In the midst of my opiate addiction I was terrified to tell my wife how bad it was so I tried to speak to her through music. This was one of the songs that I would play to her when I was feeling weak hoping she would catch on. Eventually did and after 18 years of being together the marriage is over. We are still very close friends though. Also, after 30 years of being high or drunk every single day I now have 3 years clean and sober and I’m never looking back.
congrats brother .. I'm sorry she ended things. and bailed on an 18year marriage.. some people just arnt ride or die.. probablyfor the best if thats how she reacted. in just coming up on 4 years myself. many healthy happy years ahead for us both. thats what i tell myself even tho it hasn't happened yet
@@bobbyd224 I got 4 1/2 years clean now. I’m in a wonderful relationship with an amazing girl. Been together over a year and we just bought a house. Never thought I’d ever be this happy again.
It’s took me almost 2 years to listen to this song again because it was one of Sarah’s favorites. She had the first line tattooed on her. You dedicated this song to her the night I told you about her passing. You guys will never really know the impact your music has on people. We loved your music soo much!! Sarah and I made a lifetime of memories chasing our favorite band!! Thank you for everything!! I hope to find the courage to see you again without her. I support and cheer you on the sidelines only because it’s not the same without her. You really are awesome people and 😮musicians!! There is nothing like seeing you guys live!! That’s what we loved. The talent you all have. It was mesmerizing 😊watching you each play. Just thank you.
I don't care what anyone says or thinks about Hinder....they are awesome & I totally love this dudes voice...so passionate...on every song!!!! So what if it MAY be be based on what ANY of the group did is true??? They give us damn good songs either way........I love listening to the singer's voice...I love the band's music...I love near all the lyrics of everyone of their songs.....you got to be through SOMETHING to be that good, MOST of the great bands or just singers have....in every genre
This band deserves so much credit for keeping the spirt of party rock, "motley cruish attitude" and good tunes alive when not many others are these days !!!
I love this song. puts things in perspective when you realize your getting older and things just dont work any more like they use too, thank you Hinder
This song was written by Nashville's OWN Warren Bros. Who also wrote Tim Mcgraws "Are you Reading This" and a ton of other songs for other country music stars, Like Faith Hill and Martina Mcbride. They also wrote every other song on this album for the exception of one which was "Red Tail Lights" This is by far HINDERS best Album, I love these guys.
I saw Hinder at El Paso Street Fest over the July fourth and they are a long way from country. They rocked the city people were talking weeks afterward around here.
I'M A DIE HARD HARD ROCK AND METAL FAN. THIS BAND IS CARRYING THE FLAG HELD BY MOTLEY CRUE, GN'R, DEF LEPPARD AND ALL THE PARTY HARDY WHILE PLAYIN KICK ASS ANTHEMS !!! ROCK ON HINDER !!!
"Every now and then she calls to see if I'm alive or plan to settle down" The fact that you allowed yourself to get that bad that your ex calls to see if you are still alive is just depressing 😢
hannah, one of the many things i have learned in life is that the past can't be changed or fixed, but learned from. the past is not to be forgotten because if you don't remember the past you will make the same mistakes in the future. you CAN better yourself if you try, i think you really can
I've seen Hinder 4 times and I haven't met them yet! They definitely are GREAT live. I go into a whole different world I think when I'm at one of their concerts. I feel sorry for whoever comes with me.... I can't wait until the next one. BRING IT ON FELLAS!
i couldnt imagine giving up someone you say you have loved just to realise that they are tired of walking away, tired of being second best, tired of being used and tossed away. Try and live like this hoping one day the man, that you know and love will come back.........I finally had to chose between my sanity and the man of my dreams
Teena Sawan I think my wife will have to make this choice eventually too...but I love the touring life, the music, etc...I love her as well...I'm screwed...
