I’m glad that you brought this topic up. Unfortunately most foreigners that get into a relationship with a Filipina are ignorant regarding this topic. I was ignorant at first. Before I met my Filipina wife I was talking to Another Filipina from Samar.. within a month she was already asking for money, because she needed a passport to work in Canada. Well, she never got it. She always was in turmoil, and then I realized she’s using me, so I stopped talking to her. I only helped her once and that was it. But when I met my wife, I never had that situation. At the time she was an OFW in Hong Kong, she didn’t need me financially because she was making her own money. If I sent my wife money it was for her birthday/gift. I’m unfortunate that my wife handles her money well and has en entrepreneur mindset. I completely agree with you. If I may add, DO NOT send her money if you haven’t met her in person. Second, if she can’t support herself (doesn’t mean she has to be rich or never get into financial trouble once in a while) do not even start a relationship. Trust me, that will save you time and money! Third, pay attention what she does with her money. If she’s irresponsibly spending her money at the mall, move on, bro! Good luck, fellas 👍🏽
When I met my girl she never asked for anything, not one Paso. Over time she was thinking about going abroad to work in Dubai and I know how Dubai can be and I said look I’m not comfortable with you going there, I’ll make up the difference so you don’t have to. We video call 4 to 8 hrs a day since I run my business. Now her dad ran for politics and won but we found out he put his 2nd home up as collateral to run and yes he won. It was my girls childhood home. Me and her talked and we bought it cash money with renovations down the road. I’m saying yes when you find a good one, keep her. Yes not even her parents asked I simply made a gesture cause we plan on being together for life. She is one amazing woman
@@TruckerBill0531 Lol not very elaborate answer…how long you been dating, you live in a different country ? Be careful..so many horror stories and not just with foreigners but with Filipino relationships. Good luck 🤞
Same here.... I've chatted dozens of Filipinas online and via video (nothing serious). All of them have asked me for money. Some it was during the first time talking to them, and others after a few months of shooting the breeze. I don't know if it's innocent or a cultural disconnect, but I consider it to be rude to ask someone you aren’t in a relationship with and have not met in person for money. They ALWAYS have a sob story. I don't know if I'm being taken advantage of or not, so I don't send anything. Period. Not even a penny.
@@finalcountdown7658 The scammers are most concentrated online. We are just rich idiots to them. They only need one man to send money to make it worth it. Trying my luck in person soon. Be in the Philippines in ten days
Some trade their stock in relationship for money. Others do not. They know what they are doing. Watch for misunderstandings, because these situations are more difficult to manage.
We are together 6 years. We started as friends. She has never asked me for a single piso and neither has her parents. She is one of a kind and i treat her like a queen. She is a province girl. 13 years age gap.
Once you understand the dynamics of the extended Filipino family then it all makes sense. They do what they have to do to survive and keep the family intact. That said a families needs is essentially unlimited. If it's not medical issues it's sending kids to college or school or helping repair the family home. There's always a reason and the reason always sounds legit. The real issue here is the family fails to save for their own emergencies and would rather on other members of the extend family. Its a form of wealth redistribution where family members doing well support the other members. 'Rich' foreigners that get asked for money are often just unwilling third-party participants in this game. Eventually they'll have to learn how to say 'no'. That's the only way you can make it stop.
Jou newer unterstand Asians wake up newer ewer find out haaaaaaaaaaa jou take the money from them not from jou from the Asians haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa I control al the money from My wife not she haaaaaaa I win the lose haaaaaaaaaaaa
My girl has never asked for money. If you have the means and the situation is valid, do what you feel is right folks. There are times that someone that only makes 5kphp a month might need a load or a few dollars for something. If you VC daily with your girl, and she doesnt make much, buy load for her. It is easy and 10 bucks for really a month almost of daily VC. Other than that, use common sense.
