You used a really important word here, “decent”, ya, stop using that word. There aren’t any. They’ve all been brainwashed by feminism, leftism, and social media.
Just focus on you and make her do the chase. Trust me, if she likes you she will chase. Just show interest once and wait. If you chase her she will think less of you. Also, do not go on dates. Just talk with her in a park or Starbucks. A lot of these women are serial daters so you don't want to be used by them.
If she takes 20 minutes to respond, you take 40 to an hour. Don’t ever send good morning or goodnight texts. Leave her wondering what you’re doing. Trust me.
THE BIG DEAL NOW is how does a man approach a woman without getting shot-down for showing basic human courtesy, not faking being filthy rich, or backhanding the last person he speaks to before their "date" Dating is so eFFed up, I'll be amazed if the race survives. We're at the top of the food chain because we've been intelligent enough to think our way here - as of late I have this haunting feeling that the simplest mammalian act (choosing a mate) has somehow escaped us.
I am Gen X. I ask. If they say no (respectfully or not), that is the last time I ask. If they start character assassination attempts, I address them. That is it, though I am done. If they leave it open like "just not ready to date again, yet."Things are really busy, maybe after ___." I probably will not follow up. If I do, it will be casual both in asking and on the first date. The first date is easy. I have had everything happen on a first date, you can examine. Women have insulted the restraunts, my vehicles, my clothes, my friends, and basically anything else you can think of. Women have started arguments and even a fight to see if I would protect them. One invited friends to join us halfway through, so I could buy 3 extra meals and drinks. I paid for my dinner, hers, and the 1st round of drinks, then went home. I awoke to lots of texts from 12:30-2:00, via my alarm at 6:15... lol! Usually, I just take them home if they are not worth the time. It isn't fail safe. I have been attacked, falsely accused, threatened by boyfriends, and slandered. You pick your poison. what is interesting is I have dated (some more casually than others) nurses, a doctor, business owners, a shrink, an engineer, an architect, and a regional manager. Never have I had any drama with a successful woman. They are usually really wonderful people. It is the women who know they are poster children for hypocrisy and the ones who want feminism to mean double standards that cause problems.
How come the women don’t have to play all these BS games, and if they did and make one little mistake, they’re worthless? Just wondering why men have to be on egg shells every step….
@@gabrielamartiniuc6322 takes two to tango. A certain approach for one woman may be exactly what she is looking for, may be way off for someone else, so is about impossible to navigate, even if “you know what you’re doing”.
Oh my gosh that's so true. I try to telling the dudes at work. That's how I fixed my marriage. I use to make her 1# in my life the second I did like you said before I even seen this and bam💥💥💥💥 it all turned around almost instantly. It works so well!!!!
What MEN want? Simple- a REAL lady- plays NO games- no BS- no emotional HOGWASH and certainly no feminism or other stupidity... BE REAL- and a lady that will be a great mate.. with REAL love-- not housewife slavery-- just normal good relathionship and each doing their part to make it GREAT.. without smothering each other. THE old fashioned lady is great-- Men need to lead--- NOT control - big difference, leading involves getting her input and doing the best for both that you can.. etc..
Or just tell her how you feel and leave the ball in her court and move on with your life don't get friend zoned and don't be a simp if she wants you she will come your way if not she won't
I almost feel like we should be teaching young girls and boys what love is and what love isn’t I feel like that will straighten out a lot of this mess going on in the world. You ask people now a days what is love they say idk but people sure do know what love ain’t though how are you going to know what love ani’t but don’t even know what love is. Have sex with multiple people is no love giving your self to one person and one person only learning to love each others that’s love. Men and women walk away from relationships so fast over a little mistake or something that’s not that big of a deal but get with someone else then someone else so on and so forth. The same way whenever your 28 or 30 you start looking for someone to start loving you could have been doing that at a young age with one person.
You are a brilliant healer ....also something about your character that is very lovable ...not sure what is it but perhaps the way you often mock others humorously
Guys need to back up.and understand .this.when a women intelligent know the purpose in that men and she's brave she will look for him because she understand that she's part of the journey in a porpuse together 😂🤨no joke.🤗😂truth.
