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1. Create the fear of losing you 2. Avoid being always available 3. Maintain some mystery 4. Allow them to invest in you 5. Prioritize your needs 6. Don’t make them the center of your life 7. Stop initiating communication all the time 8. Create your own happiness 9. Be willing to walk away ❤
To everyone reading this, I sincerely pray for that whatever is causing you pain or stress will pass. May your negative thoughts, excessive worries and doubts disappear, replaced by clarity and understanding. May your life be filled with peace, tranquility and love
Thank you! I’m n so much pain . I’ve survived countless critical incidents and traffic collisions etc But I can’t shake her ! I never have felt so pummeled and shredded.
My grandmother taught me the lesson to buy myself flowers. She said she buys flowers for herself for a couple of reasons. First because she loves flowers … their aesthetic, their fragrance, their luxury. Second because she values herself, she likes to treat herself special, and is worthy of the small treasures in life. And lastly, because it sets the standard for and teaches others how she would like to be treated. Throughout my young life, I witnessed my grandmother receiving admiration and appreciation, and flowers to nearly no end. She set the standard for herself, she treated herself nice & others followed suit🌷💐
I think you are right, these are helpful ideas but some people are too selfish to realize it. Find someone who appreciates you but you don't have to work so hard. These are good things to consider about valuing yourself though.
Hey guys, I just wanted to stop by to send some positive energy to all of you! These past years been very tough to me. Ive been challenged mentally, emotionally and certainly spiritually. I feel like i’m finally finding myself and who I was once before when I had peace. I am thankful to come across a channel like this one that shows me that we are really all one in the same. We all have these daily struggles that we deal with that can keep us up late at night but just know that you are not alone. Knowing that I can come here and openly express myself and see others doing the same gives me hope that the world will indeed be a better place but it starts with us. We have to set an example for others and I know we can do it. Peace and Love to ALL OF YOU BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE.
Hey, I am currently feeling the exact same things as you do. You perfectly described what I am going through right now. Therefore I wish you to get enlightened by the power of thinking and your mental health. Peace and Love back! 💪
If you’re reading this comment, it’s too late, you’ve already been immensely blessed with an abundance of love, wealth, luck, health, joy, and whatever else your heart desires!! I’m so proud of you for surviving everything you’ve been through. This is your sign to go after what your heart most desires for the highest good, it’s your time....
I’m not good at anything but im a master of walking way from people and situations that are not good for my mental health.I don’t give second chance to them whether they are my relatives,friends,colleagues or partners.
I don’t want to be priority of those who don’t care for me but I just want to get away from them and protect my energy field so I can accomplish my goals in peace!
Though I have tried many of these steps, my family still don't acknowledge me. They just don't care, so I put God first, me second and move forward. I'm 72, and don't have time for emotionally dead people. I love being alone, don't have to put up with nobody issues but my own. ☺
Yeah it isn't that complicated. Someone who values you will make it known from the beginning and maintain it because they want to, there's nothing really causing that other than their own internal world. Also when people want to be in each others' lives, they seriously make the effort/go out of their way to be together, and it's just in the air that things won't be different. So, at the end of the day, it's all about choice. You can do everything and you can do nothing, but the outcome will be the same in terms of people remaining in each others' lives or even remaining at the same workplace if that's simply what they choose- it all just boils down to choice. That's all one needs to know. That's why it's important to be self sufficient in your happiness, livelihood, etc, and to always be on standby for yourself (e.g. be ready to leave, and so on).
I am happy I’m learning these things early on. As a teen I was always seeking friendships with ppl that were not healthy. Now I’m ok being a loner, ppl want an audience I have found that even this video is teaching you how to be the center of attention. I’m ok being unoticed and un regognized
"If you know that someone won't treat you the way you deserve, why would you want to be close to that person?" ❤ I want to be around people who love me forever!
Step 7 is more important than many people realise. I stopped initiating communication with many people and I didn't hear back from them ever. It truly shows you who considers you important and who doesn't.
It doesn't matter if you get acknowledgement. As said in another stoic video, as long as your intentions were good and worthy, that's all that matters. The fulfillment is in your heart. As long as you did what is good and righteous with pure intentions. Thanks, this is a good video.
I’m 34 separated from a 10 year marriage and I’m in a journey of healing and loving myself more. I’m so happy to have found ur channel because it came on the right time of my life. Attempting to challenge myself for 6 months to become the best version of myself. Thank u girl for having that beautiful smile, ur amazing feminine energy and for helping others to gain that inner strength that we ALL have! Much love ❤
Im 35 and just seperated as well for 11 years of marriage,Just always think positive and motivate your more valuable than HiS/HeR..Hugs for you!Everything would be fine
I’m in a relationship that I’m no longer comfortable with I live with him and i want to leave but I feel he is my everything and when i leave I won’t even have anywhere to go I will just lose it please i need help on what to do
@@Doglovers6322Just tell him if you don’t want to be with him, stop leading him on and allowing him to think that everything is alright. Here’s a piece of advice. Stop thinking about yourself for once and allow him to find someone who can love him wholly.
I dedicate these sincere words to all those who are taking the time to read these lines, I want to send the most heartfelt prayers, hoping that the burdens and difficulties you are facing will be resolved gently and peacefully. I hope that in this moment, anxious thoughts and doubts will be replaced by clarity and faith, and that you will find peace and love surrounding you. Life may be filled with challenges and trials, but within each difficulty also lies opportunities and strength for us to overcome. I hope you will find the resilience and patience to face life's challenges and guidance. Believe that, despite the dark days, light will always shine ahead, and that all good things will come to you. Keep faith and hope in your heart, and let the love and compassion of your loved ones be your encouragement and strength to reach your goals. I wish you to be surrounded by love and peace, and that each new day will bring you joy and happiness.
00:05 Methods to become a priority in someone's life and be more recognized 01:30 Create the fear of losing you 03:01 To be a priority, use the techniques wisely and in balance. 04:34 Allow them to invest in you for them to prioritize you 06:05 Prioritizing your needs and being seen as a priority 07:28 Stop initiating communication all the time 08:53 Creating your own happiness and being willing to walk away are key strategies to becoming a priority in someone's life. 10:15 Prioritize yourself for personal growth Crafted by Merlin AI.
To each and every one of you who's taken a moment to read these words, my heartfelt wishes are with you. I pray that whatever burden may be weighing on your heart, causing pain or stress, will soon fade away like a distant memory. May the shadows of negative thoughts, excessive worries, and nagging doubts dissipate, making way for a radiant clarity and profound understanding to light your path. And in this journey we call life, may your days be adorned with the precious gifts of peace, tranquility, and boundless love.
1. Be relevant for yourself 2. Abandoned may result for improvement 3. Stay in love everyday 4. Never assume to anything 5. Expect the unexpected situation 6. Don’t lose yourself no matter he lose you 7. Don’t be fear being alone 8. Be happy 10. Achieve the important things
I learnt the hard way after being with a high spectrum covert narcissist for 5 years. I did 1-8 at the beginning. Then one evening (during the love bombing stage) I said no and he threw all his toys out the pram, so I ended it. However, I changed my mind after I saw him crying at work and gave him a 2nd chance. 🚩 🚩 🚩 I implemented No.9 four months ago and escaped. It almost destroyed me, but inadvertently he taught me some very valuable lessons. Thank you for your words of wisdom 🙏🏻
happened to me too,however it lasted far less than your relationship. I still don't understand why am I the one who feels bad when I was the one done dirty...
@@Alexandra-dnthat's how brain gets wired when we are with narcissists. their tactics gaslight us into guilt-tripping. avoid regret. you did right by stepping out of that relationship.
Didn’t know what NPD was -a 21 year relationship, then I found out, I left reading about others situations because we all sounded the same, the gaslighting, let it go, Benny’s single 12 Yrs, thank you God for saving me, and my son. I seem to attract NPD types but at least now I know who they are and how they operate. Trust your intuition and I like all the comments here- you are the priority. Wish I saw this RUclips decades ago….oh we didn’t have internet then. Love to everyone here.
This video is absolutely amazing! These psychological strategies not only helped me recognize my self-worth but also taught me how to be valued by others. The biggest lesson I learned is: prioritize yourself before expecting others to do so.
When you love ❤️ yourself doing these things come naturally-that being said -- it’s still great advice- prioritize loving 🥰 yourself - Happy Saturday 😊
I've been following stoic philosophy for a while now, and the way this video integrates those principles with practical psychological strategies is brilliant. It's refreshing to see content that encourages self-growth and prioritizing oneself. Keep up the fantastic work!
Ive realized this about my entire family that at times i wonder if im with the wrong family i have kept my parents in my life but overall make no more efforts with the remaining. This is my life story and having to rewrite my own....at the age of 46. It's been a long journey in discovering myself finally creating boundarys when I need to speaking up when I need to not caring what they might think of me. All I seem to have left is making sure I'm well and healthy that's top priority for me so ridding my life of unneeded stress as much as possible
My dear, if I said I was sorry, it wouldn't make any difference really. The worst part is that the memory will never go away...I beg you to move on against all odds and hurt. I say this because I have an idea how you feel...the world is full of mysteries... just know that you're very important and wanted by people okay? Whoever shows you care in return is family...big hugs
I’m nearly 60 and I’m finally walking away bcs a step cousin who had been adopted out but found my step family a few years ago is a Toxic Element…she caused so much trouble with me in the family. I am the Eldest. So I’ve finally walked away and I realised nobody else treats me like these four do …my own family are the total opposite they treat me with the loyalty and respect I deserve and I them. My Son felt it from this step cousin too…and I caught her out being two faced about one of them… the one’s she creeps to their faces. I am so done they drink too much …not all the time but too much when they do and they fight with each other…I’m so sick of having to intervene in the middle of them and I’ve had 7 operations…🤷♀️😅 they bring it on themselves.
I remember seeing this sometime back. I am back again.....and I have made my 7 pages of notes all over again! This is so good. I am applying these steps and it truly is a great plan to have better relationships with people as well as helping one's own self-esteem! Thanks!
The part about 'Create your own happiness' at 08:24 is truly impactful. It highlights the importance of being independent and finding joy within ourselves. This lesson promotes confidence and balance, making us more fulfilled and valued by others. A powerful reminder for personal growth!
I think we become passive in these areas on the job. It’s so easy to get taken advantage of at work because “I have a mortgage, etc. and can’t leave”. Always have a side hustle and a b plan and c plan to fall back on.
