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  • Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
  • In which John re-introduces his competitor to NaNoWriMo and discusses writing process, the abnormality of sneezing, the thing he's trying to finish, and the lies he tells himself along the way to trying to finish it.
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  • @Androidoom
    @Androidoom 11 месяцев назад +3455

    "Maybe it wasn't a sneeze, maybe it was a momentary lapse in judgement" is an amazing line

    • @shanleee
      @shanleee 11 месяцев назад +12

      Got me so good

    • @jamesn3122
      @jamesn3122 11 месяцев назад +33

      I never sneeze.

    • @Shutupalready47
      @Shutupalready47 11 месяцев назад +1

      +

    • @knowthatgirlnextdoor
      @knowthatgirlnextdoor 11 месяцев назад +25

      Please please please put it on a shirt, maybe next year with a pizza John doctor???

    • @brandonjustis
      @brandonjustis 11 месяцев назад +48

      @@knowthatgirlnextdoor "Pizza is normal. Sneezing is not." that would go so hard with a moustached Dr. John!

  • @mineola_
    @mineola_ 11 месяцев назад +1715

    As someone who is coming to terms with the fact that she might be a bit more than a smidge depressed and anxious at the moment I feel you, John. ❤

    • @melissamybubbles6139
      @melissamybubbles6139 11 месяцев назад +28

      I hope it gets better at some point. I go through fairly regular bouts of depression as well, so you have my sympathy.

    • @anniekate76
      @anniekate76 11 месяцев назад +16

      I hope you are getting as much love and support as you need!

    • @patrick-west
      @patrick-west 11 месяцев назад +28

      I just realised today that I'm "Burned all-the-way out" right now, but being tangentially part of this community is genuinely one of the top 5 things about my year to-date.
      So I hope the rest of you are finding atleast a little time to take care of yourself, especially (but not limited to) those of you for whom it's also winter.
      It's a hard Season, in a hard year, in a hard decade for many of us... Even those of us who are fortunate enough to have external support, so for whatever it's worth my heart goes out to you all.

    • @QuicklyLiquid
      @QuicklyLiquid 11 месяцев назад +8

      I'm right there with you, stranger. What a strange time to be ourselves

    • @DasGanon
      @DasGanon 11 месяцев назад +4

      Oh man SAAAAAAAAAAAAME.

  • @Data3rror
    @Data3rror 11 месяцев назад +2306

    Just wanted to pop in to say that even if I was an initial doubter about killing the 4 minute rule, you (and Hank) have done such a fantastic job of maintaining your concise delivery of complex empathy that I haven't even noticed the difference with the leeway to more fully express your thoughts.
    Relevantly, your editing skills are clearly as sharp as they've ever been; we all have every belief in you, John.

    • @vlogbrothers
      @vlogbrothers  11 месяцев назад +870

      Thanks! That's great to hear. I thought about trying to get this one to four minutes but I concluded it would've made the video worse. We'll keep trying to use your time well. -John

    • @sams1982
      @sams1982 11 месяцев назад +8

      +

    • @patrick-west
      @patrick-west 11 месяцев назад +62

      ​@@vlogbrothersI think that was always my view on the matter, you both seem to care about "our time", so I've always trusted that you would put in the effort to make it as concise as possible without loss of quality.
      And I do very much think that you're succeeding.

    • @LouerTube
      @LouerTube 11 месяцев назад +15

      I very much agree with this take, as someone who voted to keep the four minute rule.@@vlogbrothers

    • @sabrinagibby4167
      @sabrinagibby4167 11 месяцев назад +2

      +

  • @Robin0928
    @Robin0928 11 месяцев назад +820

    "Sneezing is not normal, i never sneeze" has entered my lexicon to the point where i will say that every time i sneeze. It has worried multiple colleagues

    • @buffienguyen
      @buffienguyen 11 месяцев назад +48

      it saddens me that no one around me understand that brilliant bit but i am comforted by the fact that there are thousands around the world saying it with me

    • @farhavens
      @farhavens 11 месяцев назад +3

      +

    • @brynpookc1127
      @brynpookc1127 11 месяцев назад

      +

    • @gerkwhit
      @gerkwhit 11 месяцев назад +13

      They should be worried. Sneezing is never normal.

    • @grambottle033
      @grambottle033 11 месяцев назад +10

      Long live Neversneezer Scrooge

  • @christianstraubhaar339
    @christianstraubhaar339 11 месяцев назад +879

    That little part at the end... Thanks for being vulnerable and leaving it in, John.

    • @taylor3950
      @taylor3950 11 месяцев назад +34

      Agreed. I’m now considering if it’s okay to admit that you’re feeling a bit sad and scared before psyching yourself up.

    • @kristiknight7586
      @kristiknight7586 11 месяцев назад +31

      @@taylor3950 oh yeah, in my experience it's not just okay it helps a lot to look that in the face, name it, and then go for psyching myself up

    • @ashleyjohnson3663
      @ashleyjohnson3663 11 месяцев назад +32

      It helps me so much to see people I respect have to do this too.