Girl I'm from Oklahoma one of my fav bands cause they are okie born I've been to several states through many addictions the only woman I'd marry married another I don't regret follow the path the drugs the booze woman wine and songs and the one I almost married still checks on me what what am I gonna do when it just don't work no more reflect be thankful I had love got to live a lifestyle most don't get to or recover from I'm clean from a drugs thank goodness but I still drink I got to be free of I go alone it's ok I loved loved and roamed. So what am I gonna do when none it works no me I'm gonna smile I made it lived free and I got to love and not regret a damn thing I did things most can't or will I was free lived on own terms and made impact on lives that still check on me if someone loved me they loved a part of my overall character can't change the wild and I love them equally back so in end I'll just smile I lived a free life and was loved and accepted for what I was
Love this song it has a lot of life relations and helps me make it through my day. so thank you Hinder you have saved me from Deep depression and Dark Times.
Three Days Grace and Linkin Park are also good bands if you like Hinder and are depressed. Breaking Benjamin helped me too. Good luck fighting your battle with depression 💚 I was depressed for so long that I forgot what happy was like. I battled with depression for about 8 years. I finally won my battle. It gets better. It gets SO much better, you justneed to keep fightinng long enough to get to the better.
My favorite Hinder song as I can so relate, Alcohol has been one of my monsters for sure. This song speaks to me and I feel it. 63 year old Nannie will always Rock Out with Hinder♥️❤️♥️
This song justs makes me feel like life will never be what it once before. So live it moment to it's fullest. It makes me think of my fiancée that was murdered at 37. It just makes me wonder what might have been.
I LOVE Hinder!!! Get Stoned, Lips of an Angel, Without You and Thing for You are just few of my favorites of all time! Saw them in Vegas(The Bad Boys of Rock) tour! They were AWESOME!!!
To live with regret is to not live at all. You gotta live life like everyday is your last because who knows it just might be. dont sit in your home and get stuck on the past because time might not wait for u too catch up. follow your heart and you'll find happiness everytime.
Hinder are one of those bands that actually get better as they get less popular, if that makes sense.. Each one of their albums has got better as they sell less and less.
I have seen them live and they are amazing!!!! I absolutely love Hinder and their music...they are all about their fans and their music definately speaks about a lot of real life situations!!
met them back in april, such awesome people the concert was amazing to say the least & if i find them back around its a fact ill be going to see them again!!!
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In the midst of my opiate addiction I was terrified to tell my wife how bad it was so I tried to speak to her through music. This was one of the songs that I would play to her when I was feeling weak hoping she would catch on. Eventually did and after 18 years of being together the marriage is over. We are still very close friends though. Also, after 30 years of being high or drunk every single day I now have 3 years clean and sober and I’m never looking back.
congrats brother .. I'm sorry she ended things. and bailed on an 18year marriage.. some people just arnt ride or die.. probablyfor the best if thats how she reacted. in just coming up on 4 years myself. many healthy happy years ahead for us both. thats what i tell myself even tho it hasn't happened yet
My husband was an addict, after 26 years of marriage I had to walk 😢 Never looking back, he's still an addict 😪
U sound like me 5 yrs later I still struggle sometimes but iam better than i was the key is u told her good luck
@@lindaconner64 sometimes you gotta walk away. I’m not now, nor will I ever be mad at her for it.
@@bobbyd224 I got 4 1/2 years clean now. I’m in a wonderful relationship with an amazing girl. Been together over a year and we just bought a house. Never thought I’d ever be this happy again.
2024 anyone?
Good 🎵 🎶 song.
Almost 2 years sober now 😊 still a good song 🎵
Hell yeah
Good music has no expiration date!💯👍🏼
👋👋
Saw these cats in concert with Papa Roach, Saving Abel, and Nickelback. Was the best damn concert I've ever seen.
Wow!!!...What a lineup!!! When & where were they together? I bet that was one kick ass concert!!!
Yes 🤘👅
@@wendyalexander6705 Around 2009-10 if I remember correctly. Pretty sure it was Nickelback's Dark Horse tour.
I saw the same concert!! Hinder was AWESOME
I seen the same concert. It was amazing. I love hinder
It’s took me almost 2 years to listen to this song again because it was one of Sarah’s favorites. She had the first line tattooed on her. You dedicated this song to her the night I told you about her passing. You guys will never really know the impact your music has on people. We loved your music soo much!! Sarah and I made a lifetime of memories chasing our favorite band!! Thank you for everything!! I hope to find the courage to see you again without her. I support and cheer you on the sidelines only because it’s not the same without her. You really are awesome people and 😮musicians!! There is nothing like seeing you guys live!! That’s what we loved. The talent you all have. It was mesmerizing 😊watching you each play. Just thank you.
I feel you 😢😢😢😢😢😢
This beautiful song right here helped me accept that im an alcoholic. One day at a time
You and me both brother ..
Good luck and best wishes to you! Stay strong!
That was random.
I feel you brother.
There’s nothing wrong with drinking just don’t let it take over
I don't care what anyone says or thinks about Hinder....they are awesome & I totally love this dudes voice...so passionate...on every song!!!! So what if it MAY be be based on what ANY of the group did is true??? They give us damn good songs either way........I love listening to the singer's voice...I love the band's music...I love near all the lyrics of everyone of their songs.....you got to be through SOMETHING to be that good, MOST of the great bands or just singers have....in every genre
I feel the same , an I miss them together 😢😢😢
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Totally agree, well said❤❤❤
This band deserves so much credit for keeping the spirt of party rock, "motley cruish attitude" and good tunes alive when not many others are these days !!!
Yes indeed buddy ... hinder is good rock n roll ❤❤❤❤❤
I still love this band.. the OG Hinder.. his voice was special & unique. 🤘🏻
He’s back now doing his own thing. Search Austin Winkler. He had his own channel
Was?
Not to mention how hot he is
I love this song. puts things in perspective when you realize your getting older and things just dont work any more like they use too, thank you Hinder
hey I know this is an 8 year old comment but dude im younger and I realize im really taking for granted all the shit I have.
Hell to the yeah!!! But my mind still isn't on board....Hinder I love ur stuff!! Keep it COMING!!💜
So whatcha gonna do?
You are spot on. I just realized I'm at the end of the party life and man this song is hitting me hard as fuck!!
Couldnt be anymore spot on
One of the most underrated rock acts!!!!!!! I hope these guys get frickin' huge, they deserve it!!!!!!!
I love this singer
The original singer made this band...he had a unique voice perfect for this genre also alot of swag...lighting in a bottle for a couple years
What ya gonna do when the song ends? Play again! :D
I Honestly wish this band was still making music
They are....just haven't dropped any quite yet
Its not the same w new singer he sucks
@@tonyzeni9186 old singer lost his voice because he never knew how to sing.....
nothing can beat the original sometimes
@@deputyduffy 490 millions plays on youtube says otherwise
Still beautiful today in July 2021..This band is timeless(with this singer)..🤘🤘🤘
Unfortunately their new lead singer sucks. And now they're back out on the road with yet another OG member missing. Mark King.
Totally underappreciated song...great writing,production,voice and band....top friggin shelf👍
This brings me back to my early 20s 😆
Oh yes it does
Love this song...one of my favorites by Hinder. The lyrics hit me hard...can definitely relate to it
This is by far my favorite song by Hinder
Hinder and 3 Doors Down are the two bands I would love to see in concert together. MAKE IT HAPPEN
I think I saw a poster from way back when with the two of them & Theory of a Deadman. Bet that was a really cool concert 😔
its hard to find a good band like these guys anymore
This song was written by Nashville's OWN Warren Bros. Who also wrote Tim Mcgraws "Are you Reading This" and a ton of other songs for other country music stars, Like Faith Hill and Martina Mcbride. They also wrote every other song on this album for the exception of one which was "Red Tail Lights" This is by far HINDERS best Album, I love these guys.
2022 and this still remains one of my favorite bands❤️
damn i love this song!!! the passion used to sing these lyrics makes me cry. im not an alcoholic but this song really gets to me.
I saw Hinder at El Paso Street Fest over the July fourth and they are a long way from country. They rocked the city people were talking weeks afterward around here.
I love hinder great rock n roll
this song is in my top 10 best songs ever written, Beatles , Zep , Sabbath ,ELO, Hinder...How does that happen....amazing song
One of the best rock songs in the last few years, IMO.
These guys were headed for big times. Really hate what happened to them. They made great music.
Hinder, Nickelback, Seether, Saving Abel, and Buckcherry need a tour.
