funfact: at the end of the video when i’m in front of a bunch of period products, i didn’t even MEAN for that to happen. same with mrs.buttersworth WANNA FIND OTHER LIKEMINDED GIRLIES? I created a community where we uplift & support each other through a weekly gratitude practice hosted by yours truly. DM the instagram @lbtcommunity to get vetted & I'll see you in the chat :)
You made me cry. I was recently walking down the aisle in a supermarket and there was a very young girl, maybe 7 years old, with long blonde hair in a karate outfit staring at me. Maybe she was just on her way to/from karate lessons. Anyway she was staring at me non-stop as I walked towards her. I'm a woman who dresses very tomboyish and this was I think the only reason she was staring, maybe she recognised a fellow tomboy? I don't know. I smiled at her and she smiled back THE most beautiful, warm smile I have ever seen. To this day this is possibly the best and most innocent interaction I've ever had with a stranger and I'll never forget it.
there's nothing like seeing a kid who reminds you of yourself or knowing you are also that person they look up to 😭😭 I'm so happy you experienced and shared this thank you
I had an interaction similar to this! So I'm a black girl who's also Audhd (Autustic and adhd) and it leads to me having a very specific fashion. I call it my inside spilling out. I dress very nature, fairy, magical, vibes and I love putting flowers and butterfly clips in my type 4 afro. Some days I feel insecure and think I look stupid and one day I was out and I crossed paths with this little girl. It just so happened to be a day I was wearing my hair in two puffs. She had her hair in two puffs. She has a pink princess like skirt, I had a very pink magical looking outfit. We locked eyes and both of us had this instant surprised look of awe! It was so precious! I walked away feeling so validated and I hope that little girl did too 💕
that's crazy bc one day i was in the supermarket and a little girl with long blonde hair did the same thing to me! except she was already smiling at me and smiled even bigger when i smiled back. i remember how ugly i felt that day because my hair was dirty and i didn't have any makeup on so her smiling at me warmed my heart.
I went to a waterpark and there was a slide that was a 40 meter drop slide. I wanted to show my little brother that it’s okay to be scared, but bravery is doing it anyway. When I got off the slide- I was laughing and also a little embarrassed because there were groups of people at the bottom watching people. As I walking away, I heard a little girl say, “And a girl did it too! She was like a princess!” I didn’t think she was talking about me because I’m an adult and definitely the furthest thing from princess- like. She pointed at me and my little brother beaming said, “That’s my sister!”
As a 17 year old girl who used to have that spark but let it be hidden deeper and deeper inside herself, thank you so much for sharing this💗. I hope to one day let that little girl know she will become that woman she dreamed of so deeply later in her life, and that being herself is the one best and special thing she has. You seem like such a genuine and lovely person. Such a special thing to be, ourselves, and proudly. Again, thank you for sharing this. It changed something about the way I thought of myself today, and I’m sure it will just as well have a similar positive impact for many more people seeing this. Thank you xx💗✨
this warmed my heart so much. I'm so happy it impacted you. just know its never too late or too early to start finding that spark again 🤍 the only way for older you to feel/express it, is if you give yourself the permission to do it now. sending you so much luck & love beautiful 🤍🤍
Makes me wanna cry. I can't explain it to you in mere words how much I wanna be my highest self. The way you saw your highest self in someone else, I've had visions of myself from future. 🥺 One thing that hit me was " I became her because I was already her"
I usually never comment on any RUclips videos, but this video just spoke to me. At 1:50, you mentioned how you picked and plucked the parts of yourself that you loved, which is often not what we do. Instead, we tend to focus only on the negatives and forget all the beautiful things about us. When you make peace with who you are and love yourself, it really changes the way you look at things around you. This was an amazing video; I really appreciate it!
I really appreciate YOU for sharing your thoughts. you make such good points. thank you so much for taking your time to write such a sweet message. sending you so much love 🤍🤍🤍
Last of last year December, I went back to my childhood town for visits and was with my cousin when I saw this woman in a simple kimono and jeans with a tshirt outfit, she looks exactly like the woman I imagine myself to be, she had the essence, the aura, the beauty, the warmth and the energy, she looks wise and carefree, she looks spiritual same time and I like these kinds of women I realise because they remind me of my mother, idk what my mother was like but she moved on to other dimensions when I was 3 but they somehow remind me of her and then I realise, these women remind me of ME, I stared at her I wanted to stop and take it all in but then she saw me staring and she must've seen the look in my eyes or something because she smiled the warmest knowing smile I've ever seen... And I know, we had some kind of connection, a conversation that did not need words but hearts knew, I rejoiced😊❤
When I played soccer, all of us wore headbands with ponytails and a lot of us did it outside of game day and practice. Never knew people made a fuss about the style
this was such a beautiful video. i just turned 18, and i don't have a solid grasp of who i want to be yet. but i'm happy i'm here and that there are so many beautiful, healing women (like you) around to inspire me. thank you :)
you have no idea how healing this message is for me in this moment. thank you so much. and I'm proud of you for being self aware and willing to go on the adventure on figuring out who you want to be.