The sad reality isn't that she asks for money but that she so desperately needs it. She was a single mom, the daughter of a poor farmer, they lived in a tumbledown shack in the province. When I met her online, I knew instantly that she was the one, so sincere and transparent, the kind who would be kind and caring and not give me grief. I loved her broad smile, her faith and friendly, caring manner. By day four of chatting I had to admit to myself that I was in love with her and I asked her to be sincere, the equivalent of going steady here. When she told me the impact the pandemic was having financially, well... how could I not help someone I cared so deeply about? She started calling me "Asawa" and I felt it too. I supported her and her family monthly during the pandemic and sending extra for emergencies. And after two years, when it ended, I rushed to her and married her. We transformed that shack into a comfortable 3-bedroom home where her parents and siblings can live and we're just completing a new 4000 sq. ft. home for ourselves in the next town. I never had any trouble supporting her, as her husband, it's my pleasure to do it anyway.
Here’s the kicker ..most foreigners date/wed province girls and the facts are they simply are poor. So before you date say a young attractive Filipina there’s a trade off. You have to be comfortable with the dynamics of this relationship..if your not, don’t date a poor girl. I really do not think most guys really have a idea of the hardships of the Philippines…it’s a fight to live/strive for your family. I don’t see a problem with supporting your partner if that’s what you choose ..but be prepared to support a plethora of family members too. I personally don’t like feeling like a cash cow…and the dynamics of a relationship should be not based on the stereotypical foreigner/young Filipina poor girl dynamics. But if that is what you’ve chosen, more power too you. Also not often spoken about is the joy of giving …sounds a bit feeble but if it floats your boat ..it’s a Christian way..to help others in need. And you will find in the phil’s that helping others is certainly a admirable trait just don’t be taken for granted.
Just found your channel today. Really enjoying your content. Well spoken and pragmatic points of views. Thanks you for contributing. I’m hoping to travel to Pi within the next year so thanks for the insights. 🙏🏾
If you're paying all the bills while your wife works to support her family, you're also supporting the family. And if you have a child, she should put her child's needs ahead of her nephews. Just saying.
Agree ,,, that is same for me and my partner ,, if she wants to send extra to family then SHE earns that money ,, i am happy to pay all the bills at home etc and give her a basic living budget
When I met my future wife [RIP] she needed money, so I gave her some without being asked. In my current LDR my pinay never asked for a peso, but today she is taking care of her very sick mother and she quit her job to do so, thus she can no longer buy the SIM card needed to communicate with me. There are A LOT WORSE THINGS than giving someone some money when they are in need. That is my opinion and if anyone disagrees they know what they can go do. HA!
Giving someone your diploma will not end their stupidity. Nor will giving someone you money end their poverty. Helping someone overcome generational poverty is an endeavor that shouldn't be taken lightly.
It’s funny, you should say that the expectations on a foreigner are the same as a Filipino, then why is there so many Filipina’s with children, and no father around. Sounds like a crock of shi to me. I’m seeing girls barely legal in age with one to three kids. That tells me there isn’t any regulation on your own people. But when a foreigner comes all of a sudden he has to meet some crazy expectations. Plus the family sitting around, not wanting to go out and try to work with their hands out looking for a foreigner to pay for everything. That’s one thing about Americans. The vast majority of us know you have to get out there and work for what you want. Y’all something from us.
Meh. You're just looking at the absolute poorest people. You chose them online, deal with it. Otherwise, head to Makati or BGC and try your luck with a Filipina from an Upper or middle class family and see how you fare. I bet they couldn't care less about your passport or social security.
Im not spending everything I saved for retirement to save a bunch of people I just met that most likely didn't take care of themselves. Would they do it for me?
The Lord loves a cheerful giver! If you're so worried about your money guys stay out of poor countries! Best to spend some time there and see how the other side lives 😮 trust me it will be a humbling experience There are NO social programs, no food banks, jobs are hard to find, if your sick or injured you will die if you don't have money to pay😮 I'm NOT saying just send money lol But understand you will see a need or may be asked to help if you choose a relationship with a Filipina. Not everything is a "scam" verify and help according to your heart and your ability.
Agree whole heartedly..it’s mostly the cheap Charlie’s that go say the phil’s and moan about the money situation. They want the young girls ..but do not want the commitment that comes with that. Being in the phil’s surrounded by poverty ..is humbling, a good Filipina will look after her partner and there finances.
