Weak People Are ALLERGIC To Personal Responsibility
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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
- Weak People Are ALLERGIC To Personal Responsibility
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"Maybe their goal is not to win" is one of the most profound statements I've ever heard. A victim's goal, in my experience and observations, is to find a shoulder to cry on.
Their goal is to bring everyone down to their level so they DONT have to work so hard. Lowering the bar for the standard quality of life.
Lol meanwhile in Europe people work hard AND have the government work for them as well and they get paid better wages for their hard work. The U.S is a slave to their oligarchs who continuously tells them they're lazy and they can all be oligarchs. How many mansions do you own?
I know plenty of people who equate complaining with action. Once the problem is identified, any complaining beyond that is just noise
I can add something that goes with what you wrote :
Everytime you externalize blame you miss an opportunity for inner growth.
That's a really useful POV.
That's interesting. I've been refering to (so much of all of that) as "all of that Noise" for over a week now.
ARE You reading my mind?
ARE You tapping my phone?
The biggest mistake I hear people making is being dependent on "motivation" and "inspiration" in order to do something. Those things are unreliable, bc it's not dependent on you but outside of you. What people need is DISCIPLINE, not "motivation." Do it and keep doing it even on the days you don't feel like doing it.
What I told my friend when he was on-off during Working out. Motivation is just a Temporary Boost. Discipline is Devoting oneself to do the right thing Everytime.
Discipline only happens where motivation and inspiration are extreme.
Exactly. If there's something that needs to be done you gotta force yourself to do it without consulting your feelings about it. It's not as bad as it sounds once I tried it. There's great value in this, I discovered. But it's difficult to see when you never tried it.
@@praetorian3902 as they say, GET YER FEELINGS OUT!
There are people who prefer problems rather than solutions. Everyone knows what steps are needed to improve their situation. But we live in a world in which victimhood has been elevated to a virtue.
I don’t believe there’s a single person who prefers to live a problematic existence. Some definitely choose to, but it’s nobody’s preference.
@@longjohn5322 I disagree with you. I've known people who never solve their problems because problems equal sympathy and attention.
@longjohn5322: Wow, a real live cheerleader for the Victim Olympics! 😂😂
No they aren’t trying to “win.” They don’t believe that they can. It doesn’t even seem possible.
My goodness woman… you don’t cut corners with the truth. God bless your wisdom. Bravo for speaking out !!!!!
Winning isn’t the goal of organisms.
Survival is
Weak people do not CONFRONT evil 👿 and wickedness. Strong people DO. Don’t twist reality ...
And that’s why I got casted out of my dysfunctional family and have also gone no contact 😂 too many years around people who brush bad behaviour under a rug, join in on bullying and toxicity or laziness, entitlement, etc. Any time I wanted to be a better person I got told “no you don’t need to do that” “you’re fine the way you are” or belittled
You speak truth!
That's true but some people are so depressed and isolated that they just don't care anymore. And a lot of "strong" people are just egotistical jerks who only care about themselves.
Very intelligent and attractive. Total person!
Jed is a smart hottie and a keeper!
This is an important comment by Jedediah. ❤️
Their goal is to make people who do the work as miserable as them, smh
People who say just move is clearly to privileged to see past their own ego. My family literally had to Indore the homeless shelter and sleeping in different peoples houses before my mother could take out a subprime mortgage to barely cling onto the house we have today.
You know what’s difficult living in America and still believing hard work matters or gets you anywhere
Agree. Taking personal responsibility is a key step to improving one’s life.
AND weak people don't stand up for themselves !!!!
Play this on repeat in every church across America...
Play this at planet fitness 😅
Love you my Sister. Keep up the fight and speaking the truth.
Going to the gym is not hard, eating good is a freaking Vertical mountain to climb.
People need three things to get anywhere in life:
Willpower
Focus
Determination
If any of those things are missing, they will spin their wheels into oblivion.
