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  • @qstanchin
    @qstanchin 2 года назад +755

    i just wanted to say that you are such a good mom. obviously you are such a genuine person that I expected nothing less, but the way you explain things and talk to Cove as she gets older as if she's a girl friend almost instead of talking AT her out of authority is amazing. the way you ask her what she wants, and explain certain foods, or even just the schedule for the day. its all setting her up to feel validated in herself and her emotions giving her better communication skills and control over her emotions later on, as you just let her feel happy and sad or frustrated without forcing anything on her. I am nowhere near becoming a mom, but I have worked with children for a while now, and I just wanted to let you know how incredible you're doing.

    • @ginamariedemeo
      @ginamariedemeo 2 года назад +6

      I agree! I’ve been loving watching the way she talks to cove. I want to act the same way :)

    • @ohheythereitsalexis
      @ohheythereitsalexis 2 года назад +8

      it's so structured yet so gentle!😊

    • @maurawill51
      @maurawill51 2 года назад

      +1 to this. You are an incredible mama and those girls are so blessed.

  • @thesunshineseekers
    @thesunshineseekers 2 года назад +147

    “Are you pretending to be mom? What the heck!?” Too cute 🥰🥰

  • @marinalukic1070
    @marinalukic1070 2 года назад +400

    Aspyn wearing black is everything 😍😍❤️ love Coco and Lola they’re so cute!

  • @brookecraven7368
    @brookecraven7368 2 года назад +260

    LOVE the black on you Aspyn!!!

  • @its.emma.official
    @its.emma.official 2 года назад +141

    I can't believe how much they've grown! It's like every other vlog Cove is saying new words and Lola is getting chunkier🥺

  • @Kristina-ov8ur
    @Kristina-ov8ur 2 года назад +120

    The way Cove looks JUST LIKE Parker is amazing to me she’s soo cute❤️

  • @kimberlyskwira841
    @kimberlyskwira841 2 года назад +41

    Aspyn, the way you let Cove be so independent and set up her environment for her to be creative with food and art is so awesome!! I’m a student studying early childhood behavior and love this age!! she’s so fun 🤩 you’re killing it mama!

  • @ericaleemynatt
    @ericaleemynatt 2 года назад +49

    My daughter and Cove are about 10 days apart, and mine stopped napping shortly after turning 2. I personally love it because she goes to sleep so easily at night now ☺️ when she napped no matter how early it was she would stay up SO late

  • @Haileybellikka
    @Haileybellikka 2 года назад +51

    You are so smart with the way you parent it amazes me, I’m not sure if I ever want kids but your videos show a good example of what a good parent looks like I wanted to say thank you it’s hard to know some of these things when you never had it or saw it growing up.

  • @tbhjord3067
    @tbhjord3067 2 года назад +92

    new video title: Aspyn ranting about Cove not napping for 17 minutes 😂😂 Naps are the best time to get stuff done! i don’t blame you for wishing she still took them!

  • @jbonsss
    @jbonsss 2 года назад +15

    i’m a preschool teacher for 3 and 4 year olds, and we have a rest time every day! a lot of parents are mixed about whether or not their kids nap at home, but we always have that time to hopefully have them sleep if not just rest quietly! so i think you’re doing a good job with cove and keeping her busy in the morning/afternoon will help make for a more productive rest time! which you are also good at so yay! 💓

  • @clarathelen4115
    @clarathelen4115 2 года назад +339

    We need to see more of tik tok aspyn in these videos

  • @syydneypaiige
    @syydneypaiige 2 года назад +28

    i used to work at a daycare in the 1 & 2 years old room and it’s so normal for some kids to stop napping around that age but we always offered each day if they had wanted to nap but if not they were told to have quiet time. so i would say just keep doing what you’re doing

  • @ashleylynne179
    @ashleylynne179 2 года назад +39

    Haven’t watched a vlog in a while and it’s so fun to see the babies!!

  • @lmilligan6344
    @lmilligan6344 2 года назад +21

    My toddler around 2 years has hit or miss naps. Maybe 2 or 3 days out of the week she will nap. The rest she can have quiet time atleast 1 hour . She just talks to stuffy or her 1 book

  • @NicoleChristina09
    @NicoleChristina09 2 года назад +27

    Cove changing her shirt a million times a day is me when I’m working from home 😂

  • @gretagustafson336
    @gretagustafson336 2 года назад +11

    Love these types of vlogs! The way cove imitated you was so cute!

