Gambling Addiction Stories: Caesars Palace

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  • Опубликовано: 25 янв 2023
  • A story about playing poker at Caesar's Palace, and developing an emotional attachment to gambling.
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Комментарии • 157

  • @triple_gem_shining
    @triple_gem_shining 9 месяцев назад

    Awesome channel!! Im glad youre finding healing and peace through psychedelics!

  • @ilovemarkblackcat
    @ilovemarkblackcat Год назад +26

    I literally just lost £700 this morning right after landing my dream job which ironically is in gambling prevention. What the f is wrong with me? It's like nothing will ever make me happy and I'm stuck with this illness despite how good or bad life gets. If that's true, doesn't it make you question the reason for living if you feel doomed either way? Yes I know I'm in control and I can stop in theory but why am I not just stopping? 15 years of the same cycle is driving me insane. I'm not even bothered that I lost the money this morning. I'm bothered that I caved again when I had ZERO reason to. I'm fukked

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  Год назад +3

      Sorry to hear that bro. That's pretty dope you landed a gambling prevention job. Are there any coworkers you can talk to?

    • @ilovemarkblackcat
      @ilovemarkblackcat Год назад +5

      Thanks bro. I started my new job today and came clean to my employer about my relapse. They were a little concerned but were appreciative to my transparency. They're putting me on an internal counselling programme which is great.

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  Год назад +4

      @@ilovemarkblackcat thats awesome bro! Respect for having the courage to be honest and transparent with them. 99% of people would be too afraid to do the same.

    • @royreyes6824
      @royreyes6824 Год назад

      Damn

    • @AnthonyHernandez-ft1jc
      @AnthonyHernandez-ft1jc Год назад +6

      The way I see it gambling is an easy escape from the real world. Money doesn’t feel real in casino. I’ve gambled my entire monthly salary on 1 bet. Imagine that? Feeling comfortable enough to place 160 hours of your hard working time in 1 stupid bet. Let’s face it some of these casino games are fun and sometimes sweating sports games is just as fun. That bump of dopamine you get from a winning bet has been described as similar to a bump to cocaine. Many times were aren’t concerned with the money won or lost. It’s chasing those crests and throughs that keep us in the game. Recovering from a gambling addiction is very similar to recovering from a heavy drug addiction. There’s nothing wrong with you awareness is the first step

  • @neilcassey1421
    @neilcassey1421 9 месяцев назад +1

    Very good video. It's interesting that your grief at losing that tournament was caused more by the way the other guy beat you and by missing out on winning the entire tournament than by the money you could have won. I always assumed that 'addictive gambling' was driven totally by money rather than competitiveness or 'status'. Either way, you deserve a lot of credit for being honest about how you felt at the time. We've all felt that empty deflated feeling at some point. Showing your emotional vulnerability in this way shows you to be a strong character. Good luck to you.

  • @lock462
    @lock462 Год назад +2

    Dude thanks for the video, the way you tell these stories is amazing
    hope to see more soon!

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  Год назад +1

      There definitely will be haha. Maybe I'll make it a series? 🤔

    • @lock462
      @lock462 Год назад

      @@DerekBearzi You could grab people from cassinos and ask for more stories too!

  • @sw4841
    @sw4841 10 месяцев назад +2

    What ruins our enjoyment of things is something called expectations- it ruins relationships, and ruins events so instead of enjoying a moment we expect this other person to be a certain way or we expect a specific outcome, and if we don’t get it, it ruins our enjoyment of that person or that moment drop your expectations enjoy the time you have simply do your best accept the results

  • @jasperdemuynck
    @jasperdemuynck Год назад +3

    Hey Derek, hope you're well bro! It's really admirable how comfortable you are with sharing these stories 👋

  • @davidsuggs3025
    @davidsuggs3025 Год назад +31

    I’m losing nonstop now. The expansion of sports betting has not helped.

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  Год назад +5

      Yea sports betting was rough for me too. I've managed to stay away but I'm still addicted to it.

    • @brandonraj7020
      @brandonraj7020 Год назад

      Sportsbetting is easily 5x harder than nlh.

