I feel like in some cases, age and maturity level plays a factor, I think the older I’ve gotten, the more I see the value and beauty of marrying within my own culture
I'm happy to see. Habsha people are getting together and trying to discuss about the culture and and marriage and growing up with habsha family in Western Country. Keeep doing this kind video. So we can learn what's the problem and solve it all together keep doing this kind of video please
I'm habesha and I want just habesha woman, to eventually build an habesha family. We create the feeling, being nice each others, supporting each others, in some city like London, if u stay in the spot where all of us stay, u have the right opportunity to find your soulmate. And the sharing of the same colture is really important in the long term.
i'm not Habesha, but it's so nice to see how respectful you are to each other the way you guys don't talk over one another. the vibe in the room is just perfect. it's rare in this generation.
i've met too many Ethiopian girls who want to be friends in the beginning and when they realize i'm rich they all wanna kick it. bull shit, i'm looking for a real one. and when i mean rich, honestly i don't even consider myself rich mainly because i consistently compare myself, which is wrong but mostly for fun. im retired now, honestly the only thing that would take me out of retirement and into day to day work is a tech company. by the way i made money from tech i co founded a company when i was 21. investments have compounded 13 percent for my last 2 active years which is pretty good for a beginner. but i'm definitely in the one percent of the one percent in income and net worth.
@@proudamhararaya4668 oh im so offended, they're all like that each and every single one of them are like that. i dont take advantage of people, i use my money for good, money will soon be worthless remember this. copy this text, i promise you copy it. us humans are the devils children, i know the whole thing about god creating humans but humans are created by the devil and the devil created by god. the only thing real about us is our sould, everything else is manipulated by the devil. lust, money, inventions, greed etc. soon i promise you,soon during the end times a quote on quote alien will come down from space that is actually the devil. the antichrist is already here leading everything. god is the only one who will save us and our mistakes will be forgiven. homosexuality is a sin in christianity and other religions but let me make some sense out of this, our body is created by the devil, this world is the devils world. everything about this world is the devils work that is why we have different skin color religion and basically there's a quote on quote competitor for everything and everything is a competition, that is simply false the united States is the wepon of the devil
Just to throw my opinions on here. One, I think that the girls are definitely put on a higher standard then the men and if you can’t see that then you’re most likely an only child or just blind sorry, but I have brothers who got/still get away with 90% of stuff that I couldn’t even dream about. Going out I’m expected to be home way sooner while my brothers won’t even get a all asking where they are. In school I was expected to choose a field in something challenging and they were never told to do any specific career like I was. Two, I think a lot of Habesha girls have this I’m too good for Habesha men attitude 100%! Again I notice that with my brothers and how I’ve seen countless Habesha girls treat them. Because of the constant praise Habesha girls get from celebs and just men in general about their looks, a lot of them (obviously not all) think their so much superior then the boys who get little to no appraisal from other people. Hence making them think they’re better then them and it shows in their attitude. Just my opinion on these topics, speaking from personal experiences.
@First Name Last Name As a habesha man i'm doing good right now. i'm planning on getting married after maybe 6 years when i turn 29. im very good financially. one percent of the one percent in income and net worth. investments compounding 13 percent a year. sometimes i feel lonely, it sucks when you'r uncle knows you can pay off his house. i'm not doing anything at the moment, i might go to Ethiopia to start a couple of businesses or start another tech company in the US.
I am Mexican American my parents are Mexican Mexican. They really never showed affection in front of us kids. But they both loved each other and respected each other. So I don't see anything wrong with Ethiopians marriages not showing affection between their kids. Because they may throw it in private I'm just adding my two cents peace.
Habesha men's are king of King's. Using the word trash is you kiiling your own blood. Respect your King's than you get to treated like a queen #habeshamentality keep it 100%
@Ayal Negus Ethiopian empire extended present day Ethiopia including Eritrea to Yemen and Saudi at its height it reached India. www.amazon.co.uk/Wonderful-Ethiopians-Ancient-Cushite-Empire/dp/1492849693/ref=gp_aw_ybh_a_5?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=2BD45Z7VHP77V988WNYM
@Ayal Negus Ethiopia was much larger and everyone knows that and the people in other countries are still Ethiopian blood. It's people like you that support European carved borders that need to be proud actually plus dont tell me as an Ethiopian what to think I got my own mind bye.
It's very true, habesha man don't take rejection very will, they will trash you so bad. And I'm talking about under the age of 30. Please Ethiopian man not every single girl you ask is going to be in to you.
We love Habesha men! But in the western world our options are limited. It’s not like we’re as many as Indians. And honestly I wish they would try bulking up more. Masculinity is just slightly lower than needed.
Ladies! I kept hearing this repeated in the video but it's NOT your fault for having a high standard for any man - Habesha or not. If 1 person doesn't meet your standards, there will be someone that WILL. The standards & boundaries (i.e. he should be a gentleman, be chivalrous, be a provider, etc) that you set for men should not fluctuate depending on who he is or what race he comes from. Don't blame yourself for having standards--be unapologetic about it! At the end of the day, who you choose to be your life partner will affect you, your community, your future children, & multiple generations after so choose wisely even if that means being picky! Anyone who doesn't meet your standards isn't a man you want anyways. Much Love to all of the beautiful Habesha Women (& men) out there.
Mel you know, watching myself back I realised that too. You’re so right! It’s not my fault they couldn’t meet those standards but I guess the disappointment came from the initial expectation. Regardless of who they are I defo wouldn’t settle or expect less just because others couldn’t meet those standards :) thanks for sharing your thoughts ♥️
@@dntknw241 Stop being immature. Nobody is useless. Men are needed for their inner strength, wisdom, and leadership, in addition to their ability to provide and love, whiles women are needed for their femininity, fertility, loyalty, and counsel. It goes both ways. Don't forget, your value as a potential housewife significantly decreases once you've given up your most precious asset, which is your *virginity.* So stop complaining.
Here is my input to this discussion. I have been in a relationship with one Ethiopian guy, two Somalis, and two white American guys. Out of all, i found the white guys to be the most loyal, hard-working, romantic, and respectful. Of course it depends on what type of guys you go for character wise as there are bad apples in every group. But me personally, i don't like bad boys, neither do i like extremely submissive men. I believe in equality, sharing of bills, chores, mutual respect, etc. Culture plays a big role in how men act towards women. I believe that Western/American men (excluding ghetto ones), tend to have very liberal and modern views on realtionships and gender roles, compared to non western men in general. So, they're more likely to go to great lengths to please their women (cooking, cleaning, buying flowers, birthday surprises, remembering important dates, etc). They also go to great lengths to keep up their personal appearances. For instance, my previous American boyfriend used to shave his chest because he assumed women didn't like body hair, eventhough it was time consuming and painful.. So, i don't know what kind of foreign men other habesha women date, but from my personal experience, those American (white) guys have raised the standards for what i should expect back from a man in my relationship.
