Hi guys! I just want to thank you all for watching. I did want to say when I refer to the term “haters” I’m not referring to those who didn’t support the go fund me or for those who have different opinions from mine. As I stated in the video we can all have a different view or opinion on something and all be right. When I refer to the term “hater” I’m referring to those who say horrible awful things that no one should ever say that aren’t worth repeating. I appreciate and value everyone’s opinion as well as constructive criticism. Xoxo 🤗
Kathleen Jamieson It’s not disrespectful at all. As she said in her video, it didn’t sit right with her and we need to accept that. Mindy is a kind person and maybe she felt bad initially saying no to the GFM. My opinion is that the “fan” overstepped big time in creating the GFM at all without her permission. Any heat that they’re getting is warranted and I don’t feel bad for them. I feel bad for Mindy and the hate she’s gotten over it. I respect her decision.
I’m sorry for what you went thru; people can be so rude. I started a channel last year, it’s been a learning curve as I previously had almost no experience using computers/camera or even social media. Someone left me the comment on one of my videos “THIS IS THE WORST VIDEO I’VE EVER SEEN”. Like, if you hate it so much, keep scrolling... why stop to hurt my feelings? SMH I deleted it because I don’t like the negativity and want to leave that space to be filled with the words that are constructive 🙂
Mindy, remember what Dr Phil said, do not address or change your path because of the haters. You don’t have negative intentions and those who have watched you for a long time, know that. If bullies wanna group together and try to stop good in the world, let them try. You do you girl! I’m proud of you! God bless you and Larry!
Oh Mindy those who know you and who have actually followed you from the beginning know that all those negative things aren’t true! It’s so much different than buying things, groceries, doing small hauls then having 20,000$ for IVF! So different. It’s not like your doing hauls from Gucci and high priced brands and then saying you can’t afford it! I definitely understand what’s going on! I love you and I always will your a true soul and someone that doesn’t spread hate into the world 💜💜💜 love you all Mindy&larry&lexi&luna
Wow girl such a true post. Mindy is so sweet. How can people compare groceries and hauls to IVF. People are so rude. Like if 20,000 was so easy to get just like that.
Buying groceries and Target items is so much different than $20,000. There is nothing wrong with people wanting to help others towards their dreams. ☀️💕
I was thinking the same thing. They have to buy groceries and personal items. Doesn’t mean they have money laying around. Everyone has to buy that stuff to survive
My thoughts exactly !! I am also going through a TTC journey and my vehicle recently broke (motor blew) so I had to buy a new vehicle. Some people made a comment that I shouldn’t buy it because I need to do IVF. I live in a small northern town in Canada and I need a vehicle to get to work .. so sadly it wasn’t optional. I actually feel so bad Mindy had to feel guilt about this. People from all walks of life deserve help .. in all types of forms. Sending love your way !!
You should stop giving the haters your energy. Just block them and move on. Most are not subscribers anyway. Jelousy is a serious disorder. Do you boo!!!
I agree, Maxine. As a subscriber, I don’t want to hear anything about the haters. Address them separately or block them. Don’t make the rest of us suffer or you will start losing subscribers.
I am going to be completely honest. I love you as a RUclipsr. The age gap drew me in but the genuine day to day, laughter and positivity kept me coming back. I did not agree with the GofundMe. I did not think you were begging for money(maybe others did), but it just didn't sit right with me and some of us expressed that. No issue with hauls ( in fact I love a grocery haul!) but the fan setting up (with best intentions) created something that, I think, made some of us question why someone, who shows us a comfortable lifestyle, would accept such a large amount from strangers when saving could have been done. I can see that it would have been hard to read and may have been construed as 'hate'. I think it was mainly frustration on the part of viewers who might not have expected the GFM outcome as it happened so quickly after the video. But as you said - you do you!
Thank you love and I completely understand 🤗 Yay haha so happy you love the grocery hauls those are one of my favorites to film. Xoxo thank you and I value your response❤️ Have an awesome weekend
I agree with everything you said. I really like Mindy’s videos, but the Go Fund Me thing definitely didn’t sit right with many of us non-haters as well. Mindy is CONSTANTLY shopping and going on trips, (which is totally fine and I actually love their trip and haul videos!) but seeing that makes it difficult for viewers to understand why they would need a Go Fund Me set up for them and why they would accept it so quickly. 🤷♀️ It’s clear that if they really wanted to, they could afford to do so on their own. Sure they might have to save for a while or get a loan, but it seems like they could do it if they really wanted to. There are many people truly struggling right now that it just seemed so tacky. This is the issue most of us “haters” had with the whole thing.
@@lacookie292 I think the RUclipsr world is a very different place. They see those who adore them and then they see those who don't (constructive or not). I agree with you and it did not sit right with me either. I will continue to watch and 80%+ of what I see I will love, however if something doesn't sit right with me or I feel the need to express myself I will call it out (whether I am 'right' or not). Sadly the world is not all rainbows and I do believe RUclipsrs should use their platform for the greater good (calling out the establishment, charities, BLM, progressive change). I would love to see Mindy build the courage to really show what it is to be kind and fight the fight for those who cannot fight it for themselves.
So just a side I feel people aren't considering: The same as a gift is received with gratitude and MUCH EXCITEMENT, by anyone of any statue. I believe everyone deserves the right to some friendly, kind-hearted....gifts. Just like if you were going through life and someone came out of no where and blessed you with $15,000 just because they'd seen your kindness poured out to someone. They were very capable of of blessing you, and wanted deeply to do so... again based off their appreciation for you. Would you refuse the gift simply because you were able to comfortably afford the coffee you drink or home you live in. I honestly don't feel like most people would. Most people would consider that uncommon kindness, but it doesn't make it impossible. Mindy and Larry were in no way begging or hinting at gestures of money (that I feel everyone can agree on). So I feel as though some of you are unwilling to accept that she, like anyone else, should be allowed to feel (ABUNDANT) Love, through gifts (words of encouragement, acts, or otherwise). They were not doing anything wrong by simply accepting someone's generosity. That is a human right. And for them to now not be able to receive that money, in that way, because of followers* who felt uncomfortable or more knowledgeable....seems a bit disappointing. Money is something we all need and use, but to try and weigh it out on a scale to make sure no one is getting more than they deserve in your eyes... I feel is more selfish and prideful than anything you all could notice in Mindy. At least just through a screen. You are not a hater and maybe you aren't really a supporter. You can view someone and judge them without feeling personally bad, but you should feel some responsibility for the pain you caused, the sting your words of judgment induced, and for metaphorically, guilting someone into believing (because of your view) they were unworthy or unjustly accepting the present they were just given...even though it was indeed a gift(something you don't have to do anything to deserve). So ending statement:Just because it ended in a way you agreed with.... doesn't mean you actually had the right opinion.
Reminds me of that quote... “You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world and there are still going to be people out there who don’t like peaches.” I support you Mindy (and Larry!) and I think you’ve handled the situation really well. 💕
I honestly can’t believe people, everyone finds every little thing to send hate. You can’t please everyone. You do you, babygirl! You have those like us who do support you. I love your videos, even if they are sponsored or have ads because I do know this is your job. ❤️
you have no idea how much you help some of us just get through even a moment in a day that feels impossible. I won't go into details but please just trust you've helped someone of us more than you could ever know. please don't ever doubt yourself. hugs.
I’ve been a silent follower for a while but I absolutely love and enjoy watching your videos! One of the biggest reasons I love this channel is because y’all are real and genuine. Don’t let the haters have you doubting yourself. You and Larry are great people!
Long time viewer here just wanted to say I absolutely love your channel it has become a place of refuge for me! Whenever I'm sad or just want to pass the time I come hang out with you, Larry, Lexi and Luna 😌 Mindy never forget that you have so many subscribers who genuinely care about you and your happiness! For some of us it doesn't matter what you do we just enjoy getting a glimpse of your life! I hope the negativities of RUclips don't take your creative spark away ❤️💕 Lots of love 🥰
You put your feelings over very well, dont take any notice of these people, you are a very nice person, Larry and your family are to. You didnt ask for contributions, as you say it was done in kindness of an individual. I love your videos, its good to see Florida, and other people away of life, very different from England, please don't stop filming it's great. Luv Barbara xx
Doing a grocery HAUL or buying clothing is WAY DIFFERENT than just dropping $20,000 for a very trivial procedure! Ppl really just want to judge and be bitter to influencers if they don’t post EXACTLY what that ONE viewer want to post. Be you and stay you Mindy. You are not selfish or being manipulative. You’re being honest and upfront with us. FORGET THE HATERS💖✨☀️
I absolutely love Mindy!!! The truth is...all of those thing like clothes, jewelry, coffee mugs, candles, make-up, and etc etc etc do add up very quickly and she could easily save the money. It’s not like she just very rarely spends money. She loves to shop and there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with that until accepting money from others.
I don't normally comment just cause that's not me, but I look at it like this, if you wanna buy whatever you want, then thats 100% fine, it's your money, it's your life, do whatever you want and people just need to get that or just move on, on a lighter note though, I watch every video cause it makes my days better, I get to check out of reality for a little bit while I watch your video, so thank you!❤
This is my happy place. My life is watching four walls, day in, day out from my hospital bed at home. I have chronic illness with chronic damage & pain. Your videos are my escape and that means alot. 💕
Yasss. Could not agree more. Mindy- You have a beautiful heart. You and Larry are honestly some of the sweetest people. I hope all works out for you both. You deserve to have the family and life you want. People will always hate. People purchase products from influencers or those they recommend. I would see my money much more well spent going toward IVF for someone who brightens my days! You didn't set it up and you didn't beg for money. You did nothing wrong. If people don't like it, they should just move on. Why people feel the need to say such things to anyone, especially someone who is not a close friend/family member, I will never understand. We need more, love, caring, and understanding more than ever. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything.
People are so quick to judge, and spew hate. There is no comparison of little hauls and the cost of IVF. Just know that many of us are like family to you. I for one, am willing to stand with you no matter what. You do you girl. Will forever support you, 100%! Love you, Larry, the kitties, and the whole fam.
My Sister Mindy: Because of you: -I excersise -My grocery shopping 🛒 is healthier; even though you are not physically with me; in my heart ♥️ I take you shopping 🛒 😂🤣😂 -I am eating better -Using Native deodorant (had arm pit surgery due to a mass) -Bought a kerguer coffee ☕️ maker🥰🥰 -Go to museums here in PR; -subscribed to Disney channel -try to be patient with hubby😣😖😫😩🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 -Because of you I have done so many amazing things......you are in inspiration to many of us....the rest don’t matter. “Pal carajo los demás “✊🏾🤭❤️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Love you guys....God Bless; Jessica...your número uno fan from Puerto Rico 🇵🇷 #lupuspatient #fibromaygialpatien #agegaprelationship20years
Follow Up: If anyone seriously thinks they don’t go into Target and buy stuff they don’t necessarily need, they’re kidding themselves. I live in Canada. I’ve gone to Target to buy EVERYTHING I don’t need when I’m in the states. YOU DO YOU.