I have done all the mistakes. Because I loved that person with all my heart. I couldn’t play manipulation. But I am trying too follow all these steps. If the person comes back he is mine, otherwise I will give up now. It will be difficult but it is now required
The ones who are able to genuinely value the presence of someone in your life always and unconditionally is a person who is mindful and complete rather without lack and complexity in their personhood...I should think
' I was overlooked my whole life because i was indoctrinated to be self-loading.Now I know my worth and I manifest easily.I am power because it is written'.A saying that I will always remember.
I did all these to my boss unknowingly and she can't let me go yet I treat her so badly. Sometimes I feel bad doing this but it has worked for me coz she really treasures me
Video Summary: The video offers nine powerful psychological strategies to become a priority in someone's life and gain recognition for your worth. These strategies include creating fear of losing you, avoiding always being available, maintaining some mystery, allowing others to invest in you, prioritizing your own needs, not making them the center of your life, not always initiating communication, creating your own happiness, and being willing to walk away. - 00:02 To become a priority in someone's life, create the fear of losing you. - 02:17 To be seen as a priority in someone's life, you should emotionally distance yourself, balance your time with others, and maintain some mystery. - 04:37 To be seen as a priority, allow others to invest in you and prioritize your own needs. - 06:55 To become a priority in someone's life, maintain distance, stop initiating communication, create your own happiness, and be willing to walk away. - 09:15 Walking away from someone shows that you won't accept anything less than you deserve, and the right person will make an effort to keep you in their life.
Teach yourself not to care ,if even 1of my adult children decide not to speak to me ,iam fine with that &the same goes for everyone, most important in my life there’s days is me “, a former emotional door Matt 💪🙏🏻
Same here my adult son b his wife are just abusive even through cancer . Now my younger son is trying my heart . It doesn’t matter what I do , they just find fault .
U don't need validation from anyone to know Ur worth 💯 1. Be happy 2. Do good 3. Be content with what you have 4. Extend a helping hand to others 5. Believe in God that he makes things beautiful in his own time 🙏
I 100% support not being readily available to friends and to not be the first to initiate conversations/meet ups. A person who genuinely cares will always reflect the interest back. Also with friends, don’t give them labels (close, best etc). People come and go in your life so don’t attach too much value to them. Family is obviously different, if you have great family members then cherish them.
It would be great to not have to play hard to get so to speak but rather to have someone with whom things are easy and the levels of interest in each other match. No games. I do appreciate the video because it does speak to the truth of human nature and also the need to value oneself. Thank you ❤
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Thank u spook much angel, I need that video badly, bcoz I am suffering in a toxic relationship from past 13 yrs and still hurting and killing my heart everyday
The pace, the voice and the visuals are stunning behind an equally stunning message. Thank you for a beautiful presentation that we can really use to improve our lives.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 02:17 🤔 *Recognizing Lack of Recognition* 02:43 🚧 *Strategy 1: Create the Fear of Losing You* 03:37 🔄 *Strategy 2: Avoid Being Always Available* 04:34 🕵️ *Strategy 3: Maintain Some Mystery* 05:28 💰 *Strategy 4: Allow Them to Invest in You* 06:26 🛡️ *Strategy 5: Prioritize Your Needs* 07:34 🌱 *Strategy 6: Don't Make Them the Center of Your Life* 08:28 🤐 *Strategy 7: Stop Initiating Communication All the Time* 09:08 😊 *Strategy 8: Create Your Own Happiness* 09:56 🚶 *Strategy 9: Be Willing to Walk Away* 10:32 🌟 *Conclusion: Embracing Unique Journeys* Made with HARPA AI
If someone is happy with someone else and not you as a person,it doesn't mean the person has begged for any attention but it's a sure sign that the one doesn't need you to live or to be her true self
I feel like my desired partner I'm trying to get to know is using these strategies against me, and you know what - go ahead, be unavailable, be cold, stay mysterious and distanced. And guess what you got the opposite from me, I'm already looking for someone else. Thanks for this blessing video.
Thank you,this was really helpful. I've been having a hard time deciding whether to chase people (cause I did not want to lose them) or just focus on myself and let things fall into their rightful place.
Come on man you are too good at this I am like on the 6the step already , and I am willing to take the 9th step ... I am preparing my mind .....I had to say thank you bcs actually you are telling people how to live or prioritize your life
These days the ego destroys potential relationships before they happen. All the invisible rules we have to follow. Even worse Is when u try not following them and just being old fashioned. The reason we love the past so must is because there was less rules and more heart about love. There was so many movies made about the guy showing the effort and so doing eventually wins the girl. Today that is considered stalking and desperate which is a turn off. In the past mysterious is weird and creepy and gets no action. Today a girl will pick the mysterious guy over you who is showing heart cause he's hard to read. Times changed.
i am oldfashioned i want the first kind, not stalker involvement lvl but care and emotional maturity enough to show they care, as long as they dont follow it up with disgusting weird shit that makes me run pls no more of that.
i really havent the time or need the drama of mindgames or pretend to not care so they chase, i want honesty and caring and i would give the same if its mutual ofc i mean you never know w these things. Weve been conditioned the right way is mutual aloofness at best but really it is not, just be true, if you play games youll never find the ones you could stay with anyway.