ah thank you!! honestly it was a last minute decision ! but I think I have to keep doing it for future videos because it added so much, no matter how time consuming
Ah I love the simplicity of this piece. No thubnail, no capitalization of the fonts like they're screaming in your face. Only pure connections and ideas. So inspiring💜
this is so beautiful reminds me of the time i was working at a day camp, and it was a really rough week for me but there was this one shy little girl who never wanted to wear her glasses, and on the very last day she wore them, and later her mom told me it was because i always wore my glasses, and it was the sweetest thing, us walking around matching for the day
this reminded me of when i was 14 and, against my mom's wishes, dyed the ends of my hair pink. i got shit for it every single day and at a certain point i gave up on it completely because she managed to convince me i looked horrible. i waited for it to grow a bit longer before cutting. once during that waiting period however i was walking home from school and a little girl on the street started pointing at me, while her mom was SO embarrassed and trying to stop her, but i smiled at her to show i wasn't upset or anything, kept walking and heard the girl say "her hair is just like a doll's" like it was the most amazing thing she had ever seen. i haven't ever seen a doll with dyed hair ends, but that comment made me so happy. it's just the way she said it, man. i had made my decision on cutting it though and it was for the best since i didn't take proper care of it and it wasn't very healthy, but it's been ten years and not once did i stop dreaming about my hair being like that again. at the start of this year, i dyed it again, and i've been so happy with how it looks, i love that now i know how to take proper care of it. i love how it looks on a bun, on a braid, on ponytails. i love how it shows off my favorite color (which is pink!!). my mom still hates it, but it doesn't affect me at all. every time i go out and see a little girl they almost always stare at my hair. i've heard so many nice compliments from older women too. and it makes me so happy. i hope the little girl i met dyed her hair too, and i hope she felt "like a doll"!! hehe xd
Oh wow. I am going to be so much more mindful of when young people look at me. I have dark green hair, and I once saw a little girl staring in awe. When I smiled at her, she took it as an invitation to chat. “I looooove your hair!! That’s such a cool color! I wanna do that when I get big.” And once her mom turned around and saw my alt style, she yanked her away and started chiding her. I hope I made an impact in that little girl’s life.
The video quality, the message, and of course the impact of this video is just out of this world. Loving this type of videos that u make, keep it up girlyyyyyy!!!
Oh my goodness. I'm absolutely aching at this. You put your arms up and I saw your hair- hair under your arms just like mine. Im only 20. Youre at least 23? So far being 20 and healing my teenage self along with my child self has been the focus. And I'm so proud and I'm so happy. I look in the mirror in utter awe. I don't know how it happened, or when, but watching this today of all days, made me realize IM STARTING TO SHINE FOR AND FROM MYSELF. I worked so hard for it, and it's here!!!! I'm sobbing while writing this. Thank you for this video. You're a gem!!
YESSSSS GIRL I'M SO HAPPY AND PROUD OF YOU!!!! you're doing amazing, keep it up :") I'm so touched that YOU'RE so touched. thank you for this sweet message :')
this video was so sweet, creative and so wonderful to watch, thank you for being you and being so comfortable sharing that woman with the world! I am better off knowing you
You are one my favorite RUclipsrs :) Lately I’ve been asking myself why do I feel more confident and it was bc of the videos from you helping me love myself 🫶
Thank you for your wisdom. You’re much younger than I am, yet your wise words here I find that I’ve been waiting my whole life to hear. This is something I need to focus on …..me….for a change.
you are lighting up my world thank you so much. whenever I look at comments I brace myself (and the video I put out recently?! PHEW I've been careful) but its comments like these that make me feel so loved and seen so thank you so much. I have another video like this coming out next Monday! I hope you're there to see it :')
I loved this. It randomly popped up on my feed but, it seeped into my heart so much like honey on a bun does. It’s beautiful! Never stop creating videos.
