@@joshuapk9808 and yet few to none want to do that, people are ALL the same parents are a cash cow, a pile of money, " Mom DO SOMETHING !! or I will lose MY MONEY!! lol good.
Nursing homes are, unfortunately, more likely by FAR, to be expensively horrible places to put a loved one. Regardless of their pamphlets, mission statements and things they “officially state” as their rules. Short staffing, poorly run, and uncaring, unvetted people who are rushed, rough and unable to give the care they would like to give, at best, and harsh, cruel and uncaring, or even abusing at worst, are *the norm.” That you pay through the nose for this type of “care” is flatly disgusting. If you are forced to have a person you love in care, because yes, at times you simply can’t do the care on your own, then visit daily. Be alert, be a pain in the staff’s ass by asking questions and being proactive. I say this as a nurse, working in the field for over 26 years.
as a retired nurse after decades of working, not in a nursing home however, if you want to po the staff just try being a pain in the ass day in and day out.....the patient will be ultimately treated as an iceberg.....better yet, visit often, HELP when you can, like feeding your loved one, or brushing their hair, or their teeth......if you could save the staff even 10 minutes of work they will appreciate you and treat your loved one better....
@@leelaural but the job of the staff is to provide personal care and the family is paying for personal care plus feeding. Family is paying for personal care
@@leelaural If you are a nurse, and state publicly that if a resident’s family is a pain in the ass, that their loved one will suffer for it by staff taking it out on them, then that’s a big problem, and even MORE reason for family to be there daily. . When I say, if you are FORCED to put your loved one in care, then visit daily and ask questions and be a pain in the ass, I mean it, in the way that “some” nurses seem to feel it’s a pain in their ass when family insists on answers, and doesn’t just accept answers that don’t add up, or family who point out care omissions, (like, “mom’s teeth haven’t been brushed today”, or “why is she in the same dirty clothes she was in two days ago?”) Family needs to be alert and to let the staff know that they are looking out for their loved one. No one said for the family to BE asses; one can ask these questions and have a heavy presence without being mean or rude. I DID (and do!) work in some of these places as a nurse traveler , and I always encouraged family to be very proactive and present daily. Sure, they can also be helpful. But they are paying for US to care for their mom, dad, etc, and paying a LOT…. so, we should be doing it right.
Our healthcare system isn’t broken. Allowing insurance companies to run things ruined it. Years ago if you were married and you both worked, the overlapping insurance meant you were covered 100%. You didn’t get money back, between the two policies you just didn’t have a gap out of pocket. This is how evil they are. I worked, my insurance covered 80% of my healthcare and had spousal benefits with the same coverage. Husband worked and his insurance was almost identical….80% paid for both of us. In fact we were over insuredThen they did something I think was illegal (basing that thought on conglomerates like Bell Telephone was doing). They decided that you would both work, and get insurance. The NEW policy is like this. One policy pays 80%, leaving you with the 20%. the 2nd one will pay only part of that remaining cost. This happens so they can take your money
Yes, I remember when we were over insured and they tried this when we had our first and only child. We fought them and got full coverage and got $600.00 cash to buy a crib.
Coordination of benefits is not new. Even in the 1970’s the primary carrier paid first. Then the secondary carrier paid the balance, except for non covered items. Health insurance was never designed for people to make money.
@@lindap.p.1337 sure it was. Have you ever in your entire life seen insurance companies having a bad year? The secondary insurance doesn’t cost less for only paying 20%
Yea, we wanted to buy our mom’s home after she passed away. Medicaid said we had to pay full market value. The home needed a lot of work but that didn’t matter. We let it go and it went into auction and the home was sold for penny’s on the dollar. That was the pits.
@@ChadBoss-qr4hl If we had sold it, the money would have been taken by Medicaid so we didn’t pursue that route. There was also a mortgage on it and we couldn’t see any sense in keeping the payments going if we couldn’t sell and keep the equity after doing the repair work or buying it for less than market and then doing the repairs. It became such a hassle with Medicaid that just gave rather than take a chance of getting caught in something really bad. Medicare went back through every financial transaction that occurred for five years before and they questioned everything. So, what happened was the bank foreclosed on the home and then they auctioned it off.
My Mom had to go to a nursing home for 'rehabilitation' after a fall. Two months later, we brought her home to find that 'they' had not told us of the bed sores on her back and both of her heals had peeled off from the bone. Never again will we allow her to go into a nursing home; ever. Now, we cannot leave her alone which means someone has to always be here, but better that then to have them kill her off. Not all nursing homes are like that, but there are in this little town. The waiting list in a very long one in this state and no one can choose a nursing home unless, of course, they are wealthy and can pay off those in charge. It's a system to defraud the elderly and their heirs and it needs to be stopped. I've seen what these nursing homes do to people and how people lose all dignity in those places. My father-in-law had to go to one when he had stage four cancer and when we went to visit him, he was so darn sick from a urinary tract infection that we didn't even recognize him. It was caused by the catheter which apparently wasn't properly cleaned. It sickens me to know that people suffer at the hands of others like that. Look what Cuomo did to the elderly in NY - he has blood on his hands as he purposely killed off a lot of Moms and Dads.
Ithere are good homes and bad ones. Sometimes patients that enter should really be in hospice care. Cuomo is a Democrat. Democrats are the party that better with human issues than are Republicans. I thought was not so bad. But I don't live in NY. This atty is essentially telling the audience how to dispose of assets over a required period of 5 years. That accomplishes "maming themselves indigent" so they can avail themselves of Medicaid. I would think with all the taxes these people have paid and how they have spent their lives contributing to society that they are more worthy of some end of life assistance?
@@JaimeGarcia-sg9xj There are botany good nursing homes!!! They are cruel and do not care for the elderly. I have lots of history through my parents and health care. Unless you plan on letting them die a horrible death stay away from nursing homes ! B
I had to leave long term care as a nurse because it kills you not to have the resources and staff to provide the quality of care that these folks deserve. The margins are to tight, with out enoygh regular staff they use travel agency staff, many of whom are wonderful nurses and aides, but they dont know the residents and thays so important. Taking care of my grandfather is why i became a nurse. I think the home i spent 6 years working at was better than most but i was still ftequently frustrated that the residents seemed to be second in priority to profits. And the place still was usually in the red.
I am so thankful that we rescued our parents, selling off their assets and having them live with us before their downfall. They lived happy lives with us and had need of nothing. We didn't know about these laws at the time. Now, our Mom is bedridden but otherwise in good health and we aim to keep her that way. When we brought her down to live with us, the doctor had her on 12 medications. Now, she takes only one and wouldn't need that if she would drink more water!
While working in a dementia long term care facility a 59 year old man got out and was attempting to commit a crime because he had been in prison and liked that better than the facility he was in. @@fjb6631
If you live in Michigan, look into what's called a." Lady Bird deed which protects the home from Medicaid seizure. Its quite new and we are only one of 4 states.that have this. I recently did this
@@susananderson9619 you were lucky to be able to do that I tried, but it was not safe to leave my mother home alone. She actually enjoyed assisted living where she had activities and friends and the sundowners didn’t bother anybody if she was up at 2 AM. Everybody’s situation is different, so please don’t judge others.
After reading the comments again, I don't think you realize how much you helped people wrap their minds around this. We as a society have to figure out something better than this.
I've warched many of your "lessons ". You provide a wealth of information simply for the cost of taking time to watch your videos. I'm sure a person would need an actual in personal attorney to work through the details but you certainly create a fantastic starting point.
24 hour private care, 375 days a year at a meager $15/hr comes to $131,000 per year. I have known dementia patients who need that kind of care for multiples of years. The longest was 11 years. Add to that groceries, utilities, medications, and day to expenses incurred in your own home and pretty soon even the most robust retirement account is wiped out. It usually falls to one child to suspend their life and try to do the impossible for mom or dad for years. There are no easy answers and different diseases have differing levels of cruelty. Estate planning is essential before these times occur. I had a friend with no immediate family who just stopped eating as his disease progressed and finally got admitted to hospice if he would private pay. He smiled the day before he died and said, “if I can die before next week, I’ll save $8000.” He always loved a bargain. He was lucky to have enough in the bank AND a disease that allowed him to do that.