Pity is a win for a victim.
Do dopamine research. Addictions are basically a self addiction to your own dopamine. Learn to control your dopamine and then you will be able to control your habits.
Blame the evil and wickedness people do and DO NOT tolerate evil 👿. A strong person does not tolerate EVIL. Hindering people’s progress by sabotaging, lying and abusing is what religious people are doing. Expose their covert and overt hypocrisy. It is not weaknesses; it’s POWER. Living in denial and twisting reality is the victimhood mentality and refusing to take responsibility of their EVIL 👿 and wicked ways.
It makes me sad that people don't want, or acknowledge, the goal of personal goal improvement... It seems like "I finished school, why do I have to keep learning/changing?"
...Now you have the most opportunity to learn/change/grow. Embrace it if you are actually smart.
It's easier to tear things down that it is to achieve them... Being the victim is a lazy person's excuse for having nothing. No family no money no home..😊😊
Fred Sanford said it best. The best way to get on your feet, is to get off your ass. With that being said, people do interfere constantly with others lives. They aren’t blameless.
Remember the good ole days when the price of gasoline was 50 cents a gallon, now that I am 70 years old I have seen it climb to over $5 a gallon, don't complain about it though, go out and get you another job or two so you can still afford to drive!
The oil billionaires bought up all the competition, if an oil exec decides he needs a bigger yacht or another vacation home he and his oil buddies will raise the price of oil and pass it on to the consumer at your expense!
This woman is telling you don't complain though, love to have a conversation with woman about life anytime, lmao!
Dr. Laura said this on her show years ago: "...for some people it's easier to deal with drama than to study for finals."
I was abused by everyone in my life when little. Suffed depression and hell all my life
Their goal isn't to win. Their goal is make it so you can't take pleasure in your win. They shame effort.
Words of wisdom! 🙏
It's always easy to blame somebody and then run that person down
Grass-fed beef? Berries?
That stuff is expensive.
I can't even afford the cheapest beef and berries are the most expensive thing in the produce section.
There are people that suffer with depression, in fact, many that go untreated because of our crappy health system in this country. Don't judge everyone !
Yes! Love you, girl! So glad I found your channel ☺️
Very well said, I know someone exactly like this.
I know more than 1 🎉😂
People are "allergic" to being mature adults.
You just described me. Word for word.
A lot of these weak people want to win-they just don't wanna put in the hard work and hustle for it-many of them think it will magically just come to them while they laze around.
I don't have time to be lazy. I'm doing a chore of some sort usually right till I fall into bed. I probably do more before I leave home to go to work than many people do in an entire day. Then I work a full day and return to start everything at home again.
the only hard part about going from one job to another is getting hired again. you should be switching jobs 3x a year
I never could understand that whole mentality of being stuck on anything.. I guess I'm just one of those people that finds it much better to keep pushing forward when there's a problem, I don't like wasting time stopping at a problem I'd rather move forward and figure out how to fix the problem and keep going.. it doesn't make sense to me to just stay stuck at a problem instead of moving forwards...❤❤❤
Do you know what is harder, shaking off all the losers that want to attach themselves to your hard work and sacrifice.
I hear you specially the part about going to gym and workout sucks!
Appart from the inclusion of grass-fed beef this is the perfect message
lmao lady really had to sneak that "grass fed beef" in there
Yes, It's her Obama Arugula moment.
And we blame it on depression, but the truth is we're depressed because of this life style
It takes 3 weeks to see results from substantial exercise.
The truth hurts, but blessed is the person who has a friend who will shoot straight and tell them to look in the mirror for the source of the problem as well as the source of the solution.
Not all people try to play the victim and blame others Would you say that with someone with ptsd?
As an overweight binge eater, I endorse this message.
Nothing good comes easy, nothing easy comes good….
Almost everything worth doing is difficult.
Your words feel like a slap right in my face 😮😂 Greetings from Germany
It is hard when you have a mental health issue, just a minimal one can ruin your life. So be a little bit more genuine and realistic with what you say, girl!!