    • @arillusine
      @arillusine 11 месяцев назад +3

      +

    • @dorianr4770
      @dorianr4770 11 месяцев назад +4

      was just gonna say the same

  • @Tesserex
    @Tesserex 11 месяцев назад +154

    You raised my hopes of a tuberculosis movie adaptation and then dashed them most expertly, sir.

  • @abdullahenani9670
    @abdullahenani9670 11 месяцев назад +1136

    SNEEZING IS NOT NORMAL JOHN.

    • @ireallyhatemakingupnamesfo1758
      @ireallyhatemakingupnamesfo1758 11 месяцев назад +115

      Sneezing is never normal, I never sneeze - Dr Neversneezer Scrooge

    • @nickwilliams330
      @nickwilliams330 11 месяцев назад +7

      ++

    • @IrisGlowingBlue
      @IrisGlowingBlue 11 месяцев назад +24

      I NEVER SNEEZE

    • @AndrewBennettNZ
      @AndrewBennettNZ 11 месяцев назад +26

      I really hope that whoever sent that question is a nerdfighter / continues to be involved with the community, so that they get to see just how deeply their question has affected John (and I'm sure many others, myself included)

    • @ate_a_radio
      @ate_a_radio 11 месяцев назад +5

      i read this as the top comment whilst an ad was playing, with no context of what the video was about. very confused.

  • @SkyBlue-cv8qb
    @SkyBlue-cv8qb 11 месяцев назад +167

    "just a smidge depressed and anxious" is one of those moments when someone whose words you cherish says something that speaks directly to your soul

  • @sscharli
    @sscharli 11 месяцев назад +129

    Just a smidge depressed and anxious but still doing the things.
    ⭐️ A gold star for you
    and one for me⭐️
    Had to call in sick but got the kids to school.

    • @alwaysyouramanda
      @alwaysyouramanda 10 месяцев назад

      It’s the only way-! DO THE THINGS❤❤🥺💋

    • @mariacargille1396
      @mariacargille1396 10 месяцев назад

      Just dropping in to say that I celebrate your prioritization and communication wins, and offer a virtual hug, fluffy critter. cookie, colorful leaf, etc, for whatever little bit of day-brightening an internet stranger can feasibly provide. DFTBA!
      🦭 🍪 🍁

  • @toastzombie18
    @toastzombie18 11 месяцев назад +63

    I recently got back into writing and it's hilarious to me that I have the opposite problem to John's. I have ADHD and my hyper focus is intense. Last month I wrote 63,000 words in 12 days. Sounds great but I wake up at 3 am because my brain won't let me not think about the story. I haven't cleaned my house at all. I barely remember to eat. Oh the pit falls of having a weird brain.

    • @-Teague-
      @-Teague- 11 месяцев назад +3

      Maybe you need some time out of the house 😅

    • @Emily-gx6dd
      @Emily-gx6dd 11 месяцев назад +1

      I have ADHD but I never honed my writing so while I LOVE it, I’m much better at technical/business writing but I LOVE fiction and I hunger to have stories inside of me bursting to get out, but no such luck yet. You got this!

    • @toastzombie18
      @toastzombie18 11 месяцев назад

      @@Emily-gx6dd Fiction is so much fun to write for me because there aren't any rules you have to follow. I write in a very casual voice that would probably be out of place in high fantasy, but it's perfect for urban fantasy settings. If you want to get into fiction writing, just go for it. That's what I've been doing for fifteen years now. I wrote a book about dragons when I was fourteen. It is terrible, but I love it. Best of luck to you!

  • @abdullahenani9670
    @abdullahenani9670 11 месяцев назад +364

    whatever it is, do it at your own pace! I’m so excited to see what you’re working on, LET HIM COOK. We believe in you!

  • @wanderingnorth4999
    @wanderingnorth4999 11 месяцев назад +3

    the way you write reminds me of a stich in sewing called a back stitching. its the process and going a bit forward, then a bit behind, over and over to create a very strong stitch. sometimes, the work we take two steps forward, one step back, over and over on, is our strongest. because the care, time, and effort we put in, truly ties everything together

  • @AgentMaayan
    @AgentMaayan 11 месяцев назад +68

    That "I write and I write, and delete and delete, and I write and I write" etc, is actually the opening line of my favourite poem in Hebrew, called "The Ticking Crocodile", where the writer talks about how he can't bring himself to write the very poem you're reading. This video reminded me of that poem a lot.

    • @Izzyprobably
      @Izzyprobably 11 месяцев назад +2

      I’m trying (and failing) to find this poem- who is the author???

    • @AgentMaayan
      @AgentMaayan 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@Izzyprobably Ben Sgerski. I don't think it was translated into English, so that might be the challenge.

  • @oiitsoranglee
    @oiitsoranglee 11 месяцев назад +23

    "I'm just a smidge depressed and anxious at the moment"
    that wasn't a big thing, it was just mentioned in passing. I know what it's like when it becomes like that. I feel you, dude. keep on keepin' on.

  • @MarcosProjects
    @MarcosProjects 11 месяцев назад +17

    The best part of this video was when you said "The best part of this video is when you said 'I'm just a smiiiiiidge depressed and anxious'..." and we got to see your uplifting self-talk before you were aware we could listen in, but then you let us. Love you :)

  • @c.argelfraster1291
    @c.argelfraster1291 11 месяцев назад +105

    That talk with yourself at the end was amazingly relatable, John. Thanks for helping me (and many other folks!) feel less alone in the chaos.

    • @laurenredding1419
      @laurenredding1419 11 месяцев назад +7

      The fact that it goes out of focus as he rubs his eyes is just toooo good

  • @abdullahenani9670
    @abdullahenani9670 11 месяцев назад +199

    I relate so much to the smidge of anxiety and depression you’re facing john, so thank you for not making me feel alone in this ❤️

  • @bethfont1545
    @bethfont1545 11 месяцев назад +161

    John, you have not failed to finish writing about tuberculosis and the related social injustice. It is simply a vast topic and you have an encyclopedic knowledge of those things and just transferring that info would take a tremendously long time, but you actually care about explaining to lay people why this is so vitally important to all of us. The care and passion you have for the subject can never be related to the word failure, IMO. We love you; thank you for being you and sharing so much of that with the world.

    • @m.w.kaplan447
      @m.w.kaplan447 10 месяцев назад

      ++ not failed! not yet completed

  • @deanna_abby
    @deanna_abby 11 месяцев назад +48

    As some one who suffers from GAD and depression I just want to give you a big hug 🫂
    You and Hank have brought me so much joy over the years in the darkest of times. I'm going to go vote in my Pizza John Eras shirt, my husband purchased for me. We have even gotten our daughter into watching vlog brothers. I know this won't make the anxiety and depression go away but I want you to know you've made such a positive impact in this world! ❤

  • @Anna-B
    @Anna-B 11 месяцев назад +221

    As a wannabe writer, I love hearing about other writers processes. And what have I learned? We’re all different! If you want to write, write. Use whatever process works for you. And taking advice from other writers is totally fine, but remember that it’s only advice, not a rule

    • @cameronschyuder9034
      @cameronschyuder9034 11 месяцев назад +4

      Thanki for the helpful comment :D struggling w finding “my way” currently, hopefully will get a good feel for it soon

  • @fengjiang4920
    @fengjiang4920 10 месяцев назад +5

    I’m trying to finish my dissertation this month. Well, I have a week until the deadline from my institute. This year was hard for me, two family members passed away, my health wasn’t the best… my mantra is still and mir than ever: “a finished dissertation is better than a perfect one.” This video and your statement from today, John, helped me. Thank you for being awesome, also whole depressed and anxious.

    • @hopewilliard6781
      @hopewilliard6781 10 месяцев назад

      Good luck finishing your dissertation. Sorry it’s been such a rough month.

  • @judedepew1291
    @judedepew1291 11 месяцев назад +13

    I always feel so seen when John is vulnerable with us about his mental health 💕 Thank you.

  • @IrisGlowingBlue
    @IrisGlowingBlue 11 месяцев назад +100

    Happy Na-Mo everyone! Stretch your hands! ❤

  • @saranshgautam6551
    @saranshgautam6551 11 месяцев назад +68

    Like Bob Ross once said, "we need both dark and bright days. Dark days are important so we can value the brighter ones."
    I'm a smidge depressed and anxious too John, hope we can get to brighter days soon!

  • @EmiDarlings
    @EmiDarlings 11 месяцев назад +6

    Hi, John! I clicked quickly because I needed to hear some positivity. Thanks for being such a light in the / my world.

  • @ConcertsAtHome
    @ConcertsAtHome 11 месяцев назад +9

    We are John's acountabilibuddy and I am here for it. Close your eyes and imagine the perfect hug. Thanks for staying awesome, hope that thought made your day just a little better.

  • @Bookworm8793
    @Bookworm8793 11 месяцев назад +34

    John, I just want to say how much I appreciate videos in which you talk about your own experiences with mental health and productivity (or lack thereof). My previously well-managed anxiety and depression have been wildly more volatile since the pandemic hit, and I cannot fully express how much comfort and reassurance I get from watching someone like you experience and deal with similar things. I see you, and you're doing great. Thanks for seeing me too.

  • @Caterfree10
    @Caterfree10 11 месяцев назад +18

    I follow some fanfiction writers who use NaNo as a means of working on their WIPs! Sometimes they’re multiple oneshots and sometimes they are ongoing fics that aren’t even complete by the end of NaNo even if they “win” the writing challenge. (This kinda just happens when fanfics regularly get into hundreds of thousands of words and I adore these labors of love.) it’s so neat seeing all these variations on NaNo imho! ^^-

  • @IDontLikeJamOrJelly
    @IDontLikeJamOrJelly 11 месяцев назад +8

    Reminding yourself that you like the things you like when you're depressed is such a mood.