There's a Ethiopian guy at my university that I fancy and am sure he likes me too but his Christian which makes it hella hard. I just have to love him from a distance damn. 😔 you guys are all beautiful by the way. Love from Somalia
Habesha and somalia people shall work together so that horn of Africa become like the middle east, and we work together, Middle east and horn of africa❤ Im Ethiopian 🇪🇹
This may a bit controversial but I feel like I have a good theory for why Habesha girls may think they are "better" than Habesha men. My theory is that they compare the lust directed to them by West African black men or black American men to the lust directed to them by Habesha men and most of the time there is no comparison which group is more thirsty. Black men tend to really thirst over Habesha woman because of their "nicer hair" and their more Caucasian features. To black men, habesha women are just a cheap version of a white girl and we all know how much black men fetishize over white women. It's simply colorism and self hate . Habesha men tend to find living in the west more difficult largely because of identity issues and the mismatch of the black stereotype.
There's no denying that habesha women are very attractive, and so are the men. But my personal preference for the opposite sex is someone who is tall, lean or athletic, short hair, and dresses and speaks properly (i dislike guys who emulate ghetto and hip hop culture). Unfortunately, a lot of the habesha guys i see around me tend to have some of those things i find unattractive on men-- the braided hair, dreads, beer belly, ghetto behaviour, etc.
Samira A since when habesha is ghetto. Ethos act like themselves. Also etho ladies hate dreads more than anyone else in the planet. In here in los angles, we have a etho community called little Ethiopia and we do our own things. Idk what ghetto means anymore. I see more white people do ghetto stuff than POC so idk.
It has nothing to do with self hate but simple attraction. What kind of man wouldn't be attracted by long curly hairs over weaves? By feminine looks and behavior over masculine one?
@@fana2917 it's not, we are proud of what we are, we don't bleach our skin nor wear false hair and so forth. It's a simple attraction, you should do some researchers about sexual dimorphism amongst races. Other men see these women as even less so it's not about self hate, there is something about black women(especially the darksinned ones) who turn off most men(not me).
This is real easy to decode (From the African American view) I'm checked out some of these East African threads, and I came across some where the complaint was that Habesha women were getting with WEST AFRICAN black men or those of that descend, be them UK, America, or in West Africa. What I see is GENDER BASED COLORISM AND FEATURISM. As one of the women said in this video, other groups, INCLUDING West African black men gas East African women up for their "beauty". The women like that, and therefore gravitate to the men who show them the MOST THIRST. Dark skin, West African featured men are showcased in the mainstream media as HYPER-MASCULINE and more viral - combine that with their "THIRST", "SELF HATRED" or "GENDER BASED COLORISM/FEATURISM" Habesha men are seen in the same light as light skin, and mixed men in America, as somehow LESS THAN. Yes, they might be elevated (the same as the women) for their "BEAUTY" and essentially NON-BLACK FEATURES, but because of those features they are NOT perceived as MASCULINE, like their West African dark skinned counterparts. For those who of you who are from outside the US - light skin men are frequently seen as too pretty, can't fight, not aggressive, can't lay the pipe down among other things. It has been argued that many Habesha men get their idea of BLACK MALE MASCULINITY from African America WEST AFRICAN DESCENT DARK SKIN THUGS. As a result they are seen as "IMITATION AFRICAN AMERICAN MEN". This is another thing that injures Habesha men in my opinion. Are Habesha women saying to themselves, "I might as well get the real thing" combined with the THIRST that they know or assume they will receive from dark skin West African descended black men. I have NEVER heard any women discuss their THRIST from East African men. I feel this is in part due to the lack of positive masculine media promotion, combined with these men rarely ever being seen in any athletic light that requires muscles. Light skin men, Asian men, and Habesha men (throw in Somalians) aka Horner Men, all have the same problem in terms of how they are valued relative to their own women. This is interesting - but I most certainly see the parallels. I think the core of the issue comes down to the ideas that a FEMININE woman only looks a certain type of way - "Straight nose, long hair" - as East African women essentially look like "White women dipped in Chocolate" or are the most NON-BLACK AFRICAN BANTU women out of all Black Africans. Combine this with the Hypermasculinzation of dark skin black men, you end up with the situation where East African women gravitate towards what media has ALSO told them is MASCULINE in men. The DARK SKIN MUSCULAR Black man. These are just my thoughts and observations.
im a 25yr old eritrean dude from the bay and I agree with a lot of your points but the factor that they mentioned is very relevant. We have all grew up with eachother in our communities and our parents literally told us were cousins so we grow up not really dating because its awkward.
@Jason Young but you know. With what you just said. That argument has been used against all black people from the beginning of time. That we are all the same. Africa is the biggest straight land mass continent. Someone from the very west coast of the continent is not going to be too much like someone from the East. The same with the very southern part. I agree with you that we are all black and we stem from the same continent. The way in which a lot of us have evolved as way different. Geography and how much of an influence the neighbors on the next continent are heavily influence this. In the north they had Rome just across the sea and Isreal a skip beat away. In the horn, you see the difference in miles with us and Yemen and company. The south of Africa and the west are the only parts I've seen that are the most indiginous from the start to near present day. West Africa is practically land locked because it's ocean to the west, ocean to it's south and the Sahara to it's north. The same is basically for the southern part of Africa. I'm not beefin' with you. I fully see what you're trying to say. It's just I've been fighting my whole life to prove not all black people are the same. Then again, talk is cheap. Action is 💯. Proud to say I'm in route to become a U.S high school history and geography teacher. Pass correct knowledge and understanding of all of our race in a way that will go forward with the next generation (the students).
@Alemeyyy I agree with you to an extent. The "weird ass comments" is the whole point of this page isn't it? "Talk Habesha?" How you feel or think is your own. Let's always encourage and educate one another. Not discourage and discriminate.
Hot Take! Black American here married to Habesha women from Gondar. Had this discussion with my wife like why you want me (over uncle Hagus)? Here is what I think about why Habesha women are dating out... Imitation. When Ethiopians come to the States or UK they lose some of their culture and often times imitate the prevailing black culture (black American or Nigerian in the UK). If Habesha culture is indeed superior as many of the commenters below believe, there would be no need to assimilate and once this is done can you blame the women for going for the original rather than an imitation of the real thing??? I see Ethiopians and Somalis often times attempting to act like black Americans; why? What makes you all special is your cultures, once you lessen or diminish this you are not as special. The problem though is, black American culture is soooooo strong (probably the strongest there is or second to white American culture).
As a Black American this video is so fascinating to me. I have Ethiopian friends that I grew up with but have never ever heard them speak like this on these topics. Very Interesting
Someone needs to start an American version of Talk Habesha. However, being an Ethiopian American I have to admit most of us would be too insecure to touch topics like this and put it on camera but that's just my opinion.
Can we discuss dismantling male supremacy and anti ethnic conflicts? Also can you guys speak on #TigrayGenocide and raising awareness to let humanitarian access in, and save the people. It will have positive impacts for the whole nation. This is a humanity crisis. Please discuss social cultural violence, and how restructure governance, social cultural conversations preventatively
Are there any Ethiopians in cambridge and more specifically in Anglia ruskin? I am thinking of going there and I dont want to forget Amharic and also I will feel more at home if I am with other Ethiopians.