  • @hayleyv8950
    @hayleyv8950 2 года назад +2

    I really loved this video! It was so much fun to see a day in the life again. Felt very casual and natural

  • @sayhaoztas
    @sayhaoztas 2 года назад +2

    I love this type of vlogs!!! It’s different to see just aspyns day in the life with the babies

  • @alanisnicole9082
    @alanisnicole9082 2 года назад +5

    Lola is getting so big! And aspyn looks so young and beautiful I can’t believe ❤️

  • @jewelwatts2988
    @jewelwatts2988 2 года назад +1

    loved this ditl theyre my fav type of videos

  • @jehonadragusha1292
    @jehonadragusha1292 2 года назад +2

    Love u videos, i love how hard working u are.your family is the cutest ❤❤

  • @chicacita223
    @chicacita223 2 года назад +1

    super cute I love these kinds of videos. Thank you for sharing your day. Cove is so adorable and getting so big! You are such a great mom!💜

  • @theosbornes1
    @theosbornes1 2 года назад +7

    My daughter is a month older than cove and she used to nap at 12/12:30. She hasn’t stopped napping but is definitely napping later between 1:30/2:00pm! She isn’t tired enough or ready to nap at noon anymore so maybe pushing her nap time back can be helpful for Cove!

  • @kaylagraham2487
    @kaylagraham2487 2 года назад +7

    Our babies are the same age. I moved nap time back 30mins (12 to 1230) as well as bedtime (from 7pm to 730) and it fixed the nap refusal issue

  • @Graceroadto3k
    @Graceroadto3k 2 года назад +18

    Cove is so so cute and Lola is too! I think the name Gracie or Ellie is your kinda vibe!

  • @88Jasminee
    @88Jasminee 2 года назад +1

    Love you aspyn! You’re my favorite influencer of all time 🥰💓 Cove and baby Lola are so precious!!!

  • @brookemurphree8391
    @brookemurphree8391 2 года назад +4

    cove blowing on the pretzels stop she’s so cute

  • @britnee173
    @britnee173 2 года назад +3

    Love you’re videos the girls are getting so big ❤️

  • @saralee1052
    @saralee1052 2 года назад +3

    Your an amazing mom, having 2kids it's a struggle specialy if they are not far apart, my son is the same age as coco and he stopped napping at all it though but watching your videos helps me alot

  • @emilyhajny4935
    @emilyhajny4935 2 года назад +2

    Being a previous daycare teacher the kids normally stop between ages 3-4 but still do quite time for 2 hours. Coloring/ books/ or just laying down

  • @emmacpowell
    @emmacpowell 2 года назад +8

    Have you tried putting Cove down for her nap a little later? My toddler recently started going down closer to 1pm rather than noon like she used to and she’s doing so much better with that 💕

  • @megancluna
    @megancluna 2 года назад +1

    My son stopped napping at a little over 2 1/2. It seemed a bit early to me but it just wasn’t working for our family (for him mainly it was such a struggle and then he took forever to go to sleep at night). We still do quiet time in the middle of the day, and that has made the biggest difference. It gives him the rest that his body needs, he doesn’t fight it/he’s happy to do it, and he goes to sleep so fast at night. Every kid is so different, and I think the average age kids stop napping varies a lot so I’d just do what feels best for Cove and your family 💗

  • @hemashaaa
    @hemashaaa 2 года назад +1

    At the Montessori I worked at, the kids had to sit on their bed for an hour at least - can be less at home! If they don’t fall asleep in that time they can have quiet time but it’s usually reading or colouring!

