Idk why bis are stereotyped as outgoing and promiscuous because almost every bi I’ve ever met is an ultra introverted homebody whose idea of “flirting” is just showing you pictures of their pets.
I agree with you about dating, I'm almost 20 and I'm waiting to just magically sit next to someone at uni and magically be in a committed relationship by the end of class.
Turning 23 this year and I've never had any romantic experiences, no matter how much I want it! As a hopeless romantic, this makes me sad. As a shy introvert, I'm totally good with it! Also, I totally use "glaze over" all time. I swear I've heard it used in that way somewhere!
I'm 22 and have never even kissed. Had some intense crushes and was asked out twice, but tbh that just traumatised me. When I hear all the problems people around me have in their relationships, I feel kind of lucky to not have to go through that. Sometimes I just wanna cuddle but thankfully I got a dog for that XD
Same bro. I’m not ashamed of myself for it because everyone moves at their own pace and I’m personally not into jumping into dating unless I feel good about the person. But I’m also now ready to date and I’m scared of dating apps and don’t know where to start otherwise lol 🙃.
Listening to you talk about your crushes reminded me of my obsession from 1st to 4th grade of a blonde, green eyed guy named Jon who legit never looked twice at me but in my head we were already on lock for marriage. Fast forward to now (I’m 26) and you couldn’t pay me to date him. Oh, how the turn tables.
I lit rally relate to being a late-bloomer, I only realized I was a lesbian when I was 20, and I’ve only started dating in the last couple of months lmao
Your videos are always so relatable to me that I just constantly feel called out by them. Replace a few names and OOPs, there’s the embarrassing mirror of awkward teenage and early 20s years! Hahah thanks for the great video!
god I found my old sara bareilles little voices cd from a few years ago and it PROPELLED me back into middle school feelings me, like "oh I see, this is why I'm like this"
I was definitely a late bloomer I spent high school reading harry styles fanfic to fill the sexual and romantic void lol. Dating is so anxiety-inducing for me too I stay SWEATING during the whole thing. I've also tried to change my view on dating from fear of wasting my time to seeing dating as valuable experiences that have helped me grow and work through my intimacy issues
A thing I've been saying for a while is: My song is When He Sees Me, except with gender neutral pronouns cause I'm bi. We love superior musical taste! ❤️ Also, when you started talking about your HS crush who sat next to you in English crush I was like "OMG, it"s 'The Gentleman I Fancy ™' (Tumblr Video Stans make some noise!!! 🎉🎉🎉) Fabulous video as always! 💕💕💕
I clicked this video on a whim and OMG our dating lives are basically identical it’s scary. Fellow mid-twenties bisexuals with very little dating experience RISE UP
Dear Zachary broke my heart. Love the fuzzy sweater. I started watching you it's good. I'm a way late bloomer too. Dating is a struggle and I'm hella awkward so I can relate.
I feel you so much on the anxiety while on a date. When I met my online bf in person for the first time, we had already been together for 4 months but I was so anxious, I did not talk for the entire first hour of our car trip to our date location.
Honestly, my biggest thing to get past dating anxiety about wasting time is viewing everything as a growth experience? Only date people who make you want to improve yourself, experience new things etc., so even if things go south you don’t go home empty handed. I’ve been with my person for two years and I still am constantly looking at whether they make me want to be better. Also, Ulta brand is very very underrated. I love their lip products.
I didn't date in high school either. I just wasn't interested in that type of intimacy until I got older. That switch just didn't turn on in my brain until about 22ish.
It never fails. Almost everytime you post a video I'm already in bed, ready to close these eyes. Yet, every single time, sleep gets put on the back burner 😂
LMAO GRAZE OVER LIKE A DAMN COW...this is why I love you. Also, I have the feeling that everyone you know has a secret crush on you..but dating can be hard ESPECIALLY when you have medical issues that can make any situation more complicated and making you need to be extra planned and organized so definitely understand all your feels.
Dating is so weird. Sometimes it can really suck, but sometimes it can be fun too. You gotta hang in there girl. You have so much to offer. I was a late bloomer too. An introvert and I had guy friends that I thought would lead to something, but didn't. One major one. For me that's long past, you could still look them up. You're so funny, smart, ambitious, talented and gorgeous! Have fun and be safe.
OH GOOD LORD DEAR ZACHARY. I have never just ugly sobbed brokenly for hours after watching something. For a while after if I saw even a clip or talk about it I would just cry? So depressed.