I see a lot of Dementia patients that linger for years as FULL Codes with multiple hospitalizations , low quality of life but their families won't let them go. Last week I had a Resident spend the last month of her life going out for 2 blood transfusions before finally being put on Hospice the last week of her life.
I was in special Ed class all my life. I have low syndrome and had a couple of jobs that didn't last. I am not fast in doing anything .having to be fast in anything thing or a job, my mind goes blank on me. Sometimes, I feel so stupid. But I do try so hard to do things . I enjoyed helping people when I can. I have medicaid all my life. They said that when I turned 65, I will get medical with medicaid . There are times when I get confused with all the different paperwork. Thank you for listening to me. Take care, everyone ❤😊
30 plus years ago, when rehab said my Mother should go into a nursing home, the paperwork asked about the past 10 years of properties,finances,etc at least in Pennsylvania
I live in Michigan. The first thing I did after my husband's diagnosis of early cognitive decline was to get our Family Trust updated and a guardianship for him in place. We protected what assets we could. I was aware of the five-year rule. We are a second marriage and between us we raised and educated four children between us in our first marriage. My husband lost all his first marriage assets in his divorce so we basically started over again at age 46 and 50. We are now spending down his assets first (those things in his name - his IRA, his pension, his truck while preserving my assets with the assumption I will live longer.) This is the best we can do.
Wow I am thankful I saw your comment right away. I have 2 different brain issues found out in April 2023 the week of my birthday. I'm 53 now. I never would have thought of anything to do like that. I hope your husband gets better. There is several different new founded or old just not know about treatments for the delay in progression of detrimental affects. Bless both of you 🫂🙏
I often do real estate appraisals for Medicaid cases. Medicaid will say their home is worth $300,000 however the elderly sometimes can't maintain the home and it is in poor condition and not worth $300,000. Medicaid never looks at the house. They use online information to value it. I do an actual appraisal so the patient or heirs are not liable for the difference in sales price and what Medicaid says its worth. The appraisal is particularly helpful when an heir wants to keep Granny's house in the family. If you get the appraisal before you transfer the property its pretty easy. If you get an appraisal after you transfer the property you may end up in Administrative law court where you have to hire me as an expert witness and an attorney. Its not a tough case but will probably cost you $3,000-$5,000+/- I am a State Certified General Real Estate Appraiser in NJ.
Currently on NJ Family Care Health Insurance (NJ Medicaid) I`m single, retired and 64. Will apply for SS in 2027 at my FRA. I`ve been on this program for a few years due to a reduction of income. Prior I was on Obamacare that I paid for monthly and prior to that I was employed that included free health insurance. My question is... I own my own home, over 25 years, and will turn 65 in May of 2025 and will sign up for Medicare accordingly. Taking a lump sum pension next year may disqualify me to continue with Medicaid (not sure). If I were to sell my home sometime in the next few years and downsize, and need to use the proceeds of the sale to live off of, will NJ Medicaid "estate recovery" take my money then or when I pass away? Just doing some financial planning in advance. Thanks
@@jamesbrust9959 are you assuming someone's diligent savings over decades is taxable? While others spend every dime on credit things they cannot afford? Wait until you are medicare age, or need help due to poor health. Give it to strangers crissing USA borders instead. That is the problem, and legal USA citizens when old, have "rules" like these to pillage when ill unable to work, thus Medicaid help, gers you at the end of your days. What a racket. That is how govt"makes money.
@@jamesbrust9959 Transferring your assets in a manner that _conforms_ to the very laws that will be used to determine your eligibility is not in any way, shape, or form "cheating".
This is my unpaid therapy. I just went through this with my mother for my dad’s nursing home care. I begged my father to do something with their money after my sister died 14 years ago. He wouldn’t listen, just ranting on about what he had. He’s gone now, but I’m still mad at him. Well daddy, I hope you’re happy that mom spent all of her retirement money on you. She retired from 29 years of nursing and raising 3 girls. The advice I always gave my patients, if you love your family, take care of your business. If you want to destroy your children, do nothing. We are not destroyed, because we are honest people, but most are not. I write my mom’s checks monthly for any bills, plus sending money to my daughter and other sister per the lawyer’s instructions. I need nothing, but to do right. I am dabbing my tears on my dad’s hanky. The only thing destroyed for me is my heart. Thanks for tolerating my rant. 💙
@Kara Fangmeier Thanks, Kara. Another appointment with the Senior Attorney on Thursday. Just wanting to do everything that is instructed by the law. I appreciate your words of understanding.💙
My father did the same thing only he screwed his wife (he was divorced from my mother) who is now stuck with the bills he created. He also screwed his kids because the estate cannot be settled until all the debts are paid. Settling the estate now would mean his kids and wife would be responsible for his debts. So the estate sits in limbo until his wife dies or pays everything off. Before he died I tried many times to talk to him about this and all he did was make fun of me for bringing it up. So I know what you're feeling....Good luck to you.
@@chuckwyble7719 Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Get in touch with a senior attorney to make sure you’re not paying for anything that you shouldn’t. If it doesn’t work out for you, know that you’ve done the best and most legal correct thing you could. 💙
We bought long term care insurance when our term life insurance ended. The premiums are reasonable, considering how expensive nursing home care is! We don't want our kids to have to take care of us, or pay for our care if we run out of money.
Thanks Again! I don't live in Louisiana but I'm still learning really valuable stuff from you. It is a blessing to find someone who is willing to share such knowledge without trying to be a "know-it-all". You clearly warn us we need to pursue further help & WHY! Thanks Again! Patricia in FL
When my Mother turned 89 it was time to find a constant care home for her. We tried to take care of her in our home as best we could, but with the onset of dementia we could not provide the care she needed as I worked out of state and my wife was the director of nutritional services at a nursing home. We were able to get her into the facility my wife worked at. My Mother was a resident there for 10 years until she passed at age 99 and 6 months. My wife checked on her daily, I saw her every Sunday, and I made every care conference. Being directly involved with the care your loved one is receiving assures that your loved one receives professional loving care. We will always be grateful to the staff that guided us through the process. It was a God send.
So happy everything turned out nicely for you but to say, " Being directly involved with the care your loved one is receiving assures that your loved one receives professional loving care," is disingenuous and cruel. Your mother received preferential care because your wife worked there, not because you attended care meetings and visited her once per week.
This is great info for everyone. I went though this over 20 years ago with both my mother and grandfather. Fortunately I had good legal advice and did everything right.
In the early 80s it was a 3 year look back period. A friend of mine’s mother had a very bad stroke and her daughter took care of her at her house but she had 2 school age children and had no choice after 3 years to put her mother in a nursing home where she lived for about 18 years.😢
Grandmother and Mother lived together in Michigan. My grandmother went into a nursing home my mother passed away in 2003. In Michigan back then it was a 3 year rule. Their home had been in the family since 1963. My Grandma took her name off the house in 2000. My mother had her on her private insurance when she passed away she had to go on to medicaid. I inherited the house from my mom. The state of Michigan did a thorough check and sent me a letter stating that I was able to keep my mother's house by 1 day. Plan ahead, I used to have conversations with my mother about planning her estate. She did not think it necessary due to her being a widow and only having 1 child. My mom also had a life insurance policy with her mother's name on it. We had to prepay her funeral and set up the policy to pay what was not covered by medicaid. The remaining balance came to me after my grandma passed in 2005. I am just happy everything turned out ok.
Very educational. My friends dad just went into a nursing home and my friend now has no inheritance because her dad failed to plan ahead! It happened quick and everyone was like “What!” No clue? I am shocked how people who can afford an attorney just put it off. I guess thinking it can’t happen to them.
Honestly as aging parents with a sizable estate. We did not save it for our kids and they want us to enjoy. 2nd a nursing home for anyone is a death sentence. Yet for you to see only the money as inheritance rather than a cushion to make it as comfortable as possible on our exit. Take care of your loved 🥰 ones. Nursing homes are an easy way to sweep your loving parents out of sight. Pay for home care!!
@@retiredgamblers3517 Sorry I said that the way I did. Of course the inheritance is not a main focus, but most of us would like to leave something for our children. Whatever we do we need to plan ahead.