Not everything Is a scam, but a lot of situations are scams. Right ? Lol I agree ppl shouldn’t complain, but I’m cheap and proud of it. I have a budget / savings plan and I stick to it
@@ThePhilippinePipeDream lol ya sound like the guy on the 26th ..we were getting cash out at bpi ..within subic freepeort , the Aeta roam around the freeport. They sell numerous foods, one came upto the car and I gave some money and without me knowing ..my gf also gave some money lol then a western guy said to one of Aeta ..”don’t look at me, I have no Xmas spirit” lol 😂
@@Eric-qm5xw I’ve went out of my way to help family before and then found out they used the money to pay for my nephews car insurance and stuff like that. I told my mom you led me to believe you couldn’t pay your bills this month, you guilt trip me into giving money and then you use it on something else. What I’ve learned, ppl will always lead you to believe they are worse off than they really are. The beggars and women know ppl like you are easy targets. It’s none of your business how someone spends their money. But it makes you feel like you are better than other ppl, if it was just charity you wouldn’t be on here talking shit, a good deed only needs attention if you are a narcissist.
@conservativefilipina I think I saw a picture of Tommy Glavin just below him... I couldn't tell for sure, but I saw a 7 on his jersey, and Glavin's jersey was 47. I live just about 210 km from Atlanta. My wife and I are also Braves fans.
I have no problem with this..I lived in the Philippines and the minimum wage was 54 peso a day..that was $2.25 a day...those who have extra money should help others..I sent my 3 check from pandemic to the Philippines..$3800 total...i never had anyone ask for more than $20 usd..I dated a filipina for 2 years and sent her 27,000 peso a month..$500....if you can't help them than don't send money but those of us that make a good living then we should help them
@@stevesilver7437 ...here is what people forget and it goes back many years ago.. when marrying a woman of any country it's important to pick a good family to connect with
How can your husband have all these baseball stars and not have Greg Maddox?? A lot of good advice. I think if I had a wife in the Philippines, I would want her to get a job and give any amount of her salary to her family. Her money is her money.
I'm not sure if it's common, but I've heard of that before. I'd say 50/50. Some are very frugal, but others don't know the concept of savings. Most are willing to learn though especially when they start working and earning their own money. Thanks for watching! I appreciate the comment!
Thanks for this. I met my Filipina online about a year ago. She had been working in the US as a chef and was in the process of going back there. I made the decision to help her (she never asked) because I didn’t want her leaving the kids. I was giving her $1000 Australian a week (yes I know ridiculous amount) and at times she would ask me for extra, actual she would ask me all the time until I put my foot down. I have met her three times, the first time not long after meeting her online to find out she was legit. We were in engaged to be married in August 23. We were due to marry early this year but I couldn’t afford it mainly because of the support. As I have read some Filipinas are just into taking and never giving. I don’t think she’s a scammer but I haven’t done her any favours by giving so much support. I don’t support her at all now. There’s an application for her to come to Australia with her kids, she has sold her car and and is living on that until she can come here. My point is she was never ashamed of asking for more which is disappointing. I would love to tell it’s because she had her hand out all the time is why I couldn’t marry her (financially) which caused her embarrassment and shame. But she would never admit to her always taking was the cause of the wedding falling through for now. So I would love to tell her you caused your own shame and embarrassment because of your shameless ability to keep on taking instead of considering the facts. But I honestly think she wouldn’t be able to comprehend that. I don’t mean to sound mean but to me she has zero logical skills, which I think that’s just how she is. I don’t want to say the word but I will……primitive!!!
Another great video and great insight into the culture, Sister. I cannot advocate for a wife going outside of the home to get a job to help her family, since I am Christian. For other Christians, having faith in God’s ability to provide is always the best solution. As Christ spoke of in Matthew several times. We can respect other cultures as Paul did. Be all things to all people. But we can never prioritize the things of man over the ways of God. Our wordly struggles do not justify straying away from God’s design of women working in the home. And the man providing. Maybe start an at home business in the spare time. Haha. As long as the home duties are not neglected. God bless you.
My Filipina friend sent me a video of her child having a seizure. She was frantic and crying saying I don’t know what to do! I told her what to do and sent money to her to take her child to the emergency room. Her child received treatment and has been fine since then. I’m happy to have helped her and she didn’t ask for money after that time.
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The fact that old out of shape guys are flabbergasted when a young pretty woman is dating them because of money is beyond funny
I’m glad that you brought this topic up. Unfortunately most foreigners that get into a relationship with a Filipina are ignorant regarding this topic. I was ignorant at first. Before I met my Filipina wife I was talking to Another Filipina from Samar.. within a month she was already asking for money, because she needed a passport to work in Canada. Well, she never got it. She always was in turmoil, and then I realized she’s using me, so I stopped talking to her. I only helped her once and that was it. But when I met my wife, I never had that situation. At the time she was an OFW in Hong Kong, she didn’t need me financially because she was making her own money. If I sent my wife money it was for her birthday/gift. I’m unfortunate that my wife handles her money well and has en entrepreneur mindset.
I completely agree with you. If I may add, DO NOT send her money if you haven’t met her in person. Second, if she can’t support herself (doesn’t mean she has to be rich or never get into financial trouble once in a while) do not even start a relationship. Trust me, that will save you time and money! Third, pay attention what she does with her money. If she’s irresponsibly spending her money at the mall, move on, bro!
Good luck, fellas 👍🏽
When I met my girl she never asked for anything, not one Paso. Over time she was thinking about going abroad to work in Dubai and I know how Dubai can be and I said look I’m not comfortable with you going there, I’ll make up the difference so you don’t have to. We video call 4 to 8 hrs a day since I run my business. Now her dad ran for politics and won but we found out he put his 2nd home up as collateral to run and yes he won. It was my girls childhood home. Me and her talked and we bought it cash money with renovations down the road. I’m saying yes when you find a good one, keep her. Yes not even her parents asked I simply made a gesture cause we plan on being together for life. She is one amazing woman
Have you met her ?
It’s good you didn’t let her go to the Middle East. They treat foreign workers badly and they take advantage of the girls working there.
@@One-12937 💯
@@Eric-qm5xw yes
@@TruckerBill0531 Lol not very elaborate answer…how long you been dating, you live in a different country ? Be careful..so many horror stories and not just with foreigners but with Filipino relationships. Good luck 🤞
Having experienced this I can say you’re spot on with your analysis. Very well delivered 🙌
Thank you kindly!
People will hate you when you stop giving them money. So don’t start to give out money.
That’s my grown adult kids!
I have a policy about sending anyone money. This is my policy. I never send anything to anyone for any reason, no exceptions.
Same
Same here.... I've chatted dozens of Filipinas online and via video (nothing serious). All of them have asked me for money. Some it was during the first time talking to them, and others after a few months of shooting the breeze. I don't know if it's innocent or a cultural disconnect, but I consider it to be rude to ask someone you aren’t in a relationship with and have not met in person for money. They ALWAYS have a sob story. I don't know if I'm being taken advantage of or not, so I don't send anything. Period. Not even a penny.
@@finalcountdown7658 The scammers are most concentrated online.
We are just rich idiots to them. They only need one man to send money to make it worth it.
Trying my luck in person soon. Be in the Philippines in ten days
What about giving if you see she lives very poor. Things are going good for you! Send them $20?
@@stevesilver7437That’s like eating just one peanut. It never happens
I agree with what you said. Second video I have watched of yours and I subscribed since you are honest and tell it like it is. Thank you for that.
I am of the opinion that Filipinos are the masters of making their vices look like virtues I believe this video is a prime example.
exactly l thought the same.
Some trade their stock in relationship for money. Others do not. They know what they are doing. Watch for misunderstandings, because these situations are more difficult to manage.
We are together 6 years.
We started as friends.
She has never asked me for a single piso and neither has her parents.
She is one of a kind and i treat her like a queen.
She is a province girl. 13 years age gap.
Did you ever send her money out of the goodness of your heart!
@@stevesilver7437 yes.
Once you understand the dynamics of the extended Filipino family then it all makes sense. They do what they have to do to survive and keep the family intact. That said a families needs is essentially unlimited. If it's not medical issues it's sending kids to college or school or helping repair the family home. There's always a reason and the reason always sounds legit. The real issue here is the family fails to save for their own emergencies and would rather on other members of the extend family. Its a form of wealth redistribution where family members doing well support the other members. 'Rich' foreigners that get asked for money are often just unwilling third-party participants in this game. Eventually they'll have to learn how to say 'no'. That's the only way you can make it stop.