I didn’t even know about habesha, I look at you all and thought you were all mixed race… Jesus… I need to get myself Ed u acted!! What a beautiful race xx
The only one I know from this group very well is Yosef!! I went to the same school as him at Saint Cecilia's Wandsworth. I wish he could introduce me to Melo coz I have a crush on him :D Melo betam konjo new! cute eyes and cute smile :D wededededededed Melo yeeeeeeeeeeeee! The only reason I watch talk habesha channel is coz of Melo! He is so cute!! love him loads!!
the guy is right, the men do get success with other women from other culture, in some other culture the women don't give in once or twice, you need to try again and again then she will come around to it, this may not be the same with the habesha women but is true with some other african cultures
Sam Ahf Habesha men cant satisfy Habesha women sexually, y’all don’t deserve them. All other Africans and Caribbean men pass them around. Where I’m from for example I know over 15 habehsa girls who are single mother with half either: Jamaican, Somali, Nigerian, African American and even white kids.
Road Runna007 really? I don't know what kind habesha niggas you are talking about..... we habesha niggas don't have that problem. I don't want be disrespectful to the other black folks but we ain't sweat y'all, we get all kind women....... that's not a things or problem for us.
So, better for the rest of the World who thinks we are the most beautyful Women on the planet and in the universe***and they say we the best cook and Inteligent too like our Mothers***so better for the rest of the world, and for us too if habesha men dont worship us so the rest of the world will for sure***iam not worry about that one,because i hear it evry day even from women!!! ALL this money makeing nice cars what men do is to impress us***sometimes you have to lose the most precious thing women(mothers) to know what you truly have. and now yall loseing us with this attitude....trust me Men going hard for us...Millonaires all of that. WE THE PRICE***iam saying this because everybody is keep saying this about habesha iam not joking i live in germany. iam top model iman for them evrywhere i go. so is sad evrybody see but yall blinded i guess by our beauty....muahahahahah...or scared. hihi.
I'm not Ethiopian, but from what I've experienced... I've never seen habesha women look down on habesha men. Instead habesha women look down on us African-American men. Like we're at the bottom of the bottom.
I can only speak for my own situation here, but I would say the reason me and my girls tend to not have the same respect for ya’ll is because we know how you have a reputation of treating your own women that share ya’lls feautures, hair and skintone like trash. If I had a daughter by one of you and she looks like you, will she be treated like trash as well when she grows up? Like No thanks, who would want to be with someone that does not even respect their own.
@@benim4449 I understand your experience is your experience. I'm disappointed that's all you've seen from us, but all of us aren't the same, sister. I know some African-American men who treat their woman like trash and I know alot who treat their woman like a queen. Personally, I don't treat women like trash. My mother and my grandmother raised me. I have alot of respect for women and I definitely respect my own. I respect everyone as long as they respect me. You have to get to know a person first before you judge them, sis.
@@jacoreywilliams5924 I think just as we hold white people accountable for not building anti oppressive culture, its important you hold yourself accountable for not building anti oppressive culture and community for Black Americans. You cannot operate as an individual outside your community. This is why building community, not trying to make yourself an exception matters. Otherwise its replicating white supremacist individuality, individualism, exceptionalism ideas, that strip individuals of responsibility for building a collective. Community matters. And your women are horrendeously disrespected in a way no one on planet earth has ever seen done. That is something not being handled in community but openly discussed, showing no worth to invest in selves, protect own interests, not give pearls to dogs as bible says. We treat people as individuals - and someone abandoning themselves from their community says a lot about an individual. Our collective unity means each carrying our own load and empowering each other to support wherever we are - not avoiding collective issues. if the collective isnt good - there is no desire to do anything until the collective is often - so why not here? This says a lot about not fighting own battles. Youre not excluded we love you all. We feel you exclude us tbh by not eradicating antiblackness in yourselves first as a first community goal. Youre thinking of what you as an individual gain. yet when you send the message to get individual gains to exclusion of your community's position, this results in us - particularly habesha women due to misogynoir, receiving the most antiblackness - from other women, and that leaves us vulnerable to all sorts of social vulnerabilities. there is no acting outside our collective communities - we have to build there and then together, to reach pan Africanism. the boundaries are for safety, i feel you understand this, and are willing to not only harm your own people, but us, and leave us with the consequences. this is selfish not loving. its very dangerous.
A lot of these girls are naturally stuck up to their own and have no self respect because they get hollered at constantly by foreign guys and then end up look down on their own. Deep down it’s an inferiority complex. Most these girls don’t respect their own men because they don’t respect themselves and family. Shoutout to my East African men they’re standup and honest dudes. I’m ashamed to have people like this from my country. After they’ve been played and run through they’ll cry back to their communities.
Again, excellent topic and discussion; however, please, avoid hasty generalization. Going forward embrace and respect each other. And also don't forget to go and mingle and create genetic vigor, that would increase fitness for genetic survival.
Some people in the comments are confused, just cos your ethiopian or eritrean doesn't mean you're habesha. habesha are a specific people that are linguistically and genetically related, and they makeup the majority of eritrea but not ethiopia.
Just an observation as an African American woman. The men don't seem mature yet they come off very young minded. So in a way I can understand why they seem relationships from foreign men.
I don't know to many Ethiopian, I live in Virginia not northern Virginia, it's not a lot of Ethiopia in Norfolk, va. If you do see them you got to go to ODU. That's a college, student that go there are Ethiopia, or go up to DC. But the ones that I do meet they're some nice people to never had a problem with them. Iam a black American.
Habesha and somalia people shall work together so that horn of Africa become like the middle east, and we work together, Middle east and horn of africa❤ Im Ethiopian 🇪🇹
wisdom and discretion based on the Word of God is more beautiful than what’s on the outside! A heart that loves the Lord. Value inner beauty not outer beauty, External beauty will fade, We all know that our physical bodies erode and deteriorate over time-but inwardly, we are daily renewed through the life-giving Word of Christ. each day our inner beauty can blossom. The Bible says that our focus doesn’t need to be our external appearance, but instead we need to focus on having a quiet and gentle spirit. And when you look to find a spouse, look for someone who strives to seek God in all they do. Cultural norms and traditions come and go, But the Word of the Lord endures forever. Early in the relationship connection, express your desire to avoid premarital sex. When you express your desire to want to honor God with your sexuality before marriage, this won’t be a shock to a real Christian. That is just a basic biblical command all true Christians must follow. But if you say this to someone who is just pretending to obey the Bible, they will leave you quickly because they will not be willing to wait until marriage for sex. Someone can deceive you with words. But when you see their obedience to the Lord that matches their words, then you know they are trustworthy. They need to be visibly producing the fruits of the Spirit because this is a mark of a true Christian. Anyone can claim to be a Christian. And we can’t know someone’s heart. So the Bible says we are to evaluate people by their actions. Christians will not be perfect, but they will be bearing fruit that is evidence of their true salvation. Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge."
jason kenny you are right at some point , we were raised feeling way good about ourselves and our looks so we have a problem of differentiating confidence with an ego we do it not even knowing it , trust me we are really down to earth and respectful like no other but some of us do it without even knowing it , it took me a decade to know I have an ego not confidence and I’m sure most of my Ethiopian(habeshan) sisters are same way.
To any woman(not only habesha) reading these comments, it's okay to have standards. If you're attractive, educated, hard working, romantic, sensible, etc, why would you settle for someone who is not equally that. Men are often more vain than women. They often chase after beautiful women, rather than good characters, even when those women are out of their leagues. However, if a woman rejects a man for not being her type, then she is called "stuck up". Are you guys saying that you'll accept any woman who shows interest in you, regardless of how she looks? because if you're not, then you're simply a hypocrite.
By the way such beautiful habesha women shall speak only in British english rather than American English, because their cuteness is British, I'm west African women can speak American English because its similar to their look but habeshan look is British accent
Dear brethren fellow citizens of Ethiopians, peace unto you all. Listen! Birds with the same feathers fly together. Those who married out of our culture have huge problems. Million are searching DNA. Children are abused physically and mentally and spiritually and emotionally. Be careful marriage is not temporary. If something goes wrong, it affects this life and the life to come. Money is lost nothing lost and life is lost something lost but character is lost everything lost. Keep up good work and stay tuned for marriage union.
Am not trying to be disrespectful Or anything but habasha people Look like a mixture of African European and middle eastern DNA And some southeast Asian as will Again am not trying to be disrespectful this just shows Africa is to diverse to be stereotype
Bol Ayul this is not disrespectful you are saying the right thing and this is what our DNA turn out to be if a habesha do one , we a mixture of all those you mentioned and that make us beautiful and diverse and Africa in general.
@@Anedoje yes there are full blooded Khoisan’s especially in Namibia 🇳🇦 and Botswana 🇧🇼 and there are Khoisan who are mixed with Bantus and a lot of them are found in South Africa 🇿🇦 , Botswana 🇧🇼, Lesotho 🇱🇸 and majority of these mixed Khoisan+ Bantus considers themselves Bantus but the facial features don’t lie that they have Khoisan dna🧬. There are also Khoisans who are mixed with Europeans and Asians and those are considered coloureds. I am stating this based on the southern African demographics ethnic group mix up.
A New Year, I emphasize 2020 three hundred sixty five days r b4 all of us although it will waste away like 2019. I along with y'all must use efficient the time, 24hrs in each day; I'm focus on each second because I have vision. I stick to the path destine to b phenomenal because I desire a better way of life; I adhere to my ancestor tradition, culture, religion an education since my ancient decedent ham, Noah son, set the standard of divine colossal structures, like the sphinx an the pyramid in Egypt, an in Ethiopia, the church Lalibela so that he make known, did I stutter when I utter, no other goes before this ancient ecclesiastical civilization, Abyssinia. Next, religion, my ancient descendant king David ecclesiastical government is base on christianity, for it establish its foundation on the covenant promise to king David is an eternal throne, an ecclesiastical government. Finally, education, my ancient descendant Egyptian African in appearance civilize humanity with language, mathematics, science, and etcetera, and each help advance their race like Rome, Greece, China, Russia, Italy, Britain, and the United states an etcetera. A New Year, I emphasize 2020 three hundred sixty five days r b4 all of us although it will waste away like 2019.
ana dennis don't generalize. Just as there are habesha ladies dating / married to none habesha men, there are also Habesha men dating/married to none habesha's women including women from other parts of Africa or African Americans or Caribbeans.
I feel like in some cases, age and maturity level plays a factor, I think the older I’ve gotten, the more I see the value and beauty of marrying within my own culture
Exactly same 🙌
I think it depends where you
Grow up at and what country
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Trust I agree 💯
Well said.
You have the brain
I'm happy to see. Habsha people are getting together and trying to discuss about the culture and and marriage and growing up with habsha family in Western Country. Keeep doing this kind video. So we can learn what's the problem and solve it all together keep doing this kind of video please
It’s so funny to see habesha people with the British accents
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Bro, I knowwwwww, right!?!
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Hagoes Gebre kinda weird to hear...so weird...
Bro u should see me with an American accent from the state of texas.
I'm habesha and I want just habesha woman, to eventually build an habesha family. We create the feeling, being nice each others, supporting each others, in some city like London, if u stay in the spot where all of us stay, u have the right opportunity to find your soulmate. And the sharing of the same colture is really important in the long term.
Wish there were more habesha men like the guy in the white hoodie. His personality and confidence is maddd attractive😍😂
Lol if they keep testing Ethiopian niggas trust your going to see plenty more like that nigga wit the hoodie
i'm not Habesha, but it's so nice to see how respectful you are to each other the way you guys don't talk over one another. the vibe in the room is just perfect. it's rare in this generation.
In the US, I agree with habesha women looking down on habesha men. However, they lower their standard for foreign men
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i've met too many Ethiopian girls who want to be friends in the beginning and when they realize i'm rich they all wanna kick it. bull shit, i'm looking for a real one. and when i mean rich, honestly i don't even consider myself rich mainly because i consistently compare myself, which is wrong but mostly for fun. im retired now, honestly the only thing that would take me out of retirement and into day to day work is a tech company. by the way i made money from tech i co founded a company when i was 21. investments have compounded 13 percent for my last 2 active years which is pretty good for a beginner. but i'm definitely in the one percent of the one percent in income and net worth.
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No one asked and not all habesha girls are like that
@@proudamhararaya4668 oh im so offended, they're all like that each and every single one of them are like that. i dont take advantage of people, i use my money for good, money will soon be worthless remember this. copy this text, i promise you copy it. us humans are the devils children, i know the whole thing about god creating humans but humans are created by the devil and the devil created by god. the only thing real about us is our sould, everything else is manipulated by the devil. lust, money, inventions, greed etc. soon i promise you,soon during the end times a quote on quote alien will come down from space that is actually the devil. the antichrist is already here leading everything. god is the only one who will save us and our mistakes will be forgiven. homosexuality is a sin in christianity and other religions but let me make some sense out of this, our body is created by the devil, this world is the devils world. everything about this world is the devils work that is why we have different skin color religion and basically there's a quote on quote competitor for everything and everything is a competition, that is simply false the united States is the wepon of the devil
Just to throw my opinions on here. One, I think that the girls are definitely put on a higher standard then the men and if you can’t see that then you’re most likely an only child or just blind sorry, but I have brothers who got/still get away with 90% of stuff that I couldn’t even dream about. Going out I’m expected to be home way sooner while my brothers won’t even get a all asking where they are. In school I was expected to choose a field in something challenging and they were never told to do any specific career like I was. Two, I think a lot of Habesha girls have this I’m too good for Habesha men attitude 100%! Again I notice that with my brothers and how I’ve seen countless Habesha girls treat them. Because of the constant praise Habesha girls get from celebs and just men in general about their looks, a lot of them (obviously not all) think their so much superior then the boys who get little to no appraisal from other people. Hence making them think they’re better then them and it shows in their attitude. Just my opinion on these topics, speaking from personal experiences.
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nadu o yes I am from Ethiopia and my girlfriend is from Vietnam 100%true they act like Beyoncé and Stuck up.
@@3Dgamespot And whosoever exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.
- Matthew 23:12
@First Name Last Name As a habesha man i'm doing good right now. i'm planning on getting married after maybe 6 years when i turn 29. im very good financially. one percent of the one percent in income and net worth. investments compounding 13 percent a year. sometimes i feel lonely, it sucks when you'r uncle knows you can pay off his house. i'm not doing anything at the moment, i might go to Ethiopia to start a couple of businesses or start another tech company in the US.
First Name Last Name good luck to you.
we deffo need a part 2 on this i wouldn't even mind if it goes to part 10
I am Mexican American my parents are Mexican Mexican. They really never showed affection in front of us kids. But they both loved each other and respected each other. So I don't see anything wrong with Ethiopians marriages not showing affection between their kids. Because they may throw it in private I'm just adding my two cents peace.
Habesha men's are king of King's. Using the word trash is you kiiling your own blood. Respect your King's than you get to treated like a queen #habeshamentality keep it 100%
Ayal Negus, aren't Ethiopians habesha?
They came from same bloodline and they were one empire during Saba days you need to learn proper history not racist history
@Ayal Negus Ethiopian empire extended present day Ethiopia including Eritrea to Yemen and Saudi at its height it reached India.
www.amazon.co.uk/Wonderful-Ethiopians-Ancient-Cushite-Empire/dp/1492849693/ref=gp_aw_ybh_a_5?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=2BD45Z7VHP77V988WNYM
@Ayal Negus Ethiopia was much larger and everyone knows that and the people in other countries are still Ethiopian blood. It's people like you that support European carved borders that need to be proud actually plus dont tell me as an Ethiopian what to think I got my own mind bye.
Petros Gilazgi How about u respect women and then u will get respect
Habesha kings rise up 💪🏾
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PC charlotte Set up bitch what kings, habehsa guys are like 4 feet tall on average and they look like women😂😂🤦🏾♂️
@@roadrunna0075 😂😂😂😂 is your dad 4 feet tall????
ya M nah he’s 6’4, and I’m even taller so nice try.
@@roadrunna0075 nigga are you habesha?
@@yam8039 he's somalian 😀
It's very true, habesha man don't take rejection very will, they will trash you so bad. And I'm talking about under the age of 30. Please Ethiopian man not every single girl you ask is going to be in to you.
to much noise, I think there is an Ecco. hard to catch up properly. Can u fix the sound
They have weird accent.
@@birhanjommy you are weird. you saw the need to go in every comment and reply haha
We love Habesha men! But in the western world our options are limited. It’s not like we’re as many as Indians. And honestly I wish they would try bulking up more. Masculinity is just slightly lower than needed.
Lol the dude on the end of the orange sofa in the white t-shirt not saying a word 😂
🤣🤣🤣in all videos
He be eating nails and laughing 🤣🤣🤣
Real definition of third wheeling
Ladies! I kept hearing this repeated in the video but it's NOT your fault for having a high standard for any man - Habesha or not. If 1 person doesn't meet your standards, there will be someone that WILL. The standards & boundaries (i.e. he should be a gentleman, be chivalrous, be a provider, etc) that you set for men should not fluctuate depending on who he is or what race he comes from. Don't blame yourself for having standards--be unapologetic about it! At the end of the day, who you choose to be your life partner will affect you, your community, your future children, & multiple generations after so choose wisely even if that means being picky! Anyone who doesn't meet your standards isn't a man you want anyways. Much Love to all of the beautiful Habesha Women (& men) out there.
Mel you know, watching myself back I realised that too. You’re so right! It’s not my fault they couldn’t meet those standards but I guess the disappointment came from the initial expectation. Regardless of who they are I defo wouldn’t settle or expect less just because others couldn’t meet those standards :) thanks for sharing your thoughts ♥️
What DO YOU Bring to the table? Do u ask urself this?
Sudan Nutella Women bring their womb to the table. If u want a baby then ur going to have to act right and be a provider. Even surrogates cost money
@@dntknw241 Stop being immature. Nobody is useless. Men are needed for their inner strength, wisdom, and leadership, in addition to their ability to provide and love, whiles women are needed for their femininity, fertility, loyalty, and counsel. It goes both ways. Don't forget, your value as a potential housewife significantly decreases once you've given up your most precious asset, which is your *virginity.* So stop complaining.
Here is my input to this discussion. I have been in a relationship with one Ethiopian guy, two Somalis, and two white American guys. Out of all, i found the white guys to be the most loyal, hard-working, romantic, and respectful. Of course it depends on what type of guys you go for character wise as there are bad apples in every group. But me personally, i don't like bad boys, neither do i like extremely submissive men. I believe in equality, sharing of bills, chores, mutual respect, etc.
Culture plays a big role in how men act towards women. I believe that Western/American men (excluding ghetto ones), tend to have very liberal and modern views on realtionships and gender roles, compared to non western men in general. So, they're more likely to go to great lengths to please their women (cooking, cleaning, buying flowers, birthday surprises, remembering important dates, etc). They also go to great lengths to keep up their personal appearances. For instance, my previous American boyfriend used to shave his chest because he assumed women didn't like body hair, eventhough it was time consuming and painful.. So, i don't know what kind of foreign men
other habesha women date, but from my personal experience, those American (white) guys have raised the standards for what i should expect back from a man in my relationship.
lol i love a good debate! this was defo an interesting one
Girl with a talent❤❤
inurh192 thank you ♥️
this is a juicy one👀 hope you guys enjoyyyy
Tinsay I enjoyed it. It was great topic and I learn something out of it
And I want to say sorry for bothering you on Instagram.
I like ur t-shirt
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Tinsay juicy like raw meat? 😂😂🤢🤮 Fucking Aidthopians.
i like how u guys shot multiple episodes in a day and casually reshuffle your seats - like we all watch a single episode. i came back for u.
Great discussion guy! And I love the ways all you speak(thought) guys
These arguments are relevant for 90% of any race of people with color..women’s views on men are pretty much universal
There's a Ethiopian guy at my university that I fancy and am sure he likes me too but his Christian which makes it hella hard. I just have to love him from a distance damn. 😔 you guys are all beautiful by the way. Love from Somalia
Hey Reem most definitely, it's ur crush😘
@@ynastachdu5159 really 🤣 what University do you go to? 😂🤣😂
Habasha Christians and muslims marry all the time my great grandmother was an orthodox Christian my great grand father was a Muslim,
@@AMR_k400 do the habesha many Muslims outside of habesha culture?
@Conscious Awakening
I have seen marrying alot of arabs especially yemenis,sudanis,saudis and even armenians
Great video i love it
you guys should discuss more about this kind of topic.
peace and blessings to my habesha friends from somalia.
Habesha and somalia people shall work together so that horn of Africa become like the middle east, and we work together,
Middle east and horn of africa❤
Im Ethiopian 🇪🇹
This may a bit controversial but I feel like I have a good theory for why Habesha girls may think they are "better" than Habesha men. My theory is that they compare the lust directed to them by West African black men or black American men to the lust directed to them by Habesha men and most of the time there is no comparison which group is more thirsty. Black men tend to really thirst over Habesha woman because of their "nicer hair" and their more Caucasian features. To black men, habesha women are just a cheap version of a white girl and we all know how much black men fetishize over white women. It's simply colorism and self hate . Habesha men tend to find living in the west more difficult largely because of identity issues and the mismatch of the black stereotype.
There's no denying that habesha women are very attractive, and so are the men. But my personal preference for the opposite sex is someone who is tall, lean or athletic, short hair, and dresses and speaks properly (i dislike guys who emulate ghetto and hip hop culture). Unfortunately, a lot of the habesha guys i see around me tend to have some of those things i find unattractive on men-- the braided hair, dreads, beer belly, ghetto behaviour, etc.
Samira A since when habesha is ghetto. Ethos act like themselves. Also etho ladies hate dreads more than anyone else in the planet. In here in los angles, we have a etho community called little Ethiopia and we do our own things. Idk what ghetto means anymore. I see more white people do ghetto stuff than POC so idk.
It has nothing to do with self hate but simple attraction. What kind of man wouldn't be attracted by long curly hairs over weaves? By feminine looks and behavior over masculine one?
@@mikailm6934 disingenuous. It's self hate.
@@fana2917 it's not, we are proud of what we are, we don't bleach our skin nor wear false hair and so forth. It's a simple attraction, you should do some researchers about sexual dimorphism amongst races. Other men see these women as even less so it's not about self hate, there is something about black women(especially the darksinned ones) who turn off most men(not me).
Loved the discussion!! This video has Great vibes 🌷⚘🎀
This is real easy to decode (From the African American view)
I'm checked out some of these East African threads, and I came across some where the complaint was that Habesha women were getting with WEST AFRICAN black men or those of that descend, be them UK, America, or in West Africa.
What I see is GENDER BASED COLORISM AND FEATURISM.
As one of the women said in this video, other groups, INCLUDING West African black men gas East African women up for their "beauty". The women like that, and therefore gravitate to the men who show them the MOST THIRST.
Dark skin, West African featured men are showcased in the mainstream media as HYPER-MASCULINE and more viral - combine that with their "THIRST", "SELF HATRED" or "GENDER BASED COLORISM/FEATURISM"
Habesha men are seen in the same light as light skin, and mixed men in America, as somehow LESS THAN. Yes, they might be elevated (the same as the women) for their "BEAUTY" and essentially NON-BLACK FEATURES, but because of those features they are NOT perceived as MASCULINE, like their West African dark skinned counterparts.
For those who of you who are from outside the US - light skin men are frequently seen as too pretty, can't fight, not aggressive, can't lay the pipe down among other things.
It has been argued that many Habesha men get their idea of BLACK MALE MASCULINITY from African America WEST AFRICAN DESCENT DARK SKIN THUGS. As a result they are seen as "IMITATION AFRICAN AMERICAN MEN". This is another thing that injures Habesha men in my opinion.
Are Habesha women saying to themselves, "I might as well get the real thing" combined with the THIRST that they know or assume they will receive from dark skin West African descended black men.
I have NEVER heard any women discuss their THRIST from East African men. I feel this is in part due to the lack of positive masculine media promotion, combined with these men rarely ever being seen in any athletic light that requires muscles.
Light skin men, Asian men, and Habesha men (throw in Somalians) aka Horner Men, all have the same problem in terms of how they are valued relative to their own women.
This is interesting - but I most certainly see the parallels.
I think the core of the issue comes down to the ideas that a FEMININE woman only looks a certain type of way - "Straight nose, long hair" - as East African women essentially look like "White women dipped in Chocolate" or are the most NON-BLACK AFRICAN BANTU women out of all Black Africans. Combine this with the Hypermasculinzation of dark skin black men, you end up with the situation where East African women gravitate towards what media has ALSO told them is MASCULINE in men. The DARK SKIN MUSCULAR Black man.
These are just my thoughts and observations.
im a 25yr old eritrean dude from the bay and I agree with a lot of your points but the factor that they mentioned is very relevant. We have all grew up with eachother in our communities and our parents literally told us were cousins so we grow up not really dating because its awkward.
My man wrote an essay 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@Jason Young but you know. With what you just said. That argument has been used against all black people from the beginning of time. That we are all the same. Africa is the biggest straight land mass continent. Someone from the very west coast of the continent is not going to be too much like someone from the East. The same with the very southern part. I agree with you that we are all black and we stem from the same continent. The way in which a lot of us have evolved as way different. Geography and how much of an influence the neighbors on the next continent are heavily influence this. In the north they had Rome just across the sea and Isreal a skip beat away. In the horn, you see the difference in miles with us and Yemen and company. The south of Africa and the west are the only parts I've seen that are the most indiginous from the start to near present day. West Africa is practically land locked because it's ocean to the west, ocean to it's south and the Sahara to it's north. The same is basically for the southern part of Africa. I'm not beefin' with you. I fully see what you're trying to say. It's just I've been fighting my whole life to prove not all black people are the same. Then again, talk is cheap. Action is 💯. Proud to say I'm in route to become a U.S high school history and geography teacher. Pass correct knowledge and understanding of all of our race in a way that will go forward with the next generation (the students).
@@krazywu 510 💯
@Alemeyyy I agree with you to an extent. The "weird ass comments" is the whole point of this page isn't it? "Talk Habesha?" How you feel or think is your own. Let's always encourage and educate one another. Not discourage and discriminate.
Hot Take! Black American here married to Habesha women from Gondar. Had this discussion with my wife like why you want me (over uncle Hagus)? Here is what I think about why Habesha women are dating out... Imitation. When Ethiopians come to the States or UK they lose some of their culture and often times imitate the prevailing black culture (black American or Nigerian in the UK). If Habesha culture is indeed superior as many of the commenters below believe, there would be no need to assimilate and once this is done can you blame the women for going for the original rather than an imitation of the real thing??? I see Ethiopians and Somalis often times attempting to act like black Americans; why? What makes you all special is your cultures, once you lessen or diminish this you are not as special. The problem though is, black American culture is soooooo strong (probably the strongest there is or second to white American culture).
Very interesting video. My maternal grandmother is from Yemen.
As a Black American this video is so fascinating to me. I have Ethiopian friends that I grew up with but have never ever heard them speak like this on these topics. Very Interesting
Someone needs to start an American version of Talk Habesha. However, being an Ethiopian American I have to admit most of us would be too insecure to touch topics like this and put it on camera but that's just my opinion.
Couldnt argue
I'm black and im proud 👏
what did this have to do with anything lol
Can we discuss dismantling male supremacy and anti ethnic conflicts? Also can you guys speak on #TigrayGenocide and raising awareness to let humanitarian access in, and save the people. It will have positive impacts for the whole nation. This is a humanity crisis. Please discuss social cultural violence, and how restructure governance, social cultural conversations preventatively
Are there any Ethiopians in cambridge and more specifically in Anglia ruskin? I am thinking of going there and I dont want to forget Amharic and also I will feel more at home if I am with other Ethiopians.
I didn’t even know about habesha, I look at you all and thought you were all mixed race… Jesus… I need to get myself Ed u acted!! What a beautiful race xx
Nah you can tell the difference between habesha and mixed race most of the time. Maybe 2 girls there could pass for mixed but that's about it.
We are habesha people of horn of Africa, genetically a d geographically we are similar to middle east
The only one I know from this group very well is Yosef!! I went to the same school as him at Saint Cecilia's Wandsworth. I wish he could introduce me to Melo coz I have a crush on him :D Melo betam konjo new! cute eyes and cute smile :D wededededededed Melo yeeeeeeeeeeeee!
The only reason I watch talk habesha channel is coz of Melo! He is so cute!! love him loads!!
wow i mustve lived in a bubble even tho im a habesha man from the us i never seen or heard any of this kind retoric
the guy is right, the men do get success with other women from other culture, in some other culture the women don't give in once or twice, you need to try again and again then she will come around to it, this may not be the same with the habesha women but is true with some other african cultures
Habesha girls get worship by non habesha man but we habesha man look at them like every othere woman. Habesha man are not a woman worshiper .
Sam Ahf Habesha men cant satisfy Habesha women sexually, y’all don’t deserve them. All other Africans and Caribbean men pass them around. Where I’m from for example I know over 15 habehsa girls who are single mother with half either: Jamaican, Somali, Nigerian, African American and even white kids.
