Yes I had the same exact thought. He was kind, patient, supportive. He never raised his voice & always talked things through. He taught Ivan self control. The wife Karen just threw him under the bus immediately when his mum came.
I think at some point in our lives we all were trouble teens I know I was and man was I a terror but looking back at it now I'm a much more nicer guy than I was back then and I owe it all to my parents
I just don’t understand how the parents on this show expect the kids that smoke to go cold turkey without nicotine gum/patches. It’s a real addiction and most people can’t just do that
Production probably encourages parents to include it in the house rules because them going through withdrawal would be good drama for the show…messed up
Correction: you don't have "kids" anymore you have young adults living with you now. They don't have school nights anymore they are all fricken adults, and probably in uni. It baffles me these parents have this much control.
Their “kids” are obedient, not mature. They’ve been so controlled & sheltered that they don’t act their age. They act like Ivan’s age (15). Do they even go to university? The mum said her daughter worked “the night shift” but she may have just meant that the daughter keeps an eye out when mum is gone. I wouldn’t be surprised if they all go to community college & live home.
My parents were the same way I’m 20 moved out last year and I respect them fully for it cause in someone else’s household you wouldn’t want someone to run your house
The mum has serious control issues. She needs to put herself in therapy. Anyone else notice she wouldn't allow Britney to wear her piercings yet her own daughter had several ear piercings?! Like what the eff.
Their “kids” are obedient, not mature. They’ve been so controlled & sheltered that they don’t act their age. They act like Ivan’s age (15). Do they even go to university? The mum said her daughter worked “the night shift” but she may have just meant that the daughter keeps an eye out when mum is gone. I wouldn’t be surprised if they all go to community college & live home.
She said she works graveyard so obviously that's why she was sleeping during the day. She also asked her son how school was so assuming that's college.
Mad respect, your totally right, I mean for her age she should know they can't quite cold turkey , they should have nicotine patches / gum or something idk why she is so clueless
i find it crazy how there is 0 mutual respect. like no privacy seriously!? walking in while he's in the shower 🤨this is absolutely crazy. they are nice people but these rules ...
I know this was from two months ago but I just want to say I agree with you because it could close up and they paid good money for that and it’s not distracting it’s just how they want to express Themselves
It really bugs me these parents use fear and stress with their defence being that if you don’t give kids consequences they will grow up troubled because they don’t know any better. However, they refuse to mention the fact that kids only know what they are taught, so the idea they don’t understand the consequences of their actions is completely the parents fault. Because of just how they talk and treat the teens I think they are probably the worst type of parents… narcissists! Parents that pretend they care, but in reality it’s all about tripping their own ego as they make their children miserable and submissive. It’s no wonder this episode took so long to be posted on RUclips considering these parents are garbage.
It doesn’t even help because all they’re teaching their straight edge kids is either to be sneaky, or to be walked all over in adulthood. When kids don’t have any control their parent list gets replaced with their boss and they follow orders to a T even when they’re being taken advantage of..this video is so old so I wonder how their kids are now but there’s no development of self confidence or control.
The fact that, at the time, their youngest kid was 18 and wasn't allowed to be on the phone past 9 is insane Edit: Damn. I never expected over 1K likes. Thanks, guys🙂
I actually would enjoy these house rules knowing what adulthood brings!!! Whew when I was told Not to rush to be an adult it will come soon enough....TRUTH!!!!!
@@DDCT11 yea but we say that after being properly integrated socially and mentally into adulthood at the same rate as our peers . Me personally I know this NOW . My mom did the same thing and it felt like my entire 20s i was playing catch up . I was 20 but socially 17 . i mean the older i got it leveled out however it’s horrible to hold your kids back .
18, 19 and 21 are YOUNG ADULTS!!! I really hope this is an act for the cameras and they don’t treat them like actual children. No privacy? 8/9p curfew? Cells phones taken away? That’s absurd. Eventually they will be able to move out and I guarantee they will do it as soon as they can.