ahh, this video reminded me of my childhood as a kid, i used to love wearing headbands, and i always tried to match them to my outfit hehe watching this really gave me a sense of happiness
this reminds me as a child who's really insecure wearing headbands because it makes my forehead wider that other kids at school would always point it out, it made me stop wearing them not until now that i realized it looks good on me and suits my face. i think that other people will always find something to say about you, but then, i'm just being myself and i love that i outgrew those old memories and finally do the things that i really wanted
I love this. I remember in choir as a kid seeing "cool girls" that were sooo cool to me, I was fascinated by them. They used to wear headband with ponytail. I found it so cool. I once tried wearing headband with ponytail at home and both my parents criticized it even though I was obviously happy with that? They said something like that it doesn't make sense and looks weird. It broke my heart. Also when I was little so many girls around me used to wear headscarf and my mum always said all the girls look like little babushkas and that's ugly. So I couldn't wear it. Now when I'm adult, my friend gave me hello kitty headscarf. I liked to wear that but my parents again asked why I'm wearing that and said it's weird. My heart is so scarred by my parents, but this video heals me. 🩷
stop I'm blushing 😭😭 its a goal one day to write and publish a book of my own!! who knows.. maybe I'm already working on it hehehe thank you so so much.
i think it’s important to note that while i have moments of self hate, 1) would i talk to the young me like that? no 2) would she be proud of me? would i be the exact type of woman she looked up to? absolutely, and i think that’s worth remembering :)
I know it is not exactly related to the theme but, I had the same pink dress with the big glitter and the tulle as a child. I had forgotten about it. Seeing it reminded me who I was then, and of who I am know, and I just know, I am as much her as she is me. Thank you 🌺
Randomly stumbled on this. LOVE THIS! I also remember the times when i looked at elder women who could be my elder sister in age, from my childhood memories ♥️ o One was the one where she was traveling alone. I saw her and told myself i wanna be like her when i grow up. . . . . ~3rd August, 2024 @9:06pm, Saturday
Xoxoxo first of all, I'll send soooo much love and hugs to your heart and soul, wow the video is amazing ❤ is really precious the way expresess the love on yourself and the way you talk about what your focus is what you let to grow in you, 💖 thanks for let part of you in the internet giving powerful meanings, that made me feel great and calm for my future ( and is kind of crazy and silly to say that but is valued) thak you once again, personally are more things a wanna tell here,but now i wish that every person get that spark that you show so well,peace love and light all of you,take care,andddd have a good, hopeful and sweet night,❤❤
I just turned 16 a few days ago and am tonns start to improve myself (working out, skin care, new clothes, studying more etc) and i kove this video! I hope i can come back to this vidoe in the future when im improved ❤
there is never a moment in which you arrive, we are always improving but I'm so happy to hear your working on this relationship with yourself and taking care of yourself girl
oh this is making me cry haha. I know this feeling exactly and while i not quite yet the girl I admired in the super market, I totally aspire to be. felt it deeply
weirdly such a compliment. I love that it made you feel and that so many other people and women relate to admiring others as kids :') I didn't expect this video to hit so many! but I'm so glad it hit you
This was a really beautifully filmed video and love the concept of a mini video essay. It inspires me to try to make a video that I've sort of had floating around in my mind for a little while. Your way with words is lovely, and I feel like I'm nitpicking by pointing this out, but at 1:14 did you mean unabashedly instead of abashedly? When I heard that sentence it kind of confused me. I'm sorry if I misinterpreted your meaning; I was just wondering. By the way, I absolutely love the idea of being "stubborn to live a good life". I feel like I might have just started the aching years, but you reminded me that maybe it doesn't have to be that way. Have a lovely day and keep up the great work!
unfortunately yes you're right 😭😭 siiighhhh dyslexia you've done it again. but thank you so much!! I'm so happy it inspired you :') I have another one coming out Monday too! also i have the same photo as your profile hanging in my bus :')
this has always been my biggest motivation to be myself. i know what it feels like to walk in herds of cookie-cutter peers, fearful to branch off lest i be cast out. i also know what it feels like to see the rare person who's different, who i wish i could be, and realize "hey--i *could* be them." i find it hard to stand out if it's for myself. but i think i could do it if i just imagined my standing out was standing up; that someone else was looking up to me, and decided to stand, too. even if it were just one person...