Oh my God, I think I'm in love with your personality. Legit first sight, any dude would be blessed to have a chance with you 😂😂😂 easiest subscribe decision I've ever had to make
"latebloomer" here. I kind of hate the phrase because it somewhat implies that "blooming" is the same for everyone and that it's weird or bad to figure yourself out at a slower pace... It took me 20+ years to figure out that I'm asexual and then 3 more to realise that I like women but just romantically, so I started my very first relationship with 25 🙃 BUT we've been together for a little over a year now andddd it's beautifullllll omg
I've been trying to pull off the cool, soft pink look since that melt palette dropped. You killed this. I had a broken collarbone for a while in high school and the brace was pretty invisible. One day my crush came up to me and just put his hands on my shoulders, like "way to go" and I had involuntary tears in my eyes it hurt so bad, but I was so pathetically happy because he paid attention to me. That was pretty much the height of our interaction. Julius was right, though, you looked great in your prom dress.
I haven’t had a crush since high school and I think I might actually be aromantic but goddamn, I remember having crushes was STRESS. FUL. I don’t need that kinda stress in my life rn 😂😂😂 You’re a great storyteller Nisa! Also your prom dress was super cute 😭
@@nisipisa Wait, but isn't there an expression of "glaze over" when you're talking about a disinterested/bored facial expression? Like, "her eyes glazed over" when someone starts to go on and on about something you find boring?
listen i have been watching ur vids as im going thru my depressive lows and having the shittiest time being alive but ur vids N ur content N ultimately, YOU make me so excited to do make up again and feel like 1% better (which is a lot). thanks for being THAT bi icon ✨ queen u drop something, 👑 (its a meme byeee) have a good day u!!
sis. those earrings. _flawless._ (i'm sorry i'm too sleepy right now to comment on anything else in the video right now i need to rewatch this after i sleep)
The powerful and intense PIsces vibes in this video are amazing. At 28 single and my current reasoning is too busy with grad school to even consider the effort of dating.
I was also a late starter on dating/sleeping with people. But I started with a guy I'd been friends with for like 10 years...it was horrible. Random guy on a dating site has stuck around for 5 years though. Sometimes the sites are worth the effort.
Melady, use Bumble. Hands down had the loveliest dates with people on there. Plus the filters are brilliant for what specifically you're looking for. Tinder is a minefield.
Lol!! Every girl in the world can probably relate to this video. As a cool toned fan, I appreciate this look SO much! That lip gloss is so pretty too. One of my favorite cool toned glosses is Pat McGrath Flesh Fantasy in the shade Lust. I got that mini trio at Christmas time, and can actually use all 3 shades.
Idk this stuff is all so hard. I felt so horrible about dating for years. Never really dated anyone until i was 23 and never seriously dated anyone until i was 25. I never felt good about my body and honestly still kinda dont? but when I was 25 I freak out of nowhere met the love of my life and we have been together ever since. She makes all the things that I really hated about myself a little easier to swallow. Basically I'm saying this because, you dont have to change anything about yourself/do specific things/act a certain way to find love. Sometimes it just happens.
Same. I also didn't date in high school and I don't regret it 😊 I started dating when I was 23 because of a traumatic experience... so it wasn't really voluntarily 🤷♀️ I'm 26 now and going to therapy 🙂
nisa you have 24.8K people that have the biggest damn crush on you
True. I had such a crush ! (but then I realized I'm an adult and this is the internet)
Idk why bis are stereotyped as outgoing and promiscuous because almost every bi I’ve ever met is an ultra introverted homebody whose idea of “flirting” is just showing you pictures of their pets.
Me
ME
the earrings + purple sweater give me undercover witch vibes and I’m here for it
😂😂😂
editing nisa with what looks like 5 layers of lip gloss on: ITS GLOSS OVER
Thank god I’m not the only lonely bisexual, people and dating are scary.
Caity S H literally same every time i download tinder i panic and delete it again
Lonely Bi folx unite.
"I had a thought about you ... You didn't know that I'm in love with you???" Hitting me with that relatable content
love getting additions to the Gentleman You Fancy universe
The sound effect you made of yourself when Derek said bye to you has me ROLLING
Nisa: I used to be so rAnDom XD but now Im so mature and sexy
Nisa in the same video: oOooOoohHhh baRbADosss
I agree with you about dating, I'm almost 20 and I'm waiting to just magically sit next to someone at uni and magically be in a committed relationship by the end of class.