OK. How does one mute so much noise, so Doers can coordinate and move through the sludge toward greater success?
without abandoning the area?
This is a good message for hard workers
Easy to say when you earn 200, 000 and are worth 1.5 m. Easy to make judgements on other people, too.
My problem with the personal responsibility argument shaming tactic, is I have never done anything in my life because of responsibility, it’s actually just a shaming tactic. yeah tell ‘em I’ll fail at xyz if I don’t do abc, but shut up about responsibility as its not focused on what I want, typically this discussion is focused on what the person shaming you wants.
To be fair there are some people she’s terming as “weak” people who don’t blame other people. It’s all how you were raised, unless maybe the rare instance of people having some kind of personality disorder with biological factors.
I know people who are overweight, alcoholics, lazy etc who know it and don’t try to make people stop using the word alcoholic, or try to get doctors to stop weighing patients, or blame others for them not having a lot of money, etc.
Some decent people who have a good attitude just fail at self control or will power or whatever.
Everyone is different and has different situations and histories, and I NEVER judge a person on what they’re failing at.
I just judge their attitude about it.
This phenomenon of people trying to make the rest of the world to adjust to their shortcomings again is mostly a symptom of a certain kind of bad parenting that became popular in recent times.
They have unresolved conflicts from childhood that they need to get help with. Most people’s political passions are actually symbols of their existential angst, shame and anger from childhood. Symbols are the language of the subconscious mind.
No, it’s not hard to take care of yourself. & to say it is shows how far and in such a short period of time we have fallen. Now we just need to look at what societal movements in the last 50 years got western civilization to this point. & that is not hard to figure out.
Well, Successful people are always having mental breakdowns daily. Where’s the middle ground?
So true 🥲
👌👌👌 True...
Ok fair call what about those people that are in a wheelchair ♿ or are bed ridden due to medical conditions. Are they weak people? What about people with brain injuries? Are they weak people?
oh I’m sure she’d find a way to blame them for their circumstances.
The essence of happiness is the hard way that leads to it.
misery loves company
Spot on
I went to the gym today. For the first time. 😊
As a doctor, I can assure you that grass fed beef isn't that healthy. Eat fish, seafood, and chicken.
Unfortunately unhappiness can stem from the everyday living source of extractions.
Yep!
Hustle culture is a hypernovel evolutionary challenge. It's a cultural paradigm that is not inherent to human biological nature as a generalized trend. Not fitting to it is not a matter of weakness.
Simple answer:
Full-contact martial arts.
Well said
She has the winning Mindset
Indeed
The thumbnail had me thinking she was going to say the infamous "nasty."
No. It’s not hard. It’s just easier if you can find someone to do things for you, which is promoted by social media.
This is little confusing. Blame on women is prevalent here.
Big facts
Agreed.
Honestly if I had a bunch of money then we'd be fine.
I'm worthless and weak
True
You are loved
Stop being weak or I destroy everything !!!!! 😡😡😡😡😡I'm very angry by weakness !!!!! 😡😡😡
You never miss
I spent the first half of my life developing bad habits and tha last half creating good habits
The blame game is alive and well in Great Britain,
Usually I would agree with this but there’s one problem with this. Personal responsibility is used as a dog whistle these days by politicians, people online and every other foundation you can think of. You’re actually doing more harm than good when you push a message of personal responsibility because it doesn’t apply to everyone equally even when we want to think it does and it’s going to cause stress for the people who want to have a peace of mind. For that reason I think we need to be more focused on what we value rather than what we’re responsible for. And usually responsible is more of an illusion than anything else. That’s just my 2 cents though.
You just described people that keep dogs.
Thanks for explaining how most people feel that capitalism failed us lol
You're extraordinary...
True😮
From a weak character victimhood is born
Great idea. I'm going to have some ice cream 😅