beautifully told story, great video. not sure if i have it in me to tell a tale about a moment like this, so personal, a blast from the past that still hits you, and in such a succint, beautiful way, but i hope i do one day
your swagger and your bearing / and the just-right clothes you're wearing / your short hair, and your dungarees and your lace-up boots // it's probably conceited to say, but I think we're alike, in a certain way
funfact: at the end of the video when i’m in front of a bunch of period products, i didn’t even MEAN for that to happen. same with mrs.buttersworth
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Oh haha i thought that was intentional 😂😄
You made me cry. I was recently walking down the aisle in a supermarket and there was a very young girl, maybe 7 years old, with long blonde hair in a karate outfit staring at me. Maybe she was just on her way to/from karate lessons. Anyway she was staring at me non-stop as I walked towards her. I'm a woman who dresses very tomboyish and this was I think the only reason she was staring, maybe she recognised a fellow tomboy? I don't know. I smiled at her and she smiled back THE most beautiful, warm smile I have ever seen. To this day this is possibly the best and most innocent interaction I've ever had with a stranger and I'll never forget it.
there's nothing like seeing a kid who reminds you of yourself or knowing you are also that person they look up to 😭😭
I'm so happy you experienced and shared this thank you
I had an interaction similar to this! So I'm a black girl who's also Audhd (Autustic and adhd) and it leads to me having a very specific fashion. I call it my inside spilling out. I dress very nature, fairy, magical, vibes and I love putting flowers and butterfly clips in my type 4 afro. Some days I feel insecure and think I look stupid and one day I was out and I crossed paths with this little girl. It just so happened to be a day I was wearing my hair in two puffs. She had her hair in two puffs. She has a pink princess like skirt, I had a very pink magical looking outfit. We locked eyes and both of us had this instant surprised look of awe! It was so precious!
I walked away feeling so validated and I hope that little girl did too 💕
@@marajones1828 oh man I love this so much!! Those little moments of mutual awe are beautiful!
@marajones1828 bro that's so wholesome!!! I love picturing that in my head it's so cute!!
that's crazy bc one day i was in the supermarket and a little girl with long blonde hair did the same thing to me! except she was already smiling at me and smiled even bigger when i smiled back. i remember how ugly i felt that day because my hair was dirty and i didn't have any makeup on so her smiling at me warmed my heart.
“shining from and for herself” girllll🔥🔥🔥
😌😌😌🤎
I read this as “shinning from hell herself 🔥🔥🔥" 😭
@@oliviakitchen2264 HA omg STOP
“I became the woman I looked up to because already was her”
EXACTLY! It feels good to hear it from someone else
you go girl 😭😭😭🤍🤍
"teenage years turn into aching years" that didn't have to hit so hard
look I'm sorry 😩😩
I went to a waterpark and there was a slide that was a 40 meter drop slide. I wanted to show my little brother that it’s okay to be scared, but bravery is doing it anyway. When I got off the slide- I was laughing and also a little embarrassed because there were groups of people at the bottom watching people. As I walking away, I heard a little girl say, “And a girl did it too! She was like a princess!” I didn’t think she was talking about me because I’m an adult and definitely the furthest thing from princess- like. She pointed at me and my little brother beaming said, “That’s my sister!”
wholesome 🫶🏼🫶🏼
omg STOP I'm sobbing 😭😭😭😭 thats the sweetest thing ever thank you for sharing. my heart
I cried when I read this. It’s just such a beautiful experience!
As a 17 year old girl who used to have that spark but let it be hidden deeper and deeper inside herself, thank you so much for sharing this💗. I hope to one day let that little girl know she will become that woman she dreamed of so deeply later in her life, and that being herself is the one best and special thing she has.
You seem like such a genuine and lovely person. Such a special thing to be, ourselves, and proudly.
Again, thank you for sharing this. It changed something about the way I thought of myself today, and I’m sure it will just as well have a similar positive impact for many more people seeing this.
Thank you xx💗✨
this warmed my heart so much. I'm so happy it impacted you. just know its never too late or too early to start finding that spark again 🤍 the only way for older you to feel/express it, is if you give yourself the permission to do it now.
sending you so much luck & love beautiful 🤍🤍
Makes me wanna cry. I can't explain it to you in mere words how much I wanna be my highest self. The way you saw your highest self in someone else, I've had visions of myself from future.