I took a step bacck and maybe few others after when i realized there is always room for others and not me the “so called best friend ". Lol I made myself my priority and I've been happier! I feel like I've walked out of a friendship, i might still be his friend but he isn't mine! Know the difference ❤️
Wish I would have known this some 10 years ago. I spent my life working for everyone and then one day i had a serious of unfortunate events and then i saw how my life felt apart all at once.. Growing up on my own, i was never really taught anything
The problem is, as a middle child, i can't stop craving for recognition, love, attention, and care from my parents in the SAME AMOUNT that they have given to my other siblings. I'm jealous i know, and it's not a honorable trait, but the memories from my past always come back.
My advice is don't force people to talk to you or spend time with you Us women tend to do this a lot. if your partner said they want to sleep or go to the gym let them go and do them. Even if you miss them. They have chosen to do something else. Let him This is what Love is. Love is selfless. Love wants the other person to be happy. So go get your needs met somewhere else. Don't victimise the situation or take it personally. When the person is finished doing what they're doing they will come around to you just be patient. If you beg for attention and time and they spend time with you against there will and to keep you quiet but it won't be authentic . and they will resent you. This goes for people in committed.
"get your needs met somewhere else", 50% of men can't enter a relationship even if they would like to. There was nothing selfless in the women i loved, they left and abonedoned me when i needed them most, just jumping to the next. F your so called love, i lost everyone i ever loved.
I'm already at the nothing left to give stage & at a loss as to what took me from being a priority & having felt I had worth to completely the opposite end of the spectrum. So ... maybe too late as I've walked away & completely ghosted them . Thanks for the content though as I can always take this on board for future connections 👍
It sounds like you may have been with a narcissist or emotional vampire who sucked you dry. Rest, take care of you, ground yourself, feed your soul, recoup and recharge; I guarantee you, you deserve it, and are worth it!!!
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1. Create the fear of losing you
2. Avoid being always available
3. Maintain some mystery
4. Allow them to invest in you
5. Prioritize your needs
6. Don’t make them the center of your life
7. Stop initiating communication all the time
8. Create your own happiness
9. Be willing to walk away
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Thank you! Now I can listen and take notes with ease because you supplied the bullets.
This is exactly how to treat someone who is a genuine narcissistic
Thank you!!!
@@bucii01Silence & No Contact is the best with narcissists.
Thanks, lovely Sheryl. 😊
To everyone reading this, I sincerely pray for that whatever is causing you pain or stress will pass. May your negative thoughts, excessive worries and doubts disappear, replaced by clarity and understanding. May your life be filled with peace, tranquility and love
Thank you. I pray you have same blessings 🙏
Thank you! I’m n so much pain . I’ve survived countless critical incidents and traffic collisions etc
But I can’t shake her ! I never have felt so pummeled and shredded.
Thank You 🙏
Thank you
Thanks for the comment!
If someone treats you as an option, leave them as a choice.
Thanks for the comment.
Like it 👌
@@terencehennegan1439 thank you!😊
@@christinesotelo7655 thank you! You did the right thing because you deserve better😊
Thanks hon ❤
My grandmother taught me the lesson to buy myself flowers.
She said she buys flowers for herself for a couple of reasons.
First because she loves flowers … their aesthetic, their fragrance, their luxury.
Second because she values herself, she likes to treat herself special, and is worthy of the small treasures in life.
And lastly, because it sets the standard for and teaches others how she would like to be treated.
Throughout my young life, I witnessed my grandmother receiving admiration and appreciation, and flowers to nearly no end.
She set the standard for herself, she treated herself nice & others followed suit🌷💐
Great reflection! Thanks for the comment!
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Loved this. So true 😊
Waw she is no atractive....
Wonderful!
# 9 Is most important. If you have to do all these things to get respect and love from others - you dont need them. Walk away. Love is not hard.
Love is not hard. ❤
So true..❤🫶🏻❤️
Love to be easy..
I think you are right, these are helpful ideas but some people are too selfish to realize it. Find someone who appreciates you but you don't have to work so hard. These are good things to consider about valuing yourself though.
Love is a perfectly straightforward condition, yet people insist on making it complicated ❤️
Hey guys, I just wanted to stop by to send some positive energy to all of you! These past years been very tough to me. Ive been challenged mentally, emotionally and certainly spiritually. I feel like i’m finally finding myself and who I was once before when I had peace. I am thankful to come across a channel like this one that shows me that we are really all one in the same. We all have these daily struggles that we deal with that can keep us up late at night but just know that you are not alone. Knowing that I can come here and openly express myself and see others doing the same gives me hope that the world will indeed be a better place but it starts with us. We have to set an example for others and I know we can do it. Peace and Love to ALL OF YOU BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE.
Thanks for the comment!
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I appreciate you and the message really ❤😊
Hey, I am currently feeling the exact same things as you do. You perfectly described what I am going through right now. Therefore I wish you to get enlightened by the power of thinking and your mental health. Peace and Love back! 💪
If you’re reading this comment, it’s too late, you’ve already been immensely blessed with an abundance of love, wealth, luck, health, joy, and whatever else your heart desires!! I’m so proud of you for surviving everything you’ve been through. This is your sign to go after what your heart most desires for the highest good, it’s your time....
Thanks for the comment!