@@Norm475 As a former Attorney, this is what it always boiled down to - control of assets. Very few people will give up control of their assets until it is too late. Fortunately my parents trusted their children and we were successful in transferring assets about 8 years before they passed. Both fortunately and unfortunately we never had to put them into long term care and therefore Medicaid was not an issue. These are difficult issues for people in their 60's and 70's. Planning becomes so much easier when people are in their 80's because they have plenty of experience to trust their children, but often it is too late.
Work your A - ! Off all your life’s, then you can’t even give things or money to your children!!!!! My late husband and I should of just blew all our money and didn’t give a darn about trying to leave something to our Family. No, we worked hard our whole 42 years of marriage. Now, God forbid it can ALL BE SUCKED UP by a nursing home!!! I will make a plan NOW!!! Thank you for the info. My sister lives in Washington state, says it’s 2 years in her state.?
I don't want to end up in a nursing home. Thank you CNA for giving your your advice. I don't want to go there. I don't have a lot of $s but I don't want the nursing home to go my money either. I'll stay home until I die. Thank your for your advice. I'll make sure I'll plan ahead.
All you can do is try to stay as healthy as you can. You may have no choice. If you cannot care for yourself someone is eventually going to enter your home (using some valid excuse) and unless you can get people to help you with your needs, you'll be forced out of your house.
Medicaid nursing homes are horrible. I used to go to our county home at Christmases to volunteer. That more than anything has prompted me to save, save, save.
Good video. Thanks for posting. Only thing additional I wish u would’ve addressed was the quality of nursing homes that accept or don’t accept Medicaid. Clearly there r differences between 6k and 15k monthly retirement facilities. They don’t all accept Medicaid or do they?
nursing homes pick and choose who they allow at their homes...if you are self paid or have nursing home insurance, you will most likely get to pick where you want to go....if you are on Medicaid, you don't get the choice....they could place you 30 miles out of town....also, if you are very obese, or have complicated medical history,or have dementia etc good luck finding a place....there are thousands of people wasting tax dollar money sitting in HOSPITALS because the nursing homes won't take them.....its costing millions of dollars to keep them at acute care facilities and yet that is where they sit......our whole system stinks....we are going to have to take in our elderly whether we like it or not , eventually....
I became a nurse and got my license around age 30. Every few years the staffing got worse. There are some good nursing homes but even then they almost need to be working on roller skates. The work load is so high. (I’ve done nursing home, hospital and private duty nursing). I left several years ago after it took a toll on my body and I can no longer do it. My husband is getting close to retirement age. After about a decade in I realized the the American dream of home ownership is just a fancy insurance policy to pay for your health when you get too old. You never truly own your home because you still have to pay taxes and they’ll take your home if you don’t. My mother is 76 and even though I tore up my back and shoulders being a nurse, I will care for her when she needs it. She’s still pretty independent with just a little forgetfulness. I’m also getting my stuff in order and my oldest daughter said she wouldn’t let me go into a home either. We’ve all agreed to help each other unless a person gets so demented and violent to the point our lives would be at risk. But that doesn’t happen often and we have a big enough family to draw help from others if needed.
I stand behind people at the grocery store, paying with food stamps, getting prime meats, and things in their cart that I can’t believe are covered by the government. But that’s the law. they take advantage of it. Why can’t those of us who have worked all of our lives take care as well? Do you merely file a short form 1040 when you report your income and yet you own a business? If so, you would be a moron not to have a CPA getting you ever deduction that you are entitled to legally.
I'm glad I got my parents on board with taking everything out of their names. They could legally stay in the house for as long as they needed no one could force them to leave . If it weren't for that the state would have got everything. Everything my father worked for his entire life.
So....might I ask if you or your parents voted for candidates who want to cut Medicaid as a part of "wasteful government spending"? I'm assuming that what remained of your fathers life's work went to you and not the state.
In 2013 we created our trust. We signed and had notarized, the warranty deed moving our house and property to the trust at that time. We did not file it with the county because we knew we would pay the property off within 2.5 years and didn't want the hassle with the lender and more charges and filing fees at that time. Well we paid off the property, but then forgot to file the warranty deed with the county until last week. What date would Medicaid use for the five years?
I'm trying or was, trying to do for my aunt who is in the hospital. She has some dementia and damage. Also 3rd degree burns. She will need skilled care LTC. It was the most complicated process. Anyway, she isn't wealthy but she has some money in the bank on SS and owns her home no mortgage. I finally had to petition the court with her caseworkers to get a conservator because I didn't understand exactly the process and the five year issue. I sure didn't want to try anything that would really be a mess. She had a little too much in her account. Spend down is over my head. Anyway, I'm glad we have the attorney (conservator) it takes care of alot of stressful paperwork. He will take care of this issue and do the medicaid and stuff. Hopefully we will have her placed in LTC soon close to me. Thanks for this video and info.
But sometimes something catastrophic & unexpected diagnosis happens. This is totally UNFAIR! I’ve worked all my life take care I’d myself but one never knows. I have Long term care insurance but that premium keeps going up so I decreased my benefits. Will discuss some other options with my financial advisor Hope and pray I can stay healthy and keep as much of my hard earned money!
We moved 1.2 million out of my mothers name 7 years ago. $4000 lawyer fees and all is good. Money well spent. She is 88 and was diagnosed with Dementia. She just qualified for Medicaid and is entering a nursing home with just her SS benefits as her payment.
I have a problem with all this. When I started thinking about it, a number of years ago, the blind trust loophole seemed legitimate (and I do not question its legality), but as the years have passed, I have grown more uncomfortable with it. The money (aka Medicaid) to provide institutional care for those who cannot afford it DOES NOT come from nowhere. There’s a tendency to treat it like some people treat insurance, at least if they’re not paying the premiums. I was the foreman of a jury that had to determine a liability award, and a person on the jury would not consider a verdict unless they knew if there was insurance, despite the fact that the judge’s instructions had been quite clear that we would not be told about, nor could we consider the question of insurance. If I owe money for being in assisted living, and I have money, why should I be able to use other people’s money (Medicaid IS tax money!) before mine is spent? It all seems to come down to another one of these phantom “rights” that pop up like poisonous mushrooms, and seemingly more often in today’s society: in this case, the “right” to pass along my money to my descendants. No. There is no such right. Inheritance taxes in form or another have been around for a long time, demonstrating quite graphically that no such “right” exists. I will not here consider the validity of the blind trusts discussed in this video; it is a law, just like the laws providing for inheritance taxes, or Medicaid. Don’t like the laws, then petition to change them, but don’t whine about nonexistent “rights.”
@@ChadBoss-qr4hl I think he is referring to legal moves by affluent and educated people to exploit the purpose of needs based programs like Medicaid by making taxpayers pick up the tab so the family can inherit the money. Usually under the excuses of dirty nursing homes, life-time of hard work, lazy people on welfare get this stuff free, and it's legal. And I don't know if grandma was given an informed consent about the quality of care under Medicaid. Good nursing home may accept Medicaid, after a few years of private pay.
@@ChadBoss-qr4hl I don't think that @mencken8 was complaining at all---he/she said it just the way it should be. Read his/her second paragraph. If one has the money to pay their way, they should pay their own way. That's how it should be, even though it's understandable that people don't want to give up their life's savings only to eventually die and know that the money was spent in vain. Too many people believe they have a 'right' to other people's money and possessions---whether they steal it or try to get laws passed in which they can get 'stuff'/money that they don't deserve, etc. This latest problem the USA is having concerning all the migrants coming into this country putting stress on our economy is something that should addressed immediately as we have millions of people right here having a hard time making ends meet. We need to set priorities on what is fair to everyone on how money should be collected (taxing) and how some of that money be returned (via benefits) to them.
I believe you can transfer as much as you want. If it is less than $15,000 you don't have to report it to the IRS. If it is more you report it to the IRS and it goes against your lifetime exclusion which now stands at 15 million dollars. I will guarantee the lifetime exclusion will drop from 15 million to 5 or even 1 million with BIte me as president. Before you make any decisions on my comment check with an attorney or your accountant. Good Luck
Being an unfundable liability how long do you think Medicare/Medicaid and Social Security will actually last? If they tank how will patients afford nursing homes. I understand that there are Faith-based health,/insurance services. Which I think is great, in that there is less of dependence on the State.