Jou newer unterstand Asians wake up newer ewer find out haaaaaaaaaaa jou take the money from them not from jou from the Asians haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa I control al the money from
My wife not she haaaaaaa I win the lose haaaaaaaaaaaa
Yes,thanks for your advice its invaluable and your insite goes way beyond where most volggers dare to go 😮 congrats my friend.
Thanks for your kind words! I appreciate it. Thanks for watching!
My girl has never asked for money. If you have the means and the situation is valid, do what you feel is right folks. There are times that someone that only makes 5kphp a month might need a load or a few dollars for something. If you VC daily with your girl, and she doesnt make much, buy load for her. It is easy and 10 bucks for really a month almost of daily VC. Other than that, use common sense.
Very helpful information. Thank you. As a newbie expat in Manila, I'm watching your past videos in order to learn Filipino culture.
I'm glad you're finding my content helpful. Good luck with your journey!
The sad reality isn't that she asks for money but that she so desperately needs it. She was a single mom, the daughter of a poor farmer, they lived in a tumbledown shack in the province. When I met her online, I knew instantly that she was the one, so sincere and transparent, the kind who would be kind and caring and not give me grief. I loved her broad smile, her faith and friendly, caring manner. By day four of chatting I had to admit to myself that I was in love with her and I asked her to be sincere, the equivalent of going steady here. When she told me the impact the pandemic was having financially, well... how could I not help someone I cared so deeply about? She started calling me "Asawa" and I felt it too. I supported her and her family monthly during the pandemic and sending extra for emergencies. And after two years, when it ended, I rushed to her and married her. We transformed that shack into a comfortable 3-bedroom home where her parents and siblings can live and we're just completing a new 4000 sq. ft. home for ourselves in the next town. I never had any trouble supporting her, as her husband, it's my pleasure to do it anyway.
Becarful there Ami don’t feed ewer a paraseit the are not poor there a leasy tats all end
Here’s the kicker ..most foreigners date/wed province girls and the facts are they simply are poor. So before you date say a young attractive Filipina there’s a trade off. You have to be comfortable with the dynamics of this relationship..if your not, don’t date a poor girl. I really do not think most guys really have a idea of the hardships of the Philippines…it’s a fight to live/strive for your family. I don’t see a problem with supporting your partner if that’s what you choose ..but be prepared to support a plethora of family members too. I personally don’t like feeling like a cash cow…and the dynamics of a relationship should be not based on the stereotypical foreigner/young Filipina poor girl dynamics. But if that is what you’ve chosen, more power too you. Also not often spoken about is the joy of giving …sounds a bit feeble but if it floats your boat ..it’s a Christian way..to help others in need. And you will find in the phil’s that helping others is certainly a admirable trait just don’t be taken for granted.
Just found your channel today. Really enjoying your content. Well spoken and pragmatic points of views. Thanks you for contributing. I’m hoping to travel to Pi within the next year so thanks for the insights. 🙏🏾
Thanks and welcome!
If you're paying all the bills while your wife works to support her family, you're also supporting the family. And if you have a child, she should put her child's needs ahead of her nephews. Just saying.
I agree. Thanks for watching!
Agree ,,, that is same for me and my partner ,, if she wants to send extra to family then SHE earns that money ,, i am happy to pay all the bills at home etc and give her a basic living budget
I have learned my lesson the hard way a couple of times.
That is the sad reality, unfortunately.
When I met my future wife [RIP] she needed money, so I gave her some without being asked. In my current LDR my pinay never asked for a peso, but today she is taking care of her very sick mother and she quit her job to do so, thus she can no longer buy the SIM card needed to communicate with me.
There are A LOT WORSE THINGS than giving someone some money when they are in need. That is my opinion and if anyone disagrees they know what they can go do. HA!
I had a girl tell me her family was bad, never expected that
At least she's honest. They must be really bad for her to say that.
Thank you po
Giving someone your diploma will not end their stupidity. Nor will giving someone you money end their poverty. Helping someone overcome generational poverty is an endeavor that shouldn't be taken lightly.