Girl it'll happen ;) met my possible hubby on the first night of uni
@@lotussight Aw thanks!
that's basically how I met my fiance
Turning 23 this year and I've never had any romantic experiences, no matter how much I want it! As a hopeless romantic, this makes me sad. As a shy introvert, I'm totally good with it! Also, I totally use "glaze over" all time. I swear I've heard it used in that way somewhere!
Hey pal, you're not alone. There's a whole army of us late bloomers out here in the world :) I just wanted you to know that!
I'm 22 and have never even kissed. Had some intense crushes and was asked out twice, but tbh that just traumatised me. When I hear all the problems people around me have in their relationships, I feel kind of lucky to not have to go through that. Sometimes I just wanna cuddle but thankfully I got a dog for that XD
We’re a crew here now. I’m 23 with no relationship experience and a lot of anxiety.
Same bro. I’m not ashamed of myself for it because everyone moves at their own pace and I’m personally not into jumping into dating unless I feel good about the person. But I’m also now ready to date and I’m scared of dating apps and don’t know where to start otherwise lol 🙃.
also turning 23 this year and have the same experience (or lack thereof)
When ur smorkley glüe palette ships AND Nisipisa uploads in the same day... good vibes
“I don’t like people to know I’m human and have weaknesses.” SAME
"It's astounding how forgettable I was." Oh so we're just dragging me today
Millen stoppp it stung
Listen.. I'm the same age as you and STILL want to be like you when I grow up
The confidence in this video is BEAMING and I'm here for it.
Listening to you talk about your crushes reminded me of my obsession from 1st to 4th grade of a blonde, green eyed guy named Jon who legit never looked twice at me but in my head we were already on lock for marriage. Fast forward to now (I’m 26) and you couldn’t pay me to date him. Oh, how the turn tables.
I lit rally relate to being a late-bloomer, I only realized I was a lesbian when I was 20, and I’ve only started dating in the last couple of months lmao
15:43 I know filming eyeliner isn’t easy but this is some A+ cinnamon topography today 💯🔥
Have a super tall (6’3’) lady friend that didn’t date until her late 20’s and is now happily married at 31. Your time will come girl!!
"I am an emotional dominatrix"
I need this on a shirt lol
Your videos are always so relatable to me that I just constantly feel called out by them. Replace a few names and OOPs, there’s the embarrassing mirror of awkward teenage and early 20s years! Hahah thanks for the great video!
I was fully expecting you to be like “alright bye going on a date now” at the end
I could only imagine making RUclips videos as comfortable as Nissa she's so fluid in her own video environment I love watching her.
Multiple uploads in the vicinity of a few days, we’ve been blessed by the goddesses of lip gloss
god I found my old sara bareilles little voices cd from a few years ago and it PROPELLED me back into middle school feelings me, like "oh I see, this is why I'm like this"
I was definitely a late bloomer I spent high school reading harry styles fanfic to fill the sexual and romantic void lol. Dating is so anxiety-inducing for me too I stay SWEATING during the whole thing. I've also tried to change my view on dating from fear of wasting my time to seeing dating as valuable experiences that have helped me grow and work through my intimacy issues
A thing I've been saying for a while is: My song is When He Sees Me, except with gender neutral pronouns cause I'm bi. We love superior musical taste! ❤️
Also, when you started talking about your HS crush who sat next to you in English crush I was like "OMG, it"s 'The Gentleman I Fancy ™' (Tumblr Video Stans make some noise!!! 🎉🎉🎉)
Fabulous video as always! 💕💕💕
I clicked this video on a whim and OMG our dating lives are basically identical it’s scary. Fellow mid-twenties bisexuals with very little dating experience RISE UP
Went on two dates at age 26. Realized I had no interest in actual dating. Dude is now dating my best friend lol
Okay, but lowkey? I love the "graze over like a gd cow" phrase.
Dear Zachary broke my heart. Love the fuzzy sweater. I started watching you it's good. I'm a way late bloomer too. Dating is a struggle and I'm hella awkward so I can relate.
I feel you so much on the anxiety while on a date. When I met my online bf in person for the first time, we had already been together for 4 months but I was so anxious, I did not talk for the entire first hour of our car trip to our date location.
Honestly, my biggest thing to get past dating anxiety about wasting time is viewing everything as a growth experience? Only date people who make you want to improve yourself, experience new things etc., so even if things go south you don’t go home empty handed.
I’ve been with my person for two years and I still am constantly looking at whether they make me want to be better.