    • @rtk7233
      @rtk7233 10 месяцев назад +3

      You gotta try harder, double down. I use a 3-team lock system every weekend, up 53k on the year.

    • @chetwalther-ep9zb
      @chetwalther-ep9zb 10 месяцев назад +9

      Don't give up studies show 98% of people who quit gambling were 1 bet away from hitting it big

    • @EasyMoney747
      @EasyMoney747 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@chetwalther-ep9zblol 100% not true, losing players will never win long term

  • @Moodytvllc
    @Moodytvllc 11 месяцев назад +3

    That’s how tournaments make you feel no matter what place u get

    • @Joe-hf3cn
      @Joe-hf3cn 10 месяцев назад +1

      💯% walk of shame😅

  • @mitchlucier8021
    @mitchlucier8021 5 месяцев назад +2

    Crazy how I look up a gambling addiction story and the ad before the video is for an online casino. So messed up. God bless you tho. And thanks for sharing your story

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  5 месяцев назад +1

      Bro are u serious? Thats wild, how u gonna show a gambling ad for an anti gambling video 💀💀

    • @mitchlucier8021
      @mitchlucier8021 5 месяцев назад +1

      Ikr brother. It’s wild. Keep up the great content tho. It’s definitely helping people. 💯. Much respect brotha.

    • @1jo_king
      @1jo_king 5 месяцев назад

      Same ​@@mitchlucier8021

  • @dingytv538
    @dingytv538 10 месяцев назад +8

    I am trying to quit gambling.. .but after hearing your story about how easily you made the final 3 and made some big money... I went down and cashed by paycheck and hit the tables! I lost.....

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  10 месяцев назад +2

      Sorry to hear that bro. Quit asap and pursue other hobbies? All the best my dude

    • @dingytv538
      @dingytv538 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@DerekBearzi For sure... and, this is suppose to be a video about helping people quit gambling and youre talking about how easily you won... strange

    • @divine592
      @divine592 10 месяцев назад

      @@dingytv538 you got it if you lost then a huge win is right around the corner just bet more money and you’ll get you’re money back and more don’t quit quiters never make it

    • @mangohavoc6428
      @mangohavoc6428 9 месяцев назад

      @@dingytv538don’t blame a RUclipsr making videos for your problems. I don’t care if your watching a video titled ‘gambling is awesome, you can win lots of money’ but if you turn around and blame a content creator for your bad habits that’s on you.

  • @24Cristiandiaz
    @24Cristiandiaz 10 месяцев назад +2

    I make a living playing cash games online, and I´m always aware of the risks of developing a gambling addiction. Great video!

    • @tv-21
      @tv-21 6 месяцев назад

      You're addicted

  • @TheBlackyoshi5000
    @TheBlackyoshi5000 9 месяцев назад

    top 3 in your first tourney, that's pretty impressive, you should be proud!

  • @tallyslapper9946
    @tallyslapper9946 10 месяцев назад +1

    Poker is the one game where you can run deep, get top 5 but not win, and be more disappointed then the first one out 😂

  • @JustKen57
    @JustKen57 Год назад +1

    Another good story video brother .. Stay blessed

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  Год назад

      I'm catching up to all your comment bro 😁

    • @JustKen57
      @JustKen57 Год назад

      @@DerekBearzi iits all good if u miss a few brother . Just here to support :)

  • @chengong748
    @chengong748 10 месяцев назад +2

    I totally agree. Once you taste the sweet and you are addicted.

    • @triple_gem_shining
      @triple_gem_shining 9 месяцев назад

      Avoid gambling entirely! And stack those chips through hard work and consistency (not gambling, but with work(job, business,etc))

  • @nicholasblakiston6297
    @nicholasblakiston6297 10 месяцев назад +4

    3rd place isn't bad, everyone loses tough hands. Poker's a tough game and tournament poker is especially brutal.

    • @joellemus8279
      @joellemus8279 10 месяцев назад

      I completely agree there is more studying when it comes to tournaments . Johnny vibes explained in one of he's videos how much more effort it takes to play tournaments long-term.

    • @charlesmartiniii1405
      @charlesmartiniii1405 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@joellemus8279it's kind of crazy. I've studied nothing but cash, and just played in a tournament yesterday. I was completely and utterly lost as blinds increase. My deep understanding of hands and preflop ranges went completely out the window. It's so different

  • @Joe-hf3cn
    @Joe-hf3cn 10 месяцев назад +3

    I can relate. He played u, not the cards... been there
    He had nothing, a lead out bet isn't as effective or scary as a check raise..the Ace was the perfect card for his play & guarantee you he's done it before just like that

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  10 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah I got owned Lol

  • @lc-bats
    @lc-bats 6 месяцев назад

    I’m done. Won a good amount and paid my phone bill and got fresh cat litter for my cat with some food. Never won again after, lost it all. I thought I could consistently play to pay bills. Things changed. 😂

  • @Darealmclovin47
    @Darealmclovin47 4 месяца назад

    This one time I tried getting a cash advance with my credit card and it got declined so I went outside to call my bank and it was a bot that was getting some information before transferring me to a real person. She sounded like Siri, and at one point into the call her voice got demonically deep and I couldn’t understand what happened I still don’t. I still think about that day and wonder if I was hallucinating. Half of me says I was hallucinating because I have no other explanation but the other half of me knows what I experienced was real. Idc if you read this and don’t believe me but I’m just sharing this with anyone who wants to listen

  • @igotadildoinmyassrnbut8104
    @igotadildoinmyassrnbut8104 Год назад +1

    bro got that mamba mentality he won bur it wasnt enough i fw it i hate to see a champ retired 😢

  • @EasyMoney747
    @EasyMoney747 10 месяцев назад

    If you ain’t first you’re last “ Reese Bobby”

  • @liljacky3039
    @liljacky3039 Год назад +4

    If you’re a gambling addict such as with BJ and slots then isn’t poker a great substitute as it takes a level of skill and there is a chance you can be profitable over a long period of time?

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  Год назад +4

      Correct. The problem for me was that poker was the gateway game which got me into roulette, blackjack and the other casino games. And even though I did moderately well in poker, I'm still addicted to the rush of anything gambling related. ☹

    • @2011blueman
      @2011blueman Год назад +2

      You're actually more likely to succeed as a blackjack card counter than you are as a professional poker player. With the advent of all the poker training websites and the collapse of the poker boom you're likely going to start encountering professional grinders as low as 2/5.

    • @michaelblankenau6598
      @michaelblankenau6598 10 месяцев назад +1

      ⁠@@2011bluemanNo way . Card counting is D.O.A. Casinos don’t allow anyone to beat them . At least in poker the house doesn’t care who wins since they’re guaranteed to make money from the rake . So you have some chance making money playing poker , but zero playing any house game .

  • @iceman5882
    @iceman5882 Год назад +3

    I gave that old guy too much credit...that old guy gave you a PTSD bro.

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  Год назад +2

      Lol yea 😝

    • @rtk7233
      @rtk7233 10 месяцев назад

      I was in a tournament with this guy a few years ago, I beat him out of a pair of tens with seven deuce off suit. When I showed him the bluff he started crying and i knew I had him, I think I took his Rolex that night.

  • @drdontpassone8164
    @drdontpassone8164 9 месяцев назад

    great story...............just found you..

  • @jamesoreoluwa
    @jamesoreoluwa Год назад +3

    am 22 years old suffering from gambling addiction 😢 this shit is hard than doing drugs. I'm up $800 gambling debts. it might be a small amount but no means of repaying. I keep gambling thinking one big win will clear them for me. I am honestly looking for a job but I can't get one because I am a student. please anyone out there that can help me with a side job I will really appreciate it. I dont want to do this anymore
    James
    Nigeria

    • @royreyes6824
      @royreyes6824 Год назад +1

      Damn man

    • @SEANPOL203
      @SEANPOL203 Год назад +2

      Gambling is a big problem in African continent too, we hear little about it in developed countries

    • @choklatechuck
      @choklatechuck 10 месяцев назад

      Spread them cheeks on OF. It's an honest living.

    • @Dmanz67
      @Dmanz67 10 месяцев назад +3

      Nothing will improve if you continue to gamble. It will get worse.

    • @Zak-jt6nk
      @Zak-jt6nk 9 месяцев назад

      If u can't beat em join em being a dealer is a great job work at a casino where they won't let u gamble if u work there

  • @tenzin3409
    @tenzin3409 Год назад +5

    I’m addicted to playing blackjack and go to casino every month losing hundreds, how do I stop?

    • @LowkeyMav
      @LowkeyMav Год назад +3

      Start investing the money you would normally gamble with. Helps chase something that’s a little more productive. Hope it helps! Worked for me.

    • @alexandruion7660
      @alexandruion7660 Год назад +5

      Find ways to fill ur time with other activities like reading or working out. It worked for me

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  Год назад +2

      +1 to Alex's reply below. Preoccupy your time with a new hobby. It definitely helps

    • @MrWesker00
      @MrWesker00 Год назад +5

      You need to find something else to do and stay out of the casino. Exercise, walks, video games, working. Been there done that. Blackjack is evil and has sucked tens of thousands, likely well over 6 figures in my lifetime.

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  Год назад

      @@MrWesker00 couldn't agree more

  • @byang3950
    @byang3950 9 месяцев назад

    Hay bro do you still gamble?

  • @havasuDon
    @havasuDon 9 месяцев назад

    Been gambling 50+ years. I estimate that I’ve put over 20 million on mostly BJ and craps bets over the years. I stick to games with a house edge of 1% or less. Lost just under 300k and had a blast doing it. Got tons of comps and free play to lighten the loss. Never played money I couldn’t afford to lose. My gambling mentality has allowed him me to make iinvestments that other more conservative folks may have missed. Self control and discipline are crucial to enjoy the gambling life.

  • @Ari_Adventures
    @Ari_Adventures Год назад

    Man i been sports betting through an online casino. I actually do pretty good..my problem comes from the live casino. I would continually take my winnings and try to double up on live casino and always lose. After i lose i tell myself broo just dont click on that shit. I promise myself over and over again and always come back to it. Its fkin ridiculous

    • @divine592
      @divine592 10 месяцев назад +1

      You can get that money back quick im sure you’re a smart enough guy you got it quitters never make it you’ll get it back and more I believe in you

  • @CoryMcaboy
    @CoryMcaboy Год назад +1

    Do you recall who the pro was?

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  Год назад

      Tbh I don't know exactly who he was. There was one year during the WSOP main event that he was doing really well and was on TV. So he got a lot of TV exposure. Wish I got his name!

  • @truthisthelight
    @truthisthelight 9 месяцев назад +2

    My man got the balls to speak up..

  • @joe-31
    @joe-31 10 месяцев назад +2

    pretty much

  • @Ty.Watson
    @Ty.Watson 6 месяцев назад

    As I’m watching this video, there’s a FUCKING fanduel ad that comes on. It’s a sick world we live in

  • @Krystaldoll282
    @Krystaldoll282 10 месяцев назад +1

    You went on and lot of detail of the game itself. It’s like you teaching the game of poker. But this is supposed to be a video about addiction.

  • @ImsunaSong-gw2gs
    @ImsunaSong-gw2gs 10 месяцев назад +1

    Well told story. You look like Keanu Reeves

  • @thebob5568
    @thebob5568 9 месяцев назад

    online and offline casinos are now rigged due to the advent of computers...the house edge was apparently not enough for these greedy SOB's!

  • @emmanuelvacakis4463
    @emmanuelvacakis4463 9 месяцев назад +1

    You lose 85% of all tournaments you play.

  • @Mitch_100
    @Mitch_100 Год назад +3

    Do you still play any poker?

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  Год назад +1

      I limit myself to $10 games with friends and family. I stopped going to casinos altogether.