Thats just shopping in America regardless. Unnecessary purchases have become so many peoples hobbie. Idk I shop for need. Not want. My finances love it too lol
Right!?! I can’t tell you how many times I’ve gone to target to get something like deodorant and end up with a cart full and no deodorant. It happens..... doesn’t mean I can drop $20K. Most people can’t and just because she’s a RUclipsr doesn’t mean she’s rich.
I only discovered your channel about two weeks ago but I could tell from the very first video I watched that you and Larry are very kind and genuine people. I find your videos to be very relaxing and so much fun to watch with a cup of tea on the side! What happened recently made me quite sad as I was excited to contribute to something I genuinely support. I can imagine how you must have struggled to pick the camera up after that but I’m very glad you did!!!❤️
A wise person once told me...Don’t give control of your emotions to people who don’t matter 😀. You do you girl! Don’t let others bring you down! Sending you hugs!
It allows you to see both sides of the pasture on either sides of the fence. But you cant please everyone mindy. This is you're journey that you're being so sweet to share with us to help and guide others that are in the same boat.
Mindy- Reading so many of the positive comments and support you have.....wow how wonderful. You are so brave to do RUclips in the first place and we all enjoy you bringing us with you on your outings. It’s like hanging with my momma and sissy on our girls day. We just went thrift store shopping and then to Hobby Lobby, Dollar Tree and lunch. We’re all different and it’s ok to agree to disagree on our differences, but respectfully. Supporting each other is so important. Love you and what you represent! Don’t ever change....we got your back!
Oh, Mindy. I’m so sorry people have been rude about your situation. People NEED groceries. Groceries are a normal thing to spend money on. And if you want to treat yourself occasionally, then do it! Spending few bucks here and there, or even hundreds, is NOT equivalent to $20,000. It’s almost impossible to save $20,000 up just from cutting back on occasionally spending money here and there. While people may have money for groceries or clothes or whatever, it’s not the same as having $20,000 lying around. That’s a lot of money and people should be able to help you out if they want because we all see that you’re a kind, beautiful soul. It shouldn’t of even been an argument. We love you so much, Mindy. We are here for you and appreciate you! I’m sorry you had to go through this, but it’ll make you stronger! XOXO, love
Mindy ignore the haters! As I said in the fertility video comments, I'm someone who is also going through this and the financial set backs, but guess what, I STILL SUPPORTED THE IDEA OF YOU HAVING A GOFUND ME!!!! why??? Because YOU didn't set it up, someone else did out of the kindness of their heart! You DIDNT beg, you openly said "not in the budget now" so for all we know you might have started to cut back on spending because you needed to save up. I Personally never saw it as begging. Just being open, like you always are! And as someone going through it I never thought "ugh, not fair. She's so lucky" I thought "good for them! I'm so happy this will finally happen for them! I can't wait to watch her pregnancy journey, I bet she will be so open about everything during her experience! IGNORE THE NEGATIVES AND FOCUS ON US WHO ARE ALWAYS POSITIVE!!!! I love you all so much! Keep doing what you do!!!!! I love watching EVERY SINGLE VIDEO YOU DO! there's literally never been one that I've said "eh not interested" BRING ON THE FALL HAULS!
@Bella I absolutely believe that as well, most everyone who follows Larry And Mindy are great, loving, caring, giving people. But I, much like Mindy do not like to "take" I'm a giver like her and I would feel as if I do not deserve it and did not earn it. If I had a RUclips and people sent stuff to a P.O. I'd gladly except gifts. But to just take money I couldn't do it.
@Bella I absolutely agree, I can just understand where she's coming from by not wanting to accept it. Honestly if someone had set me up one I'd feel a bit better accepting it, but I would never create one for myself.
@Bella I didn't say she created it. I know she didn't. And I think if people want to donate (weather she created it or not) is up to those people. If we are "living" a certain way due to job loss or whatever in this "hard" time, then guess what, DONT donate. As simple as that. I simply said I wouldn't create one for myself because you said "I bet if you create one" so I was simply stating I personally wouldn't create one... Because I see that as "asking for money" which I don't believe in, And I personally don't like gofund me, I feel there's better ways to collect donations (but I do think it was so sweet for the person to create it). Like I said before, I believe in earning money. But I in no way see this situation as Larry and mindy having asked for money. But as far as it being "right" or "wrong" that's for each individual to decide. Mindy felt it was wrong so she didn't. I personally would have felt it was morally wrong as well so I wouldn't have. Had she felt it was "right" or "ok" and accepted it she would still have gotten both negative and positive feedback. She did what she felt was the best option for her and her family. I wish Larry and Mindy would have accepted the donations, but they have their reasons not to and while I understand it makes the fans and donators upset everyone needs to respect their decision. If you still want to donate, send something to their P.O. BOX visa gift cards? Baby items (once she's pregnant I'm sure she would love to receive gifts) Everyone please be kind and while it can suck to have people not accept help just respect their decision and let them move on from this! Like I said before BRING ON THE FALL HAULS
@Bella no contradictions.. Yes, if I had fans and one set me up a gofund me I'd feel better about accept it. But no, I'm not a fan of GoFundMe, most people with GoFundMes are begging for money (but in casses like this, it's being used to help someone else) but what I mean by "I don't like it" is I would never set myself one up and there's other ways to make donations to people other than gofundme. Gofundme takes a portion of your money. There's other companies (don't know the names. But I know people who have used them before) that take none of it. But I would also never judge someone for making one. I absolutely believe they deserved that, if people are willing to give then I don't see how someone else has the right to tell them they can't. And no one has the right to tell them not to accept it. And yes the P.O. BOX. Maybe Mindy can state where to send stuff if people are interested. For people who might not know where to send items.❤️
Thank you for being open and honest. You don't hear of a lot of people who do RUclips be as open and honest as you are, which is very refreshing and appreciated. I love your RUclips videos, I look forward to watching your videos every week. ❤❤
I dont think any of those people making those comments were truly your viewers. You've gotten me through sooo much just by how honest and positive you've been. I love your channel. I love the hauls and I'd hate for you to feel bad about doing them.
Love how strong u are to say "I AM going to show u what I got from Target despite what people might say" and even acknowledging that decision that your making on camera. Good for you💕
You are love and light, Mindy, don´t worry about people who are so angry and unhappy that they take it out on you. They have to save themselves, all you can do is take care of yourself and your family. ❤️
First off some people have too much time on their hands so they channel their frustration through chat rooms, youtube, etc.. I personally enjoy info i get from your channel regarding food. You eat healthy and I have taken some of your meal ideas and tried them myself. I try to extract the positive. I'm a dude so i'm not here for the clothes you picked up today no offense, but what i do get out of your channel is food ideas and a genuine couple who only care about their love for one another. It's like clean air for a change.
Mindy, everything you said in your *car therapy* segment is 100% truth. I genuinely can’t comprehend how some people just want to see others be put down. You and I are the same age and I can truly relate to your personality especially with the intent of always wanting to make others happy. I think as we mature we are starting to realize you can’t please everyone no matter how neutral or unproblematic you are. Sharing your life with us is so vulnerable and yet you have welcomed your viewers with open arms. You have such a safe space for us to zone out of what’s going on around us and just enjoy the coffee routine/ kitty moments/ seeing Larry and the rest of the fam and ending the day rewatching a GOT episode or Harry Potter movie haha. If there’s anything to take away from this I hope you view it as a marker that from here on out you just live your life and continue to kill it out there in RUclips world💛
The only thing I have for social media is youtube I deleted all my social media and it is honestly the best thing Iv ever done it’s been a year since I ever had any it has definitely helped with my anxiety ❤️❤️ you go girl your a great person and make my morning with your videos lol
Sweet Mindy. 🥰 I found your channel a while back and have literally been binge watching your vlogs... Yes, even Vlogmas! Lol. You and Larry are absolutely freaking amazing, inside and out. Sucha sweet couple! Please never ever let those immature people get to you. Just like you said: “You do YOU boo!” Keep putting smiles on our faces and reaching for your goals. ❤️ Those of us who have fallen in love with you guys are praying for y’all! Thank goodness for notifications, cause I can now keep up with you! Lol. Hope you, Larry, and your sweet fur babies have an amazing weekend! Stay safe! Xoxo from Gunter, TX. 😘
Honestly I am glad you talked and addressing everything that was going on plus I hate it when people do that especially you .... I love watching your groceries hauls, heathy food tips, plus clothing hauls as well. I hope you&larry&lexi&luna are doing good and staying safe
I rarely comment but just wanted to say I love you guys. I work from home and work has been pretty boring lately and so my RUclips videos keep me company! So thank you for keeping me company and for being you and always bringing a positive message. It is much needed these days! I also watch thinking, "Could I do that????" And I'm sure there are many others who feel the same way and so again thank you!!
Girlfriend, I wasn't apart of the GofundMe thing and was so confused when the story came out on RUclips about the apology but when you addressed it and explained it in this video which I felt in my opinion like you shouldn't really of had too but I get where your coming from. People in this world are extremely ignorant and your the most genuine and ❤ loving person I know on RUclips. Its almost like I know you in real life. I'm hoping I get to meet you one day for sure. But keep smiling 😃 and I'm going to keep watching you. I can't wait for every vlog you post because it feels like I get to watch an extended part of my family. Love you guys! 😘💜💯
I just want to say that your “ haul” videos are my favorite ! You’re never going to please everyone, and it’s exhausting to try ! Be your authentic self , that’s who we all love ! ❤️
Mindy! I watch literally every video you post and I never comment but I am an empath & I could not NOT reach out after watching you in this video. Sister - I can’t FATHOM opening my life up publicly (the main reason I haven’t started vlogging and posting and it’s literally all I’ve ever wanted to do) ... so the fact that you DO is incredible, period. I’m sure you’ve had countless conversations and you’re so smart so you know better than to fall into the negative parts but you’re also human... so it’s affecting you. That’s ok! I just hate to see you hurting. Do not let anyone ruin this special time for you and Larry!!!! My husband and I are also trying for a baby and I had to have a special procedure that cost a lot of money also. It’s nobody else’s business where you get the funds to help your family achieve your dreams!! You have inspired and entertained MILLIONS of viewers ...... if we want to support and contribute to your family then that is PERFECTLY OK! Anybody who disagrees is a TOAD. (That’s what my friends and I call people who are awful) Cheer up, pretty girl. You’re more than deserving of everything the world has to offer. You’re a kind soul.... don’t let the dark people steal your light🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
I think there's a general air of divisiveness and hatred in the air these days. People are looking for someone or something to air whatever their grievances are. It has nothing to do with you personally. It's all about them. Focus on being your authentic self as you have been, all the people that love you, and rock on, baby!❤ When you get older, you see none of this ish matters.
I always look forward to your vlogs. "You do you boo" 👏😄 Btw you weren't "taking" from people. You're a giver, we want to give too!! You are such a beautiful person Mindy. I hate that people bully cowardly behind their computer screens. We want to be apart of your journey in many ways. Don't let ignorant people who make it their "job" to bully others bring you down. They are just jealous. Continue living your best life girl, you only get one!! Y.O.L.O. lol. Much love. XOXO 😘
Mindy-we all dont know you personally but what I do know is that your caring,lovable and all around a great person. I not sure how you could get so much hate. You keep it real and honest. Your genuine. We all like that. Who cares what you buy and why you get stuff. You have supporters that will be here til the end. I just love you and Larry!! also stop being you ,keep doing you Boo!!
Sweet, kind, loving Mindy…you are a caring, loving person…which as you said can be good and bad. What you are NOT is a self-center person…every time I watch one of your videos…you make me laugh, smile and feel better about myself. Do not stop being the amazing, kind loving person you are! Sending you, Larry, Lexi & Luna lots of hugs and love. Theresa in FL… PS You did an amazing job addressing the negative comments. 😊
Happy Saturday to one of the greatest and most light giving people in the world!!! I love you, wonderful lady. Wishing you all the best each moment, and I pray you know what a blessing you are! 💗
I don't believe in people hating on you, or treating you badly, but I do say that I think the fan overstepped by setting up a GoFundMe. Like you said, it made you anxious. I know she meant well, but idk, it felt weird to me. Needless to say, I love you guys, and your job is to do hauls and show your life and it's okay to spend your money how you want. You are such a great person, ignore the haters. Much love to you!
@@kathleenjamieson1914 I also said I love Mindy and do not believe in people hating in her. The fan overstepped because she didnt know how Mindy would feel, and it made her uncomfortable. It's not me hating on anyone, just me stating that we should just support what Larry and Mindy decide to do. Much love to you and I hope you have a fantastic day!
@@rum4285 Thank you! I try to voice my thoughts in a polite manner. I thought my reply was respectful so thank you for agreeing! Positive vibes from me always ❤❤
I'm glad that you are very open and honest on your channel because a lot of channels aren't that honest and open on there channels and it's great that you are using your channel to bring joy to people's lives. You are amazing and you have such a great channel and just keep doing what you are doing girl. I hope you have a wonderful day. I enjoy watching your videos and you are amazing .
Mindy, I have watched you a very long time. You are a genuine and kind person. I know it when I see it. It is obvious and that is why you have me (and people like me) watching you. My life is very hard and I have a safe place to visit and escape. We have grown people who use social media to bully others to tear down. It’s a sick and unhealthy way to make themselves feel superior. I know how much it hurts and it’s so hard to ignore because you want to be sure you are doing the right thing and since you are not a “hater” yourself you can’t relate to it. Now, you definitely did nothing wrong. Period. Hold onto that because you have sooo many of us who just love you. We are here and are supporting you through all of it. Talk about it with us and purge it out. My method of handling it. I gotta talk it away. Now, I’m going to tell you something my late husband always said to me...”It’s going to be alright”. It was magical and healing. He was the only one who could do that for me. So now, I am passing his magical healing onto you. It’s going to be alright even if it happens again. You are doing an amazing hard job. Thank you for what you do. Bless you and your family. Debra 💗
What Ive learned in almost 33 years is that you won’t be able to please everyone. There will always be a Wendy Whiner that thinks they can depict your life better than you. People hide behind keyboards and think they are the stuff with handing out opinions when NO ONE asked for them. What your viewer tried to do was a sweet thing, you didn’t ask for that. IVF is FREAKING expensive!!! I know because of people that have gone through it. I’m sorry Target hauls won’t save you enough money for it 😂. I love you Mindy, you shared something with us that you didn’t have to and mean people had to tear you down for it. Keep on being your sun-shinning self 🤗
I just don't understand how we got to this place of anger in this world. You cannot please everyone. I hope you continue living your life how you want to. Keep being you ❤️
Ohmygosh that is why I said only share what you feel comfortable sharing. Moving forward don't bother with the nasty people, meaning don't waste one second of your time on them. They thrive on hurting you and knowing they got to you. Focus on the good about your channel. Blessings to you and Larry ❤
I love you Mindy and I enjoy very much watching your videos. Thank you for being open and for sharing your life with us. You are an awesome human being. I’m so happy that you have your beautiful mama who loves you, Larry who adores you, your daddy and grandpapa. And we your fans and viewers love you so much. You do you and ignore the haters. ❤️
You do you boo. All I have to say is don't give those people the time of day. Or even let them know for a second that they allowed you to doubt yourself. Or even make them feel they were right in any way because then that gives them the ammunition to continue to do it to others. Don't change for anyone and as you stated you have one life to live live it as you wish and don't let them even for a second contribute to your life. ♥️♥️♥️
You and Larry do what makes you happy don’t let judge mental people ruin y’all’s happiness you’re real and you don’t have to hide anything!! At least you aren’t going out buying thousands of dollars of designer bags and clothes and millions of dollars of a mansion and crying out for help you inspire me just watching you and Larry I love you guys be you be real and no hold backs!! F the haters
Hey lady! I love you and Larry and I’m SO proud of you for speaking your piece on what happened. This is YOUR channel and you keep doing your awesome thing. I have to say...I’m not so sure anyone “hates” you. If they are watching and spitting venom, it’s because they are so JEALOUS of you! Some sad people just hate the success of others. Ps...those lip glosses are so pretty! Gettin me some! 😍🥰💗
Mindy, side comment: your deviated septum is fueling your migraines!!! My mom had the exact same problem and she had to get her deviated septum surgically repaired and it helped her migraines greatly!
It's so bizarre to me that anyone had an issue with the GoFundMe. 20,000 dollars is a lot of money, and a couple of target hauls aren't going to make any difference. Those that wanted to donate would and those who didn't, didn't have to. It's a shame.
Mindy everything about u is just amazing your kind, honest, u have 1 of the most beautiful souls I've ever come across ❤ please please don't pay attention to the haters u and Larry are amazing people who have nothing but beautiful intentions i been here since the beginning and im so honored to b apart of ur lives and i know all ur supporters feel the same please just block amd ignore them love u and ur family so so much ❤❤❤
I just want to say, I LOVE YOU AND LARRY!! I hate people are making you doubt what you’re doing. I think that was so sweet that someone tried out of their heart to help you and Larry have a baby. You should be able to buy things that you WANT. IVF Is so expensive so you spending your money once in a while wouldn’t even put a dent into an IVF fund! Just because you can afford a few things you WANT doesn’t mean you can IVF. I pray that it works out for you guys! I would love to see a little Mindy or Larry💗💗I hope you never stop sharing! I watch you and love you!!!
I never understood why the haters get so invested in someone they don’t like. It makes no sense?!?! Do they realize they are just making you more popular and paid 🤷🏻♀️🤣 We love you and support you mindy 🥰⚡️
I can feel absolutely everything you said here Mindy Thank you so much for opening up and sharing your feelings with us ♥️ Excuse my language hit this pisses me off that people would even go there with you. I have never everrr heard you complain about money or needing money . Your so right haters are going to hate. You going to the grocery store and buying things to live and cpl things you may want in no way shape or form can compare to thousands and thousands of dollars for Ivf. That's so sad people really had to go there and make what should have been a beautiful experience and a chance for people like myself who truly love and support you guys a chance to help and donate bc we WANT to. I love you guys Mindy and please don't let those fools stop you from sharing hauls or anything bc there are soooo many of us here that want to see your hauls and we know your heart and we support and love you guys and know you are amazing people. ♥️
Not gonna lie, when we were getting de-stress vlogs, I was a little worried what the future would hold, especially with you guys being so open and personal on your baby journey. I thought “those haters have pushed Mindy too far and now she’s done.” I am SOOOOO proud of you. Keep on keeping on and continue to do things as you have. You live in a comfortable home, you buy food, and clothes/ makeup. Oh the horror!! 😂🤦♀️ We love you because you walk to the beat of your own drum and you encourage others to do the same. Today is a new day and last weekend is all behind us. 😘😘 Side note: the sarcasm about buying detergent was my MOST favorite Mindy moment, probably ever. Sometimes you gotta roll with the hate and laugh it off. I have a 19 year AGR and my fiancé’s ex is our/my hater. I have to do the same sometimes. I could believe the junk she says and let it beat me down and essentially let her have control of me OR I can be proud and confident in who I was created to be, realize I have worth and focus on those that know the real me and love me for it. I choose the latter. 😉
I hope this didn’t affect your decision of using a sperm donor. Life pushed you in that direction for a reason, trust your decisions and most of us are here bc we enjoy your content and find joy in the 20 min escape you provide❤️
You being truthful about your journey is awesome. People think they know more when all they see is a half hour or less of your life every week. You and Larry are doing what is best for the both of you and not anyone else. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for being so transparent & vulnerable. I think that is what makes you & your channel unique. The internet can be so toxic at times, please don’t let the negativity bring you down. Wishing you & your family well from Ohio.
I'm so sorry that you and Larry were attacked and made to feel badly about living your life....that is horrible. You do not owe anyone any explanation as to why you're purchasing the items that you're picking up. I agree with another viewers comment ...having the $$$ to spend on daily life items and food is WAY different than not having $20,000 laying around to do IVF. You and Larry are such a beautiful, inspiring couple and bring nothing but beauty into our world ❤❤❤
I understand what you are saying, but allowing people to donate meant that you would take the option of not using a donor. As I mentioned before, since it’s not in your budget, I assume you did not save for this. Take low interest loan out on your home for $20,000. Sell items such as Harry Potter Collections, etc. Put the money from Larry’s RUclips channel in a savings account since he is retired. Just others ways to consider!
J P Yep! Just save like everyone else has to. Nobody needs that many jumpers, tracksuit pants, clothes etc! I think that’s what got under everyone’s skin! She is extremely materialistic. People don’t begrudge them doing general shopping like groceries and buying a few things, it’s the fact that she makes money from her RUclips channel, neither of them have to work (indicating they have ample money) and all the rubbish that they buy that makes people wonder why they cry poor! If you want something badly enough you save for it and prioritise your spending. Imagine how much money you could have saved buying only one jumper instead of half a dozen!!