Why wouldn’t the parents dust their rooms before having them stay?? That’s kind of gross…. Did they let it build up that much just so when the kids didn’t dust properly (as I assume they’d expect) there would be enough dust for the father to run his finger over & reveal the extent of it.
I understand the parents don’t want the kids to be smoking but half of these families don’t seem to understand that going cold turkey with no preparation or warning for these kids is hard-
Seeing how Ivan didn’t have his dad around, it helps to see that there are other teenagers from this series who didn’t have one of their parents. That’s got to be hard on them seeing many others who have both their parents. Edit: just heard Brittany didn’t have her Dad around
THings like parents dying or divorce can often create these situations. If it happens when the kid is in the 5-11 age range the kids can feel guilty or ashamed that their parent(s) are dead or separated. Plus the remaining parents/carers will often parent from guilt, giving the kid whatever they want because they feel bad.
I'm growing without my dad. Not his fault, he died. I get in so much trouble at school tho and have serious problems with authority figures. I just can't keep on the straight and narrow
Parents "There is no privacy in this house". Really? The parents leave their bedroom door open all the time then? They watch each other in the bathroom?
Well, as long as they choose to stay in their parents house, they have to abide by their parents rules. If it doesn’t bother damn, why does it bother you??
I’m sorry, all three of their kids are legally adults, and they’re STILL subject to rules *that* strict? I’m shocked they still live there at all, but to continue to treat them like young teenagers is crazy to me.
If Brittany can't have piercings, then why does the mom and the oldest daughter have piercings?! The mom has her ears pierced but Brittany can't? That's not fair!
Has anyone ever thought about maybe having some of these parents checked out... some of them act like there's underlying problems that makes them so neurotic ?
I just honestly don’t get why the kids are so obedient??? If my mom outta nowhere says “I’m gonna go through ur bags” I’m gonna race her upstairs, not stay there doing nothing. If she asks for my phone, no way in hell am I giving it, the kids are also just kinda dumb, just say no to their requests.
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"I'm not using the door for anything at this point. It's one less thing I have to dust" iconic
Lmaoooooo he’s so funny
@@violabucknell5070 real
HAHAHAH
Real
Lmao I was laughing so hard when he said this
The fathers approach is so so much better, espically for troubled teens, trust me I was one.
Yes I had the same exact thought. He was kind, patient, supportive. He never raised his voice & always talked things through. He taught Ivan self control. The wife Karen just threw him under the bus immediately when his mum came.
I think at some point in our lives we all were trouble teens I know I was and man was I a terror but looking back at it now I'm a much more nicer guy than I was back then and I owe it all to my parents
“And I look at her and I’m like damn another nightmare” -Ivan 29:30 😭😭😭
He funny af such an iconic
That made me laugh 😂
See You Next Tuesday. I like Ivan. Reminds me of some of the smart bad kids I used to hang out with.
That was the straw that broke the camels back …when she said you got three seconds to hand over the lighter …3 seconds and then what 😂😂👍👍
he ate frrr
Parents: *uses scare tactics and allows zero privacy*
Also parents: “Why don’t our kids talk to us anymore??”
Exactly.
She would get what she deserved eventually.
Also parents: why don’t we have grandkids yet
It is even worse when their own children(adults) admit that they use scare tactics...
@@Kelly_730 yep. Her own daughter was afraid of her
I just don’t understand how the parents on this show expect the kids that smoke to go cold turkey without nicotine gum/patches. It’s a real addiction and most people can’t just do that
right like no wonder they disrespect withdrawals are real i would lash out all the time
exactly!
going cold turkey on nicotine is dangerous
Production probably encourages parents to include it in the house rules because them going through withdrawal would be good drama for the show…messed up
I did see one family that had gum and patches but only one
@@mrs7serpents157 yeah the one that has stacy in it
another family (florida family) allowed the teens to smoke but took them away as punishment
when he said he was gonna torch the house HE WAS OBVIOUSLY BEING SARCASTIC LMAO
Yeah this was my favorite episode
Right. 😂😂
😂😂😂
REALLY? You know what? What if it would be YOUR house and the fruits of YOUR labor and YOUR family? Still funny?