  • @AlarKemmotar
    @AlarKemmotar 11 месяцев назад +31

    Trying to finish my dissertation and, for me, it's astonishing how much longer it's taking than I initially thought it would!

    • @HelenRosemarySmith
      @HelenRosemarySmith 11 месяцев назад +4

      Good luck with your dissertation!

    • @Dyundu
      @Dyundu 11 месяцев назад +5

      I started my current dissertation topic in April of 2020 (I’ve been in dissertation-writing mode since 2017; the first two topics died on the vine, as it were). I just got the final approval of post-defense edits last Friday. Hang in there-you can do it!

    • @AlarKemmotar
      @AlarKemmotar 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@Dyundu thanks for the encouragement! It really does help. My proposal was accepted in December 2019, and I was set to start collecting data in spring of 2020 when covid hit and shut down all human subjects research here. Took over two years before I was able to finish data collection. Now everyone is impatient for me to finish, and I'm doing my best, but this just takes time to do right!
      Congratulations on your successful defense!

    • @melissamybubbles6139
      @melissamybubbles6139 11 месяцев назад +1

      Good luck!

  • @milenaaa724
    @milenaaa724 11 месяцев назад +9

    You got this, John! On the subject of your books, I'm a HS English teacher, and I implemented independent reading this year. I recommended your books to my students and so many of them loved them and said that they read the first book they've enjoyed in years. Thank you for all that you do!

  • @AndiNewtonian
    @AndiNewtonian 11 месяцев назад +197

    As a fellow (although much, much less successful) writer, I am so glad to hear that I'm not the only one who goes a few days of writing and then gets hit with the "oh, gawd, there are so many problems with everything I already wrote!" feeling. And thinking, "Two thousand words a day? Yeah, I can do that. I know how this whole story goes. I can knock this out in two months." And then, not. Because writing is brain-meltingly exhausting, and I don't know how anyone can keep up a 2000 word a day every day pace for more than a week.

    • @jesseyshinn
      @jesseyshinn 11 месяцев назад +6

      not gonna lie, there was a time when i could write 1500 words a day, and now i'm too chronically ill to write it over the course of 2 weeks.

    • @edwinwylegaa1727
      @edwinwylegaa1727 11 месяцев назад +3

      I feel you man I can't even imagine writing 2000 words a day for like a week, we're not alone in feeling that writing is absolutely beautiful but also an absolute struggle

    • @simplyepic3258
      @simplyepic3258 11 месяцев назад +4

      I'm not a writer, but I've always written this way too. I honestly think it results in better quality writing. Problems get fixed as they're noticed rather than letting them compound and trying to fix it all later

    • @MarkThePage
      @MarkThePage 11 месяцев назад +3

      Editing as I go is the way for me too. Otherwise those thousands of words might get deleted anyway because they went in the wrong direction.

    • @allibutler3422
      @allibutler3422 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@jesseyshinn I hope that you get well enough to write again. From one spoonie to another, keep your head up. “The sun will come up tomorrow”, even if “tomorrow” is a month from now and the sun just peaks out from the clouds.

  • @anna42623
    @anna42623 11 месяцев назад +6

    I used to teach math and in my first year as a teacher, I had a student who wanted to be a writer. I told her about Nanowrimo and she did it! She wrote a whole novel and sent it to me to read over summer break, which I did and I gave her some positive feedback and encouraged her to keep going. So now 8 years later, I'm finally attempting it myself. I figure, most writers would love to inspire the next generation and I already accomplished that (ironically while I was teaching math). So, any other success at writing would just be a bonus for me! Feeling like I can't fail has really helped me get going on my own project.

  • @hsm4983
    @hsm4983 11 месяцев назад +219

    Heartbroken to discover john -a person with legendary empathy for the immunocompromised and famously steeped in healthcare lore- sneezes directly onto his hands

    • @alwaysyouramanda
      @alwaysyouramanda 10 месяцев назад +11

      Who washes their inner-elbows regularly..?

    • @mxwitcher
      @mxwitcher 10 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@alwaysyouramandadon't make me think about it 😰

  • @soupvillain
    @soupvillain 11 месяцев назад +34

    hearing a bit of this process was incredibly comforting to hear from someone I’ve looked up to for more than a decade, as someone who struggles with being okay with their writing process

  • @BeingLolaStar
    @BeingLolaStar 11 месяцев назад +68

    I have never heard someone discribe my writing "style" so well. The editing as you go along. The layers. Feeling pressure to let people know. The muttering to yourself at the end.
    Right now I'm washing dishes to avoid writing before work. 🤪🤪

    • @AlarKemmotar
      @AlarKemmotar 11 месяцев назад +7

      It's funny how work can seem like a welcome break when it's helping you to avoid other work!

    • @rev.rachel
      @rev.rachel 11 месяцев назад +1

      And the fact that the first written draft is itself a revision! Me too!

    • @flowerheit4512
      @flowerheit4512 11 месяцев назад +2

      i often feel the impulse to go back and revise and delete, but if i let myself get bogged down in the problems i have trouble moving the plot forward so what ive started doing just these past couple months is to just leave terrible the scene alone, try writing it again from scratch, it normally comes out bad again, so i just write a short note on what needs to go differently and why, then plow forward.
      it will still be there later, and when i have more words down on paper maybe I'll be more able to see that scene.

  • @akiramiyashi
    @akiramiyashi 11 месяцев назад +2

    2:18 For those who struggled to catch what the full term was like me: National Finish your draft of Your Book I Mean Seriously Come on Month.
    it's assignment crunch time for me. I really needed this. I write in similar ways with you too John.

  • @megangoodwin2544
    @megangoodwin2544 11 месяцев назад +83

    "Just finish something" is what I have felt trying to finish this last part of my masters. Only one month to go but it feels like the longest and most stressful one. You got this!! (Also, why did you have to remind me that sneezing isn't normal?? I can't stop sneezing this morning!)

    • @HelenRosemarySmith
      @HelenRosemarySmith 11 месяцев назад

      Good luck! You've got this too!

    • @andrineslife
      @andrineslife 11 месяцев назад

      Good luck! The last month definitely isn't easy but you can do it!

    • @mina0653
      @mina0653 11 месяцев назад +3

      same! my thesis is due at the beginning of December, hope your November will be good and productive.

    • @emalieth8220
      @emalieth8220 11 месяцев назад +3

      go go go! you can both do this! I'll be working on my own thesis by your side!

    • @sexyscientist
      @sexyscientist 11 месяцев назад +1

      Why didn't you take megood18 as RUclips username?

  • @Narwalicornisrex
    @Narwalicornisrex 10 месяцев назад +1

    I'm just coming back tot his video after NaNo to mention that it helped me a lot. I didn't get to 50,000 words for NaNo this year, but I did complete a first draft of a story that...didn't actually need to be 50,000 words long,
    Understanding that I had the freedom to direct the story where it needed to go without worrying about a number while still having the pressure that a 1 month time limit provides was helpful.

  • @Sientir
    @Sientir 11 месяцев назад +5

    I resonate with that whole "gotta turn ideas into language" thing. It's such a challenging process! Also, as I've often said, "Language is an imprecise way of communicating ideas."

  • @user-uy8xf9tm5h
    @user-uy8xf9tm5h 11 месяцев назад +2

    That’s how I write too! It totally makes sense to me! And who says its not efficient??? Those other folks have to edit, delete, re-write, reorganize the whole dang thing. You sir are creating, crafting, shaping and polishing a beautiful masterpiece as you go! I can’t imagine not doing it this way.💜🧡💚

  • @brandiwilliams201
    @brandiwilliams201 11 месяцев назад +3

    I want to say I can’t wait to read whatever “the thing” is, but I can. You’ll finish it when you do and I’ll be glad whenever that is. Thank you so much for being vulnerable and honest, it was very needed for me in this moment.

  • @butterflysnow
    @butterflysnow 10 месяцев назад

    Hi, John! I actually think that it is very, very normal to write, then revise, then write again, and revise again. Good writing takes a lot of time and effort! And I think the more one revises and rewrites, the more thought is put into the product, and that is a good thing!
    Also, we are rooting for you, and are already so very proud of you for doing SO, SO MUCH this November, despite being a smidge depressed and anxious ❤

  • @Lizzi3_thelizard
    @Lizzi3_thelizard 11 месяцев назад +25

    You got this, John! You’ve inspired me to finish many song and short stories that no one will ever read.

    • @wildflower1397
      @wildflower1397 11 месяцев назад +4

      With that one sentence, you have made me suddenly fascinated to read what you wrote. Just knowing it's something that is never meant to be seen makes me want to see it, lol. The funny thing is that I am not generally all that curious about the things people keep to themselves, so respecting their privacy is easy. Somehow you tickled my curiosity. 😂

  • @fugithegreat
    @fugithegreat 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for including that last bit, it gave me such a big smile! And it was good.

  • @olgabecci6685
    @olgabecci6685 11 месяцев назад +4

    I have to finish writing my master thesis, this was the motivation I needed

  • @archerelms
    @archerelms 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love that the removal of the four minute rule allows for the addition of that little semi-accidental behind the scenes moment at the end of the video without needing to edit the video for time *even more*
    Also I do want to say that I appreciate that y'all keep it near 4 minutes anyway, just less strictly. You're still respecting and appreciating our time, as you mentioned in another reply, but you're not stuck with being punished for not having an EXACT time

  • @r.j.bedore9884
    @r.j.bedore9884 11 месяцев назад +20

    I think a lot of us have been feeling a bit depressed and anxious, but that just means there's more empathy for our current situations to go around. You got this John, we believe in you. I look forward to an update on December 1st.

  • @framkoosjelecq8244
    @framkoosjelecq8244 11 месяцев назад +3

    The end bit just made me wanna hug you ❤

  • @jamiedye6005
    @jamiedye6005 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks for leaving your self talk at the end in the video. The gentle little reminder “you like editing video” is something I’ve been learning to give myself and it was really helpful to hear yours. Today mine was “calling to make an appointment is scary but you feel better when you get a haircut and you like getting your haircut.”

  • @mikekeenan8706
    @mikekeenan8706 11 месяцев назад +19

    John, although I never intend to publish, book form, I wrote my longest short story, while my mother was bedridden, before her death. I knocked out 27,000 words in a month starting with the idea of a Tom cat, named Sophia, as a vital character to the fruition of the plot, and it felt like it wrote itself. At that time, I found I was writing 3 or 4 stories at the same time. I would only get a couple of hours away from being mom's caretaker, but I think the writing was more a therapeutic thing for me.
    I am amazed at your writing though, In no way could I ever create the types of characters and plots that you have.

  • @Nulify-jc4fs
    @Nulify-jc4fs 10 месяцев назад +1

    Hello! I am happy to say that I have to decided to take on this challenge and actually completed it today! I was originally planning to finish the first draft early December but when I saw this video I was like: “Dude, I’m writing a goddamn novella, I need to stop procrastinating”. And I’m insanely happy to finish it today. Thanks for your inspiration!

  • @coldfire1
    @coldfire1 11 месяцев назад +3

    Those last two seconds hit me hard. Thanks for keeping it in. You're not alone in that feeling are I'm glad you have good friends/family to support you and a large community to cheer you on.

  • @jadedcatlady
    @jadedcatlady 11 месяцев назад

    Also a smidge depressed and anxious at the moment. Thank you for the honesty, John.

  • @srobinson6592
    @srobinson6592 11 месяцев назад +9

    The best part of this video was the empathy and understanding you extended to other writers who are learning that their writing process is valid! Happy novel writing/revising!

  • @israellafreidline594
    @israellafreidline594 11 месяцев назад +1

    My senior thesis is due Dec 6 but it is now due Nov 31 in my mind. We’ve got this!!

  • @SharkPuppetOfficalChannel
    @SharkPuppetOfficalChannel 11 месяцев назад +3

    Sir, I've been working on an autobiography since March and I'm at 18,000 words and haven't even reached the good meat of the story. I will be doing NaFaDoYBIMSCoM now. Thank you for this kick in the ass. I needed it. This is my first attempt at writing and I'm finding it incredibly difficult to spend so much time reflecting on a traumatic past.

  • @IirisSk
    @IirisSk 11 месяцев назад +1

    I first heard about NaNoWriMo years ago as a teenager watching Vlogbrother videos, and now after years of promising that I'd do it, I'm finally doing it. And I'm finding that writing 1,667 words every day is very not my writing process, but so far I've been able to power through just because I feel like if I don't do it now I will never actually finish my first draft. Anyway, as a struggling writer who's also just a smidge depressed and anxious, your video was weirdly motivational and helped me feel less alone. Thank you, John! ❤

  • @kirstenroos6781
    @kirstenroos6781 11 месяцев назад +9

    As someone who is just now recovering from a big anxiety peak, I am sending well wishes and good luck. Amazing that you have been writing!

  • @DanielledeVreede
    @DanielledeVreede 11 месяцев назад

    I've got my first ever real bout of "a smidge depressed and anxious" and I'm super proud of you for ever getting anything done in this state. Go you!

  • @DrewLytle
    @DrewLytle 11 месяцев назад +4

    Doing NaNo for this first time this year and grateful to this community for introducing it to me 15 years ago 🙌

  • @thestormwar
    @thestormwar 7 месяцев назад

    When looking for this video again I to remember what exactly this was about, I found your first NaNoWriMo video from 2009 and you ending that video with "Hank, I'll see you Tuesday" to this video's "Hey Hank, its Tuesday." while jumping 15 years in age was some of the funniest RUclips whiplash I've had in awhile.
    Keep on writing Nerds! 🧡

  • @kaileysetter7691
    @kaileysetter7691 11 месяцев назад +3

    We can do hard things, John. I’m right there with you this month, trying to persevere and see a project through. Sometimes things become too much, but you are resilient and you can do hard things. 💪 Break things down, be kind to yourself and be confident in your own capability. You’ve got this.

  • @kipupstudio
    @kipupstudio 10 месяцев назад

    The fact that you kept the last part in, about having to talk yourself through continuing a task.
    Was so comforting and hugely helpful. #johnishuman

  • @dennisni5600
    @dennisni5600 11 месяцев назад +3

    That was 4:28 full of wisdom and a good reminder of why I really enjoy following this channel.
    "Maybe it wasn't a sneeze, maybe it was a momentary lapse in judgment" perfection Chef's Kiss
    "sneeze is never normal" I just love that line since the first time
    Creating artificial deadlines and believing they are real? Possibly the best tip ever? I'm extremely lazy when I don't have a deadline. I'll try this out.
    thank you John!