🥺
One thing that hit me was " I became her because I was already her"
the absolute highest of compliments.
you already are your highest self
@@jaylynnangelina 🥺🥺🌸🙏 ily
I usually never comment on any RUclips videos, but this video just spoke to me. At 1:50, you mentioned how you picked and plucked the parts of yourself that you loved, which is often not what we do. Instead, we tend to focus only on the negatives and forget all the beautiful things about us. When you make peace with who you are and love yourself, it really changes the way you look at things around you.
This was an amazing video; I really appreciate it!
I really appreciate YOU for sharing your thoughts. you make such good points.
thank you so much for taking your time to write such a sweet message. sending you so much love 🤍🤍🤍
Last of last year December, I went back to my childhood town for visits and was with my cousin when I saw this woman in a simple kimono and jeans with a tshirt outfit, she looks exactly like the woman I imagine myself to be, she had the essence, the aura, the beauty, the warmth and the energy, she looks wise and carefree, she looks spiritual same time and I like these kinds of women I realise because they remind me of my mother, idk what my mother was like but she moved on to other dimensions when I was 3 but they somehow remind me of her and then I realise, these women remind me of ME, I stared at her I wanted to stop and take it all in but then she saw me staring and she must've seen the look in my eyes or something because she smiled the warmest knowing smile I've ever seen... And I know, we had some kind of connection, a conversation that did not need words but hearts knew, I rejoiced😊❤
these moments exist everywhere!!! that is so so beautiful thank you so much for sharing :')
When I played soccer, all of us wore headbands with ponytails and a lot of us did it outside of game day and practice. Never knew people made a fuss about the style
I love knowing you guys did that too
"you become what you focus on" loved it, great vid
thank you so much :')
this was such a beautiful video. i just turned 18, and i don't have a solid grasp of who i want to be yet. but i'm happy i'm here and that there are so many beautiful, healing women (like you) around to inspire me. thank you :)
you have no idea how healing this message is for me in this moment. thank you so much.
and I'm proud of you for being self aware and willing to go on the adventure on figuring out who you want to be.
us sweetie us
I love seeing videos like this. Reminds me of old RUclips 😢♥️ Original content from the heart
that's always how I try to operate from, thank you 😭🤍
i love underrated girls yt channels. it's such a warm place very intimate. love your content already ⭐️🎀
thank you so much :') a feeling I intend to keep throughout the journey
Love the yellow subtitles!! So nostalgic and the clicking of each pic! 💛
ah thank you!! honestly it was a last minute decision ! but I think I have to keep doing it for future videos because it added so much, no matter how time consuming
@@jaylynnangelina Yess!! It’s all about the details!!
this was really beautiful, seeing you heal your inner child is so beautiful and this video also healed me too!!❤
all I could be asked for
Ah I love the simplicity of this piece. No thubnail, no capitalization of the fonts like they're screaming in your face. Only pure connections and ideas. So inspiring💜
thank you so much :')
I want to be the woman that my inner child would be in awe of, beautiful video
thank you so much :')
This feel like those coming to age movie and I love it sm. You're literally the woman I wanna look up to
stop it I'm so flattered 😭😭 sending you so much love :')
I just sobbed. This is beautiful.
sobbing at you sobbing. thank you
this is so beautiful
reminds me of the time i was working at a day camp, and it was a really rough week for me but there was this one shy little girl who never wanted to wear her glasses, and on the very last day she wore them, and later her mom told me it was because i always wore my glasses, and it was the sweetest thing, us walking around matching for the day
thats precious omg 😭😭😭😭😭
"you become what you focus on" is so true. Thank you for sharing your light with us💜
thank you for seeing me
this reminded me of when i was 14 and, against my mom's wishes, dyed the ends of my hair pink. i got shit for it every single day and at a certain point i gave up on it completely because she managed to convince me i looked horrible. i waited for it to grow a bit longer before cutting. once during that waiting period however i was walking home from school and a little girl on the street started pointing at me, while her mom was SO embarrassed and trying to stop her, but i smiled at her to show i wasn't upset or anything, kept walking and heard the girl say "her hair is just like a doll's" like it was the most amazing thing she had ever seen.
i haven't ever seen a doll with dyed hair ends, but that comment made me so happy. it's just the way she said it, man. i had made my decision on cutting it though and it was for the best since i didn't take proper care of it and it wasn't very healthy, but it's been ten years and not once did i stop dreaming about my hair being like that again.