Road Runna007 really? I don't know what kind habesha niggas you are talking about..... we habesha niggas don't have that problem. I don't want be disrespectful to the other black folks but we ain't sweat y'all, we get all kind women....... that's not a things or problem for us.
@@samahf1669 he's somalian they got some kind of inferiority complex when it comes to habeshas lool
African Gang the truth is not an “ inferiority complex”.
So, better for the rest of the World who thinks we are the most beautyful Women on the planet and in the universe***and they say we the best cook and Inteligent too like our Mothers***so better for the rest of the world, and for us too if habesha men dont worship us so the rest of the world will for sure***iam not worry about that one,because i hear it evry day even from women!!! ALL this money makeing nice cars what men do is to impress us***sometimes you have to lose the most precious thing women(mothers) to know what you truly have. and now yall loseing us with this attitude....trust me Men going hard for us...Millonaires all of that. WE THE PRICE***iam saying this because everybody is keep saying this about habesha iam not joking i live in germany. iam top model iman for them evrywhere i go. so is sad evrybody see but yall blinded i guess by our beauty....muahahahahah...or scared. hihi.
I'm not Ethiopian, but from what I've experienced... I've never seen habesha women look down on habesha men. Instead habesha women look down on us African-American men. Like we're at the bottom of the bottom.
I can only speak for my own situation here, but I would say the reason me and my girls tend to not have the same respect for ya’ll is because we know how you have a reputation of treating your own women that share ya’lls feautures, hair and skintone like trash. If I had a daughter by one of you and she looks like you, will she be treated like trash as well when she grows up? Like No thanks, who would want to be with someone that does not even respect their own.
@@benim4449 I understand your experience is your experience. I'm disappointed that's all you've seen from us, but all of us aren't the same, sister. I know some African-American men who treat their woman like trash and I know alot who treat their woman like a queen. Personally, I don't treat women like trash. My mother and my grandmother raised me. I have alot of respect for women and I definitely respect my own. I respect everyone as long as they respect me. You have to get to know a person first before you judge them, sis.
@@jacoreywilliams5924 I think just as we hold white people accountable for not building anti oppressive culture, its important you hold yourself accountable for not building anti oppressive culture and community for Black Americans. You cannot operate as an individual outside your community. This is why building community, not trying to make yourself an exception matters. Otherwise its replicating white supremacist individuality, individualism, exceptionalism ideas, that strip individuals of responsibility for building a collective. Community matters. And your women are horrendeously disrespected in a way no one on planet earth has ever seen done. That is something not being handled in community but openly discussed, showing no worth to invest in selves, protect own interests, not give pearls to dogs as bible says. We treat people as individuals - and someone abandoning themselves from their community says a lot about an individual. Our collective unity means each carrying our own load and empowering each other to support wherever we are - not avoiding collective issues. if the collective isnt good - there is no desire to do anything until the collective is often - so why not here? This says a lot about not fighting own battles. Youre not excluded we love you all. We feel you exclude us tbh by not eradicating antiblackness in yourselves first as a first community goal. Youre thinking of what you as an individual gain. yet when you send the message to get individual gains to exclusion of your community's position, this results in us - particularly habesha women due to misogynoir, receiving the most antiblackness - from other women, and that leaves us vulnerable to all sorts of social vulnerabilities. there is no acting outside our collective communities - we have to build there and then together, to reach pan Africanism. the boundaries are for safety, i feel you understand this, and are willing to not only harm your own people, but us, and leave us with the consequences. this is selfish not loving. its very dangerous.
@@jacoreywilliams5924 niggas like you just need to stfu
@@user-tk4qd8dj1p are you done
Accents so wild to hear!!!!
where are these guys???
We need you back on social media. your shows are entertaining and educational.
Please do some videos for us.
A lot of these girls are naturally stuck up to their own and have no self respect because they get hollered at constantly by foreign guys and then end up look down on their own. Deep down it’s an inferiority complex. Most these girls don’t respect their own men because they don’t respect themselves and family. Shoutout to my East African men they’re standup and honest dudes. I’m ashamed to have people like this from my country. After they’ve been played and run through they’ll cry back to their communities.
Messi Mess they always do
Messi Mess where you from man?
Most all African women do that when they move to foreign countries.
No one owns African women.
Don't mind me Im African American chiming in :D
Think about that the only place a black man can get babied/Sympathy is with his mother
That's true bro ethiopian women are so beutiful and have high standards
Again, excellent topic and discussion; however, please, avoid hasty generalization. Going forward embrace and respect each other. And also don't forget to go and mingle and create genetic vigor, that would increase fitness for genetic survival.
the thing ab habehsa men and women in my opinion "opposites attract and likes repel"
Some people in the comments are confused, just cos your ethiopian or eritrean doesn't mean you're habesha. habesha are a specific people that are linguistically and genetically related, and they makeup the majority of eritrea but not ethiopia.
Hope you can speak your own language too. I like you all.
Just an observation as an African American woman. The men don't seem mature yet they come off very young minded. So in a way I can understand why they seem relationships from foreign men.
If you can explain from your perspective, what actions came off as immature?
Most Ethiopians aren't like these people neither the men or women these people were probably born in Europe
The men seem very much reasonable to me it's the women that arent
I've the same impression.
Beautiful people 💕💕💕💕
Y’all aren’t hipp the hate is coming from some habesha guys preferring other race/ethnicity this shit is still going outta control
You guys rock! But it wouldn't hurt if you took turns while speaking. I couldn't hear what some of you were saying half of the time.
I don't know to many Ethiopian, I live in Virginia not northern Virginia, it's not a lot of Ethiopia in Norfolk, va. If you do see them you got to go to ODU. That's a college, student that go there are Ethiopia, or go up to DC. But the ones that I do meet they're some nice people to never had a problem with them. Iam a black American.
The girls are quite sure that they have better options on the dating market than the guys. Oh, poor habesha guys!
I’m Somali habasha forever
ኄኖክ ኃይሉ probably half and half idk
From somali region or from Somalia
@@AMR_k400 bro Oromo and Somali aren’t habesha only northern Ethiopia and eirtrea and gurage
Niyyo ur lost
Im habesha somali forever, 🇪🇹🇸🇴,
I like the way you like us😘
Habesha and somalia people shall work together so that horn of Africa become like the middle east, and we work together,
Middle east and horn of africa❤
Im Ethiopian 🇪🇹
The sound quality is not good. There is some kind of noise cant here you clearly.
wisdom and discretion based on the Word of God is more beautiful than what’s on the outside! A heart that loves the Lord. Value inner beauty not outer beauty, External beauty will fade, We all know that our physical bodies erode and deteriorate over time-but inwardly, we are daily renewed through the life-giving Word of Christ. each day our inner beauty can blossom. The Bible says that our focus doesn’t need to be our external appearance, but instead we need to focus on having a quiet and gentle spirit. And when you look to find a spouse, look for someone who strives to seek God in all they do. Cultural norms and traditions come and go, But the Word of the Lord endures forever. Early in the relationship connection, express your desire to avoid premarital sex. When you express your desire to want to honor God with your sexuality before marriage, this won’t be a shock to a real Christian. That is just a basic biblical command all true Christians must follow. But if you say this to someone who is just pretending to obey the Bible, they will leave you quickly because they will not be willing to wait until marriage for sex. Someone can deceive you with words. But when you see their obedience to the Lord that matches their words, then you know they are trustworthy. They need to be visibly producing the fruits of the Spirit because this is a mark of a true Christian. Anyone can claim to be a Christian. And we can’t know someone’s heart. So the Bible says we are to evaluate people by their actions. Christians will not be perfect, but they will be bearing fruit that is evidence of their true salvation.