  • @angelinabadami2448
    @angelinabadami2448 2 года назад +3

    Cove blowing on her pretzels is so precious

  • @ashleytrue7678
    @ashleytrue7678 2 года назад +10

    I remember when we were all teenagers and now they’re parents with 2 babies. 🥺💕

  • @mdhillon8150
    @mdhillon8150 2 года назад

    Aspyn, ur literally the best mom ever 😭💗💗

  • @CRG_
    @CRG_ 2 года назад +5

    My daughter is close to 3.5. She has a quiet time and sometimes takes a nap during it. Starting at probably age 3.
    Her quiet time is 2-3hrs

  • @jessieoreilly4784
    @jessieoreilly4784 2 года назад

    Yes black suits you so much. And it was nice seeing you doing stuff alone

  • @ashleylawson4721
    @ashleylawson4721 2 года назад

    I also loved this Vlog! So cute and casual.

  • @flavianicol
    @flavianicol 2 года назад +7

    It's so weird to see you in black ahahaha I've been following for some years and you always wear colorful outfits that are super cute. I'm a fan of black myself so it's nice to see you rock it ! Sending love from Ecuador gorgeous ❤️❤️

  • @alxcool100
    @alxcool100 2 года назад +45

    Kale: «expired yesterday»
    Aspyn: “should be good”
    😂😂😂

  • @agnesameshkov2232
    @agnesameshkov2232 2 года назад +1

    My kid is almost 5 and still naps! You just have to stay consistent. Love your vlogs!

  • @Izzybell04
    @Izzybell04 Год назад +1

    Omg cove is adorable you are such a good mom

  • @itsivymiha
    @itsivymiha 2 года назад +1

    I love your family vlogs xx

  • @Maria-up5jx
    @Maria-up5jx 2 года назад

    Love these types of vids 🥺❤️

  • @kaitlynhoaglin1724
    @kaitlynhoaglin1724 2 года назад +1

    My son is almost 3 and still naps! I would stay consistent in your routine, just like you are already doing. He has been through phases where he doesn’t want to nap for a day or a few days but always goes back to napping.

  • @CandiceConcepcion
    @CandiceConcepcion 2 года назад

    I have an almost 2.5 year old and an almost 2 month old, very similar to your 2 babies! My toddler is just now dropping her nap most days. But it’s nice because putting her to bed around 8pm has become a lot easier-although she is superrrr cranky around 6:30pm lol. This video was very relatable lol ❤️

  • @storytimeeeee
    @storytimeeeee 2 года назад

    I'd set it up where it's comfortable and she'd likely nap, but if it's just quiet time and she doesn't fall asleep, that's okay too. It's hard when naps are taken away, but it's nice sometimes, depending on the flow of the day and how busy we are. Also different w 1/2/3 kids. 💞 you're doing wonderful!

  • @jaimebh30
    @jaimebh30 2 года назад

    The activity and snack look fun. The salad looks delicious! My girl stopped napping at one. If she wakes up before 6AM, and sometimes she will take a two hour nap either in the morning or afternoon. If not I try and do a quiet activity like her favorite movie "The Snowman" 30 minutes no high pitched kid voices or color. I hope you and your family have a great week!

  • @reaganhine7952
    @reaganhine7952 2 года назад

    I love that when they had kids, they involve them some in the video but it is not totally just about the kids. I love that the whole channel doesn’t just revolve around the kids

  • @simplyli5883
    @simplyli5883 2 года назад

    The kiddos are adorable💓

  • @shanafranck2214
    @shanafranck2214 2 года назад

    Your such a good mom 💕

  • @csm_xo8710
    @csm_xo8710 2 года назад

    The girls are so cute, Co Co is getting so big💕

  • @naomiruthsara
    @naomiruthsara 2 года назад

    I will say it again, black looks so amazing on you!!!❤️

  • @Kelsey-he4yv
    @Kelsey-he4yv 2 года назад +2

    Love y’all video 💕

  • @kinsncakes
    @kinsncakes 2 года назад

    super mom!! loved this vlog

  • @zoeb.72
    @zoeb.72 2 года назад +3

    Love those earrings!

  • @spookyasmr8889
    @spookyasmr8889 2 года назад

    OMG I HAVNT WATCHED YOU FOR SO LONG AND NOW U HAVE 2 BABIES AND THEYA RE ADORBSS

  • @dishasrivastava3116
    @dishasrivastava3116 2 года назад

    Idk how you did so much in one day you’re a ninja that’s amazing

  • @Dani-tl8td
    @Dani-tl8td 2 года назад +1

    You looked so classy in the black outfit with the earrings 😍

  • @pace0072
    @pace0072 2 года назад +4

    And I love ur family!!!!!

  • @angelmarie3210
    @angelmarie3210 2 года назад

    Such a good mom ❤️😊

  • @babyannie4196
    @babyannie4196 2 года назад

    Aspyn wearing black! Love it ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @alibarron
    @alibarron 2 года назад

    Hey! When I was little & it was time to say goodbye to my pacifier, talking to myself before nap time or bed time was a self soothing mechanism in place of a pacifier. My parents started playing audio books for me at sleep time & it worked like a charm to stop me from keeping myself awake by talking to myself :) Try audio books for kids!

  • @taylorswift19
    @taylorswift19 2 года назад

    Seeing you wear black more often makes me love watching you more. I got my blush pink obsession from you. So I’m either wearing all black or pink haha

  • @babyannie4196
    @babyannie4196 2 года назад +1

    Coco and Lola are growing up so fast💛💛💛💛

  • @kimstrait4403
    @kimstrait4403 2 года назад +1

    Aspen you do so wel lwith both girls.. I just love Cove she's really talking so good. Having a lunch date in car was priceless. I love your sald it look super yumi. The uhaul of groceries were nice. I love all different stuff. I liked how you set Coves table. So healthy. Painting rocks was super sweet. Such neat projects . Lola I would keep in your room 6months they only stay little for a short while. You could get a play and pack in your room for her to stretch out more The brezze or Graco dome are nice ones.. As Always love watching. Naps slow down around 3ish but Quiet time is good for them. 💜

  • @MsFifib
    @MsFifib 2 года назад

    You’re amazing managing the 2 so well! How do you manage bath & bedtime alone with both of them? X

  • @hannahhughes3494
    @hannahhughes3494 2 года назад

    My little girl turned 2 in December and she's starting to drop her naps too. She might be ready but I'm definitely not - that break in the day is still NEEDED (for me)!! 😅😴

  • @mary-lindseybolick1471
    @mary-lindseybolick1471 2 года назад +2

    Aspyn really random, but I love when you wear black 😂💛 you’re such a queen & such a good mom!!

  • @saaster88
    @saaster88 2 года назад

    My son went through a nap/sleep regression at almost 2.5 yo and I just kept the nap routine the same and after a couple weeks he’s been doing so much better. I agree it’s too early for him not to nap 😱

  • @launay1040
    @launay1040 2 года назад

    My first stopped napping just after her second birthday! I was so sad because she took a solid two hour nap every day until then. She will still sometimes nap in the car if we’ve been out or on the sofa if we’ve had a busy morning. But no structured naps anymore 😭

  • @cajungurlangela07
    @cajungurlangela07 2 года назад +1

    Every child is different. Some require more sleep than others. Thank you for sharing!, 😘

  • @beccacharles958
    @beccacharles958 2 года назад +12

    Hey Aspyn! What do you use to keep your bun slicked back?

  • @alicia3935
    @alicia3935 2 года назад

    I like the change of thumb nail style !

  • @jessicasievers3213
    @jessicasievers3213 2 года назад

    2.5 years old for my son with dropping the nap, we still do quiet time every day for about an hour. And he sleeps for 12-13 hours at night

  • @imaginejade
    @imaginejade 2 года назад +1

    can you update the fridge organisation? I suck at that and im wondering if I should get bins to help?

  • @peytenwoitel1315
    @peytenwoitel1315 2 года назад

    My nephew that I nanny is the same age as Cove and was refusing his naps for the past week, but he is now over it! Hopefully she starts napping again too!

  • @AlyssaMarie33
    @AlyssaMarie33 2 года назад

    My son is 2 years and 3 months old and he still needs a nap. He doesn’t fight for his nap at all! I still feel like at that age, babies still need a nap. Good luck mama! You got this beautiful!

  • @AugustaJeorgia
    @AugustaJeorgia 2 года назад

    Keep the nap/quiet time! Preferably still in her crib. Soft toys and small books and she’ll likely fall asleep on her own. Basically still nap time but then no pressure if she doesn’t fall asleep. Highly recommend for everyone’s sanity - and her development!

  • @brittney5874
    @brittney5874 2 года назад

    My nephew stopped napping right after he turned 2 because he was so hard to get down at bedtime. Now he goes to bed around 630 too and goes down easily!

  • @kristennabors5619
    @kristennabors5619 2 года назад

    Yes my daughter is 4 will be 5 in august we do quiet time but sometimes she will still tell me if she wants to nap and she will 😊

  • @itsmeeabbyyy
    @itsmeeabbyyy 2 года назад +1

    Have you tried pushing Cove’s nap an hour or two? My 2 year old naps from 2-4 and then goes to bed at 8!

  • @anitaramos1499
    @anitaramos1499 2 года назад +1

    Am I the only one obsessed w Aspyn in black? So cute very different 😍😍

  • @miyahbrown8945
    @miyahbrown8945 2 года назад

    Coco is my favorite she’s so cute and growing so fast and aspen is such a pretty girl and a great beautiful mom Lola is cute Parker is a great father he’s very kind !!

  • @user-vu8lo3hu4p
    @user-vu8lo3hu4p 2 года назад

    Stopped napping around 2.5 years old but we definitely did quiet time cause I needed that time lol but now she falls asleep on the couch maybe twice a week around 3pm (she’s 3.5 now)

  • @Sunnylaze
    @Sunnylaze 2 года назад

    You handled that day by your self beautifully!!!!! I would probably have 1 or 2 mental breakdowns

  • @justnikki143
    @justnikki143 2 года назад

    Not at the stage of no nap but definitely keep doing the quiet time but maybe provide only books and blocks sort of toys??

  • @laurenmlbc
    @laurenmlbc 2 года назад

    Gemma stopped napping at 2, but she’s never slept haha. We kept doing quiet time which was fine. She still went to bed at the normal time too though. She’s 5 now and sometimes naps but very rarely.

  • @mikayladudoward3776
    @mikayladudoward3776 2 года назад

    Girl if you haven’t yet try bonds lol they usually drop super cute Disney prints too

  • @nicoleee_marieee
    @nicoleee_marieee 2 года назад

    My daughter just turned 2 a month ago. She still naps around 12:30, but doesss have random days where she won’t want to. & it’s the same as you said.. on those days, she’s in bed at like 6:45.🙂

  • @sydneyelizabeth16
    @sydneyelizabeth16 2 года назад +1

    My kids alllll nap. We all need it hahahah. There’s a sleep regression/ nap regression, just hold your ground haha

  • @mjs4766
    @mjs4766 2 года назад

    My daughter is afew months younger than cove-- and she only naps afew days a week now, its so hit or miss. I do still put her in her crib to "nap" but many days she just grabs books out of her nightstand to 'read" she entertains herself doing this anywhere from 1-2 hours, and then we restart our day. I miss her napping tho--I mean I'm glad she does a bit of quiet time but I feel like i need more time than that to get stuff done! --also on days she doesn't nap, she's passed out at 6:20 b/c shes completely exhausted.

  • @Gaabymx
    @Gaabymx 2 года назад +2

    I’m 24 and still napping 😂 hope Cove gets back to napping soon!

  • @leahg9215
    @leahg9215 2 года назад

    Love this

  • @alyssaalvarado2130
    @alyssaalvarado2130 2 года назад

    My daughter is 2 & a half and she still naps...usually about 3 hours (1-4 or 2-5) most days. She did go through a short period where she didn't seem interested in naps...she'd talk in her crib, etc. A couple people said oh maybe she's outgrowing her naps...I said ummm no, she's only 2. Even pre-k and I think kindergarten they still take naps bc they need it. So don't give up hope. I'm sure she'll get back on the nap routine. :)

  • @takeishahoggard469
    @takeishahoggard469 2 года назад +1

    Do you mind sharing where you purchased your toddler table? I’m looking for an upgrade!!

  • @strawberryxroblox2079
    @strawberryxroblox2079 Год назад

    It's funny how cove has grown so old.
    It's crazy how Lola is growing up so much

  • @shainaivyvlogs
    @shainaivyvlogs Год назад

    Wheee is your pink jacket from? It is so cute!