That would be Amazing ❤
This aged well. The addiction was eating him alive. Glad he stepped through the curtain and found sunshine
I'M A DIE HARD HARD ROCK AND METAL FAN. THIS BAND IS CARRYING THE FLAG HELD BY MOTLEY CRUE, GN'R, DEF LEPPARD AND ALL THE PARTY HARDY WHILE PLAYIN KICK ASS ANTHEMS !!! ROCK ON HINDER !!!
Amazing how many people relate to this song now. GOD is moving!
GO HINDER! "All American Nightmare" is a great album and deserves more attention, so keep it rocking guys!
Universal message...everyone gets their 5 minutes...then what? Remember who Loves you....
exactly
knk4ever83 Peace
"Every now and then she calls to see if I'm alive or plan to settle down"
The fact that you allowed yourself to get that bad that your ex calls to see if you are still alive is just depressing 😢
hannah, one of the many things i have learned in life is that the past can't be changed or fixed, but learned from. the past is not to be forgotten because if you don't remember the past you will make the same mistakes in the future. you CAN better yourself if you try, i think you really can
Never heard of Hinder until a couple of days ago - this is superb.
How can you dislike this band? They're just a good rock back.
Oh hey I don't know if your currently thinking this way but stay alive your life matters love yourself thanks for all you are and what you will become
I've seen Hinder 4 times and I haven't met them yet! They definitely are GREAT live. I go into a whole different world I think when I'm at one of their concerts. I feel sorry for whoever comes with me.... I can't wait until the next one. BRING IT ON FELLAS!
Tell you what Hinder, for what they were, were excellent rockstars.
this song didn't do well on the charts at all i can't imagine why !! excellent track my favourite by Hinder
GOD BLESS PEOPLE, these guys hit home, on what they are saying in their music.
That E-minor in place of the G towards the end is a great twist. I want to hear more from these guys. This tune could cross-over very easily. -drh
i couldnt imagine giving up someone you say you have loved just to realise that they are tired of walking away, tired of being second best, tired of being used and tossed away.
Try and live like this hoping one day the man, that you know and love will come back.........I finally had to chose between my sanity and the man of my dreams
Teena Sawan I think my wife will have to make this choice eventually too...but I love the touring life, the music, etc...I love her as well...I'm screwed...
Girl I'm from Oklahoma one of my fav bands cause they are okie born I've been to several states through many addictions the only woman I'd marry married another I don't regret follow the path the drugs the booze woman wine and songs and the one I almost married still checks on me what what am I gonna do when it just don't work no more reflect be thankful I had love got to live a lifestyle most don't get to or recover from I'm clean from a drugs thank goodness but I still drink I got to be free of I go alone it's ok I loved loved and roamed. So what am I gonna do when none it works no me I'm gonna smile I made it lived free and I got to love and not regret a damn thing I did things most can't or will I was free lived on own terms and made impact on lives that still check on me if someone loved me they loved a part of my overall character can't change the wild and I love them equally back so in end I'll just smile I lived a free life and was loved and accepted for what I was
Love this song it has a lot of life relations and helps me make it through my day. so thank you Hinder you have saved me from Deep depression and Dark Times.
Three Days Grace and Linkin Park are also good bands if you like Hinder and are depressed. Breaking Benjamin helped me too. Good luck fighting your battle with depression 💚 I was depressed for so long that I forgot what happy was like. I battled with depression for about 8 years. I finally won my battle. It gets better. It gets SO much better, you justneed to keep fightinng long enough to get to the better.
My favorite Hinder song as I can so relate, Alcohol has been one of my monsters for sure. This song speaks to me and I feel it. 63 year old Nannie will always Rock Out with Hinder♥️❤️♥️
This song justs makes me feel like life will never be what it once before. So live it moment to it's fullest. It makes me think of my fiancée that was murdered at 37. It just makes me wonder what might have been.
Very great song hits deep much love ❤ rock on 🤘
One of my favorite bands😊
I saw them in concert. There are no words that could ever sum up how awesome they were!!!!!!!!! But hey, Whatcha gonna do??!!!!!!!
another kick ass thing about this band is THEY EVEN SOUND AWESOME LIVE!!!
god knows thats rare
I've seen Hinder perform live in 08 and MAN WERE THEY GOOD! Can't wait to see them soon!
Almost 2019 still feels as fresh as it was in 2011!
35 people's whiskey don't work no more.