Great advice, good videos, thank you
Glad it was helpful!
Another fake news, not some but most Filipinas ask for money!
Thank you for saying now I got it
But she is giving her self and comfort the man
I love someone from mindoro but she doesn't love me what she'll i do, I love her so much I want to get her, she is a very good lady
Weakling lol.
Kinda
It’s funny, you should say that the expectations on a foreigner are the same as a Filipino, then why is there so many Filipina’s with children, and no father around. Sounds like a crock of shi to me. I’m seeing girls barely legal in age with one to three kids. That tells me there isn’t any regulation on your own people. But when a foreigner comes all of a sudden he has to meet some crazy expectations. Plus the family sitting around, not wanting to go out and try to work with their hands out looking for a foreigner to pay for everything. That’s one thing about Americans. The vast majority of us know you have to get out there and work for what you want. Y’all something from us.
Meh. You're just looking at the absolute poorest people. You chose them online, deal with it. Otherwise, head to Makati or BGC and try your luck with a Filipina from an Upper or middle class family and see how you fare. I bet they couldn't care less about your passport or social security.
Im not spending everything I saved for retirement to save a bunch of people I just met that most likely didn't take care of themselves. Would they do it for me?
I agree. Don't allow others to take advantage of you. Thanks for watching!
Wow. Thank you for exclusive honest adult content) You have the best chanel on the web)
Thank you for your kind words!
not all asian culture is like this; parents support yes, but not for siblings, cousins, uncles, aunts and the barangay
The Lord loves a cheerful giver!
If you're so worried about your money guys stay out of poor countries!
Best to spend some time there and see how the other side lives 😮 trust me it will be a humbling experience
There are NO social programs, no food banks, jobs are hard to find, if your sick or injured you will die if you don't have money to pay😮
I'm NOT saying just send money lol
But understand you will see a need or may be asked to help if you choose a relationship with a Filipina.
Not everything is a "scam" verify and help according to your heart and your ability.
Agree whole heartedly..it’s mostly the cheap Charlie’s that go say the phil’s and moan about the money situation. They want the young girls ..but do not want the commitment that comes with that. Being in the phil’s surrounded by poverty ..is humbling, a good Filipina will look after her partner and there finances.
Not everything Is a scam, but a lot of situations are scams. Right ? Lol
I agree ppl shouldn’t complain, but I’m cheap and proud of it. I have a budget / savings plan and I stick to it
@@ThePhilippinePipeDream lol ya sound like the guy on the 26th ..we were getting cash out at bpi ..within subic freepeort , the Aeta roam around the freeport. They sell numerous foods, one came upto the car and I gave some money and without me knowing ..my gf also gave some money lol then a western guy said to one of Aeta ..”don’t look at me, I have no Xmas spirit” lol 😂
@@Eric-qm5xw
I’ve went out of my way to help family before and then found out they used the money to pay for my nephews car insurance and stuff like that.
I told my mom you led me to believe you couldn’t pay your bills this month, you guilt trip me into giving money and then you use it on something else.
What I’ve learned, ppl will always lead you to believe they are worse off than they really are.
The beggars and women know ppl like you are easy targets.
It’s none of your business how someone spends their money. But it makes you feel like you are better than other ppl, if it was just charity you wouldn’t be on here talking shit, a good deed only needs attention if you are a narcissist.
Sorry to change the subject... But is that Chipper Jones of the Atlanta Braves on the wall behind you?
Yes, it is! I am a Braves fan! 😊
@conservativefilipina I think I saw a picture of Tommy Glavin just below him... I couldn't tell for sure, but I saw a 7 on his jersey, and Glavin's jersey was 47. I live just about 210 km from Atlanta. My wife and I are also Braves fans.
@web4cad It is a magazine of Tom Glavin, and it is autographed 😃. My husband said he's been a Braves fan since 1987. Yey! Go, Braves!
Your commentary is a breath of fresh air in the swamp of PI youtube
Thank you! I appreciate that.
I have no problem with this..I lived in the Philippines and the minimum wage was 54 peso a day..that was $2.25 a day...those who have extra money should help others..I sent my 3 check from pandemic to the Philippines..$3800 total...i never had anyone ask for more than $20 usd..I dated a filipina for 2 years and sent her 27,000 peso a month..$500....if you can't help them than don't send money but those of us that make a good living then we should help them
That’s good of you! But if you are that giving you better meet her soon!