at the start of this year, i dyed it again, and i've been so happy with how it looks, i love that now i know how to take proper care of it. i love how it looks on a bun, on a braid, on ponytails. i love how it shows off my favorite color (which is pink!!). my mom still hates it, but it doesn't affect me at all. every time i go out and see a little girl they almost always stare at my hair. i've heard so many nice compliments from older women too. and it makes me so happy. i hope the little girl i met dyed her hair too, and i hope she felt "like a doll"!! hehe xd
this is so completely heartwarming. thank you so much for sharing, it brightened my day
Oh wow. I am going to be so much more mindful of when young people look at me. I have dark green hair, and I once saw a little girl staring in awe. When I smiled at her, she took it as an invitation to chat. “I looooove your hair!! That’s such a cool color! I wanna do that when I get big.” And once her mom turned around and saw my alt style, she yanked her away and started chiding her. I hope I made an impact in that little girl’s life.
I bet you did
The video quality, the message, and of course the impact of this video is just out of this world. Loving this type of videos that u make, keep it up girlyyyyyy!!!
you warm my heart SO much thank you 😭😭
I love making these so you best believe there's gonna be more :')
Oh my goodness. I'm absolutely aching at this. You put your arms up and I saw your hair- hair under your arms just like mine. Im only 20. Youre at least 23? So far being 20 and healing my teenage self along with my child self has been the focus. And I'm so proud and I'm so happy. I look in the mirror in utter awe.
I don't know how it happened, or when, but watching this today of all days, made me realize IM STARTING TO SHINE FOR AND FROM MYSELF. I worked so hard for it, and it's here!!!!
I'm sobbing while writing this. Thank you for this video. You're a gem!!
YESSSSS GIRL I'M SO HAPPY AND PROUD OF YOU!!!! you're doing amazing, keep it up :")
I'm so touched that YOU'RE so touched. thank you for this sweet message :')
"shining from and for herself" ❤
sending you so much love
The women did not allow you to find the spark within yourself, you did.✨
connection
this video was so sweet, creative and so wonderful to watch, thank you for being you and being so comfortable sharing that woman with the world! I am better off knowing you
I love you Sara 😭
You are one my favorite RUclipsrs :) Lately I’ve been asking myself why do I feel more confident and it was bc of the videos from you helping me love myself 🫶
SOBBBBINGGGG that's all I could ask for I'm so happy :'))) get it girl! I'm here rooting for you
i immediately fell in love with your video style, i’m so glad this got recommended to me!!
you're so beautiful thank you!!
Thank you for your wisdom. You’re much younger than I am, yet your wise words here I find that I’ve been waiting my whole life to hear. This is something I need to focus on …..me….for a change.
do it Mary!! you deserve it!!
Thank you for existing. You reminded me to shine from and for myself :)) Will be repeating this mantra
thank you for existing too beautiful
this was so sweet and it hugged my heart in all the right ways. tysm for sharing your experience, this is art
you are making me smile so much. thank you beautiful
you are so underrated. this was beautifully made!! and the editing was truly the cherry on the cake ❤❤
ugh thank you so so much!!! I'm so happy to make more :')
0:03 Subscribed within the first 3 seconds of watching your video omg I love this! ❤️
this made me smile so wide THANK YOU ILY
Gosh the storytelling and cinematics are beautiful. So calming, I wish I discovered your channel sooner, keep creating masterpieces 💫💫
you are lighting up my world thank you so much. whenever I look at comments I brace myself (and the video I put out recently?! PHEW I've been careful)
but its comments like these that make me feel so loved and seen so thank you so much.
I have another video like this coming out next Monday! I hope you're there to see it :')
why am i crying
this was so beautiful thank you ❤
thank U 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
I loved this. It randomly popped up on my feed but, it seeped into my heart so much like honey on a bun does. It’s beautiful! Never stop creating videos.
ugh the prettiest words 😭🤎 thank you so much for your support :')
ahh, this video reminded me of my childhood
as a kid, i used to love wearing headbands, and i always tried to match them to my outfit hehe
watching this really gave me a sense of happiness
you should start doing that again :’))) it’s so wholesome
@@jaylynnangelina aww thanks
@@jaylynnangelinaand OMG you replied to my comment!!
Please never stop posting. Love you. Greetings from Colombia ❤❤
one of the most encouraging things you can say to me. thank you love
this is so sweet im crying
now I'm crying
This is beautiful. I’ve been feeling this way too and the experience is freeing.