Oh and this song is freaking amazing.
This song 12 years latter still holds up to any of this new music
Ahhh, the older I have become the more this song hits home.
Miss Austin as lead singer. Cant wait til his solo stuff is released! Still love Hinder though! Great band!
I agree no doubt
what do you mean by you miss Austin as the lead singer?
+funky27nick He quit 2 years ago, and there's already been a second replacement :www.blabbermouth.net/news/hinder-announces-another-new-singer/
Same
Austin is now a solo singer under his full name if you want to follow him, he left the band due to Alcohol abuse wanting to get clean and sobet
I love this song. TheCoolTV got me addicted. 65+ people don't know music when they hear it.
Microphone flip was the most badass thing... wow.
thats me in the worst part in my life when i lost the best person ever
Heard this song for the 1st time the other day(2 years late, but making up for lost time) and i'm loving it :)
Cant believe this album is 7 years old!!!😲😲😲😲😲
Poetry for a Hinder video! Bravo.
I LOVE Hinder!!! Get Stoned, Lips of an Angel, Without You and Thing for You are just few of my favorites of all time! Saw them in Vegas(The Bad Boys of Rock) tour! They were AWESOME!!!
Love this song. Still rocking it out 2019
I always stop whatever I'm doing just to listen to this song!! this song is insane!
Hinder is Awesome, now this is what you call real music!!!
I saw them preform this at summerfest in Milwaukee Wi front row. I cried seeing them live
Still here in 2019🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Still here in 2020
I friggin love this song!!!!
It definitely reaches down to the soul. Hope you are having a good day/night.
Man Hinder This Guy Trulyy Feels His Music
I love everything about this song your voice is so beautiful ❤🎸💯
To live with regret is to not live at all. You gotta live life like everyday is your last because who knows it just might be. dont sit in your home and get stuck on the past because time might not wait for u too catch up. follow your heart and you'll find happiness everytime.
i´m very happy to see that still exist a band that play Kick ASS Rock stuff :))
His voice is amazing
Ya 2020 still here👉👈✋🏻🤚🏻
these guys write the sickist ballads eva!
I'm living life with no regrets there on there way but ain't here yet. Spoon true!! Fave line of the whole song
Hinder are one of those bands that actually get better as they get less popular, if that makes sense.. Each one of their albums has got better as they sell less and less.
2020 and still listening.
jeepsterct hinder will alway be great. No matter what year
I LOVE Hinder. I'm obsessed with All American Nightmare. Their new cd is amazing.
Hey guys, Thanx for the help I quit drinking about the time this came out and I think this helped!!
I have seen them live and they are amazing!!!! I absolutely love Hinder and their music...they are all about their fans and their music definately speaks about a lot of real life situations!!
Oh...I'm gonna cry! I love this song soooooooooooooooo much!
Listen to it again, and if you cry I'll cry with ya, deal?
It's easily my favorite Hinder song.
We can joke all day long...but the truth is I feel a connection. I need to kick this alcohol habit...
Hang n there!
Thank you. I’m sure as hell trying…
I felt this way after seeing a former Heavy drinker pass away @ the age 67 it hit me hard I was in tears because, he was my Dad.
met them back in april, such awesome people the concert was amazing to say the least & if i find them back around its a fact ill be going to see them again!!!
I can't believe I just stumbled upon this song!!!
So true to my life!!
Love this song!!
🤘🇺🇸🇺🇸🤘
I just found this too! It’s so relative to my life right now!
Still luvin on 2020
It was about 3 years ago in Hartford, CT. I left that concert very drunk and barely able to speak. Good times.
2019 and still bad @$$
2017, still listening to this
2018 here, still listening...hello from the future!
2018 still her
2018 still listening to it haha
today is the first day when i am listening to them, holy cow this is what i have been looking for such a long time! 8)
Reminds me of a wonderful friend and man. He has lived the rock n roll road. God bless my pretty man.
2019 still lovin’ me some hinder
nick buck 2020, buck, 2020
The one that got away from me, every now and then he calls to see if I'm alive or planning to settle down.....
This song is golden💪💪
Great song, I can't quit hitting the replay button. LOVE Hinder!!!
Two thumbs up great song it is what it is!!!!