@ yes, still funny
Correction: you don't have "kids" anymore you have young adults living with you now. They don't have school nights anymore they are all fricken adults, and probably in uni. It baffles me these parents have this much control.
Exactly.
Agreed. I have no idea how you can even be expected to get your homework done by 9…especially when you’re in college.
Their “kids” are obedient, not mature. They’ve been so controlled & sheltered that they don’t act their age. They act like Ivan’s age (15). Do they even go to university? The mum said her daughter worked “the night shift” but she may have just meant that the daughter keeps an eye out when mum is gone. I wouldn’t be surprised if they all go to community college & live home.
Exactly.
😮😅
But.. all their kids are over 18. Why are they being so strict?
Some parents don't know when to let go.
They want control
Cause the kids still live in their house. It's not that difficult to understand.
@@jessicasteingass you're definitely old, since you have that mindset you're for sure 70
My parents were the same way I’m 20 moved out last year and I respect them fully for it cause in someone else’s household you wouldn’t want someone to run your house
these parents are so delusional omg😭 no privacy is absurd completely unreasonable and unnecessary
I agree with you 100% on that
fr lucky my parents aren’t this strict
How old are you?
@@Sweetsam013 How old are you?
@@moniqueengleman873 25
The mom is annoying asf. Being strict is one thing but all she does is nag 🙄
That’s because she’s a woman
She was starting stuff for nun
Agreed
Her opening the door while he was showering was crazyyyy
and her voice
Honestly the mom was crazy
You probably can't even breathe or sneeze without her getting on your case.😒
Yeah she would NOT leave anybody alone. Jeez people get uncomfortable lady.
Agreed!
I don’t smoke but I would smoke i her house just to set her off lol
@@detmstr341 if you farted you'd. Get grounded
When he says "Thats one less thing I have to dust now" .. DEAD 😭😭😂😂
SAME IVAN IS MY FAVORITE 😭😭
RIP
I was amused when he dusted the bed 😂
The mum has serious control issues. She needs to put herself in therapy.
Anyone else notice she wouldn't allow Britney to wear her piercings yet her own daughter had several ear piercings?! Like what the eff.
I was looking for that comment. Why did Holly have ear piercings?
Becuase she was like 21
@@quinnsimonson1560 So? They’re her piercings and what if the holes closed while she had them out? Who’s gonna pay for the new piercings
@@Kitsune16-r4h true good point🤛
Ear piercing and sh!t in your face are two different things.
Their “kids” are obedient, not mature. They’ve been so controlled & sheltered that they don’t act their age. They act like Ivan’s age (15). Do they even go to university? The mum said her daughter worked “the night shift” but she may have just meant that the daughter keeps an eye out when mum is gone. I wouldn’t be surprised if they all go to community college & live home.
Is there anything wrong with community college??.I'm not American and want to know
She said she works graveyard so obviously that's why she was sleeping during the day. She also asked her son how school was so assuming that's college.
@@Crybaby-cz8et nothing wrong with community college ots just way cheaper!!
Do they ever go out or just stay in there little house 😂😂
@@Crybaby-cz8et👎
I bet that mom is an absolute Karen when she doesn’t get her way outside of her home.
Wouldn’t be surprised
The hair alone tells you
We would think that adults that live at home would just do things around the house. They don't need to be told.
@@kibkirby Not only the hair, the voice as well
When she said she’ll call the cops on her own kids when they’re not listening to her made me think the same thing
smoking is an addiction. so yeah, they probably aren’t just going to drop smoking immediately.
Mad respect, your totally right, I mean for her age she should know they can't quite cold turkey , they should have nicotine patches / gum or something idk why she is so clueless
@@Tubby.Turtle Because she's a control freak
My favorite part of the whole episode is Holly saying “my mom is 5.4 and it’s the scariest thing ever”😂 so relatable 💀🤣
"Brittney, this is an absolute breach of trust." Girl, it's a breach of trust to go through these kids things...
@John-il2fyur saying so but if someone went through your things, you would be tottallly ok with that?