Also, Ulta brand is very very underrated. I love their lip products.
You are literally my favourite person on the internet
i totally relate with you on loving “when he sees me” by sara bareilles
from this point forward i will be living by the description
editing nisa yelling at recording nisa made me choke on my spit 💀
I didn't date in high school either. I just wasn't interested in that type of intimacy until I got older. That switch just didn't turn on in my brain until about 22ish.
The graze to glaze to gloss, im SOBBING
“I’m an emotional dominatrix” lol ME
It never fails. Almost everytime you post a video I'm already in bed, ready to close these eyes. Yet, every single time, sleep gets put on the back burner 😂
I relate so HARD with the "when he sees me" thing
You look so much like Josephine baker to me. 🥺
yesssssss omg
YES. THIS IS IT.
Just looked her up and 100% agree
GIRL SAME about not wanting people to know I'm human and have weaknesses
LMAO GRAZE OVER LIKE A DAMN COW...this is why I love you. Also, I have the feeling that everyone you know has a secret crush on you..but dating can be hard ESPECIALLY when you have medical issues that can make any situation more complicated and making you need to be extra planned and organized so definitely understand all your feels.
yess more "the gentleman i fancy" lore
"You say this like you are surprised . . ." Dying! Absolutely dying! 🤣🤣
Dating is so weird. Sometimes it can really suck, but sometimes it can be fun too. You gotta hang in there girl. You have so much to offer. I was a late bloomer too. An introvert and I had guy friends that I thought would lead to something, but didn't. One major one. For me that's long past, you could still look them up. You're so funny, smart, ambitious, talented and gorgeous! Have fun and be safe.
OH GOOD LORD DEAR ZACHARY. I have never just ugly sobbed brokenly for hours after watching something. For a while after if I saw even a clip or talk about it I would just cry? So depressed.
Oh my God, I think I'm in love with your personality. Legit first sight, any dude would be blessed to have a chance with you 😂😂😂 easiest subscribe decision I've ever had to make
I did a pink purple eye today, dating is not all what it's made out to be, I love being single
"latebloomer" here. I kind of hate the phrase because it somewhat implies that "blooming" is the same for everyone and that it's weird or bad to figure yourself out at a slower pace...
It took me 20+ years to figure out that I'm asexual and then 3 more to realise that I like women but just romantically, so I started my very first relationship with 25 🙃 BUT we've been together for a little over a year now andddd it's beautifullllll omg
god bless your soul for linking that jewelry etsy because i spent this entire video staring at your GLORIOUS earrings (also your glorious face)
this is my comfort youtube video
I really was gonna ask where you got the earrings from so I'm glad I looked!
Update: I'm buying vaccinate your kids earrings.
Having nisa tell me to have an amazing day first thing in the morning - timezones are fun - is therapeutic.
OMG DEAR ZACHARY GOT ME!!!! IT KEPT GETTING CRAZY!
I've been trying to pull off the cool, soft pink look since that melt palette dropped. You killed this. I had a broken collarbone for a while in high school and the brace was pretty invisible. One day my crush came up to me and just put his hands on my shoulders, like "way to go" and I had involuntary tears in my eyes it hurt so bad, but I was so pathetically happy because he paid attention to me. That was pretty much the height of our interaction. Julius was right, though, you looked great in your prom dress.
Me here as a 24 year old also going on my first proper date living for every second of this honestly youre my hero
multiple uploads!! youre spoiling us 🥺
So glad im not the only one who feels like that about dating
Excuse me, but liking both boys and girls and dating no one is the true bisexual stereotype (which I totally fit)
Story of the “gentleman I fancy” omg
Nisa: Eyebrows are an erogenous zone for me
Me: silently grinning, pleased af that I ordered that Just for Men Beard dye for my eyebrows earlier today
Hi, your name is brilliant.
Handsome Voila are you going to have a relaxing time with just for men?
@@anotherlemontree Thanks! Omgosh thank you for noticing
@@abbyehrenstein2550 I plan to. I'm gonna become the dark browed babe I've always wanted to be
Handsome Voila but will there be fake freckles and a mustache that looks like poop?