Aww, thanks for shining your light✨️
Thank you! 😊
Thank you
Thank you so much i needed this❤️❤️
Step 8 is the big one. Create your own happiness. This is the secret to a good life
"Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking." - Marcus Aurelius
Truee
Love yourself like your life depends on it, because it does❤...
Exactly!
It really does ❤
So right .
I needed to read this thx
I don't ever beg for attention. It's weak. Makes you co dependant. I make progress of right decisions every day.
"The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injustice" -Marcus Aurelius
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I’m not good at anything but im a master of walking way from people and situations that are not good for my mental health.I don’t give second chance to them whether they are my relatives,friends,colleagues or partners.
I don’t want to be priority of those who don’t care for me but I just want to get away from them and protect my energy field so I can accomplish my goals in peace!
Great reflection!
Exactly ❤
and only deal with like minded people who reprociate in a reasonable way.
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You will find strength and resilience. Every day is a new opportunity for growth.
Though I have tried many of these steps, my family still don't acknowledge me. They just don't care, so I put God first, me second and move forward. I'm 72, and don't have time for emotionally dead people. I love being alone, don't have to put up with nobody issues but my own. ☺
Yeah it isn't that complicated. Someone who values you will make it known from the beginning and maintain it because they want to, there's nothing really causing that other than their own internal world. Also when people want to be in each others' lives, they seriously make the effort/go out of their way to be together, and it's just in the air that things won't be different. So, at the end of the day, it's all about choice. You can do everything and you can do nothing, but the outcome will be the same in terms of people remaining in each others' lives or even remaining at the same workplace if that's simply what they choose- it all just boils down to choice. That's all one needs to know. That's why it's important to be self sufficient in your happiness, livelihood, etc, and to always be on standby for yourself (e.g. be ready to leave, and so on).
U are great just the way you are... if you cant rely on people at least u can rely on Him. 😊
@@jordanferguson2254 Thank you, you are so wise.
I've tried them as well. Nothing changed.
I am 62. And I am in the same position. God and me.
I am happy I’m learning these things early on. As a teen I was always seeking friendships with ppl that were not healthy. Now I’m ok being a loner, ppl want an audience I have found that even this video is teaching you how to be the center of attention. I’m ok being unoticed and un regognized
Thanks for the comment!
Well said! Worry that no one knows you but rather seek to be worth knowing😊
Yes you’re better off that way. Blessings 💜✨
Being famous isn't a goal for everyone.
I feel you @MariaPerez
"If you know that someone won't treat you the way you deserve, why would you want to be close to that person?"
❤ I want to be around people who love me forever!
Step 7 is more important than many people realise. I stopped initiating communication with many people and I didn't hear back from them ever. It truly shows you who considers you important and who doesn't.
It doesn't matter if you get acknowledgement. As said in another stoic video, as long as your intentions were good and worthy, that's all that matters. The fulfillment is in your heart. As long as you did what is good and righteous with pure intentions. Thanks, this is a good video.
Acknowledgement DOES matter, though. When you see people of lesser value being acknowledged while you get nothing, it wears you down.
@@user-zr6pl6nb6z Well just dont sweat it. Feck it all . At least you know you are good.
As long as you follow your authenticity, everything goes and comes in right place at the right time.. ;)
Could you please share the video
Thank you, very inspiring. I chose to walk away. I lost a lot yes. However I regained my self worth, my self love and self respect.
"I cannot escape death, but at least I can escape the fear of it." - Marcus Aurelius
I’m 34 separated from a 10 year marriage and I’m in a journey of healing and loving myself more. I’m so happy to have found ur channel because it came on the right time of my life. Attempting to challenge myself for 6 months to become the best version of myself. Thank u girl for having that beautiful smile, ur amazing feminine energy and for helping others to gain that inner strength that we ALL have! Much love ❤
Thank god you got out. May you have the best life on your own terms.
Im 35 and just seperated as well for 11 years of marriage,Just always think positive and motivate your more valuable than HiS/HeR..Hugs for you!Everything would be fine
I’m in a relationship that I’m no longer comfortable with I live with him and i want to leave but I feel he is my everything and when i leave I won’t even have anywhere to go I will just lose it please i need help on what to do
@@Doglovers6322Just tell him if you don’t want to be with him, stop leading him on and allowing him to think that everything is alright. Here’s a piece of advice. Stop thinking about yourself for once and allow him to find someone who can love him wholly.
Sinto muito
Knowing you are doing right is so important because often people allow the other person to make them doubt themselves.
Great reflection! Thanks for the comment!
I dedicate these sincere words to all those who are taking the time to read these lines, I want to send the most heartfelt prayers, hoping that the burdens and difficulties you are facing will be resolved gently and peacefully.
I hope that in this moment, anxious thoughts and doubts will be replaced by clarity and faith, and that you will find peace and love surrounding you.
Life may be filled with challenges and trials, but within each difficulty also lies opportunities and strength for us to overcome. I hope you will find the resilience and patience to face life's challenges and guidance.
Believe that, despite the dark days, light will always shine ahead, and that all good things will come to you. Keep faith and hope in your heart, and let the love and compassion of your loved ones be your encouragement and strength to reach your goals.
I wish you to be surrounded by love and peace, and that each new day will bring you joy and happiness.
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00:05 Methods to become a priority in someone's life and be more recognized
01:30 Create the fear of losing you
03:01 To be a priority, use the techniques wisely and in balance.
04:34 Allow them to invest in you for them to prioritize you
06:05 Prioritizing your needs and being seen as a priority
07:28 Stop initiating communication all the time
08:53 Creating your own happiness and being willing to walk away are key strategies to becoming a priority in someone's life.
10:15 Prioritize yourself for personal growth
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To each and every one of you who's taken a moment to read these words, my heartfelt wishes are with you. I pray that whatever burden may be weighing on your heart, causing pain or stress, will soon fade away like a distant memory. May the shadows of negative thoughts, excessive worries, and nagging doubts dissipate, making way for a radiant clarity and profound understanding to light your path. And in this journey we call life, may your days be adorned with the precious gifts of peace, tranquility, and boundless love.
you are right i agree with you
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Amen
For you too ❤
1. Be relevant for yourself
2. Abandoned may result for improvement
3. Stay in love everyday
4. Never assume to anything
5. Expect the unexpected situation
6. Don’t lose yourself no matter he lose you
7. Don’t be fear being alone
8. Be happy
10. Achieve the important things
Hi i love your speech ❤
I learnt the hard way after being with a high spectrum covert narcissist for 5 years.
I did 1-8 at the beginning.
Then one evening (during the love bombing stage) I said no and he threw all his toys out the pram,
so I ended it.
However, I changed my mind after I saw him crying at work and gave him a 2nd chance.
🚩 🚩 🚩
I implemented No.9 four months ago and escaped.
It almost destroyed me, but inadvertently he taught me some very valuable lessons.
Thank you for your words of wisdom 🙏🏻
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happened to me too,however it lasted far less than your relationship. I still don't understand why am I the one who feels bad when I was the one done dirty...
@@Alexandra-dnthat's how brain gets wired when we are with narcissists. their tactics gaslight us into guilt-tripping. avoid regret. you did right by stepping out of that relationship.
Didn’t know what NPD was -a 21 year relationship, then I found out, I left reading about others situations because we all sounded the same, the gaslighting, let it go, Benny’s single 12 Yrs, thank you God for saving me, and my son. I seem to attract NPD types but at least now I know who they are and how they operate. Trust your intuition and I like all the comments here- you are the priority. Wish I saw this RUclips decades ago….oh we didn’t have internet then. Love to everyone here.
Beautiful message I needed this one today !!! ❤️
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This video is absolutely amazing! These psychological strategies not only helped me recognize my self-worth but also taught me how to be valued by others. The biggest lesson I learned is: prioritize yourself before expecting others to do so.
"Look well into thyself; there is a source of strength which will always spring up if thou wilt always look." - Marcus Aurelius
So wonderful, thank you for sharing
When you love ❤️ yourself doing these things come naturally-that being said -- it’s still great advice- prioritize loving 🥰 yourself - Happy Saturday 😊
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I've been following stoic philosophy for a while now, and the way this video integrates those principles with practical psychological strategies is brilliant. It's refreshing to see content that encourages self-growth and prioritizing oneself. Keep up the fantastic work!
Ive realized this about my entire family that at times i wonder if im with the wrong family i have kept my parents in my life but overall make no more efforts with the remaining. This is my life story and having to rewrite my own....at the age of 46. It's been a long journey in discovering myself finally creating boundarys when I need to speaking up when I need to not caring what they might think of me. All I seem to have left is making sure I'm well and healthy that's top priority for me so ridding my life of unneeded stress as much as possible
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My dear, if I said I was sorry, it wouldn't make any difference really. The worst part is that the memory will never go away...I beg you to move on against all odds and hurt. I say this because I have an idea how you feel...the world is full of mysteries... just know that you're very important and wanted by people okay? Whoever shows you care in return is family...big hugs
@@ArmoredWisdomYou're welcome!
I’m nearly 60 and I’m finally walking away bcs a step cousin who had been adopted out but found my step family a few years ago is a Toxic Element…she caused so much trouble with me in the family. I am the Eldest.
So I’ve finally walked away and I realised nobody else treats me like these four do …my own family are the total opposite they treat me with the loyalty and respect I deserve and I them. My Son felt it from this step cousin too…and I caught her out being two faced about one of them… the one’s she creeps to their faces.
I am so done they drink too much …not all the time but too much when they do and they fight with each other…I’m so sick of having to intervene in the middle of them and I’ve had 7 operations…🤷♀️😅 they bring it on themselves.
Yes!!
I like the stoics. It's one of the few philosophies that is easy to entirely agree with.!!
I remember seeing this sometime back. I am back again.....and I have made my 7 pages of notes all over again! This is so good. I am applying these steps and it truly is a great plan to have better relationships with people as well as helping one's own self-esteem! Thanks!
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It is difficult to backup when you completely fall in someone love but not impossible ❤
… if the world is against you &
You know deeply in your heart you are correct,
Then you’re The Majority 💪🏽
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Sick ass comment g
The part about 'Create your own happiness' at 08:24 is truly impactful. It highlights the importance of being independent and finding joy within ourselves. This lesson promotes confidence and balance, making us more fulfilled and valued by others. A powerful reminder for personal growth!
I think we become passive in these areas on the job. It’s so easy to get taken advantage of at work because “I have a mortgage, etc. and can’t leave”. Always have a side hustle and a b plan and c plan to fall back on.
Current situation
Can you please explain it to me better
I think I've dealt All of this !!!....and I'M PROUD OF!!!....makes me A WONDERFUL PERSON NOWADAYS!!!....🙏❤
This just was perfect timing
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I have done all the mistakes. Because I loved that person with all my heart. I couldn’t play manipulation. But I am trying too follow all these steps. If the person comes back he is mine, otherwise I will give up now. It will be difficult but it is now required
If you put someone else on a pedestal, the only way they'll look at you is down.
The ones who are able to genuinely value the presence of someone in your life always and unconditionally is a person who is mindful and complete rather without lack and complexity in their personhood...I should think
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#9 is heartbreaking, but I've just done it. It's really sad how human beings can change feelings so fast.
I wish I had this video in my teenage years ago... but I'm glad I stumbled upon this timely message
" MAKE them fear losing you..." that can be positive and negative.
How
May be they left when they dnt love you, may be
Purity in Thoughts, Words and Actions will definitely make oneself happy and winning others heart too…
' I was overlooked my whole life because i was indoctrinated to be self-loading.Now I know my worth and I manifest easily.I am power because it is written'.A saying that I will always remember.
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I did all these to my boss unknowingly and she can't let me go yet I treat her so badly. Sometimes I feel bad doing this but it has worked for me coz she really treasures me
She's dependant. Definitely dont treat her badly, just keep your boundaries.
She used to treat me like trash at first
Don't put any effort to make u their priority of u r it will come naturally, this means u r not with th right person yet, stay happy and move on 😊
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Video Summary:
The video offers nine powerful psychological strategies to become a priority in someone's life and gain recognition for your worth. These strategies include creating fear of losing you, avoiding always being available, maintaining some mystery, allowing others to invest in you, prioritizing your own needs, not making them the center of your life, not always initiating communication, creating your own happiness, and being willing to walk away.
- 00:02 To become a priority in someone's life, create the fear of losing you.
- 02:17 To be seen as a priority in someone's life, you should emotionally distance yourself, balance your time with others, and maintain some mystery.
- 04:37 To be seen as a priority, allow others to invest in you and prioritize your own needs.
- 06:55 To become a priority in someone's life, maintain distance, stop initiating communication, create your own happiness, and be willing to walk away.
- 09:15 Walking away from someone shows that you won't accept anything less than you deserve, and the right person will make an effort to keep you in their life.
Thanks brother
Teach yourself not to care ,if even 1of my adult children decide not to speak to me ,iam fine with that &the same goes for everyone, most important in my life there’s days is me “, a former emotional door Matt 💪🙏🏻
God I wish I could think like you, Matt!👌🏼
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Same here my adult son b his wife are just abusive even through cancer . Now my younger son is trying my heart . It doesn’t matter what I do , they just find fault .
Between this channel and far from week, my life has changed for the better.
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U don't need validation from anyone to know Ur worth 💯
1. Be happy
2. Do good
3. Be content with what you have
4. Extend a helping hand to others
5. Believe in God that he makes things beautiful in his own time 🙏
I 100% support not being readily available to friends and to not be the first to initiate conversations/meet ups. A person who genuinely cares will always reflect the interest back. Also with friends, don’t give them labels (close, best etc). People come and go in your life so don’t attach too much value to them. Family is obviously different, if you have great family members then cherish them.
It would be great to not have to play hard to get so to speak but rather to have someone with whom things are easy and the levels of interest in each other match. No games. I do appreciate the video because it does speak to the truth of human nature and also the need to value oneself. Thank you ❤
Thanks you too!
Totally agree it would be nice. 😊😊
If someone ever makes me feel fearful of losing them, I won't ever go anywhere near.
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Yea
If she secretly hates you,then i openly don'T care
My Rabbee is very humble and down to earth. His absolutely Devine.
Focus. Prioritize.
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I failed to do 5, 7, 8, 9 and now my life is messed up but am proud I figured all the 9 steps on my own
This video can show all the mistakes we did ,so tkank you because its never to late, start or reprogram ou self's. ❤
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This happens to me all the time. That was my life before I started to cater to my mother..
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@@apinojilazul6571 It actually is. and I am feeling it now. I became codependent and it's nit a good thing.
We got the same story❤
Thank u spook much angel, I need that video badly, bcoz I am suffering in a toxic relationship from past 13 yrs and still hurting and killing my heart everyday
Your inner wisdom will guide you in search of these answers. Follow your intuition!
The pace, the voice and the visuals are stunning behind an equally stunning message. Thank you for a beautiful presentation that we can really use to improve our lives.
Sounds like Leonard Nimoy
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How
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
02:17 🤔 *Recognizing Lack of Recognition*
02:43 🚧 *Strategy 1: Create the Fear of Losing You*
03:37 🔄 *Strategy 2: Avoid Being Always Available*
04:34 🕵️ *Strategy 3: Maintain Some Mystery*
05:28 💰 *Strategy 4: Allow Them to Invest in You*
06:26 🛡️ *Strategy 5: Prioritize Your Needs*
07:34 🌱 *Strategy 6: Don't Make Them the Center of Your Life*
08:28 🤐 *Strategy 7: Stop Initiating Communication All the Time*
09:08 😊 *Strategy 8: Create Your Own Happiness*
09:56 🚶 *Strategy 9: Be Willing to Walk Away*
10:32 🌟 *Conclusion: Embracing Unique Journeys*
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Once you start making these changes you may have to start a new social circle. . One that values you
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If someone is happy with someone else and not you as a person,it doesn't mean the person has begged for any attention but it's a sure sign that the one doesn't need you to live or to be her true self
Excellent video. Keep up the good work!