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge."
Habesha women are pretty but I don't think the men look good.
In spaces were the women do the men usually don't, but not always, and vice versa.
E.g west Africans
That doesnt even make logical sense though.
This nice af‼️‼️‼️
I'm not Ethiopian and even I can say Ethiopian girls are mad stuck up. Idk if it's how they are raised but they need to lower their ego a bit.
jason kenny you are right at some point , we were raised feeling way good about ourselves and our looks so we have a problem of differentiating confidence with an ego we do it not even knowing it , trust me we are really down to earth and respectful like no other but some of us do it without even knowing it , it took me a decade to know I have an ego not confidence and I’m sure most of my Ethiopian(habeshan) sisters are same way.
To any woman(not only habesha) reading these comments, it's okay to have standards. If you're attractive, educated, hard working, romantic, sensible, etc, why would you settle for someone who is not equally that. Men are often more vain than women. They often chase after beautiful women, rather than good characters, even when those women are out of their leagues. However, if a woman rejects a man for not being her type, then she is called "stuck up". Are you guys saying that you'll accept any woman who shows interest in you, regardless of how she looks? because if you're not, then you're simply a hypocrite.
The stuck up behavior is a way to filter out the many men who want to waste our time.
Apparently having standards is being stuck up.
How is that exactly? don’t generalise a whole community
HEY guys please come back yall are missed .
loved this video 🤩😍🇪🇹🇪🇷💛
Why thay not try.. Amharic .....if thay say we r habesha or ...when they r ethiopiyan.....
Personally I find it hard to be attracted to habesha girls maybe cause I grew up with them idk, still love my culture and our food though 👌🏾
By the way such beautiful habesha women shall speak only in British english rather than American English, because their cuteness is British,
I'm west African women can speak American English because its similar to their look but habeshan look is British accent
Habesha women understand this LOWER YOUR STANDERS if your a solid 6 expect an average male y’all think you need a super model but look average asf 😂
Lmao frr
Tried to contact you through Twitter, but there is no reply from you guys. You might be busy but can you please reply when you have time.
🤣🤣 its my first time hearing habesha with a british accent
This is more of talk Amhara? Cannot really relate
oh get lost troll
jerina Star how am i troll?
jerina Star 😂😂
zorroronnie Because you’re making it a tribal think you don’t know what the tribal groups of any of these people
How do u know they are amhara its a well known fact that most Ethiopians can talk in amharaic even non amharas
What do you mean you didn't have a good example who is getting more divorce this generation or the previous generation?????
Ambition, I mastered the English language a trait everyone have although it's suppress until u wake from slumber, ambition.
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I love me a habesha man
Dear brethren fellow citizens of Ethiopians, peace unto you all. Listen! Birds with the same feathers fly together. Those who married out of our culture have huge problems. Million are searching DNA. Children are abused physically and mentally and spiritually and emotionally. Be careful marriage is not temporary. If something goes wrong, it affects this life and the life to come. Money is lost nothing lost and life is lost something lost but character is lost everything lost. Keep up good work and stay tuned for marriage union.
I love you Yohanna yene konjo!
all beautiful nachu
Go and merry nigerian and make fufu for him we habesha men are too good for you guys in a long run
Why does they all sound like Elton John
I dont understand this time girls man...............🤔
Am not trying to be disrespectful
Or anything but habasha people
Look like a mixture of African
European and middle eastern DNA
And some southeast Asian as will
Again am not trying to be disrespectful this just shows
Africa is to diverse to be stereotype
Bol Ayul this is not disrespectful you are saying the right thing and this is what our DNA turn out to be if a habesha do one , we a mixture of all those you mentioned and that make us beautiful and diverse and Africa in general.
ኄኖክ ኃይሉ Khoisan?nahh maybe Nilotic but not us(Khoisans).
Most Khoisan’s are mixed with Bantus and Europeans in the south of Africa.
Yeah u are right
@@theonly6359 most khoisan have no outside dna what are you talking about cape colords and khoi san are two different groups
@@Anedoje yes there are full blooded Khoisan’s especially in Namibia 🇳🇦 and Botswana 🇧🇼 and there are Khoisan who are mixed with Bantus and a lot of them are found in South Africa 🇿🇦 , Botswana 🇧🇼, Lesotho 🇱🇸 and majority of these mixed Khoisan+ Bantus considers themselves Bantus but the facial features don’t lie that they have Khoisan dna🧬. There are also Khoisans who are mixed with Europeans and Asians and those are considered coloureds.
I am stating this based on the southern African demographics ethnic group mix up.
Yoel you will be the best football player keep playing
ONE LOVE FAMILY HALLELUYAHWEH
Guy's i want to engish soory i now engish but am learn want i come
i engish to bery much
Stay black 🖤
What? Thats seem like bad word when its translated to Ethiopian
Ya I just wanna know who dat nigga in black shirt.. I see you king 👀
Habesha mammies are solid fr
They are the most beautiful black people ever
no weave or wigs in sight.
@Sprint OG you sound hella defensive bro. Never said they were special or never wear wigs
Yes and our men don’t wear grills or sag their pants thank god 😫
Habesha womenbwith british accents 😍
Adonay is so cute 🙈
Part 2 !!!!!!!!
Where can i find the song from the intro?
The women with the white shirt 😘
A New Year, I emphasize 2020 three hundred sixty five days r b4 all of us although it will waste away like 2019. I along with y'all must use efficient the time, 24hrs in each day; I'm focus on each second because I have vision. I stick to the path destine to b phenomenal because I desire a better way of life; I adhere to my ancestor tradition, culture, religion an education since my ancient decedent ham, Noah son, set the standard of divine colossal structures, like the sphinx an the pyramid in Egypt, an in Ethiopia, the church Lalibela so that he make known, did I stutter when I utter, no other goes before this ancient ecclesiastical civilization, Abyssinia. Next, religion, my ancient descendant king David ecclesiastical government is base on christianity, for it establish its foundation on the covenant promise to king David is an eternal throne, an ecclesiastical government. Finally, education, my ancient descendant Egyptian African in appearance civilize humanity with language, mathematics, science, and etcetera, and each help advance their race like Rome, Greece, China, Russia, Italy, Britain, and the United states an etcetera. A New Year, I emphasize 2020 three hundred sixty five days r b4 all of us although it will waste away like 2019.
It's a discussion hope u guys understand each other .
Too bad habesha men don’t date black girls 😔
ana dennis don't generalize. Just as there are habesha ladies dating / married to none habesha men, there are also Habesha men dating/married to none habesha's women including women from other parts of Africa or African Americans or Caribbeans.
Ethiopians are black
Yes they are dont let colonizer Brainwash you. The first humans came out of Ethiopia.
Yep
@Sudan Nutella yep
اجمل لون أجمل ملامح إثيوبيين واريترين🇪🇹🇪🇹🇪🇹😍✔️
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حبيبي والله انا من الحبشه من مواليد السعوديه 🇪🇹