These parents want slaves not kids🤷
Fr
agreed
i find it crazy how there is 0 mutual respect. like no privacy seriously!? walking in while he's in the shower 🤨this is absolutely crazy. they are nice people but these rules ...
Are you dumb? Mutual respect? That would indicate parents and kids are on the same level. They are not.
That mother is horrible, she just barks orders! There is no love or sense of family in that home
But there was love with Brittany from Lisa.
“I woke up from the nightmare but when I look at here and I said damn another nightmare “
Ivan is hilarious asf
(Thanks for the likes)
He really is
Hahaha fr
Ivan the realest fr
“It’s one thing less I have to dust now” had me rolling. I love Ivan lmao
I never understood the face piercing thing. People should be able to express themselves.
Facts
But the actual daughter has piercings?¥????
I know this was from two months ago but I just want to say I agree with you because it could close up and they paid good money for that and it’s not distracting it’s just how they want to express Themselves
she already had her piercings tho and they cost money and healing time can be long and hard too i don’t think that one was fair
They are juvenile and look awful.
Facts
"it's one less thing i have to dust now" That send me--
I swr😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
It really bugs me these parents use fear and stress with their defence being that if you don’t give kids consequences they will grow up troubled because they don’t know any better. However, they refuse to mention the fact that kids only know what they are taught, so the idea they don’t understand the consequences of their actions is completely the parents fault.
Because of just how they talk and treat the teens I think they are probably the worst type of parents… narcissists! Parents that pretend they care, but in reality it’s all about tripping their own ego as they make their children miserable and submissive.
It’s no wonder this episode took so long to be posted on RUclips considering these parents are garbage.
I agree with the last part especially- like there's no love in that family, those kids look miserable and obey out of fear ..
The parents definitely come off as narcissistic, especially the mom
It doesn’t even help because all they’re teaching their straight edge kids is either to be sneaky, or to be walked all over in adulthood. When kids don’t have any control their parent list gets replaced with their boss and they follow orders to a T even when they’re being taken advantage of..this video is so old so I wonder how their kids are now but there’s no development of self confidence or control.
I swear neither of the teens even learnt anything especially ivan there was nothing for him to take away from this 😭
No one should be following parents merely out of fear.
The fact that, at the time, their youngest kid was 18 and wasn't allowed to be on the phone past 9 is insane
Edit: Damn. I never expected over 1K likes. Thanks, guys🙂
I actually would enjoy these house rules knowing what adulthood brings!!! Whew when I was told Not to rush to be an adult it will come soon enough....TRUTH!!!!!
@@DDCT11 I understand not wanting kids to rush to being adults, but their kids were already adults when this was filmed
That's narcissist control for ya
Ok
@@DDCT11 yea but we say that after being properly integrated socially and mentally into adulthood at the same rate as our peers .
Me personally I know this NOW . My mom did the same thing and it felt like my entire 20s i was playing catch up . I was 20 but socially 17 . i mean the older i got it leveled out however it’s horrible to hold your kids back .
WHY DID SHE WALK IN ON HIM IN THE SHOWER
Invasion of privacy for real!
@@Sweetsam013 what privacy?
@@Kitsune16-r4h 😭
I fell so bad for him that she did that
what time stamp?
How did she break trust if she didn’t earn any.🤣
18, 19 and 21 are YOUNG ADULTS!!! I really hope this is an act for the cameras and they don’t treat them like actual children. No privacy? 8/9p curfew? Cells phones taken away? That’s absurd. Eventually they will be able to move out and I guarantee they will do it as soon as they can.
The dad seems great tbh
Yeah its the mom thats annoying tbh. So controlling
Why wouldn’t the parents dust their rooms before having them stay?? That’s kind of gross…. Did they let it build up that much just so when the kids didn’t dust properly (as I assume they’d expect) there would be enough dust for the father to run his finger over & reveal the extent of it.
Screw those parents. My parents allowed us to grow up if we made mistakes we had to learn from them. My parents were 100% better than them.