I'm so happy for you
this reminds me as a child who's really insecure wearing headbands because it makes my forehead wider that other kids at school would always point it out, it made me stop wearing them not until now that i realized it looks good on me and suits my face. i think that other people will always find something to say about you, but then, i'm just being myself and i love that i outgrew those old memories and finally do the things that i really wanted
exactly, people will always have something to say so you might as well do yourself a favor and be you instead of fitting into their boxes
Subbed! Such a relaxing, relatable video. Loved the authenticity
thank you so so much!!
I love this.
I remember in choir as a kid seeing "cool girls" that were sooo cool to me, I was fascinated by them. They used to wear headband with ponytail. I found it so cool. I once tried wearing headband with ponytail at home and both my parents criticized it even though I was obviously happy with that? They said something like that it doesn't make sense and looks weird. It broke my heart.
Also when I was little so many girls around me used to wear headscarf and my mum always said all the girls look like little babushkas and that's ugly. So I couldn't wear it. Now when I'm adult, my friend gave me hello kitty headscarf. I liked to wear that but my parents again asked why I'm wearing that and said it's weird.
My heart is so scarred by my parents, but this video heals me. 🩷
I love hearing about your personal stories. I'm sorry you don't feel support at home but know you have support from me
I ended up crying. I love your headband with your ponytail up btw. You inspired me ❤.
this is so sweet, thank you
please make this in to a book of poems cause i wanna buy it, i love the way you put the words it was incredible beautiful❤
stop I'm blushing 😭😭 its a goal one day to write and publish a book of my own!!
who knows.. maybe I'm already working on it hehehe
thank you so so much.
@@jaylynnangelina please do so!!!! I’m sure it will be awesome❤️❤️❤️
i think it’s important to note that while i have moments of self hate,
1) would i talk to the young me like that? no
2) would she be proud of me? would i be the exact type of woman she looked up to? absolutely, and i think that’s worth remembering :)
that’s beautifully added
I know it is not exactly related to the theme but, I had the same pink dress with the big glitter and the tulle as a child. I had forgotten about it. Seeing it reminded me who I was then, and of who I am know, and I just know, I am as much her as she is me. Thank you 🌺
this is too beautiful. thank you for sharing. I love imagining us in our little matching dresses together :')
32 seconds in and i subscribed idk love the vibe♥️
you are the sweetest
🩵🩵 made me teary eyed 🥺
that warms my heart so much
thank you for inviting me into your world for a moment ❤
this is so sweet
This is a masterpeice. 😭❤
you're too much!!
This is so so beautiful, thank you for making this video, feels like a hug
I'm so happy you like it, that warms my heart!
Randomly stumbled on this. LOVE THIS! I also remember the times when i looked at elder women who could be my elder sister in age, from my childhood memories ♥️ o
One was the one where she was traveling alone. I saw her and told myself i wanna be like her when i grow up.
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~3rd August, 2024
@9:06pm, Saturday
that's so beautiful :') happy to have you here
can't express how much I loved it !!!
stop you're so sweet 😭
this was so beautiful , i enjoyed watching it so much.
thank you sweetheart :')
Xoxoxo first of all, I'll send soooo much love and hugs to your heart and soul, wow the video is amazing ❤ is really precious the way expresess the love on yourself and the way you talk about what your focus is what you let to grow in you, 💖 thanks for let part of you in the internet giving powerful meanings, that made me feel great and calm for my future ( and is kind of crazy and silly to say that but is valued) thak you once again, personally are more things a wanna tell here,but now i wish that every person get that spark that you show so well,peace love and light all of you,take care,andddd have a good, hopeful and sweet night,❤❤
thank you so much for your sweet words!! sending you all the luck & love back
Your video is so relaxing.💛💛
I just turned 16 a few days ago and am tonns start to improve myself (working out, skin care, new clothes, studying more etc) and i kove this video! I hope i can come back to this vidoe in the future when im improved ❤
there is never a moment in which you arrive, we are always improving but I'm so happy to hear your working on this relationship with yourself and taking care of yourself girl
@@jaylynnangelina 🙏😇
222 likes. this is so beautiful, this is art. the real beauty comes from within the self
my heart is swelling. & thank you for pointing out 222 likes. you are an angel
@@jaylynnangelina you're welcome my love 💗💗
jaylynnnn i'm just catching up on your videos but this is beautiful. u should be proud of this
thank you hehehe ahhh!!
this is so sweet 🌻
thank you sm beauty :')
this is a work of art
you're so sweet thank you :')
once a headband girlie always a headband girlie ❤
literally wearing one as I type this :')
oh this is making me cry haha. I know this feeling exactly and while i not quite yet the girl I admired in the super market, I totally aspire to be. felt it deeply
weirdly such a compliment. I love that it made you feel and that so many other people and women relate to admiring others as kids :') I didn't expect this video to hit so many! but I'm so glad it hit you
Poetry at its finest 💕✨
stop I'm blushing 😭😭
תודה רבה על הסרטון העשוי כל כך טוב ומעורר השראה במעט מאד זמן, תבורכי!