  • @joeldeslo854
    @joeldeslo854 11 месяцев назад

    Love and appreciation for You! You are not the only one experiencing 'a smidge' this year, this season. I think you are great and you are doing great things, even when you're not doing any-things.

  • @AlarKemmotar
    @AlarKemmotar 11 месяцев назад +7

    The end of the video was very relatable, and somehow a little comforting. I've been feeling a smidge depressed myself, but if you're still moving forward, I can too.

  • @connierobinson1090
    @connierobinson1090 11 месяцев назад +34

    Depression isn’t forever, it just is the feeling of forever

  • @bretthake7713
    @bretthake7713 11 месяцев назад +4

    I went to college for art and our professors used to say that "sharing your idea" gives your brain the same feel-good chemicals as working on the idea and making it no longer necessary to finish the work to get those feelings, therefore stopping you from completing it. Obviously everyone is different! Just something to consider, it helped me to frame it as "dont talk about it, do it then show it"

    • @wildflower1397
      @wildflower1397 11 месяцев назад +1

      Oh wow, that is profound. So there's my problem, lol. I have been trying to figure that out for 50 years, and you just tossed it out there in a casual comment. I am extremely verbal, excitedly sharing every idea, and the need to get it all out is so intense. My creative process is the same way. The question is, could I hold my mental breath long enough to finish a project? Also, is that why I get a rush of energy every time I decide to do something that surprises someone I love? So much to unpack! 😂

    • @bretthake7713
      @bretthake7713 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@wildflower1397 I am far from a psychologist but it was my minor hehehehe - it's definitely true for me. This can be considered validation-seeking, the idea is basically that someone saying "great idea" is giving your brain rewards. You want to shift the approval-seeking to the actual finished product, not "the idea of" the finished product. I have to treat my ideas like the most top secret classified material or I will talk talk talk about how great my ideas are and never make anything 🙃... May not work for everybody but may be worth a try for you! Good luck!

  • @ellieban
    @ellieban 11 месяцев назад

    I love you John. Sometimes it hits me that underneath these two phenomenal beings that trade funny and insightful and thought provoking and beautiful videos back and forth every week, there are two men that love each other and sometimes give us a peek into their relationship. I know this is a parasocial (and sarapocial) relationship, and thanks for allowing me a glimpse of your lives, I love you both.

  • @louismyers8845
    @louismyers8845 11 месяцев назад +9

    I don't remember these lyrics in all star

  • @peterhansen3401
    @peterhansen3401 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you for leaving on the bit at the end because for past couple weeks seriously the same mood. It helps to see it's not just me.

  • @kayleemcelroy3115
    @kayleemcelroy3115 11 месяцев назад +3

    As someone who began watching in 2012 (and reading John's books after), I'm happy to hear we're able to keep moving past more of the very understandable TFiOS-era restrictions.

  • @pandacircle
    @pandacircle 11 месяцев назад +3

    You got this John! We’ll be here to support you, always

  • @ruthboeder6265
    @ruthboeder6265 11 месяцев назад +1

    Did anyone else see in the NYT this morning that TB has retaken the honor of being the #1 cause of death away from COVID? When I saw it, I wondered when you would next discuss it, John.
    Also, we writing teachers like to say that good writing is in the rewriting. Best wishes for your drafting process!

  • @elijahb1209
    @elijahb1209 11 месяцев назад +3

    I’m also doing this! I NEED to finish a draft of my thesis by the end of this month…. which is a vast and terrifying goal. (I am also a smidge depressed and anxious.) Glad to hear I’m in good company!

  • @ThatWouldBeCareless
    @ThatWouldBeCareless 11 месяцев назад

    I appreciate the end section in particular. The staring into the void, the tiny pep talk. I am also a smidge depressed and anxious.

  • @HypernovaBolts11
    @HypernovaBolts11 11 месяцев назад +3

    1:13
    "Sneezing is not normal. I never sneeze."

  • @sparker_87
    @sparker_87 11 месяцев назад +2

    Love this. Your honesty and dedication are so amazing. "A smidge depressed and anxious" is definitely going around right now . I don't know how you do as much as you do

  • @dododoentertainment
    @dododoentertainment 11 месяцев назад +3

    Every time I write something, the process is so different. For my first book I just had a very general idea of what I wanted and there was a lot of writers block. With the book I’m writing now, I know how it ends but it’s just the actual writing part that seems to take forever. I usually just tell the story and add the details later. There’s no one right way to write but having my advisor asking how much further I got in my book each week is good motivation for me.

    • @MarkThePage
      @MarkThePage 11 месяцев назад

      If you're in the flow to write just action today, then fill in the rest later! [describe comment section] [check what day it is] [should this go above or below the other comment]

  • @thebeecubed
    @thebeecubed 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you for being so real and honest. I am on my 3rd NaNoWriMo and have still not written a single word this time(last time I made it to 1000 words haha also I too am a smidge depressed and anxious, So its nice to see others admit it, it helps us all feel and realize we are not failing and alone.

  • @jkwatcher47
    @jkwatcher47 11 месяцев назад +3

    The combination of depression and anxiety just KILLS my productivity. WHY IS THAT!?