All I hear is ' a women doesn't want this and doesn't want that' who cares what they want they aren't the prize you think they are. Maybe 1 in 3000 are but them are crap odds not worth playing
I ask - and you accept or decline. Free Will. If I ghosted you - I would expect you to cut me off. If you ghost me - expect to never see me again. Life happens. Sometimes people need to reschedule, but if you have so little respect for me that you just ghost- that's all folks.
A man literally has to play mental gymnastics these days to get a decent chick. Fellas it’s crazy out here.
Amen brother. And 99% not worth the struggle
They are batshit crazy and it's the fault of our ancestors who treated women like sex slaves before laws were ever invented.
You used a really important word here, “decent”, ya, stop using that word. There aren’t any. They’ve all been brainwashed by feminism, leftism, and social media.
Lmao
Oy... they are nuts.
women play all these games. Many men are just giving up on these fruitcakes. Men just be yourselves. If she doesn't like it, she knows where the door.
Exactly!
Bro I'm tired 😴 I don't even try anymore way to many rules for women and it's annoying
so they want a busy man, so they can complain he doesn't have time for her because he has something going on in his life.
Couldn’t have said it better.
They need to be able to play the victim or they get insecure and ghost.
LOL right?
Just focus on you and make her do the chase. Trust me, if she likes you she will chase. Just show interest once and wait. If you chase her she will think less of you. Also, do not go on dates. Just talk with her in a park or Starbucks. A lot of these women are serial daters so you don't want to be used by them.
Serial daters 🤣
True most women have gone out with over 100 men by age 25 and had sex with half.
@@thedarkside3899 Aaron is correct, though. Funny but true.
If she takes 20 minutes to respond, you take 40 to an hour. Don’t ever send good morning or goodnight texts. Leave her wondering what you’re doing. Trust me.
I am glad that I am married, because if it was like it is now, I would never ever attempt to have met a woman. It’s just not worth the drama
Well duh we all becoming women and crushing it 😂 what a joke of a world we live in
Ie simps!
THE BIG DEAL NOW is how does a man approach a woman without getting shot-down for showing basic human courtesy, not faking being filthy rich, or backhanding the last person he speaks to before their "date"
Dating is so eFFed up, I'll be amazed if the race survives. We're at the top of the food chain because we've been intelligent enough to think our way here - as of late I have this haunting feeling that the simplest mammalian act (choosing a mate) has somehow escaped us.
My advice to men is, "Be Yourself!"... Stop trying to change to suit others!..
Really. I don't see that. Maybe in those sissy communities
She‘s right. I’ve made that mistake before. I turned the pursuit into a chase.
You guys want FEMININE women but also want to sit back and let her chase you to prove she likes you. Wild lol
I am Gen X. I ask. If they say no (respectfully or not), that is the last time I ask. If they start character assassination attempts, I address them. That is it, though I am done. If they leave it open like "just not ready to date again, yet."Things are really busy, maybe after ___." I probably will not follow up. If I do, it will be casual both in asking and on the first date.
The first date is easy. I have had everything happen on a first date, you can examine. Women have insulted the restraunts, my vehicles, my clothes, my friends, and basically anything else you can think of. Women have started arguments and even a fight to see if I would protect them. One invited friends to join us halfway through, so I could buy 3 extra meals and drinks. I paid for my dinner, hers, and the 1st round of drinks, then went home. I awoke to lots of texts from 12:30-2:00, via my alarm at 6:15... lol! Usually, I just take them home if they are not worth the time. It isn't fail safe. I have been attacked, falsely accused, threatened by boyfriends, and slandered. You pick your poison.
what is interesting is I have dated (some more casually than others) nurses, a doctor, business owners, a shrink, an engineer, an architect, and a regional manager. Never have I had any drama with a successful woman. They are usually really wonderful people. It is the women who know they are poster children for hypocrisy and the ones who want feminism to mean double standards that cause problems.
What man "dates" anymore? Why?
@@Steve-mk6rq Depends on what you are looking for. LOL
How come the women don’t have to play all these BS games, and if they did and make one little mistake, they’re worthless? Just wondering why men have to be on egg shells every step….
Because men want sex from 90% of women while women only want sex from 10% of men.
Because you’re the man, you’re the leader, you’re the one that is supposed to know what you’re doing. It’s called being a MAN.