Removing the door? Control issues.
The dad seems to be more calm
SHE WALKED IN THE BATHROOM??? THAT CRAZY LADY😭😭😭😭😭ain’t no way bruh
I understand the parents don’t want the kids to be smoking but half of these families don’t seem to understand that going cold turkey with no preparation or warning for these kids is hard-
Too bad
@@ravenbaa7989 💀
@@sophiefalagrady7414 same to you rules are rules no excuses
@@ravenbaa7989 💀💀💀
So is life
imagine being 21 or 18 and bein told you can’t stay out later then 9:10💀
And no phone past bedtime. Girl bye 😂😂😂
the daughter should be punished because she works graveyard meaning she sleeps all day and uses her phone past 9pm 😂
Hahahah right. No curfew once they’re that age. Idc anymore about ya 😂
i mean if your 21 or 18 w no job going nothing on for yourself like these kids ofc the parents are gonna b like that they living in their house 😂
“he doesn’t deserve the privacy” WHAT????? 💀
29:25Ivan is HILARIOUS. Related throughout the entire episode🤣
I'm 71 and that mother is something else.
Seeing how Ivan didn’t have his dad around, it helps to see that there are other teenagers from this series who didn’t have one of their parents. That’s got to be hard on them seeing many others who have both their parents.
Edit: just heard Brittany didn’t have her Dad around
I mean, sometimes kids could have both parents in their life but still act up
@@user-db6fh6ek6e that too
THings like parents dying or divorce can often create these situations. If it happens when the kid is in the 5-11 age range the kids can feel guilty or ashamed that their parent(s) are dead or separated. Plus the remaining parents/carers will often parent from guilt, giving the kid whatever they want because they feel bad.
I still think it’s the parent/parents in their life, only having one parent my whole life and i never even thought of acting this way.
I'm growing without my dad. Not his fault, he died. I get in so much trouble at school tho and have serious problems with authority figures. I just can't keep on the straight and narrow
I worry about Ivan. The moment his mother got there he was going back to his old ways. She's an enabler. I wonder if there's any updates
over discipline = suffocation = rebellious teens
Parents "There is no privacy in this house".
Really? The parents leave their bedroom door open all the time then? They watch each other in the bathroom?
Well, considering they are adults, and it is their house I supposed to have the right to make their own rules!!
Still hypocrites though...@@Valmontst
“ Brittany this was an absolute breach of trust.” Girl… it’s an absolute breach of trust when you go through somebody’s things without asking.
Ivan is iconic fr😂
I've seen strict parents and I've seen power hungry parents, this mom is ridiculously power hungry. She's in ego driven narcissist with megalomania
Parents: " in order to get trust you need to earn it " also parents : " me and Scott are going through your bags "
I’m surprised none of the kids moved out i sure as hell would have
Bro those aren’t kids those are adults 😂😂
Well, as long as they choose to stay in their parents house, they have to abide by their parents rules. If it doesn’t bother damn, why does it bother you??
I thought I'd seen them all I don't think I've seen this one
Thanks for letting us know brother/sister!
@@LebronJames-cl4pj your very welcome 😊
No fr tho
Same tho
@@Tybro i wathe these episodes nearly everyday Lol
Ivan is the chillest mf alive bro. wheres homie at nowadays i bet he went places.
Yeah. To prison.
No he didn't?
“He doesn't deserve his privacy” yikes lol
Wait their daughter has piercings but they don’t let the other girl have any in 😀
I’m sorry, all three of their kids are legally adults, and they’re STILL subject to rules *that* strict? I’m shocked they still live there at all, but to continue to treat them like young teenagers is crazy to me.
