Hi Carmen, I am so glad you didn't delete the end of the video. It is your honesty and vulnerability that attracted me to your channel. I struggle with a lot of the same things as you and it sometimes makes me feel alone. Finding people like me on RUclips has helped me so much. I said all that to say, just keep being you.❤
I really wanted to delete it but I force myself to leave some of the truth. I don't want to sound like I'm asking for pity because I'm not. I'm trying to stay authentic even with the parts I don't love. It's crazy how out of place we can ALL feel but yet we're on the same boat. That truly means we are not alone in our struggles! Although I don't wish that for anyone, it's comforting to know I'm not the only one. RUclips has been a great way to find my people. I have truly enjoyed meeting people like you! Feel free to reach out on Instagram if you ever want to keep conversation going.
Hi Carmen. Thanks for this. I think that it's so important for women to empower women, and I love that this is what you're doing here. We need to be aware that our feminine energy can sometimes be misconstrued for weakness. I KNEW CM was going to be here. I love that we share that fragrance. Powerful is right! Duality is right! WE are those things, too!
I'm a people who loves you. I'm glad you didn't delete the end. I feel like that ALL the time. I always feel so sorry for people who sit through my videos! Being vulnerable (at the risk of...whatever the consequences are on social media) is brave. YOU are brave. And wonderful. And loved.
Right! Being vulnerable on the internet is hard! I literally feel like people are going to be annoyed that I want pity. 😒 And maybe some people will see it that way but the truth is, I'm so glad other people related. A lot of us have those thoughts and they don't have to win. Imagine if we let those thoughts win? We would do nothing and be nothing!!
Don't be so hard on yourself! There are SOOO many RUclipsrs out here who are so annoying, yet they have scads of followers. Girl, you're fine. They stay successful because they have turned off the switch that makes them care what others think. However, I totally get your self-consciousness, so I am not one to tell someone not to be that way lol. I always assume whomever I'm talking to in the moment wants nothing more than to escape the conversation, so there's that, but yes...there really is no reason for anyone to dislike you. Take the influx of followers as a sign that you're good and serve a purpose to the people who do appreciate you, no matter what anyone else thinks. No one is 100% everyone's cup of tea, and people can see themselves out if that's the case and that's not even your fault. Care what your followers and prospective followers think about your content, but give yourself a break. You are endearing, and as long as you keep that quality as well as your humility, (not self-doubt), you're just going to keep growing. Look at all that word vomit I just typed. I actually just wanted to say that I am jonesing for Khaltat Night so hard because of your channel, I'm just scared to bite the bullet because I have a spotty history with ME fragrances, and that one is pricier than most in that category. I gotta find a decant somewhere. If my nose would translate it the same way yours does, that business is straight up my jam. Have you checked out Lattafa Affection yet?
Hi there!! I truly appreciate your comment!! I do always feel like I'm annoying people when I speak to them in person so making videos is very bold of me. Lol. I haven't tried anymore middle eastern scents because I really struggle with them as well. Khaltat Night has white musk which can be too much for some people. It usually is for me but this one works. Are you in the US?