Dating:
"where do you want to go?" "oh anywhere is fine, where do you want to go?" "oh anywhere, where do you want to go?" uuuuuggggghhhhh
I haven’t had a crush since high school and I think I might actually be aromantic but goddamn, I remember having crushes was STRESS. FUL. I don’t need that kinda stress in my life rn 😂😂😂 You’re a great storyteller Nisa! Also your prom dress was super cute 😭
Okay but “glaze over” sounded right to me lmfao
IM SAYIN LIKE I WAS SEARCHING IT ON DICTIONARY.COM LIKE “?????? I swear I’ve heard this”
@@nisipisa Wait, but isn't there an expression of "glaze over" when you're talking about a disinterested/bored facial expression? Like, "her eyes glazed over" when someone starts to go on and on about something you find boring?
listen i have been watching ur vids as im going thru my depressive lows and having the shittiest time being alive but ur vids N ur content N ultimately, YOU make me so excited to do make up again and feel like 1% better (which is a lot). thanks for being THAT bi icon ✨ queen u drop something, 👑 (its a meme byeee) have a good day u!!
I felt that and I hope your depression goes away because it rly sucks 😔 have a nice day and I wish you all the best 🥺💅
sis. those earrings.
_flawless._
(i'm sorry i'm too sleepy right now to comment on anything else in the video right now i need to rewatch this after i sleep)
CEO of "ooooohhh barbados" ILYSM
I just figured out who you remind me of when you say “disgusting” and it’s Tan France
nisa you are so beautiful, lovely, and unique. thank you for existing. i can't quite remember how i stumbled upon your channel but im so glad i did
You're the ultimate Pisces and I love it sooooooooooo much
Yass! Nissa speaking French!!!
Bath and body works vanilla Noel scent gave me violent flash backs
DUDE NISA WE'RE ON THE SAME WAVELENGTH I SWEAR I JUST WATCHED DEAR ZACHARY TWO DAYS AGO
you look really really beautiful nisa
also
i stan your confidence
Holy shit Nisa we're b-day twins!!March 16th baybeee!!What a time to be alive 🥺💙
this LOOK ugh ily
I just realized your birthday is only five days after mine!!! I feel special!!! Hell yeah babey
Your videos always make me laugh !! I hope your doing well
The powerful and intense PIsces vibes in this video are amazing. At 28 single and my current reasoning is too busy with grad school to even consider the effort of dating.
I was also a late starter on dating/sleeping with people. But I started with a guy I'd been friends with for like 10 years...it was horrible. Random guy on a dating site has stuck around for 5 years though. Sometimes the sites are worth the effort.
Gurl I feel u so hard, dating is weird and scary af I wanna live in a bog and become a witch
Melady, use Bumble. Hands down had the loveliest dates with people on there. Plus the filters are brilliant for what specifically you're looking for. Tinder is a minefield.
Lol!! Every girl in the world can probably relate to this video. As a cool toned fan, I appreciate this look SO much! That lip gloss is so pretty too. One of my favorite cool toned glosses is Pat McGrath Flesh Fantasy in the shade Lust. I got that mini trio at Christmas time, and can actually use all 3 shades.
when i listened to “when he sees me “ for the first time i sobbed :((
Idk this stuff is all so hard. I felt so horrible about dating for years. Never really dated anyone until i was 23 and never seriously dated anyone until i was 25. I never felt good about my body and honestly still kinda dont? but when I was 25 I freak out of nowhere met the love of my life and we have been together ever since. She makes all the things that I really hated about myself a little easier to swallow. Basically I'm saying this because, you dont have to change anything about yourself/do specific things/act a certain way to find love. Sometimes it just happens.
Having never used Tinder I can say this with the utmost certainty: this app is great for hookups but really not for dating or forming relationships.
I used to feel this way but now that I’m a bit older the prospects have definitely changed and it’s the only app I use for dating tbh
one time i saw marcus folignos wrist at a hockey game and that was all i thought about for three months
Same. I also didn't date in high school and I don't regret it 😊 I started dating when I was 23 because of a traumatic experience... so it wasn't really voluntarily 🤷♀️ I'm 26 now and going to therapy 🙂
omg a video on my bday, thank u pisces queen
i truly shaved my head in a fit of mania and depression just like u....relatable
hhhh feel u on late bloomer + anxious about having to explain weird medical shit to potential partners
Dear Zachary was intense!!! 2 recent favs: The Trials of Gabriel Fernandez and Tell Me Who I Am.
I couldn't relate more. Thank you for opening up
This video had me cackling remembering my own crush experiences in grade school... thank you Nisa for the throwback 🙈🙈😂
Those earing omgggg 💕💕
Dear Zachary is so heartbreaking! You think it’s bad..... and then it just gets worse!!!