I’m obsessed with the side plot of Scott just wanting to play chess😭
Ivan is my spirit animal. Iconic.
i don’t even think they were even that bad of kids
Right? Brittany was telling the truth and stayed honest, and Ivan only really lied about the smoking
This mom takes everything personally it drives me crazy
She was so upset when Ivan said "I'm going to torch your house." He was clearly being sarcastic. 🧍♀️
@@honey.a0literally
I love when he said that’s one less thing I have to dust now😭😭😭😭
Individuality is important for everyone 👍
6:18
Britney:"I met Ivan at the airport...he was pretty cool"
Ivan:"She is cool"
Me:"Interesting" 🧐
He is 15 she was 17 lol not intresting
I would NOT take my piercings out I paid for that so no way
She treats her adult kids like littles kids too it’s just weird
If you are still this controlling of your adult kids, you have no trust in them or your skills in parenting or how they were raised.
Why is no one talking about the sister literally having piercings but Britney couldn’t?
Big difference between ear piercings vs face piercings
@@style_icon997that’s interesting
@@style_icon997fair to say but you’d see either way unless there to small
These poor kids, my parents would never raise me to snitch
OMG FINALLY AMERICAN EPISODES!!!!
I honestly never thought that they would release the American episodes
American isn’t as good like UK.
If Brittany can't have piercings, then why does the mom and the oldest daughter have piercings?! The mom has her ears pierced but Brittany can't? That's not fair!
Finally, the full episode is here after years of wait.
why are they keeping grown adults in their home and discplining them like children 😭
These are so entertaining to watch at 3:00 am, knowing that if ever threatened my parents like this I would get disowned. 😃
Good parents, discipline brings freedom not the other way around
@@Gebri3lbro really said good parents disown their kids 💀
@rion2711 even God will throw you out if your not disciplined
@@Gebri3l I'm not quite sure where you got that from 💀
@@Rion0h0h Adam
Trust has to be earned in this house: proceeds to search their stuff and tells them to take off their piercings
That girl definitely fantasized how that boy talked to her parents 😂 back fire
Finally! I've been wanting to see the American ones.
29:40 “damn, another nightmare”
He's so real
I can't imagine asking my teen if they're going out tonight. They're supposed to be asking the parent.
The fact that she kept referring that the kids were dumb is just no…😂Examples “LITTLE wheels turning” like what 😮
I don't like how some parents treat their kids as slaves
Jeez lady leave the kids alone
You probably can't even sneeze without her getting on your case.
@@detmstr341 right
All three of their kids are over 18 and still being treated like children by their parents.
Honestly mom should be charged for wasting the time of the police. Using them to “scare” your kids is sick
What exactly do they think the kids will be arrested for? Bad behavior?
Has anyone ever thought about maybe having some of these parents checked out... some of them act like there's underlying problems that makes them so neurotic ?
Bring this show back 2023!!
Yes please 🥺 🙏🙏
the kids weren’t even that bad
Nah cause I love how Britney put her piercings back in every chance she got she's fr lik me😂😂
I just honestly don’t get why the kids are so obedient??? If my mom outta nowhere says “I’m gonna go through ur bags” I’m gonna race her upstairs, not stay there doing nothing. If she asks for my phone, no way in hell am I giving it, the kids are also just kinda dumb, just say no to their requests.
Seriously like what she gonna do hit me? Lol
But ig they have to for the show
No cuz frl like u didn't pay for this phone so ur not getting it and he'll I let u take my weed
Then, I suppose you will be out on the street, but that will have been your choice! 😂
That mother would get on my nerves
30:55 says it all. “When I was first divorced” who would ever want their home ran like this? I have no clue how Scotty has stuck around!
Agreed and nice pfp
scotty doesnt know:P
@@wowgek7that Fiona and me do it in my van every Sunday
I was raised without disapline and now I have a 9 year old and she's the sweetest kid ever
How old r u?
@@gustavofring5674She is probably 12, and "the great pretender", lol.
I will never understand the whole piercing thing
2 months later brittny is smoking weed and has 50 more piercings
Whoa. How did you know? Can't save em all
in ivan we trust
OMG I have been wanting this episode forever!!
Ughhh that woman grinds my gears 🤐😖
SHE WENT IN THE BATHROOM WHEN HE WAS SHOWERING??
ivan is so real for this
Also Lisa looks like she could be the actual mom of Ivan 😂
You know Ivan and his Mom sure have no resemblance of each other.