@@stevesilver7437 ...here is what people forget and it goes back many years ago.. when marrying a woman of any country it's important to pick a good family to connect with
How can your husband have all these baseball stars and not have Greg Maddox?? A lot of good advice. I think if I had a wife in the Philippines, I would want her to get a job and give any amount of her salary to her family. Her money is her money.
Greg Maddox is on the other wall 😆.
Hello! How are you doing? I'm a first time listener.
I'm doing very well! Thanks for watching!
@@conservativefilipina Walang anuman po
Ask once. That's all ,
Your husband is a very Lucky man I wish that was me
I think we all are thinking that!
Most women all around the world,
But still is it real or fake?!? Scammers say this all the time.
Sometimes she asks you for money because her boyfriend tells her to.
I've heard of this before. Just shameful!
My filipina is great in many ways but not in managing money or planning. Don't know if that is common.
I'm not sure if it's common, but I've heard of that before. I'd say 50/50. Some are very frugal, but others don't know the concept of savings. Most are willing to learn though especially when they start working and earning their own money.
Thanks for watching! I appreciate the comment!
Thanks for this. I met my Filipina online about a year ago. She had been working in the US as a chef and was in the process of going back there.
I made the decision to help her (she never asked) because I didn’t want her leaving the kids. I was giving her $1000 Australian a week (yes I know ridiculous amount) and at times she would ask me for extra, actual she would ask me all the time until I put my foot down.
I have met her three times, the first time not long after meeting her online to find out she was legit. We were in engaged to be married in August 23. We were due to marry early this year but I couldn’t afford it mainly because of the support.
As I have read some Filipinas are just into taking and never giving. I don’t think she’s a scammer but I haven’t done her any favours by giving so much support.
I don’t support her at all now. There’s an application for her to come to Australia with her kids, she has sold her car and and is living on that until she can come here.
My point is she was never ashamed of asking for more which is disappointing.
I would love to tell it’s because she had her hand out all the time is why I couldn’t marry her (financially) which caused her embarrassment and shame. But she would never admit to her always taking was the cause of the wedding falling through for now. So I would love to tell her you caused your own shame and embarrassment because of your shameless ability to keep on taking instead of considering the facts.
But I honestly think she wouldn’t be able to comprehend that. I don’t mean to sound mean but to me she has zero logical skills, which I think that’s just how she is. I don’t want to say the word but I will……primitive!!!
Another great video and great insight into the culture, Sister.
I cannot advocate for a wife going outside of the home to get a job to help her family, since I am Christian. For other Christians, having faith in God’s ability to provide is always the best solution. As Christ spoke of in Matthew several times.
We can respect other cultures as Paul did. Be all things to all people. But we can never prioritize the things of man over the ways of God. Our wordly struggles do not justify straying away from God’s design of women working in the home. And the man providing.
Maybe start an at home business in the spare time. Haha. As long as the home duties are not neglected.
God bless you.
You talk about worldly struggles but have you ever lived in a 3rd world country with no source of income and no help from the government?
@@penttimuhli9442 Worldly struggles is no excuse for ignoring God's will. I don't expect a non-christian to understand that.
You are from which city
philhealth will cover it, no money needed
My Filipina friend sent me a video of her child having a seizure. She was frantic and crying saying I don’t know what to do! I told her what to do and sent money to her to take her child to the emergency room. Her child received treatment and has been fine since then. I’m happy to have helped her and she didn’t ask for money after that time.
Did she show you a receipt? Sounds like a scam lol
A fool and his money will always be parted.
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sunk cost fallacy
Because they don’t have money
If you target poor women, that's what you get.
She is not placing the Filipino culture in a flattering light.
There's good and bad in the Filipino culture. I prefer to share both. Thanks for watching!
Some Filipinas? All Filipinas !
I know a lot of Filipinas who didn't do that. Please don't generalize.
@@conservativefilipina Saying “Don’t generalise” Is the weakest thing you can say. It’s the intellectual equivalent of farting.
there lazy and think entitled.