I absolutely love Mindy and would watch her channel regardless. But I must agree on the saving issue. The shopping definitely adds up....coffee mugs, clothes, candles, trips, jewelry...it adds up fast. I’m a nurse who works very hard during COVID and am just trying to put food on the table and find the light at the end of the tunnel. There are some very hard workers out there that are busting their butts . She definitely loves shopping, and there’s NOTHING wrong with that until accepting money from others.
Lisa Layne Agree, even if the items are sponsored, she would be paid for those sponsorships and should have saved some of those funds. Also, the trips to Universal Studios and other trips I would consider excess if you were saving money. I agree that buying stuff & taking trips is normal, but not when you start taking donations or that it’s not in the budget! Thank you for service, being a nurse is hard work, but especially during these times it is physically, mentally and emotionally tough!! Prayers to you & your family! 💕
Comone guys. RUclips is her full time job-not only 1 hour/week hobby. It takes hours and hours to film and edit. You need to show something that ppl like, something new. Part of the youtube is showing hauls/collections/travels. People like to watch it, thus you have to "invest" to create this content.. Many youtubers invested more than got from RUclips (only if you really big with big partnerships it brings you money). More money brings partnerships with more "better" brands. To get thier interest, you need to first invest by yourself (and profile your chanel) in even much more expensive brands vs the ones Mindy shows. It is nothing bad, it allows you to focus on what you love-RUclips. It's the only way to make it goest if you didn't inherit fortune. Mindy I think you should clarify it, becuse seems that people lives in imaginary world.
Oh Mindy I hate how much negative comments you get. You and Larry both deserve the world. I've said it before and I will say it again your videos and your positivity is what got me through my daughters skull surgery and the week she was in the hospital recovering. It was the highlight of my week seeing your videos. We absolutely love you and larry and the cats. My daughter loves the cats so much and always gets so excited to see them in the videos and tries to hug them. We love love love you!!! I pray all your wishes come true and stay true to yourself. You are such a beautiful person inside and out. 💜
Mindy I think you did an absolutely perfect job opening up to us . I am also a very empathetic person and I take in so much from others. Sometimes I find it hard for my self to release and express my emotion. Thank you for being so transparent. You should be proud of yourself ! You are a bright young adult who I admire. I think I have about 10 years on you !! I watch all your videos and you just give off such a relaxing vibe you put me in my zen place . Keep doing what your doing your supports love you 💗❤️
Some humans are idiots. They hide behind a keyboard, typing things to hurt other humans. They do this because their own lives are horrible, and they need to create conflict in hopes it will give them some attention.
Kelli your so right! And I was telling my sister yesterday that people are getting worse yesturday I was at Walmart I asked the lady to double bag she said NO! Because our bags are made stronger now well my italuan temper surfaced and I told her I just spent 80 bucks and you are going to go nuts over 4 extra bags i told her you either double bag or keep your food she slammed my bananas in the bag and said ridiculous thats when I had enough the mananger was then called and I had to explain about the 4 extra bags he looked at her and said if she wanted 10 bags you give them to her and told her to go on a break! Unbelievable! People can SUCK and i truly don't know what makes them tic!! Hugs sweetie have a beautiful wk.end..☺✌❤👋
So the viewers who did not support the Go fund me are "haters" (while some may be, I don't agree all are haters) she claims to be an "empath" but is so angry she decided to shut down the Go fund me she lacks the ability to understand why some thought the Go fund me was not morally right.
Girl, you have enough of us that love you that those couple haters doesn’t even count. We pray for you and Larry every day on your baby journey and just in every day life. Just because you purchase stuff doesn’t mean you have an extra 10-20 grand laying around. I know I purchase stuff often but I don’t just have 10 grand pocket change! Don’t let them get to you. You keep doing you and never change. I love you and Larry! 🥰
I love when you get raw and tell people how it is. It’s a great reminder to us all to stop judging so harshly. I felt it when you were talking. I’m not one to hate, in fact I just don’t do it online, but I have my moments in real life with my family and sometimes we need to hear it and to just stop with that crap.
All we need is love and positive vibes here ❤ To all the haters there's no room for you here😊 MINDY we love you coz we can see your beautiful heart you have bless you darling❤ dont worry about the haters 😏
Girl that is what go fund me’s are. They are for people who NEED the help or need assistance. I don’t think you should have deleted it. We would love to be apart of this journey with you and Larry and even pitching in a dollar would make me feel so excited.
Please please don’t let those kind of people get you down! I love your honesty! Yours and Larry’s vlogs are such a calming presence during these tumultuous times. Take care of those sweet kitty girls and you and Larry. Sending nothing but good vibes!
In the end girly, you and Larry deserve a baby regardless of how you get it, the cost, the things you’ll have to go through, whether or not y’all accept donations, whatever... it’s so sick to think people don’t believe the same thing. You guys will be amazing parents and I know it’s going to happen for you guys, it has to. You deserve all the love and support, not hate. I’m pregnant after a 20 week loss in March - I can’t tell you how bad I wanted it. I can only imagine how bad you guys want it!! We use the same laundry detergent btw and it’s fantastic! Love you, and love Larry and will forever be a supporter.
Those people must not understand how expensive fertility doctors are! Just because you are a RUclipsr people think everyone automatically becomes a millionaire. I hope you cheer up! Virtual Hugs 💕
As the idiom goes, A path to Hell is paved with good intentions...the collaboration(Mindy approved it) between the fan and Mindy for the Gofundme was intended to be kind cash gifts from subs/fans , in reality it was donations on a site meant to help people in a financial deficiency .Mindy and Larry should have had the wisdom and life experience to know the Gofundme was a bad idea, but they put their stamp of approval on it. But they did the right thing in the end.
Mindy, so well said. I love starting my day with you and I’m thankful you are still here. So much of what you said I can relate to, I think we would be such good friends in real life. I’m sorry for everything you went through, you were in a tough position and you handled it so well. 💖💖
Hey Mindy....you dropped this 👑 Please don’t stop doing what you love!!! You have an amazing soul and so many people (including myself) watch your videos as an inspiration! You are a queen ❤️
There's a huge difference between having the money to go spend $100 at Target and having the money to drop $20,000 on IVF. Just because someone can spend money on clothing and other "non-essential" stuff doesn't mean they can afford something as expensive as IVF.
Mindy- I actually adore you and I am a fan and I am so excited to see this journey.... but the go fund me felt tacky to me and I didn’t agree... people are allowed to have different opinions with out being labeled a “hater” it’s called disagreeing!! And we’re all adults it’s okay to disagree I promise
Aw thank you! Exactly I completely agree. There’s a difference between haters and a difference of opinion which I also went over in the video. Just because someone’s opinion is different then yours or mine or someone else’s that doesn’t mean it’s wrong❤️🤗
Yes, thank you! There's a difference between openly insulting someone because of their decisions and then there's people that disagree. Just because someone has a different perspective or opinion doesn't mean that it's wrong.
Oh sweet Mindy . Don't let ANYONE ever make you second guess who you are. Anyone who know you and Larry know who you guys are and how incredible you are. Being someone who struggled for 3 yrs to get pregnant my heart goes out to you. Unless you have been through it no one can truly understand. Just focus on whats best for you and Larry. You don't owe Anyone a explanation ♡ we all love you guys sooo much and sooooo many are on your side and have your backs always 😊.
Do not worry about them mindy! Live your life the best you can.... Life is beautiful....if some are rude, disrespecful....That is not your problem.. Always smile and be joyful! Take care of you and larry baby!
Hey these ppl talking about your money they don’t pay your bills so they can just shut your face. I’m a surrogate it’s not cheap to go through IVF. I’m glad you are going to keep doing you.
So thankful you're open with us!! This is how we connect! There are many people that haven't yet realized, they pick others apart to make themselves feel better about their own shortcomings. I think we all do it at times, hopefully we all get better as time goes on. Appreciate your videos so much! They bring me and many others joy and a much needed distraction! Sending positive vibes to you from another empath!
Thank you for being you! It’s what I love about your videos. It’s hard not letting people get in your head when you just want everyone to be happy. I deal with it daily and I’m happy your able to push through it.
Hi guys! I just want to thank you all for watching. I did want to say when I refer to the term “haters” I’m not referring to those who didn’t support the go fund me or for those who have different opinions from mine. As I stated in the video we can all have a different view or opinion on something and all be right. When I refer to the term “hater” I’m referring to those who say horrible awful things that no one should ever say that aren’t worth repeating. I appreciate and value everyone’s opinion as well as constructive criticism. Xoxo 🤗
Kathleen Jamieson It’s not disrespectful at all. As she said in her video, it didn’t sit right with her and we need to accept that. Mindy is a kind person and maybe she felt bad initially saying no to the GFM. My opinion is that the “fan” overstepped big time in creating the GFM at all without her permission. Any heat that they’re getting is warranted and I don’t feel bad for them. I feel bad for Mindy and the hate she’s gotten over it. I respect her decision.
girl no need to super simplify the meaning of a hater we totally get it and f them haters. we love you!!
We love you,larry and the kitties!!
I’m sorry for what you went thru; people can be so rude. I started a channel last year, it’s been a learning curve as I previously had almost no experience using computers/camera or even social media. Someone left me the comment on one of my videos “THIS IS THE WORST VIDEO I’VE EVER SEEN”. Like, if you hate it so much, keep scrolling... why stop to hurt my feelings? SMH I deleted it because I don’t like the negativity and want to leave that space to be filled with the words that are constructive 🙂
You are loved. Haters need to do bad things to feel better about themselves.
Madonna has a good quote, "If you don't like me, but still watch everything I do, you're a fan!" lol
Love this quote!
Exactly!!!! LOL! Love this! 🙌🏻😂❤️
That is awesome quote!
ha, Sarah that is an appropriate quote here!
@Tolkien!Fan I have read about 5 of your troll comments on here, I hope MIndy bans you
Mindy, remember what Dr Phil said, do not address or change your path because of the haters. You don’t have negative intentions and those who have watched you for a long time, know that. If bullies wanna group together and try to stop good in the world, let them try. You do you girl! I’m proud of you! God bless you and Larry!
Thank you love! We must not forget the wise words of Dr. Phil🤗
Oh Mindy those who know you and who have actually followed you from the beginning know that all those negative things aren’t true! It’s so much different than buying things, groceries, doing small hauls then having 20,000$ for IVF! So different. It’s not like your doing hauls from Gucci and high priced brands and then saying you can’t afford it! I definitely understand what’s going on! I love you and I always will your a true soul and someone that doesn’t spread hate into the world 💜💜💜 love you all Mindy&larry&lexi&luna
Wow girl such a true post. Mindy is so sweet. How can people compare groceries and hauls to IVF. People are so rude. Like if 20,000 was so easy to get just like that.