  • @steggopotamus
    @steggopotamus 11 месяцев назад +1

    I like that videos can go a little long now. The candid bit at the end was relatable and sweet.

  • @vacciniummacrocarpum
    @vacciniummacrocarpum 11 месяцев назад +4

    Who else is like I will finish my master thesis, and if I die trying... been at it for a year, at this point I dont even care, I just wanna get out of this hostage situation😂

    • @mina0653
      @mina0653 11 месяцев назад +2

      literally me 😭 good luck buddy, we can do this

    • @PiedmontPerkYT
      @PiedmontPerkYT 11 месяцев назад

      you’ve got this!!!!

    • @vroomfondel42
      @vroomfondel42 11 месяцев назад

      You've got this!! I'm defending my PhD within the next month (hopefully) and oooh boy the burnout is real. But we can do it!

  • @Izzy-Maurer
    @Izzy-Maurer 11 месяцев назад +5

    I'm going for the full 50k for the first time this month, and I'm on track so far! Best of luck to everyone attempting any kind of writing or revising this month!

    • @sexyscientist
      @sexyscientist 11 месяцев назад

      Go Izzy go!!!👯👯👯

    • @Sue-pn7mq
      @Sue-pn7mq 11 месяцев назад

      Good luck!

  • @danscott2289
    @danscott2289 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks for the pep talk, John! 30th November is the deadline for the final draft of my first professional radio play that'll be airing on BBC Radio (+ online) in 2024, so this video was amazingly appropriate - good luck to you!

  • @FaultAndDakranon
    @FaultAndDakranon 11 месяцев назад +15

    Sneezing is never normal. Best wishes.

  • @carneliancorax
    @carneliancorax 10 месяцев назад

    I cannot write every day, no matter how hard I try; I am slow to come up with ideas and slow to write them and it often takes me several rounds of editing to get a draft that I even somewhat like. It can be discouraging when a lot of the most successful authors give writing advice that clashes with the way my brain does writing, and yours is the most relatable process I've heard described by a published author. It's very encouraging to hear.

  • @melinapatjimenez
    @melinapatjimenez 11 месяцев назад +3

    The most real is the last 18 seconds. It's me, out of focus, both literally and emotional, trying to finish a thing

  • @jenniferhashemian4366
    @jenniferhashemian4366 11 месяцев назад

    It's very helpful to me to know that I'm not alone in my own feelings of anxiety and depression, even when it looks like my life is going well. Thank you for sharing.❤

  • @kajurapraise5429
    @kajurapraise5429 11 месяцев назад +4

    Continuing with normal posting in a world where kids are being blown to bits is as dystopian as it gets

  • @LooseLeafGamer
    @LooseLeafGamer 11 месяцев назад

    That’s how I write too! “Wildly inefficient” describes it perfectly. Translating ideas and feelings into words on a page takes me a long time. I write and delete and write and delete and keep doing that until I have something that matches the thing in my head that I’m trying to communicate

  • @CalypsoTheJellyfish
    @CalypsoTheJellyfish 11 месяцев назад +4

    As an author with a large following and multiple literary awards, even if you consider your writing style inefficient- it obviously worked for you

  • @Frostwriter111
    @Frostwriter111 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for bringing back "Sneezing is never normal." It brings me new joy every time I forget it and am reminded of it.

  • @AJGoff110
    @AJGoff110 11 месяцев назад +1

    4:10 I'm about to move across country and live with lots of new roommates that I've never met and I'm missing all of my imaginary deadlines and now I have the very real deadline of starting my new job and I'm feeling a bit depressed and anxious, so that sigh felt very relatable.

  • @Bananna219
    @Bananna219 11 месяцев назад

    This video helped me have empathy for my own struggle at the moment. Thank you.

  • @Meadowmeadowmoo
    @Meadowmeadowmoo 11 месяцев назад

    I, too, am depressed and anxious. At the start of this video, I thought oh no, it’s NaNoWriMo and I forgot! Then I remembered that while I am not participating this year, I have already been writing more this November than previously. My anxiety almost tricked me, once again. I’m with NaFaDOYBimsahdkdclm or whatever else as long as I’m working on MY goals🥳

  • @aaronmcdaniel7768
    @aaronmcdaniel7768 11 месяцев назад

    Don't forget that this means a lot to you because it is an important and impactful topic. When I read your book I know it will be important and impactful to me, and im sure others will feel the same. You are doing good things that touch other people's lives in profound ways. You got this.
    ... But also the November deadline is definitely real you have to have a finished book before December

  • @ceballard1215
    @ceballard1215 11 месяцев назад +1

    As we come into the (actual) darker days of winter, I so appreciate John’s and Hank’s insights; they make it easier to see those little rays of light

  • @scottglajch1555
    @scottglajch1555 11 месяцев назад

    Liking this video just for the pure fact that I got to hear John pronounce NaFaDoYBIMSCoM so many times. It was lovely.