@@gabrielamartiniuc6322 takes two to tango. A certain approach for one woman may be exactly what she is looking for, may be way off for someone else, so is about impossible to navigate, even if “you know what you’re doing”.
@@pauldanrich3919 Do you know yourself? And what you want and who you are ? Are you confident in your masculinity? Then why the tiptoeing around ?
@@gabrielamartiniuc6322 you’re absolutely correct, no more tip toeing around. What time should I pick you up???🤪
We think we learned it all. But we don’t. It’s nice to have a voice like yours to sound that wake-up call. Very well appreciated.
Truth!
JEDEDIAH👍 IS FUNNY, GREAT & SPOT ON. GOD BLESS ALL OUR GREAT U.S. WOMEN
#TRUMP4EVER #MAGA🇺🇸 #4MYRS
Great Jed, asking men to lie to women and play games. 💥👈😉
Oh my gosh that's so true. I try to telling the dudes at work. That's how I fixed my marriage. I use to make her 1# in my life the second I did like you said before I even seen this and bam💥💥💥💥 it all turned around almost instantly. It works so well!!!!
Wait until they show up, call, msg or whatever. Just be silent. They will. Then Ghost them back ,*formally*. Works for me.
What MEN want? Simple- a REAL lady- plays NO games- no BS- no emotional HOGWASH and certainly no feminism or other stupidity... BE REAL- and a lady that will be a great mate.. with REAL love-- not housewife slavery-- just normal good relathionship and each doing their part to make it GREAT.. without smothering each other. THE old fashioned lady is great-- Men need to lead--- NOT control - big difference, leading involves getting her input and doing the best for both that you can.. etc..
Yep!Unfortunatly majority of women just don't get it!
Ask men what is masculinity ? What is it to be a man ? 😉 How many would actually know?
Or just tell her how you feel and leave the ball in her court and move on with your life don't get friend zoned and don't be a simp if she wants you she will come your way if not she won't
If you have nothing going on in your life, it can't be taken away...
Women need to be wanted..... men want to be needed
Most of us stay away from the ones high up keep
Lmao, 😂 so true
I want a needy man, I guess everyone is different 😅
Where was this back in late 90’s 😂😂😂😂
To many rules for the game. No wonder men appear desperate and women in their 30s end up alone.
I almost feel like we should be teaching young girls and boys what love is and what love isn’t I feel like that will straighten out a lot of this mess going on in the world. You ask people now a days what is love they say idk but people sure do know what love ain’t though how are you going to know what love ani’t but don’t even know what love is. Have sex with multiple people is no love giving your self to one person and one person only learning to love each others that’s love. Men and women walk away from relationships so fast over a little mistake or something that’s not that big of a deal but get with someone else then someone else so on and so forth. The same way whenever your 28 or 30 you start looking for someone to start loving you could have been doing that at a young age with one person.
You are a brilliant healer ....also something about your character that is very lovable ...not sure what is it but perhaps the way you often mock others humorously
Am afraid just to talk to women... Have had the cops called on me for asking directions... Was on a bicycle...
Guys need to back up.and understand .this.when a women intelligent know the purpose in that men and she's brave she will look for him because she understand that she's part of the journey in a porpuse together 😂🤨no joke.🤗😂truth.
It comes from guys trying to satisfy women who are schizophrenic to begin with.
All I hear is ' a women doesn't want this and doesn't want that' who cares what they want they aren't the prize you think they are. Maybe 1 in 3000 are but them are crap odds not worth playing
I ask - and you accept or decline. Free Will.
If I ghosted you - I would expect you to cut me off.
If you ghost me - expect to never see me again.
Life happens. Sometimes people need to reschedule, but if you have so little respect for me that you just ghost- that's all folks.
Forget that. Get a pet
So women want lots of things just go were you don't have to work for it
Or just drop the games all together.
Don't date anyone on head meds
What if you do have a lot going on in your life and give her attention such as a morrning text or an expression of love?
You have just been told: you are considered needy thus she will think less of you. Mental Jedi games in full display.
@@DonovanAenslaed I see. We must consider the source then.
Get a dog and a FWB
Just ask Andrew Dice Clay
Guys will get desperate. Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks