got kids and are in welfare. It's like the new generation is on welfare like its passed down smh

  • @TaliahLoveStar
    @TaliahLoveStar 3 года назад +3

    You spoke the real truth I needed to hear.❤❤❤❤💖💖

  • @El_izabethheart
    @El_izabethheart Год назад +10

    The "Spiritual Guys" sitting around Broke, smoking weed 😐

  • @GoogleUser-wy2vv
    @GoogleUser-wy2vv 5 лет назад +3

    You are informative and relaxing to listen to...i am getting my morning coffee now.

  • @jessicar.4517
    @jessicar.4517 6 лет назад +22

    Speaking nothing but the truth!! I know too many people who need to watch this

  • @QueenLDes
    @QueenLDes 6 лет назад +23

    What did we do to deserve you Shera 😩😩 Thank you.

    • @ninawestlake14
      @ninawestlake14 2 года назад +1

      That's that poverty mindset at one of it's highest levels. Just be grateful and move along.

    • @El_izabethheart
      @El_izabethheart Год назад

      ​@@ninawestlake14 Worshiping these celebs is the next one. Some celebs try and speak truth when they break down sometimes but they are programmed to keep this system in place.

  • @briannab.8127
    @briannab.8127 6 лет назад +13

    You said free sex 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾! Subscribed ! Although we have urges , men to pay for this (with commitments &marriage )!

  • @levelupchic4659
    @levelupchic4659 5 лет назад +14

    Its sad to see women with kids at a bus stop,sometimes up to 5-6 kids. Like where the F are those kids father(s)?

    • @jerrejackson1973
      @jerrejackson1973 4 года назад +1

      As seen on TV shows like Maury and Paternity Court, she probably doesn't even know who her kids fathers is!

  • @PhnxOnAcid
    @PhnxOnAcid 6 лет назад +9

    I'm so thankful for all your knowledge that you put here on youtube. Lately I listen to your videos while I have a classic jazz record playing in another tab on low volume, its awesome. Bill Evans Trio''s album 'At Shelly's Manny-Hole' from 1963 is currently a favorite.

  • @angelsimmons8494
    @angelsimmons8494 6 лет назад +11

    Couponing
    After I started coupon and I developed the shopping habit lol a penny saved is a penny I can use somewhere else .... I challenge myself weekly to see how much I can save on things I use everyday and take what I save and invest it. I'm excited to see what the end result will be after a year it's been about 2 months since I started this challenge

  • @donnapoolejackofalltrades7827
    @donnapoolejackofalltrades7827 5 лет назад +3

    I hope more people find your channel because have very good topics .

  • @user-yk9sk7pg6v
    @user-yk9sk7pg6v 4 месяца назад +2

    that is so nice your daughter has access to 'yoga hour' at school :)

  • @amberram885
    @amberram885 5 лет назад +2

    You are so so on point!
    Thank you for this reminder...

  • @publicfigure6347
    @publicfigure6347 8 месяцев назад +2

    Crazy you mentioned Cassie in this Video, given the situation with Diddy

  • @ayasarsour2860
    @ayasarsour2860 Год назад +2

    Thank you very much 😊

  • @SheKenyan
    @SheKenyan 10 месяцев назад +3

    Poverty mind is also showcased by always being in complain mode but doing nothing to change your situation.

  • @LadyLondon33
    @LadyLondon33 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you for this video I am so amazed by this my thoughts in words thank you

  • @katarina.k_art
    @katarina.k_art 6 лет назад +12

    You are helping me so much, I really needed your videos thank you!!!

  • @sandyk2310
    @sandyk2310 6 лет назад +47

    Strong woman=donkey. Say NO!

  • @blizzygenius8901
    @blizzygenius8901 5 лет назад +5

    Hey Shera. I love you videos. And I do believe in Jesus Christ.

  • @segamami5156
    @segamami5156 Год назад +2

    Wish I could like this video 100 times.

  • @la3380
    @la3380 6 лет назад +3

    New subscriber! 💜💜 thank you soooo much for the women empowerment

  • @MsVee888
    @MsVee888 6 лет назад +8

    Fixing my website while listening to you #goals

  • @musicmakeuplover3025
    @musicmakeuplover3025 5 лет назад +1

    This was so 🔥Thanks needed this keep up the good work .💜

  • @sarainrheallife
    @sarainrheallife Год назад +1

    Mama you are the new age Freedom Fighter. Freeing people's programmed mindsets . Break free from this invisible prison yall . Take notes

  • @LinguistAmbie
    @LinguistAmbie 6 лет назад +6

    I Looooove this! I'm sharing❤

  • @MeTraD_Blk_Swn
    @MeTraD_Blk_Swn 6 лет назад +7

    Gural if i could hug u right now i would hug u so tight for a cool MINUTE.😢great video🌹

  • @bangelic6471
    @bangelic6471 3 года назад +5

    A guy I dated..rapper guy..despised me because I wasn’t from the struggle lol

  • @LenaM277
    @LenaM277 6 лет назад +6

    Suggestive media had the power of influence over many women for decades. One day, the mass media will also level up mentally, for the future of women globally!(young men also)

    • @El_izabethheart
      @El_izabethheart Год назад

      Media is designed to keep these programs in place and make them Worse

  • @aliajohnson470
    @aliajohnson470 5 лет назад +5

    What we do impact others. What's
    sad people make excuses for their
    success. A poverty mind is our Enemy.

  • @FDArtistry
    @FDArtistry 5 лет назад +16

    Is poverty mind also, talking yourself out of places & things you assume are out of reach? I had to stop this... I would already assume I couldn’t go certain places bc it was out of my reach. Not always true

    • @Karamelk4
      @Karamelk4 4 года назад +7

      Yes it is. ANY beliefs/thoughts that LIMIT you and tell you you can't do/be/have something, is usually poverty thinking and conditioning.

  • @HajerahBibiDegia
    @HajerahBibiDegia 7 месяцев назад +2

    Shera speaks facts!

  • @winterbaby9208
    @winterbaby9208 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you Shera ❤️💋

  • @kristacaprice8993
    @kristacaprice8993 6 лет назад +3

    Good looking out on those magnetic lashes. Picked some up as soon as you mentioned them on the other video and I love them.