Just for giggles, I'll mention State and Federal Bank Examiners, (I was one). Large cash transaction reports are completed by banks generally when $10,000 moves in or out of an account, but it can be at any amount if the bank deems the transaction to be unusual for that account, these reports go to regulators and the IRS. We can go back to each months statement and see every transaction, a year's worth takes about 5 minutes making notes. Write checks for cash and you may need to justify where that money went, say if it was $500.00 or even $200 but done over a period of time. Regulators can look for and spot "draining an account" in any cash or securities account. If Granny likes to gamble she better keep receipts/records for her losses for taxes and Medicare. Besides, burying cash can be a problem because the older you get you may forget where you buried it!
When I first moved to this town, I couldn't afford to buy a house so my son put $50,000 down and I paid the other hundred thousand. Then my son said that if I wanted to, I could quit claim the house over to him and that way he would take care of all of the appliances, any maintenance upkeep, etc. and I wouldn't have to pay for rent so it turned out to be a good thing to do but that was 10 years ago. I had already been on disability Social Security, so I applied for Medicaid around that time so by the time I quit claimed the house back to my son, I was already on Medicaid. Are you saying that. Since I didn't sell the house, I just quit claim deed to my son then they have the right to collect from the sale of the house even though the investment was half from my son?
Let me get this straight. You accumulated assets that can be used to take care yourself in old age, including nursing care. Instead of using those assets you choose to give them away and then expect your fellow citizens to foot the cost of your care for the remainder of your life. This that the plan? If I am wrong in thinking this reeks of shelfishness, please explain why.
Paul could you please do a video on the half of loaf strategy when it comes to the five-year look back. I heard about this a while back but I’m not sure how it works or if it still even applies. It might help others as well. Thank you
Well, if you go to prison for fraud then you won't have to pay to live in a nursing home will ya? Plus you can leave your home to your kids and have better conditions for living than in a nursing home, 3 square meals a day, a gym, your own room, free healthcare and everything.
When you go into a long term nursing home and the state pays for it a lien goes on the house that person owns and the money that the state paid gets paid back first when the property changes ownership.
I’m curious if elder's long term care look back on 60 month transfers apply to the 17,000 gifting and recoups on that? Especially, if that 17,000 is a land ownership interest owned in an LLC? Also would they be able to recoup the remaining value of the elder's interest in an LLC?
Thanks for the info. What if they have cash in the bank? What are the limitations for the “spend down” process? Say you have $15,000 from the sale of a home and have to move closer to your children? Parent has moving expenses, etc?
What about gifting cash ? a few weeks before going into a nursing home ? can a grandmother gift her checking accountt money to her granddaughter for college ? so she can get medicaid to go into a nursing home ?
I went to TWO different attorneys, ONE that was supposed to me an estate planning attorney specializing in protecting assets. They DID NOT help a damn bit! That was over 5 years ago! We would be free from the look-back if that attorney was looking out for us! The DID NOT.
I retired in 2015. At that time I ask a lawyer to set me with a non revocable trust in case I needed long term care. I called them to ask questions. I found all they had was a will. Now they do not do trust anymore. A recentmented another lawyer. Do I have to start over? Agavided.
So if you have 15-20 K in the bank , once you spend that down if you GO into a nursing home (asssuming those are the only assets you have) would you then qualify for Medicaid paying for long term care? Also, I have Mass Health Common Health (which is similar, but not the SAME as Medicaid)- which allows you to have some money in the bank.... not sure how this applies or imapcts me if I had to go into a nursing home.
What about money in your savings account or checking account. How can that be used? We live in the north and go south and rent in the winter is this something you can do with you're own money or would this disqualify you?
I have a question. My sister lived with Dad for 10 years and took care of him. Can we add her to the mortgage and protect her investment in the property?
My sinuses kept me out fighter slot in the Air Force. I understand why. But I think the service branches can be extra picky because there are so few flight slots available and maybe 8 serviceable teeth is just one way to limit Navy aviators.
What about a person who was on Medicaid and died and then his trust receives $ from an insurance policy that came from his deceased father…do they have to give that $ back to Medicaid if the family paid for funeral expenses, etc.?
If a car is in two people's name, one of which is the medicaid applicant , does that count as an asset of the medicaid applicant or the other person on the title? My mom hasn't driven in a couple years but her name is still on the title along with mine. It's been essentially my car for the past couple years and I originally paid for the car in full with my own money.
Word from an old RN-there is a advantage in taking care of people at home.
And yet, not everyone can do that...
@@joshuapk9808 and yet few to none want to do that, people are ALL the same parents are a cash cow, a pile of money, " Mom DO SOMETHING !! or I will lose MY MONEY!! lol good.
@@joshuapk9808 My ma did that worked Great .HC apartment Then Polish Lady just 12 years. Ma Paid for all of it.
The govt will pay you, if taking care of an elderly patient.
Indeed.
Nursing homes are, unfortunately, more likely by FAR, to be expensively horrible places to put a loved one. Regardless of their pamphlets, mission statements and things they “officially state” as their rules. Short staffing, poorly run, and uncaring, unvetted people who are rushed, rough and unable to give the care they would like to give, at best, and harsh, cruel and uncaring, or even abusing at worst, are *the norm.”
That you pay through the nose for this type of “care” is flatly disgusting.
If you are forced to have a person you love in care, because yes, at times you simply can’t do the care on your own, then visit daily. Be alert, be a pain in the staff’s ass by asking questions and being proactive. I say this as a nurse, working in the field for over 26 years.
And the owners live in mansions
as a retired nurse after decades of working, not in a nursing home however, if you want to po the staff just try being a pain in the ass day in and day out.....the patient will be ultimately treated as an iceberg.....better yet, visit often, HELP when you can, like feeding your loved one, or brushing their hair, or their teeth......if you could save the staff even 10 minutes of work they will appreciate you and treat your loved one better....
@@leelaural but the job of the staff is to provide personal care and the family is paying for personal care plus feeding. Family is paying for personal care
Thanks. It's time to go hide then. I'd rather suicide than go to one
@@leelaural If you are a nurse, and state publicly that if a resident’s family is a pain in the ass, that their loved one will suffer for it by staff taking it out on them, then that’s a big problem, and even MORE reason for family to be there daily. . When I say, if you are FORCED to put your loved one in care, then visit daily and ask questions and be a pain in the ass, I mean it, in the way that “some” nurses seem to feel it’s a pain in their ass when family insists on answers, and doesn’t just accept answers that don’t add up, or family who point out care omissions, (like, “mom’s teeth haven’t been brushed today”, or “why is she in the same dirty clothes she was in two days ago?”)
Family needs to be alert and to let the staff know that they are looking out for their loved one. No one said for the family to BE asses; one can ask these questions and have a heavy presence without being mean or rude. I DID (and do!) work in some of these places as a nurse traveler , and I always encouraged family to be very proactive and present daily. Sure, they can also be helpful. But they are paying for US to care for their mom, dad, etc, and paying a LOT…. so, we should be doing it right.
Our healthcare system isn’t broken. Allowing insurance companies to run things ruined it. Years ago if you were married and you both worked, the overlapping insurance meant you were covered 100%. You didn’t get money back, between the two policies you just didn’t have a gap out of pocket. This is how evil they are. I worked, my insurance covered 80% of my healthcare and had spousal benefits with the same coverage. Husband worked and his insurance was almost identical….80% paid for both of us. In fact we were over insuredThen they did something I think was illegal (basing that thought on conglomerates like Bell Telephone was doing). They decided that you would both work, and get insurance. The NEW policy is like this. One policy pays 80%, leaving you with the 20%. the 2nd one will pay only part of that remaining cost. This happens so they can take your money
Yes, I remember when we were over insured and they tried this when we had our first and only child. We fought them and got full coverage and got $600.00 cash to buy a crib.
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Coordination of benefits is not new. Even in the 1970’s the primary carrier paid first. Then the secondary carrier paid the balance, except for non covered items. Health insurance was never designed for people to make money.
@@lindap.p.1337 sure it was. Have you ever in your entire life seen insurance companies having a bad year? The secondary insurance doesn’t cost less for only paying 20%
Our Health Care is Capitalism 101.
Yea, we wanted to buy our mom’s home after she passed away. Medicaid said we had to pay full market value. The home needed a lot of work but that didn’t matter.
We let it go and it went into auction and the home was sold for penny’s on the dollar.
That was the pits.
You should have bid on the home at auction.
@@tenabarnes3269there are companies who have cash to buy houses.😢
@@ChadBoss-qr4hl If we had sold it, the money would have been taken by Medicaid so we didn’t pursue that route.
There was also a mortgage on it and we couldn’t see any sense in keeping the payments going if we couldn’t sell and keep the equity after doing the repair work or buying it for less than market and then doing the repairs.
It became such a hassle with Medicaid that just gave rather than take a chance of getting caught in something really bad.
Medicare went back through every financial transaction that occurred for five years before and they questioned everything.
So, what happened was the bank foreclosed on the home and then they auctioned it off.
Auctions are to the highest cash bidder. Acrual value is not a consideration. See tax sales info.@@ChadBoss-qr4hl
The home is exempt
My Mom had to go to a nursing home for 'rehabilitation' after a fall. Two months later, we brought her home to find that 'they' had not told us of the bed sores on her back and both of her heals had peeled off from the bone. Never again will we allow her to go into a nursing home; ever. Now, we cannot leave her alone which means someone has to always be here, but better that then to have them kill her off. Not all nursing homes are like that, but there are in this little town. The waiting list in a very long one in this state and no one can choose a nursing home unless, of course, they are wealthy and can pay off those in charge. It's a system to defraud the elderly and their heirs and it needs to be stopped. I've seen what these nursing homes do to people and how people lose all dignity in those places. My father-in-law had to go to one when he had stage four cancer and when we went to visit him, he was so darn sick from a urinary tract infection that we didn't even recognize him. It was caused by the catheter which apparently wasn't properly cleaned. It sickens me to know that people suffer at the hands of others like that. Look what Cuomo did to the elderly in NY - he has blood on his hands as he purposely killed off a lot of Moms and Dads.
Ithere are good homes and bad ones. Sometimes patients that enter should really be in hospice care. Cuomo is a Democrat. Democrats are the party that better with human issues than are Republicans. I thought was not so bad. But I don't live in NY. This atty is essentially telling the audience how to dispose of assets over a required period of 5 years. That accomplishes "maming themselves indigent" so they can avail themselves of Medicaid. I would think with all the taxes these people have paid and how they have spent their lives contributing to society that they are more worthy of some end of life assistance?
@@JaimeGarcia-sg9xj There are botany good nursing homes!!! They are cruel and do not care for the elderly. I have lots of history through my parents and health care. Unless you plan on letting them die a horrible death stay away from nursing homes ! B
I had to leave long term care as a nurse because it kills you not to have the resources and staff to provide the quality of care that these folks deserve. The margins are to tight, with out enoygh regular staff they use travel agency staff, many of whom are wonderful nurses and aides, but they dont know the residents and thays so important. Taking care of my grandfather is why i became a nurse. I think the home i spent 6 years working at was better than most but i was still ftequently frustrated that the residents seemed to be second in priority to profits. And the place still was usually in the red.
God forbid there’s no family to pop up regularly. The patient will rot.
A lot of Nursing Homes are for profit so they skimp on the care
Thank God for people like you. I need to start planning for my aging parents. I had no idea how screwed we're going to be.
I am so thankful that we rescued our parents, selling off their assets and having them live with us before their downfall. They lived happy lives with us and had need of nothing. We didn't know about these laws at the time. Now, our Mom is bedridden but otherwise in good health and we aim to keep her that way. When we brought her down to live with us, the doctor had her on 12 medications. Now, she takes only one and wouldn't need that if she would drink more water!
@@millerscorner2 your parents raised good children.
😢 you're better off going to prison!!
While working in a dementia long term care facility a 59 year old man got out and was attempting to commit a crime because he had been in prison and liked that better than the facility he was in. @@fjb6631
If you live in Michigan, look into what's called a." Lady Bird deed which protects the home from Medicaid seizure.
Its quite new and we are only one of 4 states.that have this.
I recently did this
I had already decided I'd take my Mom home ,and care for her myself. I did that while nursing a 3 yr old and a 4 month old for 9 plus years.
what if you go before she does?
What are you gonna do if she gets alzeimers and becomes combative that you cant deal with
This was over 35 years ago. It didn't matter to me,she was my Mother.
@@susananderson9619 you were lucky to be able to do that I tried, but it was not safe to leave my mother home alone. She actually enjoyed assisted living where she had activities and friends and the sundowners didn’t bother anybody if she was up at 2 AM. Everybody’s situation is different, so please don’t judge others.
What did I say that made you think I was judging any one else?
After reading the comments again, I don't think you realize how much you helped people wrap their minds around this. We as a society have to figure out something better than this.
Most people……most people don’t even know this information. I’m getting a crash course learning experience in this mess.
You should touch on the gifting rules and how they impact Medicaid.
I've warched many of your "lessons ". You provide a wealth of information simply for the cost of taking time to watch your videos. I'm sure a person would need an actual in personal attorney to work through the details but you certainly create a fantastic starting point.
Thank you for your time and expertise. I'm in ct , so 5 years before total wipeout good to know. Donate all to a good cause
24 hour private care, 375 days a year at a meager $15/hr comes to $131,000 per year. I have known dementia patients who need that kind of care for multiples of years. The longest was 11 years. Add to that groceries, utilities, medications, and day to expenses incurred in your own home and pretty soon even the most robust retirement account is wiped out. It usually falls to one child to suspend their life and try to do the impossible for mom or dad for years. There are no easy answers and different diseases have differing levels of cruelty. Estate planning is essential before these times occur. I had a friend with no immediate family who just stopped eating as his disease progressed and finally got admitted to hospice if he would private pay. He smiled the day before he died and said, “if I can die before next week, I’ll save $8000.” He always loved a bargain. He was lucky to have enough in the bank AND a disease that allowed him to do that.
The caregiver gets $15/hr but you pay at least double that amount to the agency who provides the caregiver.
I'm always the last to know 😤 when did they add 10 days to the year 🧐
I see a lot of Dementia patients that linger for years as FULL Codes with multiple hospitalizations , low quality of life but their families won't let them go. Last week I had a Resident spend the last month of her life going out for 2 blood transfusions before finally being put on Hospice the last week of her life.
I was in special Ed class all my life. I have low syndrome and had a couple of jobs that didn't last. I am not fast in doing anything .having to be fast in anything thing or a job, my mind goes blank on me. Sometimes, I feel so stupid. But I do try so hard to do things . I enjoyed helping people when I can. I have medicaid all my life. They said that when I turned 65, I will get medical with medicaid . There are times when I get confused with all the different paperwork. Thank you for listening to me. Take care, everyone ❤😊
30 plus years ago, when rehab said my Mother should go into a nursing home, the paperwork asked about the past 10 years of properties,finances,etc at least in Pennsylvania
🎉Pennsylvania, don't live there. That state requires children to pay a parents nursing home bills. NY State does not.
I live in Michigan. The first thing I did after my husband's diagnosis of early cognitive decline was to get our Family Trust updated and a guardianship for him in place. We protected what assets we could. I was aware of the five-year rule. We are a second marriage and between us we raised and educated four children between us in our first marriage. My husband lost all his first marriage assets in his divorce so we basically started over again at age 46 and 50. We are now spending down his assets first (those things in his name - his IRA, his pension, his truck while preserving my assets with the assumption I will live longer.) This is the best we can do.
Donna Allgaier: Ok.
Any questions?
Did you qualify for what you needed?
Sympathy, & Good Luck Wishes to you!
Will a family member (i.e. yourself, kids, etc.) be the guardianship?
@@dlemmon1276 In our case as a second marriage my husband son (from his first marriage) will be his guardian in the event anything happens to me.
Wow I am thankful I saw your comment right away. I have 2 different brain issues found out in April 2023 the week of my birthday. I'm 53 now. I never would have thought of anything to do like that. I hope your husband gets better. There is several different new founded or old just not know about treatments for the delay in progression of detrimental affects. Bless both of you 🫂🙏
I’m 63, healthy for now. I’d rather just end it when time comes
I often do real estate appraisals for Medicaid cases. Medicaid will say their home is worth $300,000 however the elderly sometimes can't maintain the home and it is in poor condition and not worth $300,000. Medicaid never looks at the house. They use online information to value it.