Yes I love how you are describing all of the different aspects of our personalities as women. Duality is a good word. Sometimes I do want to feel powerful and unapproachable and it's amazing that perfume can actually enhance that feeling. Wow! Yes I guessed that you'd have Mademoiselle! 😊
We all love you Carmen! Also, the flowers are gorgeous! The flowers don’t look like they’re dying at all. Do you add sugar to the water to prolong their life? If so, It’s working!❤ Thank you for emphasizing the darker energy that us women have to have to navigate through life . Matthew 10:16 also mentions this about women: ‘Here I am sending you out like sheep with wolves all round you; so be as wise as serpents and yet as harmless as doves. But be on your guard against men.’ That is not to sound sexist at all, because I know men should be alert and on their guard as well in certain situations. But that instinct generally comes more naturally to men than it does for women, since men are the protectors. I loooove Black Perfecto! And Coco M! You’re absolutely right! I wanted to comment on a prior video you made, when you mentioned this Black Perfecto fragrance: it really is 1 of only 2 cherry dominant fragrances I can actually wear, the other being Cartier Delices (sadly discontinued). I have to get my nose on some of the other ones you mentioned! I think another beautiful perfume that evokes the ‘I’m nice but aloof and choose my people wisely so don’t mess with me or try to manipulate me’ aura is the Bottega Venetia line! Bottega Eau de Velours is my personal pick for evoking dark feminine energy, actually I think it’s near gothic. So I think people get the message with that one. 😂 also, surprisingly, Narciso Pure Musc and Phlur Missing Person EDP, both are gentle and very warm musks, but they have this certain lack of sweetness to them that indicates ‘I mean business, I don’t tolerate or partake in drama or gossip, I’m not a flirt, and I’m professional and here to be taken seriously.’ Job well done dear! Your channel will continue to grow! You have an amazing personality and such a calming positive energy and demeanor, and you keep it real, and we really appreciate that. 🤗
I love how you describe the scents!! The lack of sweetness can smell more formidable! Now that you mentioned Bottega Veneta, maybe even their signature perfume would fit that category! The one that smells like Rogue by Rihanna. I did not know about that Bible verse, that's a good one! We definitely have to also be careful with our energy. I just learned about the sugar in the water trick and have to try that! Thank you so much for your kind words, they mean a lot to me. 🥰
Loved the video idea. I agree that I choose to interpret dark as the other side of me, but not evil, just the side that can, foe instance, be firm enough to set healthy limits on any rapport. Even though people dislike that and criticize your choice.
I’m so glad it’s helped your self esteem! I do really like you! You and I have really similar thought patterns about ourselves. I’ll think I’m making a friend and get excited and then self sabotage and assume they really don’t like me they just feel bad for me or are humoring me. I do it constantly and I’m 43. I thought I’d be over that stuff by now.
Oh my goodness, I'm the same way!! I also thought I'd be past that at my age. I sometimes think people only do things because they feel bad for me. Specially compliments or praise. So sad that we can see the beauty in others and not in ourselves 😢 We deserve the same love we give to others!!!💖 You are the exact people I'm referring to when I say I feel like I've found my people here! Thank you 💓
@@CarmenScentrix it’s honestly helped to relate to you because emotionally we have so many commonalities. It makes me feel less alone. I am guessing like me your feelings of unworthiness are largely from childhood. It’s something I work on with my own kids. I don’t want them to feel like this in their 40’s.
@@kara8911 absolutely comes from childhood! You are a wonderful mother to be aware of these things and for wanting to be better for your children! We are the cycle breakers! I am also very careful and deliberate about my parenting! So my children never have to struggle with the things I struggled with. I'm glad we found eachother, I'm sure I've mentioned it before but feel free to reach on in instagram messages if you ever wanted to continue the conversation.
@@CarmenScentrix My friend just told me to put 3 teaspoons of sugar in cold water. To cut a quarter inch off the bottom and change the water out every 3 days. I used to just put the packet of powder they come with in cold water and change the water out once a week. I’m going to see if my friend’s method works and report back. 🥰
Carmen! Of course people like you! They love you! It’s just that you probably live in a smaller town and have interests that don’t align with those around you (yet). But you noticed how everyone around you is influenced and come to you for fragrance advice? Having an interest that’s different from everyone around you seems alienating at first, but it isn’t so bad later. It helps expand other people’s knowledge and interests. 🥰💕
You are SOOOO right!! I do live in a small town and I just don't blend in or mesh well with these people! Thank you for insight!! It's so helpful to hear it from a different perspective!
@@CarmenScentrix I know the feeling. I came from a city of millions to a city that barely has a quarter of a million and no one gets me here. I can only imagine living somewhere much smaller. You’re definitely not alone in that feeling. I’m right there with you. Queue Beyoncé’s ALIEN SUPERSTAR 😅💕
Dark feminine energy perfumes I would choose would mostly be jammy dark rose scents. 😊 Loved your closing thoughts! I think we can all relate to these thoughts and feelings!! ❤🫶🏼 xo
I left out 3 because there was too many but I had Kayali Pink Pepper, Libre Intense and Euphoria as well! Tammy you have those thoughts too?? I look up to people like you who seem so confident and comfortable in their own skin.
@@CarmenScentrix oooh sweet diamond yaaass it’s a love for me- so good!! Oh my gosh yes I’ve always been one of the most self conscious people and super shy.. I’ve really worked on it although I still do have those feelings sometimes! It means a lot that you see confidence in me!! 🥹🙏❤️
This video makes lots of sense (scents!), Carmen. Dark feminine energy is something we all have at times whether we understand it or can explain it or not. We all have moments of being unapologetically ourselves, and your explanations of these fragrances all point to the fact that we are all capable of all of the things. Sometimes that means we need space, and sometimes we crave intimacy in any or all of its forms, but we are all looking to satisfy our desire to exude (via our fragrance) whatever the HECK it is we wish to personify in that moment. :) I'm not sure if that makes sense (scents!) to anyone but me, but there it is. xo
Yes, my black perfecto! It’s my favorite ♥️🥰 it’s in my top five in my whole collection. Lol I just heard your description when you wear it. I don’t wear mine for the same reason lol but I do wear black perfecto the most when I need to be lifted in my mood, I’m going through perimenopause and my hormones are giving me mood swings , black perfecto just makes me feel more grounded, I don’t know how else to explain that lol P.S. I’ve gone through a full bottle already, on my second now and I have a small one in my purse
Oh my goodness that's tough. I'm glad perfume can bring you some sense of calm and peace! Have you heard of wild Yam Cream? I'm learning about natural remedies now because I guess it happens sooner for Hispanic women.
Carmen Id love for you to review My way by Armani, and tell us like the vibes it gives you, its one of my favorites ❤ to me it gives me sexy, elegant vibes
Definitely elegant vibes! I try not have too many similar when it comes to florals because I have no where dressed up to go! I have Prada Paradoxe that is kind of similar and I also would love My Way Intense but I just have too many at the moment! It's definitely on my radar though!
You are so kind en sweet en welspoken , I love your word choices, your description en your character ❤ keep going doing what you love to do! Greetings from the Netherlands
Hi girl!! Excited to see your picks for this vibe! As a Scorpio i feel like I'm supposed to have this side to my personality, and I think sometimes I do.. but as a Canadian from a small town I always lean towards the friendly smiley side of my personality. I wore Paradoxe the other day and I loved the opening as I always do but something weird went on in the drydown.. maybe it was just the day/weather/atmosphere that day?
Buenos días, Carmen. Cómo va la vida? To me, most Chanel are powerful yet feminine. CUIR DE Russie for instance :) yet there is a French Powerful Femme in any creación of Chanel. Or most:)
Hi Carmen,
I am so glad you didn't delete the end of the video. It is your honesty and vulnerability that attracted me to your channel. I struggle with a lot of the same things as you and it sometimes makes me feel alone. Finding people like me on RUclips has helped me so much. I said all that to say, just keep being you.❤
I really wanted to delete it but I force myself to leave some of the truth. I don't want to sound like I'm asking for pity because I'm not. I'm trying to stay authentic even with the parts I don't love.
It's crazy how out of place we can ALL feel but yet we're on the same boat. That truly means we are not alone in our struggles! Although I don't wish that for anyone, it's comforting to know I'm not the only one.
RUclips has been a great way to find my people. I have truly enjoyed meeting people like you! Feel free to reach out on Instagram if you ever want to keep conversation going.
@@CarmenScentrix I just followed you on Instagram. Talk to you soon.❤️
Hi Carmen. Thanks for this. I think that it's so important for women to empower women, and I love that this is what you're doing here. We need to be aware that our feminine energy can sometimes be misconstrued for weakness. I KNEW CM was going to be here. I love that we share that fragrance. Powerful is right! Duality is right! WE are those things, too!
I'm working on that energy myself because it's not something that comes naturally to me. That I'm aware of at least. But I'm working on it!
I'm a people who loves you. I'm glad you didn't delete the end. I feel like that ALL the time. I always feel so sorry for people who sit through my videos! Being vulnerable (at the risk of...whatever the consequences are on social media) is brave. YOU are brave. And wonderful. And loved.
Right! Being vulnerable on the internet is hard! I literally feel like people are going to be annoyed that I want pity. 😒 And maybe some people will see it that way but the truth is, I'm so glad other people related. A lot of us have those thoughts and they don't have to win. Imagine if we let those thoughts win? We would do nothing and be nothing!!
Your honesty is refreshing. I haven’t been a sub for long, but I enjoy your content and self awareness and honesty about yourself.
Awh that means so much to me, thank you 😊 💗
I absolutely love when you describe perfumes like this, you do make sense! Tysm!
Awhh thank you!! 😊
Don't be so hard on yourself! There are SOOO many RUclipsrs out here who are so annoying, yet they have scads of followers. Girl, you're fine. They stay successful because they have turned off the switch that makes them care what others think. However, I totally get your self-consciousness, so I am not one to tell someone not to be that way lol. I always assume whomever I'm talking to in the moment wants nothing more than to escape the conversation, so there's that, but yes...there really is no reason for anyone to dislike you. Take the influx of followers as a sign that you're good and serve a purpose to the people who do appreciate you, no matter what anyone else thinks. No one is 100% everyone's cup of tea, and people can see themselves out if that's the case and that's not even your fault. Care what your followers and prospective followers think about your content, but give yourself a break. You are endearing, and as long as you keep that quality as well as your humility, (not self-doubt), you're just going to keep growing. Look at all that word vomit I just typed. I actually just wanted to say that I am jonesing for Khaltat Night so hard because of your channel, I'm just scared to bite the bullet because I have a spotty history with ME fragrances, and that one is pricier than most in that category. I gotta find a decant somewhere. If my nose would translate it the same way yours does, that business is straight up my jam. Have you checked out Lattafa Affection yet?
Hi there!! I truly appreciate your comment!!
I do always feel like I'm annoying people when I speak to them in person so making videos is very bold of me. Lol.
I haven't tried anymore middle eastern scents because I really struggle with them as well. Khaltat Night has white musk which can be too much for some people. It usually is for me but this one works. Are you in the US?
Love the idea of this video. Thank you for your sincerity, honesty and bravery ❤
Yes I love how you are describing all of the different aspects of our personalities as women. Duality is a good word. Sometimes I do want to feel powerful and unapproachable and it's amazing that perfume can actually enhance that feeling. Wow! Yes I guessed that you'd have Mademoiselle! 😊
We all love you Carmen! Also, the flowers are gorgeous! The flowers don’t look like they’re dying at all. Do you add sugar to the water to prolong their life? If so, It’s working!❤
Thank you for emphasizing the darker energy that us women have to have to navigate through life . Matthew 10:16 also mentions this about women: ‘Here I am sending you out like sheep with wolves all round you; so be as wise as serpents and yet as harmless as doves. But be on your guard against men.’ That is not to sound sexist at all, because I know men should be alert and on their guard as well in certain situations. But that instinct generally comes more naturally to men than it does for women, since men are the protectors.
I loooove Black Perfecto! And Coco M! You’re absolutely right! I wanted to comment on a prior video you made, when you mentioned this Black Perfecto fragrance: it really is 1 of only 2 cherry dominant fragrances I can actually wear, the other being Cartier Delices (sadly discontinued).
I have to get my nose on some of the other ones you mentioned! I think another beautiful perfume that evokes the ‘I’m nice but aloof and choose my people wisely so don’t mess with me or try to manipulate me’ aura is the Bottega Venetia line! Bottega Eau de Velours is my personal pick for evoking dark feminine energy, actually I think it’s near gothic. So I think people get the message with that one. 😂 also, surprisingly, Narciso Pure Musc and Phlur Missing Person EDP, both are gentle and very warm musks, but they have this certain lack of sweetness to them that indicates ‘I mean business, I don’t tolerate or partake in drama or gossip, I’m not a flirt, and I’m professional and here to be taken seriously.’
Job well done dear! Your channel will continue to grow! You have an amazing personality and such a calming positive energy and demeanor, and you keep it real, and we really appreciate that. 🤗
I love how you describe the scents!! The lack of sweetness can smell more formidable! Now that you mentioned Bottega Veneta, maybe even their signature perfume would fit that category! The one that smells like Rogue by Rihanna.
I did not know about that Bible verse, that's a good one! We definitely have to also be careful with our energy.
I just learned about the sugar in the water trick and have to try that!
Thank you so much for your kind words, they mean a lot to me. 🥰
Loved the video idea. I agree that I choose to interpret dark as the other side of me, but not evil, just the side that can, foe instance, be firm enough to set healthy limits on any rapport. Even though people dislike that and criticize your choice.