Thanks a lot!!!
In short love yourself first others will follow ❤❤❤!..... I love this
It was really what I needed to hear...thanks a lot. I try to use all those tips to get respect and attention I deserve
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I feel like my desired partner I'm trying to get to know is using these strategies against me, and you know what - go ahead, be unavailable, be cold, stay mysterious and distanced. And guess what you got the opposite from me, I'm already looking for someone else.
Thanks for this blessing video.
Exactly what happened to me as guess what have already moved on,alot of pride in him that I don't like
THAT'S POWERFUL MESSAGE!
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I really needed this
Thank you,this was really helpful. I've been having a hard time deciding whether to chase people (cause I did not want to lose them) or just focus on myself and let things fall into their rightful place.
you are right i agree with you
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Come on man you are too good at this I am like on the 6the step already , and I am willing to take the 9th step ... I am preparing my mind .....I had to say thank you bcs actually you are telling people how to live or prioritize your life
These days the ego destroys potential relationships before they happen. All the invisible rules we have to follow. Even worse Is when u try not following them and just being old fashioned. The reason we love the past so must is because there was less rules and more heart about love. There was so many movies made about the guy showing the effort and so doing eventually wins the girl. Today that is considered stalking and desperate which is a turn off. In the past mysterious is weird and creepy and gets no action. Today a girl will pick the mysterious guy over you who is showing heart cause he's hard to read. Times changed.
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i am oldfashioned i want the first kind, not stalker involvement lvl but care and emotional maturity enough to show they care, as long as they dont follow it up with disgusting weird shit that makes me run pls no more of that.
i really havent the time or need the drama of mindgames or pretend to not care so they chase, i want honesty and caring and i would give the same if its mutual ofc i mean you never know w these things. Weve been conditioned the right way is mutual aloofness at best but really it is not, just be true, if you play games youll never find the ones you could stay with anyway.
Hitman giving life advice now.. awesome 🔥
Thank you Lord 🙏😇
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This inspired me so much, thank you❤
Love this channel!
Thanks a lot!
I took a step bacck and maybe few others after when i realized there is always room for others and not me the “so called best friend ". Lol
I made myself my priority and I've been happier!
I feel like I've walked out of a friendship, i might still be his friend but he isn't mine!
Know the difference ❤️
Wish I would have known this some 10 years ago. I spent my life working for everyone and then one day i had a serious of unfortunate events and then i saw how my life felt apart all at once..
Growing up on my own, i was never really taught anything
Mind over matter.
If you don't mind.
It doesn't matter
.
The problem is, as a middle child, i can't stop craving for recognition, love, attention, and care from my parents in the SAME AMOUNT that they have given to my other siblings. I'm jealous i know, and it's not a honorable trait, but the memories from my past always come back.
My advice is don't force people to talk to you or spend time with you
Us women tend to do this a lot.
if your partner said they want to sleep or go to the gym let them go and do them.
Even if you miss them.
They have chosen to do something else.
Let him
This is what Love is. Love is selfless.
Love wants the other person to be happy.
So go get your needs met somewhere else.
Don't victimise the situation or take it personally.
When the person is finished doing what they're doing they will come around to you just be patient.
If you beg for attention and time and they spend time with you against there will and to keep you quiet but it won't be authentic .
and they will resent you.
This goes for people in committed.
"get your needs met somewhere else", 50% of men can't enter a relationship even if they would like to. There was nothing selfless in the women i loved, they left and abonedoned me when i needed them most, just jumping to the next. F your so called love, i lost everyone i ever loved.
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I can't wait for more of your council,i really admire this class.
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I just hope I'm not to late, i was so available all the time, i was always trying to please him, and he is talking less, it's time i use this advice 😢
“People are like dirt. They can either nourish you and help you grow as a person or they can stunt your growth and make you wilt and die.” - Plato
#1. As a Sagittarius - we can see through all this and will talk away
Yeah talk away is right, Sagittarius talk entirely too much.
@@rtj2397😂😂 I see your point of view! Then you’re simply not made for a Sagittarius 😉😊
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I don’t like one sided relationships where I am doing all the work to keep the relationship going.
I'm already at the nothing left to give stage & at a loss as to what took me from being a priority & having felt I had worth to completely the opposite end of the spectrum. So ... maybe too late as I've walked away & completely ghosted them . Thanks for the content though as I can always take this on board for future connections 👍
Thanks you too!
It sounds like you may have been with a narcissist or emotional vampire who sucked you dry. Rest, take care of you, ground yourself, feed your soul, recoup and recharge; I guarantee you, you deserve it, and are worth it!!!
And no, don't take them back, by all means,, say NO thanks!
@@Kay.in.FL.HI.SA.JP.OZ.NZ.RIO.. 🫂 thanx🙂
People give you respect as you give to yourself and they also treats you like your own behavior with yourself.
But this never works on a person who is not in love with you anymore 😢