You’re right it’s very different. Thank you for your love & support🥰 We love you too!
Natali Phillips thank you! 🖤
Mindy Minx always... 🖤
This is the perfect comment and she’s 💯 correct!
Buying groceries and Target items is so much different than $20,000. There is nothing wrong with people wanting to help others towards their dreams. ☀️💕
Yes! My sister owes 100K and sadly no success
Exactly this!
Amen!! I love this!! 🙌🙌🙌
I was thinking the same thing. They have to buy groceries and personal items. Doesn’t mean they have money laying around. Everyone has to buy that stuff to survive
My thoughts exactly !! I am also going through a TTC journey and my vehicle recently broke (motor blew) so I had to buy a new vehicle. Some people made a comment that I shouldn’t buy it because I need to do IVF. I live in a small northern town in Canada and I need a vehicle to get to work .. so sadly it wasn’t optional. I actually feel so bad Mindy had to feel guilt about this. People from all walks of life deserve help .. in all types of forms. Sending love your way !!
You should stop giving the haters your energy. Just block them and move on. Most are not subscribers anyway. Jelousy is a serious disorder. Do you boo!!!
Thank you gorgeous 🥰
I agree, Maxine. As a subscriber, I don’t want to hear anything about the haters. Address them separately or block them. Don’t make the rest of us suffer or you will start losing subscribers.
Maxine Brown great advice👍😊
I am going to be completely honest. I love you as a RUclipsr. The age gap drew me in but the genuine day to day, laughter and positivity kept me coming back. I did not agree with the GofundMe. I did not think you were begging for money(maybe others did), but it just didn't sit right with me and some of us expressed that. No issue with hauls ( in fact I love a grocery haul!) but the fan setting up (with best intentions) created something that, I think, made some of us question why someone, who shows us a comfortable lifestyle, would accept such a large amount from strangers when saving could have been done. I can see that it would have been hard to read and may have been construed as 'hate'. I think it was mainly frustration on the part of viewers who might not have expected the GFM outcome as it happened so quickly after the video. But as you said - you do you!
Thank you love and I completely understand 🤗 Yay haha so happy you love the grocery hauls those are one of my favorites to film. Xoxo thank you and I value your response❤️ Have an awesome weekend
@@MindyMinx same to you and thank you for taking the time to reply. 😊
I agree with everything you said. I really like Mindy’s videos, but the Go Fund Me thing definitely didn’t sit right with many of us non-haters as well. Mindy is CONSTANTLY shopping and going on trips, (which is totally fine and I actually love their trip and haul videos!) but seeing that makes it difficult for viewers to understand why they would need a Go Fund Me set up for them and why they would accept it so quickly. 🤷♀️ It’s clear that if they really wanted to, they could afford to do so on their own. Sure they might have to save for a while or get a loan, but it seems like they could do it if they really wanted to. There are many people truly struggling right now that it just seemed so tacky. This is the issue most of us “haters” had with the whole thing.
@@lacookie292 I think the RUclipsr world is a very different place. They see those who adore them and then they see those who don't (constructive or not). I agree with you and it did not sit right with me either. I will continue to watch and 80%+ of what I see I will love, however if something doesn't sit right with me or I feel the need to express myself I will call it out (whether I am 'right' or not). Sadly the world is not all rainbows and I do believe RUclipsrs should use their platform for the greater good (calling out the establishment, charities, BLM, progressive change). I would love to see Mindy build the courage to really show what it is to be kind and fight the fight for those who cannot fight it for themselves.
So just a side I feel people aren't considering: The same as a gift is received with gratitude and MUCH EXCITEMENT, by anyone of any statue. I believe everyone deserves the right to some friendly, kind-hearted....gifts. Just like if you were going through life and someone came out of no where and blessed you with $15,000 just because they'd seen your kindness poured out to someone. They were very capable of of blessing you, and wanted deeply to do so... again based off their appreciation for you. Would you refuse the gift simply because you were able to comfortably afford the coffee you drink or home you live in. I honestly don't feel like most people would. Most people would consider that uncommon kindness, but it doesn't make it impossible. Mindy and Larry were in no way begging or hinting at gestures of money (that I feel everyone can agree on). So I feel as though some of you are unwilling to accept that she, like anyone else, should be allowed to feel (ABUNDANT) Love, through gifts (words of encouragement, acts, or otherwise). They were not doing anything wrong by simply accepting someone's generosity. That is a human right. And for them to now not be able to receive that money, in that way, because of followers* who felt uncomfortable or more knowledgeable....seems a bit disappointing. Money is something we all need and use, but to try and weigh it out on a scale to make sure no one is getting more than they deserve in your eyes... I feel is more selfish and prideful than anything you all could notice in Mindy. At least just through a screen. You are not a hater and maybe you aren't really a supporter. You can view someone and judge them without feeling personally bad, but you should feel some responsibility for the pain you caused, the sting your words of judgment induced, and for metaphorically, guilting someone into believing (because of your view) they were unworthy or unjustly accepting the present they were just given...even though it was indeed a gift(something you don't have to do anything to deserve).
So ending statement:Just because it ended in a way you agreed with.... doesn't mean you actually had the right opinion.
Reminds me of that quote... “You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world and there are still going to be people out there who don’t like peaches.”
I support you Mindy (and Larry!) and I think you’ve handled the situation really well. 💕
I honestly can’t believe people, everyone finds every little thing to send hate. You can’t please everyone. You do you, babygirl! You have those like us who do support you. I love your videos, even if they are sponsored or have ads because I do know this is your job. ❤️
you have no idea how much you help some of us just get through even a moment in a day that feels impossible. I won't go into details but please just trust you've helped someone of us more than you could ever know. please don't ever doubt yourself. hugs.
I’ve been a silent follower for a while but I absolutely love and enjoy watching your videos! One of the biggest reasons I love this channel is because y’all are real and genuine. Don’t let the haters have you doubting yourself. You and Larry are great people!
Long time viewer here just wanted to say I absolutely love your channel it has become a place of refuge for me! Whenever I'm sad or just want to pass the time I come hang out with you, Larry, Lexi and Luna 😌 Mindy never forget that you have so many subscribers who genuinely care about you and your happiness! For some of us it doesn't matter what you do we just enjoy getting a glimpse of your life! I hope the negativities of RUclips don't take your creative spark away ❤️💕 Lots of love 🥰
Aw thank you so much love 🥰
This. 👏
You put your feelings over very well, dont take any notice of these people, you are a very nice person, Larry and your family are to. You didnt ask for contributions, as you say it was done in kindness of an individual. I love your videos, its good to see Florida, and other people away of life, very different from England, please don't stop filming it's great. Luv Barbara xx
Mindy is a refuge definitely. I do the same when I'm feeling crap. Watch all the old videos. It's garenteed to make me feel better 🤗
Doing a grocery HAUL or buying clothing is WAY DIFFERENT than just dropping $20,000 for a very trivial procedure! Ppl really just want to judge and be bitter to influencers if they don’t post EXACTLY what that ONE viewer want to post. Be you and stay you Mindy. You are not selfish or being manipulative. You’re being honest and upfront with us. FORGET THE HATERS💖✨☀️
So true. Thanks love🤗
I absolutely love Mindy!!! The truth is...all of those thing like clothes, jewelry, coffee mugs, candles, make-up, and etc etc etc do add up very quickly and she could easily save the money. It’s not like she just very rarely spends money. She loves to shop and there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with that until accepting money from others.
I don't normally comment just cause that's not me, but I look at it like this, if you wanna buy whatever you want, then thats 100% fine, it's your money, it's your life, do whatever you want and people just need to get that or just move on, on a lighter note though, I watch every video cause it makes my days better, I get to check out of reality for a little bit while I watch your video, so thank you!❤
Mindy, you are such a beautiful person, don’t let these miserable people kill the fire in you.
you are also so beautiful
This is my happy place. My life is watching four walls, day in, day out from my hospital bed at home. I have chronic illness with chronic damage & pain. Your videos are my escape and that means alot. 💕
coffee in hand, and watching your vlog!!! best way to start the weekend☺️ Hope you and Larry have a great weekend!!!
Yay! Love it!
Me 2 girlfriend
Yasss. Could not agree more. Mindy- You have a beautiful heart. You and Larry are honestly some of the sweetest people. I hope all works out for you both. You deserve to have the family and life you want. People will always hate. People purchase products from influencers or those they recommend. I would see my money much more well spent going toward IVF for someone who brightens my days! You didn't set it up and you didn't beg for money. You did nothing wrong. If people don't like it, they should just move on. Why people feel the need to say such things to anyone, especially someone who is not a close friend/family member, I will never understand. We need more, love, caring, and understanding more than ever. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything.
People are so quick to judge, and spew hate. There is no comparison of little hauls and the cost of IVF. Just know that many of us are like family to you. I for one, am willing to stand with you no matter what. You do you girl. Will forever support you, 100%!
Love you, Larry, the kitties, and the whole fam.
My Sister Mindy:
Because of you:
-I excersise
-My grocery shopping 🛒 is healthier; even though you are not physically with me; in my heart ♥️ I take you shopping 🛒 😂🤣😂
-I am eating better
-Using Native deodorant (had arm pit surgery due to a mass)
-Bought a kerguer coffee ☕️ maker🥰🥰
-Go to museums here in PR;
-subscribed to Disney channel
-try to be patient with hubby😣😖😫😩🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
-Because of you I have done so many amazing things......you are in inspiration to many of us....the rest don’t matter.
“Pal carajo los demás “✊🏾🤭❤️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love you guys....God Bless; Jessica...your número uno fan from Puerto Rico 🇵🇷
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This truly melts my heart and helps me realize that I’m making a positive impact 🤗❤️ Thank you so much for sharing this with me❤️ Xoxoxoxo
♥️; pa lante!!!; I will always have your back no matter what!!; keep doing what you do best; just being your amazing self. Te quiero mucho ♥️♥️
This comment is so sweet! It made me smile. God bless you ♥️
Follow Up: If anyone seriously thinks they don’t go into Target and buy stuff they don’t necessarily need, they’re kidding themselves. I live in Canada. I’ve gone to Target to buy EVERYTHING I don’t need when I’m in the states. YOU DO YOU.
Thats just shopping in America regardless. Unnecessary purchases have become so many peoples hobbie. Idk I shop for need. Not want. My finances love it too lol
Breanna Simmons preach, girl! Also a Canadian here, and I’ve done the same maaaaaany times. Ok, every time lol.
Right!?! I can’t tell you how many times I’ve gone to target to get something like deodorant and end up with a cart full and no deodorant. It happens..... doesn’t mean I can drop $20K. Most people can’t and just because she’s a RUclipsr doesn’t mean she’s rich.
I love you guys somebody is always going to judge and I always have to get something I love to shop there’s nothing wrong with it
Omg I miss target sooooo much! I wanted to head over the border just to get into target but alas that won’t happen for a while
I only discovered your channel about two weeks ago but I could tell from the very first video I watched that you and Larry are very kind and genuine people. I find your videos to be very relaxing and so much fun to watch with a cup of tea on the side! What happened recently made me quite sad as I was excited to contribute to something I genuinely support. I can imagine how you must have struggled to pick the camera up after that but I’m very glad you did!!!❤️
A wise person once told me...Don’t give control of your emotions to people who don’t matter 😀. You do you girl! Don’t let others bring you down! Sending you hugs!
It allows you to see both sides of the pasture on either sides of the fence. But you cant please everyone mindy. This is you're journey that you're being so sweet to share with us to help and guide others that are in the same boat.
Mindy- Reading so many of the positive comments and support you have.....wow how wonderful. You are so brave to do RUclips in the first place and we all enjoy you bringing us with you on your outings. It’s like hanging with my momma and sissy on our girls day. We just went thrift store shopping and then to Hobby Lobby, Dollar Tree and lunch. We’re all different and it’s ok to agree to disagree on our differences, but respectfully. Supporting each other is so important. Love you and what you represent! Don’t ever change....we got your back!
Oh, Mindy. I’m so sorry people have been rude about your situation. People NEED groceries. Groceries are a normal thing to spend money on. And if you want to treat yourself occasionally, then do it! Spending few bucks here and there, or even hundreds, is NOT equivalent to $20,000. It’s almost impossible to save $20,000 up just from cutting back on occasionally spending money here and there. While people may have money for groceries or clothes or whatever, it’s not the same as having $20,000 lying around. That’s a lot of money and people should be able to help you out if they want because we all see that you’re a kind, beautiful soul. It shouldn’t of even been an argument. We love you so much, Mindy. We are here for you and appreciate you! I’m sorry you had to go through this, but it’ll make you stronger! XOXO, love
Mindy ignore the haters!
As I said in the fertility video comments, I'm someone who is also going through this and the financial set backs, but guess what, I STILL SUPPORTED THE IDEA OF YOU HAVING A GOFUND ME!!!! why??? Because YOU didn't set it up, someone else did out of the kindness of their heart! You DIDNT beg, you openly said "not in the budget now" so for all we know you might have started to cut back on spending because you needed to save up. I Personally never saw it as begging. Just being open, like you always are! And as someone going through it I never thought "ugh, not fair. She's so lucky" I thought "good for them! I'm so happy this will finally happen for them! I can't wait to watch her pregnancy journey, I bet she will be so open about everything during her experience!
IGNORE THE NEGATIVES AND FOCUS ON US WHO ARE ALWAYS POSITIVE!!!!
I love you all so much! Keep doing what you do!!!!! I love watching EVERY SINGLE VIDEO YOU DO! there's literally never been one that I've said "eh not interested" BRING ON THE FALL HAULS!
@Bella I absolutely believe that as well, most everyone who follows Larry And Mindy are great, loving, caring, giving people. But I, much like Mindy do not like to "take" I'm a giver like her and I would feel as if I do not deserve it and did not earn it.
If I had a RUclips and people sent stuff to a P.O. I'd gladly except gifts. But to just take money I couldn't do it.
@Bella I absolutely agree, I can just understand where she's coming from by not wanting to accept it.
Honestly if someone had set me up one I'd feel a bit better accepting it, but I would never create one for myself.
YES!!!!😁
Added: BRING ON THE FALL HAULS!!
@Bella I didn't say she created it. I know she didn't. And I think if people want to donate (weather she created it or not) is up to those people. If we are "living" a certain way due to job loss or whatever in this "hard" time, then guess what, DONT donate. As simple as that.
I simply said I wouldn't create one for myself because you said "I bet if you create one" so I was simply stating I personally wouldn't create one... Because I see that as "asking for money" which I don't believe in, And I personally don't like gofund me, I feel there's better ways to collect donations (but I do think it was so sweet for the person to create it). Like I said before, I believe in earning money. But I in no way see this situation as Larry and mindy having asked for money. But as far as it being "right" or "wrong" that's for each individual to decide.
Mindy felt it was wrong so she didn't. I personally would have felt it was morally wrong as well so I wouldn't have.
Had she felt it was "right" or "ok" and accepted it she would still have gotten both negative and positive feedback. She did what she felt was the best option for her and her family.
I wish Larry and Mindy would have accepted the donations, but they have their reasons not to and while I understand it makes the fans and donators upset everyone needs to respect their decision.
If you still want to donate, send something to their P.O. BOX visa gift cards? Baby items (once she's pregnant I'm sure she would love to receive gifts)
Everyone please be kind and while it can suck to have people not accept help just respect their decision and let them move on from this!
Like I said before
BRING ON THE FALL HAULS
@Bella no contradictions..
Yes, if I had fans and one set me up a gofund me I'd feel better about accept it.
But no, I'm not a fan of GoFundMe, most people with GoFundMes are begging for money (but in casses like this, it's being used to help someone else) but what I mean by "I don't like it" is I would never set myself one up and there's other ways to make donations to people other than gofundme. Gofundme takes a portion of your money. There's other companies (don't know the names. But I know people who have used them before) that take none of it. But I would also never judge someone for making one.
I absolutely believe they deserved that, if people are willing to give then I don't see how someone else has the right to tell them they can't. And no one has the right to tell them not to accept it.
And yes the P.O. BOX. Maybe Mindy can state where to send stuff if people are interested. For people who might not know where to send items.❤️
Thank you for being open and honest. You don't hear of a lot of people who do RUclips be as open and honest as you are, which is very refreshing and appreciated. I love your RUclips videos, I look forward to watching your videos every week. ❤❤
People are flat out rediculous!! You two are real, raw and honest! We need more of that in this world. Keep on keepin on..You do you boo!! 😊
I dont think any of those people making those comments were truly your viewers. You've gotten me through sooo much just by how honest and positive you've been. I love your channel. I love the hauls and I'd hate for you to feel bad about doing them.
I’m with the majority of people- I want to see you and Larry happy and succeed! 💗💗💗
Love how strong u are to say "I AM going to show u what I got from Target despite what people might say" and even acknowledging that decision that your making on camera. Good for you💕
You are love and light, Mindy, don´t worry about people who are so angry and unhappy that they take it out on you. They have to save themselves, all you can do is take care of yourself and your family. ❤️
You can buy and spend your money wherever you want. People are idiots
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First off some people have too much time on their hands so they channel their frustration through chat rooms, youtube, etc.. I personally enjoy info i get from your channel regarding food. You eat healthy and I have taken some of your meal ideas and tried them myself. I try to extract the positive. I'm a dude so i'm not here for the clothes you picked up today no offense, but what i do get out of your channel is food ideas and a genuine couple who only care about their love for one another. It's like clean air for a change.
Aw you’re so kind. Thank you🤗
Mindy, everything you said in your *car therapy* segment is 100% truth. I genuinely can’t comprehend how some people just want to see others be put down.
You and I are the same age and I can truly relate to your personality especially with the intent of always wanting to make others happy. I think as we mature we are starting to realize you can’t please everyone no matter how neutral or unproblematic you are.
Sharing your life with us is so vulnerable and yet you have welcomed your viewers with open arms. You have such a safe space for us to zone out of what’s going on around us and just enjoy the coffee routine/ kitty moments/ seeing Larry and the rest of the fam and ending the day rewatching a GOT episode or Harry Potter movie haha.
If there’s anything to take away from this I hope you view it as a marker that from here on out you just live your life and continue to kill it out there in RUclips world💛
Having my morning cofee☕️ and watching You is one of my favorite things to do on weekends. you're a beautiful person inside and out🤍✨👑
The only thing I have for social media is youtube I deleted all my social media and it is honestly the best thing Iv ever done it’s been a year since I ever had any it has definitely helped with my anxiety ❤️❤️ you go girl your a great person and make my morning with your videos lol
I only have RUclips too! I dont think I know of anyone else who doesn't have other social media. Good for you!
Sweet Mindy. 🥰 I found your channel a while back and have literally been binge watching your vlogs... Yes, even Vlogmas! Lol. You and Larry are absolutely freaking amazing, inside and out. Sucha sweet couple! Please never ever let those immature people get to you. Just like you said: “You do YOU boo!” Keep putting smiles on our faces and reaching for your goals. ❤️ Those of us who have fallen in love with you guys are praying for y’all! Thank goodness for notifications, cause I can now keep up with you! Lol. Hope you, Larry, and your sweet fur babies have an amazing weekend! Stay safe! Xoxo from Gunter, TX. 😘
Honestly I am glad you talked and addressing everything that was going on plus I hate it when people do that especially you .... I love watching your groceries hauls, heathy food tips, plus clothing hauls as well. I hope you&larry&lexi&luna are doing good and staying safe
I rarely comment but just wanted to say I love you guys. I work from home and work has been pretty boring lately and so my RUclips videos keep me company! So thank you for keeping me company and for being you and always bringing a positive message. It is much needed these days! I also watch thinking, "Could I do that????" And I'm sure there are many others who feel the same way and so again thank you!!
Girlfriend, I wasn't apart of the GofundMe thing and was so confused when the story came out on RUclips about the apology but when you addressed it and explained it in this video which I felt in my opinion like you shouldn't really of had too but I get where your coming from. People in this world are extremely ignorant and your the most genuine and ❤ loving person I know on RUclips. Its almost like I know you in real life. I'm hoping I get to meet you one day for sure. But keep smiling 😃 and I'm going to keep watching you. I can't wait for every vlog you post because it feels like I get to watch an extended part of my family. Love you guys! 😘💜💯
Thanks love! I hope you have a great weekend🤗
To the person reading this:
You're amazing, stay blessed, stay safe and have an amazing rest of your day! - From a small RUclipsr!
I just want to say that your “ haul” videos are my favorite ! You’re never going to please everyone, and it’s exhausting to try ! Be your authentic self , that’s who we all love ! ❤️
Mindy! I watch literally every video you post and I never comment but I am an empath & I could not NOT reach out after watching you in this video. Sister - I can’t FATHOM opening my life up publicly (the main reason I haven’t started vlogging and posting and it’s literally all I’ve ever wanted to do) ... so the fact that you DO is incredible, period. I’m sure you’ve had countless conversations and you’re so smart so you know better than to fall into the negative parts but you’re also human... so it’s affecting you. That’s ok! I just hate to see you hurting. Do not let anyone ruin this special time for you and Larry!!!! My husband and I are also trying for a baby and I had to have a special procedure that cost a lot of money also. It’s nobody else’s business where you get the funds to help your family achieve your dreams!! You have inspired and entertained MILLIONS of viewers ...... if we want to support and contribute to your family then that is PERFECTLY OK! Anybody who disagrees is a TOAD. (That’s what my friends and I call people who are awful)
Cheer up, pretty girl. You’re more than deserving of everything the world has to offer. You’re a kind soul.... don’t let the dark people steal your light🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
I think there's a general air of divisiveness and hatred in the air these days. People are looking for someone or something to air whatever their grievances are. It has nothing to do with you personally. It's all about them. Focus on being your authentic self as you have been, all the people that love you, and rock on, baby!❤ When you get older, you see none of this ish matters.
I always look forward to your vlogs. "You do you boo" 👏😄
Btw you weren't "taking" from people. You're a giver, we want to give too!! You are such a beautiful person Mindy. I hate that people bully cowardly behind their computer screens. We want to be apart of your journey in many ways. Don't let ignorant people who make it their "job" to bully others bring you down. They are just jealous. Continue living your best life girl, you only get one!! Y.O.L.O. lol. Much love. XOXO 😘
Mindy-we all dont know you personally but what I do know is that your caring,lovable and all around a great person. I not sure how you could get so much hate. You keep it real and honest. Your genuine. We all like that. Who cares what you buy and why you get stuff. You have supporters that will be here til the end. I just love you and Larry!! also stop being you ,keep doing you Boo!!
Sweet, kind, loving Mindy…you are a caring, loving person…which as you said can be good and bad. What you are NOT is a self-center person…every time I watch one of your videos…you make me laugh, smile and feel better about myself. Do not stop being the amazing, kind loving person you are! Sending you, Larry, Lexi & Luna lots of hugs and love. Theresa in FL… PS You did an amazing job addressing the negative comments. 😊
Happy Saturday to one of the greatest and most light giving people in the world!!! I love you, wonderful lady. Wishing you all the best each moment, and I pray you know what a blessing you are! 💗
Aw thank you love! Happy Saturday!
I don't believe in people hating on you, or treating you badly, but I do say that I think the fan overstepped by setting up a GoFundMe. Like you said, it made you anxious. I know she meant well, but idk, it felt weird to me. Needless to say, I love you guys, and your job is to do hauls and show your life and it's okay to spend your money how you want. You are such a great person, ignore the haters. Much love to you!
@@kathleenjamieson1914 I mean.. you're the one who responded to me in a cruel way, so maybe you should grow up? I stand by what I said.
@@kathleenjamieson1914 I also said I love Mindy and do not believe in people hating in her. The fan overstepped because she didnt know how Mindy would feel, and it made her uncomfortable. It's not me hating on anyone, just me stating that we should just support what Larry and Mindy decide to do. Much love to you and I hope you have a fantastic day!
Absolutely this! Well said Caitlin👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@@rum4285 Thank you! I try to voice my thoughts in a polite manner. I thought my reply was respectful so thank you for agreeing! Positive vibes from me always ❤❤
I'm glad that you are very open and honest on your channel because a lot of channels aren't that honest and open on there channels and it's great that you are using your channel to bring joy to people's lives. You are amazing and you have such a great channel and just keep doing what you are doing girl. I hope you have a wonderful day. I enjoy watching your videos and you are amazing .
Mindy, I have watched you a very long time. You are a genuine and kind person. I know it when I see it. It is obvious and that is why you have me (and people like me) watching you. My life is very hard and I have a safe place to visit and escape. We have grown people who use social media to bully others to tear down. It’s a sick and unhealthy way to make themselves feel superior. I know how much it hurts and it’s so hard to ignore because you want to be sure you are doing the right thing and since you are not a “hater” yourself you can’t relate to it. Now, you definitely did nothing wrong. Period. Hold onto that because you have sooo many of us who just love you. We are here and are supporting you through all of it. Talk about it with us and purge it out. My method of handling it. I gotta talk it away. Now, I’m going to tell you something my late husband always said to me...”It’s going to be alright”. It was magical and healing. He was the only one who could do that for me.
So now, I am passing his magical healing onto you. It’s going to be alright even if it happens again. You are doing an amazing hard job. Thank you for what you do. Bless you and your family. Debra 💗
It’s tough to be am empath. We really have to guard ourselves. This was tough to watch to see that you are hurting. Love ya ❤️
What Ive learned in almost 33 years is that you won’t be able to please everyone. There will always be a Wendy Whiner that thinks they can depict your life better than you. People hide behind keyboards and think they are the stuff with handing out opinions when NO ONE asked for them. What your viewer tried to do was a sweet thing, you didn’t ask for that. IVF is FREAKING expensive!!! I know because of people that have gone through it. I’m sorry Target hauls won’t save you enough money for it 😂. I love you Mindy, you shared something with us that you didn’t have to and mean people had to tear you down for it. Keep on being your sun-shinning self 🤗
I just don't understand how we got to this place of anger in this world. You cannot please everyone. I hope you continue living your life how you want to. Keep being you ❤️
Ohmygosh that is why I said only share what you feel comfortable sharing. Moving forward don't bother with the nasty people, meaning don't waste one second of your time on them. They thrive on hurting you and knowing they got to you. Focus on the good about your channel. Blessings to you and Larry ❤
You’re such a beautiful human inside and out! ♥️
Your laugh when it "touched your brain" lmao.
I love you Mindy and I enjoy very much watching your videos. Thank you for being open and for sharing your life with us. You are an awesome human being. I’m so happy that you have your beautiful mama who loves you, Larry who adores you, your daddy and grandpapa. And we your fans and viewers love you so much. You do you and ignore the haters. ❤️
You do you boo. All I have to say is don't give those people the time of day. Or even let them know for a second that they allowed you to doubt yourself. Or even make them feel they were right in any way because then that gives them the ammunition to continue to do it to others. Don't change for anyone and as you stated you have one life to live live it as you wish and don't let them even for a second contribute to your life. ♥️♥️♥️
You and Larry do what makes you happy don’t let judge mental people ruin y’all’s happiness you’re real and you don’t have to hide anything!! At least you aren’t going out buying thousands of dollars of designer bags and clothes and millions of dollars of a mansion and crying out for help you inspire me just watching you and Larry I love you guys be you be real and no hold backs!! F the haters
Hey lady! I love you and Larry and I’m SO proud of you for speaking your piece on what happened. This is YOUR channel and you keep doing your awesome thing. I have to say...I’m not so sure anyone “hates” you. If they are watching and spitting venom, it’s because they are so JEALOUS of you! Some sad people just hate the success of others. Ps...those lip glosses are so pretty! Gettin me some! 😍🥰💗
Mindy, side comment: your deviated septum is fueling your migraines!!! My mom had the exact same problem and she had to get her deviated septum surgically repaired and it helped her migraines greatly!
Can you tell me more? What were the symptoms of her deviated septum?
So thankful to have you Mindy Larry Lexi Luna and family in my life. Please just continue being the Beautiful person you are. Love you guys xxxx
Idk why people think a target haul is equivalent to an ivf treatment. You do you Mindy, I love a good haul. ❤
I think those “haters” are SO jealous of Mindy. It’s pathetic. She’s the sweetest person ever
Jessica pure ignorance from people. We spent close to 100,000 on IVF treatment isn’t cheap.
It's so bizarre to me that anyone had an issue with the GoFundMe. 20,000 dollars is a lot of money, and a couple of target hauls aren't going to make any difference. Those that wanted to donate would and those who didn't, didn't have to. It's a shame.
Mindy everything about u is just amazing your kind, honest, u have 1 of the most beautiful souls I've ever come across ❤ please please don't pay attention to the haters u and Larry are amazing people who have nothing but beautiful intentions i been here since the beginning and im so honored to b apart of ur lives and i know all ur supporters feel the same please just block amd ignore them love u and ur family so so much ❤❤❤
I just want to say, I LOVE YOU AND LARRY!! I hate people are making you doubt what you’re doing. I think that was so sweet that someone tried out of their heart to help you and Larry have a baby.
You should be able to buy things that you WANT. IVF Is so expensive so you spending your money once in a while wouldn’t even put a dent into an IVF fund! Just because you can afford a few things you WANT doesn’t mean you can IVF. I pray that it works out for you guys! I would love to see a little Mindy or Larry💗💗I hope you never stop sharing! I watch you and love you!!!
You’re such a sweetheart Mindy and didn’t deserve any of that ❤️
I never understood why the haters get so invested in someone they don’t like. It makes no sense?!?! Do they realize they are just making you more popular and paid 🤷🏻♀️🤣
We love you and support you mindy 🥰⚡️
I can feel absolutely everything you said here Mindy
Thank you so much for opening up and sharing your feelings with us ♥️ Excuse my language hit this pisses me off that people would even go there with you. I have never everrr heard you complain about money or needing money . Your so right haters are going to hate. You going to the grocery store and buying things to live and cpl things you may want in no way shape or form can compare to thousands and thousands of dollars for Ivf. That's so sad people really had to go there and make what should have been a beautiful experience and a chance for people like myself who truly love and support you guys a chance to help and donate bc we WANT to. I love you guys Mindy and please don't let those fools stop you from sharing hauls or anything bc there are soooo many of us here that want to see your hauls and we know your heart and we support and love you guys and know you are amazing people. ♥️
Not gonna lie, when we were getting de-stress vlogs, I was a little worried what the future would hold, especially with you guys being so open and personal on your baby journey. I thought “those haters have pushed Mindy too far and now she’s done.” I am SOOOOO proud of you. Keep on keeping on and continue to do things as you have. You live in a comfortable home, you buy food, and clothes/ makeup. Oh the horror!! 😂🤦♀️ We love you because you walk to the beat of your own drum and you encourage others to do the same. Today is a new day and last weekend is all behind us. 😘😘
Side note: the sarcasm about buying detergent was my MOST favorite Mindy moment, probably ever. Sometimes you gotta roll with the hate and laugh it off. I have a 19 year AGR and my fiancé’s ex is our/my hater. I have to do the same sometimes. I could believe the junk she says and let it beat me down and essentially let her have control of me OR I can be proud and confident in who I was created to be, realize I have worth and focus on those that know the real me and love me for it. I choose the latter. 😉
I hope this didn’t affect your decision of using a sperm donor. Life pushed you in that direction for a reason, trust your decisions and most of us are here bc we enjoy your content and find joy in the 20 min escape you provide❤️
"This is an unnecessary purchase, did I need it? No did I buy it? Yes" 🤣🤣 I love a good sarcastic comment to haters.