I do an actual appraisal so the patient or heirs are not liable for the difference in sales price and what Medicaid says its worth. The appraisal is particularly helpful when an heir wants to keep Granny's house in the family.
If you get the appraisal before you transfer the property its pretty easy. If you get an appraisal after you transfer the property you may end up in Administrative law court where you have to hire me as an expert witness and an attorney. Its not a tough case but will probably cost you $3,000-$5,000+/-
I am a State Certified General Real Estate Appraiser in NJ.
Currently on NJ Family Care Health Insurance (NJ Medicaid) I`m single, retired and 64. Will apply for SS in 2027 at my FRA. I`ve been on this program for a few years due to a reduction of income. Prior I was on Obamacare that I paid for monthly and prior to that I was employed that included free health insurance. My question is... I own my own home, over 25 years, and will turn 65 in May of 2025 and will sign up for Medicare accordingly. Taking a lump sum pension next year may disqualify me to continue with Medicaid (not sure). If I were to sell my home sometime in the next few years and downsize, and need to use the proceeds of the sale to live off of, will NJ Medicaid "estate recovery" take my money then or when I pass away? Just doing some financial planning in advance. Thanks
So glad I found you. You break this gobbledegook down in layman's language so it's comprehendible. Thanks!
Another great program to educate the public on the need to plan ahead early.
A system designed to extract your last dollar and dignity.
How much dignity is there in cheating the taxpayers?
@@jamesbrust9959 are you assuming someone's diligent savings over decades is taxable? While others spend every dime on credit things they cannot afford? Wait until you are medicare age, or need help due to poor health. Give it to strangers crissing USA borders instead. That is the problem, and legal USA citizens when old, have "rules" like these to pillage when ill unable to work, thus Medicaid help, gers you at the end of your days. What a racket. That is how govt"makes money.
@@jamesbrust9959 Transferring your assets in a manner that _conforms_ to the very laws that will be used to determine your eligibility is not in any way, shape, or form "cheating".
How is making yourself pay for your end of life care unfair?
@@tomasgonzalez4819 exactly and the transfers don’t come without risk. Your just hoping the new names on the titles aren’t sued
This is my unpaid therapy.
I just went through this with my mother for my dad’s nursing home care. I begged my father to do something with their money after my sister died 14 years ago. He wouldn’t listen, just ranting on about what he had.
He’s gone now, but I’m still mad at him. Well daddy, I hope you’re happy that mom spent all of her retirement money on you. She retired from 29 years of nursing and raising 3 girls.
The advice I always gave my patients, if you love your family, take care of your business. If you want to destroy your children, do nothing. We are not destroyed, because we are honest people, but most are not. I write my mom’s checks monthly for any bills, plus sending money to my daughter and other sister per the lawyer’s instructions. I need nothing, but to do right. I am dabbing my tears on my dad’s hanky. The only thing destroyed for me is my heart.
Thanks for tolerating my rant. 💙
B
@Kara Fangmeier Thanks, Kara. Another appointment with the Senior Attorney on Thursday. Just wanting to do everything that is instructed by the law. I appreciate your words of understanding.💙
My father did the same thing only he screwed his wife (he was divorced from my mother) who is now stuck with the bills he created. He also screwed his kids because the estate cannot be settled until all the debts are paid. Settling the estate now would mean his kids and wife would be responsible for his debts. So the estate sits in limbo until his wife dies or pays everything off. Before he died I tried many times to talk to him about this and all he did was make fun of me for bringing it up. So I know what you're feeling....Good luck to you.
@@chuckwyble7719 Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Get in touch with a senior attorney to make sure you’re not paying for anything that you shouldn’t. If it doesn’t work out for you, know that you’ve done the best and most legal correct thing you could. 💙
What are you talking about? Makes no sense.
Sorry, I understand now.
My mom got long term care insurance years before she needed it and she did wind up needing it.
We bought long term care insurance when our term life insurance ended. The premiums are reasonable, considering how expensive nursing home care is! We don't want our kids to have to take care of us, or pay for our care if we run out of money.
Thanks Again! I don't live in Louisiana but I'm still learning really valuable stuff from you. It is a blessing to find someone who is willing to share such knowledge without trying to be a "know-it-all". You clearly warn us we need to pursue further help & WHY! Thanks Again! Patricia in FL
Maine is going to 7 year look back soon 😢
When my Mother turned 89 it was time to find a constant care home for her. We tried to take care of her in our home as best we could, but with the onset of dementia we could not provide the care she needed as I worked out of state and my wife was the director of nutritional services at a nursing home. We were able to get her into the facility my wife worked at. My Mother was a resident there for 10 years until she passed at age 99 and 6 months. My wife checked on her daily, I saw her every Sunday, and I made every care conference. Being directly involved with the care your loved one is receiving assures that your loved one receives professional loving care. We will always be grateful to the staff that guided us through the process. It was a God send.
So happy everything turned out nicely for you but to say, " Being directly involved with the care your loved one is receiving assures that your loved one receives professional loving care," is disingenuous and cruel. Your mother received preferential care because your wife worked there, not because you attended care meetings and visited her once per week.
This is great info for everyone. I went though this over 20 years ago with both my mother and grandfather. Fortunately I had good legal advice and did everything right.
Only kidding,just found your channel today and have been on it for two hours. Great info. I’m in my early 70s and it’s very informative.
God bless you! Both for sneezing and for giving your time to alert us and explain this very complex problem. ❤
In the early 80s it was a 3 year look back period. A friend of mine’s mother had a very bad stroke and her daughter took care of her at her house but she had 2 school age children and had no choice after 3 years to put her mother in a nursing home where she lived for about 18 years.😢
@@ChadBoss-qr4hl that’s our government at work to screw the middle class.
Grandmother and Mother lived together in Michigan. My grandmother went into a nursing home my mother passed away in 2003. In Michigan back then it was a 3 year rule. Their home had been in the family since 1963. My Grandma took her name off the house in 2000. My mother had her on her private insurance when she passed away she had to go on to medicaid. I inherited the house from my mom. The state of Michigan did a thorough check and sent me a letter stating that I was able to keep my mother's house by 1 day. Plan ahead, I used to have conversations with my mother about planning her estate. She did not think it necessary due to her being a widow and only having 1 child. My mom also had a life insurance policy with her mother's name on it. We had to prepay her funeral and set up the policy to pay what was not covered by medicaid. The remaining balance came to me after my grandma passed in 2005. I am just happy everything turned out ok.
Very educational. My friends dad just went into a nursing home and my friend now has no inheritance because her dad failed to plan ahead! It happened quick and everyone was like “What!” No clue? I am shocked how people who can afford an attorney just put it off. I guess thinking it can’t happen to them.
I think sometimes the parent doesn't trust their child or trust their childs spouse so they don't want to give away the money in case they need it.
Honestly as aging parents with a sizable estate.
We did not save it for our kids and they want us to enjoy.
2nd a nursing home for anyone is a death sentence. Yet for you to see only the money as inheritance rather than a cushion to make it as comfortable as possible on our exit.
Take care of your loved 🥰 ones. Nursing homes are an easy way to sweep your loving parents out of sight.
Pay for home care!!
@@retiredgamblers3517 Sorry I said that the way I did. Of course the inheritance is not a main focus, but most of us would like to leave something for our children. Whatever we do we need to plan ahead.
@@janicescott7338 no apologies needed. it's why this is such a difficult conversation to have.
@@Norm475 As a former Attorney, this is what it always boiled down to - control of assets. Very few people will give up control of their assets until it is too late. Fortunately my parents trusted their children and we were successful in transferring assets about 8 years before they passed. Both fortunately and unfortunately we never had to put them into long term care and therefore Medicaid was not an issue. These are difficult issues for people in their 60's and 70's. Planning becomes so much easier when people are in their 80's because they have plenty of experience to trust their children, but often it is too late.
There are insurance contracts which one may enter into to cover the risk you. describe. Good presentation of what can be a complex matter.
Work your A - ! Off all your life’s, then you can’t even give things or money to your children!!!!! My late husband and I should of just blew all our money and didn’t give a darn about trying to leave something to our Family. No, we worked hard our whole 42 years of marriage. Now, God forbid it can ALL BE SUCKED UP by a nursing home!!! I will make a plan NOW!!! Thank you for the info. My sister lives in Washington state, says it’s 2 years in her state.?
Those in charge of 'us' have found and made laws to make certain that all we have is given or taken by them. It's what evil does.
As a taxpayer why should I have to pay for your care, if you have money ?
Look into long term care insurance. Don’t depend on anyone to step up if need be
@@SandfordSmythe sometimes the money that people have is not quite enough
Dont you want to pay your way? Did you want the rest of us to pay it for you?
Go to 7 minutes or so to get the definition… helped me anyway to hear that. TY
My plan is to walk the Appalachian Trail at that time
Ah. Excellent idea. It starts or ends in my state.
That's a great plan unless you have a stroke or something and you can't wipe your own ass let alone take a walk in the woods.
@@jimbull6630 If you're going there to die, it doesn't really matter if you can wipe your own ass.
@@mrsd1095 If your senile do you know or care when you have a dump in your diapers?
I don't want to end up in a nursing home. Thank you CNA for giving your your advice. I don't want to go there.
I don't have a lot of $s but I don't want the nursing home to go my money either. I'll stay home until I die.
Thank your for your advice. I'll make sure I'll plan ahead.
All you can do is try to stay as healthy as you can. You may have no choice. If you cannot care for yourself someone is eventually going to enter your home (using some valid excuse) and unless you can get people to help you with your needs, you'll be forced out of your house.
Medicaid nursing homes are horrible. I used to go to our county home at Christmases to volunteer. That more than anything has prompted me to save, save, save.
It is hard to pay $5,000 a month if you have $3,000 to your name.
Live in Michigan yes they took everything
I would love to see an updated video on this subject! Sept 2023 currently so anything for 2024 would be so appreciated!
i was in nursing home few months when my knee was out laying in my on waste for hours never will i go to another
God bless you! Good information; thank you.
In New York you can have $15,000 in assets.
Good video. Thanks for posting. Only thing additional I wish u would’ve addressed was the quality of nursing homes that accept or don’t accept Medicaid. Clearly there r differences between 6k and 15k monthly retirement facilities. They don’t all accept Medicaid or do they?
nursing homes pick and choose who they allow at their homes...if you are self paid or have nursing home insurance, you will most likely get to pick where you want to go....if you are on Medicaid, you don't get the choice....they could place you 30 miles out of town....also, if you are very obese, or have complicated medical history,or have dementia etc good luck finding a place....there are thousands of people wasting tax dollar money sitting in HOSPITALS because the nursing homes won't take them.....its costing millions of dollars to keep them at acute care facilities and yet that is where they sit......our whole system stinks....we are going to have to take in our elderly whether we like it or not , eventually....
PLEASE check directly with a Case Worker.
I became a nurse and got my license around age 30. Every few years the staffing got worse. There are some good nursing homes but even then they almost need to be working on roller skates. The work load is so high. (I’ve done nursing home, hospital and private duty nursing). I left several years ago after it took a toll on my body and I can no longer do it. My husband is getting close to retirement age. After about a decade in I realized the the American dream of home ownership is just a fancy insurance policy to pay for your health when you get too old. You never truly own your home because you still have to pay taxes and they’ll take your home if you don’t. My mother is 76 and even though I tore up my back and shoulders being a nurse, I will care for her when she needs it. She’s still pretty independent with just a little forgetfulness. I’m also getting my stuff in order and my oldest daughter said she wouldn’t let me go into a home either. We’ve all agreed to help each other unless a person gets so demented and violent to the point our lives would be at risk. But that doesn’t happen often and we have a big enough family to draw help from others if needed.
Nothing like trying to wade through 25 pages of legalese when you start your cognitive decline.
Exactly!
I have less and less love for my nation as each day passes.
Interesting approach. Hide assets and let other people pay for your nursing home care. Real ethical advice.
I stand behind people at the grocery store, paying with food stamps, getting prime meats, and things in their cart that I can’t believe are covered by the government. But that’s the law. they take advantage of it. Why can’t those of us who have worked all of our lives take care as well? Do you merely file a short form 1040 when you report your income and yet you own a business?
If so, you would be a moron not to have a CPA getting you ever deduction that you are entitled to legally.
I'm glad I got my parents on board with taking everything out of their names. They could legally stay in the house for as long as they needed no one could force them to leave . If it weren't for that the state would have got everything. Everything my father worked for his entire life.
Now you get the money, and they are in a second rate nursing home on welfare.
So....might I ask if you or your parents voted for candidates who want to cut Medicaid as a part of "wasteful government spending"? I'm assuming that what remained of your fathers life's work went to you and not the state.
Thank you so much for caring to educate me and others❤️🙏🏼
I enjoy your videos very educational thank you for donating your time good luck with U tube.
In 2013 we created our trust. We signed and had notarized, the warranty deed moving our house and property to the trust at that time. We did not file it with the county because we knew we would pay the property off within 2.5 years and didn't want the hassle with the lender and more charges and filing fees at that time. Well we paid off the property, but then forgot to file the warranty deed with the county until last week. What date would Medicaid use for the five years?
I'm trying or was, trying to do for my aunt who is in the hospital. She has some dementia and damage. Also 3rd degree burns. She will need skilled care LTC. It was the most complicated process. Anyway, she isn't wealthy but she has some money in the bank on SS and owns her home no mortgage. I finally had to petition the court with her caseworkers to get a conservator because I didn't understand exactly the process and the five year issue. I sure didn't want to try anything that would really be a mess. She had a little too much in her account. Spend down is over my head. Anyway, I'm glad we have the attorney (conservator) it takes care of alot of stressful paperwork. He will take care of this issue and do the medicaid and stuff. Hopefully we will have her placed in LTC soon close to me. Thanks for this video and info.
But sometimes something catastrophic & unexpected diagnosis happens. This is totally UNFAIR! I’ve worked all my life take care I’d myself but one never knows. I have Long term care insurance but that premium keeps going up so I decreased my benefits. Will discuss some other options with my financial advisor Hope and pray I can stay healthy and keep as much of my hard earned money!
You explain everything so well , thank you for sharing your knowledge 🇺🇸
We moved 1.2 million out of my mothers name 7 years ago. $4000 lawyer fees and all is good. Money well spent. She is 88 and was diagnosed with Dementia. She just qualified for Medicaid and is entering a nursing home with just her SS benefits as her payment.
2 yr look back in CA. Average cost for nursing or assisted living starts at 5k
When we’re talking about Medicaid, the 60 month look-back period doesn’t apply to assisted living (only nursing homes) correct?
Good question!
Would you do a video regarding transfer exceptions to the 5 year rule?
In CA, it's 30 months.
What about putting everything in a trust while we are in good health
I have a problem with all this. When I started thinking about it, a number of years ago, the blind trust loophole seemed legitimate (and I do not question its legality), but as the years have passed, I have grown more uncomfortable with it. The money (aka Medicaid) to provide institutional care for those who cannot afford it DOES NOT come from nowhere. There’s a tendency to treat it like some people treat insurance, at least if they’re not paying the premiums. I was the foreman of a jury that had to determine a liability award, and a person on the jury would not consider a verdict unless they knew if there was insurance, despite the fact that the judge’s instructions had been quite clear that we would not be told about, nor could we consider the question of insurance.
If I owe money for being in assisted living, and I have money, why should I be able to use other people’s money (Medicaid IS tax money!) before mine is spent? It all seems to come down to another one of these phantom “rights” that pop up like poisonous mushrooms, and seemingly more often in today’s society: in this case, the “right” to pass along my money to my descendants. No. There is no such right. Inheritance taxes in form or another have been around for a long time, demonstrating quite graphically that no such “right” exists.
I will not here consider the validity of the blind trusts discussed in this video; it is a law, just like the laws providing for inheritance taxes, or Medicaid. Don’t like the laws, then petition to change them, but don’t whine about nonexistent “rights.”
Amen
@@ChadBoss-qr4hl I think he is referring to legal moves by affluent and educated people to exploit the purpose of needs based programs like Medicaid by making taxpayers pick up the tab so the family can inherit the money. Usually under the excuses of dirty nursing homes, life-time of hard work, lazy people on welfare get this stuff free, and it's legal. And I don't know if grandma was given an informed consent about the quality of care under Medicaid. Good nursing home may accept Medicaid, after a few years of private pay.
@@ChadBoss-qr4hl I don't think that @mencken8 was complaining at all---he/she said it just the way it should be. Read his/her second paragraph. If one has the money to pay their way, they should pay their own way. That's how it should be, even though it's understandable that people don't want to give up their life's savings only to eventually die and know that the money was spent in vain.
Too many people believe they have a 'right' to other people's money and possessions---whether they steal it or try to get laws passed in which they can get 'stuff'/money that they don't deserve, etc. This latest problem the USA is having concerning all the migrants coming into this country putting stress on our economy is something that should addressed immediately as we have millions of people right here having a hard time making ends meet. We need to set priorities on what is fair to everyone on how money should be collected (taxing) and how some of that money be returned (via benefits) to them.
@@stanleykijek6983 Thanks- that is what I meant.
How much money can you transfer to each child per year per government regulations? Great presentation and thanks
I believe you can transfer as much as you want. If it is less than $15,000 you don't have to report it to the IRS. If it is more you report it to the IRS and it goes against your lifetime exclusion which now stands at 15 million dollars. I will guarantee the lifetime exclusion will drop from 15 million to 5 or even 1 million with BIte me as president. Before you make any decisions on my comment check with an attorney or your accountant. Good Luck
I believe the gift amt., no tax to either party, is at $15,000 now.
Yes you can give that much money away but if it's in the 5 year look back it will disqualify you from medicaid. Look before you leep!!!
Bless you. Thank you for your helpful info that ppl definitely need to know. Good heads up to life- defining possibilities.
Wow, thank you you’re so awesome. Looking forward to talking to you. Have a great new year JB.
Being an unfundable liability how long do you think Medicare/Medicaid and Social Security will actually last? If they tank how will patients afford nursing homes.
I understand that there are Faith-based health,/insurance services. Which I think is great, in that there is less of dependence on the State.
You've done a good job explaining thus. Thank you.
😂 Gesundheit! Thanks for this very important information. New subscriber.
Wish you would discuss The pros & cons on Estate Deeds
Just for giggles, I'll mention State and Federal Bank Examiners, (I was one). Large cash transaction reports are completed by banks generally when $10,000 moves in or out of an account, but it can be at any amount if the bank deems the transaction to be unusual for that account, these reports go to regulators and the IRS. We can go back to each months statement and see every transaction, a year's worth takes about 5 minutes making notes. Write checks for cash and you may need to justify where that money went, say if it was $500.00 or even $200 but done over a period of time. Regulators can look for and spot "draining an account" in any cash or securities account. If Granny likes to gamble she better keep receipts/records for her losses for taxes and Medicare. Besides, burying cash can be a problem because the older you get you may forget where you buried it!
Why people should either put it in the safe deposit box or in a safe at home
What if the home has been in a reverse mortgage situation and she does not own her home will her Medicaid not pay for a nursing home?
When I first moved to this town, I couldn't afford to buy a house so my son put $50,000 down and I paid the other hundred thousand. Then my son said that if I wanted to, I could quit claim the house over to him and that way he would take care of all of the appliances, any maintenance upkeep, etc. and I wouldn't have to pay for rent so it turned out to be a good thing to do but that was 10 years ago. I had already been on disability Social Security, so I applied for Medicaid around that time so by the time I quit claimed the house back to my son, I was already on Medicaid. Are you saying that. Since I didn't sell the house, I just quit claim deed to my son then they have the right to collect from the sale of the house even though the investment was half from my son?
Let me get this straight. You accumulated assets that can be used to take care yourself in old age, including nursing care. Instead of using those assets you choose to give them away and then expect your fellow citizens to foot the cost of your care for the remainder of your life. This that the plan? If I am wrong in thinking this reeks of shelfishness, please explain why.
Paul could you please do a video on the half of loaf strategy when it comes to the five-year look back. I heard about this a while back but I’m not sure how it works or if it still even applies. It might help others as well. Thank you
Well, if you go to prison for fraud then you won't have to pay to live in a nursing home will ya? Plus you can leave your home to your kids and have better conditions for living than in a nursing home, 3 square meals a day, a gym, your own room, free healthcare and everything.
Wow.
When you go into a long term nursing home and the state pays for it a lien goes on the house that person owns and the money that the state paid gets paid back first when the property changes ownership.
They can't go after your primary home?
But you may become someone’s girlfriend by force, so pick your struggle wisely.
@@DocZoidberg549They can and they will.
I’m curious if elder's long term care look back on 60 month transfers apply to the 17,000 gifting and recoups on that? Especially, if that 17,000 is a land ownership interest owned in an LLC? Also would they be able to recoup the remaining value of the elder's interest in an LLC?
Thanks for the info. What if they have cash in the bank? What are the limitations for the “spend down” process? Say you have $15,000 from the sale of a home and have to move closer to your children? Parent has moving expenses, etc?
If your estate planner gives you a blank stare when you ask if the plan accounts for Medicaid....
Does the transfer of a titled mobile home count in that 5 year penalty period?
You are such a blessing! I just shared this in my gab group of homesteaders and off grid patriots.
What about gifting cash ? a few weeks before going into a nursing home ? can a grandmother gift her checking accountt money to her granddaughter for college ? so she can get medicaid to go into a nursing home ?
DO THE SAME THINGS APPLY TO A HOSPITAL BILL?
I went to TWO different attorneys, ONE that was supposed to me an estate planning attorney specializing in protecting assets. They DID NOT help a damn bit! That was over 5 years ago! We would be free from the look-back if that attorney was looking out for us! The DID NOT.
I retired in 2015. At that time I ask a lawyer to set me with a non revocable trust in case I needed long term care. I called them to ask questions. I found all they had was a will. Now they do not do trust anymore. A recentmented another lawyer. Do I have to start over? Agavided.
What kind of properties can be put in a trust?
So if you have 15-20 K in the bank , once you spend that down if you GO into a nursing home (asssuming those are the only assets you have) would you then qualify for Medicaid paying for long term care? Also, I have Mass Health Common Health (which is similar, but not the SAME as Medicaid)- which allows you to have some money in the bank.... not sure how this applies or imapcts me if I had to go into a nursing home.
What about money in your savings account or checking account. How can that be used? We live in the north and go south and rent in the winter is this something you can do with you're own money or would this disqualify you?
I have a question. My sister lived with Dad for 10 years and took care of him. Can we add her to the mortgage and protect her investment in the property?
Very confusing as your not clear you stated 60 months then said 6 months ? I m assuming 60 months is the rule ?
Where do I go to get planning done. Lawyer, financial planner and what is cost to set up trust
Thanks for this post..would you suggest a revokable or non-revokable trust to avoid medicade recovery...Thank-you,
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Thank You for your simple and direct information!!
Excellent information even for me in Mississippi!!
I appreciate all of your videos! Thank You!
My sinuses kept me out fighter slot in the Air Force. I understand why. But I think the service branches can be extra picky because there are so few flight slots available and maybe 8 serviceable teeth is just one way to limit Navy aviators.
Feel free to explain the relevance of this.
I need your help. I went on Medicaid ssdi. What if I never go to a nursing home? Will medicaid still take my house?
Some states may.
Please update your information: Medi-Cal is $195K for couple $130K single, and the look-back is six years.
so stay single
Considering investing in my sons business so later he can help me if I need it. Bad idea? 🤷🏼♀️
What about a person who was on Medicaid and died and then his trust receives $ from an insurance policy that came from his deceased father…do they have to give that $ back to Medicaid if the family paid for funeral expenses, etc.?
What if I have a Home and want it to got to my kids and I've been on Medicaid for over 10 years now and I don't go to a Nursing home
If a car is in two people's name, one of which is the medicaid applicant , does that count as an asset of the medicaid applicant or the other person on the title? My mom hasn't driven in a couple years but her name is still on the title along with mine. It's been essentially my car for the past couple years and I originally paid for the car in full with my own money.