    • @Mitch_100
      @Mitch_100 Год назад +1

      @@DerekBearzi cool. Dealing is risk free and can pay great

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  Год назад

      @@Mitch_100 dealing like a job? I remember when I was younger I always wanted to try it haha

  • @leech3333
    @leech3333 10 месяцев назад +3

    Does it still make you an addict if you are a winning player?

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  10 месяцев назад +1

      I guess not? But I was obsessed with gambling in general and lost a lot of money playing other games like blackjack, roulette etc.

    • @paulc3749
      @paulc3749 9 месяцев назад

      How many players are winning players consistently when the odds are never in their favour 🤔

    • @thebob5568
      @thebob5568 9 месяцев назад

      winnings got nothing to do with it

  • @dingytv538
    @dingytv538 10 месяцев назад +1

    Ummmm this was your first heads up tournament but you thought you had the most experience?? lmao

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  10 месяцев назад

      In terms of total hours/hands played. Yes by far it wasn't even close

    • @dingytv538
      @dingytv538 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@DerekBearzi If you have never played a live tourny before... I dont care if you have played 1 million hands online... youre new... its totally diff in person

  • @anteem3055
    @anteem3055 Год назад +1

    🙋‍♀️

  • @Dmanz67
    @Dmanz67 10 месяцев назад

    Snap all in on the flop in that heads up tournament situation.

  • @elasticharmony
    @elasticharmony 10 месяцев назад

    That is the truth in poker, you can't back down. I call that Everytime, losing in poker is equivalent to being weak.

  • @alexlosee5083
    @alexlosee5083 9 месяцев назад

    Donk

  • @nenadnesovic6999
    @nenadnesovic6999 Год назад

    1 part of this story doesnt add up. You play your first big tournament online, you finished 3rd in tournament and you dont remember how much you won? Truth is, if this really happened, for all days of your life you would remember 2125 bucks won on that night. And yes, EXACT AMOUNT. good story tho, it looked real until 9'00

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  Год назад +2

      Nah bro. Like I said in the video, early 2000's. So were talking like ~15 years ago. No way I can remember exact amounts lol.

  • @bkb04g
    @bkb04g 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hey just an idea: try to speak without editing every sentence together. I know it’s more difficult but you’ll get better at it and your audience will notice.

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  9 месяцев назад

      I actual prefer that and its easier to edit. But retention was way worse

    • @bkb04g
      @bkb04g 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@DerekBearzi interesting

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  9 месяцев назад +1

      Editing is so time consuming and annoying too Lol. I guess people like shorter less rambling vids? Idk

    • @bkb04g
      @bkb04g 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@DerekBearzi Maybe you just have to get better at storytelling. I know if I don’t focus I can ramble but the higher standard I hold myself too, I eventually improve to like 90% of my best ‘edited’ self. You do a good job at at least hiding the edits and blending clip to clip.
      Oh yea, what’s the best bb/100 and at what stakes and format have you posted online?

  • @emmanuelvacakis4463
    @emmanuelvacakis4463 10 месяцев назад

    Poker tournaments have a extreme variance. You lose 85% of the tournaments you play.

  • @2011blueman
    @2011blueman Год назад +1

    It's a $100 tournament. You're not at all describing a gambling addiction story. You're describing tilting, not addiction.

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  Год назад +4

      1 of many which spanned for years my friend

    • @thenima
      @thenima 10 месяцев назад

      Lifetilt

  • @rtk7233
    @rtk7233 10 месяцев назад

    I notice it's always the losers that have an addiction to gambling. The winners keep winning and losers call a hotline. There is no physical addition to gambling, just an excuse for weak players.

    • @DerekBearzi
      @DerekBearzi  10 месяцев назад +1

      I was a winning poker player for 9 years and an absolute addict. They're not mutually exclusive.

  • @markpicard5975
    @markpicard5975 9 месяцев назад

    Too much information about the gambling. Just quit.

  • @terrysteichen873
    @terrysteichen873 10 месяцев назад

    I play free rolls for points at wpt. That satisfies my poker cravings.

  • @lalalafayette3283
    @lalalafayette3283 9 месяцев назад

    You’re a Cornhusker