Loved the bit about the laundry detergent! 😂. I actually did LOL!!!! Hilarious 🤣
You being truthful about your journey is awesome. People think they know more when all they see is a half hour or less of your life every week. You and Larry are doing what is best for the both of you and not anyone else. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for being so transparent & vulnerable. I think that is what makes you & your channel unique. The internet can be so toxic at times, please don’t let the negativity bring you down. Wishing you & your family well from Ohio.
I'm so sorry that you and Larry were attacked and made to feel badly about living your life....that is horrible. You do not owe anyone any explanation as to why you're purchasing the items that you're picking up. I agree with another viewers comment ...having the $$$ to spend on daily life items and food is WAY different than not having $20,000 laying around to do IVF.
You and Larry are such a beautiful, inspiring couple and bring nothing but beauty into our world ❤❤❤
Yessss!! 💜
I understand what you are saying, but allowing people to donate meant that you would take the option of not using a donor. As I mentioned before, since it’s not in your budget, I assume you did not save for this. Take low interest loan out on your home for $20,000. Sell items such as Harry Potter Collections, etc. Put the money from Larry’s RUclips channel in a savings account since he is retired. Just others ways to consider!
J P Yep! Just save like everyone else has to. Nobody needs that many jumpers, tracksuit pants, clothes etc! I think that’s what got under everyone’s skin! She is extremely materialistic. People don’t begrudge them doing general shopping like groceries and buying a few things, it’s the fact that she makes money from her RUclips channel, neither of them have to work (indicating they have ample money) and all the rubbish that they buy that makes people wonder why they cry poor! If you want something badly enough you save for it and prioritise your spending. Imagine how much money you could have saved buying only one jumper instead of half a dozen!!
I absolutely love Mindy and would watch her channel regardless. But I must agree on the saving issue. The shopping definitely adds up....coffee mugs, clothes, candles, trips, jewelry...it adds up fast. I’m a nurse who works very hard during COVID and am just trying to put food on the table and find the light at the end of the tunnel. There are some very hard workers out there that are busting their butts . She definitely loves shopping, and there’s NOTHING wrong with that until accepting money from others.
Lisa Layne Agree, even if the items are sponsored, she would be paid for those sponsorships and should have saved some of those funds. Also, the trips to Universal Studios and other trips I would consider excess if you were saving money. I agree that buying stuff & taking trips is normal, but not when you start taking donations or that it’s not in the budget! Thank you for service, being a nurse is hard work, but especially during these times it is physically, mentally and emotionally tough!! Prayers to you & your family! 💕
Comone guys. RUclips is her full time job-not only 1 hour/week hobby. It takes hours and hours to film and edit. You need to show something that ppl like, something new. Part of the youtube is showing hauls/collections/travels. People like to watch it, thus you have to "invest" to create this content.. Many youtubers invested more than got from RUclips (only if you really big with big partnerships it brings you money). More money brings partnerships with more "better" brands. To get thier interest, you need to first invest by yourself (and profile your chanel) in even much more expensive brands vs the ones Mindy shows. It is nothing bad, it allows you to focus on what you love-RUclips. It's the only way to make it goest if you didn't inherit fortune. Mindy I think you should clarify it, becuse seems that people lives in imaginary world.
Magdalena Z LOL
Oh Mindy I hate how much negative comments you get. You and Larry both deserve the world. I've said it before and I will say it again your videos and your positivity is what got me through my daughters skull surgery and the week she was in the hospital recovering. It was the highlight of my week seeing your videos. We absolutely love you and larry and the cats. My daughter loves the cats so much and always gets so excited to see them in the videos and tries to hug them. We love love love you!!! I pray all your wishes come true and stay true to yourself. You are such a beautiful person inside and out. 💜
Mindy I think you did an absolutely perfect job opening up to us . I am also a very empathetic person and I take in so much from others. Sometimes I find it hard for my self to release and express my emotion. Thank you for being so transparent. You should be proud of yourself ! You are a bright young adult who I admire. I think I have about 10 years on you !! I watch all your videos and you just give off such a relaxing vibe you put me in my zen place . Keep doing what your doing your supports love you 💗❤️
Some humans are idiots. They hide behind a keyboard, typing things to hurt other humans. They do this because their own lives are horrible, and they need to create conflict in hopes it will give them some attention.
Kelli your so right! And I was telling my sister yesterday that people are getting worse yesturday I was at Walmart I asked the lady to double bag she said NO! Because our bags are made stronger now well my italuan temper surfaced and I told her I just spent 80 bucks and you are going to go nuts over 4 extra bags i told her you either double bag or keep your food she slammed my bananas in the bag and said ridiculous thats when I had enough the mananger was then called and I had to explain about the 4 extra bags he looked at her and said if she wanted 10 bags you give them to her and told her to go on a break! Unbelievable! People can SUCK and i truly don't know what makes them tic!! Hugs sweetie have a beautiful wk.end..☺✌❤👋
That is so true!!
Camille Oestreich, that was unbelievable...I’m so glad you got a manager and he spoke to her that way. That was a great manager to say that!
So the viewers who did not support the Go fund me are "haters" (while some may be, I don't agree all are haters) she claims to be an "empath" but is so angry she decided to shut down the Go fund me she lacks the ability to understand why some thought the Go fund me was not morally right.
Girl, you have enough of us that love you that those couple haters doesn’t even count. We pray for you and Larry every day on your baby journey and just in every day life. Just because you purchase stuff doesn’t mean you have an extra 10-20 grand laying around. I know I purchase stuff often but I don’t just have 10 grand pocket change! Don’t let them get to you. You keep doing you and never change. I love you and Larry! 🥰
I love when you get raw and tell people how it is. It’s a great reminder to us all to stop judging so harshly. I felt it when you were talking. I’m not one to hate, in fact I just don’t do it online, but I have my moments in real life with my family and sometimes we need to hear it and to just stop with that crap.
All we need is love and positive vibes here ❤
To all the haters there's no room for you here😊
MINDY we love you coz we can see your beautiful heart you have bless you darling❤ dont worry about the haters 😏
Girl that is what go fund me’s are. They are for people who NEED the help or need assistance. I don’t think you should have deleted it. We would love to be apart of this journey with you and Larry and even pitching in a dollar would make me feel so excited.
Please please don’t let those kind of people get you down! I love your honesty! Yours and Larry’s vlogs are such a calming presence during these tumultuous times. Take care of those sweet kitty girls and you and Larry. Sending nothing but good vibes!
In the end girly, you and Larry deserve a baby regardless of how you get it, the cost, the things you’ll have to go through, whether or not y’all accept donations, whatever... it’s so sick to think people don’t believe the same thing. You guys will be amazing parents and I know it’s going to happen for you guys, it has to. You deserve all the love and support, not hate. I’m pregnant after a 20 week loss in March - I can’t tell you how bad I wanted it. I can only imagine how bad you guys want it!! We use the same laundry detergent btw and it’s fantastic! Love you, and love Larry and will forever be a supporter.
Those people must not understand how expensive fertility doctors are! Just because you are a RUclipsr people think everyone automatically becomes a millionaire. I hope you cheer up! Virtual Hugs 💕
As the idiom goes, A path to Hell is paved with good intentions...the collaboration(Mindy approved it) between the fan and Mindy for the Gofundme was intended to be kind cash gifts from subs/fans , in reality it was donations on a site meant to help people in a financial deficiency .Mindy and Larry should have had the wisdom and life experience to know the Gofundme was a bad idea, but they put their stamp of approval on it. But they did the right thing in the end.
Mindy, so well said. I love starting my day with you and I’m thankful you are still here. So much of what you said I can relate to, I think we would be such good friends in real life. I’m sorry for everything you went through, you were in a tough position and you handled it so well. 💖💖
Hey Mindy....you dropped this 👑
Please don’t stop doing what you love!!! You have an amazing soul and so many people (including myself) watch your videos as an inspiration!
You are a queen ❤️
There's a huge difference between having the money to go spend $100 at Target and having the money to drop $20,000 on IVF. Just because someone can spend money on clothing and other "non-essential" stuff doesn't mean they can afford something as expensive as IVF.
Yes! There is a HUGE difference. I think people also don't realize 20,000 covers 1 round of IVF. Its sad how judgey people are.
I think people also think IVF= instant baby and it’s just not true. At best it’s a 60-70% chance of success
Mindy- I actually adore you and I am a fan and I am so excited to see this journey.... but the go fund me felt tacky to me and I didn’t agree... people are allowed to have different opinions with out being labeled a “hater” it’s called disagreeing!! And we’re all adults it’s okay to disagree I promise
Aw thank you! Exactly I completely agree. There’s a difference between haters and a difference of opinion which I also went over in the video. Just because someone’s opinion is different then yours or mine or someone else’s that doesn’t mean it’s wrong❤️🤗
Yes, thank you! There's a difference between openly insulting someone because of their decisions and then there's people that disagree. Just because someone has a different perspective or opinion doesn't mean that it's wrong.
I felt the same way
Oh sweet Mindy . Don't let ANYONE ever make you second guess who you are. Anyone who know you and Larry know who you guys are and how incredible you are. Being someone who struggled for 3 yrs to get pregnant my heart goes out to you. Unless you have been through it no one can truly understand. Just focus on whats best for you and Larry. You don't owe Anyone a explanation ♡ we all love you guys sooo much and sooooo many are on your side and have your backs always 😊.
Do not worry about them mindy!
Live your life the best you can....
Life is beautiful....if some are rude, disrespecful....That is not your problem..
Always smile and be joyful!
Take care of you and larry baby!
Hey these ppl talking about your money they don’t pay your bills so they can just shut your face. I’m a surrogate it’s not cheap to go through IVF. I’m glad you are going to keep doing you.
I’m having my morning coffee with you ❤️❤️
Yay! ☕️☕️☕️
So thankful you're open with us!!
This is how we connect! There are many people that haven't yet realized, they pick others apart to make themselves feel better about their own shortcomings.
I think we all do it at times, hopefully we all get better as time goes on. Appreciate your videos so much! They bring me and many others joy and a much needed distraction! Sending positive vibes to you from another empath!
Thank you for being you! It’s what I love about your videos. It’s hard not letting people get in your head when you just want everyone to be happy. I deal with it daily and I’m happy your able to push through it.