Yes!! The dark feminine is standing our ground and setting boundaries when needed!
Hope you're doing well my friend! 💖
I’m so glad it’s helped your self esteem! I do really like you! You and I have really similar thought patterns about ourselves. I’ll think I’m making a friend and get excited and then self sabotage and assume they really don’t like me they just feel bad for me or are humoring me. I do it constantly and I’m 43. I thought I’d be over that stuff by now.
Oh my goodness, I'm the same way!! I also thought I'd be past that at my age.
I sometimes think people only do things because they feel bad for me. Specially compliments or praise. So sad that we can see the beauty in others and not in ourselves 😢
We deserve the same love we give to others!!!💖
You are the exact people I'm referring to when I say I feel like I've found my people here! Thank you 💓
@@CarmenScentrix it’s honestly helped to relate to you because emotionally we have so many commonalities. It makes me feel less alone. I am guessing like me your feelings of unworthiness are largely from childhood. It’s something I work on with my own kids. I don’t want them to feel like this in their 40’s.
@@kara8911 absolutely comes from childhood! You are a wonderful mother to be aware of these things and for wanting to be better for your children! We are the cycle breakers! I am also very careful and deliberate about my parenting! So my children never have to struggle with the things I struggled with.
I'm glad we found eachother, I'm sure I've mentioned it before but feel free to reach on in instagram messages if you ever wanted to continue the conversation.
My favs are Jimmy choo edp and mixing it with fever❤ sexy dark bad b vibes😍
That sounds sooo good and perfect dark fem vibes 👌
Carmen! The flowers are before Valentine’s Day?! What’s the secret to keeping them alive? They look so beautiful! And they aren’t dying (to me). 🥰💕
I cut the stems, added the powder stuff that comes with it and have replaced the water twice now. They currently still look like that!
@@CarmenScentrix My friend just told me to put 3 teaspoons of sugar in cold water. To cut a quarter inch off the bottom and change the water out every 3 days. I used to just put the packet of powder they come with in cold water and change the water out once a week. I’m going to see if my friend’s method works and report back. 🥰
@@Demi1369 okay let me know!
Carmen! Of course people like you! They love you! It’s just that you probably live in a smaller town and have interests that don’t align with those around you (yet). But you noticed how everyone around you is influenced and come to you for fragrance advice? Having an interest that’s different from everyone around you seems alienating at first, but it isn’t so bad later. It helps expand other people’s knowledge and interests. 🥰💕
You are SOOOO right!! I do live in a small town and I just don't blend in or mesh well with these people! Thank you for insight!! It's so helpful to hear it from a different perspective!
@@CarmenScentrix I know the feeling. I came from a city of millions to a city that barely has a quarter of a million and no one gets me here. I can only imagine living somewhere much smaller. You’re definitely not alone in that feeling. I’m right there with you. Queue Beyoncé’s ALIEN SUPERSTAR 😅💕
Dark feminine energy perfumes I would choose would mostly be jammy dark rose scents. 😊 Loved your closing thoughts! I think we can all relate to these thoughts and feelings!! ❤🫶🏼 xo
I left out 3 because there was too many but I had Kayali Pink Pepper, Libre Intense and Euphoria as well!
Tammy you have those thoughts too?? I look up to people like you who seem so confident and comfortable in their own skin.
@@CarmenScentrix oooh sweet diamond yaaass it’s a love for me- so good!! Oh my gosh yes I’ve always been one of the most self conscious people and super shy.. I’ve really worked on it although I still do have those feelings sometimes! It means a lot that you see confidence in me!! 🥹🙏❤️
This video makes lots of sense (scents!), Carmen. Dark feminine energy is something we all have at times whether we understand it or can explain it or not. We all have moments of being unapologetically ourselves, and your explanations of these fragrances all point to the fact that we are all capable of all of the things. Sometimes that means we need space, and sometimes we crave intimacy in any or all of its forms, but we are all looking to satisfy our desire to exude (via our fragrance) whatever the HECK it is we wish to personify in that moment. :) I'm not sure if that makes sense (scents!) to anyone but me, but there it is. xo
Rando fact: the Si Fiore bottle is what I want my nails to look like.
Believe in yourself, Carmen!! Practice being confident and it will eventually come naturally to you.
Yes, my black perfecto! It’s my favorite ♥️🥰 it’s in my top five in my whole collection. Lol I just heard your description when you wear it. I don’t wear mine for the same reason lol but I do wear black perfecto the most when I need to be lifted in my mood, I’m going through perimenopause and my hormones are giving me mood swings , black perfecto just makes me feel more grounded, I don’t know how else to explain that lol
P.S. I’ve gone through a full bottle already, on my second now and I have a small one in my purse
Oh my goodness that's tough. I'm glad perfume can bring you some sense of calm and peace! Have you heard of wild Yam Cream? I'm learning about natural remedies now because I guess it happens sooner for Hispanic women.
Carmen Id love for you to review My way by Armani, and tell us like the vibes it gives you, its one of my favorites ❤ to me it gives me sexy, elegant vibes
Definitely elegant vibes! I try not have too many similar when it comes to florals because I have no where dressed up to go! I have Prada Paradoxe that is kind of similar and I also would love My Way Intense but I just have too many at the moment! It's definitely on my radar though!
@@CarmenScentrix same girl, tysm!!
Ummmm...regarding L'Interdit...it's not "rogue", but "rouge"...which refers to the color.
Ohhhhhh that makes more sense 🤦♀️😅. thanks for the clarification!
my dark feminine perfume is Flowerbomb Nectar!
I adore you Carmen 🥰even if I don’t comment on every video, I’m here ♥️
Awhh thank you!! 😊
@@CarmenScentrix 👍🏻♥️♥️🥰🥰
You are so kind en sweet en welspoken , I love your word choices, your description en your character ❤ keep going doing what you love to do! Greetings from the Netherlands
That is so kind of you to say🥰 thank you!!
L'Interdit Rouge is absolutely seductive❤️🔥😍.
I replied to your amazing Tag,
I hope you like it 🥰
@CarmenScentrix , you can activate subtitles😊♥️
Thank you!
Yes. This was one of my faves during the cooler months.
Hi girl!! Excited to see your picks for this vibe! As a Scorpio i feel like I'm supposed to have this side to my personality, and I think sometimes I do.. but as a Canadian from a small town I always lean towards the friendly smiley side of my personality. I wore Paradoxe the other day and I loved the opening as I always do but something weird went on in the drydown.. maybe it was just the day/weather/atmosphere that day?
A Scorpio?? But you're soo lovable! Scorpios are supposed to be stand off-ish. Lol.
@@CarmenScentrix I know right? Scorpios get a bad rap! 😅 haha I’m hoping I got all of the good Scorpio qualities and not too many of the bad ones 🤪😆
Olá amiga tudo bem com você parabéns saúde felicidades muita pazzzzzzzzzzz sucesso
Tudo bem, obrigado pelos seus bons votos!! 🥰
Love the video.
Also Serge Lutens Tuberose Criminelle: smells like Bengay with Tuberose, but it is a force of female nature :)
I mean I don't hate Bengay so maybe I'll have to smell it. 😏
@@CarmenScentrix Jijijiji
Oooh good topic, I love this ♥️I know what you mean by this 🥰
Please feel free to make your own version of any video I make!! Would love to know your perfume choices for the topic!
😭😭😭 i loooove si fiori! why would they discontinue it?!?!
They don't make them like they used to! They are wack for discontinuing it!! None of the new stuff is good anymore. 😒
Buenos días, Carmen. Cómo va la vida? To me, most Chanel are powerful yet feminine. CUIR DE Russie for instance :) yet there is a French Powerful Femme in any creación of Chanel. Or most:)
I think I need to explore more Chanel!! 🤔
Even though I love Chanel patchouli, I've never smelled too many.
@@CarmenScentrix I only have samples of many but that is the feel I perceive, perhaps it is guide by the historia of Gabrielle, right?
Carmen, no, you are super fun and unique, Madame! ❤
Thank you! 😊
I like you, Carmen! Hugs from a fellow PNW girl.
No way! Hello neighbor! 👋
Your profile pic was just like my phone background for like a year! I love the moon!
@@CarmenScentrix Yeah, we're only 1.5 hours apart! The moon is cool 🌙🌝🌙.
@@simplythebestgirl no way! What area do you live in? You dont have to share your exact location. You can message me privately on IG if you want!