This was so sweet and comforting to watch ❤ i subscribed and i can't wait to watch the rest of your videos and get to know you 😊🌼
ahhh I'm so happy :') thank you so much for supporting me girl
you become what you focus on ❤
I didn't know that you had a channel!!! following you now 😸 I always appreciated you ❤️
you have always been so sweet :")
@@jaylynnangelina I feel the same about you!! Nothing but positivity and kindness from you every single time we have interacted 💓💓
You become what you focus on ❤
yes sisterrrrrr!
This was a really beautifully filmed video and love the concept of a mini video essay. It inspires me to try to make a video that I've sort of had floating around in my mind for a little while.
Your way with words is lovely, and I feel like I'm nitpicking by pointing this out, but at 1:14 did you mean unabashedly instead of abashedly? When I heard that sentence it kind of confused me. I'm sorry if I misinterpreted your meaning; I was just wondering.
By the way, I absolutely love the idea of being "stubborn to live a good life". I feel like I might have just started the aching years, but you reminded me that maybe it doesn't have to be that way.
Have a lovely day and keep up the great work!
unfortunately yes you're right 😭😭 siiighhhh dyslexia you've done it again.
but thank you so much!! I'm so happy it inspired you :') I have another one coming out Monday too!
also i have the same photo as your profile hanging in my bus :')
Aww thanks for the response! There's nothing like tangible media-I bet it looks beautiful hanging up!
this has always been my biggest motivation to be myself. i know what it feels like to walk in herds of cookie-cutter peers, fearful to branch off lest i be cast out. i also know what it feels like to see the rare person who's different, who i wish i could be, and realize "hey--i *could* be them."
i find it hard to stand out if it's for myself. but i think i could do it if i just imagined my standing out was standing up; that someone else was looking up to me, and decided to stand, too. even if it were just one person...
that's such a beautiful way of looking at it
@@jaylynnangelina :'] i'm glad you think so. thank you for your video!
@@varena04 and thank YOU for your words :')
thanks for sharing 💕 this video was really important for me rn
I'm so happy it came to you at the right time
Love love loved your editing!!🎉
thank you so much!! hehe
I love this, beautifully written and so relatable
thank you so much :')
beautifully told story, great video. not sure if i have it in me to tell a tale about a moment like this, so personal, a blast from the past that still hits you, and in such a succint, beautiful way, but i hope i do one day
thank you so much. I believe you can
This video found me at the right time today, thank you so much beauty :)
I'm sobbing thank you :')
This is a beautiful video 🥺
you are so sweet thank you :')
RUclips is an unexpectedly good medium for poetry 😊
so excited to make more videos like this :')
Ur editing is so pretty!
thank you so much ah! :')
This is so cinematic 🥹
thank you :')
You just inspired meeeee 🥺
sobbing I'm so happy 😭🤍
I am ready to become the woman I look up to
you got this girl, I'll be here rooting you on :')
@@jaylynnangelina thank you so much ❤️🙏🏻
This video def made me so happy
I'm so glad 😭🤍
Just gotta say, I LOVE your channel❤
you're so beautiful thank you 😭😭😭
You have a new subscriber!!! Your editing is beautiful❤
you are the sweetest thank you!
This was beautiful but the fact you didn’t end it with a clip of you wearing a headband and a ponytail in the supermarket broke my heart.
girl I KNOW I was on a tight schedule 😭😭😭😭😭
This is so beautiful ☺️
thank you so so much
Lovely message ❤❤❤
thank you 🤎🤎
This makes me smile
now THIS makes me smile :')
i loved this sm thank u :))
that warms my heart sm
Loved this vid. It was soulful. I love headbands as well :D
ahhh thank you!! headband girlie for life :')
@@jaylynnangelina definitely! ♡
your swagger and your bearing / and the just-right clothes you're wearing / your short hair, and your dungarees and your lace-up boots // it's probably conceited to say, but I think we're alike, in a certain way
this is beautiful
you are a light
I LOVEDDD this
STOP
This made me cry 😭
now you're makin me cry